If you have lived on earth long enough, then you’ve probably known or met someone who says one thing but does the complete opposite. Everyone has flaws, yet some stick out more than others, especially when an individual earns a reputation for embellishing, exaggerating or lying. Unfortunately, compulsive acts become like an addiction, like a second nature to someone who promises, “I really mean it this time.”
Pharaoh, king of Egypt appears to have developed this undesirable trait in Exodus 8:26-28. In the midst of each plague sent by God, Pharaoh cried uncle, urging Moses to pray for him to remove the trial facing his empire. However, as soon as each ceased, Pharaoh changed his mind as God continued to harden his heart, Exodus 9:33-35. This pattern of sin went on for several weeks until Pharaoh finally refused to meet face to face with Moses anymore, Exodus 10:27-29.
If I was Moses, I would have given up on Pharaoh, realizing that trying to agree with him was a lost cause. Some of you reading this may have a living co-worker, friend or relative who possess similar traits. Whenever you face this real life scenario, all you can do is try to apply Jesus’ advice from Matthew 5:43-48. Loving those who love you doesn’t require any effort. Instead, God wants you to love and pray for those people who let you down time after time by saying, “I really mean it this time!” Forgive others as Jesus has forgiven you, Colossians 3:13.
In an ideal setting, everyone would love to be admired, cherished and highly valued. However, in a fallen world, with individuals daily carrying around dirty laundry and excess baggage, receiving a desired response is unlikely. Therefore, if an act of kindness, gentle reply or word of encouragement goes unnoticed, don’t take it personally. According to Exodus 7:3, sometimes God will harden a person’s heart, preventing individuals from being civil.
When Jesus first sent off his disciples in Matthew 10, taking off their preverbal training wheels, he tries to prepare these 12 men for what to expect in life. Beginning in Matthew 10:17-23, you could probably hear a pin drop, likely caught off guard by the hatred Jesus predicted. Maybe this is where Judas Iscariot began to get cold feet, thinking to himself, “I didn’t sign up for this!” I guess you can assume Jesus is trying to separate the followers from leaders, using a similar strong message in Luke 14:25-27 to narrow down his core group.
Unfortunately, the old saying of “sticks and stones will break my bones, but names will never hurt me” is a lie. When I taught, I could have a dozen compliments from faculty and students, yet that one negative email from a parent is what I thought about, erasing all the good I received earlier in the day. Criticism, harsh comments and tasteless remarks can get under your skin, leaving a heart torn in two. When words feel like knife wounds, verbally poisoning your soul, take your burden to the Lord, Matthew 11:28. May the words of Psalm 34:18-19 help you not to take future replies personally.
Although its been thousands of years since Lucifer first planted the idea of questioning God within eve’s mind, Genesis 3:1, there is a new trend gaining traction. Sure, there will always be doubters, haters and nay sayers who will claim God does not exist. Yet, this latest fad might be more harmful, especially when their promises come up empty. Like a page out of the Bible, more and more people are sharing stories about how God is speaking to them in an audible voice, either in dreams, during a prayer or while reading the Bible. Before these phanatics get excited by telling anyone who will listen, maybe they should practice 1 Thessalonians 5:21-22, asking the question, “did God really tell me that?”
The reason why I say this is that gullible and hurting people are often burned by optimistic news, taking what pastors, television evangelists or faith healers say as gospel, as if these words came straight out of Jesus’ mouth. Back in February of 2012, I began to hear countless testimonies, people who reached out to the parents of Joseph Feeley, one of my former students who had been battling cancer for 2 years. Though I believe each had good intentions, they were proved wrong when Joseph went to be home with the Lord on February 27th, less than a month after confidently proclaiming Joseph would be healed, traveling throughout the country as a motivational speaker.
Six months later, I received a similar message at a Christian bookstore in Delaware. Since I was still searching for a full time job, I was vulnerable, grasping at straws for anything positive. When I wrote a blog on this encounter in late August of 2012, I was hopeful the words of this prophet might come true, “God will reward you with a great paying job, surpassing your wildest imagination.” Unfortunately, this grandois prophecy did not occur within the time table give but who knows, maybe my position at Amazon could turn into something special. However, like the Feeley family, I am still in a lot of pain, disappointed by the outcome of my current path.
Instead of crying over spilled milk, I won’t give up on chasing my dreams of becoming a novelist, screen writer or both. In future blogs, I will be careful not to exploit anyone with promises unless I am certain of a specific message, truth or word of insight people need to hear. The lesson to be learned from this blog is to dot your i’s and cross your t’s, ensuring your words don’t inflict false hope to a world searching for answers. May these words, stirring within my heart, strike a cord, helping you to reflect before blotting out any words in the future.
In 1987, Def Leppard ‘s album Hysteria introduced the dark side to falling in love. The lyrics of Love Bites examines the emotional side of love as described in the final 2 stanzas below. While several songs in the past have written about God’s agape or brotherly love, Def Leppard touches on the scars, wounds to the soul inflicted by intimate relationships that fall apart when feelings fade.
Love bites love bleeds – it’s bringin’ me to my knees Love lives, love dies Love bites love bleeds – it’s bringin’ me to my knees Love lives love dies – it’s no surprise Love begs love pleads – it’s what I need
If you’ve got love in your sights Watch out, love bites
Modern commercials, sitcoms and television programming are some of the biggest offenders of obscuring truth. The images portrayed on the screens inside of American homes glorify temptation while minimizing any after affects. This hyperreality conceals the reality that actions and words do have consequences. Thus, when an individual carries out a similar act or behavior in life, the words of Def Leppard often rings true, “love bites!”
When Jesus receives the news that one of his close friends is dead, he wept, John 11:32-35. This wasn’t a movie scene; these were genuine tears brought on the pain one feels expressed by Def Leppard’s song. As soon as a human being opens their heart, becoming connected to another soul, their are taking at risk at love. Although happy endings do occur on occasion, don’t be afraid to take a chance, especially on the One who sacrificed His only son for you and for me, John 3:16-17.
In the 2012 movie sensation, The Hunger Games features an annual made for television competition for 24 contestants ranging from 12-18 years of age. If chosen, a boy and girl represent one of 12 districts in the nation of Panem. These select few are taken to the Capitol for training before taking part in this fight to the death event, with only one survivor. Set in a futuristic North America, the Hunger Games serve as punishment for a previous rebellion and to control future attempts.
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In the spiritual world, there is a similar game, To Obey or Not to Obey. Many individuals suffer from a grass is greener on the other side disillusion. Not satisfied with their own gifts, life and talents, people hunger for a new identity, hoping the emptiness inside their hearts goes away. Subsequently, a growing number of participants wander down the highway to hell, Matthew 7:13, unaware of the destruction awaiting each soul.
Over the past few months, my hunger for writing has eased up, resulting in a lower audience at Express Yourself 4Him and fewer readers. This loss of appetite correlates with a decreasing time of reflecting on the Bible. Whenever I partake in a full course meal of Bible study, prayer and worship, my hunger pains for the world subsides. Yet, the more I neglect my spiritual condition, these desires for the world multiple. Therefore, be careful what you wish for or you might find your heart on the wrong side of the fence, Matthew 6:21-23.
The word wake refers to 3 different aspects in life. The first relates to emerging from a state of sleep. The second is an act, participating in a vigil, pouring out your soul to expedite the process of healing of a dead family member, friend or loved one. Finally, wake are turbulent waves following the passing of a large vessel on water. Inside the pages of Genesis 50, lies an event which awakens the soul.
While there may be ancient books that refer to a wake, I believe Genesis 50:10-11 contains a glimpse of the first documented religious ceremony. Following a mass funeral procession from Egypt to Canaan to bury Jacob with his ancestors, Joseph stops along the banks of the Jordan River. According to Moses, Joseph observed a 7 day mourning period for his father, lamenting and weeping, crying out to express his bitterness to God over losing his dad. Observing from a distance, the Canaanites were so moved by Joseph’s display of emotions that they named this site “Abel Mizraim,” meaning a solemn ceremony of mourning.
I find that many men hide their true feelings, trying to be cool or adhere to the world’s belief, real men don’t cry. Others sweep their emotions under a proverbial rug, deadening their soul. Though I am by no means an expert in this area, I get the sense the Bible is urging individuals to “let it all hang out.” After a good cry, I tend to be rejuvenated by practicing this form of releasing the burdens deep inside your heart. If you have been holding back tears, maybe, just maybe, you need a waterfall of emotions to awaken your soul. May the promise of Psalm 34:18 be fulfilled this day!
In the past week, I have had several requests to write more about yearning for the favor of God. I’ve had a few ideas, yet each stalled quickly, causing me to go back to the drawing board. Then I read Genesis 49 yesterday, inspiring today’s title and prayer, that each of my readers may receive their father’s blessing.
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Not long after moving to Egypt, Jacob, the father of the 12 tribes of Israel, gathered his sons to be in his presence prior to his death. Beginning in Genesis 49:2, Jacob gives a verbal last will and testament in the form of blessings and curses. Ending 26 verses later in Genesis 49:27, this is one of the most fascinating passages in the Bible, a foreshadowing of the good, bad and ugly future Israelites will experience.
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After the dust settled, there was probably several heart broken men. Reuben was cursed, Simeon and Levi criticized for their tempers, Issachar had slavery to look forward to and Benjamin is projected to be a wolf. Meanwhile, 5 others were given compliments per say as Zebulun’s descendants were promised the seaside, Dan people of justice, Gad a resilient fighter, Asher food fit for a king and Naphalti good looking children. Judah and Joseph are the only 2 boys who received what I call a full blessing, each detailed in several verses compared to 1 or 2.
Unfortunately, the negativity of this current generation can be attributed somewhat due to a lack of father figures and or not hearing compliments from their father. Anger, frustration and a spirit of perfectionism often keeps me and many other dads from taking time to praise their children. Yes, kids do let parent’s down, but young people do need to be lifted up to restore what little confidence they possess. As the apostle Paul urges believers in Galatians 6:9-10, share a word of encouragement while there is still time. By doing this, may you receive your heavenly Father’s blessings.
The advent of reality television has spawned a different kind of gold rush as contestants, individuals and a select few are willing to risk everything, even their reputation to strike it rich. According to the Writers Guild of America in an article written by Charles Slocum, Allen Funt can be credited as the founder of reality television through his 1948 series Candid Camera. One year prior, Funt’s radio project entitled Candid Microphone has inspired the recent rage in reality programing featured on nearly every cable channel. Whether this new fad fizzles out soon is unclear, yet one thing is certain, people will continue to endure embarrassment as long as a pot of gold exists at the end of the rainbow.
The Bible provides an alternative perspective on striking it rich. Prior to his death, the apostle Paul shares words of wisdom to a young pastor in a chapter to Timothy. Paul’s first advice is to develop the right mindset, 1 Timothy 6:6, focusing on what you have rather than allow envy to steer your attention toward what others have acquired. Next, Paul urges this teenager to listen to the right voice, 1 Timothy 6:9. The Greek word used for desire means to have an unshakable thirst for more; thus Paul recommends the message he shared to believers in Rome, Romans 8:5-13. Finally, if you are blessed with money in this life, maintain the proper attitude described in 1 Timothy 6:17. By doing this, you can strike it rich spiritually.
Unfortunately, applying these words takes sacrifices, time and a world of adjustment. While some may be called to a life of poverty like Mother Teresa, others have squandered their wealth like the prodigal son, Luke 15:13-17. Meanwhile, many have simply buried their talents, afraid of disappointment, failure or rejection, Matthew 25:24-28. The words of Moses still ring true today, a guide for those hoping to strike it rich, Deuteronomy 30:15-16. If beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, then riches dwell in the hearts of those who store up treasures for the after life, Matthew 6:19-21. Begin your pursuit today!
When envy is present within the hearts and minds of individuals, jealousy usually isn’t far off. Envy and jealousy often feed off of one another breeding the other feeling. Envy arises deep inside the human soul, aroused by someone else’s material possessions, personality or unique gifts resulting in a spirit of discontent and resentment. On the other hand, jealousy is the emotion one experiences when someone thinks they are about to be replaced by the flavor of the month, leading to apprehension and fear. This is where you find Cain within the pages of Genesis 4.
Cain was the prized baby, the first born boy on planet earth. As an infant, his mom and dad waited on every cry and whimper. Like modern parents returning from a hospital, both are clueless, not sure how to handle or respond to this new creature who has entered their life. As for Cain, every thing was peachy keen until Abel arrived onto the scene. Cain was now longer the main attraction, forced to share time with his baby brother. If this wasn’t enough to bear, Cain realized how much harder farming was compared to shepherding, Abel’s occupation. Then, God had to go and play favorites, rejecting Cain’s weak offering, but extremely pleased by the fat portions brought by Abel, Genesis 4:3-5. These ingredients conceived the envy of Cain.
Before I studied the definitions of envy and jealousy, I never imagined either of these 2 acts of the sinful nature, Galatians 5:19-21, stirred inside my heart. However, as I read the numerous definitions and examples of each on the internet, I saw signs of the envy of Cain within me. Whether you are a coach, teacher or hard working employee, there is always someone quicker, smarter and more appealing than you. Thus, you need to learn to be content in the areas God has gifted you. If you don’t, you are giving the devil an open door for the envy of Cain to reside within you, Ephesians 4:25-27. Therefore, lean on the the grace, forgiveness and mercy of God to purge yourself of any traces of envy or jealousy.
One of the first jobs I applied to after losing my teaching position of 10 years was at a Christian College in Ohio. Like submitting an application to attend a local university, several pages were involved, requiring hours of my concentration. The last portion required a thesis statement based upon previous research on a biblical passage. To save time I collected numerous power point slides from classes I had taught, rewrote a thesis from one of my honors courses and cross referenced my theory with scientific data. Although I did not get this position, a rhema that I received today from the Lord, makes me think my theory is not so far fetch as I once thought.
As I read Genesis 8:1 this morning, the Jet Stream popped into my mind. The Jet Stream are upper level winds which are usually 5-7 miles above the earth’s surface. These winds can blow as fast as 200 miles an hour, within a stream that is thousands of miles long and a few hundred miles wide. This weather system flows west to east, but shifts north to south depending upon the season. The Jet Stream exists in the tropopause, the boundary between the troposphere and stratosphere of the earth’s atmosphere. Based upon my gut feelings, I believe God created the Jet Stream to help dry the earth after the flood. Once the Open Canopy was eliminated by God, the Jet Stream was necessary to circulate precipitation throughout the earth. In the process, this new element also likely formed the first ice age, freezing mountains of water in the polar regions.
According to Genesis 8:3-4, Noah’s Ark came to rest on Mount Ararat, modern day turkey on July 17th. The amount of water was so massive that it took until October 1st until all the mountain ranges of the earth were uncovered. If you have ever seen the earth from an airplane, several areas over the United States have what appear to be ripples, traces of an ancient and worldwide flood which could have formed the Grand Canyon and Great Lakes. By February 27th of the following year, the earth was completely dry based upon the accounts passed on to Moses in Genesis 8:14. While I can’t say for sure this information is true, its plausible. Just as the Discovery, History and Weather Channels speculate about past disasters, I felt compelled to share these notions with you. Some may think I’m bizarre, others that I’s crazy, but maybe, just maybe a few will think this is not so far fetched as you once thought.