As a former youth pastor, I understand the challenge of getting the attention and gaining the respect of teenagers. Some experts have blamed the loss in attention span to video games, tuning out adults who aren’t interesting. As technological advances continue, this communicate gap will likely expand causing many teenagers to fall asleep spiritually.
Now on the first day of the week (Sunday), when we were gathered together to break bread (share communion), Paul began talking with them, intending to leave the next day; and he kept on with his message until midnight. 8 Now there were many lamps in the upper room where we were assembled, Acts 20:7-8.
A first centurion historian records an unusual event that occurs inside of a three story home, similar to a Cape Cod attic. According to Luke, Paul talked for several hours until midnight. A teenager named Eutychus struggled to stay awake, sitting next to an open window. While a steady breeze appears to keep Eutychus awake initially, at midnight this teenager fell asleep near the edge of the window. Gravity caused Eutychus to fall down and out, three stories to the ground, dead on arrival.
And there was a young man named Eutychus (“Lucky”) sitting on the window sill. He was sinking into a deep sleep, and as Paul kept on talking longer and longer, he was completely overcome by sleep and fell down from the third story; and he was picked up dead. 10 But Paul went down and threw himself on him and embraced him, and said [to those standing around him], “Do not be troubled, because]he is alive,” Acts 20:9-10.
In one of the strangest healing accounts in the Bible, the apostle Paul hugs Eutychus back to life. Since Luke is a doctor, this event appears to dumbfounded him, unable to give any type of logical explanation for how Eutychus is resuscitated. One valuable lesson from this true story is that most teenagers prefer a hug over a rebuke. A public scolding often results in bitterness and rebellion. Meanwhile, using tough love via a hug can diffuse a volatile situation. Thus, the next time you witness a teenager falling asleep spiritually, use a sincere embrace to bring them back to life.
According to Colossians 4:14 and Philemon 1:24, a man named Demas appears to have been involved with Paul’s earthly ministry. Although the exact role served by this man is unclear, Demas devoted a portion of his life to serving God. Apparently, Demas’ passion for the mission field faded away, replaced by a love for pleasures of this world. Based upon the passage below, Demas may have been one of Paul’s converts from Thessalonica, returning home to pursue secular aspirations.
Make every effort to come to me soon; 10 for Demas, having loved [the pleasures of] this present world, has deserted me and gone to Thessalonica; Crescens has gone to Galatia, Titus to Dalmatia, 2 Timothy 4:9-10.
When I first read this passage, I began to wonder why spiritual faith disappears. To a certain extent, our culture is partially responsible, giving modern Christians who leave ministry positions permission to finally get paid a decent wage. My first year as a High School Bible teacher I made a salary of $19,000. A decade later, my final year of teaching earned me just over $30K, which included two coaching positions. You can’t put a price on the spiritual benefits of serving God, but when you are living just above the poverty line, it’s no wonder that more and more individuals leave churches to start a professional career.
But if we have food and clothing, with these we will be content. 9 But those who [are not financially ethical and] crave to get rich [with a compulsive, greedy longing for wealth] fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction [leading to personal misery]. 10 For the love of money [that is, the greedy desire for it and the willingness to gain it unethically] is a root of all sorts of evil, and some by longing for it have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves [through and through] with many sorrows, 1 Timothy 6:8-10.
In the passage above, Paul unveils the mindset which sets the stage for faith to disappear. Perhaps, Paul is referring to Demas or others believers Paul met while on the mission field. Paul suggests that money can trap those who once trusted in the Lord for daily bread to be led astray by a craving for more. As people develop a love for money, faith is often left behind. The apostle Paul wrote a letter to the church in Rome, Romans 8:5-8, eluding to two mindsets, one that focuses on God and the other on worldly desires. Whenever individuals taste forbidden fruit, reaching beyond the line where the grass appears greener sets the stage for faith to disappear. Yet, before your mind becomes hostile to God, think twice before you act so you don’t follow in the footsteps of Demas.
by Jay Mankus
According to Colossians 4:14 and Philemon 1:24, Demas assisted the apostle Paul in some capacity during his missionary journeys. While Demas isn’t considered a dear friend like Luke, this man is referred to as a fellow worker in fulfilling the great commission, Acts 1:8. Yet, as some point Demas had second thoughts of devoting his life to the ministry.
Make every effort to come to me soon; 10 for Demas, having loved [the pleasures of] this present world, has deserted me and gone to Thessalonica; Crescens has gone to Galatia, Titus to Dalmatia. 11 Only Luke is with me. Get Mark and bring him with you, for he is very helpful to me for the ministry, 2 Timothy 4:9-11.
Paul shares this disappointing news in a letter to a teenage pastor. Demas wasn’t the first Christian to abandon Paul on the mission field. Luke describes how Barnabas’ cousin, John Mark departed in Acts 15:38. Biblical scholars blame Mark’s decision on an illness or simply becoming homesick. Whenever believers leave the church to pursue secular aspirations, levels of commitment, faith and maturity are exposed.
But godliness actually is a source of great gain when accompanied by contentment [that contentment which comes from a sense of inner confidence based on the sufficiency of God]. 7 For we have brought nothing into the world, so [it is clear that] we cannot take anything out of it, either. 8 But if we have food and clothing, with these we will be content, 1 Timothy 6:6-8.
The difference between the first century and modern churches is the sense of urgency that existed. Many first century leaders lived their lives as if Jesus was going to return tomorrow. This mentality drove the apostle Paul to seize every opportunity to proclaim Jesus as the Messiah, offering the promise of eternal life to all who would listen, 1 John 5:13. While some modern congregations possess a similar mindset, apathy has caused my faith to slowly disappear.
But those who [are not financially ethical and] crave to get rich [with a compulsive, greedy longing for wealth] fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction [leading to personal misery]. 10 For the love of money [that is, the greedy desire for it and the willingness to gain it unethically] is a root of all sorts of evil, and some by longing for it have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves [through and through] with many sorrows, 1 Timothy 6:9-10.
After spending fifteen years in churches, ten as a Bible teacher and five serving in local youth groups, I deserted the ministry. Living just above the poverty line for a decade was enough for me to pursue temporary pleasures as the apostle Paul suggests. The only trace of my remaining faith exists in this blog. While I am not proud of the person that I have become by living outside of the church, it is what it is for now. My only prayer is that I strive to become a modern day tentmaker, earning enough money to provide for my family while serving the Lord in some other capacity going forward.
If you enjoy binge watching shows on Netflix, then you will see how Hollywood screenwriters reveal a character’s past. As a film or series unfold, bad, evil or troubled souls have a flashback which unveil secret scars. Whether someone was abused, beaten, criticized, teased or verbally assaulted, behind the tears explains why someone has turned out to be the person that they have become. Although this new information provides some insight into behavior patterns, it doesn’t justify wrong actions.
A woman in that town who lived a sinful life learned that Jesus was eating at the Pharisee’s house, so she came there with an alabaster jar of perfume.38 As she stood behind him at his feet weeping, she began to wet his feet with her tears. Then she wiped them with her hair, kissed them and poured perfume on them, Luke 7:37-38.
In the passage above, a first centurion woman had chosen to become a prostitute. Although Luke doesn’t share the details of why she chose this lifestyle, she doesn’t seem very happy or fulfilled. Based upon her tears, this erotic expression of love left a void in this woman’s heart. Perhaps, Jesus’ message of being saved from sin led this woman to crash a social party. While the whole room was judging her due to her tarnished reputation, Jesus enabled himself to be anointed by a well known harlot.
Then he turned toward the woman and said to Simon, “Do you see this woman? I came into your house. You did not give me any water for my feet, but she wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair.45 You did not give me a kiss, but this woman, from the time I entered, has not stopped kissing my feet.46 You did not put oil on my head, but she has poured perfume on my feet.47 Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven—as her great love has shown. But whoever has been forgiven little loves little,” Luke 7:44-47.
In 1992, an alternate praise group called the Violet Burning released the Song of the Harlot. Appearing on the Strength album, this song illuminates this passage in the Bible. The author places an interesting stanza within the lyrics “I’ve cried a million tears maybe more so many times I have been the whore.” Behind the tears, individuals try to grasp why sinful tendencies have become too overwhelming to control. While most do not choose the path of a harlot, other addictions often steal the joy for life. The only consolation for sinners enslaved by addiction is the promise of forgiveness proclaimed by Jesus.
When fairy tale stories come true, sometimes Hollywood is criticized for an unbelievable ending. Yet, what Nate Lashley accomplished last weekend can only be described as a win for the ages. Lashley’s wire to wire victory at the Rocket Mortgage PGA Tour event in Detroit, Michigan seemed surreal. Entering the final round with a six shot lead, commentators suggested that a collapse might come, causing Nate to fold under the pressure. Instead, a Tiger Woods esc domination ensued as Lashley finished 25 under par, breezing to win this PGA event. The context of what happened leading up to this victory makes Lashley’s accomplishment a real life Cinderella story and likely Disney movie in the making.
More than that, we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us, Romans 5:3-5.
Fifteen years ago, Nate Lashley was a rising college star playing for the Arizona Wildcats. While competing in an NCAA qualifying tournament, his parents and girl-friend flew out to watch Nate play in the west regionals. On the return flight, the plane piloted by Nate’s father crashed during a storm killing all three aboard. This tragedy eventually caused Nate to leave golf, making a career as a real estate agent. When Nate’s love for golf returned, nagging injuries prevented Lashley for reaching his full potential. Playing on what is called a major medical exemption, Nate was running out of time to make enough money to keep his PGA tour card. Thus, Nate attempted to Monday qualify for 4 spots in the Rocket Mortgage Tournament. Lashley finished two shots out of a playoff, but a last second withdraw opened the door for Nate to become the last player in the field.
Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing, James 1:2-4.
As a viewer of this amazing feat, Lashley’s rise to the top is a story of courage, faith and perseverance. In the back of any mind, doubts whisper “you’ll never amount to anything; you’re not good enough or you don’t have what it takes.” These inner demons prevent most people from fulfilling their dreams and purpose in life. Yet, Nate Lashley’s win for the ages inspires me to not give up hope on accomplishing my own dreams in life. Just as Jesus’ earthly brother writes about how trials strengthen faith, may God fill you will perseverance to fear any face and climb any mountain, no matter how high, in the future.
Depending upon by your occupation, time is often a driving force, setting daily deadlines for the work that needs to get done. As this specific hour approaches, stress builds as a team of individuals scramble to complete projects and tasks. When deadlines are missed, blame is assigned to designate who or what department is at fault. Thus, under these circumstances, time is the enemy.
So teach us to number our days that we may get a heart of wisdom, Psalm 90:12.
Anyone who works a normal five day week, experiences another aspect of time. When your responsibilities at work overwhelm your soul, time has a way of dragging on, slowing down to the point that one hour feels like 90 minutes. Meanwhile, weekends fly by like a Nascar race. As soon as you sit down to relax for a while, your weekend is gone and over. If you don’t love your job, getting up Monday morning to repeat this vicious cycle will wear you down.
But do not overlook this one fact, beloved, that with the Lord one day is as a thousand years, and a thousand years as one day, 2 Peter 3:8.
In the song Somewhere Somehow, Amy Grant and Michael W. Smith sing about moments in life when time is the enemy. One of my favorite stanzas contain the words “Somewhere far beyond today I will find a way to find you And somehow through the lonely nights I will leave a light in the dark. While the will to love someone on earth may make this a reality, only God will leave a light on in the dark. Thus, when time becomes an enemy, it’s never too late come to Jesus, Romans 10:9-10.
This week the World Health Organization has officially added Burnout Syndrome to its’ list of recognized disorders. Burnout is a psychological term that refers to long-term exhaustion and diminished interest in work. Burnout has been assumed to result from chronic occupational stress. Those most affected by this disorder are individuals forced to work a second job, those seeking to reinvent themselves in a new career after being laid off and workaholics. Whenever human beings do not possess some sort of balance in the form of active hobbies, people are at risk of becoming burned out.
Therefore I urge you, brothers and sisters, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies [dedicating all of yourselves, set apart] as a living sacrifice, holy and well-pleasing to God, which is your rational (logical, intelligent) act of worship, Romans 12:1.
According to a 2015 Gallup Poll, only one third of Americans enjoy and feel engaged by their current occupation. If this study is accurate, nearly 70% of adults go to work each week disappointed, frustrated and unsatisfied with their job. Trying to find what you were born to do or the job or your dreams can be extremely difficult. This search can take months, years and even decades to complete until you find yourself eager to get up daily to do what you love. For those of you in a holding pattern, doing whatever position you have to until another door opens, staying optimistic is hard. Yet, as individuals wrestle with symptoms of the burnout syndrome, there is a cure for this disorder in the Bible.
And do not be conformed to this world [any longer with its superficial values and customs], but be transformed and progressively changed [as you mature spiritually] by the renewing of your mind [focusing on godly values and ethical attitudes], so that you may prove [for yourselves] what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect [in His plan and purpose for you], Romans 12:2.
The apostle Paul writes a letter to the church at Rome to help people feeling lost, not sure about what direction to take in life. Overcoming the burnout syndrome begins with viewing your life as a gift from God. Just as Rush Limbaugh has coined the phrase “talent on loan from God, ” each day on earth should be devoted to becoming a living sacrifice for God. When a decision is made to dedicate your life to God, holiness and worship become a daily priority. According to Paul, as believers begin to read, study and meditate upon the Word of God, the Bible, hearts and mind become aligned with God. Therefore, if you want to overcome the burnout syndrome, begin the quest to ascertain God’s will for your life so that your job will become a mission from above.
Twenty four hours ago, I was celebrating my oldest son’s wedding. As I witnessed James and Emma’s love for one another, an overwhelming sense of joy touched my heart. This event highlights a blessing from God as the giver of life in the form of gifts from above, James 1:17. Unfortunately, I received a text a few hours ago informing me that my uncle John, my dad’s oldest brother, passed away this afternoon. This wave of emotions has reminded me of the giving and taking of life.
So Satan departed from the presence of the Lord and struck Job with loathsome boils and agonizingly painful sores from the sole of his foot to the crown of his head. 8 And Job took a piece of broken pottery with which to scrape himself, and he sat [down] among the ashes (rubbish heaps), Job 2:7-8.
Every month or so I stumble upon a television evangelist who paints the Christian life through rose colored glasses. These messages follow the same script, promising that the moment you enter into a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, all of your troubles will disappear. While new believers will possess a new found hope, this depiction of life is not realistic. With every blessing, individuals will also endure hardship, pain and suffering. According to Job, you have to accept the good with any bad that comes your way.
Then his wife said to him, “Do you still cling to your integrity [and your faith and trust in God, without blaming Him]? Curse God and die!” 10 But he said to her, “You speak as one of the [spiritually] foolish women speaks [ignorant and oblivious to God’s will]. Shall we indeed accept [only] good from God and not [also] accept adversity and disaster?” In [spite of] all this Job did not sin with [words from] his lips, Job 2:9-10.
In the passage above, Job’s wife speaks as if thinking out loud. As she witnessed the boils covering her husband, anguish, grief and frustration motivated her response to “curse God and die.” In the heat of the moment, knee jerk reactions are a common occurrence. Nonetheless, if you are looking for answers to why God allows bad things to happen to good people, Job nails it! You must accept the good with the bad. According to one of Jesus’ disciples, going through trials are designed to build character, 1 Peter 1:6-7. Therefore, If you want to possess a realistic approach to life, roll with the punches as you experience the giving and taking of life.