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The Message Behind the Music-September 18

Posted on September 18, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Play The Game Tonight

Inspiration Behind Play the Game Tonight:

During a transition into a more radio-friendly sound, Kansas was led by new lead vocalist John Elefante. Play the Game Tonight led the way for this new era for Kansas after Kerry Livgren’s departure to pursue a solo career. The initial song was Stay With Me Tonight, written by Danny Flower and Rob Frazier. However, this song was reworked and renamed by Kerry Livgren and Phil Ehart before going into production.

Biblical Application:

If I speak in the tongues[a] of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast,[b] but do not have love, I gain nothing, 1 Corinthians 13:1-3.

Exegesis of Play the Game Tonight:

You think that something’s happening
And it’s bigger than your life
But it’s only what you’re hearing
Will you still remember
When the morning light has come?
Will the songs be playing over and over
‘Til you do it all over again?

Perhaps reading too much into a situation. Overreacting to gossip or one side of a story. After this nighttime drama ends, will you remember what really happened. Or will the songs of last night be playing all over in your head.

Play (play), play the game tonight
Can you tell me if it’s wrong or right?
Is it worth the time? Is it worth the price?
Do you see yourself in a white spotlight?
Then play the game tonight

Likely referring to a relationship and the games people play. Questioning the morality of this or if it’s worth it? What are the consequences of playing this game? Spotlight could be referencing being on stage or the center of attention.

And when the curtains open
To the roaring of the crowd
You will feel it all around you
Then it finally happens
And it’s all come true for you
And the songs are playing over and over
‘Til you do it all over again

Going through the motions of performing. Where is you passion or are you simply giving a half-hearted effort?

Play (play), play the game tonight
Can you tell me if it’s wrong or right?
Is it worth the time? Is it worth the price?
Do you see yourself in the white spotlight?
Then play the game tonight

Putting on a good show. Perhaps a conflict of interest as not everyone is putting their heart and soul into a show. Going through the motions and faking it is taking the easy way out.

Play (play), play the game tonight
Can you tell me if it’s wrong or right?
Is it worth the time? Is it worth the price?
Do you see yourself in the white light?

Ending with 3 consecutive choruses. Perhaps Kerry led Kansas differently so following John’s lead took time.

Play (play), play the game tonight
Can you tell me if it’s wrong or right?
Is it worth the time? Is it worth the price?
Do you see yourself in the white spotlight?

If the chorus isn’t about the concert, it could be the bands’ interaction with fans afterward.

Play the game tonight
Play the game tonight
Play the game tonight

Put on a good show to please your fans.

Final Thoughts:

I became a big Kansas fan in college. Once Kerry Livgren left the band, I followed both singers, enjoying their music and song writing. Since Kerry Livgren has a PhD is music, he was on the cutting edge, incorporating various types of instruments and sounds. This is what made Kansas great. Play the Game Tonight is probably the best song under John Elefante’s leadership. This song remains relevant with a modern beat and sound.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 17

Posted on September 17, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Secondhand Serenade – Fall For You

Inspiration Behind Fall for You:

While enduring personal turmoil in 2007, John Vesely began to write Fall for You.  This was the first song John composed entirely on piano during a practice session as the emotions of his pain naturally flowed out of him. Fall for You is a plea from one partner to the other to open their heart fall in love again. Fall for You reflects the emotional arc of a relationship slowly deteriorating to the point where it feels impossible to save.

Biblical Application:

The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it? 10 “I the Lord search the heart and examine the mind, to reward each person according to their conduct, according to what their deeds deserve.” – Jeremiah 17:9-10

Exegesis of Fall for You:

The best thing ’bout tonight’s that we’re not fighting
Could it be that we have been this way before?
I know you don’t think that I am trying
I know you’re wearing thin, down to the core

Pointing out something positive. When was the last time this happened. John wasn’t showing that he cared enough. Mainly due to both are on edge, emotionally wore down.

But hold your breath
Because tonight will be the night that I will fall for you, over again
Don’t make me change my mind
Or I won’t live to see another day, I swear it’s true
Because a girl like you is impossible to find
You’re impossible to find

This stanza serves as a prayer request, wanting to reignite the love in this relationship. John realizes that finding someone like her will be extremely difficult so he’s trying his hardest to salvage love.

This is not what I intended
I always swore to you I’d never fall apart
You always thought that I was stronger
I may have failed, but I have loved you from the start

John admits to his shortcomings, failing to remain strong.

Oh, but hold your breath
Because tonight will be the night that I will fall for you, over again
Don’t make me change my mind
Or I won’t live to see another day, I swear it’s true
Because a girl like you is impossible to find

It’s impossible

The chorus is repeated, wanting desperately to fall in love again. Asking his significant other not to change his mind.

So breathe in so deep
Breathe me in, I’m yours to keep
And hold on to your words ’cause talk is cheap
And remember me tonight when you’re asleep

Words are meaningless unless backed up by actions.

Because tonight will be the night that I will fall for you, over again
Don’t make me change my mind
Or I won’t live to see another day, I swear it’s true
Because a girl like you is impossible to find

A last-ditch effort to save this relationship.

Tonight will be the night that I will fall for you, over again
Don’t make me change my mind
Or I won’t live to see another day, I swear it’s true
Because a girl like you is impossible to find
You’re impossible to find

Hoping to speak this into existence, falling back in love all over again.

Final Thoughts:

I endured my gut-wrenching relationships in college. Like John, each of these relationships wore me down. All 3 of these made me only want to date women who I could see myself marrying. Subsequently, I became guarded, getting to know people as friends rather than jump into a new relationship. Unfortunately, once a person makes up their mind to give up on a relationship, there isn’t much that you can do salvage love.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 16

Posted on September 16, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Simple Minds – Don’t You (Forget About Me)

Inspiration Behind Don’t You Forget About Me:

Keith Forsey and guitarist Steve Schiff wrote Don’t You Forget About Me for the film The Breakfast Club. This film features five high school students, punished for an entire Saturday. Each of these 5 teenagers representing a distinct social group: the brain, athlete, rebel, princess, and basket case. After this motley crew experiences a unifying moment before departing for home, Don’t You Forget About Me serves as an anthem for students to never forget the special ties that were formed during a Saturday in-school suspension.

Biblical Application:

At one time we too were foolish, disobedient, deceived and enslaved by all kinds of passions and pleasures. We lived in malice and envy, being hated and hating one another. 4 But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, 5 he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit, Titus 3:3-5.

Exegesis of Don’t You Forget About Me:

Hey, hey, hey, hey
Ooh-ooh-hoo, woah

An attention getter.

Won’t you come see about me
I’ll be alone, dancing, you know it, baby
Tell me your troubles and doubts
Givin’ me everything inside and out, and

Breaking down the walls that separate the social classes. A call to open up, share and become vulnerable.

Love’s strange, surreal in the dark
Think of the tender things that we were working on
Slow change may pull us apart
When the light gets into your heart, baby

Perhaps a reference that teenagers place too much emphasis on physical appearances rather than what is deep inside of human beings. When your flaws are exposed or verbalized, love can be scary, unsure if the one you love will accept you for who you are as a person.

Don’t you forget about me
Don’t, don’t, don’t, don’t
Don’t you forget about me

A reference to the friendship made on this Saturday. Being willing to cross social boundaries.

Will you stand above me
Look my way, never love me
Rain keeps fallin’, rain keeps fallin’
Down, down, down

A call to stand up and be willing to look beyond differences. The rain suggests cleansing and purifying, erasing the stereotypes that minds have grown up believing.

Will you recognize me
Call my name or walk on by?
Rain keeps fallin’, rain keeps fallin’
Down, down, down, down

When Monday comes and you fall back into line, within your social group, will you be changed or will you forget the new friends that you just made.

Hey, hey, hey, hey
Ooh-ooh-hoo, woah

How will you respond to peer pressure.

Don’t you try and pretend
It’s my feeling, we’ll win in the end
I won’t harm you or touch your defences
Vanity, insecurity, ah

The difficulties to truly change. A gentle approach, not wanting to harm this new relationship.

Don’t you forget about me
I’ll be alone, dancing, you know it, baby
Going to take us apart
I’ll put us back together at heart, baby

Not part of the movie, but a call to remember what we shared.

Don’t you forget about me
Don’t, don’t, don’t, don’t
Don’t you forget about me

Be open to change, going outside your social circle.

As you walk on by
Will you call my name?
As you walk on by
Will you call my name
When you walk away?

What is going to happen on Monday when these 5 people see each other in the hallway with their friends.

Or will you walk away?

When you walk on by

Will you take a chance or succumb to peer pressure.

Come on, call my name
Won’t you call my name?

Do you have the guts to go beyond the social norms of your friends.

I sing, “La, la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la
La-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la
La-la-la-la, la-la-la-la
La-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la
La-la-la-la, la-la-la-la
La-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la”
When you walk on by (walk on by)
And you call my name

A fun ending with one last rhetorical question, will you call out my name.

Final Thoughts:

As a former high school athlete, my friends would vary from season to season. In the fall, my cross-country team would take up 1-2 tables in the lunchroom. This team was like my second family, having monthly social functions outside of school as well. Each winter, swimming was a smaller team so that my lunches were a mix of classmates and swimmers. In the spring, I hung out with Chris and Steve, often getting out of school early for away golf matches. While I was never popular in high school, I wasn;t afraid to sit with someone sitting by themselves. In my final year of high school, I saw lunch as a ministry opportunity to encourage students who were having a bad day, week or month. Don’t You Forget About Me serves as a call to look beyond social circles to meet other people that you never gave a thought about until watching the Breakfast Club.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 14

Posted on September 13, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Queen – You’re My Best Friend (Official Video)

Inspiration Behind You’re My Best Friend:

You’re My Best Friend was composed by Queen’s bassist, John Deacon. The idea for this song came from John’s wife, Veronica Tetzlaff. The overall theme of You’re My Best Friend highlights the importance of having a best friend or partner who brings joy and meaning to your life. This message has made You’re My Best Friend a timeless classic.

Biblical Application:

After David had finished talking with Saul, Jonathan became one in spirit with David, and he loved him as himself, 1 Samuel 18:1.

Exegesis of You’re My Best Friend:

Ooh, you make me live
Whatever this world can give to me
It’s you, you’re all I see
Ooh, you make me live now honey
Ooh, you make me live

An appreciation for a spouse or significant other who makes life enjoyable and fun.

Oh, you’re the best friend
That I ever had
I’ve been with you such a long time
You’re my sunshine
And I want you to know
That my feelings are true
I really love you
(Ooh) Oh, you’re my best friend

Examples of how a friend impacts your life. This realization conceives a kindred spirit and love.

Ooh, you make me live

Bringing joy to life.

Ooh, I’ve been wandering round
But I still come back to you (still come back to you)
In rain or shine
You’ve stood by me girl
I’m happy at home (happy at home)
You’re my best friend

This stanza goes against the world’s view that marriage puts a cramp on your life and freedom. Friends stick around, help you through tough times and are a joy to be around.

Ooh, you make me live
Whenever this world is cruel to me
I got you, to help me forgive – oo oo ooh
Ooh, you make me live now honey
Ooh, you make me live

This stanza is like the original “Lean on Me” as friends give you the strenth to carry on with life.

Oh, you’re the first one
When things turn out bad
You know I’ll never be lonely
You’re my only one
And I love the things
I really love the things that you do
Oh, you’re my best friend

Benefits of a good friend. These special people make a world of difference in life.

Oh, ooh, you make me live

Providing hope and joy.

I’m happy (happy at home)
You’re my best friend
Oh, oh, you’re my best friend
Ooh, you make me live
Oo oo ooh
You, you’re my best friend

While it’s unclear if John is talking about Veronica or vice versa, they had a special relationship that not many couples experience while being married.

Final Thoughts:

When I thought of best friends, Carl imeediately comes to mind. My high school cross-country teammate. Before cell phones, I would go over his house or he would come over mine. Meanwhile, once we started driving, I recall parking late at night, waiting for him to return from a date when a needed a friend. While I was blessed with several good friends in college as well, Carl and I leaned on each other in times of need. When Carl’s mom passed away, my mom became like a second mother to Carl. Listening to You’re My Best Friend brought all these special memories to the forefront of my mind.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 12

Posted on September 12, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Group 1 Crew – “Breakdown”

Inspiration Behind Breakdown:

Breakdown was conceived out of blending spiritual urgency with a party vibe.  The lyrics don’t hesitate, immediately challenging the listener, pointing to a need for inner transformation. If you’re heart, soul and or mind isn’t in the right place, it’s hard to muster any type of enthusiasm. However, when your life begins to turn around for the better, joy will naturally flow out of you, a reason to celebrate.

Biblical Application:

“When he came to his senses, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have food to spare, and here I am starving to death! 18 I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. 19 I am no longer worthy to be called your son; make me like one of your hired servants.’ 20 So he got up and went to his father, Luke 15:17-20.

Exegesis of Breakdown:

They say don’t try to fix what i-i-isn’t broke
But I see that you need a fix in your soul
We, we don’t like to play politics, it’s a joke
So we pu-pu-pushin’ envelopes, envelopes

A common saying about life. Upon further review, your soul needs mending. I’m not talking from a political view, but a spiritual one.

Ain’t nobody stoppin’ the music
Until we fill up the floor
It’s the type of music he created
So you need to let go, go, go, go, go

Certain types of music can soothe your soul or serve as a distraction from life.

See the flashin’ lights, woah
Clock is losin’ time, woah
Gotta shake it off, this feelin’s takin’ off
‘Cause everybody’s waiting for the breakdown

Group One Crew uses a car breaking down to illustrate that people also have breakdowns internally.

You can, you can make it, make it
Happen while we rappin’, rappin’
See the flashin’ lights and camera, camera
So let’s have some action

Having fun like going out dancing can be good for you from time to time.

You can find me in a black SC goin’ over 60
With the windows down

Am image of crusing with your favorite song blasted in your vehicle.

Anybody thinkin’, ooh who’s he? Wit the do-do-dope beat
Tell me, what’s that sound?

Trying to impress others of your taste in music.

G1C witta chopped up beat goin’ back crazy
You can see it, see it
We so, so sick wit’ a boom, boom hit, gotta do, do it
‘Cause we need it, need it

Sometimes human beings need an added boost to start their day like a cool hip hop song.

Ain’t nobody stoppin’ the music
Until we fill up the floor
It’s the type of music he created
So you need to let go, go

The adrenaline that fills you when listening to upbeat music.

See the flashin’ lights, woah
Clock is losin’ time, woah
Gotta shake it off, this feelin’s takin’ off
‘Cause everybody’s waiting for the breakdown

Human beings give off certain signals that lead to a breakdown. Either internally or the desire to let your guard down for a little while to dance and have a good time.

See the flashin’ lights, woah
Clock is losin’ time, woah
Gotta shake it off, this feelin’s takin’ off
‘Cause everybody’s waiting for the breakdown

Repeating the chorus to instill a desire to act.

It’s impossible to put a stop on this trio
And if you haven’t heard, make sure that you let someone know
Get the sunblock ’cause we hot, a unique breed is unlocked
We on the block ’cause we rock hard like the school of knocks

A stanza to promote and tell others about Group One Crew’s music.

This ain’t ya typical, typical group that you heard, it’s a miracle
Little bit a punk wit’ a whole lotta soul
That’ll bump da bump on ya radio

Hyping up this new sound that they created in Breakdown.

Simmer, simmer down all you haters
Didn’t lose our style, we just got better
Beat so cold, did my verse like brrr
Still spiting life so forget what you heard

Likely a stanza to address their critics on social media.

See the flashin’ lights, woah
Clock is losin’ time, woah
Gotta shake it off, this feelin’s takin’ off
‘Cause everybody’s waiting for the breakdown

Perhaps suggesting that people are waiting to see how you dance or how you’ll handle your next ordeal and trail in life.

See the flashin’ lights, woah
Clock is losin’ time, woah
Gotta shake it off, this feelin’s takin’ off
‘Cause everybody’s waiting for the breakdown

Images to create a sense of urgency to change before you have a mental breakdown.

The flashing lights of life
The clock is losin’ time
Waiting for the breakdown

Be on guard and alert.

Do it, gotta feel free
Let the music take you away
‘Cause everybody’s waiting for the breakdown

Let this music lift up your soul so you can start ro have fun in life again.

Final Thoughts:

My oldest two sons got into hip-hop when they became teenagers. Knowing the unwholesome lyrics that occur in many secular groups, I discovered Group One Crew while I was still teaching. Subsequently, while driving I would play songs like Breakdown on the way to school. This particular song became one of Daniel’s favorites. I went on to create mixes so that my kids could listen to music on the way to their next competition to set their minds in the right place before getting out of the car. This is how Breakdown has impacted my life.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 11

Posted on September 11, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Let’s Roll

Inspiration Behind Let’s Roll:

Let’s Roll is about a group of individuals on Flight 93 which was highjacked by terrorists on September 11th, 2001. Today, marks the 25th anniversary of this tragic event. Yet this day in history would have been worse if not for some Americans who fought to take back control of their airplane. While the terrorists on board wanted to strike a building in Washington, D.C, brave Americans made sure this never happened. Before enacting their plan, “Let’s roll” was one of their last words spoken before their plan went down in a remote part of Pennsylvania.

Biblical Application:

In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead. 18 But someone will say, “You have faith; I have deeds.”Show me your faith without deeds, and I will show you my faith by my deeds, James 2:17-18.

Exegesis of Let’s Roll:

Please note that the attached version of Let’s Roll is a new version. Because of 9/11, I wanted to focus this exegesis on the original song lyrics by Neil Young.

I know I said I love you
I know you know it’s true
I’ve got to put the phone down
And do what we gotta do
One standing in the highway
Two more at the door
We’ve got to get inside there
Before they kill some more

Referring to Todd Beamer’s cell phone conversation with his wife Lisa while on board Flight 93. After receiving news about the other planes that had already hit their targets, Todd and a few other brave Americans we about to try to take back this plane.

Time is running out
Let’s roll
Time is running out
Let’s roll

Let’s roll was the code to begin moving toward the front of the plane.

No time for indecision
We’ve got to make a move
I hope that we’re forgiven
For what we gotta do
How this all got started
I’ll never understand
I hope someone can fly this thing
And get us back to land

Thoughts going through the minds of these brave Americans. An appeal for forgiveness, an act of aggression to stop evil. The ideal scenario if everything works out according to their plan.

Time is running out
Let’s roll
Time is running out
Let’s roll

The sense of urgency to act before the terrorists fulfill their own mission.

No one has the answer
But one thing is true
You’ve gotta turn on evil
When it’s coming after you
You’ve gotta face it down
And when it tries to hide
You’ve gotta go in after it
And never be denied

This event was so shocking, but America was unified on fighting evil. You have to fight fire with fire. You have to root out evil or it will prevail.

Time is running out
Time is running out
Let’s roll

Carrying out this plan immediately.

Let’s roll for freedom
Let’s roll for love
We’re going after Satan
On the wings of a dove
Let’s roll for justice
Let’s roll for truth
Let’s not let our children
Grow up fearful in their youth

This group of Americans realized that they were probably going to die. Yet they didn’t want to go down without a fight. Justice, truth and spiritual things are worth laying your life down for.

Time is running out
Let’s roll
Time is running out
Let’s roll
Time is running out
Let’s roll

Getting your mind straight, going over the plan before carrying out this plan.

Final Thoughts:

In the immediate aftermath of September 11th, 2001, I realized that I wasn’t doing what I was created to do. Subsequently, in the months that followed, I apllied for a teaching position, interviewed and was hired at the beginning of the second semester. I spent the next decade of my life challenging, developing and shaping the minds of teenagers. This may have never happened if September 11th never occurred. The heros of Flight 93 ignited a new generation of Americans with a sense of urgency to Let’s Roll.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 3

Posted on September 3, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Journey – Don’t Stop Believin’ (Official Audio)

Inspiration Behind Don’t Stop Believin’:

When the timing is right, sound advice can serve as a launching pad. The advice given by Jonathan Cain’s father when his son was struggling as a musician led to the formation of Journey’s most iconic hit. The actual words spoken to Jonathan were Don’t Stop Believing or you’re done. Self-belief is what can keep artists going during times of disappointment, failure and setbacks. Without this mentality, Don’t Stop Believin’ wouldn’t be a song and no one would have ever heard of the group Journey.

Biblical Application:

A week later his disciples were in the house again, and Thomas was with them. Though the doors were locked, Jesus came and stood among them and said, “Peace be with you!” 27 Then he said to Thomas, “Put your finger here; see my hands. Reach out your hand and put it into my side. Stop doubting and believe.” 28 Thomas said to him, “My Lord and my God!”29 Then Jesus told him, “Because you have seen me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed,” John 20:26-29.

Exegesis of Don’t Stop Believin’:

Just a small-town girl, livin’ in a lonely world
She took the midnight train going anywhere
Just a city boy, born and raised in South Detroit
He took the midnight train going anywhere

Starting off with a girl who was lost and lonely. A life void of vision. Transitions to a city boy who took the same train, not sure where he was going in life.

A singer in a smokey room
A smell of wine and cheap perfume
For a smile, they can share the night
It goes on, and on, and on, and on

Perhaps referring to Jonathon’s early years as a struggling musician living in Los Angeles. This is where this boy and girl meet.

Strangers waitin’ up and down the boulevard
Their shadows searchin’ in the night
Streetlights, people, livin’ just to find emotion
Hidin’ somewhere in the night

Signs of people living in this world without much hope or promise.

Workin’ hard to get my fill
Everybody wants a thrill
Payin’ anything to roll the dice
Just one more time

Working hard to find a better future. Searching for excitement. This involves taking chances, maybe even gambling.

Some’ll win, some will lose
Some are born to sing the blues

More people lose than win. This leads many to live in poverty throughout their lives.

Whoa, the movie never ends
It goes on, and on, and on, and on

Some trials in life never seem to end.

Strangers waitin’ up and down the boulevard
Their shadows searchin’ in the night
Streetlights, people livin’ just to find emotion
Hidin’ somewhere in the night

A sad reality of people that don’t experience much success in life. Left to live in obscurity.

Don’t stop believin’
Hold on to that feelin’
Streetlights, people

When belief disappears, your career is finished.

Don’t stop believin’
Hold on
Streetlights, people

Stay optimistic.

Don’t stop believin’
Hold on to that feelin’
Streetlights, people

Keep your head up and don’t lose hope.

Final Thoughts:

I was in Junior High when Don’t Stop Believin’ was released. I battled depression for 4 years, struggling to find my place in life. This song would be played every hour on the local radio station, sometimes at the exact same time each hour. Since I didn’t really get into music until 8th grade, my emotional state was like riding on a roller coaster. However, now that I know the inspiration behind Don’t Stop Believin’, I have a better appreciation for this song. Belief gives individuals a reason to get up each day. Yet when belief fades, so do aspiration, dreams and vision for a prosperous life. Therefore, don’t stop believing.

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The Message Behind the Music-September 1: A Season of Transition

Posted on September 1, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Earth, Wind & Fire – September (Official HD Video)

Monthly Theme:

Whether you are in school, starting a new job or thinking about retirement, September is often marked by a Season of Transition. If you are heading off to college, moving to a new school or changing careers, this month will include making new friends, reconnecting with people from your past and learning new skills. Although change isn’t easy. sometimes you need to reinvent yourself so that you’ll be better prepared for the future. This month’s selection of songs touch on the emotional highs and lows of relationships as well as trials that you’ll face in life.

Inspiration Behind September:

September promotes a carefree philosophy of living in the moment. Featured in the movie Night at the Museum, September was crafted to inspire people to dance as well as to celebrate the good times you experience in life. Approaching nearly 50 years since its release, September has become a timeless classic often used in fall celebrations.

Biblical Application:

Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. 23 Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror 24 and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. 25 But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it—not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it—they will be blessed in what they do, James 1:22-25.

Exegesis of September:

Do you remember
The 21st night of September?
Love was changing the minds of pretenders
While chasing the clouds away

Looking back at a specific date. This special day changed the way many people thought about love.

Our hearts were ringing
In the key that our souls were singing
As we danced in the night, remember
How the stars stole the night away, oh yeah

This event was celebrated by many people like a royal wedding. To those in attendance, the dance floor was open all night. Either a reference to dancing outside at night or a celebrity ball.

Hey, hey, hey
Ba-dee-ya, say, do you remember?
Ba-dee-ya, dancing in September
Ba-dee-ya, never was a cloudy day

This was a special evening that is often brought up in discussions.

Ba-du-du, ba-du-du, ba-du-du, ba-du-du
Ba-du-du, ba-du-du, ba-du-du, ba-du-du
Ba-du-du, ba-du-du, ba-du-da

A fun transition.

My thoughts are with you
Holding hands with your heart to see you
Only blue talk and love, remember

Thinking about a special person. Perhaps memories of their wedding.

How we knew love was here to stay

A wedding where those in attendance realized that they belonged together.

Now December, found the love we shared in September
Only blue talk and love, remember
The true love we share today

Fond memories of their marriage.

Hey, hey, hey
Ba-dee-ya, say, do you remember?
Ba-dee-ya, dancing in September
Ba-dee-ya, never was a cloudy day
There was a
Ba-dee-ya, say, do you remember?
Ba-dee-ya, dancing in September
Ba-dee-ya, golden dreams were shiny days

A time of reminiscing.

The bell was ringing, oh, oh
Our souls were singing
Do you remember
Never a cloudy day, yow

Wedding day bells. Closely knitted. Looking at life with a positive perspective.

There was a
Ba-dee-ya, say, do you remember?
Ba-dee-ya, dancing in September
Ba-dee-ya, never was a cloudy day
And we’ll say
Ba-dee-ya, say, do you remember?
Ba-dee-ya, dancing in September
Ba-dee-ya, golden dreams were shiny days

Repeating the chorus with fond memories of the past.

Ba-dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya
Ba-dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya
Ba-dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya
Ba-dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya
Ba-dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya
Ba-dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya

A good beat to dance to.

Final Thoughts:

My oldest son James celebrated a birthday by taking some friends to see Night at the Museum. Subsequently, whenever I hear September, I think of this movie about a man who was struggling in life until one evening as a night janitor transformed his perspective on life. Renewed with confidence, hope and purpose, Larry Daley came home from work a different person with a bounce in his step. This is what can happen on a special day this month.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-August 31

Posted on August 31, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Skarlett Riot – Rising (Official Music Video 2015)

Inspiration Behind Rising:

Skarlett Riot created a sung to encourage listeners to bounce back from adversity. This rock band from Scunthorpe, England formed 5 years before releasing Rising. When you are young, you can feel invincible until disappointment, failure and trials put your confidence to the test. Rising serves as an anthem for individuals who refuse to quit.

Biblical Application:

If you falter in a time of trouble, how small is your strength! – Proverbs 24:10

Exegesis of Rising:

I saw it comin now,
When I looked into your eyes,
You knew I wouldn’t last,
In this cruel world,
You can’t deny,
They pulled me down,
And dragged me round like a puppet,
On a string now,
Controlled by you,
Made out a fool,

A failed relationship and the consequences that followed.

Like a phoenix up above,
Rising from the flames,
I’ll be back again,
I feel much stronger now,
You won’t know how,
To shoot me down again,
These wounds have healed with time,
But they scar for life,
I won’t be hurt again,
Like a phoenix up above,
Rising from the flames,

Beside the heartache, frustration and pain, Skarlett possesses resolve to press on. She’ll be back.

I‘ll be back again,
I’ll be back again…

I’ll be back again…

She doesn’t give a time frame, but she will recover.

You’ve got a lotta nerve,
To attack me with your venom,
You’ve got a lot to learn,
You’re not so shy when your alone,
I’ll get revenge,
I’m not as shy as I once was,
This world is better off,
Without people like you,

Skarlett was verbally abused either by a former boyfriend or parent. This situation has made her more vocal, realizing that the world is better off without human beings who spew venomous words.

Oh am I too cruel?
Oh am I too cruel?

She admits to being able to be cruel and petty.

Like a phoenix up above,
Rising from the flames,
I’ll be back again,
I feel much stronger now,
You won’t know how,
To shoot me down again,
These wounds have healed with time,
But they scar for life,
I won’t be hurt again,
Like a phoenix up above,
Rising from the flames,

Don’t let adversity hold you down for long. Rise up from the ashes of failure and rejection. While she still may be hurt, she is resilient.

I’ll be back again,
I’ll be back again…
I’ll be back again…

Eager to recover by coming back stronger than ever.

You’ll get what you deserve,
I’ll get my revenge, revenge,
Your poisonous mouth,

You’ll reap what you sow.

Wont hurt me now,
I’m immune to your curse,
And all your wickedness,
All your wickedness

I’m done with you. You can’t hurt me now.

Like a phoenix up above,
Rising from the flames,
I’ll be back again,
I feel much stronger now,
You won’t know how,
To shoot me down again,
These wounds have healed with time,
But they scar for life,
I won’t be hurt again,
Like a phoenix up above,
Rising from the flames,
I’ll be back again,
I’ll be back again…
I’ll be back again…
Ill be back again…
Ill be back again…

Ending with an extended chorus. Using Greek Mythology to highlight the importance of coming back from defeat and failure. Despite the pain, get back up and rise again.

Final Thoughts:

I discovered Skarlett Riot during the Coronavirus. While working in isolation, I was able to listen to music at work while I was problem solving. As the calendar turns the page tomorrow to September, don’t let the disappointments of this summer hold you down. Rather, rise from the ashes of defeat so that this fall you’ll be back again, stronger than ever.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-August 30

Posted on August 30, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Michael Jackson – Man In The Mirror (Official Video)

Inspiration Behind Man in the Mirror:

Man in the Mirror was conceived from a desire to create a song that would serve as an anthem for social change. At this stage in Michael’s career, Jackson was acutely aware of global issues such as poverty, apartheid, environmental degradation, and inequality. Siedah Garrett had been developing the concept of Man in the Mirror for a year, jotting down notes as a vision for this song became clear. When Michael noticed Garrett’s written lines about a man looking in the mirror, the direction for this song was captured.

Biblical Application:

When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known, 1 Corinthians 13:11-12.

Exegesis of Man in the Mirror:

[Intro]
Mm-mm-mm
Ah, ooh, uh, uh

Warm up, ready to start.

[Verse 1]
I’m gonna make a change for once in my life
It’s gonna feel real good
Gonna make a difference, gonna make it right, ah, uh
As I turned up the collar on my favorite winter coat
This wind is blowin’ my mind
I see the kids in the street with not enough to eat
Who am I to be blind, pretending not to see their needs?

Michael was tired about talking about change without any actions. He began to take his role as a celebrity serious. While he was getting dressed on a cold winter day, his eyes were opened to the poverty surrounding him.

[Pre-Chorus]
A summer’s disregard,a broken bottle top
And a one man’s soul
They follow each other on the wind, ya know
‘Cause they got nowhere to go
That’s why I want you to know

Alluding to the homeless who follow each other as they have no place to go.

[Chorus]
I’m starting with the man in the mirror
I’m asking him to change his ways
And no message could have been any clearer
If you wanna make the world a better place
Take a look at yourself and then make a change

Michael begins by looking at his own life to see how he can make a difference. Change starts with yourself by looking deep inside your heart and soul. Searching for conviction to be transformed into an agent of change.

[Post-Chorus]
Na-na-na, na-na-na, na-na, na-na
Uh-huh

A fun transition.

[Verse 2]
I’ve been a victim of a selfish kinda love
It’s time that I realize
There are some with no home
Not a nickel to loan
Could it be really me pretending that they’re not alone?

Michael had been so self-absorbed that he didn’t recognize all the needy people that he passed daily. Change begins with a random act of kindness that spreads to the point that you are inspired to give.

[Pre-Chorus]
A willow deeply scarred, somebody’s broken heart
And a washed-out dream (Washed-out dream)
They follow the pattern of the wind, ya see
‘Cause they got no place to be
That’s why I’m starting with me

The need to become aware of your surroundings. To stop, see and start acting out in love.

[Chorus]
I’m starting with the man in the mirror (Who?)
I’m asking him to change his ways (Who?)
And no message could have been any clearer
If you wanna make the world a better place
Take a look at yourself and then make a change
I’m starting with the man in the mirror (Who?)
I’m asking him to change his ways (Who?)
And no message could have been any clearer
If you wanna make the world a better place
Take a look at yourself and then make that change
I’m starting with the man in the mirror (Man in the mirror, oh, yeah)
I’m asking him to change his ways (Change his ways)
(Oh, you better change)
And no message (Ooh, ooh) could have been any clearer

Michael is singing to himself. As if he was giving himself a pep talk to try harder. Don’t wait for others to do something. Be the catalyst by deciding to start making a difference today.

[Bridge]
If you wanna make the world a better place
Take a look at yourself and then make the change
You gotta get it right while you got the time
‘Cause when you close your heart (You can’t)
Then you close your mind (Close your, your mind)

You can make a difference in this world if you want to. However, you must have a sense of urgency or you’ll be lulled back into a state of complacency.

[Chorus]
(That man, that man) I’m starting with the man in the mirror
(That man)
(Ohh yeah)
(That man, that man) I’m asking him to change his ways
(That man, the man, you know, that man)
(Well, I’ll change)
And no message could have been any clearer (Ooh, ooh)
If you want to make the world a better place
Take a look at yourself and then make that
(Take a look at yourself and then make that)
Change

The final chorus hoping to inspire others to make a difference in this life.

[Post-Chorus]
Hoo, hoo (Na-na-na, na-na-na, na-na, na-na), hoo, hoo, hoo, hoo, hoo
Gonna feel real good (Oh, yeah)
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah (Na-na-na, na-na-na, na-na, na-na)
Yeah, yeah, oh no, oh no

Giving makes you feel good.

[Outro]
I’m gonna make a change
It’s gonna feel real good, shamone (Change)
Just lift yourself, you know
You’ve got to start with yourself, brother, (Yeah) hoo
(Make that change) I gotta make that change today, hoo (Man in the mirror) You’ve got to, you got to start with yourself, brother, hoo (Yeah)
You know (Make that change)
I started with that man, that man (Man in the mirror)
You’ve got to, you’ve got to move, shamone, shamone
You’ve got to stand up (Yeah), stand up (Make that change), stand up, stand up and lift yourself now (Man in the mirror)
Hoo, hoo, hoo, oww (Yeah, make that change)
Go make that change, shamone (Man in the mirror)
You know it, you know it, you know it, you know (Change)
Make that change

Final call to action, challenging listeners to get off the sidelines and begin to help their fellow citizens. Make a change today.

Final Thoughts:

My first job after graduating college was in social work. I was a Summer Workcamp Coordinator for the Methodist Action Program in Wilmington, Delaware. I worked with local churches to set up one day, weekend and weeklong service projects in needy neighbors. One of my favorite memories is when a youth group transformed a drug infested playground full of glass, overgrown weeds and trash. By the end of the day, children began to play here for the first time in months. This is how change occurs.

by Jay Mankus

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