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The Message Behind the Music-April 6

Posted on April 6, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Kenny Chesney – Save It for a Rainy Day (Official Video)

Inspiration Behind Save It for a Rainy Day:

The vision for Save It for a Rainy Day appeared while Matthew Ramsey was in the shower. Matthew took this idea, shared it with Andrew Dorff and Brad Tursi who completed this song in less than an hour. Kenny Chesney was so impressed by Save It for a Rainy Day that this served as a wake-up song for Kenny and his fans on his album the Big Revival.

Biblical Application:

“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. 8 For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened, Matthew 7:7-8.

Exegesis of Save it for a Rainy Day:

It’s no secret that lately there ain’t no escape
And that I’ve been waking up alone
Just me and the TV, and a sinking feeling
That you ain’t ever coming home

Kenny is going through a tough time in his life. Either his girlfriend or wife has left him.

But today, the tears ain’t gonna hit the floor
‘Cause the boat’s in the bay
And it’s calling my name
So I’m heading on out the door

Rather than stay home and sulk, being depressed, Kenny has a desire to go fishing.

‘Cause the sun’s too bright, the sky’s too blue
Beer’s too cold to be thinking about you
Gonna take this heartbreak and tuck it away
Save it for a rainy day

While the pain in Kenny’s heart is still there, he’s going to take advantage of this beautiful day, put this on hold for a rainy day.

When I turned the ignition, I knew I’d be missing
The feel of the wind on my face
I was stuck in a habit, wondering what happened
Two days of taking all the blame

While driving his boat out to his favorite spot, he starts to reflect about what went wrong.

Got a drink, or two
That’s as foolproof as what it will be
It’s a beautiful world with a beautiful girl
Kind of making eyes at me

After a few drinks, an attractive woman starts to look over at Kenny.

‘Cause the sun’s too bright, the sky’s too blue
Beer’s too cold to be thinking about you
Gonna take this heartbreak and tuck it away
Save it for a rainy day

Fishing is an excuse to stop thinking about what went wrong in the past.

Yeah, the music’s too good, my friends are all out
And they’re all too high to be bringing them down
If they ask about you, I’ve got nothing to say
I’ll save it for a rainy day

Kenny appears to be out with friends, possibly at a bar when others ask about his woman. Kenny plays it cool, changing the topic of conversation.

They’ll be plenty of time for ones and why’s
And how’d I let you get away
But the lying in bed all stuck in my head
Is just gonna have to wait

Sometimes you’ll have to wait for the real reasons a relationship didn’t work out. You can guess all you want, but it’s better to put these thoughts away for a rainy day.

‘Cause the sun’s too bright, the sky’s too blue
Beer’s too cold to be thinking about you
Gonna take this heartbreak and tuck it away
Save it for a rainy day

Healing takes time, but human beings need some sort of recreation to get their minds off the worries of this world.

Yeah, the music’s too good, my friends are all out
And they’re all too high to be bringing them down
If they ask about you, I’ve got nothing to say
I’ll save it for a rainy day

Kenny is not ready to talk about this yet.

Gonna take this heartbreak and tuck it away
Save it for a rainy day
Save it for a rainy day

Enjoy the weather while its nice. You can save contemplation for a rainy day.

Final Thoughts:

People grieve in different ways. Some enjoy being alone initially, others find comfort taking a walk with a friend and a few may seek distractions to get their mind off of their heart break. When I was in high school, I would go on long runs to clear my mind. In college, I took long walks with a friend or two. Kenny Chesney went fishing or that’s how this song was written. The next time you find yourself in a difficult situation, find something productive to do so that you’re not overwhelmed by a failed relationship.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-March 25

Posted on March 25, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Sade – Smooth Operator – Official – 1984

Inspiration Behind Smooth Operator:

The goal for the musical construction of Smooth Operator contained 2 essential elements. First, create the ideal mix of jazz, soul and R & B. Second, to present a melody where a concise story could be told. Sade Adu and Raymond St. John co-wrote Smooth Operator while members of the band Pride. This song about a con man, able to persuade anyone in his spheres of influence put Sade on the map as an up-and-coming female artist.

Biblical Application:

Enemies disguise themselves with their lips, but in their hearts, they harbor deceit.
25 Though their speech is charming, do not believe them, for seven abominations fill their hearts.
26 Their malice may be concealed by deception, but their wickedness will be exposed in the assembly.
27 Whoever digs a pit will fall into it; if someone rolls a stone, it will roll back on them. 28 A lying tongue hates those it hurts, and a flattering mouth works ruin, Proverbs 26:24-28.

Exegesis of Smooth Operator:

He’s laughing with another girl
And playing with another heart
Placing high stakes making hearts ache
He’s loved in seven languages
Diamond nights and ruby lights high in the sky
Heaven help him when he falls

From afar, charm is one of those qualities that is easy to distinguish. Yet when you are the one being swayed by a smooth operator, you want to believe that this is genuine.

Diamond life, lover boy
We move in space with minimum waste and maximum joy
City lights and business nights
When you require streetcar desire for higher heights

This kind of smooth operator makes for a great character in a series like Castle or the Pierce Brosnan character in the Thomas Crown Affair. Not matter how much women are warned about their reputation, they fall in love anyone.

No place for beginners or sensitive hearts
When sentiment is left to chance
No place to be ending but somewhere to start

You have to be mature and disciplined to resist smooth operators.

No need to ask
He’s a smooth operator
Smooth operator
Smooth operator
Smooth operator

Flattery is so difficult to resist.

Coast to coast, LA to Chicago, western male
Across the north and south, to Key Largo, love for sale

Smooth operators don’t stay in the same place long or else they will be exposed, constantly moving from one city to the next.

Face to face, each classic case
We shadow box and double cross
Yet need the chase
A license to love, insurance to hold
Melts all your memories and change into gold
His eyes are like angels but his heart is cold

Smooth operators are like wolves in sheep clothing.

No need to ask
He’s a smooth operator
Smooth operator
Smooth operator
Smooth operator

Just when common sense is telling you to leave, your emotions lead you to fall for their promises.

Coast to coast, LA to Chicago, western male
Across the north and south, to Key Largo, love for sale
Smooth operator
Smooth operator
Smooth operator
Smooth operator
Smooth operator
Smooth operator

These smooth operators still exist today, often hiding behind the backdrop of large cities.

Smooth operator
Smooth operator
Smooth operator
Smooth operator
Smooth operator

Like any temptation, leave before it’s too late.

Final Thoughts:

Since I could barely speak as a former stutterer, I was never a smooth operator. Yet when fame, fortune or success comes your way, make sure that you stay grounded in humility. Or else you’ll get carried away with flattery, and perhaps start following the path of a smooth operator.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-March 20

Posted on March 20, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Deana Carter – Strawberry Wine (Official Music Video)

Inspiration Behind Strawberry Wine:

The lyrics of Strawberry Wine reflect upon Matraca Berg’s childhood experience growing up on a farm in Wisconsin. Matraca and her aunts would sneak away each summer to drink strawberry wine. Deanna Carter then takes these memories using a metaphor to compare Strawberry Wine to their first relationship, falling in love. The lyrics of Strawberry Wine highlight a youthful innocence, the pursuit of love and nostalgia.

Biblical Application:

Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit, 19 speaking to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit. Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord, 20 always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, Ephesians 5:18-20.

Exegesis of Strawberry Wine:

He was workin’ through college
On my grandpa’s farm
I was thirstin’ for knowledge
And he had a car

Summertime was my favorite time of the year growing up. While out of school for three months, there is a sense of freedom which Deanna points to in this opening stanza.

Yeah, I was caught somewhere
Between a woman and a child
One restless summer
We found love growin’ wild
On the banks of the river
On a well beaten path
It’s funny how those memories they last

There is a mix between exploring the farm as the crops flourish and memories of her first love.

Like strawberry wine and seventeen
The hot July moon saw everything
My first taste of love
Whoa, bittersweet
Green on the vine
Like strawberry wine

This chorus provides a metaphor between tasting alcohol and love for the first time as a teenager.

And I still remember
When thirty was old
My biggest fear was September
When he had to go

The end of the summer was always tough to come to grasp with as the day after Labor Day is when students were forced to go back to school every fall.

A few cards and letters
And one long distance call
We drifted away
Like the leaves in the fall
But year after year
I come back to this place
Just to remember the taste

Despite whatever promises were made before the summer ended, this couple slowly drifted apart. Visiting this farm brought back a flood of memories.

Of strawberry wine and seventeen
The hot July moon saw everything
My first taste of love
Whoa, bittersweet
Green on the vine
Like strawberry wine

Childhood is a time of exploration. Sometimes when you are left alone, temptation leads to poor decisions.

The fields have grown over now
Years since they’ve seen a plow
There’s nothin’ time hasn’t touched
Is it really him
Or the loss of my innocence?
I’ve been missin’ so much
Yeah

The lack of farming suggests that the grandparents have passed away. With this property left in the family, visiting isn’t the same, but the memories still come back.

Strawberry wine and seventeen
The hot July moon saw everything
My first taste of love
Whoa, bittersweet
And green on the vine

Your first taste of alcohol and first kiss stick with you.

Like strawberry wine and seventeen
The hot July moon saw everything
My first taste of love
Oh, bittersweet
Green on the vine
Like strawberry wine

The repetition of the chorus suggests this song went a little longer than necessary,

Strawberry wine
(Oh, oh)
Strawberry wine

Flavored alcohol tends to be one of the first drinks teenagers try.

Final Thoughts:

As someone with a photographic memory, places I visit, and songs usually flood my mind with memories. I grew up in Delaware with some special friends like Jeanette and Stephen, spending many summer nights together. While we would push the envelope from time to time, doing things we knew that were wrong, we were kids learning from trial and error. This is part of growing up or as Michael W. Smith once sang about, Living and Learning.

by Jay Mankus

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Engaging Our Culture: January 9-Desire and Determination

Posted on January 9, 2025 by expressyourself4him

Video of the Day: Scene from the 2006 film “Invincible”

Bible Verse of the Day:

Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. 10 Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers, Galatians 6:9-10.

Biblical Connection:

As someone who grew up 30 minutes from Veterans Stadium, the Vince Papale story holds a special place in my heart. Hall of Fame sportswriter Ray Didinger coined Vince Papale’s unlikely rise from bartender to Philadelphia Eagle as Invincible. Ray’s nickname for Vince became the title of this 2006 film starring Mark Wahlberg who plays Papale. Today’s clip features a special team’s practice during training train back when players practiced 3 times each day. To gain an advantage, Papale changes to lighter pads in between practices to help compensate for his lack of world class speed. Desire and determination caught Eagles Head Coach Dick Vermeil’s eye, played by Greg Kinnear.

Churches across the country participate in a fast every January, often lasting up to 21 days, with some up to 40 days. By the middle of week two, many may be tempted to quit like those who have already broken their New Years Resolutions. However, if you really want to change and be transformed by God in 2025, hang in there so that you will reap a harvest beyond your wildest dreams. You may not become a professional athlete like Vince Papale or be successful in altering your diet and exercise routines, but God is not done with you. God’s Spirit is willing to give you desire and determination, but human bodies are weak, Matthew 26:41. Keep going by drawing near to God, like the words of the Song In Christ Alone.

Closing Song:

An interactive blog to engage our culture in 2025 by Jay Mankus.

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Shaken by the Wind

Posted on July 18, 2022 by expressyourself4him

As someone who has traveled throughout the continental United States, every place has unique features. Over the past 50 years, I’ve been shaken by down drafts, earthquakes, tornadoes and waterspouts. When the earth stopped shaking and the winds died down, I had time to reflect upon what I experienced. Natural disasters are God’s way of showing me life is more important than physical possessions.

And the stars of the sky dropped to the earth like a fig tree shedding its unripe fruit out of season when shaken by a strong wind, Revelation 6:13.

One of John’s visions that comprises the Book of Revelation is something you’d see in a Science Fiction catastrophe film. Yet on this particular day rather than observing shooting stars in the sky, stars are plunging to the earth. Like a large meteorite striking the ground, this event will forever alter human life on earth. According to John, people will seek shelter in caves high in the mountains.

And as He saw [k]one single leafy fig tree [l]above the roadside, He went to it but He found nothing but leaves on it [[m]seeing that in the fig tree the fruit appears at the same time as the leaves]. And He said to it, Never again shall fruit grow on you! And the fig tree withered up at once. 20 When the disciples saw it, they marveled greatly and asked, How is it that the fig tree has withered away all at once? – Matthew 21:19-20

Fig trees are mentioned more than 50 times in the Bible.  Fig tree were extremely important for both nutritional and economic reasons in ancient times. When Jesus came across an unproductive fig tree in the passage above, he curses it and immediately this tree withers. One of Jesus’ disciples uses a similar analogy in the top passage. As seasons change, the wind will either die down or intensify. Therefore, as seasons in life signal a transition, keep in step with the Holy Spirit so you’re not shaken by the wind.

by Jay Mankus

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A Sinner’s Life

Posted on June 29, 2016 by expressyourself4him

Since paradise was lost in the Garden of Eden, no one can escape the temptation to sin.  While some make better choices than others, a sinner’s life is like attending the school of hard knocks.  Living and learning from past mistakes has a learning curve with many struggling to avoid Satan’s snares.

All have turned away, they have together become worthless; there is no one who does good, not even one, Romans 3:12.

If you have the opportunity to travel the country or across the world, you begin to get a sense for what’s out there.  Along the way, you will rub shoulders with various groups of people, witnessing the good, the bad and the ugly.  During his missionary journey’s throughout the Middle East, the apostle Paul makes an interesting observation.  Similar to economic classes, Paul writes about the classification of sinners, separating typical offenders from those addicted.

The sins of some are obvious, reaching the place of judgment ahead of them; the sins of others trail behind them, 1 Timothy 5:24.

If actions speak louder than words, sins communicate the heart and the soul of individuals.  Although some may dabble in sin from time to time, others follow in the footsteps of the prodigal, continuing until they reach rock bottom.  When the sensations of temporary pleasures fade, sinners face an important decision, do I come to my senses or not?  How a sinner’s life ends is in your hands.  Therefore, may you heed the words of 1 John 1:6 so that darkness does not prematurely end your life and the reason why you were created.

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Living Off the Grid, Unplugged for a Week

Posted on April 7, 2016 by expressyourself4him

Prior to the advent of cell phones and internet, conversational skills were an important part of life.  While technological advances often enhance society, these two inventions are killing intimate relationships.  These modern devices are distracting individuals from bonding with other human beings whom they share a lot in common with, but haven’t taken the time to find out.

So teach us to number our days that we may get a heart of wisdom, Psalm 90:12.

During a vacation over Spring Break, I spent a week without wi-fi.  Thus, posting my blogs was a difficult challenge as even some of the restaurants I ate at did not offer free access to the internet.  Despite this challenge, I survived, spending more time with my family and children than normal.  Swimming in the day and playing pool at night provided a healthy climate for communication.

Making the best use of the time, because the days are evil, Ephesians 5:16.

Although you probably won’t find me on a reality show like Survivor, living off the grid and unplugged for a week was a blessing.  Since I’ve always been a doer, with a drive to experience the outdoors, visiting new places this past week has given me a new appreciation for life.  Sure, you do need money to travel, but if you limit your access to the social media, you will discipline yourself to make the effort to go and do things you have always talked about, but never done.  Seize each new day while it lasts!

by Jay Mankus

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When the Truth is Silenced

Posted on July 26, 2015 by expressyourself4him

If you have ever traveled to a foreign country, not every place you visit is safe.  Depending upon freedom of the press that exists, certain key elements, information or issues may be withheld, sugarcoating the truth.  Thus, whether you are a citizen, resident or just passing by, the message communicated in newspapers or portrayed on television may not be true.  As political correctness redefines daily coverage of the news, the truth of specific matters is often silenced.

Don’t let anyone deceive you in any way, for that day will not come until the rebellion occurs and the man of lawlessness is revealed, the man doomed to destruction, 2 Thessalonians 2:3.

The Bible is no longer a moral compass to reference in America.  Nor is the Ten Commandments a measuring stick since its offensive to those who hold other worldviews.  Rather, a New Age is being introduced to public education through Common Core, where there is more than one answer to a question.  Subsequently, truth is now relative, silencing ethical and moral truths of the past.

For the secret power of lawlessness is already at work; but the one who now holds it back will continue to do so till he is taken out of the way, 2 Thessalonians 2:7.

This topic reminds me of a classic Memorex commercial.  Sometimes technology can be used to deceive individuals from reality.  Films like Enemy of the State, The Net and Live Free or Die Hard illustrate how breeches in security can collapse an entire nation.  In addition, laws like Net Neutrality do the opposite of what they claim, actually silencing the truth rather than defending it.  In view of these signs of the end of days, may the Holy Spirit protect you from lies by clinging to God’s truth.

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I Thought They Had It All Together

Posted on November 10, 2014 by expressyourself4him

Whether its in church, your own community or traveling on vacation, you’re bound to come into contact with an exceptional individual.  On the surface, this person possesses character, personality and wisdom.  Adorned by everyone, they seem too good to be true.

While on a week long mission trip in Jackson, Tennessee, I was introduced to one of the largest youth groups in the country.  Based out of Rochester, Michigan, this church took several buses across the country each summer to serve needy communities.  The president of this youth group appeared like he had it all together.  As I began to develop friendships in the area, only one person saw through his phony witness.  One year after losing touch, I  heard through the grapevine that this saint fell from grace, arrested for running an under age gambling ring.

Call it jaded or desensitized, but I am usually not surprised by people who live double lives.  Whenever you put others up on a pedestal, disappointment is a likely outcome.  Therefore, if you think someone has it all together,don’t worship one of God’s creations.  Rather, say a prayer for these individuals, hope for the best and trust in the Lord for a bright future.

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A Jukebox of Memories

Posted on October 22, 2014 by expressyourself4him

Before the days of cell phones and personal computers, a jukebox connected individuals at local restaurants.  Portrayed in sitcoms like Happy Days, placing a coin in the jukebox and selecting a hip song  often inspired young people to join the dance floor.  Thus, music enhanced the life of teens creating jukebox memories.

As technology advanced, diners began to install miniature jukeboxes in each booth, enabling guests to interact while listening to their favorite songs.  Over time, music became associated, linked and tied to special moments in time.  Whether you were traveling somewhere on vacation, going out on a date or enjoying your prom, music etches memories within our minds.

Today, I can be shopping in a local grocery store, driving in my car or walking down Main Street when I hear a song from my past.  Within seconds, my mind takes me back in time, reminiscing about where I was, who I was with and the friends I made along the way.  Through the good and bad, music is like a recipe to cure the blues in life.  Regardless of what you use to access modern music, may these devices provide soothing jukebox memories.

by Jay Mankus

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