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The Message Behind the Music-May 31

Undo Me – Jennifer Knapp (Official Music Video)

Inspiration Behind Undo Me:

Jennifer Knapp uses Undo Me as a way to apologize to her family. The lyrics speak to confessions in relationships with her father, sister, mother and brother. This stems from growing uo in a broken home, resulting in the divorce of her parents. When Jennifer became a Christian in college, she uses this song to mend the fences of broken relationships from her past. Undo Me also serves as a personal prayer to become more like Jesus.

Biblical Application:

If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. 10 If we claim we have not sinned, we make him out to be a liar and his word is not in us, 1 John 1:8-10.

Exegesis of Undo Me:

Papa, I think I messed up again
Was it somethin’ I did?
Was it somethin’ I said?
I don’t mean to do You wrong, it’s just the way of human nature
Sister, I know I let you down
I can tell by the fact you’re never comin’ ’round
You don’t have to say a thing
I can tell by your eye, exactly what you mean
That it’s…

Jennifer is blaming herself for something she did or said to escalate a situation at home. Human nature in the form of her flesh got the best of Jennifer. Jenifer also realizes that she set her sister off as well.

Time to get down on my knees
And pray, “Lord, undo me
Put away my flesh and bone
‘Til You own this spirit through me, Lord
Undo me”

These events lead Jennifer to pray. She is seeking to undo her sinful ways, to be replaced by the Holy Spirit.

Mama, I know I made ya cry
But I never meant to hurt you
I never meant to lie
While the world shook its head in shame, I let you take the blame
Brother, I know you labored so hard to please
Yeah, yeah, yeah

Jennifer know turns her attention to her mother who is likely living on her own after the divorce. The shame reference is probably the cause or reason for her parents’ divorce. Finally, Jennifer apologizes to her brother who looked up to her.

But I cut ya down and I left you
On your knees
Well, I know it must be, yeah…

Instead, I hurt you deeply with my actions and tongue.

Time to get down on my knees
And pray, “Lord, undo me
Put away my flesh and bone
‘Til You own this spirit through me, Lord”

A prayer for change, to break free from these unholy actions.

I, I am wanting, needing, guilty and greedy
Unrighteous, unholy
Undo me, undo me

The painful reality of the present.

Abba Father, You must wonder why
More times than Peter I have denied
Three nails and a cross to prove
I owe my life eternally to You

Jennifer confesses to denying her faith despite all that God has down for her.

Well, it’s time to get down on my knees
And pray, “Lord, undo me
Put away my flesh and bone
‘Til You own this spirit through me, Lord
Undo me

When you fall from God’s grace, pray for forgiveness and mercy.

Final Thoughts:

Every human being has their own prodigal moment or phase in life, Luke 15. It’s only when you hit rock bottom that you come to your senses. As the month of May comes to an end, don’t be afraid to pour out your heart to God. If and when you do, James 5:16, you’ll feel a whole lot better moving forward.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-May 29

Corey Hart – Never Surrender

Inspiration Behind Never Surrender:

Corey Hart’s Never Surrender was inspired by historical and personal values taught to him by his mother. Corey’s mother instilled within him the mindset of never quitting or giving up on your dreams. Corey also drew from Winston Churchill’s famous speech Never Surrender. during the dark days of World War II. Corey’s song stands as a personal anthem to anyone battling depression, keep fighting and Never Surrender.

Biblical Application:

I rejoiced greatly in the Lord that at last you renewed your concern for me. Indeed, you were concerned, but you had no opportunity to show it. 11 I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. 12 I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. 13 I can do all this through him who gives me strength, Philippians 4:10-13.

Exegesis of Never Surrender:

[Verse 1]
Just a little more time is all we’re asking for
‘Cause just a little more time could open closing doors
Just a little uncertainty can bring you down

Corey is either referring to Winston Churchill or asking his mom for more time. Uncertainty has closed some doors and Corey is not sure what to do.

[Pre-Chorus]
And nobody wants to know you now
And nobody wants to show you how

Failures aren’t helped or show you how to escape this trend.

[Chorus]
So if you’re lost and on your own
You can never surrender
And if your path won’t lead you home
You can never surrender
And when the night is cold and dark
You can see, you can see light
‘Cause no one can take away your right
To fight and to never surrender

Life advice from his mother. Words from a leader to give hope to his troops. Keep going, fight to see a new dayt and never give up hope,

[Verse 2]
With a little perseverance
You can get things done
Without the blind adherence
That has conquered some

Don’t listen to the crowd who follow blindly. Rather, show perseverance by pressing on to avoid defeat.

[Pre-Chorus]
And nobody wants to know you now
And nobody wants to show you how

People don’t follow losers or quitters.

[Chorus]
So if you’re lost and on your own
You can never surrender
And if your path won’t lead you home
You can never surrender
And when the night is cold and dark
You can see, you can see light
‘Cause no one can take away your right
To fight and to never surrender
To never surrender

Corey is being guided by history and biblical values to fight through adversity in life.

[Chorus]
And when the night is cold and dark
You can see, you can see light
No one can take away your right
To fight and to never surrender
To never surrender

Keep hope alive.

[Outro]
Oh, time is all we’re asking for
To never surrender
Oh, you can never surrender
Time is all you’re asking for
Stand your ground, never surrender
Oh, I said you never surrender, oh

Likely a reference to Churchill to encourage his troops while Germany was winning.

Final Thoughts:

While I was a big Corey Hart fan in high school, the story behind Never Surrender makes me wish I knew this back then. When Music Television came out in 1983, I ran from the bus stop to a friend’s house who had cable to watch Behind the Music. I was always fascinated by the backstory to a successful song. Never Surrender provides sound advice to anyone in life on the verge of quitting or giving up on their dreams. Keep battling and never surrender.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-May 24

Warrant – Heaven

Inspiration Behind Heaven:

Heaven was initially recorded by Plain Jane just before it disbanded in 1986. Jani Lane and drummer Steven Sweet auditioned for Warrant later in the year. Performing Heaven together secured their future with Warrant. For Jani Lane, heaven is being with the girl that he loves. Regardless of what anyone else may say, Heaven serves as a power ballad for any couple searching for devotion, joy, love and meaning in life.

Biblical Application:

“Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God[a]; believe also in me. My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. You know the way to the place where I am going.” – John 14:1-4.

Exegesis of Heaven:

[Verse 1]
Got a picture of your house
And you’re standin’ by the door
It’s black and white and faded
And it’s lookin’ pretty worn
See the factory that I worked
Silhouetted in the back
Memories are gray
But man, they’re really coming back

Jani appears to be having a flashback of his first serious girlfriend.

[Pre-Chorus]
I don’t need to be the king of the world
As long as I’m the hero of this little girl

His goal was to win the heart of this special teenager.

[Chorus]
Heaven isn’t too far away
Closer to it every day
No matter what your friends might say

The raw emotions of being with his girlfriend provided a heaven like experience. Jani didn’t care what anyone else thought about these two being together.

[Verse 2]
How I love the way you move
And the sparkle in your eyes
There’s a color deep inside ’em
Like a blue suburban sky
When I come home late at night
And you’re in bed asleep
I’ll wrap my arms around you
So I can feel you breathe

Jani now sings about the woman he is living with, likely the same girl. There are certain aspects that stick out in his mind, things that he has grown to appreciate. Jani just wants to be close to this girl.

[Pre-Chorus]
I don’t need to be a superman, ah ah
As long as you will always be my biggest fan

He wants to please and make this girl feel special, to become her greatest fan.

[Chorus]
Heaven isn’t too far away
Closer to it every day
No matter what your friends might say
We’ll find our way, yeah

Being in the presence of this girl is like having a heaven like experience for Jani.

[Verse 3]
Now the lights are goin’ out
Along the boulevard
The memories come rushin’ back
And it makes it pretty hard
I got nowhere left to go
No one really cares
I don’t know what to do
But I’m never givin’ up on you

Their relationship fell apart. Now Jani is alone, but the memories of their time together are still fresh in his mind. This image leads to hope as Jani is seeking to get back to together.

[Chorus]
Heaven isn’t too far away
Closer to it every day
No matter what your friends say
I know we’re gonna find a way

Jani is still optimistic for reconciliation to occur.

[Outro]
(Heaven)
Whoa, whoa, oh, oh, oh
(Heaven)
Whoa, whoa, oh, oh oh
(Heaven)
It’s not too far away
Oh, oh
Whoa, whoa, oh, oh, oh
Yeah

When around certain people, it brings the best in you out. This is why being with her was like heaven.

Final Thoughts:

I was naive when I first started dating in high school. Every girl that I dated I thought we’d be together forever. It wasn’t until college that I began to mature, viewing each date as a way to figure out what I wanted in a potential wife. These perspectives enabled me to narrow in on a future soulmate. I learned so much over a five-year stretch that I taught a unit on Finding a Soulmate for juniors and seniors in high school. While the Bible is clear about what heaven will be like, there are special people that you will meet in life that will be like angels sent from heaven.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-May 17

Scorpions – Send me an angel (Lyrics) – YouTube

Inspiration Behind Send Me an Angel:

Created for the Scorpions’ Crazy World album, Send Me an Angel is not a typical song associated with this rock group. However, when faced with desperation, unlikely individuals crave, desire and want divine intervention. Send Me an Angel was a team effort with Klaus Meine writing the lyrics, Adolf Schenker composing the melody and the band members adding their insight to complete Send Me an Angel.

Biblical Application:

If you say, “The Lord is my refuge,” and you make the Most High your dwelling, 10 no harm will overtake you, no disaster will come near your tent.11 For he will command his angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways; Psalm 91:9-11,

Exegesis of Send Me an Angel:

Wise man said just walk this way
To the dawn of the light
Wind will blow into your face
As the years pass you by
Hear this voice from deep inside
It’s the call of your heart
Close your eyes and you will find
Passage out of the dark

Klaus isn’t clear on who this wise man is or perhaps an ode to Aerosmith. This opening stanza begins with a specific time when the wind will blow in passing years. Klaus is either referring to a conscience or the tugging on your soul. The final 2 lines suggest a form of meditation or visualization.

Here I am (Here I am)
Will you send me an angel?
Here I am (Here I am)
In the land of the morning star

This changes to a request, asking God to send him an angel. The last 2 lines suggest looking out into the heavens.

Wise man said just find your place
In the eye of the storm
Seek the roses along the way
Just beware of the thorns

A combination of metaphors and perspective wjile in the middle of a storm. Look for the good things in life, but be careful of the thorns, the rough edges of human beings.

Here I am (Here I am)
Will you send me an angel?
Here I am (Here I am)
In the land of the morning star

A resilient cry for help, seeking an angel to guide him.

Wise man said just raise your hand
And reach out for the spell
Find the door to the promised land
Just believe in yourself
Hear this voice from deep inside
It’s the call of your heart
Close your eyes and you will find
The way out of the dark

A combination of poetry, references to the Bible and a commonsense approach of believing in yourself. Listen to your heart to find your way through the darkness.

Here I am (Here I am)
Will you send me an angel?
Here I am (Here I am)
In the land of the morning star (Here I am)
Will you send me an angel?
Here I am (Here I am)
In the land of the morning star (Here I am)

This man is ready for divine intervention, desperately seeking an angel.

Will you send me an angel?
Here I am (Here I am)
In the land of the morning star (Here I am)
Will you send me an angel?
Here I am (Here I am)
In the land of the morning star

A persistent call for divine intervention in the form of an angel.

Final Thoughts:

At some point in life, we all hit rock bottom, unable to escape the spiritual rut human beings are stuck in. Subsequently, why not cry out to God for help. Part of the healing process is recognizing that you can’t do it or make it on your own. Angel are real entities, servants of God sent to help the lost, lonely or forgotten. Don’t take no for an answer. Wrestle with God until an angel arrives.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-May 8

Stellar Kart: Ones and Zeros (Audio)

Inspiration Behind Ones and Zeros:

The Ones and Zeros represent an anthem for unity and the value of human life despite the flaws, imperfections and weaknesses that exist within every human being. Not everyone is a gifted athlete who can shine on a ballfield. We are all created differently, diverse with special gifts and talents that either go unappreciated or unrecognized until later on in life. The opening lyrics point to human fragility, falling down time after time. Despite whatever failures you may endure in life, Ones and Zeros speak to being incomplete, living and learning via trial and errors.

Biblical Application:

For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the faith God has distributed to each of you. For just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, so in Christ we, though many, form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your[a] faith; if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; if it is to encourage, then give encouragement; if it is giving, then give generously; if it is to lead,[b] do it diligently; if it is to show mercy, do it cheerfully, Romans 12:3-8.

Exegesis of Ones and Zeros:

Ashes to ashes, we all fall down
Dust to dust, scattered on the ground
Living in the shadows
Where fear can’t fight
A hope of redemption
None left behind
A voice for those who can’t say a word
To the ears of those who never have heard
It’s the sound that echoes through the night

This song starts with a childhood song about making mistakes in life. Failure and humility often lead human beings to withdraw, living in the shadows of the gifted and talented. To those who rarely succeed, fear may keep you from taking chances in life. While there may be hope for redemption, doubt and unbelief can erode any glimpses of hope. The final 3 lines leading up to the chorus serve as a call that you are not alone.

We are the ones
We are the ones and zeros
The beautiful incomplete
We are the ones
We are the future heroes
A colorful symphony
We are the ones

While it’s never pleasant to fail, the chorus encourages the individuals labeled as ones and zeros to come together. Don’t view this as a permeant status. Rather, as a work in progress. While you may currently be incomplete, you have a bright future.

The dawn or the twilight
It’s all the same
Clear eyes at midnight
We’re all to blame
Chosen for freedom with undue worth
Standing for something that can’t be earned
A voice for those who can’t say a word
To the ears of those who never have heard
It’s the sound that echoes through the night

This stanza serves as a reminder that life is hard as human beings are flawed, fallen creatures with a tendency to fail. Although it’s one thing to accept this reality, you don’t have to live in this humbled state your entire life. There is a message of hope that exists.

We are the ones
We are the ones and zeros
The beautiful incomplete
We are the ones
We are the future heroes
A colorful symphony
We are the ones

Don’t look at yourself as who you are. Begin to see the person that you will become. This positive mindset opens the door to be elevated to the status of future hero. Don’t let failure hold you down. Rise above the ashes of defeat.

Final Thoughts:

After starting my baseball coaching career with 3 straight championships, my 4th year was a complete and total disaster. Injuries and lost players sent this team into a long losing streak to start the season. Every week we found new ways to lose a game. It was during this season that I stumbled upon Ones and Zeros by Stellar Kart. I created a mix for practices, adding this song to my playlist. Although the message of Ones and Zeros may not have resonated with every player, this team improved immensely, battling to the final out. While we were offensively challenged, we did sniff out a few wins before losing in the first round of the playoffs. Whenever I feel defeated today, I play Ones and Zeros to remind me that life is a journey, as human beings are a work in progress.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-April 30

Joan Osborne – One Of Us

Inspiration Behind One of Us:

Joan Osborne began to question the nature of God and the role faith plays. Meanwhile, if you do have a personal encounter with God, the lyrics prepare listeners for this experience. Co-writer of One of Us, Eric Bazilian, sought to provoke thoughts and challenge any previous assumptions about God. Joan of Arcadia, a drama on CBS that aired for two seasons, adopted One of Us as its theme song. The lyrics fit well into the concept of God speaking face to face with a high school girl.

Biblical Application:

While Peter was still speaking these words, the Holy Spirit came on all who heard the message. 45 The circumcised believers who had come with Peter were astonished that the gift of the Holy Spirit had been poured out even on Gentiles. 46 For they heard them speaking in tongues[b] and praising God. Then Peter said, 47 “Surely no one can stand in the way of their being baptized with water. They have received the Holy Spirit just as we have.” 48 So he ordered that they be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ. Then they asked Peter to stay with them for a few days, Acts 10:44-48.

Exegesis of One of Us:

So one of these nights and about twelve o’clock
This old world’s gonna reel and rock
Saints will tremble and cry for pain
For the Lord’s gonna come, in his heavenly airplane

Yeah-yeah, yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah

Joan brings up the second coming of Jesus. An open-ended question is used as if to ask, when Jesus does return will you be ready, prepared?

If God had a name, what would it be?
And would you call it to His face
If you were faced with Him in all His glory?
What would you ask if you had just one question?

Eric and Joan use questions and thoughts about God’s nature in this stanza. Yet if you did have an encounter with God, what would it be like.

And yeah, yeah, God is great
Yeah, yeah, God is good
Yeah, yeah, yeah-yeah-yeah

Basic assumptions about God.

What if God was one of us
Just a slob like one of us
Just a stranger on the bus
Tryin’ to make His way home?

This stanza challenges people to be aware of your surroundings, maybe an angel or God is sitting next to you?

If God had a face, what would it look like?
And would you want to see
If seeing meant that you would have to believe
In things like Heaven and in Jesus and the saints
And all the prophets?

Thoughts about seeing verse believing. Faith without sight.

And yeah, yeah, God is great
Yeah, yeah, God is good
Yeah, yeah, yeah-yeah-yeah

Acknowledging God’s greatness.

What if God was one of us
Just a slob like one of us
Just a stranger on the bus
Tryin’ to make His way home?

How can you help God? Who does God want you to meet today?

Tryin’ to make His way home
Back up to Heaven all alone
Nobody callin’ on the phone
‘Cept for the Pope, maybe in Rome

The Girardi Family in Joan of Arcadia are Catholic which either explains this reference to the Pope or that many Americans were raised in Roman Catholic churches.

Yeah, yeah, God is great
Yeah, yeah, God is good
Yeah, yeah, yeah-yeah-yeah

Repetitive reference to God’s character.

What if God was one of us
Just a slob like one of us
Just a stranger on the bus
Tryin’ to make His way home?

Identify God or needy individuals.

Just tryin’ to make His way home?
Like a holy rolling stone?
Back up to Heaven all alone
Just tryin’ to make His way home?

Thoughts on how God works and moves.

Nobody callin’ on the phone
‘Cept for the Pope, maybe in Rome

Assuming that the current Pope is in tune with God, keeping in step with the Holy Spirit, Galatians 5:25.

Final Thoughts:

The Joan of Arcadia series is one of the closest that Hollywood has come to identifying biblical traits of a living God. While some of the theology of this drama is warped, I watched episodes from season 2 on You-Tube. Although the quality may not be great, watching this series made me examine my faith and become more proactive in sharing my faith. Watching all 40 plus episodes will help stretch your concepts about God being one of us.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-April 23

Mandisa – Overcomer

Inspiration Behind Overcomer:

Mandisa wrote Overcomer following the death of a close friend. Keisha was diagnosed with breast cancer and wasn’t able to recover, claiming another victim to this deadly disease. Mandisa took her friend’s death hard, battling anxiety, hopelessness and suicidal thoughts. The lyrics of Overcomer serve as a personal journey to recover and overcome future adversities in life.

Biblical Application:

Then Jesus’ disciples said, “Now you are speaking clearly and without figures of speech. 30 Now we can see that you know all things and that you do not even need to have anyone ask you questions. This makes us believe that you came from God.” 31 “Do you now believe?” Jesus replied. 32 “A time is coming and in fact has come when you will be scattered, each to your own home. You will leave me all alone. Yet I am not alone, for my Father is with me. 33 “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world,” John 16:29-33.

Exegesis of Overcomer:

Staring at a stop sign
Watching people drive by
T. Mac on the radio
Got so much on your mind
Nothing’s really going right
Looking for a ray of hope

Mandisa is going for a drive to clear her mind. She’s listening to Toby Mac, looking for a ray of hope with nothing seeming to be going right in life.

Whatever it is you may be going through
I know He’s not gonna let it get the best of you

Mandisa points to the lives of her listeners, encouraging them to lean on God so that these daily troubles don’t get the best of you.

You’re an overcomer
Stay in the fight ’til the final round
You’re not going under (you’re not going under)
‘Cause God is holdin’ you right now

The chorus points to a boxer, staying on their feet until the final round. Let God be your strength.

You might be down for a moment
Feeling like it’s hopeless
That’s when He reminds you
That you’re an overcomer (whoa-oh)
You’re an overcomer (whoa-oh)

Bounce back in life by having the faith of an overcomer.

Everybody’s been down
Hit the bottom, hit the ground
Ooh, you’re not alone

Everyone hits rock bottom at some point in life.

Just take a breath, don’t forget
Hang on to His promises
He wants you to know

Reach for and cling to God’s promises in the Bible to get you through tough times.

You’re an overcomer
Stay in the fight ’til the final round
You’re not going under (you’re not going under)
‘Cause God is holding you right now

Never give up. Keep fighting.

You might be down for a moment
Feeling like it’s hopeless
That’s when He reminds you
That you’re an overcomer (whoa-oh)
You’re an overcomer (whoa-oh)

If you do fall, get right back up by developing an overcomer attitude.

The same man, the Great-I-Am
The one who overcame death
Is living inside of you
So just hold tight, fix your eyes
On the one who holds your life
There’s nothing He can’t do

Mandisa appears to point to the words of Hebrews 12:1-3. Keep your head up by fixing your eyes upon Jesus.

He’s telling you (take a breath, don’t forget)
(Hang on to His promises)

Be still before God. As you rest, look to God’s promises in the Bible.

You’re an overcomer
Stay in the fight ’til the final round
You’re not going under (you’re not going under)
‘Cause God is holding you right now

Stay optimistic. Don’t let your mind give into defeat.

You might be down for a moment
Feeling like it’s hopeless
That’s when He reminds you
That you’re an overcomer (whoa-oh)
You’re an overcomer (whoa-oh)
You’re an overcomer (whoa-oh)
You’re an overcomer (whoa-oh)

Meditate and memorize Bible verses so that when you’re feeling down, these words will uplift your spirit.

So don’t quit, don’t give in
You’re an overcomer
Don’t quit, don’t give in
You’re an overcomer
Don’t quit, don’t give in
You’re an overcomer
You’re an overcomer

Persevere. Stay mentally tough. Develop an overcomer spirit.

Final Thoughts:

When one of my best friends from high school died of cancer, I was devastated. Maureen’s death took years to overcome, but this struggle led me to become a youth pastor. Each trial that you face in life provide opportunities for spiritual growth. While you might not handle each one well, keep pressing on. If you do, you’ll understand the feeling of becoming an overcomer.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-April 21

Garth Brooks – Unanswered Prayers

Inspiration Behind Unanswered Prayers:

This song was conceived from a true story about Garth’s first wife Sandy. When you are young, you tend to be short sighted, unaware of the future plans that God has for you. The chorus of Unanswered Prayers came from Garth’s ability to look back at where he was in high school and who he has become as a country singer. The lyrics provide hope to struggling individuals still wondering why God didn’t answer a specific request that they really wanted.

Biblical Application:

When they came to the crowd, a man approached Jesus and knelt before him. 15 “Lord, have mercy on my son,” he said. “He has seizures and is suffering greatly. He often falls into the fire or into the water. 16 I brought him to your disciples, but they could not heal him.” 17 “You unbelieving and perverse generation,” Jesus replied, “how long shall I stay with you? How long shall I put up with you? Bring the boy here to me.” 18 Jesus rebuked the demon, and it came out of the boy, and he was healed at that moment. 19 Then the disciples came to Jesus in private and asked, “Why couldn’t we drive it out?” 20 He replied, “Because you have so little faith. Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you,” Matthew 17:14-20.

Exegesis of Unanswered Prayers:

Just the other night, at a hometown football game
My wife and I, ran into my old high school flame
And as I introduced them, the past came back to me
And I couldn’t help but think, of the way things used to be

A real-life event gave Garth Brooks a chance to play the what if game, if he married his high school sweetheart.

She was the one, that I’d wanted for all times
Each night I’d spend prayin’, that God would make her mine
And if he’d only grant me this wish, I wished back then
I’d never ask for anything, again

Garth believed that this girl was the one for him. Looking back at his past, Garth has perspective which helps him realize that unanswered prayers can be a blessing in disguise.

Sometimes, I thank God, for unanswered prayers
Remember, when you’re talkin’ to the man upstairs
And just because, he doesn’t answer, doesn’t mean he don’t care
Some of God’s greatest gifts, are unanswered prayers

God responds to prayers in 3 ways: yes, no and maybe later in life.

She wasn’t quite the angel, that I remembered in my dreams
And I could tell, that time had changed me
In her eyes too, it seemed
We tried to talk about the old days
There wasn’t much, we could recall
I guess the Lord knows what he’s doin’, after all

This encounter helped Garth realize that this old relationship was shallow, more about physical attraction than depth. Garth came to the conclusion that God knew what he was doing when his prayer went unanswered.

And as she walked away, and I looked at my wife
And then and there, I thanked the good Lord
For the gifts, in my life

Seeing these two women stand side by side helped Garth appreciate Sandy more than ever before.

Sometimes, I thank God, for unanswered prayers
Remember, when you’re talkin’ to the man upstairs
That just because he may not answer, doesn’t mean he don’t care
Some of God’s greatest gifts, are unanswered

God has a reason behind every unanswered prayer. Sometimes you have to wait which Garth compares to one of God’s greatest gifts.

Some of God’s greatest gifts, are all too often unanswered
Some of God’s greatest gifts, are unanswered prayers

This what Garth has learned from unanswered prayers lifted up to the Lord.

Final Thoughts:

As I was about to start my first full-time job following graduating from college, I thought I knew who I was going to marry. One was a close friend and the other was a girl I served with on Lay Witness Mission weekends in college. However, when I prayed for discernment, the Holy Spirit led me to pray for a third woman, the unknown. Once the other two had serious boyfriends, I met Leanne at the end of 1993. This prayer was answered a year later when I proposed. Therefore, the next time you don’t receive the answered prayer that you desire, God likely has a blessing in disguise waiting for you in the future.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-April 20

Harry Chapin – Cat’s In The Cradle (Official Lyric Video)

Inspiration Behind Cat’s in the Cradle:

Cat’s in the Cradle was inspired by a poem written by Harry’s wife Sandy. This poem details the strained relationship between Sandy’s first husband and his father. Harry takes this situation and writes it as if he was the man who was never around for his son. Some of the trials that individuals experience are self-inflicted. When you are unwilling to take time for other people, you will reap what you sow as others will make similar excuses in life.

Biblical Application:

Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life, Galatians 6:7-8.

Exegesis of Cat’s in the Cradle:

My child arrived just the other day
He came to the world in the usual way
But there were planes to catch and bills to pay
He learned to walk while I was away
And he was talking ‘fore I knew it and as he grew
He’d say, “I’m gonna be like you, dad
You know, I’m gonna be like you”

There was a time in American culture when men weren’t expected to be in a delivery room. Their job was to be the sole provider while his wife stayed at home to raise their children. Subsequently, missing the birth of a child wasn’t rare.

And the cat’s in the cradle and the silver spoon
Little boy blue and the man in the moon
“When you coming home, dad?” “I don’t know when
We’ll get together then, you know we’ll have a good time then”

As children grow up, especially boys, they need time with their father to grow and mature. When a dad always makes an excuse, children are watching, following in the footsteps of their parents.

My son turned ten just the other day
He said, “Thanks for the ball, dad, come on, let’s play
Can you teach me to throw?” I said, “Not today
I got a lot to do” he said, “That’s okay”
And he walked away but his smile never dimmed
Said, “I’m gonna be like him, yeah
You know, I’m gonna be like him”

At the time this was written, Baseball was America’s favorite pastime. Playing catch with a glove on your hand was part of Americana. The father missed out on becoming a valuable part of his son’s childhood.

And the cat’s in the cradle and the silver spoon
Little boy blue and the man in the moon
“When you coming home, dad?” “I don’t know when
We’ll get together then, you know we’ll have a good time then”

This father was self-absorbed, unwilling to make time for others as family wasn’t a priority for him.

Well, he came from college just the other day
So much like a man I just had to say
“Son, I’m proud of you, can you sit for a while?”
He shook his head and he said with a smile
“What I’d really like, dad, is to borrow the car keys
See you later, can I have them please?”

Friends had become this young man’s family.

And the cat’s in the cradle and the silver spoon
Little boy blue and the man in the moon
“When you coming home, son?” “I don’t know when
But we’ll get together then, dad, you know we’ll have a good time then”

Promises made by the father were empty words, void of any action.

I’ve long since retired and my sons moved away
I called him up just the other day
I said, “I’d like to see you if you don’t mind”
He said, “I’d love to, dad, if I could find the time”
“You see, my new job’s a hassle and the kids got the flu
But it’s sure nice talking to you, dad
It’s been sure nice talking to you”

This stanza illustrates karma or as the Bible states, “you reap what you sow.”

And as I hung up the phone, it occurred to me
He’d grown up just like me
My boy was just like me

It took decades, but the father finally realized that he set a bad example for his son.

And the cat’s in the cradle and the silver spoon
Little boy blue and the man in the moon
“When you coming home, son?” “I don’t know when
But we’ll get together then, dad, we’re gonna have a good time then”

Interruptions in life, like putting family ahead of work, will make you happy and more efficient as long as you love what you do.

Final Thoughts:

Since my father was an immigrant to America, he had to work for everything that he owned. My father wasn’t around much until my family moved to Delaware. At this time, he decided to coach my little league team for a season. While my father was an intense leader, I would learn to appreciate this trait later in life. When my children all began to play baseball, I pulled back from my social schedule to coach my 2 sons. Later on, my daughter and I would play on a co-ed volleyball team on Friday nights. As my athletic career winds down, I try to play in as many disc golf tournaments with my children so that they will each develop a desire to spend time with their own kids. Enjoy these moments when they happen.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-April 19

Genesis – That’s All (Official Audio)

Inspiration Behind That’s All:

That’s All explores the complexities and frustrations of relationships. The lyrics highlight the differences in opinions and perspectives in life. That’s All points to the realization of all unresolved differences. Instead of constantly arguing, debating and opening fresh wounds to your soul, That’s All a way of accepting that neither side is willing to budge.

Biblical Application:

Those who live according to the flesh have their minds set on what the flesh desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires. The mind governed by the flesh is death, but the mind governed by the Spirit is life and peace. The mind governed by the flesh is hostile to God; it does not submit to God’s law, nor can it do so. Those who are in the realm of the flesh cannot please God, Romans 8:5-8.

Exegesis of That’s All:

Just as I thought it was goin’ alright
I found out I’m wrong, when I thought I was right
It’s always the same, it’s just a shame, that’s all
I could say day, and you’d say night
Tell me it’s black, when I know that it’s white
Always the same, it’s just a shame and that’s all

Some days that are going well can be interrupted by a firm rebuke. For Phil Collins, this happens regularly. This pattern of disagreement is getting old,

I could leave, but I won’t go
Though my heart might tell me so
I can’t feel a thing from my head down to my toes
But why does it always seem to be
Me lookin’ at you, you lookin’ at me?
It’s always the same, it’s just a shame, that’s all

Phil appears to be referring to a relationship with another woman that is on the rocks. Yet it wasn’t always this way.

Turnin’ me on, turnin’ me off
Making me feel like I want too much
Livin’ with you is just putting me through it all of the time
Runnin’ around, staying out all night
Taking it all instead of taking one bite
Living with you is just putting me through it all of the time

A state of misery is hovering over this relationship. For now, this couple is just putting up with each other.

I could leave, but I won’t go
But it’d be easier I know
I can’t feel a thing from my head down to my toes
Why does it always seem to be
Me lookin’ at you, you lookin’ at me?
It’s always the same, it’s just a shame, that’s all

Phil has become numb, a way to hide his pain and frustration.

Truth is I love you
More than I wanted to
There’s no point in trying to pretend
There’s been no one who
Makes me feel like you do
Say we’ll be together ’til the end

His love for this woman has kept Phil from quitting on this relationship.

But I could leave, but I won’t go
It’d be easier I know
I can’t feel a thing from my head down to my toes
So why does it always seem to be
Me looking at you, you looking at me?
It’s always the same, it’s just a shame, that’s all

Phil could take the easy way out but hasn’t reached that point yet.

But I love you
More than I wanted to
There’s no point in trying to pretend
There’s been no one who
Makes me feel like you do
Say we’ll be together ’til the end

Love is the only thing keeping this relationship together.

But just as I thought it was going alright
I find out I’m wrong when I thought I was right
It’s always the same, it’s just a shame, that’s all
Well, I could say day, you’d say night
Tell me it’s black when I know that it’s white
It’s always the same, it’s just a shame, that’s all
That’s all

Living in this type of environment will wear down your soul. Stubbornness appears to be slowing deteriorating this relationship, on the verge of collapse.

Final Thoughts:

Sometimes mentors can help hold a marriage together until both couples make the necessary changes to become closer. Unfortunately, many individuals give up, not willing to fight anymore to salvage their relationship. Movies like Fireproof illustrate what needs to happen before genuine reconciliation can be achieved. These steps may seem drastic, but are essential to avoid experiencing the atmosphere detailed in That’s All.

by Jay Mankus