There’s No Need for Disinformation

Posted on June 4, 2022 by expressyourself4him

The Department of Homeland Security recently announced news of a new Disinformation Governance Board. When an old Tiktok video of the individual selected to oversee this board surfaced, the credibility of this Disinformation Board was immediately put into question. Meanwhile, a tweet by Jeff Bezos called out President Biden for his own disinformation about a false statement on Covid-19 vaccines.

I have no greater joy than this, to hear that my [spiritual] children are living their lives in the Truth, 3 John 1:4.

According to one of Jesus’ former disciples, the Bible has its own plan for dealing with disinformation. At the beginning of one of his last recorded letters, John’s greatest joy as a Christian is to see people, he spiritually mentored to live their lives in the truth of the Bible. Since the Bible contains supernatural power as a living document, Hebrews 4:12, disinformation is exposed by the light of God’s Word.

So Jesus said to those Jews who had believed in Him, If you abide in My word [hold fast to My teachings and live in accordance with them], you are truly My disciples. 32 And you will know the Truth, and the Truth will set you free, John 8:31-32.

Years earlier, John was present when Jesus told his disciples that spiritual truth will set you free. While disinformation, gossip, and rumors continue today, Christians who shine the light and love of Jesus will convict the hearts of those trying to control your speech. Despite the algorithms designed by social media sites that favor progressive ideas, living your life in the Truth will expose disinformation as its espoused.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-April 22

Posted on April 22, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Bon Jovi – Livin’ On A Prayer

Inspiration Behind Livin’ on a Prayer:

This song reflects the economic realities of growing up at the bottom end of the middle class. While the characters Tommy and Gina within this song are fictional, the lyrics of Livin’ on a Prayer reflect life experiences of guitarist Richie Sambora. Richie’s Uncle Sal worked on the docks, struggling to make a living. However, the theme of Livin’ on a Prayer points to maintaining a Christian faith despite the struggles of living paycheck to paycheck.

Biblical Application:

“I’m going out to fish,” Simon Peter told them, and they said, “We’ll go with you.” So they went out and got into the boat, but that night they caught nothing. 4 Early in the morning, Jesus stood on the shore, but the disciples did not realize that it was Jesus. 5 He called out to them, “Friends, haven’t you any fish?”“No,” they answered. 6 He said, “Throw your net on the right side of the boat and you will find some.” When they did, they were unable to haul the net in because of the large number of fish, John 21:3-6.

Exegesis of Livin’ on a Prayer:

Once upon a time
Not so long ago

Using a common storyline opening to begin this song.

Tommy used to work on the docks
Union’s been on strike, he’s down on his luck
It’s tough
So tough

Tommy who in real life was Uncle Sal is unable to make any money due to the union strike.

Gina works the diner all day
Working for her man
She brings home her pay, for love
Mm, for love

Gina had to pick up extra shifts to make up the monthly difference of income.

She says, “We’ve gotta hold on to what we’ve got
It doesn’t make a difference if we make it or not
We got each other, and that’s a lot for love
We’ll give it a shot”

These lyrics point a different era in America when married couples were taught to stay together to death do us part. Sure, the current sacrifices Gina had to make sucks, but they have each other for love and support.

Oh, we’re halfway there
Oh-oh, livin’ on a prayer
Take my hand, we’ll make it, I swear
Oh-oh, livin’ on a prayer

The halfway either point to halfway through the month or the Union strike. Living paycheck to paycheck sometimes requires lots of prayer.

Tommy’s got his six-string in hock
Now he’s holding in what he used to make it talk
So tough
Mm, it’s tough

Tommy needed to start selling some valuable possessions to avoid defaulting on their loan or rent.

Gina dreams of running away
She cries in the night, Tommy whispers
“Baby, it’s okay”
Someday

This couple has reached their breaking point, but Tommy provides leadership and hope.

We’ve gotta hold on to what we’ve got
It doesn’t make a difference if we make it or not
We got each other, and that’s a lot for love
We’ll give it a shot

A call to stick together, rise above their current trial.

Oh, we’re halfway there
Oh-oh, livin’ on a prayer
Take my hand, we’ll make it, I swear
Oh-oh, livin’ on a prayer
Livin’ on a prayer

Praying with a sense of urgency.

Ooh, we gotta hold on, ready or not
You live for the fight when that’s all that you’ve got

Don’t give up hope. Keep the faith.

Whoa, we’re halfway there
Whoa-oh, livin’ on a prayer
Take my hand, and we’ll make it, I swear
Whoa-oh, livin’ on a prayer

In real life, Uncle Sal kept his family together through this financial crisis.

Whoa, we’re halfway there
Whoa-oh, livin’ on a prayer
Take my hand and we’ll make it, I swear
Whoa-oh, livin’ on a prayer

During tough times, you need a leader like Sal, who believes they will survive.

Whoa, we’re halfway there
Whoa-oh, livin’ on a prayer
Take my hand and we’ll make it, I swear
Whoa-oh

Leaders are willing take the hand of the doubting and press on with the faith to endure this current storm.

Final Thoughts:

Before attending a youth ministry trade school, I was living in my sister’s basement. I had 2 jobs and made $100 per month. Most of that went toward gas and food. From a financial standpoint, I was on the verge of being homeless. Yet, Christian friends and my faith got me through these times. I was living on a prayer and God provided for my needs.

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The Message Behind the Music-April 21

Posted on April 21, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Garth Brooks – Unanswered Prayers

Inspiration Behind Unanswered Prayers:

This song was conceived from a true story about Garth’s first wife Sandy. When you are young, you tend to be short sighted, unaware of the future plans that God has for you. The chorus of Unanswered Prayers came from Garth’s ability to look back at where he was in high school and who he has become as a country singer. The lyrics provide hope to struggling individuals still wondering why God didn’t answer a specific request that they really wanted.

Biblical Application:

When they came to the crowd, a man approached Jesus and knelt before him. 15 “Lord, have mercy on my son,” he said. “He has seizures and is suffering greatly. He often falls into the fire or into the water. 16 I brought him to your disciples, but they could not heal him.” 17 “You unbelieving and perverse generation,” Jesus replied, “how long shall I stay with you? How long shall I put up with you? Bring the boy here to me.” 18 Jesus rebuked the demon, and it came out of the boy, and he was healed at that moment. 19 Then the disciples came to Jesus in private and asked, “Why couldn’t we drive it out?” 20 He replied, “Because you have so little faith. Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you,” Matthew 17:14-20.

Exegesis of Unanswered Prayers:

Just the other night, at a hometown football game
My wife and I, ran into my old high school flame
And as I introduced them, the past came back to me
And I couldn’t help but think, of the way things used to be

A real-life event gave Garth Brooks a chance to play the what if game, if he married his high school sweetheart.

She was the one, that I’d wanted for all times
Each night I’d spend prayin’, that God would make her mine
And if he’d only grant me this wish, I wished back then
I’d never ask for anything, again

Garth believed that this girl was the one for him. Looking back at his past, Garth has perspective which helps him realize that unanswered prayers can be a blessing in disguise.

Sometimes, I thank God, for unanswered prayers
Remember, when you’re talkin’ to the man upstairs
And just because, he doesn’t answer, doesn’t mean he don’t care
Some of God’s greatest gifts, are unanswered prayers

God responds to prayers in 3 ways: yes, no and maybe later in life.

She wasn’t quite the angel, that I remembered in my dreams
And I could tell, that time had changed me
In her eyes too, it seemed
We tried to talk about the old days
There wasn’t much, we could recall
I guess the Lord knows what he’s doin’, after all

This encounter helped Garth realize that this old relationship was shallow, more about physical attraction than depth. Garth came to the conclusion that God knew what he was doing when his prayer went unanswered.

And as she walked away, and I looked at my wife
And then and there, I thanked the good Lord
For the gifts, in my life

Seeing these two women stand side by side helped Garth appreciate Sandy more than ever before.

Sometimes, I thank God, for unanswered prayers
Remember, when you’re talkin’ to the man upstairs
That just because he may not answer, doesn’t mean he don’t care
Some of God’s greatest gifts, are unanswered

God has a reason behind every unanswered prayer. Sometimes you have to wait which Garth compares to one of God’s greatest gifts.

Some of God’s greatest gifts, are all too often unanswered
Some of God’s greatest gifts, are unanswered prayers

This what Garth has learned from unanswered prayers lifted up to the Lord.

Final Thoughts:

As I was about to start my first full-time job following graduating from college, I thought I knew who I was going to marry. One was a close friend and the other was a girl I served with on Lay Witness Mission weekends in college. However, when I prayed for discernment, the Holy Spirit led me to pray for a third woman, the unknown. Once the other two had serious boyfriends, I met Leanne at the end of 1993. This prayer was answered a year later when I proposed. Therefore, the next time you don’t receive the answered prayer that you desire, God likely has a blessing in disguise waiting for you in the future.

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The Message Behind the Music-April 20

Posted on April 20, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Harry Chapin – Cat’s In The Cradle (Official Lyric Video)

Inspiration Behind Cat’s in the Cradle:

Cat’s in the Cradle was inspired by a poem written by Harry’s wife Sandy. This poem details the strained relationship between Sandy’s first husband and his father. Harry takes this situation and writes it as if he was the man who was never around for his son. Some of the trials that individuals experience are self-inflicted. When you are unwilling to take time for other people, you will reap what you sow as others will make similar excuses in life.

Biblical Application:

Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. 8 Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life, Galatians 6:7-8.

Exegesis of Cat’s in the Cradle:

My child arrived just the other day
He came to the world in the usual way
But there were planes to catch and bills to pay
He learned to walk while I was away
And he was talking ‘fore I knew it and as he grew
He’d say, “I’m gonna be like you, dad
You know, I’m gonna be like you”

There was a time in American culture when men weren’t expected to be in a delivery room. Their job was to be the sole provider while his wife stayed at home to raise their children. Subsequently, missing the birth of a child wasn’t rare.

And the cat’s in the cradle and the silver spoon
Little boy blue and the man in the moon
“When you coming home, dad?” “I don’t know when
We’ll get together then, you know we’ll have a good time then”

As children grow up, especially boys, they need time with their father to grow and mature. When a dad always makes an excuse, children are watching, following in the footsteps of their parents.

My son turned ten just the other day
He said, “Thanks for the ball, dad, come on, let’s play
Can you teach me to throw?” I said, “Not today
I got a lot to do” he said, “That’s okay”
And he walked away but his smile never dimmed
Said, “I’m gonna be like him, yeah
You know, I’m gonna be like him”

At the time this was written, Baseball was America’s favorite pastime. Playing catch with a glove on your hand was part of Americana. The father missed out on becoming a valuable part of his son’s childhood.

And the cat’s in the cradle and the silver spoon
Little boy blue and the man in the moon
“When you coming home, dad?” “I don’t know when
We’ll get together then, you know we’ll have a good time then”

This father was self-absorbed, unwilling to make time for others as family wasn’t a priority for him.

Well, he came from college just the other day
So much like a man I just had to say
“Son, I’m proud of you, can you sit for a while?”
He shook his head and he said with a smile
“What I’d really like, dad, is to borrow the car keys
See you later, can I have them please?”

Friends had become this young man’s family.

And the cat’s in the cradle and the silver spoon
Little boy blue and the man in the moon
“When you coming home, son?” “I don’t know when
But we’ll get together then, dad, you know we’ll have a good time then”

Promises made by the father were empty words, void of any action.

I’ve long since retired and my sons moved away
I called him up just the other day
I said, “I’d like to see you if you don’t mind”
He said, “I’d love to, dad, if I could find the time”
“You see, my new job’s a hassle and the kids got the flu
But it’s sure nice talking to you, dad
It’s been sure nice talking to you”

This stanza illustrates karma or as the Bible states, “you reap what you sow.”

And as I hung up the phone, it occurred to me
He’d grown up just like me
My boy was just like me

It took decades, but the father finally realized that he set a bad example for his son.

And the cat’s in the cradle and the silver spoon
Little boy blue and the man in the moon
“When you coming home, son?” “I don’t know when
But we’ll get together then, dad, we’re gonna have a good time then”

Interruptions in life, like putting family ahead of work, will make you happy and more efficient as long as you love what you do.

Final Thoughts:

Since my father was an immigrant to America, he had to work for everything that he owned. My father wasn’t around much until my family moved to Delaware. At this time, he decided to coach my little league team for a season. While my father was an intense leader, I would learn to appreciate this trait later in life. When my children all began to play baseball, I pulled back from my social schedule to coach my 2 sons. Later on, my daughter and I would play on a co-ed volleyball team on Friday nights. As my athletic career winds down, I try to play in as many disc golf tournaments with my children so that they will each develop a desire to spend time with their own kids. Enjoy these moments when they happen.

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The Message Behind the Music-April 19

Posted on April 19, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Genesis – That’s All (Official Audio)

Inspiration Behind That’s All:

That’s All explores the complexities and frustrations of relationships. The lyrics highlight the differences in opinions and perspectives in life. That’s All points to the realization of all unresolved differences. Instead of constantly arguing, debating and opening fresh wounds to your soul, That’s All a way of accepting that neither side is willing to budge.

Biblical Application:

Those who live according to the flesh have their minds set on what the flesh desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires. 6 The mind governed by the flesh is death, but the mind governed by the Spirit is life and peace. 7 The mind governed by the flesh is hostile to God; it does not submit to God’s law, nor can it do so. 8 Those who are in the realm of the flesh cannot please God, Romans 8:5-8.

Exegesis of That’s All:

Just as I thought it was goin’ alright
I found out I’m wrong, when I thought I was right
It’s always the same, it’s just a shame, that’s all
I could say day, and you’d say night
Tell me it’s black, when I know that it’s white
Always the same, it’s just a shame and that’s all

Some days that are going well can be interrupted by a firm rebuke. For Phil Collins, this happens regularly. This pattern of disagreement is getting old,

I could leave, but I won’t go
Though my heart might tell me so
I can’t feel a thing from my head down to my toes
But why does it always seem to be
Me lookin’ at you, you lookin’ at me?
It’s always the same, it’s just a shame, that’s all

Phil appears to be referring to a relationship with another woman that is on the rocks. Yet it wasn’t always this way.

Turnin’ me on, turnin’ me off
Making me feel like I want too much
Livin’ with you is just putting me through it all of the time
Runnin’ around, staying out all night
Taking it all instead of taking one bite
Living with you is just putting me through it all of the time

A state of misery is hovering over this relationship. For now, this couple is just putting up with each other.

I could leave, but I won’t go
But it’d be easier I know
I can’t feel a thing from my head down to my toes
Why does it always seem to be
Me lookin’ at you, you lookin’ at me?
It’s always the same, it’s just a shame, that’s all

Phil has become numb, a way to hide his pain and frustration.

Truth is I love you
More than I wanted to
There’s no point in trying to pretend
There’s been no one who
Makes me feel like you do
Say we’ll be together ’til the end

His love for this woman has kept Phil from quitting on this relationship.

But I could leave, but I won’t go
It’d be easier I know
I can’t feel a thing from my head down to my toes
So why does it always seem to be
Me looking at you, you looking at me?
It’s always the same, it’s just a shame, that’s all

Phil could take the easy way out but hasn’t reached that point yet.

But I love you
More than I wanted to
There’s no point in trying to pretend
There’s been no one who
Makes me feel like you do
Say we’ll be together ’til the end

Love is the only thing keeping this relationship together.

But just as I thought it was going alright
I find out I’m wrong when I thought I was right
It’s always the same, it’s just a shame, that’s all
Well, I could say day, you’d say night
Tell me it’s black when I know that it’s white
It’s always the same, it’s just a shame, that’s all
That’s all

Living in this type of environment will wear down your soul. Stubbornness appears to be slowing deteriorating this relationship, on the verge of collapse.

Final Thoughts:

Sometimes mentors can help hold a marriage together until both couples make the necessary changes to become closer. Unfortunately, many individuals give up, not willing to fight anymore to salvage their relationship. Movies like Fireproof illustrate what needs to happen before genuine reconciliation can be achieved. These steps may seem drastic, but are essential to avoid experiencing the atmosphere detailed in That’s All.

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The Message Behind the Music-April 18

Posted on April 18, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Kenny Loggins – Danger Zone (Official Audio – Top Gun)

Inspiration Behind Danger Zone:

Tom Whitlock and Giorgio Moroder were assigned to create a song for the original Top Gun film. This track needed to resonate with this film’s theme of adrenaline, speed and thrill of naval aviation. This song’s title was inspired by the opening scenes using an aircraft carrier flight deck. Ultimately, Danger Zone also refers to the threat of war, entering an arena where flight school is over and the real thing is about to take place.

Biblical Application:

t is impossible for those who have once been enlightened, who have tasted the heavenly gift, who have shared in the Holy Spirit, 5 who have tasted the goodness of the word of God and the powers of the coming age 6 and who have fallen[c] away, to be brought back to repentance. To their loss they are crucifying the Son of God all over again and subjecting him to public disgrace, Hebrews 6:4-6.

Exegesis of Danger Zone:

Revvin’ up your engine
Listen to her howlin’ roar
Metal under tension
Beggin’ you to touch and go

Referring to a pilot going through a checklist just before takeoff.

Highway to the danger zone
Ride into the danger zone

Once a naval fighter plane is launched off the flight deck, the crew is heading into enemy territory.

Headin’ into twilight
Spreadin’ out her wings tonight
She got you jumpin’ off the deck
And shovin’ into overdrive

This points to the adrenaline before takeoff.

Highway to the danger zone
I’ll take you right into the danger zone

Reaching an aircraft carrier means flight school is over, and this is the real thing.

You’ll never say hello to you
Until you get it on the red line overload
You’ll never know what you can do
Until you get it up as high as you can go

Nothing compares to experience. Once the pilot and wing man learn to work togther, they will begin to realize their full potential as a team.

Out along the edges
Always where I burn to be
The further on the edge
The hotter the intensity

The top pilots at this elite school want to be where the action is.

Highway to the danger zone
Gonna take it right into the danger zone
Highway to the danger zone
Ride into the danger zone

Action refers to where the war, real fighting is taking place.

Highway to the danger zone
Gonna take it right into the danger zone
Highway to the danger zone
Ride into the danger zone

Top Gun pilots are trained for danger, taught how to react to different situations and what to do.

Highway to the danger zone
Gonna take it right into the danger zone
Highway to the danger zone
Ride into the danger zone

Highway to the danger zone

For the top pilots, there is no hesitation. Once in the danger zone, pilots respond differently.

Final Thoughts:

The spiritual danger zone is highlighted by today’s featured Bible verse. Hebrews 6 points to a Christian who knows the Bible but fails to practice anything that they are taught. This pattern of behavior leads to apathy, causing Christians to become spiritual numb. Every time a pilot is in the air, they learn something about how their jet handles certain conditions. The same thing happens daily to Christians if they are alert, sober and watchful. Spiritual foundations are built by putting the teachings of Jesus into practice, Matthew 7:24.

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The Message Behind the Music-April 17

Posted on April 17, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Three Days Grace – Pain (Official Video)

Inspiration Behind Pain:

The lyrics of Pain comes from lead singer Adam Gontier’s experience battling an addiction to OxyContin. Pain was a daily battle during Adam’s rehab. The lyrics point to a more graphic and honest assessment of what is takes to fully recover from a drug addiction. Pain has become an anthem for individuals facing hardship and emotional turmoil.

Biblical Application:

Therefore I do not run like someone running aimlessly; I do not fight like a boxer beating the air. 27 No, I strike a blow to my body and make it my slave so that after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified for the prize, 1 Corinthians 9:26-27.

Exegesis of Pain:

Pain, without love
Pain, I can’t get enough
Pain, I like it rough
‘Cause I’d rather feel pain than nothing at all

OxyContin is a pain killer than takes away your pain after a major surgery. Unfortunately, this is an extremely addictive substance. This is the context of the opening stanza.

You’re sick of feeling numb
You’re not the only one
I’ll take you by the hand
And I’ll show you a world that you can understand

Adam wants to help people facing a similar addiction today. Leading others through this pain and helping them understand what’s at stake.

This life is filled with hurt
When happiness doesn’t work
Trust me and take my hand
When the lights go out, you’ll understand

Adam is either referring to coping with addiction at night or before you undergo a major surgery and get knocked out until the procedure has been completed.

Pain (pain), without love
Pain (pain), I can’t get enough
Pain (pain), I like it rough
‘Cause I’d rather feel pain than nothing at all

Adam explains that pain is a good thing while trying to free his body from the use of OxyContin.

Pain (pain), without love
Pain (pain), I can’t get enough
Pain (pain), I like it rough
‘Cause I’d rather feel pain than nothing at all

Feeling pain means that he is not taking OxyContin.

Anger and agony
Are better than misery
Trust me, I’ve got a plan
When the lights go off, you’ll understand

Adam provides a series of emotions that he endured during rehab, explaining that anger and agony are signs of progress and recovery.

Pain (pain), without love
Pain (pain), I can’t get enough
Pain (pain), I like it rough
‘Cause I’d rather feel pain than nothing at all

Overcoming addiction is like fighting another boxer, trying to be defensive with an occasion jab to be proactive.

Pain (pain), without love
Pain (pain), I can’t get enough
Pain (pain), I like it rough
‘Cause I’d rather feel pain than nothing
Rather feel pain

Unless you have been to rehab or struggled to overcome bad habits, you need mental toughness that exists inside a long-distance runner and a heavy weight champion.

(I know, I know, I know, I know)
I know that you’re wounded
(You know, you know, you know, you know)
That I’m here to save you
(You know, you know, you know, you know)
I’m always here for you
(I know, I know, I know, I know)
That you’ll thank me later

This song serves as emotional support and encouragement to keep battling until you are freed from addiction.

Pain, without love
Pain, can’t get enough
Pain, I like it rough
‘Cause I’d rather feel pain than nothing at all

Stick it out and keep fighting as pain will be a daily presence.

Pain (pain), without love
Pain (pain), I can’t get enough
Pain (pain), I like it rough
‘Cause I’d rather feel pain than nothing at all

This repetitive chorus suggests that the end of this song is near.

Pain (pain), without love
Pain (pain), I can’t get enough
Pain (pain), I like it rough
‘Cause I’d rather feel pain than nothing at all
Rather feel pain than nothing at all
Rather feel pain

The first step to recovery is acknowledging that you have a problem. Loved ones can’t fully help you until you reach this point in life. Pain is a reality of life. However, once addiction is conquered, there will be another set of challenges waiting for you to face.

Final Thoughts:

We all have dark periods in our lives, often influenced by poor choices. Some people recover without anyone noticing while others go down a one-way road that leads to destruction. There is no easy way out or shortcut back to normalcy. Addictions, bad habits and unwholesome cravings can ravage your soul. The key to recovery is to never give up hope, prevent the thought of quitting fro, entering your mind and fight through the pain until victory is achieved. However, you’ll need an accountability partner to walk with you along the way.

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The Message Behind the Music-April 16

Posted on April 16, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Little Big Town – Tornado (Official Music Video)

Inspiration Behind Tornado:

Little Big Town uses tornado as a metaphor. Rather than build a song around a destructive force of nature, the lyrics illustrates what happens when a woman filled with anger and vengeance leaves her own destruction path on human souls. While the music video makes listeners expect to see a real tornado at any moment, this debris field leaves behind mental and spiritual scars from a disgruntled woman.

Biblical Application:

Make every effort to live in peace with everyone and to be holy; without holiness no one will see the Lord. 15 See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many, Hebrews 12:14-15.

Exegesis of Tornado:

Thought you’ll change the weather
Start a little storm, make a little rain
But I’m gonna do one better
Have the sun until you pray

When someone is about to lose their composure, there are obvious signs like a raised voice, a change is emotions and venomous speech. Tornados have their own warning signs in the sky. Karen Fairplay wants to do one better with an odd play on words to end this opening stanza.

I’m a tornado looking for a soul to take
You’re gonna see me coming by the selfish things that you did
I’m gonna leave you guessing have this fun on this gonna hit I’m a tornado, looking for a man to break

Hurt people have a tendency to want to inflict the people who hurt them. This is the payback that is referred to.

Yeah, I’m gonna leave this house, spinning all around
Tossing in the air and playing in the ground
Make sure you’ll never found

Like the wrath from a twister, the angry brewing wants to leave a similar path of destruction.

Thought you’ll take the swing try another girl, try another night
But it’s not pain that brings my force of nature back to life
I’m a tornado, what’s done gotta left by

Sometimes human beings try to play God, seeking to payback the harm done to their soul.

Hey I’m gonna leave this house, spin it all around
Tossing in the air and put it in the ground
I’m gonna leave this house, spin it all around
Tossing in the air and put it in the ground
Make sure you’ll never find, oh yeah

This is what happens when you allow the root of bitterness to consume your soul.

Hey I’m gonna leave this house, spin it all around
Tossing in the air and put it in the ground
Yeah, I’m gonna leave this house, spin it all around
Tossing in the air and put it in the ground
Make sure you’ll never find

The lyrics suggest that she wants to bury her ex-boyfriend, sending a bad message,

The winds are getting stronger and the sky is falling through
You ain’t got much longer till the rage rips off the roof
I’m a tornado and I’m coming after you

When common sense is gone, anger and rage take over.

Final Thoughts:

The older I become; I try to be a peace maker. Yet, in my younger years, I had a short fuse, going off at a moment’s notice. My anger management issue took more than a decade to finally control. When you become open to letting Jesus come into your life, Romans 10:9-11, this transformation is possible, but it takes time.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-April 15

Posted on April 15, 2026 by expressyourself4him

On Fire: Switchfoot – The Ultimate Gift (2007) music video

Inspiration Behind On Fire:

This Switchfoot song was featured in the movie the Ultimate Gift. Jason Stevens plays a character who is given a series of tests to pass by his deceased grandfather. On this journey, Jason behinds Emily, a girl dying of cancer. The lyrics of On Fire explore themes of spiritual growth, resiliency and how faith can transform your life. On Fire is symbolic of passion and enlightenment as you face serious challenges in life.

Biblical Application:

But whenever anyone turns to the Lord, the veil is taken away. 17 Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom. 18 And we all, who with unveiled faces contemplate[a] the Lord’s glory, are being transformed into his image with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit, 2 Corinthians 3:16-18.

Exegesis of On Fire:

They tell you where you need to go
Tell you when you need to leave
They tell you what you’ll need to know
Tell you who you need to be

The opening stanza reminds me a visiting a hospital. Depending upon the diagnosis, doctors will prepare patients and family members of what to expect and how to be supportive.

But everything inside you knows
There’s more than what you’ve heard
There’s so much more than empty conversations
Filled with empty words

However, when you are told, someone is going to die, it’s much harder to grasp. Knowing what to say and how to say is much more complicated.

And you’re on fire when he’s near you
You’re on fire when he speaks
You’re on fire
Burning at these mysteries

Jason is trying to console Emily’s mom.

Give me one more time around
Give me one more chance to see, yeah
Give me everything you are
Give me one more chance to be near you, yeah

Jason is hoping for another chance to be strong and supportive.

When everything inside me looks like
Everything I hate
You are the hope I have for change
You are the only chance I’ll take

In the film the Ultimate Gift, Jason grow up a spoiled brat, hating the person he had become. Meeting Abigail has helped change Jason.

When I’m on fire when you’re near me
And I’m on fire when you speak
And I’m on fire
Burning at these mysteries
Mysteries
Mysteries

Some people are just easy to talk to. The fire reference could also be the presence of the Holy Spirit who fills someone with words to say when there are uncertain and unsure.

(You’re on fire)
(You’re on fire)
(You’re on fire) I’m standing on the edge of me
I’m standing on the edge of me
I’m standing on the edge of me
I’m standing on the edge of me
I’m standing at the edge of everything I’ve never been before
And I’ve been standing at the edge of me
Standing on the edge

When two strangers come together, sometimes they are the perfect complement to each other. In the music video, Jason is trying to figure out what to do, he finds old letters written to him by his grandfather.

And I’m on fire when you’re near me
And I’m on fire when you speak
Yeah, I’m on fire
Burning at these mysteries
These mysteries
These mysteries
Yeah, your mystery, yeah
You’re a mystery

The mystery is Jason’s pain of his father dying in a plane crash while working for his grandfather. Yet, the more Jason learns from his dead grandfather, the more he is prepared to help Abigail as she faces the thoughts of her daughter Emily dying of cancer. This fire (passion) will bring a light of hope to those facing a dark future.

Final Thoughts:

One of my best friends from high school died of cancer before reaching her 20th birthday. This painful loss led me to become a youth pastor after graduating college. The fire that burned within me was to lead lost souls, struggling with everyday life by pointing young men and women toward eternal security, 1 John 5:12-13. Although I had my ups and downs, being a high school teacher for a decade also allowed me to communicate valuable life lessons to prevent my students from making the same mistakes that I did when I was their age. This is the passion that flows from the lyrics of On Fire.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-April 14

Posted on April 14, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Caught In The Storm (SMASH Cast Version)

Inspiration Behind Caught in the Storm:

Caught in the Storm was an original piece for the television series Smash. This song was written by Benj Pasek and Justin Paul and was featured during season two in the episode The Fallout. Caught in the Storm explores themes of fame and personal transformation amidst adversity.

Biblical Application:

Then the Lord sent a great wind on the sea, and such a violent storm arose that the ship threatened to break up. 5 All the sailors were afraid and each cried out to his own god. And they threw the cargo into the sea to lighten the ship. But Jonah had gone below deck, where he lay down and fell into a deep sleep. 6 The captain went to him and said, “How can you sleep? Get up and call on your god! Maybe he will take notice of us so that we will not perish.” 7 Then the sailors said to each other, “Come, let us cast lots to find out who is responsible for this calamity.” They cast lots and the lot fell on Jonah. 8 So they asked him, “Tell us, who is responsible for making all this trouble for us? What kind of work do you do? Where do you come from? What is your country? From what people are you?” 9 He answered, “I am a Hebrew and I worship the Lord, the God of heaven, who made the sea and the dry land.” 10 This terrified them and they asked, “What have you done?” (They knew he was running away from the Lord, because he had already told them so,) Jonah 1:4-10.

Exegesis of Caught in the Storm:

You can push me away
I can take it
I can make you a promise
and break it
We know the way it goes by now

This song comes from a fictional musical entitled Hit List in Smash. This storm refers to the emotions and struggles the characters go through as their relationship falls apart.

Running off just to see
if I chase you
I pretend I know how to replace you
Still we get tangled up somehow

This is the nature of show business, fighting to see who the star of the show is going to be..

Hear it thunder
And I wonder
How long can I hang on

The fight to stay on top.

I’m caught in the storm
I’m caught in the rain
I’m caught in the rush that hides this pain

The egos in Hollywood are hidden as stars try to remain relevant.

I’m ready to drown
But it’s coming down
But I feel so alive

This stanza illustrates the emotions within a musical.

Just let me go
Just walk away
If you love someone you never let them stay

I’m Caught in the storm

Love makes people confused between trust and freedom.

As the bars on the Bowri are closing
You arrive at the door standing frozen
You say you thought you’d find me here

An action scene in the musical.

Tell me how I begin to forget you
When you keep coming back and I let you
Love me until you disappear

Describing an on again off again relationship.

I’m caught in the storm
I’m caught in the rain
I’m caught in the rush that hides this pain

When you are struggling to survive, you forget about the pain inside your heart.

I’m ready to drown
But it’s coming down
But I feel so alive

This stanza describes the Fallout of emotions.

Just let me go
Just walk away
If you love someone
You never let them stay

Caught in the storm

Sometimes it’s hard to make up your mind.

Let me wash away
You can find me after the flood
Let me wash away

Perhaps a reference to absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Caught in the storm
Caught in the rain
Caught in the rush that hides this pain

The fight to survive.

If you love someone
You find a way to stay
Caught in the storm

If you love someone enough, you’re willing to endure whatever storms to keep love alive.

Final Thoughts:

It’s hard to critic a musical instead of something that happened in real life. If you limit the discussion to being caught in a storm, there are plenty of angles to take. Any type of adversity faced in life makes you mentally tougher. While each situation provides unique challenges, these trials provide opportunities for growth. Although you may not meet each ordeal head on, each experience will result in lessons learned and maturity moving forward. As long you develop a spirit of perseverance, you’ll continue to meet these storms when they come crashing upon your shores.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-April 13

Posted on April 13, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Eric Clapton – Tears In Heaven (Official Video)

Inspiration Behind Tears in Heaven:

Following the accidental death of his 4-year-old son Conor, Eric Clapton was in shock. Conor was with Lory del Santo, Eric’s ex-girlfriend at the time. playing in her apartment. When a window was inadvertently left open, Conor fell to his death. As a father, seeking to come to grips with just happened, part of the grieving process involved writing the song Tears in Heaven.

Biblical Application:

And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Look! God’s dwelling place is now among the people, and he will dwell with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. 4 ‘He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’[b] or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away,” Revelation 21:3-4.

Exegesis of Tears in Heaven:

Would you know my name
If I saw you in heaven?
Would it be the same
If I saw you in heaven?

Eric asks Conor if he would know who he was if they are reunited in heaven.

I must be strong
And carry on
‘Cause I know, I don’t belong
Here in heaven

Eric realizes that he must be strong following Conor’s death, believing that he doesn’t belong in heaven.

Would you hold my hand
If I saw you in heaven?
Would you help me stand
If I saw you in heaven?

Eric longs to be with and touch his son.

I’ll find my way
Through night and day
‘Cause I know, I just can’t stay
Here in heaven

Eric will do what he has to do to get by here on earth.

Time can bring you down
Time can bend your knees
Time can break your heart
Have you begging please
Begging please

There will be moments in life that will bring you to your knees. Shocked, heartbroken and begging for understanding.

Beyond the door
There’s peace, I’m sure
And I know there’ll be no more
Tears in heaven

Eric depicts the reality of Revelation 21:4.

Would you know my name
If I saw you in heaven?
Would it be the same
If I saw you in heaven?

Eric longs to be reunited with Conor.

I must be strong
And carry on
‘Cause I know, I don’t belong
Here in heaven

Eric must press on in his absence.

Lord, I don’t belong
Here in heaven

Either Eric doesn’t believe he is worthy of heaven or that he simply belongs on earth for now.

Yeah, thank you
Thank you
Thank you

Eric thanks God, perhaps for taking care of Conor in heaven.

Final Thoughts:

As a grandfather of two boys, I know how precious life is. When my youngest Walker, was rushed to the hospital two days after he was born, your mind races for understanding. Thankfully, Walker is now home with James and Emma, yet life is fragile, a vapor that appears for a while and then vanishing. The best thing you can do is savor every moment that you have, taking life one day at a time. When you seize each new day, you’ll have no regrets in the future.

by Jay Mankus

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