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The Message Behind the Music-October 3

Rockwell – Somebody’s Watching Me (Official Music Video)

Inspiration Behind Somebody’s Watching Me:

Rockwell addressed the unsettling feeling of being constantly observed or spied on in this age of hidden cameras. Somebody’s Watching Me explores the paranoia and anxiety that can arise from sensing that you are being watched. This song was conceived out of the feeling that you are being watched via surveillance or from the feeling of being judged by society.

Biblical Application:

For your ways are in full view of the Lord, and he examines all your paths. 22 The evil deeds of the wicked ensnare them; the cords of their sins hold them fast. 23 For lack of discipline they will die, led astray by their own great folly, Proverbs 5:21-23.

Exegesis of Somebody’s Watching You:

Pretty, pretty, pretty as a picture
Witty, witty, witty as you can be
Blind ’cause your eyes see only glitter
Closed to the things that make you free
Ever stop to think about a downfall?
Happens at the end of every line
Just when you think you’ve pulled a fast one
Happens to the foolish all the time

A reference to surveillance cameras in most stores you shop in. These tiny devices often go unnoticed or unseen. Those who think they can steal are discovered when the cameras are rewound.

Somebody’s watching you
Somebody’s watching you
Somebody’s watching you
Somebody’s watching you

Somebody is watching you; big brother.

Games are to be played with toys, et cetera
Love is to be made when you’re for real
Ups and downs are caused by life in general
Some are yours no matter how you feel
Shady as a lady in a moustache
Feelings camouflaged by groans and grins
Secrets have a special way about them
Moving to and fro among your friends

A stanza with a series of charades, disguises, and façades to expose fake people. Despite attempts to hide secrets, they will be discovered in your spheres of influences.

Somebody’s watching you
Somebody’s watching you
Somebody’s watching you
Somebody’s watching you

There is always something observing your daily actions.

Live it up today if you want to
Live it down tomorrow afternoon
Sunday school don’t make you cool forever
Neither does the silver of your spoon
The nicer the nice, the higher the price
This is what you pay for what you need
The higher the price, the nicer the nice
Jealous people like to see you bleed

References to growing up. Whether you went to Sunday School as a child or were raised in a loving family, jealous people want to see good people get hurt. Some people pay for friendships leaving a nice environment until betrayal.

Somebody’s watching you
Somebody’s watching you (somebody, somebody’s watching you)
Somebody’s watching you (somebody, somebody, somebody)
Somebody’s watching you (somebody)
Somebody’s watching you (somebody)
Somebody’s watching you (somebody)
Somebody’s watching you (watching you)
Somebody’s watching you (watching you)
Somebody’s watching you (somebody, you)
Somebody’s watching you (somebody, somebody, somebody, somebody)
Somebody’s watching you
Somebody’s watching you

These are the numerous examples and their motives for watching you in life.

Final Thoughts:

Before surveillance cameras, local neighborhoods would keep an eye on children when their parents were out shopping or at work during the summer. I remember taking something from a yard as a kid before an adult caught me. While I felt miserable at the time, this one event taught me not to steal something that wasn’t mine. This is one of the few benefits of surveillance cameras today.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-September 27

Wishing Well

Inspiration Behind Wishing Well:

Marc Byrd wrote Wishing Well as part of a charitable project called Project Aegis. This song was conceived after completing work on the band’s album Ulterium. Wishing Well reads like a story of a young person navigating life’s complexities. The lyrics express regret and sorrow, seeking forgiveness for the people that he has hurt in his past.

Biblical Application:

Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours. 25 And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive them, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins,” Mark 11:25.

Exegesis of Wishing Well:

Red Rover, come over, pick clovers
Let’s spend a little time away
We’re learning, we’re turning, we’re burning our hands
Playing in the fire today

Childhood game reference. Taking a break from life to have fun and be rejuvenated. The last 2 lines are either a metaphor about playing with fire or growing up in a farming community where weeds are burned.

But please don’t listen
To the lies inside this place
When the monster rears its head out
Just turn and see your face

Be careful not to believe gossip. Perhaps an image of childhood fairy tales about monsters living under your bed or in your closet.

When the sky is torn, the feelings are reborn
Like the passing rain, this moment will fade away
And so I try to find my water all by myself
It’s so dry
I won’t stop to cry

Incoming storms which trigger something from your past. Rain washing away any traces of debris, pollen or trash. Going to the wishing well, unable to find water due to a drought. Hope is fleeting.

Indecision is killing, you’re wishing, you’re dreaming
You’re measly life away
Time is out, time is gone, time is in
Time has come and flown away

Struggling to make a decision. Dreaming of what could be and wishing for something instead of being decisive. Complacency, procrastination and uncertainty is causing life and time to slip away.

But please don’t listen
To the lies inside this place
When the monster sticks its head out
Just turn and slap its face

Ungodly beliefs and untruths that human beings pick up during the course of their life.

When the sky is torn, the feelings are reborn
Like the passing rain, this moment will fade away
And so I try to find my water all by myself
It’s so dry

Metaphors to express wandering around in life to convey a journey of self-discovery

I’m drinking from this wishing well
I’m fleeing from this frozen cell
And I think about the people I’ve hurt in my life
I think about the people I’ve hurt in my life
Forgive me for the people I’ve hurt in my life
Forgive me for the people I hurt

This time of reflection has brought up flashbacks and memories of people that this individual has hurt in the past. Seeking forgiveness and reconciliation.

When the sky is torn, the feelings are reborn
Like the passing rain, this moment will fade away
And cannot find my water all by myself
So I wander
And I wander and wander and wander
All by myself

Illustrating how trial and error helps you confront inner struggles head-on instead of putting off important decisions like previous stanzas.

Final Thoughts:

Life is like a giant jigsaw puzzle. It takes time to find all of the border pieces. Once you start to put together the context, you’ll have a better understanding of what you are searching for. As long as you continue to learn by avoiding complacency, discovering the complexities of life becomes attainable. However, if you never evolve or mature, you’ll be like a wandering child, dreaming and wishing for a bright future.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-March 9

Inspiration Behind Hold On:

Hold On by Wilson Phillips provides an inside scoop of what was going on behind the scenes of her band. Lead singer Chyanna was battling substance abuse and a difficult relationship. The lyrics of Hold On serves as words of encouragement to hang in there until this tumultuous stage of life ends. The theme of Hold On urges listeners in a similar situation to make a change to avoid falling into a cycle of pain.

Biblical Application:

Do not quench the Spirit. 20 Do not treat prophecies with contempt 21 but test them all; hold on to what is good, 22 reject every kind of evil, 1 Thessalonians 5:19-21.

Exegesis of Hold On:

I know there’s pain (I know there’s pain)
Why do you lock yourself up in these chains? (These chains)
No one can change your life except for you
Don’t ever let anyone step all over you

Pain is a natural aspect of life. Yet how you respond to pain will dictate how quickly you recover. You need to take responsibility for your life and stop playing the victim. If you want to change, stop letting others walk all over you.

Just open your heart and your mind
Mmm
Is it really fair to feel, this way inside?
Whoa-oh-oh

If the human heart is your well spring to life, guard your heart as you open your mind to a new future free from pain. Don’t let the past drag you down.

Someday, somebody’s gonna make you want to
Turn around and say goodbye
Until then, baby, are you going to let ’em
Hold you down and make you cry?
Don’t you know?
Don’t you know, things can change?
Things will go your way
If you hold on for one more day
Can you hold on for one more day?
Things will go your way
Hold on for one more day

Change is possible, but your need to develop perseverance to press on. While you are waiting for circumstances in your life to change, hold on for dear life until things start to go your way again.

You could sustain
(Hmm) or are you comfortable with the pain?
You’ve got no one to blame for your unhappiness (no, baby)
You got yourself into your own mess (ooh)

Don’t let pain consume your life. You’ve got to be proactive in breaking free from your current situation. Don’t let these negative patterns continue.

Lettin’ your worries pass you by (lettin’ your worries), baby, (pass you by)
Don’t you think it’s worth your time
To change your mind?
No, no

Doubt and depression are holding Chyanna back. Once her mind believes that change is possible, healing can begin.

Someday, somebody’s gonna make you want to
Turn around and say goodbye
Until then, baby, are you going to let ’em
Hold you down and make you cry?
Don’t you know?
Don’t you know, things can change?
Things will go your way
If you hold on for one more day
Can you hold on for one more day?
Things will go your way (all things will go your way)
Hold on for one more day

Breaking free from self-destructive patterns can be extremely difficult. Yet until you truly want to change how you are living, you’ll continue down this painful road. Some people just need a spark of hope or a positive influence to usher in a season of change.

I know that there is pain
But you hold on for one more day
And you break free from the chains
Yeah, I know that there is pain
But you hold on for one more day and you
Break free, break from the chains

I know you are hurting, but you have to hang in there. Press on.

Someday, somebody’s gonna make you want to
Turn around and say goodbye (say goodbye)
Until then, baby, are you going to let ’em
Hold you down and make you cry?
Don’t you know?
Don’t you know (know), things can change? (No?)
Things will go your way
If you hold on for one more day, yeah
If you hold on
Don’t you know, things can change
Things will go your way
If you hold on for one more day

Wilson is encouraging Chyanna that she will see light at the end of the tunnel. Yet, for now, hang in there just one more day.

Can you hold on?
Can you hold on?
Mmm, can you hold on, baby
Won’t you tell me now
Hold on for one more day
‘Cause it’s gonna go your way
Don’t you know, things can change
Things will go your way
If you hold on for one more day, yeah
Can’t you change it this time
Make up your mind
Hold on
Hold on

This final chorus is like a prayer for a good friend. A glimpse of hope is better than the reality of pain and suffering.

Final Thoughts:

As a former youth pastor, teenagers can place themselves into difficult situations similar to Chyanna. All I could do was be an agent for change, providing words of hope. In the end, human beings have to want to change before hope has the opportunity to become a reality.

by Jay Mankus

Engaging Our Culture: September 19-Another Season to Heal

Video of the Day: Clip from the 2018 movie “The Miracle Season”

Bible Verse of the Day:

There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens:2    a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot,3    a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build,4   a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance, Ecclesiastes 3:1-4.

As a former high school teacher, a year doesn’t go by without a local student dying in a car accident. After meeting a teenager for the first time, this boy died on their way home that weekend. This is the movie plot for the Miracle Season as members of the girls’ volleyball are forced to come together following the tragic death of Line Found. As friends and family start the healing process, the remainder of West High’s season is dedicated to their former star Caroline.

King Solomon spent time as a judge ruling other difficult cases like the one in 1 Kings 2. Yet, in today’s passage, Solomon reflects upon the various seasons of life that human beings must endure. Life is filled with ups and downs, which may be shocking and unexpected. This emotional roller coaster may lead you to lean on family, friends or teammates to get you through difficult times. Caroline’s death serves as a catalyst to come together as a team and achieve greatness.

Closing Song:

Jesus’ earth brother refers to unexpected events like Caroline’s death as trials that are part of life, James 1:2-4. These unsettling times are necessary to become mature and complete spiritually. If this blog finds you still hurting, may the fall of 2025 serve as a season of healing.

by Jay Mankus

Engaging Our Culture: May 29-Unusual Healings

Video of the Day: Clip from the 1999 movie “The Green Mile”

Bible Verse of the Day:

After saying this, he spit on the ground, made some mud with the saliva, and put it on the man’s eyes. 7 “Go,” he told him, “wash in the Pool of Siloam” (this word means “Sent”). So the man went and washed, and came home seeing.8 His neighbors and those who had formerly seen him begging asked, “Isn’t this the same man who used to sit and beg?” 9 Some claimed that he was. Others said, “No, he only looks like him.” But he himself insisted, “I am the man,” John 9:6-9.

Biblical Connection:

The Green Mile film is based upon the 1996 Stephen King novel. While serving as a death row prison guard, Paul Edgecomb played by Tom Hanks has an unusual encounter with John Coffey. Despite being sentenced to death, Coffey has a special gift to heal the sick and dying. As Hollywood tries to illustrate the supernatural, Coffey breathes in the source of Paul Edgecomb’s infection.

As a member of Jesus’ inner circle, John was an eyewitness to countless miracles, John 20:30-31. During one of these supernatural events, Jesus uses his own saliva to cure a man blind from birth. This passage doesn’t have any dramatic special effects like today’s movie clip. Yet, Jesus wanted this man to be rescued from all the ungodly beliefs he developed about why he was born blind.

Closing Song:

During one night in my college apartment, I too was a recipient of unusual healing. As a few close friends laid hands on me while praying, my stuttering vanished shortly after this event. I don’t know how or why this happened, but I’m thankful every day for my healer, Jesus.

by Jay Mankus

Engaging Our Culture: February 14-Love in Action

Video of the Day: Clip from the drama series “The Chosen”

Bible Verse of the Day:

When Jesus saw him lying there and learned that he had been in this condition for a long time, he asked him, “Do you want to get well?” 7 “Sir,” the invalid replied, “I have no one to help me into the pool when the water is stirred. While I am trying to get in, someone else goes down ahead of me.” 8 Then Jesus said to him, “Get up! Pick up your mat and walk.” 9 At once the man was cured; he picked up his mat and walked, John 5:6-9.

I have spent most of my life on earth living between Philadelphia and Baltimore. Unlike my experience living in the south, urban sprawl continues as far as the human eye can see, creating a metropolis. Whenever I crossed major intersections, there was normally one homeless person standing out in the cold, begging for money. In my college days, I would occasionally buy one of these individuals a meal at McDonald’s before moving on with the rest of my day. Unfortunately, as an adult, I pass by without stopping, avoiding eye contact.

As Jesus walks through Jerusalem near the Sheep Gate, he wasn’t in a rush as he approaches a pool. Showing compassion on this one man, he takes time to get to know this invalid. According to legend, this pool possessed healing powers. When angels stirred the water, the first people to reach the water was healed. However, Jesus wanted to make sure this man knew the source of his healing, belief and faith in God. Thirty-eight years of doubt and unbelief kept this man in this pathetic condition. Yet, one leap of faith altered the course of this man’s life.

Closing Song:

Don’t be fooled by the commercialism of Valentine’s Day. Love isn’t showering your significant other with expensive gifts. Rather genuine love is loving someone more than you love yourself, by being vulnerable. However, when you celebrate tonight, make sure your love is displayed through fruits of the Holy Spirit, Galatians 5:22-23.

by Jay Mankus

But… God Knows Your Heart

I spent the majority of my adolescence wearing emotions on my sleeves. While my peers knew exactly how I felt, I didn’t have an inkling that God knew what was going on in my heart. I wasn’t mature enough nor did I possess a clear understanding of the God of the Bible. Unfortunately, depression led me to withdraw, trying to cope with my broken heart on my own.

And after there had been a long debate, Peter got up and said to them, Brethren, you know that quite a while ago God made a choice or selection from among you, that by my mouth the Gentiles should hear the message of the Gospel [concerning the [c]attainment through Christ of salvation in the kingdom of God] and believe (credit and place their confidence in it), Acts 15:7.

As the first century church of Jesus Christ grew, differences emerged between churches and their leaders. Rather than sweep this under the rug by ignoring it, the apostles and disciples met in Jerusalem to come to some sort of a resolution. Rather than force Jewish practices upon newly converted Gentiles to Christianity, a couple of key Mosiac laws were recommended to follow.

And God, Who is acquainted with and understands the heart, bore witness to them, giving them the Holy Spirit as He also did to us; 9 And He made no difference between us and them, but cleansed their hearts by faith ([d]by a strong and welcome conviction that Jesus is the Messiah, through Whom we obtain eternal salvation in the kingdom of God), Acts 15:8-9.

It took a first century doctor in Luke to point out that God knows and understands human hearts. Meanwhile, an individual described by one prophet as a man after God’s own heart experienced one trial that opened his spiritual eyes, Psalm 34:18. Don’t try to be a hero by wanting to figure out everything on your own. Let go and let God heal your wounded heart.

by Jay Mankus

When Prayer Opens Your Eyes

The earthly brother of Jesus begins his first letter to first century Christians with two harsh realities in life, James 1:2-4 and James 1:13-15. The first is a reminder that trials are placed in your life to promote spiritual growth. Unfortunately, addictions, bad habits, and unwholesome cravings can blind you from what’s really going inside of you, Galatians 5:16. Subsequently, God can use prayer to open our eyes to solutions to life’s problems.

And God heard the voice of the youth, and the angel of God called to Hagar out of heaven and said to her, What troubles you, Hagar? Fear not, for God has heard the voice of the youth where he is. 18 Arise, raise up the youth and support him with your hand, for I intend to make him a great nation. 19 Then God opened her eyes and she saw a well of water; and she went and filled the [empty] bottle with water and caused the youth to drink, Genesis 21:17-19.

When you’re having a bad day or become depressed, you become vulnerable to self-fulfilled prophecies. These occur when you speak negative thoughts into existence. In the passage above, Hagar and Ishmael are asked to leave Abraham’s house. Subsequently, Hagar came to the conclusion that it was only a matter of time before her son would die. Hagar places Ishmael under a shrub, walking away so she doesn’t witness her son’s death.

Confess to one another therefore your faults (your slips, your false steps, your offenses, your sins) and pray [also] for one another, that you may be healed and restored [to a spiritual tone of mind and heart]. The earnest (heartfelt, continued) prayer of a righteous man makes tremendous power available [dynamic in its working]. 17 Elijah was a human being with a nature such as we have [with feelings, affections, and a constitution like ours]; and he prayed earnestly for it not to rain, and no rain fell on the earth for three years and six months. 18 And [then] he prayed again and the heavens supplied rain and the land produced its crops [as usual], James 5:16-18.

However, when you cry out to the Lord with a desperate spirit, sometimes prayer opens your eyes. This can also occur when you confess your shortcomings to God. Like an addict going to an accountability group, publicly acknowledging your errors and mistakes is the first step to recovery. This opens the door for healing to begin. While there are consequences for every sin, prayer enables you to see the big picture. May Hagar’s experience help open your eyes to God’s hand in your life.

by Jay Mankus

S.A.N.S. Episode 350: Broken Heart

An English proverb which dates back to 1742 states “THERE ARE TWO SIDES TO EVERY STORY.” The context of this expression is when you pick up a coin to see how much it’s worth. The same can be said about turning the page from one year to the next. While 2023 is fresh in the minds of people today, you still have to deal with any lingering consequences from your past. If your heart is still broken when the ball dropped on New Year’s Eve, there are still pieces to pick up in this calendar year.

The Lord is close to those who are of a broken heart and saves such as are crushed with sorrow for sin and are humbly and thoroughly penitent, Psalm 34:18.

In their song Broken Heart, Falling Up turns to heaven in prayer to mend their emotion pain. Just as David was in need of healing in the passage above, countless individuals are struggling with their lives entering 2023. While many turn to alcohol and drugs to numb their pain, the lyrics of Broken Heart reach out to Jesus for healing. May the words of Matthew 11:28-30 encourage you take all those things in life weighing you down and place them at the foot of Jesus’ cross to find rest for your soul.

by Jay Mankus

S.A.N.S. Episode 200: Broken Heart

Today’s song comes from an American Christian rock band that formed in Albany, Oregon. Falling Up signed to BEC Recordings in 2003 after a recommendation from friends in the band Kutless. Followers of Falling Up believe their 2008 singles collection Discover the Trees Again was simultaneously the end of an era and the start of an incredibly exciting new chapter for this band.

Heal me, O Lord, and I shall be healed; save me, and I shall be saved, for You are my praise, Jeremiah 17:14.

Every adult is familiar with broken hearts. Whether this is due to a failed friendship or marriage, all human beings are in need of healing. Subsequently, Falling Up’s lyrics of Broken Heart serve as a cry for help like a prayer where you pour out your heart to God. My today’s song encourage you to never be afraid or ashamed to ask God for healing.

by Jay Mankus