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The Message Behind the Music-April 25

Capital Kings – I Can’t Quit (ft. Reconcile) [Official Music Video]

Inspiration Behind I Can’t Quit:

Capital Kings wanted to create to song centered around a message of resilience and determination. The lyrics point to a theme of perseverance by pushing through life’s challenges while staying true to one’s goals. The chorus and title I Can’t Quit serves as a heightened state of determination. Regardless of how bad your situation may get, maintain a resolve to persevere.

Biblical Application:

“How will this be,” Mary asked the angel, “since I am a virgin?” 35 The angel answered, “The Holy Spirit will come on you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be called[b] the Son of God. 36 Even Elizabeth your relative is going to have a child in her old age, and she who was said to be unable to conceive is in her sixth month. 37 For no word from God will ever fail,” Luke 1:34-37.

Exegesis of I Can’t Quit:

Yeah, yeah
Ain’t, ain’t no way I’m slowing this down
If you see me coming through
Then just know it’s ’bout to get loud

Nothing is going to stop or slow down the progress being made in life.

Okay, I’ve been up for like four days
Paranoia man, I can’t think straight
My mind’s gone in another place
But that’s not how you start
It’s how you finish the race

Despite all the distractions and obstacles, there is a resolve to finish strong.

Say, “Woop!”
Yeah

And I know that it sound like me, it is but it ain’t
My life stays one hundred like it was a bank
Either following up or you’re watching on tape
End up a quitter, that’s something I ain’t

Regardless of what happens, quitting isn’t an option.

I can’t quit (no)
Ain’t nobody flexing with me
I can’t quit (I can’t do it)
I got the keys for the city
I can’t quit (no)
I get it poppin’ like Diddy
I can’t quit (woo)
All of my partners legit
I can’t quit

This mind is fixated on a resolve to persevere.

Put those, put those hands up

Lord knows I got hosts, started rollin’
I see hate in they eyes
Know yourself, know your team
Do they want you to win?

There are vocal doubters, haters and others jealousy of his success in life.

I done failed ’bout a hundred times
More I fall then the more I climb
Have fun, say it with me
Long as He got me, I’m winning

Failure is a part of life, but climbing over defeat is the key to victory.

Oh Lord, I’m a hundred proof
Never quitting and I never lose
Oh Lord, I can see it now
Hands up, I’ma lay it down

A prayer for a mindset to never quit.

Hundred players on the ground
Unashamed, hit the ground
Young king need the crown
My heart, I lay it down

This stanza suggests a desire to give his heart to Jesus.

Can’t stop it now, overcoming
I’m giving it every part of me
Oh this is sick, I’m all about it
Oh no, oh no, oh

Perhaps, this section hints to the Lordship of Christ, living his life as an open book to God.

I can’t quit (woo, woo)
Ain’t nobody flexing with me
I can’t quit
I got the keys for the city
I can’t quit (whippin’ it, whippin’ it)
I get it poppin’ like Diddy
I can’t quit (yeah)
All of my partners legit
I can’t quit

Quitting is not an option.

Final Thoughts:

I was told by doctors that my athletic career was over after suffering a 1 in 100 thousand injury to my left ankle at age 16. After this surgery, there was more optimism, but the odds were still not in may favor. This crisis led me to adopt a “I can’t quit” mindset. Three months later, I was in a swimming pool competing for a state championship. settling for a bronze. I didn’t miss a sports season, finishing my final 2 seasons of golf, and senior year of cross country and swimming. This is what is possible when God fills you with an “I Can’t Quit” attitude.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-April 24

Lean on Me

Inspiration Behind Lean on Me:

The lyrics of Lean on Me was inspired by Bill Withers rural upbringing in West Virginia. Bill recalls the strong sense of community that surrounded him growing up. This part of West Virginia was filled with friendship, mutual support and the importance of being there for one another in times of need. When Bill moved to Los Angeles to pursue his musical career, he initially felt isolated, lost in a big city. This is the context which led Bill to write Lean on Me, paying tribute to his past.

Biblical Application:

In the same way, you who are younger, submit yourselves to your elders. All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because, “God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.”[a] Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you, 1 Peter 5:5-7.

Exegesis of Lean on Me:

Hmm… hmm-hmm-hmm-hmm
Hmm-hmm-hmm-hmm
Hmm-hmm-hmm-hmm-hmm
Sometimes in our lives
We all have pain
We all have sorrow

Bill is likely thinking about his struggle to adjust to living alone in California.

But if we are wise
We know that there’s always tomorrow

Bill looks to his past to find hope for the future.

Lean on me
When you’re not strong
And I’ll be your friend
I’ll help you carry on…

This is what Bill experienced while growing up in West Virginia.

For it won’t be long
Till I’m gonna need somebody to lean on

Repay the encouragement that you have received from others.

Please swallow your pride
If I have things you need to borrow

It’s okay to ask for help.

For no one can fill
Those of your needs that you won’t let show

Don’t be afraid to open up and share what’s really going on in your life.

You just call on me brother when you need a hand
We all need somebody to lean on

Be available for a friend.

I just might have a problem that you’ll understand
We all need somebody to lean on

Reach out to others who have gone through what you are currently dealing with.

Lean on me
When you’re not strong
And I’ll be your friend
I’ll help you carry on…

It’s okay to show signs of weakness.

For it won’t be long
Till I’m gonna need somebody to lean on

We all need help at some point in life.

You just call on me brother
When you need a hand
We all need somebody to lean on

Let friends know that you’re only a phone call away from help.

I just might have a problem that you’ll understand
We all need somebody to lean on

Look to a mentor for help in a time of need.

If there is a load you have to bear
That you can’t carry

Lean on Jesus, Matthew 11:28-30.

I’m right up the road
I’ll share your load
If you just call me

Don’t try to carry your burdens alone. Let others lighten your load.

Call me
If you need a friend
(call me)
Call me (call me)
If you need a friend
(call me)
If you ever need a friend
(call me)
Call me
(call me) Call me
(call me) Call me
(call me) Call me
(call me)

Friends are just a text or phone call away.

If you need a friend
(call me)
Call me
(call me) Call me
(call me) Call me
(call me) Call me
(call me)

Make yourself available for friends.

Final Thoughts:

My high school youth group taught me to lean on my friends. While I was raised Catholic, I started attending a Methodist youth group in the middle of my sophomore year. These students and leaders became like a second family to me. During one mission trip, I shared secret scars that I tried to carry on my own. These friendships led me into youth ministry and helped me understand the importance of leaning on Jesus on other people.

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The Message Behind the Music-April 22

Bon Jovi – Livin’ On A Prayer

Inspiration Behind Livin’ on a Prayer:

This song reflects the economic realities of growing up at the bottom end of the middle class. While the characters Tommy and Gina within this song are fictional, the lyrics of Livin’ on a Prayer reflect life experiences of guitarist Richie Sambora. Richie’s Uncle Sal worked on the docks, struggling to make a living. However, the theme of Livin’ on a Prayer points to maintaining a Christian faith despite the struggles of living paycheck to paycheck.

Biblical Application:

“I’m going out to fish,” Simon Peter told them, and they said, “We’ll go with you.” So they went out and got into the boat, but that night they caught nothing. Early in the morning, Jesus stood on the shore, but the disciples did not realize that it was Jesus. He called out to them, “Friends, haven’t you any fish?”“No,” they answered. He said, “Throw your net on the right side of the boat and you will find some.” When they did, they were unable to haul the net in because of the large number of fish, John 21:3-6.

Exegesis of Livin’ on a Prayer:

Once upon a time
Not so long ago

Using a common storyline opening to begin this song.

Tommy used to work on the docks
Union’s been on strike, he’s down on his luck
It’s tough
So tough

Tommy who in real life was Uncle Sal is unable to make any money due to the union strike.

Gina works the diner all day
Working for her man
She brings home her pay, for love
Mm, for love

Gina had to pick up extra shifts to make up the monthly difference of income.

She says, “We’ve gotta hold on to what we’ve got
It doesn’t make a difference if we make it or not
We got each other, and that’s a lot for love
We’ll give it a shot”

These lyrics point a different era in America when married couples were taught to stay together to death do us part. Sure, the current sacrifices Gina had to make sucks, but they have each other for love and support.

Oh, we’re halfway there
Oh-oh, livin’ on a prayer
Take my hand, we’ll make it, I swear
Oh-oh, livin’ on a prayer

The halfway either point to halfway through the month or the Union strike. Living paycheck to paycheck sometimes requires lots of prayer.

Tommy’s got his six-string in hock
Now he’s holding in what he used to make it talk
So tough
Mm, it’s tough

Tommy needed to start selling some valuable possessions to avoid defaulting on their loan or rent.

Gina dreams of running away
She cries in the night, Tommy whispers
“Baby, it’s okay”
Someday

This couple has reached their breaking point, but Tommy provides leadership and hope.

We’ve gotta hold on to what we’ve got
It doesn’t make a difference if we make it or not
We got each other, and that’s a lot for love
We’ll give it a shot

A call to stick together, rise above their current trial.

Oh, we’re halfway there
Oh-oh, livin’ on a prayer
Take my hand, we’ll make it, I swear
Oh-oh, livin’ on a prayer
Livin’ on a prayer

Praying with a sense of urgency.

Ooh, we gotta hold on, ready or not
You live for the fight when that’s all that you’ve got

Don’t give up hope. Keep the faith.

Whoa, we’re halfway there
Whoa-oh, livin’ on a prayer
Take my hand, and we’ll make it, I swear
Whoa-oh, livin’ on a prayer

In real life, Uncle Sal kept his family together through this financial crisis.

Whoa, we’re halfway there
Whoa-oh, livin’ on a prayer
Take my hand and we’ll make it, I swear
Whoa-oh, livin’ on a prayer

During tough times, you need a leader like Sal, who believes they will survive.

Whoa, we’re halfway there
Whoa-oh, livin’ on a prayer
Take my hand and we’ll make it, I swear
Whoa-oh

Leaders are willing take the hand of the doubting and press on with the faith to endure this current storm.

Final Thoughts:

Before attending a youth ministry trade school, I was living in my sister’s basement. I had 2 jobs and made $100 per month. Most of that went toward gas and food. From a financial standpoint, I was on the verge of being homeless. Yet, Christian friends and my faith got me through these times. I was living on a prayer and God provided for my needs.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-April 17

Three Days Grace – Pain (Official Video)

Inspiration Behind Pain:

The lyrics of Pain comes from lead singer Adam Gontier’s experience battling an addiction to OxyContin. Pain was a daily battle during Adam’s rehab. The lyrics point to a more graphic and honest assessment of what is takes to fully recover from a drug addiction. Pain has become an anthem for individuals facing hardship and emotional turmoil.

Biblical Application:

Therefore I do not run like someone running aimlessly; I do not fight like a boxer beating the air. 27 No, I strike a blow to my body and make it my slave so that after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified for the prize, 1 Corinthians 9:26-27.

Exegesis of Pain:

Pain, without love
Pain, I can’t get enough
Pain, I like it rough
‘Cause I’d rather feel pain than nothing at all

OxyContin is a pain killer than takes away your pain after a major surgery. Unfortunately, this is an extremely addictive substance. This is the context of the opening stanza.

You’re sick of feeling numb
You’re not the only one
I’ll take you by the hand
And I’ll show you a world that you can understand

Adam wants to help people facing a similar addiction today. Leading others through this pain and helping them understand what’s at stake.

This life is filled with hurt
When happiness doesn’t work
Trust me and take my hand
When the lights go out, you’ll understand

Adam is either referring to coping with addiction at night or before you undergo a major surgery and get knocked out until the procedure has been completed.

Pain (pain), without love
Pain (pain), I can’t get enough
Pain (pain), I like it rough
‘Cause I’d rather feel pain than nothing at all

Adam explains that pain is a good thing while trying to free his body from the use of OxyContin.

Pain (pain), without love
Pain (pain), I can’t get enough
Pain (pain), I like it rough
‘Cause I’d rather feel pain than nothing at all

Feeling pain means that he is not taking OxyContin.

Anger and agony
Are better than misery
Trust me, I’ve got a plan
When the lights go off, you’ll understand

Adam provides a series of emotions that he endured during rehab, explaining that anger and agony are signs of progress and recovery.

Pain (pain), without love
Pain (pain), I can’t get enough
Pain (pain), I like it rough
‘Cause I’d rather feel pain than nothing at all

Overcoming addiction is like fighting another boxer, trying to be defensive with an occasion jab to be proactive.

Pain (pain), without love
Pain (pain), I can’t get enough
Pain (pain), I like it rough
‘Cause I’d rather feel pain than nothing
Rather feel pain

Unless you have been to rehab or struggled to overcome bad habits, you need mental toughness that exists inside a long-distance runner and a heavy weight champion.

(I know, I know, I know, I know)
I know that you’re wounded
(You know, you know, you know, you know)
That I’m here to save you
(You know, you know, you know, you know)
I’m always here for you
(I know, I know, I know, I know)
That you’ll thank me later

This song serves as emotional support and encouragement to keep battling until you are freed from addiction.

Pain, without love
Pain, can’t get enough
Pain, I like it rough
‘Cause I’d rather feel pain than nothing at all

Stick it out and keep fighting as pain will be a daily presence.

Pain (pain), without love
Pain (pain), I can’t get enough
Pain (pain), I like it rough
‘Cause I’d rather feel pain than nothing at all

This repetitive chorus suggests that the end of this song is near.

Pain (pain), without love
Pain (pain), I can’t get enough
Pain (pain), I like it rough
‘Cause I’d rather feel pain than nothing at all
Rather feel pain than nothing at all
Rather feel pain

The first step to recovery is acknowledging that you have a problem. Loved ones can’t fully help you until you reach this point in life. Pain is a reality of life. However, once addiction is conquered, there will be another set of challenges waiting for you to face.

Final Thoughts:

We all have dark periods in our lives, often influenced by poor choices. Some people recover without anyone noticing while others go down a one-way road that leads to destruction. There is no easy way out or shortcut back to normalcy. Addictions, bad habits and unwholesome cravings can ravage your soul. The key to recovery is to never give up hope, prevent the thought of quitting fro, entering your mind and fight through the pain until victory is achieved. However, you’ll need an accountability partner to walk with you along the way.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-April 16

Little Big Town – Tornado (Official Music Video)

Inspiration Behind Tornado:

Little Big Town uses tornado as a metaphor. Rather than build a song around a destructive force of nature, the lyrics illustrates what happens when a woman filled with anger and vengeance leaves her own destruction path on human souls. While the music video makes listeners expect to see a real tornado at any moment, this debris field leaves behind mental and spiritual scars from a disgruntled woman.

Biblical Application:

Make every effort to live in peace with everyone and to be holy; without holiness no one will see the Lord. 15 See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many, Hebrews 12:14-15.

Exegesis of Tornado:

Thought you’ll change the weather
Start a little storm, make a little rain
But I’m gonna do one better
Have the sun until you pray

When someone is about to lose their composure, there are obvious signs like a raised voice, a change is emotions and venomous speech. Tornados have their own warning signs in the sky. Karen Fairplay wants to do one better with an odd play on words to end this opening stanza.

I’m a tornado looking for a soul to take
You’re gonna see me coming by the selfish things that you did
I’m gonna leave you guessing have this fun on this gonna hit I’m a tornado, looking for a man to break

Hurt people have a tendency to want to inflict the people who hurt them. This is the payback that is referred to.

Yeah, I’m gonna leave this house, spinning all around
Tossing in the air and playing in the ground
Make sure you’ll never found

Like the wrath from a twister, the angry brewing wants to leave a similar path of destruction.

Thought you’ll take the swing try another girl, try another night
But it’s not pain that brings my force of nature back to life
I’m a tornado, what’s done gotta left by

Sometimes human beings try to play God, seeking to payback the harm done to their soul.

Hey I’m gonna leave this house, spin it all around
Tossing in the air and put it in the ground
I’m gonna leave this house, spin it all around
Tossing in the air and put it in the groun
d
Make sure you’ll never find, oh yeah

This is what happens when you allow the root of bitterness to consume your soul.

Hey I’m gonna leave this house, spin it all around
Tossing in the air and put it in the ground
Yeah, I’m gonna leave this house, spin it all around
Tossing in the air and put it in the ground
Make sure you’ll never find

The lyrics suggest that she wants to bury her ex-boyfriend, sending a bad message,

The winds are getting stronger and the sky is falling through
You ain’t got much longer till the rage rips off the roof
I’m a tornado and I’m coming after you

When common sense is gone, anger and rage take over.

Final Thoughts:

The older I become; I try to be a peace maker. Yet, in my younger years, I had a short fuse, going off at a moment’s notice. My anger management issue took more than a decade to finally control. When you become open to letting Jesus come into your life, Romans 10:9-11, this transformation is possible, but it takes time.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-April 12

Jars Of Clay – Flood

Inspiration Behind Flood:

The idea for Flood began in college as members of Jars of Clay wanted to blend a positive Christian message that would resonate with a secular audience. Jars of Clay took a metaphorical approach when mentioning the 40-day flood depicted in the Bible. Whenever excessive fronts, systems and rain clouds form, small streams can quickly turn into raging rivers, filled with debris and mud. These unexpected storms often lead to spiritual desperation and the desire for redemption.

Biblical Application:

In the six hundredth year of Noah’s life, on the seventeenth day of the second month—on that day all the springs of the great deep burst forth, and the floodgates of the heavens were opened. 12 And rain fell on the earth forty days and forty nights, Genesis 7:11-12.

Exegesis of Flood:

Rain rain on my face
It hasn’t stopped raining for days
My world is a flood
Slowly I become one with the mud

A slow-moving system has left days of rain showers. However, the flood refers to the spiritual condition of one’s life, filled with confusion, guilt and sinful tendencies.

But if I can’t swim after forty days
And my mind is crushed by the thrashing waves
Lift me up so high that I cannot fall
Lift me up

The can’t swim comment appears to suggest that they are losing hope. The current and waves is wearing out their mind, on the verge of giving up. Crying out to God for help.

Lift me up – When I’m falling
Lift me up – I’m weak and I’m dying
Lift me up – I need you to hold me
Lift me up – Keep me from drowning again

This chorus includes 4 specific prayer requests to survive this storm.

Down pour on my soul
Splashing in the ocean I’m losing control
Dark sky all around
I can’t feel my feet touching the ground

This reminds me of being in the ocean when the current pushes you past where you can stand. These are the emotions that can take a toll on your soul.

But if I can’t swim after forty days
And my mind is crushed by the thrashing waves
Lift me up so high that I cannot fall
Lift me up

You can only handle so much in life. When the pressure gets too great, people cry out to God for help.

Lift me up – When I’m falling
Lift me up – I’m weak and I’m dying
Lift me up – I need you to hold me
Lift me up – Keep me from drowning again

This is where self-preservation kicks in, wanting to live.

Calm the storms that drench my eyes
Dry the streams still flowing
Casting down all the waves of sin
And guilt that overthrow me

This stanza speaks to a series of addictions, bad habits or unwholesome cravings that has turned their lives upside down.

If I can’t swim after forty days
And my mind is crushed by the thrashing waves
Lift me up so high that I cannot fall
Lift me up

Who do you call on when you need help?

Lift me up – When I’m falling
Lift me up – I’m weak and I’m dying
Lift me up – I need you to hold me
Lift me up – Keep me from drowning again

Crying out to an invisible God for help.

(Lift me up) When I’m falling
(Lift me up) I’m weak and I’m dying
(Lift me up) I need you to hold me
(Lift me up) Keep me from drowning again

Don’t quit up. Keep asking and seeking God’s help.

Final Thoughts:

Life is full of unexpected events which add anxiety, concerns and stress to your life. If you have ever struggled with addiction, prayers may go unanswered for months, years and decades. Yet, if you press on and never give up hope, healing and restoration can be achieved. The timing is different for everyone, but the freedom that exists afterward is worth the years of blood, sweat and tears.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-April 11

Don McLean – American Pie (Lyric Video)

Inspiration Behind American Pie:

Don McLean was a 13-year-old paper boy in New Rochelle, New York when he peaked at the headlines on the front page. The day that music died was breaking news of the death of Buddy Holly following an airplane crash. At this moment in 1959, Holly was McLean’s favorite musician. This tragic event inspired Don to write American Pie to honor Buddy Holly’s death and impact on music.

Biblical Application:

For the Lord will not cast off forever! 32 But though He causes grief, yet will He be moved to compassion according to the multitude of His loving-kindness and tender mercy. 33 For He does not willingly and from His heart afflict or grieve the children of men, Lamentations 3:31-33.

Exegesis of American Pie:

A long, long time ago
I can still remember how that music
Used to make me smile
And I knew if I had my chance
That I could make those people dance
And maybe they’d be happy for a while

Buddy Holly inspired Don McLean to become a musician, wanting to make people dance.

But February made me shiver
With every paper I’d deliver
Bad news on the doorstep
I couldn’t take one more step
I can’t remember if I cried
When I read about his widowed bride
Something touched me deep inside
The day the music died

As a former newspaper boy, it was dark until you were nearly down your route so as the sun began to rise, Don caught a glimpse of the front page in February of 1959. Don was in shock, pausing to read a portion of this story about Buddy’s widowed bride.

So, bye-bye, Miss American Pie
Drove my Chevy to the levee, but the levee was dry
And them good ol’ boys were drinkin’ whiskey and rye
Singin’, “This’ll be the day that I die
This’ll be the day that I die”

This chorus serves as a tribute to Holly.

Did you write the book of love
And do you have faith in God above
If the Bible tells you so?
Now, do you believe in rock ‘n’ roll
Can music save your mortal soul
And can you teach me how to dance real slow?

Buddy’s death caused Don to begin to contemplate the meaning of life, exploring questions he never thought of before.

Well, I know that you’re in love with him
‘Cause I saw you dancin’ in the gym
You both kicked off your shoes
Man, I dig those rhythm and blues
I was a lonely teenage bronckin’ buck
With a pink carnation and a pickup truck
But I knew I was out of luck
The day the music died

Don recalls a girl who was also a fan of Holly with an image of a high school dance or prom. Yet the loss of Buddy Holly’s music was still fresh in Don’s mind.

I started singin’, “Bye, bye, Miss American Pie”
Drove my Chevy to the levee, but the levee was dry
Them good ol’ boys were drinkin’ whiskey and rye
Singin’, “This’ll be the day that I die
This’ll be the day that I die”

These memories gave birth to the chorus above.

Now, for ten years we’ve been on our own
And moss grows fat on a rollin’ stone
But that’s not how it used to be
When the jester sang for the king and queen
In a coat he borrowed from James Dean
And a voice that came from you and me

Don reflects upon the musicians that influenced his life.

Oh, and while the king was looking down
The jester stole his thorny crown
The courtroom was adjourned
No verdict was returned
And while Lenin read a book on Marx
A quartet practiced in the park
And we sang dirges in the dark
The day the music died

This stanza reads like a poem mixing history with musicians and their impact on American culture.

We were singin’, “Bye, bye, Miss American Pie”
Drove my Chevy to the levee, but the levee was dry
Them good ol’ boys were drinkin’ whiskey and rye
Singin’, “This’ll be the day that I die
This’ll be the day that I die”

The lyrics to American Pie highlight events and musicians which led Don to write this song.

Helter skelter in a summer swelter
The birds flew off with a fallout shelter
Eight miles high and falling fast
It landed foul on the grass
The players tried for a forward pass
With the jester on the sidelines in a cast

Don points to a specific summer with images of the Cold War. Then fast forwarding to a sporting event with a key player forced to watch from the sidelines, out with an injury.

Now, the halftime air was sweet perfume
While sergeants played a marching tune
We all got up to dance
Oh, but we never got the chance
‘Cause the players tried to take the field
The marching band refused to yield
Do you recall what was revealed
The day the music died?

Seems like Don is referring to a Superbowl halftime show or a college bowl game with marching bands. Don’s mind is all over the place, returning to Buddy Holly’s death at the prime of his life.

We started singin’, “Bye, bye, Miss American Pie”
Drove my Chevy to the levee, but the levee was dry
Them good ol’ boys were drinkin’ whiskey and rye
Singin’, “This’ll be the day that I die
This’ll be the day that I die”

Don reflects upon his pastimes and how people spent their time drinking.

Oh, and there we were all in one place
A generation lost in space
With no time left to start again
So, come on, Jack be nimble, Jack be quick
Jack Flash sat on a candlestick
‘Cause fire is the Devil’s only friend

Don mixes childhood nursery rhymes to explain a time when he felt his generation was lost.

Oh, and as I watched him on the stage
My hands were clenched in fists of rage
No angel born in Hell
Could break that Satan spell
And as the flames climbed high into the night
To light the sacrificial rite
I saw Satan laughing with delight
The day the music died

Don blames Satan, aka the Devil for Buddy Holly’s death.

He was singin’, “Bye, bye, Miss American Pie”
Drove my Chevy to the levee, but the levee was dry
Them good ol’ boys were drinkin’ whiskey and rye
Singin’, “This’ll be the day that I die
This’ll be the day that I die”

Reading the lyrics closely, writing American Pie seemed to have served as a healing process for Don, reflecting upon the death of his musical hero.

I met a girl who sang the blues
And I asked her for some happy news
But she just smiled and turned away
I went down to the sacred store
Where I’d heard the music years before
But the man there said the music wouldn’t play

Everyone who Don knew was in shock of Buddy’s death. Don tried to find a place, possibly a local hang out with a jukebox so he could listen to Buddy Holly’s music,

And in the streets the children screamed
The lovers cried, and the poets dreamed
But not a word was spoken
The church bells all were broken
And the three men I admire most
The Father, Son and the Holy Ghost
They caught the last train for the coast
The day the music died

People gathered to mourn and remember Buddy Holly’s life and death.

And they were singin’, “Bye, bye, Miss American Pie”
Drove my Chevy to the levee, but the levee was dry
And them good ol’ boys were drinkin’ whiskey and rye
Singin’, “This’ll be the day that I die
This’ll be the day that I die”

This day in February of 1959 has stuck with Don.

They were singin’, “Bye, bye, Miss American Pie”
Drove my Chevy to the levee, but the levee was dry
Them good ol’ boys were drinkin’ whiskey and rye
Singin’, “This’ll be the day that I die”

This tribute to Buddy Holly has left a lasting impact on history and music.

Final Thoughts:

The death of Buddy Holly for Don is like the death of Jerome Brown, a member of the Philadelphia Eagles for me. I was at Veterans Stadium in Philadelphia to hear Reggie White speak at a Billy Graham rally. Reggie had just received news of Brown’s death from a car accident before going on stage. Like Holly, Brown was in the prime of his life, on track to become one of most dominant defensive tackles in NFL history. Coping with the loss of any hero takes time. May today’s blog help you find closure and healing from the loss of loved ones in your own life.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-April 9

Raindrops Keep Falling on my Head

Inspiration Behind Raindrops Keep Falling on my Head:

Raindrops Keep Falling on My Head was inspired by the 1970 film Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid, Burt Bacharach and Hal David wrote this song for the film. While the initial song was going to be for a romantic scene, the producer decided to go with a song that would highlight resilience and optimism to overcome difficult situations in life.

Biblical Application:

 “Be strong and very courageous. Be careful to obey all the law my servant Moses gave you; do not turn from it to the right or to the left, that you may be successful wherever you go. Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful. Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go,” Joshua 1:7-9.

Exegesis of Raindrops Keep Falling on My Head:

Raindrops are falling on my head
And just like the guy whose feet are too big for his bed
Nothing seems to fit those raindrops
Are falling on my head
They keep falling
So I just did me some talking to the sun
And I said I didn’t like the way

When you are traveling via horseback, you’re exposed to the elements. While riding in the sun would be better, cowboys keep pressing on.

He got things done
He’s sleeping on the job
Those raindrops are falling on my head
They keep falling, but there’s one thing I know
The blues, they send to meet me
Won’t defeat me, it won’t be long
‘Til happiness steps up to greet me

The sun is accused of sleeping on the job. While a hat may keep you dry for a while, wet hats will keep you cold. Instead of setting up camp early, these cowboys keep riding, expecting the sun to eventually greet them.

Raindrops keep falling on my head
But that doesn’t mean my eyes will soon be turning red
Crying’s not for me, ’cause I’m never gonna stop the rain by complaining
Because I’m free
Nothing’s worrying me

These cowboys were mentally tough. Complaining isn’t going to make the rain go away. Instead, Butch and the Sundance Kid keep going without a worry in the world.

It won’t be long
‘Til happiness steps up to greet me

The weather will change for the better any minute, so staying optimistic is important.

Raindrops keep falling on my head
But that doesn’t mean my eyes
Will soon be turning red
Crying’s not for me ’cause I’m never gonna stop the rain by complaining
Because I’m free
Nothing’s worrying me

Cowboys don’t let the weather influence their moods.

Final Thoughts:

Most of my camping experiences were as a member of the Boy Scouts. Over fifty percent of my trips were filled with pouring rain. The longest trip was a week up in Canada, canoeing in the chain of lakes. There were some nasty days, dealing with whitecaps and driving rain, yet surviving this week helped me appreciate the outdoors. As an adult, I prefer staying in hotels, but I don’t mind the occasional campfire on a clear summer night.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-April 8

Rain

Inspiration Behind Rain:

Breaking Benjamin’s song rain references a 17th century song sung by childhood to make the rain go away. The first printed reference to “Rain, rain go away, come back another day” is a rhyme from the Collections of James Howell in 1659. However, when a Spanish fleet was bombarded by storms in 1588, a similar prayer was spoken to clear the skies from a never-ending storm. Breaking Benjamin provides a modern-day version of Rain.

Biblical Application:

Do any of the worthless idols of the nations bring rain? Do the skies themselves send down showers? No, it is you, Lord our God. Therefore our hope is in you, for you are the one who does all this, Jeremiah 14:22.

Exegesis of Rain:

Take a photograph
It’ll be the last
Not a dollar or a crowd could ever keep me here
I don’t have a past
I just have a chance
Not a family or honest plea remains to say

Extended periods of bad weather filled with rain can take an emotional toll on human beings. This opening stanza paints a picture of someone struggling with addiction, depression or mental health concerns.

Rain, rain, go away
Come again another day
All the world is waiting for the sun

The weather is having a negative impact on their behavior, turning to a childhood song to alter the weather.

Is it you I want
Or just the notion of a heart to wrap around
So I can find my way around
Safe to say from here
You’re getting closer now
We are never sad ’cause we are not allowed to be

Breaking Benjamin is referencing a relationship where an individual is expected to put on a happy face despite the pain deep inside their heart,

Rain, rain, go away
Come again another day
All the world is waiting for the sun
Rain, rain, go away
Come again another day
All the world is waiting for the sun

All the world is waiting for the sun points to sunlight, rays of hope and good news. This is what people are waiting for.

To lie here under you
Is all that I could ever do
To lie here under you is all
To lie here under you
Is all that I could ever do
To lie here under you is all

Breaking Benajmin is either referring to God who controls the weather or a significant other lying next to them.

Rain, rain, go away
Come again another day
All the world is waiting for the sun
Rain, rain, go away
Come again another day
All the world is waiting for the sun

Some people are looking for signs from God that everything will be okay. For some, a sunny day is good enough for now.

All the world is waiting for the sun
All the world is waiting for the sun

In the darkness of this world, physically and spiritually, the light of hope goes a long way.

Final Thoughts:

I spent 8 years working overnight. Subsequently, I went months without seeing the sun. After day light savings, falling back an hour, I drove to work in the dark, drove home in the dark and rarely got up when it the sun was out. On the flip side, I was much happier each summer. Being able to recreate in the sun made a world of difference to my mental health.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-April 6

Kenny Chesney – Save It for a Rainy Day (Official Video)

Inspiration Behind Save It for a Rainy Day:

The vision for Save It for a Rainy Day appeared while Matthew Ramsey was in the shower. Matthew took this idea, shared it with Andrew Dorff and Brad Tursi who completed this song in less than an hour. Kenny Chesney was so impressed by Save It for a Rainy Day that this served as a wake-up song for Kenny and his fans on his album the Big Revival.

Biblical Application:

“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened, Matthew 7:7-8.

Exegesis of Save it for a Rainy Day:

It’s no secret that lately there ain’t no escape
And that I’ve been waking up alone
Just me and the TV, and a sinking feeling
That you ain’t ever coming home

Kenny is going through a tough time in his life. Either his girlfriend or wife has left him.

But today, the tears ain’t gonna hit the floor
‘Cause the boat’s in the bay
And it’s calling my name
So I’m heading on out the door

Rather than stay home and sulk, being depressed, Kenny has a desire to go fishing.

‘Cause the sun’s too bright, the sky’s too blue
Beer’s too cold to be thinking about you
Gonna take this heartbreak and tuck it away
Save it for a rainy day

While the pain in Kenny’s heart is still there, he’s going to take advantage of this beautiful day, put this on hold for a rainy day.

When I turned the ignition, I knew I’d be missing
The feel of the wind on my face
I was stuck in a habit, wondering what happened
Two days of taking all the blame

While driving his boat out to his favorite spot, he starts to reflect about what went wrong.

Got a drink, or two
That’s as foolproof as what it will be
It’s a beautiful world with a beautiful girl
Kind of making eyes at me

After a few drinks, an attractive woman starts to look over at Kenny.

‘Cause the sun’s too bright, the sky’s too blue
Beer’s too cold to be thinking about you
Gonna take this heartbreak and tuck it away
Save it for a rainy day

Fishing is an excuse to stop thinking about what went wrong in the past.

Yeah, the music’s too good, my friends are all out
And they’re all too high to be bringing them down
If they ask about you, I’ve got nothing to say
I’ll save it for a rainy day

Kenny appears to be out with friends, possibly at a bar when others ask about his woman. Kenny plays it cool, changing the topic of conversation.

They’ll be plenty of time for ones and why’s
And how’d I let you get away
But the lying in bed all stuck in my head
Is just gonna have to wait

Sometimes you’ll have to wait for the real reasons a relationship didn’t work out. You can guess all you want, but it’s better to put these thoughts away for a rainy day.

‘Cause the sun’s too bright, the sky’s too blue
Beer’s too cold to be thinking about you
Gonna take this heartbreak and tuck it away
Save it for a rainy day

Healing takes time, but human beings need some sort of recreation to get their minds off the worries of this world.

Yeah, the music’s too good, my friends are all out
And they’re all too high to be bringing them down
If they ask about you, I’ve got nothing to say
I’ll save it for a rainy day

Kenny is not ready to talk about this yet.

Gonna take this heartbreak and tuck it away
Save it for a rainy day
Save it for a rainy day

Enjoy the weather while its nice. You can save contemplation for a rainy day.

Final Thoughts:

People grieve in different ways. Some enjoy being alone initially, others find comfort taking a walk with a friend and a few may seek distractions to get their mind off of their heart break. When I was in high school, I would go on long runs to clear my mind. In college, I took long walks with a friend or two. Kenny Chesney went fishing or that’s how this song was written. The next time you find yourself in a difficult situation, find something productive to do so that you’re not overwhelmed by a failed relationship.

by Jay Mankus