There’s No Need for Disinformation

Posted on June 4, 2022 by expressyourself4him

The Department of Homeland Security recently announced news of a new Disinformation Governance Board. When an old Tiktok video of the individual selected to oversee this board surfaced, the credibility of this Disinformation Board was immediately put into question. Meanwhile, a tweet by Jeff Bezos called out President Biden for his own disinformation about a false statement on Covid-19 vaccines.

I have no greater joy than this, to hear that my [spiritual] children are living their lives in the Truth, 3 John 1:4.

According to one of Jesus’ former disciples, the Bible has its own plan for dealing with disinformation. At the beginning of one of his last recorded letters, John’s greatest joy as a Christian is to see people, he spiritually mentored to live their lives in the truth of the Bible. Since the Bible contains supernatural power as a living document, Hebrews 4:12, disinformation is exposed by the light of God’s Word.

So Jesus said to those Jews who had believed in Him, If you abide in My word [hold fast to My teachings and live in accordance with them], you are truly My disciples. 32 And you will know the Truth, and the Truth will set you free, John 8:31-32.

Years earlier, John was present when Jesus told his disciples that spiritual truth will set you free. While disinformation, gossip, and rumors continue today, Christians who shine the light and love of Jesus will convict the hearts of those trying to control your speech. Despite the algorithms designed by social media sites that favor progressive ideas, living your life in the Truth will expose disinformation as its espoused.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-October 2

Posted on October 2, 2026 by expressyourself4him

America – You Can Do Magic

Inspiration Behind You Can Do Magic:

Following Dan Peek’s departure from the band America, this former soft rock giant went nearly a decade without a hit song. You Can Do Magic was conceived using out of the box thinking. After making a couple of chord changes, the lyrics to You Can Do Magic quickly followed. This song’s meaning refers to a woman who brings the supernatural powers of love.

Biblical Application:

Then the Lord said to Moses, “Tell Aaron, ‘Stretch out your hand with your staff over the streams and canals and ponds, and make frogs come up on the land of Egypt.’” 6 So Aaron stretched out his hand over the waters of Egypt, and the frogs came up and covered the land. 7 But the magicians did the same things by their secret arts; they also made frogs come up on the land of Egypt, Exodus 8:5-7.

Exegesis of You Can Do Magic:

I never believed in things that I couldn’t see
I said, “If I can’t feel it, how can it be?”
No, no magic could happen to me
And then I saw you
I couldn’t believe it, you took my heart
“I couldn’t retrieve it,” said to myself
What’s it all about?
Now I know there can be no doubt

A skeptic of the supernatural. Not believing that he could become a part of a special relationship. This new woman in his life caught him off guard, surprised by this newfound love.

You can do magic
You can have anything that you desire
Magic, and you know
You’re the one who can put out the fire
You know darn well
When you cast your spell you will get your way
When you hypnotize with your eyes
A heart of stone can turn to clay

Comparing this newfound love with magic. This man is smitten by love with a woman who is captivating.

And when the rain is beatin’ upon the window pane
And when the night it gets so cold, when I can’t sleep
Again you come to me
I hold you tight, the rain disappears

This woman has changed this man’s life.

Who would believe it?
With a word you dry my tears

This woman is amazing.

You can do magic
You can have anything that you desire
Magic, and you know
You’re the one who can put out the fire
You know darn well
When you cast your spell you will get your way
When you hypnotize with your eyes
A heart of stone can turn to clay

This woman offers everything that you want in a special relationship. Mature and convincing.

And if I wanted to
I could never be free
I never believed it was true
But now it’s so clear to me

He’s never been in love like this before.

You can do magic
You can have anything that you desire
Magic, and you know
You’re the one who can put out the fire
You know darn well
When you cast your spell you will get your way
When you hypnotize with your eyes
A heart of stone can turn to clay

Repeating the chorus one last time, seeing this new relationship like poetry in motion.

You’re the one who can put out the fire
You’re the one who can put out the fire
You’re the one who can put out the fire

This woman has the ability to cease any kind of anger or tension.

Final Thoughts:

Song writer Russ Ballard compares this relationship to magic. While there are always people that you may meet in life who have magical personalities, God is the one who is the giver of life, James 1:17-18. Like newlyweds on their honeymoon, the reality of married life will become real with challenges. Subsequently, Jehovah Jireh, God provides, is the one who I credit for the blessings in my own life. God is the ultimate source of supernatural love.

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The Message Behind the Music-October 1: Halloween Themes

Posted on October 1, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Michael Jackson – Thriller (Official 4K Video)

Monthly Theme:

Outside of Christmas, Halloween has become the most popular celebration in America. Between candy, costumes, and decorations, over 13 billion dollars was spent on Halloween related events in 2025. While many in the Christian community struggle to embrace Halloween traditions, it’s the only day of the year where children come to your front door. This is your one chance annually to leave a lasting impact on your community. You have one of two choices, decline to participate or provide the best candy/food options in your neighborhood. As a former trick-or-treater, I remembered which houses who gave out the best and largest pieces of candy.

Inspiration Behind Thriller:

Michael Jackson’s love of horror films started with An American Werewolf in London in 1981. Subsequently, when Rod Temperton’s presented a shift from a song called “Starlight” to a horror‑themed concept, Thriller was conceived. Actress Peggy Lipton suggested horror legend Vincent Price become part of this project. Rod Temperton wrote Vincent’s monologue on the way to the studio. These are the influences that spawned one of the most iconic and popular music videos of all time.

Biblical Application:

Flee the evil desires of youth and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart. 23 Don’t have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels, 2 Timothy 2:22-23.

Exegesis of Thriller:

It’s close to midnight
And something evil’s lurking in the dark
Under the moonlight
You see a sight that almost stops your heart
You try to scream
But terror takes the sound before you make it
You start to freeze
As horror looks you right between the eyes
You’re paralyzed

Setting the scene and tone to frighten you. The moon and darkness are associated with superstitions. A glimpse of something unexpected grips your heart with fear. Frozen by terror, unsure of how to respond.

‘Cause this is thriller, thriller night
And no one’s gonna save you from the beast about to strike
You know it’s thriller, thriller night
You’re fighting for your life inside a killer, thriller tonight, yeah
Ooh

The human response to fear. Paralyzed by an unknown beast. Running for your life.

You hear the door slam
And realize there’s nowhere left to run
You feel the cold hand
And wonder if you’ll ever see the sun
You close your eyes
And hope that this is just imagination, girl

Sounds associated with a haunted house. Where fear produces a chilling cold over your body. Afraid you may not see tomorrow, hoping this is just a bad dream.

But all the while
You hear a creature creepin’ up behind
You’re out of time

However, this noise isn’t going away, getting louder behind you.

‘Cause this is thriller, thriller night
There ain’t no second chance against the thing with forty eyes, girl
(Thriller) ooh-ooh (thriller night)
You’re fighting for your life inside a killer, thriller tonight

Like being in a no-win situation, hoping to survive.

Night creatures call
And the dead start to walk in their masquerade
There’s no escaping the jaws of the alien this time (they’re open wide)
This is the end of your life, ooh

Images of legendary creatures, aliens and zombies. Your life flahses before your eyes.

They’re out to get you
There’s demons closing in on every side, ooh
They will possess you
Unless you change that number on your dial
Now is the time
For you and I to cuddle close together, yeah
All through the night
I’ll save you from the terror on the screen
I’ll make you see

Demonic entities and influences that you sense all around you. However, the source of this is coming from the television as this couple cling to one another. Michael seeks to be the hero and protector.

That this is thriller, thriller night
‘Cause I can thrill you more than any ghoul would ever dare try
(Thriller) ooh-ooh (thriller night)
So let me hold you tight and share a killer, thriller (ooh), chiller (ooh)
Thriller, here tonight

Michael uses this horror show to his advantage, promising to bring excitement to this new relationship.

‘Cause this is thriller, thriller night
Girl, I can thrill you more than any ghoul would ever dare try
(Thriller) ooh-ooh (thriller night)
So let me hold you tight and share a killer, thriller, ow!

This chorus is repeated, trying to impress his date.

I’m gonna thrill you tonight
Darkness falls across the land
The midnight hour is close at hand
Creatures crawl in search of blood
To terrorize y’all’s neighborhood (I’m gonna thrill you tonight)

Using thrill in a positive way, to entertain and excite like never before.

And whosoever shall be found
Without the soul for getting down
Must stand and face the hounds of hell
And rot inside a corpse’s shell (I’m gonna thrill you tonight)
Thriller, ooh, babe (thriller)
I’m gonna thrill you tonight (thriller night)
Thriller, oh, darling (oh, baby)
I’m gonna thrill you tonight (thriller)

A call to dance or else. Promising his date the night of her life.

Ooh, babe (thriller night)
I’m gonna thrill you tonight (thriller)
Oh, darling (oh, baby)
Thriller night, babe (thriller night, babe)
Ooh
I’m gonna thrill you tonight (thriller)
Thriller night, babe

Michael’s goal for this night and their relationship.

Final Thoughts:

Syncretism is defined as the blending of cultural traditions with spiritual beliefs. To avoid occultic connections with Halloween, Christian denominations have adopted Halloween traditions into annual events such as Trunk or Treat and Harvest Nights. To avoid any long, drawn-out theological debates, I have evolved my own personal beliefs. God doesn’t call Christians to be like Puritans who separated themselves from society to avoid being corrupted. Rather, Jesus called first century followers to be the light of the world, Matthew 5:13-16, in a world filled with darkness. What better way to do this than by giving out the best food to all the visitors to your house on Halloween. This will plant a seed for future opportunities to reach your community for Christ.

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The Message Behind the Music-September 30

Posted on September 30, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Green Day – Wake Me Up When September Ends (Official Audio)

Inspiration Behind Wake Me Up When September Ends:

Billie Joe Armstrong wrote this song as a personal tribute to his late father, who died of esophageal cancer on September 10, 1982. When you feel helpless, unable to do anything to prevent the inevitable, life can be cruel. Armstrong was just 10 at the time of his dad’s death, leaving lasting memories of the pain he endures each September. The title comes from a conversation that Billie Joe had with his mother following the funeral. Armstrong locked himself in his room and cried, telling his mother, “Wake Me Up When September Ends.”

Biblical Application:

“Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. 4 Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted, Matthew 5:3-4.

Exegesis of Wake Me Up When September Ends:

Summer has come and passed
The innocent can never last
Wake me up when September ends

A reference to his father’s final simmer, fighting a losing battle with cancer. When Billie Joe’s father finally died, he just couldn’t accept or believed that this happened to him.

Like my father’s come to pass
Seven years has gone so fast
Wake me up when September ends

Referring to the anniversary of his father’s death.

Here comes the rain again
Falling from the stars
Drenched in my pain again
Becoming who we are

The rain is likely a metaphor for crying his eyes out following his dad’s funeral. A heavy rain drenched Billie Joe, yet the pain of his father’s death didn’t wash away.

As my memory rests
But never forgets what I lost
Wake me up when September ends

September brought a heaviness upon Billie Joe’s heart.

Summer has come and passed
The innocent can never last
Wake me up when September ends

This death forced Billie Joe to grow up faster than he wanted. Living throguh another September brought a spirit of gloom over Bille Joe’s life.

Ring out the bells again

Perhaps church bells from the funeral.

Like we did when spring began
Wake me up when September ends

Billie Joe took his father’s death hard.

Here comes the rain again
Falling from the stars
Drenched in my pain again
Becoming who we are

Something that never seemed to go away.

As my memory rests
But never forgets what I lost
Wake me up when September ends

Billie misses his father.

Summer has come and passed
The innocent can never last
Wake me up when September ends

Calendars and certain dates leave a haunting memory of the past.

Like my father’s come to pass
Twenty years has gone so fast
Wake me up when September ends

Billie Joe completed this song when he was 30 or added to this after the 20th anniversary of his father’s death.

Wake me up when September ends
Wake me up when September ends

Billie Joe wishes he could skip September every year.

Final Thoughts:

One of my friends from the cross-country had a rough sophomore year. Whenever I saw Carl in the hallway, he would hit me in the shoulder as if we were playing the Punch Buggy Game. This is how Carl reacted to a dying mother. After her death, Carl and I became close friends. The more time we spent together, Carl began to treat my mother lije an adopted mother. This is how Carl slowly recovered from the pain of losing his mom.

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The Message Behind the Music-September 29

Posted on September 29, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Thousand Foot Krutch: Be Somebody (Official Audio)

Inspiration Behind Be Somebody:

 Trevor McNevan wrote Be Somebody from a deeply personal and spiritual place, exploring the longing to be seen, understood, and accepted for who you truly are in life. Trevor was having an identity crisis, using the line “boy inside the man” struggling to reconcile his true self with how others perceive him. Be Somebody reflects a journey of self-discovery.

Biblical Application:

But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us. 8 We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; 9 persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed. 10 We always carry around in our body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be revealed in our body. 11 For we who are alive are always being given over to death for Jesus’ sake, so that his life may also be revealed in our mortal body. 12 So then, death is at work in us, but life is at work in you, 2 Corinthians 4:7-12.

Exegesis of Be Somebody:

I’m just the boy inside the man, not exactly who you think I am
Trying to trace my steps back here again, so many times
I’m just a speck inside your head, you came and made me who I am

Trevor is trying to figure out his place in this world. Trevor is struggling to grasp who he is. A reference to God.


I remember where it all began, so clearly

When and where Trevor first met God.

I feel a million miles away, still you connect me in your way
And you create in me, something I would’ve never seen
When I can only see the floor, you made my window a door
So when they say they don’t believe, I hope that they see you and me
After all the lights go down, I’m just the words you are the sound
A strange type of chemistry, how you’ve become a part of me
And when I sit alone at night, your thoughts burn through me like a fire
You’re the only one who knows, who I really am

Trevor feels so far away from God. The Lord started something special inside of Trevor, but he never saw this potential. Line 3 may be a reference to how the Lord provides for you. As skeptics question God’s existence, Trevor hopes this doubter will see his relationship with God. A metaphor where you are the student and God is the instructor. Trevor is trying to explain how you can have a relationship with an invisible God. The power of the Holy Spirit to ignite conviction and passion. Jesus is the only one in the world who truly knows Trevor.

We all wanna be somebody, we just need a taste of who we are
We all wanna be somebody, we’re willing to go but not that far

This opening chorus serves as a prayer to be successful in life. How far are you willing to go to become great.

And we’re all see through, just like glass
And we can shatter just as fast
That light’s been burned out for a while, I still see it every time I pass
It was lost in the coldness of my mind, behind a box of reasons why
I never doubted it was there, just took a little time to find

While human beings try to hide their pain, souls are fragile like glass. Perhaps a reference to faith that burns inside of your heart. An example of when faith grows cold and the journey to rediscover it.

And even when

Trying to recover.

I feel a million miles away, still you connect me in your way
And you create in me, something I would’ve never seen
When I can only see the floor, you made my window a door
So when they say they don’t believe I hope that they see you and me
After all the lights go down, I’m just the words you are the sound
A strange type of chemistry, and you’ve become a part of me
And when I sit alone at night, your thoughts burn through me like a fire
You’re the only one who knows, who I really am

God is omnipresent despite the distance. God has a plan for each believer. The Bible is the instruction manual. Unfortunately, this may take years or a lifetime to realize your full potential. This is why the apostle Paul wrote about keeping in step with the Holy Spirit, Galatians 5:25. The more this occurs, the better your chemistry with God. This takes time to meditate, ponder and reflect about who you are and how God can use you.

We all wanna be somebody, we just need a taste of who we are
We all wanna be somebody, we’re willing to go but not that far
We all wanna be somebody, (be somebody) we just need a taste of who we are
We all wanna be somebody, (be somebody) we’re willing to go but not that far
I’m just the boy inside the man, not exactly who you think I am
Trying to trace my steps back here again, so many times
When I can only see the floor, you made my window a door
So when they say they don’t believe, I hope that they see you and me

A simple desire to make a difference in life based upon the gifts God has given you. To what extent, how far will you go to fulfill this goal in life. Discovering your gifts and talents is like tasting success. Some do just enough to get by while others are much more committed. Maturity takes time, especially when you wander away from God. As you retrace your steps, God can provide the vision necessary so that when others doubt, they will see the faith inside of you.

Final Thoughts:

This is one of the songs that I have listened to hundreds of times, but never really thought about the lyrics. Be Somebody is like a modern-day Finding Your Place in this World song. However, Be Somebody challenges individuals to dig deep inside your heart, soul and mind. This spiritual journey will take time, but if you persevere, other people will begin to see the love of Jesus inside your heart. This is the goal as Be Somebody ends.

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The Message Behind the Music-September 28

Posted on September 28, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Prince and the Revolution – When Doves Cry (Official Music Video)

Inspiration Behind When Doves Cry:

When Doves Cry was inspired by Prince’s relationship with singer Susan Moonsie. The lyrics explores the emotional fallout when love ends. Prince uses doves as a metaphor for love and peace, so that doves crying represents the emotional turmoil and sorrow that arises when a relationship falls apart. The lyrics also addresses Prince’s fear of repeating parental patterns, eager to be a supportive father.

Biblical Application:

The eyes of the Lord are on the righteous, and his ears are attentive to their cry;16 but the face of the Lord is against those who do evil, to blot out their name from the earth, Psalm 34:15-16.

Exegesis of When Doves Cry:

[Intro]
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah

Initial preparations to sing.

[Verse 1]
Dig, if you will, the picture
Of you and I engaged in a kiss
The sweat of your body covers me
Can you, my darling, can you picture this?

Having a flashback of an intimate moment with Susan. Asking her if she remembers what they once had.

[Verse 2]
Dream, if you can, a courtyard
An ocean of violets in bloom
Animals strike curious poses
They feel the heat, the heat between me and you

Setting the scene of a romantic moment where their passion for each other erupts.

[Chorus]
How can you just leave me standing
Alone in a world that’s so cold? (So cold)
Maybe I’m just too demanding
Maybe I’m just like my father, too bold
Maybe you’re just like my mother
She’s never satisfied (She’s never satisfied)
Why do we scream at each other?
This is what it sounds like
When doves cry

Prince can’t believe this special relationship has ended. Prince begins to wonder what went wrong. Blaming how he was raised and how he is now becoming like his father. Prince continues to look for a reason as Susan might share his mom’s perspective. When Susan and Prince yell at each other, it’s like doves crying.


[Verse 3]
Touch, if you will, my stomach (Hmm)
Feel how it trembles inside (Mhm)
You’ve got the butterflies all tied up
Don’t make me chase you, even doves have pride

Prince doesn’t want this relationship to end. While begging seems desperate, Prince’s pride has taken a hit.

[Chorus]
How can you just leave me standing
Alone in a world so cold? (World so cold)
Maybe I’m just too demanding
Maybe I’m just like my father, too bold
Maybe you’re just like my mother
She’s never satisfied (She’s never satisfied)
Why do we scream at each other?
This is what it sounds like
When doves cry

The chorus is repeated as Prince can’t understand why Susan left him. Prince uses rhetorical questions to figure out why this relationship fell apart. This disappointment conceived the image of doves crying.

[Bridge]
Yeah, yeah
Doo-doo, woah-oh
(Yeah, yeah)

Transition.

[Chorus]
How can you just leave me standing
Alone in a world that’s so cold? (World that’s so cold)
Maybe I’m just too demanding (Maybe, maybe)
Maybe I’m just like my father, too bold (My father, you know he’s too bold)
Maybe you’re just like my mother (Maybe you’re just like my mother)
She’s never satisfied (Never, never satisfied, why scream?)
Why do we scream at each other? (Why?)
This is what it sounds like
When doves cry

Prince is still trying to grasp what went wrong.

[Break]
When doves cry (When doves cry, when doves cry)
When doves cry (When doves cry, they cry)
Oh, no, oh, oh
Oh, no, oh, yeah
Oh, oh, oh, yeah
Oh, oh, oh, yeah
Oh, oh, oh, yeah
When doves cry
When doves cry (Hoo)
When doves cry (Hoo)
Baby, baby, baby, yeah

A way for Prince to express his pain and sadness.

[Outro]
When doves cry (When doves cry, when doves cry)
Don’t cry
Darling, don’t cry
Don’t cry, don’t cry, don’t, don’t cry

Prince doesn’t want Susan to cry, hoping to end this relationship on a positive note.

Final Thoughts:

I became a big Prince fan in college. While I noticed that his music videos were becoming more sexually graphic like Madonna, this is the nature and trend of the music industry. Whenever relationships end abruptly or unexpectedly, this is never easy. However, writing songs like When Doves Cry tend to serve as a form of healing. While Prince died way sooner than expected, his legacy continues today thanks to his archive of music.

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The Message Behind the Music-September 27

Posted on September 27, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Wishing Well

Inspiration Behind Wishing Well:

Marc Byrd wrote Wishing Well as part of a charitable project called Project Aegis. This song was conceived after completing work on the band’s album Ulterium. Wishing Well reads like a story of a young person navigating life’s complexities. The lyrics express regret and sorrow, seeking forgiveness for the people that he has hurt in his past.

Biblical Application:

Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours. 25 And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive them, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins,” Mark 11:25.

Exegesis of Wishing Well:

Red Rover, come over, pick clovers
Let’s spend a little time away
We’re learning, we’re turning, we’re burning our hands
Playing in the fire today

Childhood game reference. Taking a break from life to have fun and be rejuvenated. The last 2 lines are either a metaphor about playing with fire or growing up in a farming community where weeds are burned.

But please don’t listen
To the lies inside this place
When the monster rears its head out
Just turn and see your face

Be careful not to believe gossip. Perhaps an image of childhood fairy tales about monsters living under your bed or in your closet.

When the sky is torn, the feelings are reborn
Like the passing rain, this moment will fade away
And so I try to find my water all by myself
It’s so dry
I won’t stop to cry

Incoming storms which trigger something from your past. Rain washing away any traces of debris, pollen or trash. Going to the wishing well, unable to find water due to a drought. Hope is fleeting.

Indecision is killing, you’re wishing, you’re dreaming
You’re measly life away
Time is out, time is gone, time is in
Time has come and flown away

Struggling to make a decision. Dreaming of what could be and wishing for something instead of being decisive. Complacency, procrastination and uncertainty is causing life and time to slip away.

But please don’t listen
To the lies inside this place
When the monster sticks its head out
Just turn and slap its face

Ungodly beliefs and untruths that human beings pick up during the course of their life.

When the sky is torn, the feelings are reborn
Like the passing rain, this moment will fade away
And so I try to find my water all by myself
It’s so dry

Metaphors to express wandering around in life to convey a journey of self-discovery

I’m drinking from this wishing well
I’m fleeing from this frozen cell
And I think about the people I’ve hurt in my life
I think about the people I’ve hurt in my life
Forgive me for the people I’ve hurt in my life
Forgive me for the people I hurt

This time of reflection has brought up flashbacks and memories of people that this individual has hurt in the past. Seeking forgiveness and reconciliation.

When the sky is torn, the feelings are reborn
Like the passing rain, this moment will fade away
And cannot find my water all by myself
So I wander
And I wander and wander and wander
All by myself

Illustrating how trial and error helps you confront inner struggles head-on instead of putting off important decisions like previous stanzas.

Final Thoughts:

Life is like a giant jigsaw puzzle. It takes time to find all of the border pieces. Once you start to put together the context, you’ll have a better understanding of what you are searching for. As long as you continue to learn by avoiding complacency, discovering the complexities of life becomes attainable. However, if you never evolve or mature, you’ll be like a wandering child, dreaming and wishing for a bright future.

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The Message Behind the Music-September 26

Posted on September 26, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Bebe Rexha & David Guetta – Sad Girls (Official Lyric Video)

Inspiration Behind Sad Girls:

Sad Girls explores the complex emotions of being “the other woman,” the one who ends up being more like a friend rather than the romantic partner. The lyrics use a narrator who is knowingly involved with a man who has another partner. This unhealthy relationship never ends well, especially when a man doesn’t know who he wants. Sadness is the byproduct of being in a relationship which lacks trust and transparency.

Biblical Application:

Then Sarai said to Abram, “You are responsible for the wrong I am suffering. I put my slave in your arms, and now that she knows she is pregnant, she despises me. May the Lord judge between you and me,” Genesis 16:5.

Exegesis of Sad Girls:

[Chorus]
It’s the last call, baby, and the champagne’s dry
I’m gonna dance, dance, dance with tears in my eyes
And I can’t stand watching you takin’ her home
But sad girls don’t leave ’til the last song
It’s the last call, baby, and I’m dying inside
I’m gonna dance, dance, dance ’til they turn on the lights
And it kills me watching you takin’ her home
But sad girls don’t leave ’til the last song

This special moment is coming to an end. Knowing her man is going back to his wife. Sad girls wait until the very end, holding out hope that she’ll be the one taken home. She refuses to deny reality. Clinging to a miracle.

[Drop]
Oh-woah, oh-woah (Last song, last song, last song, last song)
Sad girls don’t leave ’til the last song
Oh-woah, oh-woah (Last song, last song, last song, last song)
Sad girls don’t leave ’til the last song

Her emotions won’t allow her to give up hope.

[Verse]
Tell me what could happen here
I wish I could disappear
Heartbreak in the neon lights
On the floor, I feel alright, oh

She is putting her hope in the wrong guy. When the evening ends, sadness will return.

[Pre-Chorus]
Tears dipped in glitter and I dance like I don’t know nobody
Lipstick to champagne and venom
Hips sway, watch me while I get ’em
From the window to the wall
Saying I’m alright ’bout a hundred times but
That’s a lie, that’s a lie

Looking for a rebound. Hoping someone else notices her on the dance floor. Yet as much as she tried to tell herself that she is okay, this is a lie.

[Chorus]
‘Cause it’s the last call, baby, and the champagne’s dry

This special night is over and she is going home alone.

[Drop]
Oh-woah, oh-woah
Sad girls don’t leave ’til the last song
Oh-woah, oh-woah
Sad girls don’t leave ’til the last song

Clinging to false hope.

[Bridge]
Coulda sworn I saw you here
But when I looked away, you disappeared
Maybe it’s the flashing lights
But I just miss you too much tonight
And I’m not ready for the lights back on
So, please, don’t turn all the lights back on
Let me hold on to one last song, you know (Oh)

In her mind, she is wishing that this last slow dance together doesn’t end. She doesn’t want this dream to end.

[Chorus]
It’s the last call, baby, and I’m dying inside
I’m gonna dance, dance, dance ’til they turn on the lights
And it kills me watching you takin’ her home
But sad girls don’t leave ’til the last song

Dancing to numb the pain inside her heart. Broken by the sight of her man leaving with someone else.

[Outro]
Sad girls don’t leave ’til the last song (Last song, last song)

This is why sad girls are the last to leave.

Final Thoughts:

I remained in touch with close friends from high school while in college. One of my cross-country friends from another school revealed that our mutual friend was having an affair with a married man. This young college girl didn’t realize that she was the flavor of the month, believing that his married man would leave his wife. She was like the woman in Sad Girls, unwilling to see the reality of this situation. Sadness is a choice, expecting a different result when you know you are the other woman only ends up in tears.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 25

Posted on September 25, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Disciple – The Wait Is Over (Pseudo Video)

Inspiration Behind the Wait is Over:

This song was a mutual collaboration of band members’ own personal experiences of enduring long periods of waiting. The Wait is Over was spawn from reflection on the struggles, weariness, and hope that come with patience. When you don’t get what you want or are forced to endure stretches of living in limbo, faith and patience is tested. Seasons of hardship, brokenness, and moments of quiet anticipation, helped band members express the belief that there is purpose in every waiting period.

Biblical Application:

I remain confident of this: I will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. 14 Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord, Psalm 27:13-14.

Exegesis of the Wait is Over:

I can feel it in the thunder rolling,
Lightning crashing
It’s our time, the wait is over
Fires burning, floods are rising
It’s our time, the wait is over

The anticipation of an incoming storm on the horizon. When the rain starts, this wait is over. Lightning strikes caused a forest fire while the heavy rains led to flooding. Learning to endure, function and live within earthly trials.

Sitting in ashes
Were broken with our faces
Downward
Like there’s nothing we are looking forward to

Picking up the pieces after an expected event in life.

We’ve been waiting so long for this moment all our lives
Let it pour out

This is a moment to lead by helping others recover and rebuild.

I can feel it in the thunder rolling,
Lightning crashing
It’s our time, the wait is over
Fires burning, floods are rising
It’s our time, the wait is over

An opportunity to lead, help and serve.

Hoping and praying in silence
That the blessing of

Praying for answers and direction. Searching for blessings in disguise.

The former
Isn’t the end of what we look forward to

Waiting can be grueling. Making the best of tough times until glimmers of hope appear.

We’ve been waiting so long for this moment all our lives
Let it pour out

Waiting for the right moment to act. Pouring out your heart and soul to help others.

I can feel it in the thunder rolling,
Lightning crashing
It’s our time, the wait is over
Fires burning, floods are rising
It’s our time, the wait is over

The sense of anticipation. Perhaps a reference to the apostle in Romans 5:3-5, to view trials as a pure joy.

The wait is over
The wait is over
I can feel it in the…

A time to act.

We’ve been waiting so long for this moment all our lives
Let it pour out

Seizing the moment so that this moment doesn’t define you.

I can feel it in the thunder rolling,
Lightning crashing
It’s our time, the wait is over
Fires burning, floods are rising
It’s our time, the wait is over

Signs from God to stop waiting and start acting.

Final Thoughts:

When life is going well, it’s easy to be optimistic. However, when storms come rolling through, one after the other in the form of earthly trials, it’s hard to stay positive. This is where you have to dig down deep with resolve to press on. Waiting is never fun, but it is part of life. Subsequently, if you are forced to wait for an extended period in life, be eager, ready, and willing to act like members of Disciple.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 24

Posted on September 24, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Owl City & Carly Rae Jepsen – Good Time

Inspiration Behind Good Time:

Back in 2012, Owl City wanted to create a song celebrating a pure, unapologetic joy and spontaneity. The lyrics promote living in the moment and embracing carefree happiness. Between life, work and trying to avoid going into debt, Good Time serves as a break from stress. While you will have to go back to reality, take breaks from time to time to recharge your heart, soul and mind.

Biblical Application:

He answered, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’[c]; and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself,’ Luke 10:27.

Exegesis of Good Time:

[Intro: Carly Rae Jepsen, Adam Young]
Mm-mm-mm
Woah-oh-oh-oh-oh
It’s always a good time
Woah-oh-oh-oh-oh
It’s always a good time

Setting a positive tone for this moment.

[Verse 1: Adam Young, Carly Rae Jepsen]
Woke up on the right side of the bed
What’s up with this Prince song inside my head?
Hands up if you’re down to get down tonight (Mm-mm-mm)
‘Cause it’s always a good time
Slept in all my clothes like I didn’t care
Hopped into a cab, take me anywhere
I’m in if you’re down to get down tonight
‘Cause it’s always a good time

Not feeling right after waking up. Perhaps referring to partying like it’s 1999. Despite the current mood, there is a resolve to go out dancing. Expecting to have a good time. Fell asleep fully dressed. Living spontaneously, going out without a set plan or schedule.

[Pre-Chorus: Carly Rae Jepsen, Adam Young, Both]
Good morning and goodnight
I wake up at twilight
It’s gonna be alright
We don’t even have to try, it’s always a good time (Woo)

Staying out late and sleeping in. Preparing for another special night on the town.

[Chorus: Adam Young & Carly Rae Jepsen]
Woah-oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh
Woah-oh-oh-oh-oh, it’s always a good time
Woah-oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh
We don’t even have to try, it’s always a good time

The chorus starts as if on a dance floor. Speaking a good time into existence.

[Post-Chorus: Adam Young, Carly Rae Jepsen]
It’s always a good time
Woah-oh-oh-oh-oh

This mindset became reality.

[Verse 2: Carly Rae Jepsen]
Freaked out, dropped my phone in the pool again
Checked out of my room, hit the ATM
Let’s hang out if you’re down to get down tonight
‘Cause it’s always a good time

An accident, likely due to alcohol. Living without a concern in this world. Living for the next party, night.

[Pre-Chorus: Adam Young, Carly Rae Jepsen, Both]
Good morning and goodnight
I wake up at twilight
It’s gonna be alright
We don’t even have to try, it’s always a good time (Woo)

This is the pattern for someone living for the nightlife.

[Chorus: Adam Young & Carly Rae Jepsen]
Woah-oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh
Woah-oh-oh-oh-oh, it’s always a good time
Woah-oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh
We don’t even have to try, it’s always a good time
Woah-oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh
Woah-oh-oh-oh-oh, it’s always a good time
Woah-oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh
We don’t even have to try, it’s always a good time

The Woah provides an image of someone having fun on the dancefloor. Not allowing their mind to become negative.

[Bridge: Adam Young, Carly Rae Jepsen, Minneapolis Youth Chorus]
Doesn’t matter when, it’s always a good time then
Doesn’t matter where, it’s always a good time there
Doesn’t matter when, it’s always a good time then
(It’s always a good time)

Whatever the location or night, they have the resolve to have fun.

[Chorus: Adam Young, Carly Rae Jepsen & Minneapolis Youth Chorus, Carly Rae Jepsen]
Woah-oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh
Woah-oh-oh-oh-oh, it’s always a good time
Woah-oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh
We don’t even have to try, it’s always a good time
Woah-oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh (Doesn’t matter where)
Woah-oh-oh-oh-oh, it’s always a good time
Woah-oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh (Doesn’t matter where)
We don’t even have to try, it’s always a good time

This mindset becomes a reality.

[Outro: Minneapolis Youth Chorus]
Woah-oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh
Woah-oh-oh-oh-oh, it’s always a good time
Woah-oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh

Keeping up the energy on the dance floor.

Final Thoughts:

I lived for dancing in high school and college. While there wasn’t a great place to go dancing on campus, I often went to a nightclub in Pennsylvania. Beside the main dance floor, there were 3 additional levels to dance. This club which is no longer open was where I lived to dance. Now that I am too old to stay up late, I live for Karaoke as long as I can sing a few songs before 10.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 23

Posted on September 23, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Core Of My Addiction

Inspiration Behind Core of My Addiction:

This song was conceived from emotional dependency, surrender, and devotion to a higher power. Using addiction in a positive manner, where the narrator feels incomplete without their romantic partner, spiritual influence. Subsequently, this could be referring to Christian fellowship and or an intimate relationship with God. This special connection provides a source of purpose, healing, and freedom.

Biblical Application:

After this the Lord appointed seventy-two[a] others and sent them two by two ahead of him to every town and place where he was about to go. 2 He told them, “The harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field. 3 Go! I am sending you out like lambs among wolves, Luke 10:1-3.

Exegesis of Core of My Addiction:

I’m aching, transparent
Your eyes see right through me
I’m dependent and shacking
I’m falling to my knees

A confession of faith. Wanting Jesus like acts to shine through her. Relying on prayer for this transformation.

And I can’t contain this
You’re the only one I need
I’m hooked and I cannot hide it
Your love’s controlling me

This stanza suggests that this woman is taking her faith serious, making Jesus the Lord of her life, Romans 10:9-11. Wanting the love of God to shine through her as she interacts with people on a daily basis.

[Chorus]
You’re the core of my addiction
I wanna live, want to loose myself in you
You’re the heart of my obsession
I want to live, but I would die for you
I’m addicted

Jesus is her passion and vision every morning when she wakes up. She wants to become less, deny her selfish desires so that the love of God will increase. She is learning to love God with all of her heart, soul and mind. This explains her obsession, willing to die for her faith.

Impulsive, enraptured
This yearning’s captured me
I’m determined, I’m not pretending
You are my destiny

This is her vision. Resulting in a clear calling and focus each day.

I can feel the freedom
You’re the only one I need
I’m alive and finally breathing
You’re my recovery

This stanza contains biblical reference to freedom in Christ from Galatians 5, living an abundant life, John 10:10 as well as Jehovah Rapha – God is my healer.

[Chorus]

God I’ve waited for this day
I’ll never run away
You won’t have to chase me

This woman’s commitment to faith is similar to the other 72 disciples that Jesus sends out ahead of the 12 disciples to prepare for Jesus’ future visits.

[Chorus]

I’m addicted! I’m addicted!
I’m addicted to you!

This woman is on fire for Jesus, all in.

Final Thoughts:

One of the main reasons local churches aren’t impacting the spiritual growth of their communities is due to a lack of spiritual commitment. Instead of promoting the Lordship of Christ, God is being used as a crutch in times of need. Subsequently, the faith of many Christians is limited to Sunday morning. The other 6 days of the week faith has become lukewarm. The Core of My Addiction serves as a spiritual wake-up call to make Jesus your top priority for living.

by Jay Mankus

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