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Strangely Wrapped Gifts
My first gift in life was a severe speech impediment. Whether you want to call it stammering or stuttering, either way I had a difficult time communicating. Each time I opened my mouth, I never knew if hot air or words would come out. Despite the frustration and pain, when I opened this box, inside I discovered an ability to express myself through writing.
At the pinnacle of my athletic career, the second strange present arrived in the form of reconstructive surgery. Although a state championship in cross country was in my reach, God had other plans. Watching from the sidelines on crutches, my team fell a few points short, stealing my only chance for a title. Beyond this disappointment, an likely blessing came my way, standing on a podium of praise following a 3rd place finish in the 200 Individual Medley Relay.
The final gift came in waves, as a series of broken relationships. I’m not sure if I was to blame or if fate had another destiny. Regardless of the circumstances, this lack of connection brought me to my knees. Humility, loneliness and spiritual isolation wasn’t a pleasant thing to unwrap. Nonetheless, all these things occurred for a reason, 1 Peter 1:6–7. Today, strangely wrapped gifts come in many shapes and sizes. However, these life events are necessary to fulfill the words of Romans 8:38-39, developing a close bond to an unseen God and Savior.
by Jay Mankus
A Fast Food Faith
When households began to outlive their annual income, moms decided to pursue a new career. With both parents working, the thought of cooking dinner didn’t sit too well. Thus, the fast food revolution exploded during the 1980’s as tv dinners were replaced by restaurants and meals to go. Subsequently, faith has followed a similar path.
There are 2 different types of fast food faiths. One view is faith on the run. Whether its over sleeping, struggling to find time for God or merely forgetting the Lord, individuals slow down for a quick spiritual meal. This often involves a little devotional like Our Daily Bread, a short prayer and perhaps even a time of reflection before time ushers you off to your next appointment of the day. Although, this is a good starting place, a life style like this will result in a lukewarm faith, Revelation 3:15-16.
The second type of fast food faiths involves accepting the reality of our culture and maximizing what restaurants have to offer. Bill Hybels, founder of Willow Creek Church in Chicago, takes some time each summer to vacation in Michigan. One of his favorite spiritual refuges is a Burger King. Using free refills to his advantage, Bill finds a quiet booth in the back, opens up his Bible as God revitalizes him with a supernatural fast food faith.
Today, hearts, minds and souls are in desperate need of real food. Yet, no one is forcing you to leave the confines of your own home. With distractions only a computer, phone call or television away, perhaps you need to find a place like Mark 1:35. You may choose a fast faith chow down and go on your merry way? Or, for the hungry, you may prefer a spiritual buffet of biblical truth? May the Holy Spirit fill you with a Matthew 5:6 mentality so that your fast food faith fulfills your appetite.
by Jay Mankus
Fishing for Grace
Recent studies claim that there are currently about 38 million commercial fishermen worldwide. Although these numbers have declined due to advances in technology and rising costs, this trade is essential for restaurants and small villages which rely on these people for food. Since a third of his disciples were fishermen, Jesus weaved fishing themes into analogies, lessons and parables throughout his 3 year ministry on earth. Perhaps, this combination suggests that desperate souls should start fishing for God’s grace.
Stone inscriptions dating back to 2000 B.C. suggest fishing rods have been in use for more than 4000 years. According to biblical accounts in the New Testament, professional fishermen relied on nets to catch fish. On one occasion, 153 large fish were pulled to shore with a net stretched out between 2 boats, John 21:7-11. Caught up in the moment, Peter ran to shore, astonished by this miraculous moment. When Peter reached the beach, a resurrected Jesus appeared, starting a fire for an early breakfast. Once the catch was complete, it was time for Peter to go fishing for grace.
A week earlier, Peter had publicly denied being one of Jesus’ disciples. During one of their last conversations, Jesus predicted Peter would disown Him. Fervently refuting Jesus claim, Peter now stood face to face with the man he had betrayed. This sets the scene for John 21:15-19. Filled with guilt, remorse and shame, Peter casts a line out to Jesus, hoping for forgiveness. Jesus’ choice of words is interesting, forcing Peter to fish for grace 3 times. In the end, Peter is reinstated, experiencing the touch of a Savior’s love and mercy. If you’re filled with regret, pick up a rod, cast out a prayer and never give up until you find grace.
by Jay Mankus
Do You Remember When?
Time has a way of skewing our memories. When life is great, people expect things to continue, letting the good times roll. On the other hand, as soon as the tide turns, individuals are shocked by unfortunate events like death, illness or trials.
Every so often, I will do something to aggravate my ribs that I broke last winter. This soreness serves as a reminder of a scary moment in my life. Unable to breathe, cringing in pain, I watched helplessly while a dozen Emergency Room attendants prepared for my surgery. As the painkillers knocked me out, I wasn’t sure if I would ever wake up again.
Nine months later, I am thankful for life, a great job and wonderful family. If it wasn’t for the cold weather, I might have forgotten this traumatic event. Yet, the Lord brought this to my attention while reading Psalm 105. Just as the Lord inspired Jewish leaders to remind Israel of God’s covenant to Abraham, the Holy Spirit brought to recall the healing power of the Great I Am.
by Jay Mankus
A New Appreciation for Justice
If you have ever been taken advantage of, wronged or violated, a part of you cries out for justice. As for me I recall one of my final days in college. While driving to see a friend play in a tennis match, a car went through a red light, side swiped my front end and took off my license plate. Immediately, the driver apologized and told me it was his fault as a crowd of students gathered around the intersection. Trusting this individual, I told the witnesses to go home. Unfortunately, when the cops arrived, this man’s demeanor changed and so did his story.
Although there wasn’t significant damage to my car, the evidence suggested to the police that the man in the other car was to blame. However, since I sent the eyewitnesses home before talking to the police, it was my word against his. Could a college student be more honest than an adult with a flawless driving record? This stalemate led to a trip to traffic court to see whether or not justice would be served. Despite spewing out the biggest pile of manure during his testimony, aggravating the 2 officers I sat next to, the judge acquitted this postal worker of any wrong doing.
The frustration I felt was similar to some of the Psalms of David, questioning God when the wicked prospered. Calming my emotions was difficult, wondering why this event had to occur to me. Until you have something like this happen to you, justice is just another word. Despite this setback, passages such as Psalm 9:1-7 provide a glimmer of hope, a day when the wrong will be made right. A few years ago, I was the eyewitness who hung around so when the driver at fault tried to lie, I was there to inform the cops of what really happened. Therefore, the next time you endure, feel or see injustice, ask the Lord to fill you with a new appreciation for justice.
by Jay Mankus
Not in My House
As the NBA kicks off its pre-season, I am reminded of Dikembe Mutombo’s patented block celebration pointing his finger back and forth as if to say, “not in my house!” Others may recall Tommy Lees Jones’ role in Man of the House, playing Texas Ranger Roland Sharp, laying down the law to University Texas cheerleaders as too what is modest dress and what is unacceptable attire. While those who grew up in an authoritative household, learned quickly as to what was and was not acceptable behavior.
Playing the role as a father is much more difficult than I first thought. I am careful not to be overbearing as my father was, using his experience in the military like a drill sergeant to rule the roost. On the other hand, if I’m too relaxed, I may give the devil a foothold, enabling my children to stretch the boundaries between right and wrong. Thus, I am learning that being a parent takes time, evolving with the times, remaining biblical, yet not exasperating my kids, Ephesians 6:4. The best way to demonstrate a not in my house atmosphere is through consistent Christ-like actions.
After returning from a retreat with my daughter, I was immediately challenged to apply what I learn from the weekend. One of my sons was about to play a video game not suitable for his age. As this game was loading, I was shocked by the initial image on the screen. Without raising my voice, I asked a simple question, “this doesn’t look like a game you should be playing?” Following a slight pause, my son switched this to a football game. Although, I ‘m not perfect and still have a long way to go as a dad, there’s still time to proclaim, “not in my house!” – Joshua 24:24
by Jay Mankus