There’s No Need for Disinformation

Posted on June 4, 2022 by expressyourself4him

The Department of Homeland Security recently announced news of a new Disinformation Governance Board. When an old Tiktok video of the individual selected to oversee this board surfaced, the credibility of this Disinformation Board was immediately put into question. Meanwhile, a tweet by Jeff Bezos called out President Biden for his own disinformation about a false statement on Covid-19 vaccines.

I have no greater joy than this, to hear that my [spiritual] children are living their lives in the Truth, 3 John 1:4.

According to one of Jesus’ former disciples, the Bible has its own plan for dealing with disinformation. At the beginning of one of his last recorded letters, John’s greatest joy as a Christian is to see people, he spiritually mentored to live their lives in the truth of the Bible. Since the Bible contains supernatural power as a living document, Hebrews 4:12, disinformation is exposed by the light of God’s Word.

So Jesus said to those Jews who had believed in Him, If you abide in My word [hold fast to My teachings and live in accordance with them], you are truly My disciples. 32 And you will know the Truth, and the Truth will set you free, John 8:31-32.

Years earlier, John was present when Jesus told his disciples that spiritual truth will set you free. While disinformation, gossip, and rumors continue today, Christians who shine the light and love of Jesus will convict the hearts of those trying to control your speech. Despite the algorithms designed by social media sites that favor progressive ideas, living your life in the Truth will expose disinformation as its espoused.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 6

Posted on September 6, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Six Candles

Inspiration Behind Six Candles:

The lyrics to Six Candles was conceived from personal faith, perseverance, and emotional resilience. This title is a metaphor which represents remaining time and hope. If you wait too long, the light from these Six Candles will be snuffed out. The overriding theme of Six Candles is when facing doubt, negativity, and uncertainty, hold on to belief in yourself and God’s power to overcome adversity.

Biblical Application:

For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons,[k] neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, 39 neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord, Romans 8:38-39.

Exegesis of Six Candles:

You’re amazing but you’re taking too much time
I’ve only got six candles left
And I’m trying to keep this off my mind
It’s getting darker, but it’s the way they make feel
They try to fill my head with questions
They all doubt you, but I know you’re real

Referring to a special person in his life who has a hard time making up their mind. The Six Candles represent a sense of urgency with time running out. Wrestling with doubt, negativity and uncertainty. Other people are trying to help, but their advice is only making this situation worse.

If it takes time then I’ll be patient
Know that I will still believe
I’ll take your hand and hold it tightly
‘Cause I know you’ll carry me

A call for patience, clinging to his spiritual beliefs. Leaning on a close friend or God to get him through this current ordeal.

Take me high, take me in, take these last six candles
And when I’m tired, and wearing thin
Give me the strength to carry on
Here I am, see my hands, take these last six candles
We’re moving on, we’ll keep, keep, moving on

The first chorus provides a sense of urgency. Leaning on a friend or God when his strength gives out. Moving on with life instead of dwelling on the past.

And I’m so thankful for every breath I take
There’s not a moment that goes by
I waste wiping tears out of my crying face
Don’t look so sad, you’ve missed the point

This recent trial has produced a spirt of appreciation and thanksgiving. Remembering the hard times makes you stronger in the future.

I’m still so glad I knew you against the odds
I’ll take my chances and burn this candle through you

Faith, perseverance, and emotional resilience prevailed.

If it takes time then I’ll be patient
Know that I will still believe
I’ll take your hand and hold it tightly
‘Cause I know you’ll carry me

Trials take time to resolve, some taking longer than others. Lean on a friend or the Lord to get you through this.

Take me high, take me in, take these last six candles
And when I’m tired, and wearing thin
Give me the strength to carry on
Here I am, see my hands, take these last six candles
We’re moving on, we’ll keep, keep, moving on

The call to face your trails in life head on. Asking for divine help to make it through.

If I could ever see the way you understand me
When no one else can see it
I know you surround me

Confident in God’s presence and power to endure.

I’ll be the one who listens only when you tell me
Not walking but running, not talking, yelling

Crying out to God or a friend for help.

And they might never understand why I do what I do
But I can only speak my mind
And what I feel is true
I’ll take a vow to be the only one who stands if it takes
All that I am, I will be standing, there, there

Observers will only question what you do or how you respond to adversity. However, when you follow your beliefs and convictions, it doesn’t matter what other people say or think.

Take me high, take me in, take these last six candles
And when I’m tired, and wearing thin
Give me the strength to carry on
Here I am, see my hands, take these last six candles
We’re moving on, we’ll keep, keep, moving on

A call to press on when you are weary.

Take me high, take me in, take these last six candles
And when I’m tired, and wearing thin
Give me the strength to carry on
Here I am, see my hands, take these last six candles
We’re moving on, we’ll keep, keep, moving on

Asking God for the strength to carry on.

Final Thoughts:

Critically Ashamed was one of the last CD’s that I purchased from a local Christian bookstore before it closed. When 2012 began, I was informed that my teaching position would be eliminated at the end of the semester. Listening to Six Candles over and over again got me through this difficult time in my life. When I grew tired and weary, the lyrics helped me press on. I don’t know where I would be today if it wasn’t for Six Candles.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 5

Posted on September 5, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Foreigner – Urgent (Official Music Video)

Inspiration Behind Urgent:

Urgent was spawn from guitarist Mick Jones’s spontaneous musical ideas. The ideal for this song came during a time when Foreigner transitioned toward a more soulful, synth-driven sound. Frontman Lou Gramm portrays a situation where two people recognize their mutual immediate desire and physical attraction. This love at first sight scenario triggers a sense of urgency, to seize the moment or miss this opportunity.

Biblical Application:

The king’s command was so urgent and the furnace so hot that the flames of the fire killed the soldiers who took up Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego, 23 and these three men, firmly tied, fell into the blazing furnace. 24 Then King Nebuchadnezzar leaped to his feet in amazement and asked his advisers, “Weren’t there three men that we tied up and threw into the fire?” They replied, “Certainly, Your Majesty.” 25 He said, “Look! I see four men walking around in the fire, unbound and unharmed, and the fourth looks like a son of the gods.” 26 Nebuchadnezzar then approached the opening of the blazing furnace and shouted, “Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego, servants of the Most High God, come out! Come here!” – Daniel 3:22-26.

Exegesis of Urgent:

[Verse 1]
You’re not shy, you get around
You wanna fly, don’t want your feet on the ground
You stay up, you won’t come down
You wanna live, you wanna move to the sound

An outgoing woman is on the dance floor. A man approaches knowing her reputation.

[Verse 2]
Got fire in your veins
Burnin’ hot, but you don’t feel the pain
Your desire is insane
You can’t stop until you do it again

A reference to a mutual attraction that is initially denied. However, this desire intensifies to the point you feel like you have to respond.

[Pre-Chorus]
But sometimes I wonder as I look in your eyes
Maybe you’re thinkin’ of some other guy
But I know, yes I know, how to treat you right
That’s why you call me in the middle of the night

There is hesitation, unsure that this feeling is mutual. Yet, receiving a call in the middle of the night suggests she has some interests in you.

[Chorus]
You say it’s urgent
So urgent, so oh-oh urgent
Just wait and see
How urgent my love can be
It’s urgent

Is she using this call as an excuse to get your attention? Questions are asked to ascertain what is really going on.

[Verse 3]
You play tricks on my mind
You’re everywhere but you’re so hard to find
You’re not warm or sentimental
You’re so extreme, you can be so temperamental

This woman is taking him on the same emotional roller coaster. I see you around all the time, but when I want to talk, you’re hard to find. This man is tired of her extreme behavior, wanting to know where their relationship stands.

[Pre-Chorus]
But I’m not lookin’ for a love that’ll last
I know what I need and I need it fast
Yeah, there’s one thing in common that we both share
That’s a need for each other anytime, anywhere

Sexual desires are being aroused, looking for a quick fix. Feeling alone likely triggered this feeling. Signs of an on again off again relationship.

[Chorus]
It gets so urgent
So urgent
You know it’s urgent
I wanna tell you it’s the same for me (Ooh-ooh)
So urgent
Just you wait and see
How urgent our love can be
It’s urgent

Being alone triggers a sense of urgency that doesn’t arise when they are with other people.

[Chorus]
You say it’s urgent
Make it fast, make it urgent
Do it quick, do it urgent
Gotta rush, make it urgent
Want it quick
Make it urgent, urgent, emergency
Urgent, urgent, emergency
Urgent (Urgent), Urgent (Urgent), emergency
Urgent (Urgent), Urgent (Urgent), emergency


Signs of co-dependency. the stronger the urge to be together, the greatest the urgency.

[Outro]
So urgent, emergency
Ooh-ooh (Ooh-ooh)
Ooh-ooh (Ooh-ooh)
Ooh-ooh (Ooh-ooh)
It’s urgent

This relationship has become dysfunctional as they treat each other like a drug. After hooking up, this urgent desire is satisfied.

Final Thoughts:

I had a few relationships in college that mirror the lyrics of Urgent. The first relationship ended as my girlfriend never fully got over her ex. Another relationship was with a girl from high school where we met up a few times when we were both lonely. Finally, there was one relationship with a serious girlfriend who would call me out of the blue. All of these relationships were emotionally draining, especially the last one. However, I have learned that whenever a relationship doesn’t have a clear vision or purpose, they will fall apart over time. Maintaining open communication is crucial to building long-lasting relationships.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 4

Posted on September 4, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Tasha Layton // Look What You’ve Done (Official Music Video)

Writing this song was truly a collaboration beginning with Chase N. Cashe along with 40 other individuals. In this day and age, negativity steals headlines and national talking points. Subsequently, Tasha Layton wanted Look What You’ve Done to focus on all that her family and supporters have done behind the scenes. This song serves as a thank you tribute to all the people in her life that have led to Tasha’s successful career.

Biblical Application:

On the Sabbath we went outside the city gate to the river, where we expected to find a place of prayer. We sat down and began to speak to the women who had gathered there. 14 One of those listening was a woman from the city of Thyatira named Lydia, a dealer in purple cloth. She was a worshiper of God. The Lord opened her heart to respond to Paul’s message. 15 When she and the members of her household were baptized, she invited us to her home. “If you consider me a believer in the Lord,” she said, “come and stay at my house.” And she persuaded us, Acts 16:13-15.

Exegesis of Look What You’ve Done:

Look what you’ve done
How could you fall so far
You should be ashamed of yourself
So I was ashamed of myself

Tasha is referring to herself. Likely reflecting upon a rough period of her life. This has resulted in conviction, embarrassment and shame.

The lies I believed
They got some roots that run deep
I let em take a hold of my life
I let em take control of my life

Tasha points to ungodly beliefs, lies that she once held as truth. This mindset made her stubborn, unwilling to change.

Standing in your presence, Lord
I can feel you diggin’ all the roots up
I feel ya healin’ all my wounds up
All I can say is hallelujah

Tasha realizes that she needs to change, uprooting the unhealthy weeds in her life. These wounds will take time to heal, but Tasha is thankful that she is back on the right track.

Look what you’ve done
Look what you’ve done in me
You spoke your truth into the lies I let my heart believe
Look at me now
Look how you made me new
The enemy did everything that he could do
Oh, but look what you’ve done

It appears that Tasha is referring to her parents and the positive upbringing she experienced. The Devil was working overtime to drag down Tasha. Yet God gave Tasha the strength to persevere.

Suddenly all the shame is gone
I thought I was too broken, now I see
You were breaking new ground inside of me

Tasha was set free from her guilt and shame. In the middle of her brokenness, God began healing and restoring Tasha.

Standing in your presence, Lord
I can feel you diggin’ all my roots up
I feel ya healin’ all my wounds up
All I can say is hallelujah

God was helping Tasha overcome all the bad habits in her life. Thankful for the progress that he been made.

Look what you’ve done
Look what you’ve done in me
You spoke your truth into the lies I let my heart believe
Look at me now
Look how you made me new
Oh, the enemy did everything that he could do
Oh, but look what you’ve done

repeating the chorus. A glimpse of how God used Tasha’s parents and supporters to reach new heights.

On the cross, in a grave
With a stone, rolled away
All my debt, it was paid
Look what you’ve done

Tasha gives Jesus the credit in this stanza. Jesus gave up His life to save the world, John 3:16-17.

In my heart, in my mind
In my soul, in my life
With my hands lifted high
I’m singing

Tasha is praising God for her transformed life.

Look what you’ve done
Look what you’ve done in me
You spoke your truth into the lies I let my heart believe
Look at me now
Look how you made me new
Oh, the enemy did everything that he could do
Oh, but look what you’ve done

The final chorus. Repeating as if to let others know, with God all things are possible.

On the cross, in a grave
With a stone, rolled away
All my debt, it was paid
Look what you’ve done

The apostle Paul describes this chorus in Romans 5:7-8.

In my heart, in my mind
In my soul, in my life
With my hands lifted high
I’m singing
Look what you’ve done

A quick summary of how Tasha’s life has been changed.

Final Thoughts:

I stumbled upon Look What You’ve Down during the Coronavirus. I was so moved by the lyrics that I began to share this with friends who needed a boost of encouragement. Every once in a while, a song is released that touches hearts and souls to revive dead and dying dreams. May the lyrics of Look What You’ve Done stir your soul like it has done for me.

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The Message Behind the Music-September 3

Posted on September 3, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Journey – Don’t Stop Believin’ (Official Audio)

Inspiration Behind Don’t Stop Believin’:

When the timing is right, sound advice can serve as a launching pad. The advice given by Jonathan Cain’s father when his son was struggling as a musician led to the formation of Journey’s most iconic hit. The actual words spoken to Jonathan were Don’t Stop Believing or you’re done. Self-belief is what can keep artists going during times of disappointment, failure and setbacks. Without this mentality, Don’t Stop Believin’ wouldn’t be a song and no one would have ever heard of the group Journey.

Biblical Application:

A week later his disciples were in the house again, and Thomas was with them. Though the doors were locked, Jesus came and stood among them and said, “Peace be with you!” 27 Then he said to Thomas, “Put your finger here; see my hands. Reach out your hand and put it into my side. Stop doubting and believe.” 28 Thomas said to him, “My Lord and my God!”29 Then Jesus told him, “Because you have seen me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed,” John 20:26-29.

Exegesis of Don’t Stop Believin’:

Just a small-town girl, livin’ in a lonely world
She took the midnight train going anywhere
Just a city boy, born and raised in South Detroit
He took the midnight train going anywhere

Starting off with a girl who was lost and lonely. A life void of vision. Transitions to a city boy who took the same train, not sure where he was going in life.

A singer in a smokey room
A smell of wine and cheap perfume
For a smile, they can share the night
It goes on, and on, and on, and on

Perhaps referring to Jonathon’s early years as a struggling musician living in Los Angeles. This is where this boy and girl meet.

Strangers waitin’ up and down the boulevard
Their shadows searchin’ in the night
Streetlights, people, livin’ just to find emotion
Hidin’ somewhere in the night

Signs of people living in this world without much hope or promise.

Workin’ hard to get my fill
Everybody wants a thrill
Payin’ anything to roll the dice
Just one more time

Working hard to find a better future. Searching for excitement. This involves taking chances, maybe even gambling.

Some’ll win, some will lose
Some are born to sing the blues

More people lose than win. This leads many to live in poverty throughout their lives.

Whoa, the movie never ends
It goes on, and on, and on, and on

Some trials in life never seem to end.

Strangers waitin’ up and down the boulevard
Their shadows searchin’ in the night
Streetlights, people livin’ just to find emotion
Hidin’ somewhere in the night

A sad reality of people that don’t experience much success in life. Left to live in obscurity.

Don’t stop believin’
Hold on to that feelin’
Streetlights, people

When belief disappears, your career is finished.

Don’t stop believin’
Hold on
Streetlights, people

Stay optimistic.

Don’t stop believin’
Hold on to that feelin’
Streetlights, people

Keep your head up and don’t lose hope.

Final Thoughts:

I was in Junior High when Don’t Stop Believin’ was released. I battled depression for 4 years, struggling to find my place in life. This song would be played every hour on the local radio station, sometimes at the exact same time each hour. Since I didn’t really get into music until 8th grade, my emotional state was like riding on a roller coaster. However, now that I know the inspiration behind Don’t Stop Believin’, I have a better appreciation for this song. Belief gives individuals a reason to get up each day. Yet when belief fades, so do aspiration, dreams and vision for a prosperous life. Therefore, don’t stop believing.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 2

Posted on September 2, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Always On My Mind – David And The Giants

Inspiration Behind Always on My Mind:

Always on My Mind was written by David Huff and Lloyd Bustard. The lyrics refer to God as a constant companion. This mindset comes from growing up in a Christian home where David was encouraged to share the Gospel, good news about Jesus through music. In an age where human beings are abandoning God, Always on My Mind conveys an unwavering faith as a core theme.

Biblical Application:

n your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus: 6 Who, being in very nature[a] God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; 7 rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature[b] of a servant, being made in human likeness. 8 And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death—even death on a cross! – Philippians 2:5-8.

Exegesis of Always on My Mind:

In every moment, I know You are there
Caring and sharing Your love
A constant companion, You’re like no one else
That ever has entered my life

Starting to grasp God’s omnipresence on earth. This sense of God being present conceived the mindset of a spiritual constant companion. God has been faithful.

And I wanna tell You, Lord
You’re always, always on my mind
I could never forget You
Always, always in my heart
And that’s the place that I need You
Forever and ever You will stay
Always on my mind

A chorus that serves as a way to thank God for being there in times of trouble throughout life. God has become David’s top priority in life. This heart of gratitude spawned a mindset of thankfulness.

When I first met You, You made me a promise
That You would be with me till the end
Mountains or valleys, stormy or sunshine
Truly I can say that I’m blessed

Likely referring to David’s first encounter with God, likely at a church, spiritual retreat or summer camp. David began reading the Bible to understand who he was praying to. As David began to grasp God’s nature, he felt blessed.

And I wanna tell You, Lord
You’re always, always on my mind
I could never forget You
Always, always in my heart
And that’s the place that I need You
Forever and ever You will stay, always

The chorus is repeated. David was overwhelmed by how much that God has transformed his life.

Life is a song that’s filled with Your love
And it stays with me through all the day long
When the sun’s going down, I know in the night
You’ll be there if anything should go wrong

David developed a solid foundation of faith. Reaching a point where darkness and doubt would not waver his belief.

And I wanna tell You, Lord
You’re always, always on my mind
I could never forget You
Always, always in my heart
And that’s the place that I need You
Forever and ever You will stay
Always on my mind

This chorus serves as a vow. Marking David’s decision to follow Jesus. Turning back isn’t an option.

Final Thoughts:

I saw David and the Giants in concert back in 1994. This was one of the first Christian bands I heard which had a cool, hip sound, but didn’t compromise or water down their lyrics. When I had a vision to start a radio station back in the early 1990’s, David and the Giants was one of the groups on my initial play list of 2700 minutes of music. While I kept this large notebook over the years, this project was too expensive to compete within this new era of digital music. Although my taste of music has changed over the years, David and the Giants holds a special place in my heart as their song Perfect Love was sung at my wedding.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 1: A Season of Transition

Posted on September 1, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Earth, Wind & Fire – September (Official HD Video)

Monthly Theme:

Whether you are in school, starting a new job or thinking about retirement, September is often marked by a Season of Transition. If you are heading off to college, moving to a new school or changing careers, this month will include making new friends, reconnecting with people from your past and learning new skills. Although change isn’t easy. sometimes you need to reinvent yourself so that you’ll be better prepared for the future. This month’s selection of songs touch on the emotional highs and lows of relationships as well as trials that you’ll face in life.

Inspiration Behind September:

September promotes a carefree philosophy of living in the moment. Featured in the movie Night at the Museum, September was crafted to inspire people to dance as well as to celebrate the good times you experience in life. Approaching nearly 50 years since its release, September has become a timeless classic often used in fall celebrations.

Biblical Application:

Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. 23 Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror 24 and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. 25 But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it—not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it—they will be blessed in what they do, James 1:22-25.

Exegesis of September:

Do you remember
The 21st night of September?
Love was changing the minds of pretenders
While chasing the clouds away

Looking back at a specific date. This special day changed the way many people thought about love.

Our hearts were ringing
In the key that our souls were singing
As we danced in the night, remember
How the stars stole the night away, oh yeah

This event was celebrated by many people like a royal wedding. To those in attendance, the dance floor was open all night. Either a reference to dancing outside at night or a celebrity ball.

Hey, hey, hey
Ba-dee-ya, say, do you remember?
Ba-dee-ya, dancing in September
Ba-dee-ya, never was a cloudy day

This was a special evening that is often brought up in discussions.

Ba-du-du, ba-du-du, ba-du-du, ba-du-du
Ba-du-du, ba-du-du, ba-du-du, ba-du-du
Ba-du-du, ba-du-du, ba-du-da

A fun transition.

My thoughts are with you
Holding hands with your heart to see you
Only blue talk and love, remember

Thinking about a special person. Perhaps memories of their wedding.

How we knew love was here to stay

A wedding where those in attendance realized that they belonged together.

Now December, found the love we shared in September
Only blue talk and love, remember
The true love we share today

Fond memories of their marriage.

Hey, hey, hey
Ba-dee-ya, say, do you remember?
Ba-dee-ya, dancing in September
Ba-dee-ya, never was a cloudy day
There was a
Ba-dee-ya, say, do you remember?
Ba-dee-ya, dancing in September
Ba-dee-ya, golden dreams were shiny days

A time of reminiscing.

The bell was ringing, oh, oh
Our souls were singing
Do you remember
Never a cloudy day, yow

Wedding day bells. Closely knitted. Looking at life with a positive perspective.

There was a
Ba-dee-ya, say, do you remember?
Ba-dee-ya, dancing in September
Ba-dee-ya, never was a cloudy day
And we’ll say
Ba-dee-ya, say, do you remember?
Ba-dee-ya, dancing in September
Ba-dee-ya, golden dreams were shiny days

Repeating the chorus with fond memories of the past.

Ba-dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya
Ba-dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya
Ba-dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya
Ba-dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya
Ba-dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya
Ba-dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya

A good beat to dance to.

Final Thoughts:

My oldest son James celebrated a birthday by taking some friends to see Night at the Museum. Subsequently, whenever I hear September, I think of this movie about a man who was struggling in life until one evening as a night janitor transformed his perspective on life. Renewed with confidence, hope and purpose, Larry Daley came home from work a different person with a bounce in his step. This is what can happen on a special day this month.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-August 31

Posted on August 31, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Skarlett Riot – Rising (Official Music Video 2015)

Inspiration Behind Rising:

Skarlett Riot created a sung to encourage listeners to bounce back from adversity. This rock band from Scunthorpe, England formed 5 years before releasing Rising. When you are young, you can feel invincible until disappointment, failure and trials put your confidence to the test. Rising serves as an anthem for individuals who refuse to quit.

Biblical Application:

If you falter in a time of trouble, how small is your strength! – Proverbs 24:10

Exegesis of Rising:

I saw it comin now,
When I looked into your eyes,
You knew I wouldn’t last,
In this cruel world,
You can’t deny,
They pulled me down,
And dragged me round like a puppet,
On a string now,
Controlled by you,
Made out a fool,

A failed relationship and the consequences that followed.

Like a phoenix up above,
Rising from the flames,
I’ll be back again,
I feel much stronger now,
You won’t know how,
To shoot me down again,
These wounds have healed with time,
But they scar for life,
I won’t be hurt again,
Like a phoenix up above,
Rising from the flames,

Beside the heartache, frustration and pain, Skarlett possesses resolve to press on. She’ll be back.

I‘ll be back again,
I’ll be back again…

I’ll be back again…

She doesn’t give a time frame, but she will recover.

You’ve got a lotta nerve,
To attack me with your venom,
You’ve got a lot to learn,
You’re not so shy when your alone,
I’ll get revenge,
I’m not as shy as I once was,
This world is better off,
Without people like you,

Skarlett was verbally abused either by a former boyfriend or parent. This situation has made her more vocal, realizing that the world is better off without human beings who spew venomous words.

Oh am I too cruel?
Oh am I too cruel?

She admits to being able to be cruel and petty.

Like a phoenix up above,
Rising from the flames,
I’ll be back again,
I feel much stronger now,
You won’t know how,
To shoot me down again,
These wounds have healed with time,
But they scar for life,
I won’t be hurt again,
Like a phoenix up above,
Rising from the flames,

Don’t let adversity hold you down for long. Rise up from the ashes of failure and rejection. While she still may be hurt, she is resilient.

I’ll be back again,
I’ll be back again…
I’ll be back again…

Eager to recover by coming back stronger than ever.

You’ll get what you deserve,
I’ll get my revenge, revenge,
Your poisonous mouth,

You’ll reap what you sow.

Wont hurt me now,
I’m immune to your curse,
And all your wickedness,
All your wickedness

I’m done with you. You can’t hurt me now.

Like a phoenix up above,
Rising from the flames,
I’ll be back again,
I feel much stronger now,
You won’t know how,
To shoot me down again,
These wounds have healed with time,
But they scar for life,
I won’t be hurt again,
Like a phoenix up above,
Rising from the flames,
I’ll be back again,
I’ll be back again…
I’ll be back again…
Ill be back again…
Ill be back again…

Ending with an extended chorus. Using Greek Mythology to highlight the importance of coming back from defeat and failure. Despite the pain, get back up and rise again.

Final Thoughts:

I discovered Skarlett Riot during the Coronavirus. While working in isolation, I was able to listen to music at work while I was problem solving. As the calendar turns the page tomorrow to September, don’t let the disappointments of this summer hold you down. Rather, rise from the ashes of defeat so that this fall you’ll be back again, stronger than ever.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-August 30

Posted on August 30, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Michael Jackson – Man In The Mirror (Official Video)

Inspiration Behind Man in the Mirror:

Man in the Mirror was conceived from a desire to create a song that would serve as an anthem for social change. At this stage in Michael’s career, Jackson was acutely aware of global issues such as poverty, apartheid, environmental degradation, and inequality. Siedah Garrett had been developing the concept of Man in the Mirror for a year, jotting down notes as a vision for this song became clear. When Michael noticed Garrett’s written lines about a man looking in the mirror, the direction for this song was captured.

Biblical Application:

When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known, 1 Corinthians 13:11-12.

Exegesis of Man in the Mirror:

[Intro]
Mm-mm-mm
Ah, ooh, uh, uh

Warm up, ready to start.

[Verse 1]
I’m gonna make a change for once in my life
It’s gonna feel real good
Gonna make a difference, gonna make it right, ah, uh
As I turned up the collar on my favorite winter coat
This wind is blowin’ my mind
I see the kids in the street with not enough to eat
Who am I to be blind, pretending not to see their needs?

Michael was tired about talking about change without any actions. He began to take his role as a celebrity serious. While he was getting dressed on a cold winter day, his eyes were opened to the poverty surrounding him.

[Pre-Chorus]
A summer’s disregard,a broken bottle top
And a one man’s soul
They follow each other on the wind, ya know
‘Cause they got nowhere to go
That’s why I want you to know

Alluding to the homeless who follow each other as they have no place to go.

[Chorus]
I’m starting with the man in the mirror
I’m asking him to change his ways
And no message could have been any clearer
If you wanna make the world a better place
Take a look at yourself and then make a change

Michael begins by looking at his own life to see how he can make a difference. Change starts with yourself by looking deep inside your heart and soul. Searching for conviction to be transformed into an agent of change.

[Post-Chorus]
Na-na-na, na-na-na, na-na, na-na
Uh-huh

A fun transition.

[Verse 2]
I’ve been a victim of a selfish kinda love
It’s time that I realize
There are some with no home
Not a nickel to loan
Could it be really me pretending that they’re not alone?

Michael had been so self-absorbed that he didn’t recognize all the needy people that he passed daily. Change begins with a random act of kindness that spreads to the point that you are inspired to give.

[Pre-Chorus]
A willow deeply scarred, somebody’s broken heart
And a washed-out dream (Washed-out dream)
They follow the pattern of the wind, ya see
‘Cause they got no place to be
That’s why I’m starting with me

The need to become aware of your surroundings. To stop, see and start acting out in love.

[Chorus]
I’m starting with the man in the mirror (Who?)
I’m asking him to change his ways (Who?)
And no message could have been any clearer
If you wanna make the world a better place
Take a look at yourself and then make a change
I’m starting with the man in the mirror (Who?)
I’m asking him to change his ways (Who?)
And no message could have been any clearer
If you wanna make the world a better place
Take a look at yourself and then make that change
I’m starting with the man in the mirror (Man in the mirror, oh, yeah)
I’m asking him to change his ways (Change his ways)
(Oh, you better change)
And no message (Ooh, ooh) could have been any clearer

Michael is singing to himself. As if he was giving himself a pep talk to try harder. Don’t wait for others to do something. Be the catalyst by deciding to start making a difference today.

[Bridge]
If you wanna make the world a better place
Take a look at yourself and then make the change
You gotta get it right while you got the time
‘Cause when you close your heart (You can’t)
Then you close your mind (Close your, your mind)

You can make a difference in this world if you want to. However, you must have a sense of urgency or you’ll be lulled back into a state of complacency.

[Chorus]
(That man, that man) I’m starting with the man in the mirror
(That man)
(Ohh yeah)
(That man, that man) I’m asking him to change his ways
(That man, the man, you know, that man)
(Well, I’ll change)
And no message could have been any clearer (Ooh, ooh)
If you want to make the world a better place
Take a look at yourself and then make that
(Take a look at yourself and then make that)
Change

The final chorus hoping to inspire others to make a difference in this life.

[Post-Chorus]
Hoo, hoo (Na-na-na, na-na-na, na-na, na-na), hoo, hoo, hoo, hoo, hoo
Gonna feel real good (Oh, yeah)
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah (Na-na-na, na-na-na, na-na, na-na)
Yeah, yeah, oh no, oh no

Giving makes you feel good.

[Outro]
I’m gonna make a change
It’s gonna feel real good, shamone (Change)
Just lift yourself, you know
You’ve got to start with yourself, brother, (Yeah) hoo
(Make that change) I gotta make that change today, hoo (Man in the mirror) You’ve got to, you got to start with yourself, brother, hoo (Yeah)
You know (Make that change)
I started with that man, that man (Man in the mirror)
You’ve got to, you’ve got to move, shamone, shamone
You’ve got to stand up (Yeah), stand up (Make that change), stand up, stand up and lift yourself now (Man in the mirror)
Hoo, hoo, hoo, oww (Yeah, make that change)
Go make that change, shamone (Man in the mirror)
You know it, you know it, you know it, you know (Change)
Make that change

Final call to action, challenging listeners to get off the sidelines and begin to help their fellow citizens. Make a change today.

Final Thoughts:

My first job after graduating college was in social work. I was a Summer Workcamp Coordinator for the Methodist Action Program in Wilmington, Delaware. I worked with local churches to set up one day, weekend and weeklong service projects in needy neighbors. One of my favorite memories is when a youth group transformed a drug infested playground full of glass, overgrown weeds and trash. By the end of the day, children began to play here for the first time in months. This is how change occurs.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-August 29

Posted on August 29, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Icon For Hire – Get Well

Inspiration Behind Get Well:

Icon for Hire explores self-destructive behavior, the desire for change, and the longing for genuine connection within Get Well. The lyrics address individuals who use their pain as a way to gain attention and validation from others. This form of self-infliction is called out in Get Well, urging listeners to get help before their condition worsens.

Biblical Application:

Heal me, Lord, and I will be healed; save me and I will be saved, for you are the one I praise, Jeremiah 17:14.

Exegesis of Get Well:

We throw tantrums like parties
We’re not happy ’til everyone knows we’re sick
And that’s just how we like it
We’ve hurt bad enough, right, we’ve earned it

Addressing individuals who don’t know how to express how they feel. Making a scene so that other people realize that they need help. Someone wanting to become the center of attention.

Don’t tell the others but it’s all getting old
I mean how many more times must our stories be told?
And being lonely’s only fun in a group
But sort of loses its charm when it’s true

Friends begin to notice this pattern. This situation isn’t improving. Being the center of attention has lost its charm.

I meant it when I said I wanna get well, I wanna get well
Are the rest of you so content?
Stay where you are but it hurts like hell
And I’m sure it’s fun at first
Test your pulse and check your vitals
If it’s only a game you lost me
I quit it with the suicidal recital

While this person wants to get well, they aren’t showing signs of improvement. This group is trying to hold their friend accountable, to become self-reliant. Yet this constant talk of suicide is concerning.

So now you know all my secrets
I want out, I know I don’t need this
Can you find me friends that don’t rank me on what I’ve been through
The more battle scars the more attention it gets you

This individual that needs help appears to have become co-dependent, acting out to get more attention. Her current friends are simply feeding her desire for attention.

Don’t tell the others but it’s all getting old
I mean how many more times must our stories be told?
And being lonely’s only fun in a group
But sort of loses its charm when it’s true

The chorus repeats itself as friends are beginning to see through this charade.

I meant it when I said I wanna get well, I wanna get well
Are the rest of you so content?
Stay where you are but it hurts like hell
And I’m sure it’s fun at first
Test your pulse and check your vitals
If it’s only a game you lost me
I quit it with the suicidal recital

The victim’s point of view. You can’t see the pain deep inside my heart. These soul spirit hurts are triggering thoughts of suicide.

Yeah, we should’ve known it would end this way
What did you expect? Pretend it all away
And all we’ve got left is a sorry pile of hearts
I’m getting out, gonna write myself a new start
Come on dry your eyes, meet me on the other side
Run as fast as you can and we’ll make it out alive
We know better now, we don’t have to live like this
Go tell them all, we don’t have to live like this

Friends aren’t surprised by a lack of progress. Hearts are still wounded. The victim is at a crossroads, after crying she realizes the need to flee this unhealthy pattern. You don’t have to live like this anymore.

I meant it when I said I wanna get well…

Wanting to get well but unable to change her ways.

I meant it when I said I wanna get well, I wanna get well
Are the rest of you so content?
Stay where you are but it hurts like hell
And I’m sure it’s fun at first
Test your pulse and check your vitals
If it’s only a game you lost me
I quit it with the suicidal recital
If it’s only a game you lost me
I quit it with the suicidal recital

A friend is in desperate need of an intervention. A group of girls have tried to help but have failed to improve her condition. Although suicidal thoughts have subsided, professional and or spiritual assistance is needed.

Final Thoughts:

When I was first introduced to the concept of accepting Jesus as the Savior of my life, I joined a sharing group at church to find out more what his actually meant. One of the high school girls had a rough childhood, revealing deep dark secrets from her past. However, each preceding week, this girl became like the woman in Get Well. Instead of getting better, this gal tried to become the center of attention week after week. While not everyone requires intervention, children who have experienced traumatic events growing up often require years of counseling to be healed.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-August 28

Posted on August 28, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Starship – We Built This City (Official Music Video) [HD]

Inspiration Behind We Built this City:

Starship’s We Built This City was conceived from a combination of personal experiences, industry observation, and creative reshaping. The WE include song writers Bernie Taupin and Martin Page with production input from Dennis Lambert and Peter Wolf. When Starship’s producers heard the demo, they decided to transform it into a pop hit, shifting their attention from the city of Los Angeles to San Francisco.

Biblical Application:

So neither the one who plants nor the one who waters is anything, but only God, who makes things grow. 8 The one who plants and the one who waters have one purpose, and they will each be rewarded according to their own labor. 9 For we are co-workers in God’s service; you are God’s field, God’s building, 1 Corinthians 3:7-9.

Exegesis of We Built This City:

We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll
Built this city
We built this city on rock and roll, oh

Music inspires construction workers as they build the latest project.

Say you don’t know me
Or recognize my face
Say you don’t care who goes
To that kind of place
Knee-deep in the hoopla
Sinking in your fight
We’ve got too many runaways
Eating up the night

A reference to societal influences. Meanwhile, city and local rules make construction projects complicated. Then, there is a mention to the breakdown of the family resulting in numerous homeless teenagers.

Marconi plays the mambo
Listen to the radio, don’t you remember?
We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll

Perhaps cars stuck in traffic, rolling down their windows as music from a local radio station airs.

We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll
Built this city

We built this city on rock and roll

Music provides a pulse and sets the tone for residents living in this city.

Someone always playing
Corporation games
Who cares they’re always changing
Corporation names
We just wanna dance here
Someone stole the stage
They call us irresponsible
Write us off the page

Alluding to politics within construction projects in major cities. Referring to a new night club. Receiving negative press for something that other people did.

Marconi plays the mambo
Listen to the radio, don’t you remember?
We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll

The lead into the chorus is repeated. Music influences the moods of people.

We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll
We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll
We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll
We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll

Starship’s song has continued the power that music has on impacting cities.

It’s just another Sunday
In a tired old street
Police have got the chokehold, oh
And we just lost the beat

Morning patrols are trying to be proactive to prevent violence in an unsafe part of town.

Who counts the money
Underneath the bar?
Who rides the wrecking ball
Into our guitars?
Don’t tell us you need us
‘Cause we’re the ship of fools
Looking for America
Coming through your schools

Exposing corruption within local businesses. Perhaps a jab at government planning, who decides which establishments remain and which are torn down. Government lies about decaying public schools.

Marconi plays the mambo
Listen to the radio, don’t you remember?
We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll

The closing stanzas end with the chorus. The power of music inside of vehicles.

We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll
We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll

Local clubs and radio stations provide soul to their residents.

We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll
We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll, oh

Los Angeles and San Franciso were built by construction workers listening to music.

Final Thoughts:

When I got my first Walkman for Christmas, I immediately began to play music when I went running. Whenever a great song started playing, adrenaline filled my body, propelling me to run faster and faster. When I wasn’t running, I played certain songs to prepare my mind before swim meets and golf matches. If things started to get out of control, words from a chorus would get me back on track to fight through adversity. This is how music has impacted my life.

by Jay Mankus

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