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The Message Behind the Music-June 7

Posted on June 7, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Good Charlotte – The Anthem (Official Video)

Inspiration Behind the Anthem:

Joel and Benji Madden along with help from John Feldmann wrote a song rejecting the conventional path of going to college so that you can acquire a steady job. While the Anthem was initially designed to be part of a soundtrack, this was released as a standalone single from the 2002 album the Young and the Hopeless. However, 3 years later the Anthem was part of the film The Pacifier, played during a driver’s test.

Biblical Application:

All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our flesh[a] and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were by nature deserving of wrath. 4 But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, 5 made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved. 6 And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, 7 in order that in the coming ages he might show the incomparable riches of his grace, expressed in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus, Ephesians 2:3-7.

Exegesis of the Anthem:

It’s a new day, but it all feels old
It’s a good life, that’s what I’m told
But everything, it all just feels the same

Band member’s question the status quo, believing that modern education is not what it was created to be.

At my high school, it felt more to me
Like a jail cell, a penitentiary
My time spent there only made me see

As a former teacher, some people do better in vocational schools where you learn to trade, avoiding college debt.

That I don’t ever wanna be like you
I don’t wanna do the things you do
I’m never gonna hear the words you say
And I don’t ever wanna

Joel and Benji went to create their own path in life, seeking to go against the flow.

I don’t ever wanna be you
Don’t wanna be just like you
What I’m sayin’ is, this is the anthem
Throw all your hands up
You, don’t wanna be you

This anthem is a call for change.

Go to college or university
Get a real job, that’s what they said to me
But I could never live the way they want

College isn’t what it used to be. Going into debt doesn’t make sense if you don’t know what you want to do with your life.

I’m gonna get by and just do my time
Out of step, while they all get in line
I’m just a minor threat, so pay no mind

This stanza reminds me of a scene from Dead Poets Society, a lesson on conforming to the social norms in life.

Do you really wanna be like them
Do you really wanna be another trend
Do you wanna be part of their drill
‘Cause I don’t ever wanna

A call to think independently, think for yourself.

I don’t ever wanna be you
Don’t wanna be just like you
What I’m sayin’ is, this is the anthem
Throw all your hands up
You, don’t wanna be you

Seek to blaze a new trail and path in life.

Shake it once, that’s fine
Shake it twice, that’s okay
Shake it three times, you’re playing with yourself again

A call to join this anthem.

You, don’t wanna be just like you
What I’m sayin’ is, this is the anthem
Throw all your hands up
Y’all got to feel me, sing if you’re with me

You don’t have to do what everyone else is doing.

You, don’t wanna be just like you (be just like you)
This is the anthem throw all your hands up
Y’all got to feel me, sing if you’re with me

Be a visionary to charter a new way through life.

Another loser anthem (whoa)
Another loser anthem (whoa)
Another loser anthem (whoa)
Another loser anthem

Either the band is dissing their own song, or their anthem isn’t making an impact on their listeners.

Final Thoughts:

It wasn’t until college that I began to rethink why things are the way that they are. Why I wasn’t a rebel, I just started to follow my convictions instead of the social norms of college. I started to re-evaluate my life, figure out what I truly believed and began to learn what it means to keep in step with the Holy Spirit, Galatians 5:25. This is the anthem that I have learned to live by, based upon Proverbs 3:5-6.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-June 2

Posted on June 2, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Don Henley – The Boys Of Summer

Inspiration Behind the Boys of Summer:

Don Henley wrote the lyrics while Mike Campbell created the music for the Boyd of Summer, part of Henley’s solo album Building the Perfect Beast. The words reflect upon a man who can’t get over the girl that left him. Despite this anti-summer message, the Boys of Summer reached #5 on the Top 100 Hot Billboard Charts. The title comes from Roger Kahn’s 1972 baseball book The Boys of Summer. Henley used this a metaphor for youthful. fleeting romance.

Biblical Application:

Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? – 2 Corinthians 6:14

Exegesis of The Boys of Summer:

nobody on the road, nobody on the beach
I feel it in the air, the summer’s out of reach
empty lake, empty streets, the sun goes down alone
I’m drivin by your house, though I know you’re not home

While everyone is now on vacation, out of town, a man is taking a trip down memory lane, checking up on an old girlfriend that he hasn’t been able to let go of.

but I can see you, your brown skin shining in the sun, you got your hair combed back and your sunglasses on, baby I can tell you my love for you will still be strong, after the boys of summer have gone

This man has a flashback of his ex. After any summer flings that she may be having, he wants her to know that his love for her is stronger than ever.

I never will forget those nights, I wonder if it was a dream
remember how you made me crazy, remember how I made you scream
now I don’t understand what happened to our love
but babe I’m gonna get you back, gonna show you what I’m made of

This man has amazing memories of their past together. These special moments revive his desire to get her back, doing everything in his power to show her his relentless love for her.

I can see you, your brown skin shining in the sun, I see you walking real slow, smiling at everyone
I can tell you my love for you will still be strong, after the boys of summer have gone

Another image in his mind of her beauty.

out on the road today I saw a DEAD HEAD sticker on a caddilac
a little voice inside my head said don’t look back you can never look back
I thought I knew what love was, what did I know
those days are gone forever I should just let ’em go, but

A Grateful Dead bumper sticker serves as a reality check to finally move on from this girl. Yet, he is confused, unsure of what love is, clinging to a prayer.

I can see you, your brown skin shining in the sun, you got the top pulled down radio on
I can tell you my love for you will still be strong, after the boys of summer have gone

This man is stuck in the past, unable to let go of her.

I can see you, your brown skin shining in the sun, you got your hair slicked back and those wave fellas on, baby I can tell you my love for you will still be strong, after the boys of summer have gone

He is hoping that time will change her mind, coming back to him in the fall.

Final Thoughts:

As someone who was dumped more in high school than most guys my age, I too struggled to move on. When I was lonely, I drove by the houses of ex-girlfriends, wondering how they were doing. However, while in college, I began to mature. Although it was never easy to move on from someone I cared deeply about, I learned from the school of hard knocks via trial and error. This is simply part of life, living and learning.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-May 26

Posted on May 26, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Mr. Mister – Broken Wings (Official Video)

Inspiration Behind Broken Wings:

The title of this Mr. Mister song comes from Kahlil Gilbran’s 1912 novel The Broken Wings. The book tells the story of a doomed love facing society. between passion and constraint. The song Broken Wings uses metaphors from this novel as well as the band’s personal struggles at this time to craft this in 20 minutes. This collaboration between Frontman Ricard Page, lyricist John Lang and guitarist Steve George prepared the way for Broken Wings to become an instant classic.

Biblical Application:

Praise the Lord, my soul, and forget not all his benefits—3 who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases,4 who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion, 5 who satisfies your desires with good things so that your youth is renewed like the eagle’s, Psalm 103:2-5.

Exegesis of Broken Wings:

Baby, don’t understand
Why we can’t just hold on
To each other’s hands

An attempt to salvage a relationship, asking why can’t we hold hands in public.

This time might be the last, I fear
Unless I make it all too clear
I need you so, oh-oh, oh

A man feels like he is losing this relationship, trying to intervene to save it.

Take these broken wings
And learn to fly again
Learn to live so free
When we hear the voices sing
The book of love will open up and let us in
Take these broken wings

Broken wings could refer to a damaged person or lacking the energy that he once possessed.

Baby, I think tonight
We can take what was wrong
And make it right, mm

A desire to fix, mend and repair this relationship.

Baby, it’s all I know
That you’re half of the flesh
And blood that makes me whole
I need you so

This man can’t imagine his life without this woman.

So, take these broken wings
And learn to fly again
Learn to live so free
And when we hear the voices sing
The book of love will open up
And let us in, yeah, yeah
Let us in
Let us in

Asking for a chance at redemption. The book a love could refer to the Bible or novel the Broken Wings. This man wants the intimacy that he once shared with this woman.

Baby, it’s all I know
That you’re half of the flesh
And blood that makes me whole
Yeah, yeah, yeah
Yeah, yeah

He doesn’t want any other woman. She is the one for him.

So, take these broken wings
And learn to fly again
Learn to live so free
And when we hear the voices sing
The book of love will open up and let us in

Take me back. Let me become the person I once was when we became a couple.

Take these broken wings
You’ve got to learn to fly
Learn to live and love so free
And when we hear the voices sing
The book of love will open up for us
And let us in, yeah, yeah

Yeah, yeah
Ooh

A final prayer to be welcomed back, given another chance and grow in love together.

Final Thoughts:

Prior to the 1600’s, once a household item was broken, it could not be fixed unless it was made out of metal or wood. However, the invention of glue helped repair items that were once thrown away. The invention of Duct Tape in 1942 added new life to cherished household items, even if this wasn’t perfectly glued or taped. Brokenness is an aspect of life that everyone can relate to, especially during mental health awareness month. The Bible illustrates human’s flaws in Romans 3:9-12. Yet, songs like Broken Wings provide a glimpse of hope for the broken-hearted. May the lyrics encourage you like they have blessed me for the past 30 plus years.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-May 25

Posted on May 25, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Winger – Miles Away

Inspiration Behind Miles Away:

Paul Taylor wrote Miles Away, intending that Eric Martin of Mr. Big would agree to sing this. After declining this offer, Taylor gave Miles Away to Winger who released this on their In the Heart of the Young album. Taylor wrote Miles Away for his girlfriend Emi Canyn who was a member of Motley Crew at the time. The lyrics of Miles Away touches on the emotional anguish that occurs during a long-distance relationship.

Biblical Application:

When you were slaves to sin, you were free from the control of righteousness. 21 What benefit did you reap at that time from the things you are now ashamed of? Those things result in death! 22 But now that you have been set free from sin and have become slaves of God, the benefit you reap leads to holiness, and the result is eternal life. 23 For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in[b] Christ Jesus our Lord, Romans 6:20-23.

Exegesis of Miles Away:

(Verse 1)
So this is love, or so you tell me
As you’re walkin’, out the door
Months go by, and I know for certain
It’s not the love, I’m lookin’ for

Two rock stars and different schedules traveling on different tours is extremely hard to handle. These are the emotions that Paul in experiencing in his long distance relationship with Emi.

(Pre Chorus)
Some times, just for a moment
I reach out; hope you’re still there

Perhaps referring to a time of day that they tried to call each other.

(Chorus)
Miles away
No; you’re never turnin’ back
I just can’t wait anymore
Miles away
Nothin’ left of what we had
Just when I needed you most…
You were miles away…

When Paul was experiencing a rough time on tour, he needed someone to be there for him, but Emi was miles away.

(Verse 2)
It’s hard to tell, what you’re goin’ through
You kept your feelings locked inside of you
Open your heart, and chances are
What you’re feelin’, I’m feelin’ too

The frustrations of a long-distance relationship.

(Pre Chorus)
If only, just for a moment
Hold on, to the dreams that we had

A flashback of their relationship prior to being separated.

(Chorus)
Miles away
No; you’re never turnin’ back
I just can’t wait anymore
Miles away
Nothin’ left of what we had
Just when I needed you most
You were miles away

Time apart has slowly eroded the special connection that they once shared.

(Verse 3)
When times were tough, and you were down and out
Who was there by your side?
Now you’ve gone; I’m so tired of bein’ alone..
With only your promises…

This separation has gotten to Paul, losing hope that their relationship will ever be the same.

(Bridge)
Lonliness just fades away
Thoughts of you; just memories
No cryin’ now, for what we’re missin’
Time won’t forget what you meant to me Hold me, just for a moment
Hold on, to the dreams that we had

A glimmer of hope, a glimpse of what once was, fond memories of their beginning.

(Chorus)
Miles away
No; you’re never turnin’ back
I just can’t wait anymore
Miles away
Nothin’ left of what we had
Just when I needed you most, whoa-oh
Miles away
No; you’re never turnin’ back
I just can’t wait anymore
Miles away
Nothin’ left of what we had
Just when I needed you most.

(Outro)
You were mi-les a-way…

If there was a set time to reunite, hope could be salvaged. Yet 2 musicians on 2 different schedules doesn’t seem like it would ever work. This sentiment spawned the chorus, miles away. This is the sad reality of their relationship.

Final Thoughts:

I wrote this blog while being away from my wife Leanne for 8 weeks due to training for a new management position. Although I have been home for a few days, waiting for my next stretch of training, it still sucks to be separated by distance. Yet, we will be reunited in June so there are only a few weeks left until I’ll be back in Virginia for good. When Leanne and I first dated, we lived 8 hours away so I understand the message of Winger’s Miles Away.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-May 23

Posted on May 23, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Drift Away By Uncle Kracker With Lyrics

Inspiration Behind Drift Away:

The original version of Drift Away was released in 1972 by Dobie Gray. Thirty years later, Uncle Kracker felt inspired to create a modern interpretation of this classic. The lyrics of Drift Away explore escapism, healing and the transformative power of music In this month dedicated to mental health awareness, sometimes all you need is a little solitude and a special song to snap you out of depression as friends wait for you to heal.

Biblical Application:

 Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts. 17 And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him, Colossians 3:16-17.

Exegesis of Drift Away:

Day after day I’m more confused
Yet, I look for the light through the pourin’ rain
You know, that’s a game that I hate to lose
And I’m feeling the strain, ain’t it a shame

When you are going through a difficult time in life, healing comes from focusing on the positive aspects of your life. Unfortunate; confusion, depression and hopelessness can lead individuals to withdraw.

Oh, give me the beat boys and free my soul
I wanna get lost in your rock and roll and drift away
Give me the beat boys and free my soul
I wanna get lost in your rock and roll and drift away

Won’t you take me away

Some find healing through music. This is how God soothed King Saul’s soul in the Bible. Certain beats, lyrics and melodies help people take their minds off of ongoing problems.

Beginnin’ to think that I’m wastin’ time
I don’t understand the things I do
The world outside looks so unkind
And I’m countin’ on you, you can carry me through

This stanza appears to reference the words of the apostle Paul in Romans 7:7=20, entangled by some sort of an addiction, bad habit or unwholesome craving. When you find yourself bound by bad decisions, it’s hard to see any good going on in the world. This is when music can provide a message of hope.

Oh, give me the beat boys and free my soul
I wanna get lost in your rock and roll and drift away
Give me the beat boys and free my soul
I wanna get lost in your rock and roll and drift away

Won’t you take me away

This chorus is like a prayer to be set free from the troubles of life. Listening to music has a way of easing this pain.

And when my mind is free
You know your melody can move me
And when I’m feelin’ blue
The guitar’s coming through to soothe me

Uncle Kracker is using music as a form of meditation, to uplift and renew his soul.

Thanks for the joy that you’ve given me
The joy that you’ve given me
I want you to know that I believe in your song
Rhythm, and rhyme, and harmony
You helped me along, you’re makin’ me strong
Oh, you’re makin’ me strong

This stanza is a reflection of how this song spoke to Uncle Kracker. When you put every aspect of this song together, it revitalized and strengthened his soul.

Give me the beat boys and free my soul
I wanna get lost in your rock and roll and drift away
Drift away
Give me the beat boys and free my soul
I wanna get lost in your rock and roll and drift away
Drift away

Repeating this chorus is like getting lost in music, freeing his mind from all anxieties, concerns and worries.

Give me the beat boys and free my soul
I wanna get lost in your rock and roll and drift away
Drift away
Just give me the beat boys and free my soul
I wanna get lost in your rock and roll and drift away

Repeating a desire to get lost in rock music.

Oh, won’t you take me
Oh, won’t you take me
I wanna drift away
Won’t you take me away
I wanna drift away
I wanna drift away
Won’t you take me
Take me home
Let me drift away
Won’t you take me away

A request to release all of his stress by coming absorbed by this song.

Final Thoughts:

Certain songs speak to your heart, soul and mind when the timing is right. I turned to music when girlfriends broke up with me in high school. When I lost a dear friend in college, I turned to Christian music for answers. Finally, when I most my teaching job, FM Static was there to lift me up when my future seemed bleak. This is how music can sooth souls like Drift Away.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-May 21

Posted on May 21, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Sheryl Crow – Soak Up The Sun

Inspiration Behind Soak Up the Sun:

Sheryl Crow and Jeff Trout were on a flight from Portland, Oregon to New York City. On this particular day, it was pouring upon takeoff and sunny when they arrived. This concept of soaking up the sun provided a dual meaning for Cheryl who was recovering from surgery at the time this song was created. The composition of the lyrics to Soak Up the Sun included a discussion on real life issues like the Columbine high school shooting. These current events led to themes of resilience and gratitude with Soak Up the Sun.

Biblical Application:

Let the name of the Lord be praised, both now and forevermore. 3 From the rising of the sun to the place where it sets, the name of the Lord is to be praised, Psalm 113:2-3.

Exegesis of Soak Up the Sun:

My friend the communist
Holds meetings in his RV
I can’t afford his gas
So I’m stuck here watching TV

Despite your political leanings and how this belief impacts local economies, a sunny day can bring different people together.

[Verse 2]
I don’t have digital
I don’t have diddly-squat
It’s not having what you want
It’s wanting what you’ve got

This stanza is about gratitude Instead of thinking about what other people have in life, be thankful for the blessings you do have in life.

[Chorus]
I’m gonna soak up the sun
I’m gonna tell everyone to lighten up
I’m gonna tell ’em that I’ve got no one to blame
For every time I feel lame, I’m lookin’ up

Use sunny days as to recreate. Leave any anxieties, concerns or worries at the front door as you Soak Up the Sun outside.

[Post-Chorus]
I’m gonna soak up the sun
I’m gonna soak up the sun

Seize any sunny days that the good Lord provides.

[Verse 3]
I’ve got a crummy job
It don’t pay near enough
To buy the things it’d take
To win me some of your love

Focusing on a stage in life where many people find themselves, not satisfied with their income or occupation. This impacts your social status and ability to attract others who make more money than you.

[Pre-Chorus]
Every time I turn around
I’m lookin’ up, you’re lookin’ down
Maybe something’s wrong with you
That makes you act the way you do

A powerful stanza about a reality in life. Everyone has a backstory which influences how you act and behave. Unless you get to know someone, you’ll never truly understand why they act the way that they do.

[Chorus]
I’m, I’m gonna soak up the sun
I’m gonna tell everyone to lighten up
I’m gonna tell ’em that I’ve got no one to blame
For every time I feel lame, I’m lookin’ up

The sun can be relaxing if you take your mind off of the stressful aspects in your life. This is the call to lighten up. The last 2 lines provides an important life lesson. Don’t blame others for your lack of progress or success in life. When you are having a bad day, go outside and soak up the sun.

[Bridge]
I’m gonna soak up the sun
While it’s still free
I’m gonna soak up the sun
Before it goes out on me

Having fun in the sun is still free unless you have to pay for beach parking or beach tags. Seize each sunny day.

[Verse 4]
Don’t have no master suite
But I’m still the king of me
You have a fancy ride, but baby
I’m the one who has the key

A stanza about wealth and perspectives as you go through life.

[Pre-Chorus]
Every time I turn around
I’m lookin’ up, you’re lookin’ down
Maybe something’s wrong with you
That makes you act the way you do May I am crazy too

People are different and respond differently. One person may be soaking up the sun on a beach and the person next to them is focused on social media and texting. These differences conceived judgments that may be accurate or wrong.

[Chorus]
I’m gonna soak up the sun
I’m gonna tell everyone to lighten up
I’m gonna tell ’em that I’ve got no one to blame
For every time I feel lame, I’m lookin’ up
I’m gonna soak up the sun
I’m gonna tell everyone to lighten up (To lighten up)
I’m gonna tell ’em that I’ve got no one to blame
For every time I feel lame, I’m lookin’ up (I’m lookin’ up)

Let a sunny day serve as a form of healing. Don’t bring your personal baggage as a way to play the victim card. Take responsibility for your actions, lighten up and enjoy every summer day in your future.

[Outro]
I’m gonna soak up the sun
I got my 45 on
So I can rock on

Sheryl is pleased with the outcome of Soak up the Sun.

Final Thoughts:

Bringing politics into music has ruined my enjoyment of several artists and bands that I once adored in college. If these musicians would have simply saved their political views for debates and discussions with friends, people like me would be more into music. However, Soak Up the Sun provides an important life lesson if you are open minded. The next time you are out soaking up the sun, allow good weather to unite, not divide. Seek to find a common ground or things you share in common. This mindset and perspective would make this world a better place to live.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-May 20

Posted on May 20, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Katrina & The Waves – Walking On Sunshine (Official Music Video)

Inspiration Behind Walking on Sunshine:

Guitarist Kimberley Rew’s original idea for Walking on Sunshine was for this to be a ballad. However, after writing the lyrics, it was apparent that this fun song needed to be more up-tempo. The overriding theme for Walking on Sunshine is joy, passionate about the life you are about to live. You are not just walking, you are floating in the air, fueled by a beautiful day.

Biblical Application:

Will the Lord be pleased with thousands of rams, with ten thousand rivers of olive oil? Shall I offer my firstborn for my transgression, the fruit of my body for the sin of my soul? 8 He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly[a] with your God, Micah 6:7-8.

Exegesis of Walking on Sunshine:

[Intro]
Ow
Mmm, yeah

Setting the tone with excitement and enthusiasm.

[Verse 1]
I used to think maybe you loved me, now, baby, I’m sure
And I just can’t wait ’til the day when you knock on my door
Now every time I go for the mailbox, I’ve gotta hold myself down
‘Cause I just can’t wait ’til you write me you’re coming around

Kimberley thought that someone she was interested in her loved her. She is waiting for him to ask her out, She is also waiting for a letter from him as well.

[Chorus]
Now I’m walking on sunshine, woah-oh
I’m walking on sunshine, woah-oh
I’m walking on sunshine, woah-oh
And don’t it feel good?
Hey, alright now
And don’t it feel good?
Hey, yeah

She is in a great mood, excited about the future while celebrating today.

[Verse 2]
I used to think maybe you loved me, now I know that it’s true
And I don’t want to spend my whole life just awaiting for you
Now, I don’t want you back for the weekend, not back for a day, ah-no-no
I said, baby, I just want you back, and I want you to stay, oh, yeah, now

The potential of this future relationship is boosting her morale.

[Chorus]
I’m walking on sunshine, woah-oh
I’m walking on sunshine, woah-oh
I’m walking on sunshine, woah-oh-oh
And don’t it feel good?
Hey, alright now
And don’t it feel good?
Yeah, oh, yeah, now
And don’t it feel good?

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This chorus points to a positive state of mind.

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[Bridge]
Walking on sunshine
Walking on sunshine
I feel alive, I feel a love
I feel a love that’s really real
I feel alive, I feel a love
I feel a love that’s really real
I’m on sunshine, baby, oh, oh, yeah
I’m on sunshine, baby, oh

She is on an emotional high with love on her mind,

[Chorus]
I’m walking on sunshine, woah-oh
I’m walking on sunshine, woah-oh
I’m walking on sunshine, woah-oh-oh
And don’t it feel good?
Hey, alright now
And don’t it feel good?

This repetitive chorus points to a positive state of mind, feeling great.

[Outro]
I’ll say it, I’ll say it, I’ll say it again now
And don’t it feel good?
Ho, yeah, now
And don’t it feel good?
Now don’t it, don’t it, don’t it, don’t it, don’t it
Don’t it feel good?
I’ll say it, I’ll say it, I’ll say it again now
And don’t it feel good?
Oh, don’t, don’t, don’t, don’t, don’t
And don’t it feel good?
Now tell me, tell me, tell me again now
And don’t it feel good?
Ho, yeah, now
And don’t it feel good?
Oh, don’t it feel good, don’t it feel good?
Now don’t it feel good?
Oh, yeah, oh, yeah, oh, yeah (And don’t it feel good?)
Oh, yeah-yeah-yeah
Oh, yeah, oh, yeah
Oh, yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah (And don’t it feel good?)
Oh, yeah-yeah
Oh, yeah-yeah (And don’t it feel good?)
Oh, yeah-yeah-yeah, woo (And don’t it feel good?)

This final stanza reminds me of a high school girl who is in love, telling all of our friends how great this guy is.

Final Thoughts:

I would live in die with sports and relationships in high school. When I was in love, I was the happiest boy in school. When I got dumped, this joy turned into misery. This emotional roller coaster sucked the joy out of my life. As I matured in college, I began to become even keel, trying to avoid getting my hopes up. Yet when you find the right person, I understand the excitement that Kimberley expresses in Walking on Sunshine,

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-May 16

Posted on May 16, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Poison – Every Rose Has Its Thorn (Lyrics)

Inspiration Behind Every Rose Has It’s Thorn:

Lead singer Bret Michaels experienced the heartbreak of discovering that his partner was unfaithful while out on tour with Poison. Out of this emotional experience in Dallas, Texas, Michaels strummed on his guitar late that night. Using music as a vessel for healing, raw emotions spawned the lyrics to Every Rose Has it’s Thorn. This life experience conceived this 1988 classic metal ballad.

Biblical Application:

In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body, Ephesians 5:28-30.

Exegesis of Every Rose Has It’s Thorn:

We both lie silently still in the dead of the night
Although we both lie close together
We feel miles apart, inside
Was it somethin’ I said or something I did
Did my words not come out right
Tho’ I tried not to hurt you
Tho’ I tried
But I guess that’s why they say

Bret is reflecting upon what went wrong in this relationship, unsure what happened which drove each other apart.

Every rose has its thorn
Just like every night has its dawn
Just like every cowboy sings his sad, sad song
Every rose has its thorn

Yea it does

Bret uses a metaphor to explain how he is feeling inside. The longer you hold a rose, the more likely you’ll get cut or pricked.

I listen to our favorite song playin’ on the radio
Hear the dj say love’s a game of
Easy come and easy go
But I wonder does he know
Has he ever felt like this
And I know that you’d be here right now
If I could have let you know somehow I guess

Listening to the special song they shared brought back a wave of emotions. Yet as Bret does a deep dive of the lyrics, there are certain things not dealt with or expressed.

Every rose has its thorn
Just like every night has its dawn
Just like every cowboy sings his sad, sad song
Every rose has its thorn

This chorus seeks to lay out certain realities in life.

Though it’s been a while now
I still feel so much pain
Like the knife that cuts you the wound heals,
But the scar, that scar remains.

Time hasn’t healed Bret’s broken heart. The Bible refers to this as wounds to your soul.

I know I could have saved our love that night
If I’d know what to say
Instead of making love
We both made our separate ways

Unexpected situations are hard to plan for. Looking back, Bret knows he could have saved their relationship if he just knew what to say.

Now I hear you’ve found somebody new
And that I never meant that much to you
To hear that tears me up inside
And to see you cuts me like a knife, i guess

Bret received news of his ex, doing well and her lack of appreciation for him.

Every rose has its thorn
Just like every night has its dawn
Just like every cowboy sings his sad, sad song
Every rose has its thorn

This rose and this latest update stuck with Bret, hurting more than he realized.

Final Thoughts:

Depending upon how stable someone is, relationships can be dicey. I once dated a girl in college who was ready to move on from me if our date didn’t go well. The pressure eventually got too great for me to handle, going our separate ways like Bret and his girlfriend. However, when you meet someone who is mature and stable, you won’t have as many thorns on this rose. Since all human beings are flawed, love takes a will to overlook the thorns we possess.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-May 14

Posted on May 14, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Barbra Streisand Neil Diamond – You Don’t Bring Me Flowers

Inspiration Behind You Don’t Bring Me Flowers:

Marilyn Bergman told a story about a couple drifting apart at a songwriter’s workshop with Neil Diamond in attendance. Television producer Norman Lear was looking for a theme song for Glitters, asking Neil to write one. Diamond took the idea from this workshop and crafted You Don’t Bring Me Flowers, asking Barbara Streisand to sing this duet. Since Glitter was about the reversal of roles; this concept led Diamond to craft lyrics of a couple sharing their true feelings.

Biblical Application:

Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper, but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy. 14 Blessed is the one who always trembles before God, but whoever hardens their heart falls into trouble, Proverbs 28:13-14.

Exegesis of You Don’t Bring Me Flowers:

You don’t bring me flowers
You don’t sing me love songs
You hardly talk to me anymore
When you come through the door
At the end of the day

The excitement and joy of this relationship is fading away. Conversation has ceased.

I remember when
You couldn’t wait to love me
Used to hate to leave me

Where is the passion that once kept you with me as long as you could stay.

Now after lovin’ me late at night
When it’s good for you
And you’re feeling alright
Well, you just roll over
And you turn out the light

Making love together has all but stopped except when the timing is right.

You don’t bring me flowers anymore

The love that you once clearly displayed is missing.

It used to be so natural
To talk about forever
But ‘used to be’s’ don’t count anymore
They just lay on the floor
‘Til we sweep them away

This relationship is falling apart as this couple seems to be drifting in different direfctions.

And baby, I remember
All the things you taught me
I learned how to laugh
And I learned how to cry
Well I learned how to love
Even learned how to lie

There was a time when this couple invested their time and energy into this relationship. Now they have learned to lie to one another.

You’d think I could learn
How to tell you goodbye
‘Cause you don’t bring me flowers
Anymore

Each is afraid of ending this relationship, but their actions, a lack of love, have clearly spoken.

Well, you’d think I could learn
How to tell you goodbye
‘Cause you don’t bring me flowers
Anymore

There is still hope for love and passion, but thoughts of ending this relationship have become prevalent.

Final Thoughts:

Relationships built on physical attraction often come to an abrupt ending. However, relationships built upon common goals and interests, have a much better chance of surviving. This is where having a will to love someone comes into play. Despite what you experience, feel or see, I won’t stop loving. When couples learn to meet and please the needs of their partners, love only intensifies. This is what is missing from You Don’t Bring Me Flowers where love is all about what have you done for me lately. While all relationships become stale from time to time, helping and serving those whom you love will keep passion alive.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-May 13

Posted on May 13, 2026 by expressyourself4him

The Foundations – Build Me Up Buttercup (Lyric Video)

Inspiration Behind Build Me Up Buttercup:

The Foundations wanted to explore unrequited love and tension that exists within a relationship. Mike d’Abo and Tony Macaulay co-wrote Build Me Up Buttercup about a lover who is strung along by someone who is not interested in him. The Buttercup is symbolic of the flower and candy which highlights the complexities of affections and the desire to be connected with someone that you love.

Biblical Application:

So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live your lives in him, 7 rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness, Colossians 2:6-7.

Exegesis of Build Me Up Buttercup:

Oh, why do you build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, baby, just to let me down (let me down)
And mess me around and then worst of all (worst of all)
You never call, baby when you say you will (say you will)
But I love you still, I need you (I need you)
More than anyone, darlin’
You know that I have from the start
So build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, don’t break my heart

This man wants to be encouraged, not let down. Don’t play mind games with me. Especially when you don’t call. Yet this man still loves her, wanting to be uplifted without being dumped.

“I’ll be over at ten”, you told me time and again
But you’re late, I wait around and then (bah-dah-dah)
I went to the door, I can’t take anymore
Without you, you let me down again

This woman is stringing him along, not really caring about their relationship. This emotional strain is wearing this man out.

(Hey, hey, hey!) Baby, baby, try to find
(Hey, hey, hey!) A little time and I’ll make you mine
(Hey, hey, hey!) I’ll be home
I’ll be beside the phone waiting for you

This man proclaims his dedication in this stanza.

Oh, why do you build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, baby, just to let me down (let me down)
And mess me around and then worst of all (worst of all)
You never call, baby when you say you will (say you will)
But I love you still, I need you (I need you)
More than anyone, darlin’
You know that I have from the start
Build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, don’t break my heart

Despite this verbal commitment, he wonders why she doesn’t build him up. This stanza highlights the complexities of their relationship. His greatest wish is not to have his heart broken.

You were my toy, but I could be the boy you adore
If you’d just let me know (bah-dah-dah)
Although you’re untrue, I’m attracted to you all the more
Why do I need you so

This man is fighting for the woman that he loves despite how she treats him.

(Hey, hey, hey!) Baby, baby, try to find
(Hey, hey, hey!) A little time and I’ll make you mine
(Hey, hey, hey!) I’ll be home
I’ll be beside the phone waiting for you

Just give me a chance and I’ll prove my worth to you.

Why do you build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, baby, just to let me down (let me down)
And mess me around and then worst of all (worst of all)
You never call, baby when you say you will (say you will)
But I love you still, I need you (I need you)
More than anyone, darlin’
You know that I have from the start
Build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, don’t break my heart

His only request is to be affirmed and encouraged.

I-I-I need you (I need you)
More than anyone, baby
You know that I have from the start
Build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, don’t break my heart

This man believes that she will make him complete. He has done everything in his power to make this relationship work. Just don’t break my heart.

Final Thoughts:

When I was in junior high, hardly any girls knew that I existed. There was one girl who pretended to like me, flirting with me at the mall until I overheard her laughing with her friends about me. This continued for about a month until I finally stopped going to the mall. When I think of Build Me Up Buttercup, these are the emotions and feelings that hit home. The disappointments of junior high would be quickly forgotten by my final 2 years of high school. Facing adversity helps produce maturity, allowing me to recover and develop meaningful relationships a few years later.

by Jay Mankus

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