There’s No Need for Disinformation

Posted on June 4, 2022 by expressyourself4him

The Department of Homeland Security recently announced news of a new Disinformation Governance Board. When an old Tiktok video of the individual selected to oversee this board surfaced, the credibility of this Disinformation Board was immediately put into question. Meanwhile, a tweet by Jeff Bezos called out President Biden for his own disinformation about a false statement on Covid-19 vaccines.

I have no greater joy than this, to hear that my [spiritual] children are living their lives in the Truth, 3 John 1:4.

According to one of Jesus’ former disciples, the Bible has its own plan for dealing with disinformation. At the beginning of one of his last recorded letters, John’s greatest joy as a Christian is to see people, he spiritually mentored to live their lives in the truth of the Bible. Since the Bible contains supernatural power as a living document, Hebrews 4:12, disinformation is exposed by the light of God’s Word.

So Jesus said to those Jews who had believed in Him, If you abide in My word [hold fast to My teachings and live in accordance with them], you are truly My disciples. 32 And you will know the Truth, and the Truth will set you free, John 8:31-32.

Years earlier, John was present when Jesus told his disciples that spiritual truth will set you free. While disinformation, gossip, and rumors continue today, Christians who shine the light and love of Jesus will convict the hearts of those trying to control your speech. Despite the algorithms designed by social media sites that favor progressive ideas, living your life in the Truth will expose disinformation as its espoused.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-April 30

Posted on April 30, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Joan Osborne – One Of Us

Inspiration Behind One of Us:

Joan Osborne began to question the nature of God and the role faith plays. Meanwhile, if you do have a personal encounter with God, the lyrics prepare listeners for this experience. Co-writer of One of Us, Eric Bazilian, sought to provoke thoughts and challenge any previous assumptions about God. Joan of Arcadia, a drama on CBS that aired for two seasons, adopted One of Us as its theme song. The lyrics fit well into the concept of God speaking face to face with a high school girl.

Biblical Application:

While Peter was still speaking these words, the Holy Spirit came on all who heard the message. 45 The circumcised believers who had come with Peter were astonished that the gift of the Holy Spirit had been poured out even on Gentiles. 46 For they heard them speaking in tongues[b] and praising God. Then Peter said, 47 “Surely no one can stand in the way of their being baptized with water. They have received the Holy Spirit just as we have.” 48 So he ordered that they be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ. Then they asked Peter to stay with them for a few days, Acts 10:44-48.

Exegesis of One of Us:

So one of these nights and about twelve o’clock
This old world’s gonna reel and rock
Saints will tremble and cry for pain
For the Lord’s gonna come, in his heavenly airplane

Yeah-yeah, yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah

Joan brings up the second coming of Jesus. An open-ended question is used as if to ask, when Jesus does return will you be ready, prepared?

If God had a name, what would it be?
And would you call it to His face
If you were faced with Him in all His glory?
What would you ask if you had just one question?

Eric and Joan use questions and thoughts about God’s nature in this stanza. Yet if you did have an encounter with God, what would it be like.

And yeah, yeah, God is great
Yeah, yeah, God is good
Yeah, yeah, yeah-yeah-yeah

Basic assumptions about God.

What if God was one of us
Just a slob like one of us
Just a stranger on the bus
Tryin’ to make His way home?

This stanza challenges people to be aware of your surroundings, maybe an angel or God is sitting next to you?

If God had a face, what would it look like?
And would you want to see
If seeing meant that you would have to believe
In things like Heaven and in Jesus and the saints
And all the prophets?

Thoughts about seeing verse believing. Faith without sight.

And yeah, yeah, God is great
Yeah, yeah, God is good
Yeah, yeah, yeah-yeah-yeah

Acknowledging God’s greatness.

What if God was one of us
Just a slob like one of us
Just a stranger on the bus
Tryin’ to make His way home?

How can you help God? Who does God want you to meet today?

Tryin’ to make His way home
Back up to Heaven all alone
Nobody callin’ on the phone
‘Cept for the Pope, maybe in Rome

The Girardi Family in Joan of Arcadia are Catholic which either explains this reference to the Pope or that many Americans were raised in Roman Catholic churches.

Yeah, yeah, God is great
Yeah, yeah, God is good
Yeah, yeah, yeah-yeah-yeah

Repetitive reference to God’s character.

What if God was one of us
Just a slob like one of us
Just a stranger on the bus
Tryin’ to make His way home?

Identify God or needy individuals.

Just tryin’ to make His way home?
Like a holy rolling stone?
Back up to Heaven all alone
Just tryin’ to make His way home?

Thoughts on how God works and moves.

Nobody callin’ on the phone
‘Cept for the Pope, maybe in Rome

Assuming that the current Pope is in tune with God, keeping in step with the Holy Spirit, Galatians 5:25.

Final Thoughts:

The Joan of Arcadia series is one of the closest that Hollywood has come to identifying biblical traits of a living God. While some of the theology of this drama is warped, I watched episodes from season 2 on You-Tube. Although the quality may not be great, watching this series made me examine my faith and become more proactive in sharing my faith. Watching all 40 plus episodes will help stretch your concepts about God being one of us.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-April 29

Posted on April 29, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Led Zeppelin – Stairway To Heaven (Official Audio)

Inspiration Behind Stairway to Heaven:

Jimmy Paige and Robert Plant received inspiration from the serene surrounding of Bron-Yr-Aur in Wales. This collaboration blended mystical folk influences with a progressive rock vision. Living in a remote cottage, Paige began to experiment with acoustic guitar chords while Robert started writing the lyrics. As the Stairway to Heaven began to take shape, Paige envisioned a piece that would accelerate and intensify from start to finish, using a layer textures and overdubs to complete this masterpiece.

Biblical Application:

 Jacob left Beersheba and set out for Harran. 11 When he reached a certain place, he stopped for the night because the sun had set. Taking one of the stones there, he put it under his head and lay down to sleep. 12 He had a dream in which he saw a stairway resting on the earth, with its top reaching to heaven, and the angels of God were ascending and descending on it, Genesis 28:10-12.

Exegesis of Stairway to Heaven:

There’s a lady who’s sure all that glitters is gold
And she’s buying a stairway to Heaven

This song begins with a woman who believes that by using materialism, her worldly wealth, a spot in heaven can be purchased.

When she gets there she knows, if the stores are all closed
With a word she can get what she came for

Ooh, ooh, and she’s buying a stairway to Heaven

Robert Plant paints a picture of a wealthy woman going shopping, willing to pay whatever the price for a way into heaven.

There’s a sign on the wall, but she wants to be sure
‘Cause you know sometimes words have two meanings

This woman looks for a sales associate to confirm if this piece, a stairway to heaven is for sale.

In a tree by the brook, there’s a songbird who sings
Sometimes all of our thoughts are misgiven

It’s unclear if this setting is nearby or at the top of the stairway. Things aren’t always what they appear as the thoughts in human minds can be deceiving.

Ooh, it makes me wonder
Ooh, makes me wonder

Heaven is a topic which makes human being contemplate the afterlife.

There’s a feeling I get when I look to the West
And my spirit is crying for leaving

This reference is likely referring to leaving their remote cottage in Wales, traveling west back to the United States for their next tour.

In my thoughts I have seen rings of smoke through the trees
And the voices of those who stand looking

This could be a reference to Far East mysticism, people performing some type of sacred ritual.

Ooh, it makes me wonder
Ooh, really makes me wonder

During the 1970’s and 1980’s, many bands were searching for meaning in life. Musicians would dabble in different religions, looking for answers. Groups like U2 went through a Christian phase with albums Someday Bloody Sunday and the Unforgettable Fire.

And it’s whispered that soon if we all call the tune
Then the piper will lead us to reason

While pied pipers played an instrument, they also represent strong leaders who guide lost individuals toward the truth.

And a new day will dawn for those who stand long
And the forests will echo with laughter

Oh-oh-oh-oh-whoa

As a new age, day begins, those who have not wavered, standing strong, will be rewarded.

If there’s a bustle in your hedgerow, don’t be alarmed now
It’s just a spring clean for the May queen
Yes, there are two paths you can go by, but in the long run
There’s still time to change the road you’re on

Perhaps a reference to Jesus in Matthew 7:13-14, the broad road that leads to destruction and barrow path which few follow.

And it makes me wonder
Ohh, whoa

These two options in life make Robert Plant think.

Your head is humming, and it won’t go, in case you don’t know
The piper’s calling you to join him

Thoughts can bombard your mind as a modern-day piper is urging you to join him.

Dear lady, can you hear the wind blow? And did you know
Your stairway lies on the whispering wind?

Perhaps Plant is the sales associate trying to convince this woman shopper that you can’t buy your way into heaven.

And as we wind on down the road
Our shadows taller than our soul
There walks a lady we all know
Who shines white light and wants to show
How everything still turns to gold
And if you listen very hard
The tune will come to you at last
When all are one, and one is all
To be a rock and not to roll

A stanza representing universalism. If everyone gets into heaven, what’s the point of living a holy life, pleasing to God.

And she’s buying a stairway to Heaven

This woman is putting her faith into materialism, not the God of the Bible.

Final Thoughts:

When Stairway to Heaven first came out, there were rumors that if you played this song backwards on a record player, this song was of the Devil. Yet, when you analyze the lyrics, Robert Plant is searching for meaning in life. If Robert realized that you couldn’t buy your way into heaven, he was on the right track. Unfortunately, in the spiritual dimension unveiled in Ephesians 6:12, there are invisible forces tugging rock stars toward the highway to hell. The answer that many are searching for can be found in 1 John 5:11-13. This is the assurance of knowing you can secure your eternal destination before you die.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-April 28

Posted on April 28, 2026 by expressyourself4him

MILEY CYRUS – THE CLIMB (Lyrics)

Inspiration Behind the Climb:

The Climb was conceived by Jessi Alexander and Jon Mabe. Both writers drew from their experiences in the music industry, recognizing that every project contains obstacles in the way. While playing her guitar one day, the melody to the Climb came to Jessi. The lyrics was inspired by feeling like an underdog in the music industry. Words like “it’s not a race” point to a steady climb to the top.

Biblical Application:

Do you not know? Have you not heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth.
He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom. 29 He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. 30 Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; 31 but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint, Isaiah 40:28-31.

Exegesis of the Climb:

I can almost see it
That dream I’m dreaming
But there’s a voice inside my head saying
You’ll never reach it

Doubt and unbelief are some of the greatest obstacles to fulfilling dreams you have in life.

Every step I’m taking
Every move I make feels
Lost with no direction
My faith is shaking

Sometimes a lack of direction or progress makes you second guess yourself.

But I, I gotta keep trying
Gotta keep my head held high

Reaching your dreams involves a spirit from within to press on.

There’s always gonna be another mountain
I’m always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be an uphill battle
Sometimes I’m gonna have to lose
Ain’t about how fast I get there
Ain’t about what’s waiting on the other side
It’s the climb

Life is a marathon, not a sprint. You have to pace yourself, make necessary sacrifices and wait until dreams come true.

The struggles I’m facing
The chances I’m taking
Sometimes might knock me down, but
No, I’m not breaking

Not every song is a success. Failure provides opportunities for personal growth.

I may not know it
But these are the moments, that
I’m gonna remember most, yeah
Just gotta keep going

Certain rejections in life make you more determined to work harder than ever before.

And I, I gotta be strong
Just keep pushing on, ’cause

Don’t give up. Rather, keep pressing on.

There’s always gonna be another mountain
I’m always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be an uphill battle
Sometimes I’m gonna have to lose
Ain’t about how fast I get there
Ain’t about what’s waiting on the other side
It’s the climb

After reaching one goal, there will be other barriers in life to slow your progress down. You’re not always going to be successful. It doesn’t matter how long it takes as long as you reach your dreams.

Yeah

There’s always gonna be another mountain
I’m always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be an uphill battle
Sometimes you’re gonna have to lose
Ain’t about how fast I get there
Ain’t about what’s waiting on the other side
It’s the climb
Yeah, yeah

This repetitive chorus reinforces that the journey to success is a process that takes time.

Keep on moving, keep climbing
Keep the faith, baby
It’s all about, it’s all about the climb
Keep your faith, keep your faith
Whoa

Keep your faith as you climb. As C.S. Lewis once said, success is the process of arriving.

Final Thoughts:

From a writer’s perspective I’ve dabbled in many different disciplines. I started as a poet, tried songwriting, reached over into short stories and graduated toward screen writing. While I have failed more than anything, I’m still a work in progress as I start my own climb. Where I end up, only God knows, but I press on to express the ideas that God puts on my heart.

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The Message Behind the Music-April 27

Posted on April 27, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Survivor – Eye Of The Tiger (Official HD Video)

Inspiration Behind Eye of the Tiger:

Eye of the Tiger was written for Rocky II, featuring the rematch between Apollo Creed and Rocky Balboa. Slyvester Stallone worked with Survivor to ensure that the lyrics fit into the theme’s resilience and triumph. The concept of developing the Eye of the Tiger became a cultural phenomenon in the 1980’s as athletics went into strict training to obtain this mental edge.

Biblical Application:

Have nothing to do with godless myths and old wives’ tales; rather, train yourself to be godly. 8 For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come, 1 Timothy 4:7-8.

Exegesis of Eye of the Tiger:

Risin’ up, back on the street
Did my time, took my chances
Went the distance, now I’m back on my feet
Just a man and his will to survive

In Rocky I, Rocky went the distance but lost the judge’s decision to Apollo. Once the date for a rematch was set, Rocky went into strict training to prepare for this title bout.

So many times, it happens too fast
You trade your passion for glory
Don’t lose your grip on the dreams of the past
You must fight just to keep them alive

Once you reach a certain level in sports, don’t let glory steal your passion. Stay hungry, don’t settle for anything less and develop a mental toughness to keep your dreams alive.

It’s the eye of the tiger, it’s the thrill of the fight
Risin’ up to the challenge of our rival
And the last known survivor stalks his prey in the night
And he’s watching us all with the eye of the tiger

Trainers are looking to give their boxer the mental edge, void of any fear. This is where athletics are tested to push their body to the limits. The goal is to out prepare your opponent and acquire the Eye of the Tiger, waiting to pounce on your opponent at the moment they show signs of weakness.

Face to face, out on the heat
Hangin’ tough, stayin’ hungry
They stack the odds still we take to the street
For the kill, with the skill to survive

This stanza speaks to the competitive nature, drive and hunger that elite athletes possess.

It’s the eye of the tiger, it’s the thrill of the fight
Risin’ up to the challenge of our rival
And the last known survivor stalks his prey in the night
And he’s watching us all with the eye of the tiger

This chorus highlights the mindset that Rocky adopted going into this title fight. The Eye of the Tiger is associated with a refusal to lose, despite what the odds may be.

Risin’ up, straight to the top
Had the guts, got the glory
Went the distance, now I’m not gonna stop
Just a man and his will to survive

Rocky is trying to repeat his incredible feat in Rocky I, but this time wanting to end this bout walking home with the title belt.

It’s the eye of the tiger, it’s the thrill of the fight
Risin’ up to the challenge of our rival
And the last known survivor stalks his prey in the night
And he’s watching us all with the eye of the tiger

The Eye of the Tiger was adopted by some sports psychologists, wanting their client to develop this edge, a mental toughness unlike any other competitive.

The eye of the tiger

The eye of the tiger

The eye of the tiger

The eye of the tiger

The Eye of the Tiger is the goal, a mindset that will often become the deciding factor between winning and losing.

Final Thoughts:

I ran cross-country and swam in high school. Before any race or swimming event, I would be listening to my Walkman, getting pumped up before this competition. While I never reached my full potential due to a major ankle reconstruction surgery, music pushed me to reach new heights Listening to Eye of the Tiger lead me to reach personal records running and swimming. This is the impact that Eye of the Tiger had on my life.

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The Message Behind the Music-April 26

Posted on April 26, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Gloria Gaynor – I Will Survive

Inspiration Behind I Will Survive:

Gloria Gaynor’s song was inspired by situations which taught her to discover resilience and strength. The lyrics focus on a devastating breakup and Gloria’s journey to recover. This life experience enabled Gloria to overcome adversity, finding strength from within to press on without this significant other.

Biblical Application:

Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as his children. For what children are not disciplined by their father? 8 If you are not disciplined—and everyone undergoes discipline—then you are not legitimate, not true sons and daughters at all. 9 Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us and we respected them for it. How much more should we submit to the Father of spirits and live! 10 They disciplined us for a little while as they thought best; but God disciplines us for our good, in order that we may share in his holiness. 11 No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it, Hebrews 12:7-11.

Exegesis of I Will Survive:

At first I was afraid
I was Petrified
Kept thinking I could never live
Without you by my side

After being dumped, Gloria doubted that she would ever recover.

But then I spent so many night
Thinking how you did me wrong
And I grew strong
And I learned how to get along

Many nights of reflection helped Gloria realize that she wasn’t treated with respect. This season of growth enabled Gloria to mature and recover.

And so you’re back
From outer space
I just walked in to find you here
With that sad look upon your face

Gloria had no room in her heart to take him back.

I should have change that stupid lock
I should have made you leave your key
If I had known for just one second
You’d be back to bother me

Gloria wished she took financial steps to prevent him from coming back to her place.

Go on now go
Walk out the door
Just turn around now
‘Cause you’re not welcome anymore

Gloria doesn’t hesitate, immediately asking her ex to leave.

Weren’t you the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye
You think I’d crumble
You think I’d lay down and die

I’m done with your stupid mind games.

Oh no not I
I will survive
Oh as long as I know how to love
I know I’ll stay alive

Gloria will be fine on her own, letting love lead the way.

I’ve got all my life to live
And I got all my love to give
I’ll survive
I will survive
Hey hey

This chorus magnifies that Gloria has fully recovered from this devastating breakup.

It took all the strength I had
Not to fall apart
Kept trying hard to mend the pieces
Of my broken heart

A glimpse of the heartache that Gloria endured.

And I spent oh so many nights
Just feeling sorry for myself
I used to cry
But now I hold my head up high

This wasn’t easy but crying has now turned into recovery and rebirth.

And you see me
Somebody new
I’m not that chained up little person
Still in love with you

Gloria is glad that she is free from this past relationship.

And so you felt like dropping in
And just expect me to be free
Well now I’m saving all my loving
For someone who’s loving me

Gloria learned to invest her time into men who appreciate and love her.

Go on now go
Walk out the door
Just turn round now
You’re not welcome anymore

Gloria doesn’t give her ex a second chance, shutting him out.

Weren’t you the one who tried to break me with goodbye
You think I’d crumble
You think I’d lay down and die

I’m not the same woman I was before.

Oh no not I
I will survive
Oh as long as I know how to love
I know I’ll stay alive

I’ll be fine without you as I wait for true love.

I got all my life to live
And I’ve got all my love to give
And I’ll survive
I will survive
Oh

This chorus serves as an anthem for Gloria’s new perspective on life.

Go on now go
Walk out the door
Just turn around now
You’re not welcome anymore

Gloria didn’t wait to repeat the same mistakes of her past.

Weren’t you the one who tried to break me with goodbye
You think I’d crumble
You think I’d lay down and die

Gloria is now mentally tough to recognize the games her ex tried to play.

Oh no not I
I will survive
Oh as long as I know how to love
I know I’ll stay alive

She is better off without him.

I’ve got all my life to give
And I’ve got all my love to give
And I’ll survive
I will survive
I will survive

Gloria is ready for the next phase in her life, waiting on love.

Final Thoughts:

As someone who was dumped multiple times in high school, I spent too much time dwelling on my past instead of looking forward to the future like Gloria. During my 5 years of college, I matured, breaking off friendships with girls who took an emotional toll on my soul. My recovery occurred through Christian friends and my relationship with Jesus. To individuals who grew up in a strict household, you learned right from wrong, even if it was painful. The people who really care about you will confront areas that you need to address. If you want the very best for someone, flawed characteristics need to be corrected until you reach your full potential in life. Although these conversations can be dicey, experiencing tough love will make you a better person in the future.

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The Message Behind the Music-April 25

Posted on April 25, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Capital Kings – I Can’t Quit (ft. Reconcile) [Official Music Video]

Inspiration Behind I Can’t Quit:

Capital Kings wanted to create to song centered around a message of resilience and determination. The lyrics point to a theme of perseverance by pushing through life’s challenges while staying true to one’s goals. The chorus and title I Can’t Quit serves as a heightened state of determination. Regardless of how bad your situation may get, maintain a resolve to persevere.

Biblical Application:

“How will this be,” Mary asked the angel, “since I am a virgin?” 35 The angel answered, “The Holy Spirit will come on you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be called[b] the Son of God. 36 Even Elizabeth your relative is going to have a child in her old age, and she who was said to be unable to conceive is in her sixth month. 37 For no word from God will ever fail,” Luke 1:34-37.

Exegesis of I Can’t Quit:

Yeah, yeah
Ain’t, ain’t no way I’m slowing this down
If you see me coming through
Then just know it’s ’bout to get loud

Nothing is going to stop or slow down the progress being made in life.

Okay, I’ve been up for like four days
Paranoia man, I can’t think straight
My mind’s gone in another place
But that’s not how you start
It’s how you finish the race

Despite all the distractions and obstacles, there is a resolve to finish strong.

Say, “Woop!”
Yeah

And I know that it sound like me, it is but it ain’t
My life stays one hundred like it was a bank
Either following up or you’re watching on tape
End up a quitter, that’s something I ain’t

Regardless of what happens, quitting isn’t an option.

I can’t quit (no)
Ain’t nobody flexing with me
I can’t quit (I can’t do it)
I got the keys for the city
I can’t quit (no)
I get it poppin’ like Diddy
I can’t quit (woo)
All of my partners legit
I can’t quit

This mind is fixated on a resolve to persevere.

Put those, put those hands up

Lord knows I got hosts, started rollin’
I see hate in they eyes
Know yourself, know your team
Do they want you to win?

There are vocal doubters, haters and others jealousy of his success in life.

I done failed ’bout a hundred times
More I fall then the more I climb
Have fun, say it with me
Long as He got me, I’m winning

Failure is a part of life, but climbing over defeat is the key to victory.

Oh Lord, I’m a hundred proof
Never quitting and I never lose
Oh Lord, I can see it now
Hands up, I’ma lay it down

A prayer for a mindset to never quit.

Hundred players on the ground
Unashamed, hit the ground
Young king need the crown
My heart, I lay it down

This stanza suggests a desire to give his heart to Jesus.

Can’t stop it now, overcoming
I’m giving it every part of me
Oh this is sick, I’m all about it
Oh no, oh no, oh

Perhaps, this section hints to the Lordship of Christ, living his life as an open book to God.

I can’t quit (woo, woo)
Ain’t nobody flexing with me
I can’t quit
I got the keys for the city
I can’t quit (whippin’ it, whippin’ it)
I get it poppin’ like Diddy
I can’t quit (yeah)
All of my partners legit
I can’t quit

Quitting is not an option.

Final Thoughts:

I was told by doctors that my athletic career was over after suffering a 1 in 100 thousand injury to my left ankle at age 16. After this surgery, there was more optimism, but the odds were still not in may favor. This crisis led me to adopt a “I can’t quit” mindset. Three months later, I was in a swimming pool competing for a state championship. settling for a bronze. I didn’t miss a sports season, finishing my final 2 seasons of golf, and senior year of cross country and swimming. This is what is possible when God fills you with an “I Can’t Quit” attitude.

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The Message Behind the Music-April 24

Posted on April 24, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Lean on Me

Inspiration Behind Lean on Me:

The lyrics of Lean on Me was inspired by Bill Withers rural upbringing in West Virginia. Bill recalls the strong sense of community that surrounded him growing up. This part of West Virginia was filled with friendship, mutual support and the importance of being there for one another in times of need. When Bill moved to Los Angeles to pursue his musical career, he initially felt isolated, lost in a big city. This is the context which led Bill to write Lean on Me, paying tribute to his past.

Biblical Application:

In the same way, you who are younger, submit yourselves to your elders. All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because, “God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.”[a] 6 Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. 7 Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you, 1 Peter 5:5-7.

Exegesis of Lean on Me:

Hmm… hmm-hmm-hmm-hmm
Hmm-hmm-hmm-hmm
Hmm-hmm-hmm-hmm-hmm
Sometimes in our lives
We all have pain
We all have sorrow

Bill is likely thinking about his struggle to adjust to living alone in California.

But if we are wise
We know that there’s always tomorrow

Bill looks to his past to find hope for the future.

Lean on me
When you’re not strong
And I’ll be your friend
I’ll help you carry on…

This is what Bill experienced while growing up in West Virginia.

For it won’t be long
Till I’m gonna need somebody to lean on

Repay the encouragement that you have received from others.

Please swallow your pride
If I have things you need to borrow

It’s okay to ask for help.

For no one can fill
Those of your needs that you won’t let show

Don’t be afraid to open up and share what’s really going on in your life.

You just call on me brother when you need a hand
We all need somebody to lean on

Be available for a friend.

I just might have a problem that you’ll understand
We all need somebody to lean on

Reach out to others who have gone through what you are currently dealing with.

Lean on me
When you’re not strong
And I’ll be your friend
I’ll help you carry on…

It’s okay to show signs of weakness.

For it won’t be long
Till I’m gonna need somebody to lean on

We all need help at some point in life.

You just call on me brother
When you need a hand
We all need somebody to lean on

Let friends know that you’re only a phone call away from help.

I just might have a problem that you’ll understand
We all need somebody to lean on

Look to a mentor for help in a time of need.

If there is a load you have to bear
That you can’t carry

Lean on Jesus, Matthew 11:28-30.

I’m right up the road
I’ll share your load
If you just call me

Don’t try to carry your burdens alone. Let others lighten your load.

Call me
If you need a friend
(call me)
Call me (call me)
If you need a friend
(call me)
If you ever need a friend
(call me)
Call me
(call me) Call me
(call me) Call me
(call me) Call me
(call me)

Friends are just a text or phone call away.

If you need a friend
(call me)
Call me
(call me) Call me
(call me) Call me
(call me) Call me
(call me)

Make yourself available for friends.

Final Thoughts:

My high school youth group taught me to lean on my friends. While I was raised Catholic, I started attending a Methodist youth group in the middle of my sophomore year. These students and leaders became like a second family to me. During one mission trip, I shared secret scars that I tried to carry on my own. These friendships led me into youth ministry and helped me understand the importance of leaning on Jesus on other people.

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The Message Behind the Music-April 23

Posted on April 23, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Mandisa – Overcomer

Inspiration Behind Overcomer:

Mandisa wrote Overcomer following the death of a close friend. Keisha was diagnosed with breast cancer and wasn’t able to recover, claiming another victim to this deadly disease. Mandisa took her friend’s death hard, battling anxiety, hopelessness and suicidal thoughts. The lyrics of Overcomer serve as a personal journey to recover and overcome future adversities in life.

Biblical Application:

Then Jesus’ disciples said, “Now you are speaking clearly and without figures of speech. 30 Now we can see that you know all things and that you do not even need to have anyone ask you questions. This makes us believe that you came from God.” 31 “Do you now believe?” Jesus replied. 32 “A time is coming and in fact has come when you will be scattered, each to your own home. You will leave me all alone. Yet I am not alone, for my Father is with me. 33 “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world,” John 16:29-33.

Exegesis of Overcomer:

Staring at a stop sign
Watching people drive by
T. Mac on the radio
Got so much on your mind
Nothing’s really going right
Looking for a ray of hope

Mandisa is going for a drive to clear her mind. She’s listening to Toby Mac, looking for a ray of hope with nothing seeming to be going right in life.

Whatever it is you may be going through
I know He’s not gonna let it get the best of you

Mandisa points to the lives of her listeners, encouraging them to lean on God so that these daily troubles don’t get the best of you.

You’re an overcomer
Stay in the fight ’til the final round
You’re not going under (you’re not going under)
‘Cause God is holdin’ you right now

The chorus points to a boxer, staying on their feet until the final round. Let God be your strength.

You might be down for a moment
Feeling like it’s hopeless
That’s when He reminds you
That you’re an overcomer (whoa-oh)
You’re an overcomer (whoa-oh)

Bounce back in life by having the faith of an overcomer.

Everybody’s been down
Hit the bottom, hit the ground
Ooh, you’re not alone

Everyone hits rock bottom at some point in life.

Just take a breath, don’t forget
Hang on to His promises
He wants you to know

Reach for and cling to God’s promises in the Bible to get you through tough times.

You’re an overcomer
Stay in the fight ’til the final round
You’re not going under (you’re not going under)
‘Cause God is holding you right now

Never give up. Keep fighting.

You might be down for a moment
Feeling like it’s hopeless
That’s when He reminds you
That you’re an overcomer (whoa-oh)
You’re an overcomer (whoa-oh)

If you do fall, get right back up by developing an overcomer attitude.

The same man, the Great-I-Am
The one who overcame death
Is living inside of you
So just hold tight, fix your eyes
On the one who holds your life
There’s nothing He can’t do

Mandisa appears to point to the words of Hebrews 12:1-3. Keep your head up by fixing your eyes upon Jesus.

He’s telling you (take a breath, don’t forget)
(Hang on to His promises)

Be still before God. As you rest, look to God’s promises in the Bible.

You’re an overcomer
Stay in the fight ’til the final round
You’re not going under (you’re not going under)
‘Cause God is holding you right now

Stay optimistic. Don’t let your mind give into defeat.

You might be down for a moment
Feeling like it’s hopeless
That’s when He reminds you
That you’re an overcomer (whoa-oh)
You’re an overcomer (whoa-oh)
You’re an overcomer (whoa-oh)
You’re an overcomer (whoa-oh)

Meditate and memorize Bible verses so that when you’re feeling down, these words will uplift your spirit.

So don’t quit, don’t give in
You’re an overcomer
Don’t quit, don’t give in
You’re an overcomer
Don’t quit, don’t give in
You’re an overcomer
You’re an overcomer

Persevere. Stay mentally tough. Develop an overcomer spirit.

Final Thoughts:

When one of my best friends from high school died of cancer, I was devastated. Maureen’s death took years to overcome, but this struggle led me to become a youth pastor. Each trial that you face in life provide opportunities for spiritual growth. While you might not handle each one well, keep pressing on. If you do, you’ll understand the feeling of becoming an overcomer.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-April 22

Posted on April 22, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Bon Jovi – Livin’ On A Prayer

Inspiration Behind Livin’ on a Prayer:

This song reflects the economic realities of growing up at the bottom end of the middle class. While the characters Tommy and Gina within this song are fictional, the lyrics of Livin’ on a Prayer reflect life experiences of guitarist Richie Sambora. Richie’s Uncle Sal worked on the docks, struggling to make a living. However, the theme of Livin’ on a Prayer points to maintaining a Christian faith despite the struggles of living paycheck to paycheck.

Biblical Application:

“I’m going out to fish,” Simon Peter told them, and they said, “We’ll go with you.” So they went out and got into the boat, but that night they caught nothing. 4 Early in the morning, Jesus stood on the shore, but the disciples did not realize that it was Jesus. 5 He called out to them, “Friends, haven’t you any fish?”“No,” they answered. 6 He said, “Throw your net on the right side of the boat and you will find some.” When they did, they were unable to haul the net in because of the large number of fish, John 21:3-6.

Exegesis of Livin’ on a Prayer:

Once upon a time
Not so long ago

Using a common storyline opening to begin this song.

Tommy used to work on the docks
Union’s been on strike, he’s down on his luck
It’s tough
So tough

Tommy who in real life was Uncle Sal is unable to make any money due to the union strike.

Gina works the diner all day
Working for her man
She brings home her pay, for love
Mm, for love

Gina had to pick up extra shifts to make up the monthly difference of income.

She says, “We’ve gotta hold on to what we’ve got
It doesn’t make a difference if we make it or not
We got each other, and that’s a lot for love
We’ll give it a shot”

These lyrics point a different era in America when married couples were taught to stay together to death do us part. Sure, the current sacrifices Gina had to make sucks, but they have each other for love and support.

Oh, we’re halfway there
Oh-oh, livin’ on a prayer
Take my hand, we’ll make it, I swear
Oh-oh, livin’ on a prayer

The halfway either point to halfway through the month or the Union strike. Living paycheck to paycheck sometimes requires lots of prayer.

Tommy’s got his six-string in hock
Now he’s holding in what he used to make it talk
So tough
Mm, it’s tough

Tommy needed to start selling some valuable possessions to avoid defaulting on their loan or rent.

Gina dreams of running away
She cries in the night, Tommy whispers
“Baby, it’s okay”
Someday

This couple has reached their breaking point, but Tommy provides leadership and hope.

We’ve gotta hold on to what we’ve got
It doesn’t make a difference if we make it or not
We got each other, and that’s a lot for love
We’ll give it a shot

A call to stick together, rise above their current trial.

Oh, we’re halfway there
Oh-oh, livin’ on a prayer
Take my hand, we’ll make it, I swear
Oh-oh, livin’ on a prayer
Livin’ on a prayer

Praying with a sense of urgency.

Ooh, we gotta hold on, ready or not
You live for the fight when that’s all that you’ve got

Don’t give up hope. Keep the faith.

Whoa, we’re halfway there
Whoa-oh, livin’ on a prayer
Take my hand, and we’ll make it, I swear
Whoa-oh, livin’ on a prayer

In real life, Uncle Sal kept his family together through this financial crisis.

Whoa, we’re halfway there
Whoa-oh, livin’ on a prayer
Take my hand and we’ll make it, I swear
Whoa-oh, livin’ on a prayer

During tough times, you need a leader like Sal, who believes they will survive.

Whoa, we’re halfway there
Whoa-oh, livin’ on a prayer
Take my hand and we’ll make it, I swear
Whoa-oh

Leaders are willing take the hand of the doubting and press on with the faith to endure this current storm.

Final Thoughts:

Before attending a youth ministry trade school, I was living in my sister’s basement. I had 2 jobs and made $100 per month. Most of that went toward gas and food. From a financial standpoint, I was on the verge of being homeless. Yet, Christian friends and my faith got me through these times. I was living on a prayer and God provided for my needs.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-April 21

Posted on April 21, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Garth Brooks – Unanswered Prayers

Inspiration Behind Unanswered Prayers:

This song was conceived from a true story about Garth’s first wife Sandy. When you are young, you tend to be short sighted, unaware of the future plans that God has for you. The chorus of Unanswered Prayers came from Garth’s ability to look back at where he was in high school and who he has become as a country singer. The lyrics provide hope to struggling individuals still wondering why God didn’t answer a specific request that they really wanted.

Biblical Application:

When they came to the crowd, a man approached Jesus and knelt before him. 15 “Lord, have mercy on my son,” he said. “He has seizures and is suffering greatly. He often falls into the fire or into the water. 16 I brought him to your disciples, but they could not heal him.” 17 “You unbelieving and perverse generation,” Jesus replied, “how long shall I stay with you? How long shall I put up with you? Bring the boy here to me.” 18 Jesus rebuked the demon, and it came out of the boy, and he was healed at that moment. 19 Then the disciples came to Jesus in private and asked, “Why couldn’t we drive it out?” 20 He replied, “Because you have so little faith. Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you,” Matthew 17:14-20.

Exegesis of Unanswered Prayers:

Just the other night, at a hometown football game
My wife and I, ran into my old high school flame
And as I introduced them, the past came back to me
And I couldn’t help but think, of the way things used to be

A real-life event gave Garth Brooks a chance to play the what if game, if he married his high school sweetheart.

She was the one, that I’d wanted for all times
Each night I’d spend prayin’, that God would make her mine
And if he’d only grant me this wish, I wished back then
I’d never ask for anything, again

Garth believed that this girl was the one for him. Looking back at his past, Garth has perspective which helps him realize that unanswered prayers can be a blessing in disguise.

Sometimes, I thank God, for unanswered prayers
Remember, when you’re talkin’ to the man upstairs
And just because, he doesn’t answer, doesn’t mean he don’t care
Some of God’s greatest gifts, are unanswered prayers

God responds to prayers in 3 ways: yes, no and maybe later in life.

She wasn’t quite the angel, that I remembered in my dreams
And I could tell, that time had changed me
In her eyes too, it seemed
We tried to talk about the old days
There wasn’t much, we could recall
I guess the Lord knows what he’s doin’, after all

This encounter helped Garth realize that this old relationship was shallow, more about physical attraction than depth. Garth came to the conclusion that God knew what he was doing when his prayer went unanswered.

And as she walked away, and I looked at my wife
And then and there, I thanked the good Lord
For the gifts, in my life

Seeing these two women stand side by side helped Garth appreciate Sandy more than ever before.

Sometimes, I thank God, for unanswered prayers
Remember, when you’re talkin’ to the man upstairs
That just because he may not answer, doesn’t mean he don’t care
Some of God’s greatest gifts, are unanswered

God has a reason behind every unanswered prayer. Sometimes you have to wait which Garth compares to one of God’s greatest gifts.

Some of God’s greatest gifts, are all too often unanswered
Some of God’s greatest gifts, are unanswered prayers

This what Garth has learned from unanswered prayers lifted up to the Lord.

Final Thoughts:

As I was about to start my first full-time job following graduating from college, I thought I knew who I was going to marry. One was a close friend and the other was a girl I served with on Lay Witness Mission weekends in college. However, when I prayed for discernment, the Holy Spirit led me to pray for a third woman, the unknown. Once the other two had serious boyfriends, I met Leanne at the end of 1993. This prayer was answered a year later when I proposed. Therefore, the next time you don’t receive the answered prayer that you desire, God likely has a blessing in disguise waiting for you in the future.

by Jay Mankus

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