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The Message Behind the Music-September 16

Posted on September 16, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Simple Minds – Don’t You (Forget About Me)

Inspiration Behind Don’t You Forget About Me:

Keith Forsey and guitarist Steve Schiff wrote Don’t You Forget About Me for the film The Breakfast Club. This film features five high school students, punished for an entire Saturday. Each of these 5 teenagers representing a distinct social group: the brain, athlete, rebel, princess, and basket case. After this motley crew experiences a unifying moment before departing for home, Don’t You Forget About Me serves as an anthem for students to never forget the special ties that were formed during a Saturday in-school suspension.

Biblical Application:

At one time we too were foolish, disobedient, deceived and enslaved by all kinds of passions and pleasures. We lived in malice and envy, being hated and hating one another. 4 But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, 5 he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit, Titus 3:3-5.

Exegesis of Don’t You Forget About Me:

Hey, hey, hey, hey
Ooh-ooh-hoo, woah

An attention getter.

Won’t you come see about me
I’ll be alone, dancing, you know it, baby
Tell me your troubles and doubts
Givin’ me everything inside and out, and

Breaking down the walls that separate the social classes. A call to open up, share and become vulnerable.

Love’s strange, surreal in the dark
Think of the tender things that we were working on
Slow change may pull us apart
When the light gets into your heart, baby

Perhaps a reference that teenagers place too much emphasis on physical appearances rather than what is deep inside of human beings. When your flaws are exposed or verbalized, love can be scary, unsure if the one you love will accept you for who you are as a person.

Don’t you forget about me
Don’t, don’t, don’t, don’t
Don’t you forget about me

A reference to the friendship made on this Saturday. Being willing to cross social boundaries.

Will you stand above me
Look my way, never love me
Rain keeps fallin’, rain keeps fallin’
Down, down, down

A call to stand up and be willing to look beyond differences. The rain suggests cleansing and purifying, erasing the stereotypes that minds have grown up believing.

Will you recognize me
Call my name or walk on by?
Rain keeps fallin’, rain keeps fallin’
Down, down, down, down

When Monday comes and you fall back into line, within your social group, will you be changed or will you forget the new friends that you just made.

Hey, hey, hey, hey
Ooh-ooh-hoo, woah

How will you respond to peer pressure.

Don’t you try and pretend
It’s my feeling, we’ll win in the end
I won’t harm you or touch your defences
Vanity, insecurity, ah

The difficulties to truly change. A gentle approach, not wanting to harm this new relationship.

Don’t you forget about me
I’ll be alone, dancing, you know it, baby
Going to take us apart
I’ll put us back together at heart, baby

Not part of the movie, but a call to remember what we shared.

Don’t you forget about me
Don’t, don’t, don’t, don’t
Don’t you forget about me

Be open to change, going outside your social circle.

As you walk on by
Will you call my name?
As you walk on by
Will you call my name
When you walk away?

What is going to happen on Monday when these 5 people see each other in the hallway with their friends.

Or will you walk away?

When you walk on by

Will you take a chance or succumb to peer pressure.

Come on, call my name
Won’t you call my name?

Do you have the guts to go beyond the social norms of your friends.

I sing, “La, la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la
La-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la
La-la-la-la, la-la-la-la
La-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la
La-la-la-la, la-la-la-la
La-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la”
When you walk on by (walk on by)
And you call my name

A fun ending with one last rhetorical question, will you call out my name.

Final Thoughts:

As a former high school athlete, my friends would vary from season to season. In the fall, my cross-country team would take up 1-2 tables in the lunchroom. This team was like my second family, having monthly social functions outside of school as well. Each winter, swimming was a smaller team so that my lunches were a mix of classmates and swimmers. In the spring, I hung out with Chris and Steve, often getting out of school early for away golf matches. While I was never popular in high school, I wasn;t afraid to sit with someone sitting by themselves. In my final year of high school, I saw lunch as a ministry opportunity to encourage students who were having a bad day, week or month. Don’t You Forget About Me serves as a call to look beyond social circles to meet other people that you never gave a thought about until watching the Breakfast Club.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 14

Posted on September 13, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Queen – You’re My Best Friend (Official Video)

Inspiration Behind You’re My Best Friend:

You’re My Best Friend was composed by Queen’s bassist, John Deacon. The idea for this song came from John’s wife, Veronica Tetzlaff. The overall theme of You’re My Best Friend highlights the importance of having a best friend or partner who brings joy and meaning to your life. This message has made You’re My Best Friend a timeless classic.

Biblical Application:

After David had finished talking with Saul, Jonathan became one in spirit with David, and he loved him as himself, 1 Samuel 18:1.

Exegesis of You’re My Best Friend:

Ooh, you make me live
Whatever this world can give to me
It’s you, you’re all I see
Ooh, you make me live now honey
Ooh, you make me live

An appreciation for a spouse or significant other who makes life enjoyable and fun.

Oh, you’re the best friend
That I ever had
I’ve been with you such a long time
You’re my sunshine
And I want you to know
That my feelings are true
I really love you
(Ooh) Oh, you’re my best friend

Examples of how a friend impacts your life. This realization conceives a kindred spirit and love.

Ooh, you make me live

Bringing joy to life.

Ooh, I’ve been wandering round
But I still come back to you (still come back to you)
In rain or shine
You’ve stood by me girl
I’m happy at home (happy at home)
You’re my best friend

This stanza goes against the world’s view that marriage puts a cramp on your life and freedom. Friends stick around, help you through tough times and are a joy to be around.

Ooh, you make me live
Whenever this world is cruel to me
I got you, to help me forgive – oo oo ooh
Ooh, you make me live now honey
Ooh, you make me live

This stanza is like the original “Lean on Me” as friends give you the strenth to carry on with life.

Oh, you’re the first one
When things turn out bad
You know I’ll never be lonely
You’re my only one
And I love the things
I really love the things that you do
Oh, you’re my best friend

Benefits of a good friend. These special people make a world of difference in life.

Oh, ooh, you make me live

Providing hope and joy.

I’m happy (happy at home)
You’re my best friend
Oh, oh, you’re my best friend
Ooh, you make me live
Oo oo ooh
You, you’re my best friend

While it’s unclear if John is talking about Veronica or vice versa, they had a special relationship that not many couples experience while being married.

Final Thoughts:

When I thought of best friends, Carl imeediately comes to mind. My high school cross-country teammate. Before cell phones, I would go over his house or he would come over mine. Meanwhile, once we started driving, I recall parking late at night, waiting for him to return from a date when a needed a friend. While I was blessed with several good friends in college as well, Carl and I leaned on each other in times of need. When Carl’s mom passed away, my mom became like a second mother to Carl. Listening to You’re My Best Friend brought all these special memories to the forefront of my mind.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 12

Posted on September 12, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Group 1 Crew – “Breakdown”

Inspiration Behind Breakdown:

Breakdown was conceived out of blending spiritual urgency with a party vibe.  The lyrics don’t hesitate, immediately challenging the listener, pointing to a need for inner transformation. If you’re heart, soul and or mind isn’t in the right place, it’s hard to muster any type of enthusiasm. However, when your life begins to turn around for the better, joy will naturally flow out of you, a reason to celebrate.

Biblical Application:

“When he came to his senses, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have food to spare, and here I am starving to death! 18 I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. 19 I am no longer worthy to be called your son; make me like one of your hired servants.’ 20 So he got up and went to his father, Luke 15:17-20.

Exegesis of Breakdown:

They say don’t try to fix what i-i-isn’t broke
But I see that you need a fix in your soul
We, we don’t like to play politics, it’s a joke
So we pu-pu-pushin’ envelopes, envelopes

A common saying about life. Upon further review, your soul needs mending. I’m not talking from a political view, but a spiritual one.

Ain’t nobody stoppin’ the music
Until we fill up the floor
It’s the type of music he created
So you need to let go, go, go, go, go

Certain types of music can soothe your soul or serve as a distraction from life.

See the flashin’ lights, woah
Clock is losin’ time, woah
Gotta shake it off, this feelin’s takin’ off
‘Cause everybody’s waiting for the breakdown

Group One Crew uses a car breaking down to illustrate that people also have breakdowns internally.

You can, you can make it, make it
Happen while we rappin’, rappin’
See the flashin’ lights and camera, camera
So let’s have some action

Having fun like going out dancing can be good for you from time to time.

You can find me in a black SC goin’ over 60
With the windows down

Am image of crusing with your favorite song blasted in your vehicle.

Anybody thinkin’, ooh who’s he? Wit the do-do-dope beat
Tell me, what’s that sound?

Trying to impress others of your taste in music.

G1C witta chopped up beat goin’ back crazy
You can see it, see it
We so, so sick wit’ a boom, boom hit, gotta do, do it
‘Cause we need it, need it

Sometimes human beings need an added boost to start their day like a cool hip hop song.

Ain’t nobody stoppin’ the music
Until we fill up the floor
It’s the type of music he created
So you need to let go, go

The adrenaline that fills you when listening to upbeat music.

See the flashin’ lights, woah
Clock is losin’ time, woah
Gotta shake it off, this feelin’s takin’ off
‘Cause everybody’s waiting for the breakdown

Human beings give off certain signals that lead to a breakdown. Either internally or the desire to let your guard down for a little while to dance and have a good time.

See the flashin’ lights, woah
Clock is losin’ time, woah
Gotta shake it off, this feelin’s takin’ off
‘Cause everybody’s waiting for the breakdown

Repeating the chorus to instill a desire to act.

It’s impossible to put a stop on this trio
And if you haven’t heard, make sure that you let someone know
Get the sunblock ’cause we hot, a unique breed is unlocked
We on the block ’cause we rock hard like the school of knocks

A stanza to promote and tell others about Group One Crew’s music.

This ain’t ya typical, typical group that you heard, it’s a miracle
Little bit a punk wit’ a whole lotta soul
That’ll bump da bump on ya radio

Hyping up this new sound that they created in Breakdown.

Simmer, simmer down all you haters
Didn’t lose our style, we just got better
Beat so cold, did my verse like brrr
Still spiting life so forget what you heard

Likely a stanza to address their critics on social media.

See the flashin’ lights, woah
Clock is losin’ time, woah
Gotta shake it off, this feelin’s takin’ off
‘Cause everybody’s waiting for the breakdown

Perhaps suggesting that people are waiting to see how you dance or how you’ll handle your next ordeal and trail in life.

See the flashin’ lights, woah
Clock is losin’ time, woah
Gotta shake it off, this feelin’s takin’ off
‘Cause everybody’s waiting for the breakdown

Images to create a sense of urgency to change before you have a mental breakdown.

The flashing lights of life
The clock is losin’ time
Waiting for the breakdown

Be on guard and alert.

Do it, gotta feel free
Let the music take you away
‘Cause everybody’s waiting for the breakdown

Let this music lift up your soul so you can start ro have fun in life again.

Final Thoughts:

My oldest two sons got into hip-hop when they became teenagers. Knowing the unwholesome lyrics that occur in many secular groups, I discovered Group One Crew while I was still teaching. Subsequently, while driving I would play songs like Breakdown on the way to school. This particular song became one of Daniel’s favorites. I went on to create mixes so that my kids could listen to music on the way to their next competition to set their minds in the right place before getting out of the car. This is how Breakdown has impacted my life.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 11

Posted on September 11, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Let’s Roll

Inspiration Behind Let’s Roll:

Let’s Roll is about a group of individuals on Flight 93 which was highjacked by terrorists on September 11th, 2001. Today, marks the 25th anniversary of this tragic event. Yet this day in history would have been worse if not for some Americans who fought to take back control of their airplane. While the terrorists on board wanted to strike a building in Washington, D.C, brave Americans made sure this never happened. Before enacting their plan, “Let’s roll” was one of their last words spoken before their plan went down in a remote part of Pennsylvania.

Biblical Application:

In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead. 18 But someone will say, “You have faith; I have deeds.”Show me your faith without deeds, and I will show you my faith by my deeds, James 2:17-18.

Exegesis of Let’s Roll:

Please note that the attached version of Let’s Roll is a new version. Because of 9/11, I wanted to focus this exegesis on the original song lyrics by Neil Young.

I know I said I love you
I know you know it’s true
I’ve got to put the phone down
And do what we gotta do
One standing in the highway
Two more at the door
We’ve got to get inside there
Before they kill some more

Referring to Todd Beamer’s cell phone conversation with his wife Lisa while on board Flight 93. After receiving news about the other planes that had already hit their targets, Todd and a few other brave Americans we about to try to take back this plane.

Time is running out
Let’s roll
Time is running out
Let’s roll

Let’s roll was the code to begin moving toward the front of the plane.

No time for indecision
We’ve got to make a move
I hope that we’re forgiven
For what we gotta do
How this all got started
I’ll never understand
I hope someone can fly this thing
And get us back to land

Thoughts going through the minds of these brave Americans. An appeal for forgiveness, an act of aggression to stop evil. The ideal scenario if everything works out according to their plan.

Time is running out
Let’s roll
Time is running out
Let’s roll

The sense of urgency to act before the terrorists fulfill their own mission.

No one has the answer
But one thing is true
You’ve gotta turn on evil
When it’s coming after you
You’ve gotta face it down
And when it tries to hide
You’ve gotta go in after it
And never be denied

This event was so shocking, but America was unified on fighting evil. You have to fight fire with fire. You have to root out evil or it will prevail.

Time is running out
Time is running out
Let’s roll

Carrying out this plan immediately.

Let’s roll for freedom
Let’s roll for love
We’re going after Satan
On the wings of a dove
Let’s roll for justice
Let’s roll for truth
Let’s not let our children
Grow up fearful in their youth

This group of Americans realized that they were probably going to die. Yet they didn’t want to go down without a fight. Justice, truth and spiritual things are worth laying your life down for.

Time is running out
Let’s roll
Time is running out
Let’s roll
Time is running out
Let’s roll

Getting your mind straight, going over the plan before carrying out this plan.

Final Thoughts:

In the immediate aftermath of September 11th, 2001, I realized that I wasn’t doing what I was created to do. Subsequently, in the months that followed, I apllied for a teaching position, interviewed and was hired at the beginning of the second semester. I spent the next decade of my life challenging, developing and shaping the minds of teenagers. This may have never happened if September 11th never occurred. The heros of Flight 93 ignited a new generation of Americans with a sense of urgency to Let’s Roll.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 10

Posted on September 10, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Tonight Alive – Lonely Girl

Inspiration Behind Lonely Girl:

Vocalist Jenna McDougall wrote Lonely Girl as she tried to recover from a broken relationship. This deeply personal journey served as a form of healing as Jenna tried speaking to a friend who was miserable. This encounter is expressed in the lyrics as her friend cried out for attention, complained about every problem, and refused to help herself or others.  Lonely Girl suggests that her former friend’s situation was a choice and was preventable.

Biblical Application:

Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said,“Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you,” Hebrews 13:5-6.

Exegesis of Lonely Girl:

Lonely girl, you lost the only thing you loved
Nothing that you have is ever good enough
And I won’t be the one to keep you sane
And I won’t be the one who stays the same

This girl in question lost her perspective and appreciation for the little things in life. Jenna tired to help her wayward friend until she became unteachable.

You’ve got a lot of nerve and
Looks like the table’s turning
And now you’re wishing me well like you miss me
You’ve got a dirty tongue and
Looks like the damage done is
Forever and it’s a long time to miss me
Whoa-oh, no, it’s a long time to miss me
Whoa-oh, no

This former friend never thanked Jenna for trying to help her. As Jenna moved on, this girl responded like a typical co-dependent. This girl had lost her sense of reality, turning bitter and nasty, oblivious to the harm she had done. This friendship took an emotional toll on Jenna until she finally had enough of this drama.

Lonely girl, it looks like you are out of luck
Tell me how it feels to watch your friends give up
I was on your side, I stood by you
So go ahead and cry, it’s just like you

This lonely girl wore out her welcome as one-by-one friends left. Jenna was initially on her side and stood up for her. Yet this facade was exposed through her tears to get attention.

You’ve got a lot of nerve and
Looks like the table’s turning
And now you’re wishing me well like you miss me

The table’s turning situation might refer to a recent trial in Jenna’s life where this lonely girl made a snarky comment.

You’ve got a dirty tongue and
Looks like the damage done is
Forever and it’s a long time to miss me
Whoa-oh, no, it’s a long time to miss me
Whoa-oh, no

This loneliness was self-inflicted. As Jenna is walking out the door, then she is missed.

And I don’t feel sorry for you
Sorry for you
‘Cause now the table is turning
And now the bridge is burning
It’s coming crashing down, crashing down over you
Over you
Over you
Over you

Jenna reached a point where she stopped caring, knowing she did all that she could as her former friend was too stubborn to change. This lonely girl scorned the ones who were trying to help.

You’ve got a lot of nerve and
Looks like the table’s turning
And now you’re wishing me well like you miss me
You’ve got a dirty tongue and
Looks like the damage done is
Forever and it’s a long time to miss me
Whoa-oh, no, and it’s a long time to miss me
Whoa-oh, no

This lonely girl was full of bitterness. The pain deep inside came out in her language, leaving a trail of damage. Unfortunately, there wasn’t a happy ending in this song.

Final Thoughts:

When I was in junior high and early on in high school, if I was in a bad mood, I didn’t want anyone around me to have fun. I would spew misery until everyone of my friends was either concerned, stopped speaking or left. What I didn’t realize at this time is that I needed Jesus, Matthew 11:28-30. Once I did become a Christian, Romans 10:9-11, I may not of had that many friends, I was transformed from a lonely boy into a man learning to be content with who I was.

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The Message Behind the Music-September 9

Posted on September 9, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Faded Love

Inspiration Behind Faded Love:

Faded Love appears to be a spinoff of a song by Bob Wills and His Texas Playboys. The lyrics express lost love, using the colors of fall to illustrate how love can erode over time. While Bob’s song was in the swing genre, In Reach uses soft rock in the form of a ballad. Faded Love enabled In Reach to crossover by resonating with listeners on a personal and emotional level.

Biblical Application:

Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. 9 This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. 10 This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins, 1 John 4:8-10.

Exegesis of Faded Love:

All alone out of sight, out of mind
Many miles away
I sit on the jagged edge of night
For you it’s the break of day
Half a world and separate lives
I listen through a delay
We dare never say what we long to hear
But silence won’t ease this pain

A reference to a relationship that has cooled. This long-distance relationship was attempted, but different time zones and work schedules has made it difficult to talk to one another. As times goes on apart, their love fades.

Faded love, Like autumn colors turn to grey at the seasons face
Faded love, I hear the sounds of yesterday as they whisper faded love
Like watercolors wash away, just a choice we made
Faded love, I hear the sounds of yesterday as they whisper faded love

Like a tree that loses its leaves in winter, distance has a way of cooling off the passion of love. Just as watercolors can wash away, love also can disappear.

Being away I’ve learned to deal with it a little too well
But There was a time I believed in love and thought it would never fail
So what do we do, and what can we say
Should we pick up the pieces or throw them away

Perhaps Brett is referring to being away from his family while on tour. He’s learned to make the best of a bad siruation. Despite the odds, he is not willing to give up on this relationship.

Faded love, Like autumn colors turn to grey at the seasons face
Faded love, I hear the sounds of yesterday as they whisper faded love
Like watercolors wash away, just a choice we made
Faded love, I hear the sounds of yesterday as they whisper faded love

The color is repeated with two metaphors, autumn colors and watercolors to explain how love can die.

Faded love, Like autumn colors turn to grey at the seasons face
Faded love, I hear the sounds of yesterday as they whisper faded love
Like watercolors wash away, just a choice we made
Faded love, I hear the sounds of yesterday as they whisper faded love

Closing chorus. Choices and decisions in the form of priorities are how love can fade away.

Final Thoughts:

The Waterline album was released my final semester of college. While Faded Love fits into September’s theme, there are half a dozen other songs from this album that I listened to for countless hours. When I was in a long-distance relationship before I got married, the lyrics of Faded Love helped me endure and see if out.until I got married.

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The Message Behind the Music-September 8

Posted on September 8, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Roundabout (2008 Remaster)

Inspiration Behind Roundabout:

The concept for Roundabout came from a chance observation during a 1971 tour. After a gig in Aviemore, Scotland, Yes traveled by bus from Aberdeen to Glasgow. Encountering numerous roundabouts along the way, this classic hit was spawn. Smoking pot while in route, lead singer Jon Anderson to describe this experience as vivid and mystical. After passing through the 40th round about, this song was cemented.

Biblical Application:

“Not long after that, the younger son got together all he had, set off for a distant country and there squandered his wealth in wild living. 14 After he had spent everything, there was a severe famine in that whole country, and he began to be in need. 15 So he went and hired himself out to a citizen of that country, who sent him to his fields to feed pigs. 16 He longed to fill his stomach with the pods that the pigs were eating, but no one gave him anything, Luke 15:13-16.

Exegesis of Roundabout:

[Instrumental Intro]

[Verse 1]
I’ll be the roundabout
The words will make you out-and-out
I spend the day your way
Call it morning driving through the sound and in and out the valley

Observations while riding on a bus in the countryside of England.

[Verse 2]
The music dance and sing
They make the children really ring
I spend the day your way
Call it morning driving through the sound and in and out the valley

The opening instrumental sets the tine for Roundabout. Making you want to sing and dance while riding in the bus through the country landscape.

[Chorus]
In and around the lake
Mountains come out of the sky and they stand there
One mile over, we’ll be there and we’ll see you
Ten true summers, we’ll be there and laughing, too
Twenty-four before my love, you’ll see I’ll be there with you

Possibly alluding to leaning with the bus through roundabouts. A reference to fog with scenic views blocked then becoming visible. After another reference to traveling, memories of a summer with a significant other.

[Verse 3]
I will remember you
Your silhouette will charge the view
Of distant atmosphere
Call it morning driving through the sound and even in the valley

This was a memorable trip during their tour. Using this particular bus ride as a means for lyrics.

[Instrumental Intro]

[Verse 1]
I’ll be the roundabout
The words will make you out-and-out
I spend the day your way
Call it morning driving through the sound and in and out the valley

Roundabouts were uncommon in America until a recent trend as removing stop signs in favor of roundabouts.

[Verse 2]
The music dance and sing
They make the children really ring
I spend the day your way
Call it morning driving through the sound and in and out the valley

The day your way line suggests someone else set up this bus tour. The sights and scenes are weaved into the lyrics.

[Chorus]
In and around the lake
Mountains come out of the sky and they stand there
One mile over, we’ll be there and we’ll see you
Ten true summers, we’ll be there and laughing, too
Twenty-four before my love, you’ll see I’ll be there with you

The chorus is repeated with generic references to what was visible.

[Verse 3]
I will remember you
Your silhouette will charge the view
Of distant atmosphere
Call it morning driving through the sound and even in the valley

Remembering the scenery, not necessarily a person. Appreciating the elevation changes as well as the twists and turns.

[Chorus]
In and around the lake
Mountains come out of the sky and they stand there
One mile over, we’ll be there and we’ll see you
Ten true summers, we’ll be there and laughing, too
Twenty-four before my love, you’ll see I’ll be there with you

This reminds me a traveling on vacation as a child, coming up with silly songs and words as you watch the scenry.

[Bridge]
Along the drifting cloud, the eagle searching down on the land
Catching the swirling wind, the sailor sees the rim of the land
The eagle’s dancing wings create as weather spins out of hand
Go closer, hold the land feel partly no more than grains of sand
We stand to lose all time, a thousand answers by in our hand
Next to your deeper fears, we stand surrounded by a million years
I’ll be the roundabout, the words will make you out-and-out
I’ll be the roundabout, the words will make you out-and-out

The focus changes to the wildlife, fascinated by an eagle soaring overhead. Using topography to craft a unique bridge.

[Instrumental Break]

[Interlude]
In and around the lake
Mountains come out of the sky, they stand there
Twenty-four before my love and I’ll be there

Repeating images from earlier in the song.

[Organ Solo]

[Verse 4]
I’ll be the roundabout
The words will make you out-and-out
You spend the day your way
Call it morning driving through the sound and in and out the valley

A reference to the 40 plus roundabout that this bus passed.

[Chorus]
In and around the lake
Mountains come out of the sky and they stand there
One mile over, we’ll be there and we’ll see you
Ten true summers, we’ll be there and laughing, too
Twenty-four before my love, you’ll see I’ll be there with you

Weaving in and out of the country.

[Outro]
Da-da-da-da-da, da, da
Da-da-da-da-da, da, da
Da-da-da-da-da, da, da (Doot, doot, doot, doot, doot, doot)
Da-da-da-da-da, da, da (Doot, doot, doot, doot, doot, doot)
Da-da-da-da-da, da, da (Doot, doot, doot, doot, doot, doot)
Da-da-da-da-da, da, da (Doot, doot, doot, doot, doot, doot)
Da-da-da-da-da, da, da (Doot, doot, doot, doot, doot, doot)
Da-da-da-da-da, da, da (Doot)

A fun ending that connects with the opening instrumental.

Final Thoughts:

Some songs are fun to sing even if you don’t have a clue what a band is trying to express. The beginning of Roundabout engages audiences, which promotes singing. Before doing this research, I enjoyed this song. However, after spending 2 weeks on a cruise in Alaska, I understand how pictures and views become etched within your mind. I’m glad that the members of Yes were able to share this special trip by making Roundabout into a song.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 7

Posted on September 7, 2026 by expressyourself4him

The Lumineers – Ophelia (Official Music Video)

Inpsiration Behind Ophelia:

Ophelia evolved over time from members of the Lumineers own experiences navigating fame. The lyrics were inspired by personal reflection and literary allusion. The melody and sound of Ophelia began as a slower instrumental demo in 2011. While performing at a dive bar in LA, Wesley Schultz decided that the name Ophelia fit right musicality. This live performance sped up this tune into its current form.

Biblical Application:

A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold, Proverbs 22:1.

Exegesis of Ophelia:

Ah, ah, when I was younger
I, I should’ve known better
And I can’t feel no remorse
And you don’t feel nothing back

A band member is thinking about a former girlfriend. Being young and immature didn’t help nurture this relationship.

I, I got a new girlfriend here
Feels like he’s on top
And I don’t feel no remorse
And you can’t see past my blindness

Hoping to learn from past failed relationships. Both people have moved on so you shouldn’t feel bad or guilty. Final note about blind spots, oblivious to certain things.

Oh, Ophelia, you’ve been on my mind, girl, since the flood
Oh, Ophelia, Heaven help the fool who falls in love

Perhaps a natural disaster brought this woman back to the forefront.

I, I got a little paycheck
You got big plans and you gotta move (woo!)
And I don’t feel nothing at all
And you can’t feel nothing small

A new job and relationship led to a desire to move. Band members didn’t seem sad or remorseful.

Honey, I love you
That’s all she wrote

Oh, Ophelia, you’ve been on my mind, girl, like a drug

No physical goodbye, just a note. This letter brought up a flood of emotions, triggering lost love.

Oh, Ophelia, Heaven help the fool who falls in love
Oh, Ophelia, you’ve been on my mind, girl, since the flood
Oh, Ophelia, Heaven help the fool who falls in love
Oh, Ophelia, you’ve been on my mind, girl, like a drug
Oh, Ophelia, Heaven help the fool who falls in love

A warning about falling in love without thinking about how this new relationship will impact your life. Being constantly on the road, traveling from one town to the next didn’t mix with a serious relationship. These are the life lessons learned by members of the Lumineers.

Final Thoughts:

Despite being extremely shy in my early years, I became someone who often poured out their heart to strangers when the timing was right. This was often at a camp, during a retreat of some sort of spiritual renewal. In high school, I was looking for a friend. Yet as I grew older, I began searching for a soul mate. This is what I found when I got married to Leanne.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 3

Posted on September 3, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Journey – Don’t Stop Believin’ (Official Audio)

Inspiration Behind Don’t Stop Believin’:

When the timing is right, sound advice can serve as a launching pad. The advice given by Jonathan Cain’s father when his son was struggling as a musician led to the formation of Journey’s most iconic hit. The actual words spoken to Jonathan were Don’t Stop Believing or you’re done. Self-belief is what can keep artists going during times of disappointment, failure and setbacks. Without this mentality, Don’t Stop Believin’ wouldn’t be a song and no one would have ever heard of the group Journey.

Biblical Application:

A week later his disciples were in the house again, and Thomas was with them. Though the doors were locked, Jesus came and stood among them and said, “Peace be with you!” 27 Then he said to Thomas, “Put your finger here; see my hands. Reach out your hand and put it into my side. Stop doubting and believe.” 28 Thomas said to him, “My Lord and my God!”29 Then Jesus told him, “Because you have seen me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed,” John 20:26-29.

Exegesis of Don’t Stop Believin’:

Just a small-town girl, livin’ in a lonely world
She took the midnight train going anywhere
Just a city boy, born and raised in South Detroit
He took the midnight train going anywhere

Starting off with a girl who was lost and lonely. A life void of vision. Transitions to a city boy who took the same train, not sure where he was going in life.

A singer in a smokey room
A smell of wine and cheap perfume
For a smile, they can share the night
It goes on, and on, and on, and on

Perhaps referring to Jonathon’s early years as a struggling musician living in Los Angeles. This is where this boy and girl meet.

Strangers waitin’ up and down the boulevard
Their shadows searchin’ in the night
Streetlights, people, livin’ just to find emotion
Hidin’ somewhere in the night

Signs of people living in this world without much hope or promise.

Workin’ hard to get my fill
Everybody wants a thrill
Payin’ anything to roll the dice
Just one more time

Working hard to find a better future. Searching for excitement. This involves taking chances, maybe even gambling.

Some’ll win, some will lose
Some are born to sing the blues

More people lose than win. This leads many to live in poverty throughout their lives.

Whoa, the movie never ends
It goes on, and on, and on, and on

Some trials in life never seem to end.

Strangers waitin’ up and down the boulevard
Their shadows searchin’ in the night
Streetlights, people livin’ just to find emotion
Hidin’ somewhere in the night

A sad reality of people that don’t experience much success in life. Left to live in obscurity.

Don’t stop believin’
Hold on to that feelin’
Streetlights, people

When belief disappears, your career is finished.

Don’t stop believin’
Hold on
Streetlights, people

Stay optimistic.

Don’t stop believin’
Hold on to that feelin’
Streetlights, people

Keep your head up and don’t lose hope.

Final Thoughts:

I was in Junior High when Don’t Stop Believin’ was released. I battled depression for 4 years, struggling to find my place in life. This song would be played every hour on the local radio station, sometimes at the exact same time each hour. Since I didn’t really get into music until 8th grade, my emotional state was like riding on a roller coaster. However, now that I know the inspiration behind Don’t Stop Believin’, I have a better appreciation for this song. Belief gives individuals a reason to get up each day. Yet when belief fades, so do aspiration, dreams and vision for a prosperous life. Therefore, don’t stop believing.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 1: A Season of Transition

Posted on September 1, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Earth, Wind & Fire – September (Official HD Video)

Monthly Theme:

Whether you are in school, starting a new job or thinking about retirement, September is often marked by a Season of Transition. If you are heading off to college, moving to a new school or changing careers, this month will include making new friends, reconnecting with people from your past and learning new skills. Although change isn’t easy. sometimes you need to reinvent yourself so that you’ll be better prepared for the future. This month’s selection of songs touch on the emotional highs and lows of relationships as well as trials that you’ll face in life.

Inspiration Behind September:

September promotes a carefree philosophy of living in the moment. Featured in the movie Night at the Museum, September was crafted to inspire people to dance as well as to celebrate the good times you experience in life. Approaching nearly 50 years since its release, September has become a timeless classic often used in fall celebrations.

Biblical Application:

Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. 23 Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror 24 and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. 25 But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it—not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it—they will be blessed in what they do, James 1:22-25.

Exegesis of September:

Do you remember
The 21st night of September?
Love was changing the minds of pretenders
While chasing the clouds away

Looking back at a specific date. This special day changed the way many people thought about love.

Our hearts were ringing
In the key that our souls were singing
As we danced in the night, remember
How the stars stole the night away, oh yeah

This event was celebrated by many people like a royal wedding. To those in attendance, the dance floor was open all night. Either a reference to dancing outside at night or a celebrity ball.

Hey, hey, hey
Ba-dee-ya, say, do you remember?
Ba-dee-ya, dancing in September
Ba-dee-ya, never was a cloudy day

This was a special evening that is often brought up in discussions.

Ba-du-du, ba-du-du, ba-du-du, ba-du-du
Ba-du-du, ba-du-du, ba-du-du, ba-du-du
Ba-du-du, ba-du-du, ba-du-da

A fun transition.

My thoughts are with you
Holding hands with your heart to see you
Only blue talk and love, remember

Thinking about a special person. Perhaps memories of their wedding.

How we knew love was here to stay

A wedding where those in attendance realized that they belonged together.

Now December, found the love we shared in September
Only blue talk and love, remember
The true love we share today

Fond memories of their marriage.

Hey, hey, hey
Ba-dee-ya, say, do you remember?
Ba-dee-ya, dancing in September
Ba-dee-ya, never was a cloudy day
There was a
Ba-dee-ya, say, do you remember?
Ba-dee-ya, dancing in September
Ba-dee-ya, golden dreams were shiny days

A time of reminiscing.

The bell was ringing, oh, oh
Our souls were singing
Do you remember
Never a cloudy day, yow

Wedding day bells. Closely knitted. Looking at life with a positive perspective.

There was a
Ba-dee-ya, say, do you remember?
Ba-dee-ya, dancing in September
Ba-dee-ya, never was a cloudy day
And we’ll say
Ba-dee-ya, say, do you remember?
Ba-dee-ya, dancing in September
Ba-dee-ya, golden dreams were shiny days

Repeating the chorus with fond memories of the past.

Ba-dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya
Ba-dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya
Ba-dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya
Ba-dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya
Ba-dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya
Ba-dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya

A good beat to dance to.

Final Thoughts:

My oldest son James celebrated a birthday by taking some friends to see Night at the Museum. Subsequently, whenever I hear September, I think of this movie about a man who was struggling in life until one evening as a night janitor transformed his perspective on life. Renewed with confidence, hope and purpose, Larry Daley came home from work a different person with a bounce in his step. This is what can happen on a special day this month.

by Jay Mankus

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