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The Message Behind the Music-June 20

Posted on June 20, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Carly Rae Jepsen – Call Me Maybe

Inspiration Behind Call Me Maybe:

Carly Rae Jepsen and Tavish Crowe had an idea inspired by a folksong. In this scenario, a girl immediately falls for a person that she just met. Unsure of exactly what to say, she hands him her phone number saying, “Call Me Maybe.” The lyrics use a young woman as a narrator. Experiencing love at first sight, she pulls an unladylike move, being forward enough to give this young man her phone number. The lyrics tug at the emotions going on inside this woman.

Biblical Application:

She sets about her work vigorously, her arms are strong for her tasks.18 She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night.19 In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers.20 She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy, Proverbs 31:17-20.

Exegesis of Call Me Maybe:

I threw a wish in the well
Don’t ask me, I’ll never tell
I looked to you as it fell
And now you’re in my way

This young girl was asking, hoping and wishing for a special boy to come into her life. After making this wish, this young man suddenly entered her life.

I’d trade my soul for a wish
Pennies and dimes for a kiss
I wasn’t looking for this
But now you’re in my way

Poetry mixes with desire to find this girl experiencing love at first sight.

Your stare was holdin’
Ripped jeans, skin was showin’
Hot night, wind was blowin’
Where you think you’re going, baby?

He got her attention quickly.

Hey, I just met you
And this is crazy
But here’s my number
So call me, maybe?

As he is about to leave, something overwhelms her. She rushes out, hands him her phone number and what comes out of her mouth isn’t exactly what she planned, but she made her move.

It’s hard to look right
At you baby
But here’s my number
So call me, maybe?

In other words, I really like you, give me a call.

Hey, I just met you
And this is crazy
But here’s my number
So call me, maybe?

this repetitive chorus illustrates her sense of emotion and urgency.

And all the other boys
Try to chase me
But here’s my number
So call me, maybe?

There are others who like me, but my main interest is in you.

You took your time with the call
I took no time with the fall
You gave me nothing at all
But still, you’re in my way

He didn’t call right away, but she is still falling head over heels for him. I need to know if you feel the same way.

I beg, and borrow and steal
At first sight and it’s real
I didn’t know I would feel it
But it’s in my way

He is the only one on her mind.

Your stare was holdin’
Ripped jeans, skin was showin’
Hot night, wind was blowin’
Where you think you’re going, baby?

You can’t leave me without saying goodbye.

Hey, I just met you
And this is crazy
But here’s my number
So call me, maybe?

I’m usually not this forward.

It’s hard to look right
At you baby
But here’s my number
So call me, maybe?

I can’t let you go without knowing if I ever had a chance with you.

Hey, I just met you
And this is crazy
But here’s my number
So call me, maybe?

So here’s my mind, call me if you’re interested.

And all the other boys
Try to chase me
But here’s my number
So call me, maybe?

I’m waiting on you to act.

Before you came into my life
I missed you so bad
I missed you so bad
I missed you so, so bad

Where you have been all my life. You’re the one I was wishing for.

Before you came into my life
I missed you so bad
And you should know that
I missed you so, so bad

At this point, this guy is probably wondering if pursuing this is a good idea.

It’s hard to look right
At you baby
But here’s my number
So call me, maybe?

She is persistent.

Hey, I just met you
And this is crazy
But here’s my number
So call me, maybe?

Really, I’m usually not this forward.

And all the other boys
Try to chase me
But here’s my number
So call me, maybe?

I’m waiting on you.

Before you came into my life
I missed you so bad
I missed you so bad
I missed you so, so bad

She has fallen for him.

Before you came into my life
I missed you so bad
And you should know that

So call me, maybe?

She is smitten by love.

Final Thoughts:

I first heard this song while I was taking my daughter on a college visit. I controlled the radio on the way there and I let her control the music on our return trip back to Delaware. Some of my most fond memories with Lydia were during car rides, talking about life and the future. When Call Me Maybe came on the radio, she blasted it as we sung along together. Although I probably missed several of the lyrics, this is a fun song to play loud and sing together.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-June 17

Posted on June 17, 2026 by expressyourself4him

China Grove

Inspiration Behind China Grove:

Led singer and songwriter Tom Johnston was moved to write a song about a fictional small town. Tom envisioned a place where gossip spread throughout a quirky town. Oddly enough, Tom wasn’t aware that China Grove was an actual place in Texas. Nonetheless, Johnston stuck with his invented China Grove where a guitar riff and chord structure naturally flowed during a Doobie Brothers’ jam session. Once everything was put together, China Grove became one of the Doobie Brothers all-time hits.

Biblical Application:

A scoundrel plots evil, and on their lips it is like a scorching fire. 28 A perverse person stirs up conflict, and a gossip separates close friends, Proverbs 16:27-28.

Exegesis of China Grove:

When the sun comes up on a sleepy little town
Down around San Antone
And the folks are risin’ for another day
‘Round about their homes

Tom has a vision of a town in remote Texas town. The locals are getting up to start a new day.

The people of the town are strange
And they’re proud of where they came
Well, you talkin’ ’bout your China Grove
(talkin’ ’bout your china grove)
Whoa, oh (whoa, oh) China Grove

Citizens are obvious to this quirky town. They are proud of this place, boasting of China Frove.

Well the preacher and the teacher
Lord, they’re a caution
They are the talk of the town
When the gossip gets to flyin’ and they ain’t lyin’
When the sun goes underground

Church and school leaders are outspoken. These individuals are the talk of the town. When the sun goes down, gossip intensifies.

They say that the father’s insane
And dear Mrs. Perkin’s a game
Well, talkin’ ’bout your China Grove
(talkin’ ’bout your china grove)
Whoa, oh (whoa, oh) China Grove

A priest and female teacher have been targeted as the town begins to believe this slander as truth. This is just another day in China Grove.

But everyday there’s a new thing comin’
The ways of an oriental view
The sheriff and his buddies with their samurai swords
You can even hear the music at night

People from the Far East has recently relocated. They have brought their oriental practices with them. Even their music stands out at night.

Though it’s a part of the Lone Star State
People don’t seem to care
They just keep on lookin’ to the east

Texas doesn’t mind immigrants, waiting on the sun to rise on another day.

Talkin’ ’bout your China Grove
(talkin’ ’bout your china grove)
Whoa, oh (whoa, oh) China Grove

The lyrics point to a new section of town. The fictional China Grove, not the actual same town in Texas.

Final Thoughts:

When I entered high school, China Grove was one of my favorite songs. Back in these days, I didn’t pay attention to lyrics, my main focus was the beat, melody and sound. Decades later, the lyrics could refer to any small town as gossip and pride can be found anywhere. This sad reality can spread like a spiritual cancer, ruining the lives and reputations of good people. Perhaps, in their later years, songs like Jesus is still alright with me by the Doobie Brothers provided a more positive message.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-June 1: A Season of Recreation, Restoration and Revitalization

Posted on June 1, 2026 by expressyourself4him

The Go-Go’s – Vacation

Monthly Theme:

As a former high school teacher, by the end of May, you are emotionally, mentally and physically exhausted. The summertime which followed final exams in early June was the season that students and teachers alike were waiting for. Since my school didn’t begin until the Tuesday after Labor Day weekend, June commenced a time for recreation. As human beings begin to recreate, restoration and revitalization is a byproduct of having fun in the sun.

Inspiration Behind Vacation:

Kathy Velentine was visiting her mother who lived in Austin, Texas back in 1980. This trip from Los Angeles, California allowed her to meet a charming man. On the plane ride back to Los Angeles, Kathy started writing on napkins as the words to Vacation began to flow. As the lead singer of Boy Problems, Kathy completed the melody and chords when she got back home. Upon joining the Go-Go’s later on in the year, members Jane Wiedlen and Charlotte Caffey loved it as Vacation became a reality.

Biblical Application:

He says, “Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations,I will be exalted in the earth,” Psalm 46:10.

Exegesis of Vacation:

Can’t seem to get my mind off of you
Back here at home, there’s nothin’ to do
Now that I’m away, I wish I’d stayed
Tomorrow’s a day of mine that you won’t be in

Kathy can’t stop thinking about this charming man that she just met. Upon arriving back home in Los Angeles, it’s back to reality. Kathy wished her vacation didn’t end, knowing that this man won’t be a part of her tomorrow.

When you looked at me, I should have run
But I thought it was just for fun
I see I was wrong, and I’m not so strong
I should have known all along that time would tell

Kathy wishes that she didn’t get involved, thinking she’d just have fun. Unfortunately, there is nothing she can do now as this fun in the sun has ended.

A week without you
Thought I’d forget
Two weeks without you and I
Still haven’t gotten over you yet

One week later, Kathy still can’t get this man out of her mind. Kathy seems like she wished her vacation never ended.

Vacation, all I ever wanted
Vacation, had to get away
Vacation, meant to be spent all alone

Time away from Los Angeles on vacation was great, something she longed for. However, her initial plans were to be all alone.

Vacation, all I ever wanted
Vacation, had to get away
Vacation, meant to be spent all alone

Repeating this chorus may point to frustration, perhaps getting emotionally involved.

A week without you
Thought I’d forget
Two weeks without you and I
Still haven’t gotten over you yet

Despite being back home, Kathy can’t get this charming man off her mind.

Vacation, all I ever wanted
Vacation, had to get away
Vacation, meant to be spent all alone

The trip served its purpose except for becoming emotionally involved.

Vacation, all I ever wanted
Vacation, had to get away
Vacation, meant to be spent all alone

Finishing with 3 straight choruses suggests that Kathy is frustrated with herself.

Vacation, all I ever wanted
Vacation, had to get away
Vacation, meant to be spent all alone

The one thing about any vacation is that you never know who you are going to meet.

Final Thoughts:

My father took the month of August off, traveling to Maine to refresh his body, mind and spirit from work. This is the one time every summer that my father had time for his children due to his busy work schedule. This is where I caught my first fish, went swimming for the first time and hung out with the same kids’ year after year. Maine became a refreshing time as I got older, training for cross-country in the mountains, playing golf on sunny days and fishing in the rain. This time of restoration and revitalization prepared me for the upcoming school year. Now as a father and grandfather, I try to make myself available to my family so we could enjoy memorable trips like going to the Grand Canyon. This is what vacation means to me.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-May 28

Posted on May 28, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Soul Asylum – Runaway Train (Official HD Video)

Inspiration Behind Runaway Train:

Dave Pirner wrote Runaway Train during a period of anxiety and depression in his life. In addition, Dave has been diagnosed with tinnitus, a ringing in the ears that can lead to a total loss of hearing. While the attached You Tube points to the million children missing in America, the ringing in Dave’s ears is like hearing a runaway train.

Biblical Application:

Then Jesus left the vicinity of Tyre and went through Sidon, down to the Sea of Galilee and into the region of the Decapolis.[h] 32 There some people brought to him a man who was deaf and could hardly talk, and they begged Jesus to place his hand on him. 33 After he took him aside, away from the crowd, Jesus put his fingers into the man’s ears. Then he spit and touched theman’s tongue. 34 He looked up to heaven and with a deep sigh said to him, “Ephphatha!” (which means “Be opened!”). 35 At this, the man’s ears were opened, his tongue was loosened and he began to speak plainly, Mark 7:31-35.

Exegesis of Runaway Train:

[Verse 1]
Call you up in the middle of the night
Like a firefly without a light
You were there like a blowtorch burning
I was a key that could use a little turning
So tired that I couldn’t even sleep
So many secrets I couldn’t keep
Promised myself I wouldn’t weep
One more promise I couldn’t keep

Dave is either referring to his hearing or personal matters that are quickly getting out of control. Dave is seeking help from a friend. After coming over, Dave appears to open up, revealing secrets from his past.

[Pre-Chrous]
It seems no one can help me now
I’m in too deep
There’s no way out
This time I have really led myself astray

Dave feels like he is stuck on a runaway train, beginning to think that no one can help him.

[Chorus]
Runaway train never going back
Wrong way on a one-way track
Seems like I should be getting somewhere
Somehow, I’m neither here nor there

Dave doesn’t appear to be making any progress in life, starting to go backwards.

[Verse 2]
Can you help me remember how to smile?
Make it somehow all seem worthwhile
How on earth did I get so jaded?
Life’s mystery seems so faded
I can go where no one else can go
I know what no one else knows
Here I am, just a-drowning in the rain
With a ticket for a runaway train

Dave is battling depression. Joy for life has been replaced by sarcasm. Dave has some painful things that he is keeping to himself, making him feel like he is drowning.

[Pre-Chorus]
And everything seems cut and dry
Day and night
Earth and sky
Somehow, I just don’t believe it

Dave’s heart has grown cold, frustrated by the hand life has dealt him.

[Chorus]
Runaway train never going back
Wrong way on a one-way track
Seems like I should be getting somewhere
Somehow, I’m neither here nor there

Dave is stuck in a rut, struggling to break free.

[Bridge]
Bought a ticket for a runaway train
Like a madman laughing at the rain
A little out of touch, a little insane
It’s just easier than dealing with the pain

Dave is on the verge of losing it, nearing a mental breakdown.

[Chorus]
Runaway train never going back
Wrong way on a one-way track
Seems like I should be getting somewhere
Somehow, I’m neither here nor there

Dave’s life is stuck in neutral.

[Outro]
Runaway train never coming back
Runaway train tearing up the track
Runaway train burning in my veins
I run away, but it always seems the same

Dave can’t escape his trouble in life.

Final Thoughts:

The lyrics of Runaway train fit well into May’s Mental Health Awareness. When you are going through a difficult stretch in life like Dave, you need a support group to encourage you. Trying to deal with problems all alone may seem like a good idea at first, but the father of lies, the Devil, seeks to kill and destroy souls, John 10:10. Instead of allowing this train to keep on speeding ahead out of control, cry out to Jesus, Matthew 11:28-30. Lay your burdens at the feet of Jesus so that you can begin to heal.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-May 16

Posted on May 16, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Poison – Every Rose Has Its Thorn (Lyrics)

Inspiration Behind Every Rose Has It’s Thorn:

Lead singer Bret Michaels experienced the heartbreak of discovering that his partner was unfaithful while out on tour with Poison. Out of this emotional experience in Dallas, Texas, Michaels strummed on his guitar late that night. Using music as a vessel for healing, raw emotions spawned the lyrics to Every Rose Has it’s Thorn. This life experience conceived this 1988 classic metal ballad.

Biblical Application:

In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body, Ephesians 5:28-30.

Exegesis of Every Rose Has It’s Thorn:

We both lie silently still in the dead of the night
Although we both lie close together
We feel miles apart, inside
Was it somethin’ I said or something I did
Did my words not come out right
Tho’ I tried not to hurt you
Tho’ I tried
But I guess that’s why they say

Bret is reflecting upon what went wrong in this relationship, unsure what happened which drove each other apart.

Every rose has its thorn
Just like every night has its dawn
Just like every cowboy sings his sad, sad song
Every rose has its thorn

Yea it does

Bret uses a metaphor to explain how he is feeling inside. The longer you hold a rose, the more likely you’ll get cut or pricked.

I listen to our favorite song playin’ on the radio
Hear the dj say love’s a game of
Easy come and easy go
But I wonder does he know
Has he ever felt like this
And I know that you’d be here right now
If I could have let you know somehow I guess

Listening to the special song they shared brought back a wave of emotions. Yet as Bret does a deep dive of the lyrics, there are certain things not dealt with or expressed.

Every rose has its thorn
Just like every night has its dawn
Just like every cowboy sings his sad, sad song
Every rose has its thorn

This chorus seeks to lay out certain realities in life.

Though it’s been a while now
I still feel so much pain
Like the knife that cuts you the wound heals,
But the scar, that scar remains.

Time hasn’t healed Bret’s broken heart. The Bible refers to this as wounds to your soul.

I know I could have saved our love that night
If I’d know what to say
Instead of making love
We both made our separate ways

Unexpected situations are hard to plan for. Looking back, Bret knows he could have saved their relationship if he just knew what to say.

Now I hear you’ve found somebody new
And that I never meant that much to you
To hear that tears me up inside
And to see you cuts me like a knife, i guess

Bret received news of his ex, doing well and her lack of appreciation for him.

Every rose has its thorn
Just like every night has its dawn
Just like every cowboy sings his sad, sad song
Every rose has its thorn

This rose and this latest update stuck with Bret, hurting more than he realized.

Final Thoughts:

Depending upon how stable someone is, relationships can be dicey. I once dated a girl in college who was ready to move on from me if our date didn’t go well. The pressure eventually got too great for me to handle, going our separate ways like Bret and his girlfriend. However, when you meet someone who is mature and stable, you won’t have as many thorns on this rose. Since all human beings are flawed, love takes a will to overlook the thorns we possess.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-May 13

Posted on May 13, 2026 by expressyourself4him

The Foundations – Build Me Up Buttercup (Lyric Video)

Inspiration Behind Build Me Up Buttercup:

The Foundations wanted to explore unrequited love and tension that exists within a relationship. Mike d’Abo and Tony Macaulay co-wrote Build Me Up Buttercup about a lover who is strung along by someone who is not interested in him. The Buttercup is symbolic of the flower and candy which highlights the complexities of affections and the desire to be connected with someone that you love.

Biblical Application:

So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live your lives in him, 7 rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness, Colossians 2:6-7.

Exegesis of Build Me Up Buttercup:

Oh, why do you build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, baby, just to let me down (let me down)
And mess me around and then worst of all (worst of all)
You never call, baby when you say you will (say you will)
But I love you still, I need you (I need you)
More than anyone, darlin’
You know that I have from the start
So build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, don’t break my heart

This man wants to be encouraged, not let down. Don’t play mind games with me. Especially when you don’t call. Yet this man still loves her, wanting to be uplifted without being dumped.

“I’ll be over at ten”, you told me time and again
But you’re late, I wait around and then (bah-dah-dah)
I went to the door, I can’t take anymore
Without you, you let me down again

This woman is stringing him along, not really caring about their relationship. This emotional strain is wearing this man out.

(Hey, hey, hey!) Baby, baby, try to find
(Hey, hey, hey!) A little time and I’ll make you mine
(Hey, hey, hey!) I’ll be home
I’ll be beside the phone waiting for you

This man proclaims his dedication in this stanza.

Oh, why do you build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, baby, just to let me down (let me down)
And mess me around and then worst of all (worst of all)
You never call, baby when you say you will (say you will)
But I love you still, I need you (I need you)
More than anyone, darlin’
You know that I have from the start
Build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, don’t break my heart

Despite this verbal commitment, he wonders why she doesn’t build him up. This stanza highlights the complexities of their relationship. His greatest wish is not to have his heart broken.

You were my toy, but I could be the boy you adore
If you’d just let me know (bah-dah-dah)
Although you’re untrue, I’m attracted to you all the more
Why do I need you so

This man is fighting for the woman that he loves despite how she treats him.

(Hey, hey, hey!) Baby, baby, try to find
(Hey, hey, hey!) A little time and I’ll make you mine
(Hey, hey, hey!) I’ll be home
I’ll be beside the phone waiting for you

Just give me a chance and I’ll prove my worth to you.

Why do you build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, baby, just to let me down (let me down)
And mess me around and then worst of all (worst of all)
You never call, baby when you say you will (say you will)
But I love you still, I need you (I need you)
More than anyone, darlin’
You know that I have from the start
Build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, don’t break my heart

His only request is to be affirmed and encouraged.

I-I-I need you (I need you)
More than anyone, baby
You know that I have from the start
Build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, don’t break my heart

This man believes that she will make him complete. He has done everything in his power to make this relationship work. Just don’t break my heart.

Final Thoughts:

When I was in junior high, hardly any girls knew that I existed. There was one girl who pretended to like me, flirting with me at the mall until I overheard her laughing with her friends about me. This continued for about a month until I finally stopped going to the mall. When I think of Build Me Up Buttercup, these are the emotions and feelings that hit home. The disappointments of junior high would be quickly forgotten by my final 2 years of high school. Facing adversity helps produce maturity, allowing me to recover and develop meaningful relationships a few years later.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-May 6

Posted on May 6, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Peter, Paul and Mary – Right Field (25th Anniversary Concert)

Inspiration Behind Right Field:

This song was written by a former right fielder, Wayne Welch. Right Field was recorded by Peter, Paul and Mary in 1987. Wayne was inspired by his childhood days standing in right field, more concerned with his surroundings than the actual game going on. Always being the last one selected for a team led Welch to appeal to individuals who are overlooked and undervalued in life. When metrics are applied strictly to baseball, certain players are never given the opportunity to play the position of their choice.

Biblical Application:

“Now what have I done?” said David. “Can’t I even speak?” 30 He then turned away to someone else and brought up the same matter, and the men answered him as before. 31 What David said was overheard and reported to Saul, and Saul sent for him. 32 David said to Saul, “Let no one lose heart on account of this Philistine; your servant will go and fight him.” 33 Saul replied, “You are not able to go out against this Philistine and fight him; you are only a young man, and he has been a warrior from his youth,” 1 Samuel 17:29-33,

Exegesis of Right Field:

Saturday summers, when I was a kid
We’d run to the schoolyard and here’s what we did
We’d pick out the captains and we’d choose up the teams
It was always a measure of my self esteem
‘Cause the fastest, the strongest, played shortstop and first
The last ones they picked were the worst
I never needed to ask, it was sealed,
I just took up my place in right field
Playing

Before you were old enough for Little League, neighborhood kids would play pickup games at the local ball field similar to the film Sandlot. Since Wayne wasn’t fast, strong or tall, he was always one of the last 2 selected and was assigned right field every time.

Right field, it’s easy, you know
You can be awkward and you can be slow
That’s why I’m here in right field
Just watching the dandelions grow

This stanza is true in professional baseball as well as the least athletic player is assigned right field today.

Playing right field can be lonely and dull
Little Leagues never have lefties that pull
I’d dream of the day they’d hit one my way
They never did, but still I would pray
That I’d make a fantastic catch on the run
And not lose the ball in the sun
And then I’d awake from this long reverie
And pray that the ball never came out to me, here in

Right field is the last place someone would hit a ball. Subsequently, managers would try to hide their worst player in this position. Parents and players in right field were nervous of a ball hit in their direction..

Right field, it’s easy, you know
You can be awkward and you can be slow
That’s why I’m here in right field
Just watching the dandelions grow

Without much action, bored players would lose focus by checking out the different types of weeds in this section of the outfield.

Off in the distance, the game’s dragging on
There’s strikes on the batter, some runners are on
I don’t know the inning, I’ve forgotten the score
The whole team is yelling and I don’t know what for

Right fielders are so far away from the action, that they aren’t mentally into a game like the infielders.

Then suddenly everyone’s looking at me
My mind has been wandering; what could it be?
They point to the sky and I look up above
And a baseball falls into my glove

Sometimes it’s better to be lucky than good.

Here in right field, it’s important you know
You gotta know how to catch, you gotta know how to throw
That’s why I’m here in right field, just watching the dandelions grow

It’s hard to have your head into the game when you might get a ball hit to you once or twice in a six-inning game.

Final Thoughts:

I stopped playing baseball in high school when I wasn’t tall enough or strong enough to throw a ball 80 miles an hour. While I was always 10 miles slower than most pitchers, I had great command. I was the ace pitcher on my Junior High team, going 2-0 with a near no hitter in the final game of the season. Yet, I wasn’t allowed to try out for a pitcher in high school. Despite batting 400 on the freshman team, I made a mental error in the season opener and rode the bench the rest of the season. The use of metrics in baseball today is preventing young boys like me from advancing to a higher level in baseball. Right fielders in Little League often quit after turning 13, not interested in baseball anymore.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-May 3

Posted on May 3, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Thin Lizzy – The Boys Are Back In Town (Official Lyric Video)

Inspiration Behind the Boys are Back in Town:

While this song is referring to the Manchester underworld, sports broadcasters in America use Thin Lizzy’s The Boys are Back in Town as a way to let fans know that their baseball team is back in town. One of the theories is that the boys are referring to the Quality Street Gang who Thin Lizzy encountered as a child at his mother’s nightclub. Members of this group were known for their sharp stylish attire worn at local clubs.

Biblical Application:

A longing fulfilled is sweet to the soul, but fools detest turning from evil. 20 Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm, Proverbs 13:19-20.

Exegesis of the Boys are Back in Town:

Guess who just got back today
Them wild-eyed boys that had been away
Haven’t changed, hadn’t much to say
But, man, I still think them cats are crazy

Either Thin Lizzy has been out at one of the local Manchester clubs or a friend let him know that members of the Quality Street Gang are back.

They were asking if you were around
How you was, where you could be found
I told them you were living downtown
Driving all the old men crazy

Some of the guys were looking for an old friend.

The boys are back in town, the boys are back in town
(I said) the boys are back in town
The boys are back in town
The boys are back in town, the boys are back in town
The boys are back in town, the boys are back in town

This chorus lets everyone in Manchester know this gang is back.

You know that chick that used to dance a lot?
Every night she’d be on the floor, shaking what she’d got
Man, when I tell you she was cool, she was red hot
I mean, she was steaming

Thin Lizzy recalls one of the regulars who was attractive and a great dancer.

And that time over at Johnny’s place
Well, this chick got up and she slapped Johnny’s face
Man, we just fell about the place
If that chick don’t wanna know, forget her

Thin Lizzy is reminiscing about memorable events that stand out in his mind.

The boys are back in town, the boys are back in town
(I said) the boys are back in town
The boys are back in town
The boys are back in town, the boys are back in town
The boys are back in town, boys are back in town

Repetitive chorus lets everyone know who is back.

Spread the word around
“Guess who’s back in town?”
Just spread the word around

The word is spreading as Manchester seems excited to have these boys back.

Friday night, they’ll be dressed to kill
Down at Dino’s Bar and Grill
The drink will flow and blood will spill
And if the boys want to fight, you better let them

Thin Lizzy summarizes a typical night at one of the local clubs.

That jukebox in the corner blasting out my favourite song
The nights are getting warmer, it won’t be long
Won’t be long ’til summer comes
Now that the boys are here again

Warm weather brings back locals and tourists.

The boys are back in town, the boys are back in town
The boys are back in town
The boys are back in town

Thin Lizzy is excited to see the guys.

The boys are back in town, the boys are back in town
(Spread the word around)
The boys are back in town, the boys are back in town
(The boys are back, the boys are back)

Thin Lizzy looked up to this gang when he was younger.

The boys are back in town again
Been hanging down at Dino’s
The boys are back in town again

Word on the street allows Thin Lizzy to catch up with these guys.

Final Thoughts:

Every town has a local hangout that is hopping every weekend. For me, this place was the Charcoal Pit, a diner on the main drag which served great ice cream dishes. With a mini jukebox in every booth, teenagers were coming and going throughout the night, bouncing to the music. If I wanted to see one of my friends, this is where I would go either on or after my date. Some of my fondest memories of high school occurred at the Charcoal Pit. Subsequently, I understand Thin Lizzy’s desire to connect with old friends.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-May 2

Posted on May 2, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Meat Loaf – Paradise By The Dashboard Light (Official Video)

Inspiration Behind Paradise:

Jim Steinman and Meatloaf worked together on the National Lampoon Road Tour before developing the idea for Paradise. Steinman began to explore teenage desires and obsessions using exaggerated storytelling. This is how baseball terminology is weaved into Paradise. When hormones are full blown, knowing how far is too far gets blurred in moments of passion. Meatloaf’s girlfriend, Ellen Foley worked with Meatloaf on the lyrics, wanting some form of commitment before having sex. This is where many relationships stall, when a commitment to a future together is put on hold.

Biblical Application:

It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; 4 that each of you should learn to control your own body[a] in a way that is holy and honorable, 5 not in passionate lust like the pagans, who do not know God, 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5.

Exegesis of Paradise:

Well I remember every little thing
As if it happened only yesterday
Parking by the lake
And there was not another car in sight
And I never had a girl
Looking any better than you did
And all the kids at school
They were wishing they were me that night

This opening stanza is like a scene from Happy Days, going to Inspiration Point, as teenagers park their car to make out with their girlfriend.

And now our bodies are oh so close and tight
It never felt so good, it never felt so right
And we’re glowing like the metal on the edge of a knife
Glowing like the metal on the edge of a knife
C’mon! Hold on tight!
C’mon! Hold on tight!

The lyrics point to a romantic embrace filled with passion.

Though it’s cold and lonely in the deep dark night
I can see paradise by the dashboard light

A little light in this car reveals a dark remote location.

Ain’t no doubt about it
We were doubly blessed
‘Cause we were barely seventeen
And we were barely dressed
Ain’t no doubt about it
Baby got to go and shout it
Ain’t no doubt about it
We were doubly blessed
‘Cause we were barely seventeen
And we were barely dressed

Meatloaf identifies this special moment to paradise, thinking about having sex.

Baby don’t you hear my heart
You got it drowning out the radio
I’ve been waiting so long
For you to come along and have some fun
Well I gotta let you know
No, you’re never gonna regret it
So open up your eyes I got a big surprise
It’ll feel all right
Well I wanna make your motor run

The hormones of two teenagers are out of control.

And now our bodies are oh so close and tight
It never felt so good, it never felt so right
And we’re glowing like the metal on the edge of a knife
Glowing like the metal on the edge of a knife
C’mon! Hold on tight!
Well c’mon! Hold on tight!

The lyrics point to a combination of lust and love between two teenagers.

Though it’s cold and lonely in the deep dark night
I can see paradise by the dashboard light
Though it’s cold and lonely in the deep dark night
(Lonely in the deep dark night)
Paradise by the dashboard light

The car is running but these two teens are providing the heat.

You got to do what you can
And let Mother Nature do the rest
Ain’t no doubt about it
We were doubly blessed
‘Cause we were barely seventeen
And we were barely-

Meatloaf is trying to pressure his girl into having sex.

We’re gonna go all the way tonight, we’re gonna go all the way and tonight’s the night
We’re gonna go all the way tonight we’re gonna go all the way and tonight’s the night
We’re gonna go all the way tonight we’re gonna go all the way and tonight’s the night
We’re gonna go all the way tonight we’re gonna go all the way and tonight’s the night

Tonight is the night Meatloaf has been waiting for his entire life.

OK, here we go, we got a real pressure cooker going here
Two down, nobody on, no score, bottom of the ninth
There’s the windup, and there it is, a line shot up the middle
Look at him go. This boy can really fly!
He’s rounding first and really turning it on now
He’s not letting up at all, he’s gonna try for second
The ball is bobbled out in center
And here comes the throw, and what a throw!
He’s gonna slide in head first, here he comes, he’s out!
No, wait, safe – safe at second base
This kid really makes things happen out there
Batter steps up to the plate
Here’s the pitch and he’s going, and what a jump he’s got
He’s trying for third, here’s the throw, it’s in the dirt – safe at third!
Holy cow, stolen base! He’s taking a pretty big lead out there
Almost daring him to try and pick him off
The pitcher glances over, winds up, and it’s bunted
Bunted down the third base line, the suicide squeeze is on!
Here he comes, squeeze play, it’s gonna be close
Here’s the throw, here’s the play at the plate
Holy cow, I think he’s gonna make it!

This is the baseball metaphor, using each base to represent getting closer to home, sex.

Stop right there!
I gotta know right now!
Before we go any further!
Do you love me?
Will you love me forever?
Do you need me?
Will you never leave me?
Will you make me so happy for the rest of my life?
Will you take me away and will you make me your wife?
Do you love me?
Will you love me forever?
Do you need me?
Will you never leave me?
Will you make me happy for the rest of my life?
Will you take me away and will you make me your wife?
I gotta know right now
Before we go any further
Do you love me?
Will you love me forever?

This is where Ellen draws the line, stopping at third base.

Let me sleep on it
Baby, baby let me sleep on it
Let me sleep on it
I’ll give you an answer in the morning
Let me sleep on it
Baby, baby let me sleep on it
Let me sleep on it
I’ll give you an answer in the morning
Let me sleep on it
Baby, baby let me sleep on it
Let me sleep on it
I’ll give you an answer in the morning

Meatloaf is stalling, trying to wear Ellen down.

I gotta know right now
Do you love me?
Will you love me forever?
Do you need me?
Will you never leave me?
Will you make me so happy for the rest of my life?
Will you take me away and will you make me your wife?
I gotta know right now!
Before we go any further
Do you love me?
And will you love me forever?

Ellen views the act of sex sacred like getting married.

What’s it going to be boy?
C’mon I can wait all night
What’s it gonna be boy? Yes or no?
What’s it gonna be boy?
Yes or no?

Ellen is waiting for an answer, a sign of commitment and a future together.

Let me sleep on it
Baby, baby let me sleep on it
Well let me sleep on it
I’ll give you an answer in the morning
I gotta know right now!

Meatloaf again postpones his decision.

Do you love me? (let me sleep on it)
Will you love me forever? (Baby baby, let me sleep on it) do you need me?
Will you never leave me?
Will you make me so happy for the rest of my life? (Let me sleep on it)
Will you take me away, will you make me your wife? (I’ll give you an answer in the morning)
I gotta know right now
Before we go any further
Do you love me? Will you love me forever?

Like a debate, Ellen and Meatloaf go back and forth.

Let me sleep on it! (will you love me forever?)
Let me sleep on it! (will you love me forever?)

This is the art of persuasion.

I couldn’t take it any longer, Lord I was crazed
And when the feeling came upon me like a tidal wave
Started swearing to my god and on my mother’s grave
That I would love you to the end of time
I swore I would love you to the end of time!

Love makes people do crazy things.

So now I’m praying for the end of time
To hurry up and arrive
‘Cause if I gotta spend another minute with you
I don’t think that I can really survive
I’ll never break my promise or forget my vow
But God only knows what I can do right now
I’m praying for the end of time
It’s all that I can do
Praying for the end of time
So I can end my time with you!

This is how most men today view marriage, as something to hold you down.

Well it was long ago and it was far away
And it was so much better that it is today
Well it was long ago and it was far away (it never felt so good)
And it was so much better that it is today (it never felt so right, and it was glowing like the metal)
It was long ago and it was far away (on the edge of a knife, it never felt so good)
And it was so much better that it is today (it never felt so right, and it was glowing like the metal)
Well it was long ago and it was far away (on the edge of a knife, it never felt so good)
And it was so much better that it is today (it never felt so right, and it was glowing like the metal)
Well it was long ago and it was far away (on the edge of a knife, it never felt so good)
And it was so much better that it is today (it never felt so right, and it was glowing like the metal)
Well it was long ago and it was far away (on the edge of a knife, it never felt so good)
And it was so much better that it is today (it never felt so right, and it was glowing like the metal)
It was long ago and it was far away (on the edge of a knife, it never felt so good)
And it was so much better that it is today (it never felt so right, and it was glowing like the metal)

Time has eroded the passion Meatloaf once possessed. Meatloaf has fond memories of his youth, thinking things were better back then than today.

Final Thoughts:

Morality in America and in churches today has declined greatly in the past 30 years. Compromise, justification and temptation have become part of everyday life. Hanging on to your virginity until marriage is rare today. Yet to the disciplined who won’t allow themselves to be placed into compromising positions, it is possible to please God by avoiding passion lust. This is part of the Girls Gone Mild Movement, waiting patiently for the right person to come along.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-May 1-Baseball, Beauty and Hope

Posted on May 1, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Kenny Rogers Baseball Song The Greatest

Monthly Theme:

I grew up in an era where spring in the United States of America was centered around baseball, apple pie and going for a ride in your vehicle. While times have changed as baseball has been passed in popularity by football, spring is still filled with the beauty of blooming flowers and fauna. These visible signs of spring provide hope that winter is over, and warmer weather is here to stay for a while. May’s allotment of musicians hopes to capture these themes.

Inspiration Behind the Greatest:

The Greatest was spawn from a childhood experience that Kenny Rogers had growing up. Rogers believes that the best stories are the simplest ones like a boy learning how to hit a baseball. This country song uses baseball as a metaphor to illustrate themes of self-resilience, self-belief and how you define success in life.

Biblical Application:

Jesus asked the boy’s father, “How long has he been like this?” “From childhood,” he answered. 22 “It has often thrown him into fire or water to kill him. But if you can do anything, take pity on us and help us.” 23 “‘If you can’?” said Jesus. “Everything is possible for one who believes.” 24 Immediately the boy’s father exclaimed, “I do believe; help me overcome my unbelief!” – Mark 9:21-24.

Exegesis of the Greatest:

Little boy in a baseball hat
Stands in the field with his ball and bat
Says, “I am the greatest player of them all”
Puts his bat on his shoulder and he tosses up the ball

Perhaps Kenny has a flashback of his child, participating in solitary play, tossing a whiffle ball up in his backyard. Or Kenny is observing a child learn how to hit a baseball for the first time.

And the ball goes up and the ball comes down
Swings his bat all the way around
The world’s so still, he can hear the sound
The baseball falls to the ground

Despite an intense amount of concentration this initial attempt to make contact fails.

Now the little boy doesn’t say a word
Picks up his ball, he is undeterred
Says, “I am the greatest there has ever been”
And he grits his teeth and he tries it again

Despite experience failure, this little boy still believes that he’s become a great hitter.

And the ball goes up and the ball comes down
Swings his bat all the way around
The world’s so still, he can hear the sound
The baseball falls to the ground

When making contact isn’t achieved, this boy looks forward to tomorrow, with another chance at success.

He makes no excuses
He shows no fear
He just closes his eyes
And listens to the cheers

This boy uses visualization techniques as if to plan what he wants to do tomorrow.

Little boy, he adjusts his hat
Picks up his ball, stares at his bat
Says, “I am the greatest, the game is on the line”
And he gives his all one last time

This boy doesn’t give up, eager at a chance for redemption to finally make contact.

And the ball goes up like the Moon so bright
Swings his bat with all his might
And the world’s as still as still can be
And the baseball falls and that’s strike three

There were no participation awards when I grew out, if you struck out, you went back to the dugout to sit on the bench.

Now it’s suppertime and his mama calls
Little boy starts home with his bat and ball
Says, “I am the greatest, that is a fact
But even I didn’t know I could pitch like that”

Failure helps identifies strengths and weaknesses. This boy doesn’t look at striking out as a failure. Rather, he turns his attention toward pitching.

Says, “I am the greatest
That is understood
But even I didn’t know
I could pitch that good”

Confidence hasn’t left this little boy. There is still hope that one day he’ll be a great athlete.

Final Thoughts:

As a former little league coach for 5 years, every team is different. Some teams can hit but are slow base runners. Others are great bunters, but don’t know how to catch. Talented players take too many chances, and fast pitchers often walk the bases loaded. Subsequently, finding the right position, swing and developing proper fielding techniques take time. As long as desire doesn’t die after extended periods of failure, young baseball players can become as great as their talent and work ethic take them.

by Jay Mankus

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