If you have ever been a part of any team, you know that accidents, illness or injuries are bound to occur. Thus, those who sit on the bench need to watch closely in case something unexpected happens. When starters have to be taken out, the observant will know what to do. Unfortunately, the disinterested who do not like to pay attention to details often experience embarrassing moments on the field. For this reason, professional sports have developed a next man up mentality. This concept better prepares alternates, the second string and subs for success when opportunities do arise.
When his father-in-law saw all that Moses was doing for the people, he said, “What is this you are doing for the people? Why do you alone sit as judge, while all these people stand around you from morning till evening?” – Exodus 18:14
In life, God has given individuals the chance to be part of a team through families. Depending upon the leadership and organizations skills of parents, daily responsibilities are broken down into assignments called chores. This use of delegation insures that more than one person is helping out around the house at a time. If a dominant member attempts to do everything on their own, this person will likely get burnt out or when this figure is no longer around, the entire household begins to fall a part. Perhaps, this may explain why mothers are considered the glue that holds a family together.
Moses’ father-in-law replied, “What you are doing is not good. You and these people who come to you will only wear yourselves out. The work is too heavy for you; you cannot handle it alone. Listen now to me and I will give you some advice, and may God be with you. You must be the people’s representative before God and bring their disputes to him, Exodus 18:17-19.
Since my wife’s father’s car accident and subsequent death, I have realized how little I have chipped in to help raise my children. All my energy goes into working, leaving my emotionally and physically drained. Thus, when I am around my house, I do a few things here and there, but not nearly enough as the leader of my household. After reading the words of Jethro, Moses’ father in law, I can see the error of my ways. My priorities have been mainly self-seeking up to this point. Therefore, it’s time for me to step up, to be the kind of father the Lord wants me to be. I still have a long way to go, but at some point in life, everyone needs to lean on the power of the Holy Spirit which fuels hearts to step it up at home.
by Jay Mankus