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The Message Behind the Music-July 20

Dixie Chicks – Wide Open Spaces (Lyrics)

Inspiration Behind Wide Open Spaces:

 Susan Gibson was studying forestry at the University of Montana when she wrote Wide Open Spaces. Frequent family trips from Amarillo, Texas to Missoula, Montana conceived the concept of Wide Open Spaces.  After jotting down lyrics in a notebook over the years, Susan’s mom sent this journal to her in college as part of a care package. Upon glancing over the words inside, Wide Open Spaces was spawn.

Biblical Application:

The Lord said, “I have indeed seen the misery of my people in Egypt. I have heard them crying out because of their slave drivers, and I am concerned about their suffering. So I have come down to rescue them from the hand of the Egyptians and to bring them up out of that land into a good and spacious land, a land flowing with milk and honey—the home of the Canaanites, Hittites, Amorites, Perizzites, Hivites and Jebusites, Exodus 3:7-8.

Exegesis of Wide Open Spaces:

Who doesn’t know what I’m talking about?
Who’s never left home? Who’s never struck out?
To find a dream and a life of their own
A place in the clouds, a foundation of stone

A song about traveling, watching the landscape as her parents’ drive. These trips led Susan to attend college in Montana. She followed her dream, searching for a solid foundation.

Many precede and many will follow
A young girl’s dreams no longer hollow
It takes the shape of a place out West
But what it holds for her, she hasn’t yet guessed

Susan is trying to make something out of her life as her dreams take shape in Montana. Still waiting for confirmation.

She needs wide open spaces
Room to make her big mistakes
She needs new faces
She knows the high stakes

This is what Susan believes she needs to be successful. New faces with high stakes to aim for.

She traveled this road as a child
Wide-eyed and grinning, she never tired
But now she won’t be coming back with the rest
If these are life’s lessons, she’ll take this test

Susan is leaving home in Texas to follow her dream in Montana. Various life lessons has led her down this path.

She needs wide open spaces
Room to make her big mistakes

Perhaps a reference to forestry, clear cutting areas so that new trees can be planted.

She needs new faces
She knows the high stakes
She knows the high stakes

Susan enjoys meeting new people. She also realizes that responsibilities that come with her dream.

And as her folks drive away, her dad yells, “Check the oil!”
Mom stares out the window and says, “I’m leavin’ my girl”
She said, “It didn’t seem like that long ago”
When she stood there and let her own folks know

A reference to dropping their girl off at college or moving away for good after graduating.

She needed wide open spaces
Room to make her big mistakes
She needs new faces
She knows the high stakes

The chorus repeats itself, explaining the environment Susan is searching for.

She knows the highest stakes
She knows the highest stakes (wide open spaces)
She knows the highest stakes
She knows the highest stakes (wide open spaces)

The stakes are high as Susan risks failure to achieve her dream in life.

Final Thoughts:

I took a winter semester off in college to travel the country, staying with 2 close friends from high school. I was able to see what life had to offer before I graduated from college. I went skiing out west and hung out in Dallas, providing an idea of where I wanted to live after college. As someone who loves to travel, I can’t get enough of wide open spaces driving along the interstate. Nature can be inspirational like it was for Susan.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-July 12

Dolly Parton – Color Me America (Audio)

Inspiration Behind Color Me America:

Dolly Parton wrote Color Me America the day after September 11th, 2001. The horrific events of 9/11 filled Dolly with a spirit of patriotism. The lyrics reflect the aspirations and values that Americans shared at this moment in time. Dolly waited until June 2003 before releasing Color Me America on her For God and Country album.

Biblical Application:

Hearing that Jesus had silenced the Sadducees, the Pharisees got together. 35 One of them, an expert in the law, tested him with this question: 36 “Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?” 37 Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’[c] 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself, Matthew 22:34-39.

Exegesis of Color Me America:

I am red and white and blue
These are colors that ring true
To all I am and feel and love and do
I stand proud and brave and tall
I want justice for us all
Color me America, red, white and blue

Dolly compares how she is feeling to the colors of the American flag. Dolly is proud of her country, appreciating all that America stands for.

I see red when evil speaks
Spilling red blood on our streets
And I feel blue from grief and sorrow that it brings
But the white, the light of love
God’s own Spirit like a dove
Lifts us up and hands to us an olive branch

Dolly tries to put the attack on America into words. Evil prevailed on this day resulting in death. Dolly is grieving with the families of Americans who lost loved ones. Dolly leans on God in the aftermath of 9/11, seeking help from above.

Oh, sweet freedom, may you stay
In our land and lives always
And may peace and beauty fill our hearts anew
And may we all stand up for you
May our thoughts and deeds be true
And be worthy of your stripes
Red, white and blue (red, white and blue)

Dolly clings to the freedom in America. Hoping for peace and healing. Followed by a call to stand up for American values. Praying for the proper response in deeds and thoughts, based upon American values.

I am red and white and blue
These are colors that ring true
To all I love and feel and see and do
Oh, I stand proud and brave and tall
I want justice for us all
So, color me America, red, white and blue

The chorus reflect the colors of the flag. Dolly has learned to love what this flag represents. Full of pride which makes her stand tall for American values.

Oh, sweet America (America, America…)
God won’t you shed, won’t you shed your grace on Thee
And crown Thy good with brotherhood
From sea to shining sea
Oh, color me, color me America
Red, white and blue, color me America

Dolly senses a blessing from God upon this nation. Leaning on God’s grace. This final stanza touches on America the Beautiful before touching on the colors in the American flag. This is Dolly’s heart felt response to 9/11/2001.

Final Thoughts:

I serviced a bank across the street from the Liberty Bell on September 11th. Before the Twin Towers fell, I received a call not to report to work as their area was closed for security reasons. This one event altered my career path, going into teaching a few months later. When one door closed, another opened, providing a decade to pour my heart and soul into teaching high school students. Color Me America became a song which reflected my own appreciation for this country. Although no nation is perfect, it’s still an amazing place to live.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-June 20

Carly Rae Jepsen – Call Me Maybe

Inspiration Behind Call Me Maybe:

Carly Rae Jepsen and Tavish Crowe had an idea inspired by a folksong. In this scenario, a girl immediately falls for a person that she just met. Unsure of exactly what to say, she hands him her phone number saying, “Call Me Maybe.” The lyrics use a young woman as a narrator. Experiencing love at first sight, she pulls an unladylike move, being forward enough to give this young man her phone number. The lyrics tug at the emotions going on inside this woman.

Biblical Application:

She sets about her work vigorously, her arms are strong for her tasks.18 She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night.19 In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers.20 She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy, Proverbs 31:17-20.

Exegesis of Call Me Maybe:

I threw a wish in the well
Don’t ask me, I’ll never tell
I looked to you as it fell
And now you’re in my way

This young girl was asking, hoping and wishing for a special boy to come into her life. After making this wish, this young man suddenly entered her life.

I’d trade my soul for a wish
Pennies and dimes for a kiss
I wasn’t looking for this
But now you’re in my way

Poetry mixes with desire to find this girl experiencing love at first sight.

Your stare was holdin’
Ripped jeans, skin was showin’
Hot night, wind was blowin’
Where you think you’re going, baby?

He got her attention quickly.

Hey, I just met you
And this is crazy
But here’s my number
So call me, maybe?

As he is about to leave, something overwhelms her. She rushes out, hands him her phone number and what comes out of her mouth isn’t exactly what she planned, but she made her move.

It’s hard to look right
At you baby
But here’s my number
So call me, maybe?

In other words, I really like you, give me a call.

Hey, I just met you
And this is crazy
But here’s my number
So call me, maybe?

this repetitive chorus illustrates her sense of emotion and urgency.

And all the other boys
Try to chase me
But here’s my number
So call me, maybe?

There are others who like me, but my main interest is in you.

You took your time with the call
I took no time with the fall
You gave me nothing at all
But still, you’re in my way

He didn’t call right away, but she is still falling head over heels for him. I need to know if you feel the same way.

I beg, and borrow and steal
At first sight and it’s real
I didn’t know I would feel it
But it’s in my way

He is the only one on her mind.

Your stare was holdin’
Ripped jeans, skin was showin’
Hot night, wind was blowin’
Where you think you’re going, baby?

You can’t leave me without saying goodbye.

Hey, I just met you
And this is crazy
But here’s my number
So call me, maybe?

I’m usually not this forward.

It’s hard to look right
At you baby
But here’s my number
So call me, maybe?

I can’t let you go without knowing if I ever had a chance with you.

Hey, I just met you
And this is crazy
But here’s my number
So call me, maybe?

So here’s my mind, call me if you’re interested.

And all the other boys
Try to chase me
But here’s my number
So call me, maybe?

I’m waiting on you to act.

Before you came into my life
I missed you so bad
I missed you so bad
I missed you so, so bad

Where you have been all my life. You’re the one I was wishing for.

Before you came into my life
I missed you so bad
And you should know that
I missed you so, so bad

At this point, this guy is probably wondering if pursuing this is a good idea.

It’s hard to look right
At you baby
But here’s my number
So call me, maybe?

She is persistent.

Hey, I just met you
And this is crazy
But here’s my number
So call me, maybe?

Really, I’m usually not this forward.

And all the other boys
Try to chase me
But here’s my number
So call me, maybe?

I’m waiting on you.

Before you came into my life
I missed you so bad
I missed you so bad
I missed you so, so bad

She has fallen for him.

Before you came into my life
I missed you so bad
And you should know that

So call me, maybe?

She is smitten by love.

Final Thoughts:

I first heard this song while I was taking my daughter on a college visit. I controlled the radio on the way there and I let her control the music on our return trip back to Delaware. Some of my most fond memories with Lydia were during car rides, talking about life and the future. When Call Me Maybe came on the radio, she blasted it as we sung along together. Although I probably missed several of the lyrics, this is a fun song to play loud and sing together.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-June 17

China Grove

Inspiration Behind China Grove:

Led singer and songwriter Tom Johnston was moved to write a song about a fictional small town. Tom envisioned a place where gossip spread throughout a quirky town. Oddly enough, Tom wasn’t aware that China Grove was an actual place in Texas. Nonetheless, Johnston stuck with his invented China Grove where a guitar riff and chord structure naturally flowed during a Doobie Brothers’ jam session. Once everything was put together, China Grove became one of the Doobie Brothers all-time hits.

Biblical Application:

A scoundrel plots evil, and on their lips it is like a scorching fire. 28 A perverse person stirs up conflict, and a gossip separates close friends, Proverbs 16:27-28.

Exegesis of China Grove:

When the sun comes up on a sleepy little town
Down around San Antone
And the folks are risin’ for another day
‘Round about their homes

Tom has a vision of a town in remote Texas town. The locals are getting up to start a new day.

The people of the town are strange
And they’re proud of where they came
Well, you talkin’ ’bout your China Grove
(talkin’ ’bout your china grove)
Whoa, oh (whoa, oh) China Grove

Citizens are obvious to this quirky town. They are proud of this place, boasting of China Frove.

Well the preacher and the teacher
Lord, they’re a caution
They are the talk of the town
When the gossip gets to flyin’ and they ain’t lyin’
When the sun goes underground

Church and school leaders are outspoken. These individuals are the talk of the town. When the sun goes down, gossip intensifies.

They say that the father’s insane
And dear Mrs. Perkin’s a game
Well, talkin’ ’bout your China Grove
(talkin’ ’bout your china grove)
Whoa, oh (whoa, oh) China Grove

A priest and female teacher have been targeted as the town begins to believe this slander as truth. This is just another day in China Grove.

But everyday there’s a new thing comin’
The ways of an oriental view
The sheriff and his buddies with their samurai swords
You can even hear the music at night

People from the Far East has recently relocated. They have brought their oriental practices with them. Even their music stands out at night.

Though it’s a part of the Lone Star State
People don’t seem to care
They just keep on lookin’ to the east

Texas doesn’t mind immigrants, waiting on the sun to rise on another day.

Talkin’ ’bout your China Grove
(talkin’ ’bout your china grove)
Whoa, oh (whoa, oh) China Grove

The lyrics point to a new section of town. The fictional China Grove, not the actual same town in Texas.

Final Thoughts:

When I entered high school, China Grove was one of my favorite songs. Back in these days, I didn’t pay attention to lyrics, my main focus was the beat, melody and sound. Decades later, the lyrics could refer to any small town as gossip and pride can be found anywhere. This sad reality can spread like a spiritual cancer, ruining the lives and reputations of good people. Perhaps, in their later years, songs like Jesus is still alright with me by the Doobie Brothers provided a more positive message.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-June 1: A Season of Recreation, Restoration and Revitalization

The Go-Go’s – Vacation

Monthly Theme:

As a former high school teacher, by the end of May, you are emotionally, mentally and physically exhausted. The summertime which followed final exams in early June was the season that students and teachers alike were waiting for. Since my school didn’t begin until the Tuesday after Labor Day weekend, June commenced a time for recreation. As human beings begin to recreate, restoration and revitalization is a byproduct of having fun in the sun.

Inspiration Behind Vacation:

Kathy Velentine was visiting her mother who lived in Austin, Texas back in 1980. This trip from Los Angeles, California allowed her to meet a charming man. On the plane ride back to Los Angeles, Kathy started writing on napkins as the words to Vacation began to flow. As the lead singer of Boy Problems, Kathy completed the melody and chords when she got back home. Upon joining the Go-Go’s later on in the year, members Jane Wiedlen and Charlotte Caffey loved it as Vacation became a reality.

Biblical Application:

He says, “Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations,I will be exalted in the earth,” Psalm 46:10.

Exegesis of Vacation:

Can’t seem to get my mind off of you
Back here at home, there’s nothin’ to do
Now that I’m away, I wish I’d stayed
Tomorrow’s a day of mine that you won’t be in

Kathy can’t stop thinking about this charming man that she just met. Upon arriving back home in Los Angeles, it’s back to reality. Kathy wished her vacation didn’t end, knowing that this man won’t be a part of her tomorrow.

When you looked at me, I should have run
But I thought it was just for fun
I see I was wrong, and I’m not so strong
I should have known all along that time would tell

Kathy wishes that she didn’t get involved, thinking she’d just have fun. Unfortunately, there is nothing she can do now as this fun in the sun has ended.

A week without you
Thought I’d forget
Two weeks without you and I
Still haven’t gotten over you yet

One week later, Kathy still can’t get this man out of her mind. Kathy seems like she wished her vacation never ended.

Vacation, all I ever wanted
Vacation, had to get away
Vacation, meant to be spent all alone

Time away from Los Angeles on vacation was great, something she longed for. However, her initial plans were to be all alone.

Vacation, all I ever wanted
Vacation, had to get away
Vacation, meant to be spent all alone

Repeating this chorus may point to frustration, perhaps getting emotionally involved.

A week without you
Thought I’d forget
Two weeks without you and I
Still haven’t gotten over you yet

Despite being back home, Kathy can’t get this charming man off her mind.

Vacation, all I ever wanted
Vacation, had to get away
Vacation, meant to be spent all alone

The trip served its purpose except for becoming emotionally involved.

Vacation, all I ever wanted
Vacation, had to get away
Vacation, meant to be spent all alone

Finishing with 3 straight choruses suggests that Kathy is frustrated with herself.

Vacation, all I ever wanted
Vacation, had to get away
Vacation, meant to be spent all alone

The one thing about any vacation is that you never know who you are going to meet.

Final Thoughts:

My father took the month of August off, traveling to Maine to refresh his body, mind and spirit from work. This is the one time every summer that my father had time for his children due to his busy work schedule. This is where I caught my first fish, went swimming for the first time and hung out with the same kids’ year after year. Maine became a refreshing time as I got older, training for cross-country in the mountains, playing golf on sunny days and fishing in the rain. This time of restoration and revitalization prepared me for the upcoming school year. Now as a father and grandfather, I try to make myself available to my family so we could enjoy memorable trips like going to the Grand Canyon. This is what vacation means to me.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-May 28

Soul Asylum – Runaway Train (Official HD Video)

Inspiration Behind Runaway Train:

Dave Pirner wrote Runaway Train during a period of anxiety and depression in his life. In addition, Dave has been diagnosed with tinnitus, a ringing in the ears that can lead to a total loss of hearing. While the attached You Tube points to the million children missing in America, the ringing in Dave’s ears is like hearing a runaway train.

Biblical Application:

Then Jesus left the vicinity of Tyre and went through Sidon, down to the Sea of Galilee and into the region of the Decapolis.[h] 32 There some people brought to him a man who was deaf and could hardly talk, and they begged Jesus to place his hand on him. 33 After he took him aside, away from the crowd, Jesus put his fingers into the man’s ears. Then he spit and touched theman’s tongue. 34 He looked up to heaven and with a deep sigh said to him, “Ephphatha!” (which means “Be opened!”). 35 At this, the man’s ears were opened, his tongue was loosened and he began to speak plainly, Mark 7:31-35.

Exegesis of Runaway Train:

[Verse 1]
Call you up in the middle of the night
Like a firefly without a light

You were there like a blowtorch burning
I was a key that could use a little turning
So tired that I couldn’t even sleep
So many secrets I couldn’t keep
Promised myself I wouldn’t weep

One more promise I couldn’t keep

Dave is either referring to his hearing or personal matters that are quickly getting out of control. Dave is seeking help from a friend. After coming over, Dave appears to open up, revealing secrets from his past.

[Pre-Chrous]
It seems no one can help me now
I’m in too deep
There’s no way out
This time I have really led myself astray

Dave feels like he is stuck on a runaway train, beginning to think that no one can help him.

[Chorus]
Runaway train never going back
Wrong way on a one-way track

Seems like I should be getting somewhere
Somehow, I’m neither here nor there

Dave doesn’t appear to be making any progress in life, starting to go backwards.

[Verse 2]
Can you help me remember how to smile?
Make it somehow all seem worthwhile

How on earth did I get so jaded?
Life’s mystery seems so faded
I can go where no one else can go
I know what no one else knows
Here I am, just a-drowning in the rain
With a ticket for a runaway train

Dave is battling depression. Joy for life has been replaced by sarcasm. Dave has some painful things that he is keeping to himself, making him feel like he is drowning.

[Pre-Chorus]
And everything seems cut and dry
Day and night
Earth and sky

Somehow, I just don’t believe it

Dave’s heart has grown cold, frustrated by the hand life has dealt him.

[Chorus]
Runaway train never going back
Wrong way on a one-way track
Seems like I should be getting somewhere
Somehow, I’m neither here nor there

Dave is stuck in a rut, struggling to break free.

[Bridge]
Bought a ticket for a runaway train
Like a madman laughing at the rain
A little out of touch, a little insane
It’s just easier than dealing with the pain

Dave is on the verge of losing it, nearing a mental breakdown.

[Chorus]
Runaway train never going back
Wrong way on a one-way track
Seems like I should be getting somewhere
Somehow, I’m neither here nor there

Dave’s life is stuck in neutral.

[Outro]
Runaway train never coming back
Runaway train tearing up the track
Runaway train burning in my veins
I run away, but it always seems the same

Dave can’t escape his trouble in life.

Final Thoughts:

The lyrics of Runaway train fit well into May’s Mental Health Awareness. When you are going through a difficult stretch in life like Dave, you need a support group to encourage you. Trying to deal with problems all alone may seem like a good idea at first, but the father of lies, the Devil, seeks to kill and destroy souls, John 10:10. Instead of allowing this train to keep on speeding ahead out of control, cry out to Jesus, Matthew 11:28-30. Lay your burdens at the feet of Jesus so that you can begin to heal.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-May 16

Poison – Every Rose Has Its Thorn (Lyrics)

Inspiration Behind Every Rose Has It’s Thorn:

Lead singer Bret Michaels experienced the heartbreak of discovering that his partner was unfaithful while out on tour with Poison. Out of this emotional experience in Dallas, Texas, Michaels strummed on his guitar late that night. Using music as a vessel for healing, raw emotions spawned the lyrics to Every Rose Has it’s Thorn. This life experience conceived this 1988 classic metal ballad.

Biblical Application:

In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body, Ephesians 5:28-30.

Exegesis of Every Rose Has It’s Thorn:

We both lie silently still in the dead of the night
Although we both lie close together
We feel miles apart, inside
Was it somethin’ I said or something I did
Did my words not come out right
Tho’ I tried not to hurt you
Tho’ I tried
But I guess that’s why they say

Bret is reflecting upon what went wrong in this relationship, unsure what happened which drove each other apart.

Every rose has its thorn
Just like every night has its dawn
Just like every cowboy sings his sad, sad song
Every rose has its thorn

Yea it does

Bret uses a metaphor to explain how he is feeling inside. The longer you hold a rose, the more likely you’ll get cut or pricked.

I listen to our favorite song playin’ on the radio
Hear the dj say love’s a game of
Easy come and easy go
But I wonder does he know
Has he ever felt like this
And I know that you’d be here right now
If I could have let you know somehow I guess

Listening to the special song they shared brought back a wave of emotions. Yet as Bret does a deep dive of the lyrics, there are certain things not dealt with or expressed.

Every rose has its thorn
Just like every night has its dawn
Just like every cowboy sings his sad, sad song
Every rose has its thorn

This chorus seeks to lay out certain realities in life.

Though it’s been a while now
I still feel so much pain
Like the knife that cuts you the wound heals,
But the scar, that scar remains.

Time hasn’t healed Bret’s broken heart. The Bible refers to this as wounds to your soul.

I know I could have saved our love that night
If I’d know what to say
Instead of making love
We both made our separate ways

Unexpected situations are hard to plan for. Looking back, Bret knows he could have saved their relationship if he just knew what to say.

Now I hear you’ve found somebody new
And that I never meant that much to you
To hear that tears me up inside
And to see you cuts me like a knife, i guess

Bret received news of his ex, doing well and her lack of appreciation for him.

Every rose has its thorn
Just like every night has its dawn
Just like every cowboy sings his sad, sad song
Every rose has its thorn

This rose and this latest update stuck with Bret, hurting more than he realized.

Final Thoughts:

Depending upon how stable someone is, relationships can be dicey. I once dated a girl in college who was ready to move on from me if our date didn’t go well. The pressure eventually got too great for me to handle, going our separate ways like Bret and his girlfriend. However, when you meet someone who is mature and stable, you won’t have as many thorns on this rose. Since all human beings are flawed, love takes a will to overlook the thorns we possess.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-May 13

The Foundations – Build Me Up Buttercup (Lyric Video)

Inspiration Behind Build Me Up Buttercup:

The Foundations wanted to explore unrequited love and tension that exists within a relationship. Mike d’Abo and Tony Macaulay co-wrote Build Me Up Buttercup about a lover who is strung along by someone who is not interested in him. The Buttercup is symbolic of the flower and candy which highlights the complexities of affections and the desire to be connected with someone that you love.

Biblical Application:

So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live your lives in him, rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness, Colossians 2:6-7.

Exegesis of Build Me Up Buttercup:

Oh, why do you build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, baby, just to let me down (let me down)
And mess me around and then worst of all (worst of all)
You never call, baby when you say you will (say you will)
But I love you still, I need you (I need you)
More than anyone, darlin’
You know that I have from the start
So build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, don’t break my heart

This man wants to be encouraged, not let down. Don’t play mind games with me. Especially when you don’t call. Yet this man still loves her, wanting to be uplifted without being dumped.

“I’ll be over at ten”, you told me time and again
But you’re late, I wait around and then (bah-dah-dah)
I went to the door, I can’t take anymore
Without you, you let me down again

This woman is stringing him along, not really caring about their relationship. This emotional strain is wearing this man out.

(Hey, hey, hey!) Baby, baby, try to find
(Hey, hey, hey!) A little time and I’ll make you mine
(Hey, hey, hey!) I’ll be home
I’ll be beside the phone waiting for you

This man proclaims his dedication in this stanza.

Oh, why do you build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, baby, just to let me down (let me down)
And mess me around and then worst of all (worst of all)
You never call, baby when you say you will (say you will)
But I love you still, I need you (I need you)
More than anyone, darlin’
You know that I have from the start
Build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, don’t break my heart

Despite this verbal commitment, he wonders why she doesn’t build him up. This stanza highlights the complexities of their relationship. His greatest wish is not to have his heart broken.

You were my toy, but I could be the boy you adore
If you’d just let me know (bah-dah-dah)
Although you’re untrue, I’m attracted to you all the more
Why do I need you so

This man is fighting for the woman that he loves despite how she treats him.

(Hey, hey, hey!) Baby, baby, try to find
(Hey, hey, hey!) A little time and I’ll make you mine
(Hey, hey, hey!) I’ll be home
I’ll be beside the phone waiting for you

Just give me a chance and I’ll prove my worth to you.

Why do you build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, baby, just to let me down (let me down)
And mess me around and then worst of all (worst of all)
You never call, baby when you say you will (say you will)
But I love you still, I need you (I need you)
More than anyone, darlin’
You know that I have from the start
Build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, don’t break my heart

His only request is to be affirmed and encouraged.

I-I-I need you (I need you)
More than anyone, baby
You know that I have from the start
Build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, don’t break my heart

This man believes that she will make him complete. He has done everything in his power to make this relationship work. Just don’t break my heart.

Final Thoughts:

When I was in junior high, hardly any girls knew that I existed. There was one girl who pretended to like me, flirting with me at the mall until I overheard her laughing with her friends about me. This continued for about a month until I finally stopped going to the mall. When I think of Build Me Up Buttercup, these are the emotions and feelings that hit home. The disappointments of junior high would be quickly forgotten by my final 2 years of high school. Facing adversity helps produce maturity, allowing me to recover and develop meaningful relationships a few years later.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-May 6

Peter, Paul and Mary – Right Field (25th Anniversary Concert)

Inspiration Behind Right Field:

This song was written by a former right fielder, Wayne Welch. Right Field was recorded by Peter, Paul and Mary in 1987. Wayne was inspired by his childhood days standing in right field, more concerned with his surroundings than the actual game going on. Always being the last one selected for a team led Welch to appeal to individuals who are overlooked and undervalued in life. When metrics are applied strictly to baseball, certain players are never given the opportunity to play the position of their choice.

Biblical Application:

“Now what have I done?” said David. “Can’t I even speak?” 30 He then turned away to someone else and brought up the same matter, and the men answered him as before. 31 What David said was overheard and reported to Saul, and Saul sent for him. 32 David said to Saul, “Let no one lose heart on account of this Philistine; your servant will go and fight him.” 33 Saul replied, “You are not able to go out against this Philistine and fight him; you are only a young man, and he has been a warrior from his youth,” 1 Samuel 17:29-33,

Exegesis of Right Field:

Saturday summers, when I was a kid
We’d run to the schoolyard and here’s what we did
We’d pick out the captains and we’d choose up the teams
It was always a measure of my self esteem
‘Cause the fastest, the strongest, played shortstop and first
The last ones they picked were the worst
I never needed to ask, it was sealed,
I just took up my place in right field
Playing

Before you were old enough for Little League, neighborhood kids would play pickup games at the local ball field similar to the film Sandlot. Since Wayne wasn’t fast, strong or tall, he was always one of the last 2 selected and was assigned right field every time.

Right field, it’s easy, you know
You can be awkward and you can be slow
That’s why I’m here in right field
Just watching the dandelions grow

This stanza is true in professional baseball as well as the least athletic player is assigned right field today.

Playing right field can be lonely and dull
Little Leagues never have lefties that pull
I’d dream of the day they’d hit one my way
They never did, but still I would pray
That I’d make a fantastic catch on the run
And not lose the ball in the sun
And then I’d awake from this long reverie
And pray that the ball never came out to me, here in

Right field is the last place someone would hit a ball. Subsequently, managers would try to hide their worst player in this position. Parents and players in right field were nervous of a ball hit in their direction..

Right field, it’s easy, you know
You can be awkward and you can be slow
That’s why I’m here in right field
Just watching the dandelions grow

Without much action, bored players would lose focus by checking out the different types of weeds in this section of the outfield.

Off in the distance, the game’s dragging on
There’s strikes on the batter, some runners are on
I don’t know the inning, I’ve forgotten the score
The whole team is yelling and I don’t know what for

Right fielders are so far away from the action, that they aren’t mentally into a game like the infielders.

Then suddenly everyone’s looking at me
My mind has been wandering; what could it be?
They point to the sky and I look up above
And a baseball falls into my glove

Sometimes it’s better to be lucky than good.

Here in right field, it’s important you know
You gotta know how to catch, you gotta know how to throw
That’s why I’m here in right field, just watching the dandelions grow

It’s hard to have your head into the game when you might get a ball hit to you once or twice in a six-inning game.

Final Thoughts:

I stopped playing baseball in high school when I wasn’t tall enough or strong enough to throw a ball 80 miles an hour. While I was always 10 miles slower than most pitchers, I had great command. I was the ace pitcher on my Junior High team, going 2-0 with a near no hitter in the final game of the season. Yet, I wasn’t allowed to try out for a pitcher in high school. Despite batting 400 on the freshman team, I made a mental error in the season opener and rode the bench the rest of the season. The use of metrics in baseball today is preventing young boys like me from advancing to a higher level in baseball. Right fielders in Little League often quit after turning 13, not interested in baseball anymore.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-May 3

Thin Lizzy – The Boys Are Back In Town (Official Lyric Video)

Inspiration Behind the Boys are Back in Town:

While this song is referring to the Manchester underworld, sports broadcasters in America use Thin Lizzy’s The Boys are Back in Town as a way to let fans know that their baseball team is back in town. One of the theories is that the boys are referring to the Quality Street Gang who Thin Lizzy encountered as a child at his mother’s nightclub. Members of this group were known for their sharp stylish attire worn at local clubs.

Biblical Application:

A longing fulfilled is sweet to the soul, but fools detest turning from evil. 20 Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm, Proverbs 13:19-20.

Exegesis of the Boys are Back in Town:

Guess who just got back today
Them wild-eyed boys that had been away
Haven’t changed, hadn’t much to say
But, man, I still think them cats are crazy

Either Thin Lizzy has been out at one of the local Manchester clubs or a friend let him know that members of the Quality Street Gang are back.

They were asking if you were around
How you was, where you could be found
I told them you were living downtown
Driving all the old men crazy

Some of the guys were looking for an old friend.

The boys are back in town, the boys are back in town
(I said) the boys are back in town
The boys are back in town
The boys are back in town, the boys are back in town
The boys are back in town, the boys are back in town

This chorus lets everyone in Manchester know this gang is back.

You know that chick that used to dance a lot?
Every night she’d be on the floor, shaking what she’d got
Man, when I tell you she was cool, she was red hot
I mean, she was steaming

Thin Lizzy recalls one of the regulars who was attractive and a great dancer.

And that time over at Johnny’s place
Well, this chick got up and she slapped Johnny’s face
Man, we just fell about the place
If that chick don’t wanna know, forget her

Thin Lizzy is reminiscing about memorable events that stand out in his mind.

The boys are back in town, the boys are back in town
(I said) the boys are back in town
The boys are back in town
The boys are back in town, the boys are back in town
The boys are back in town, boys are back in town

Repetitive chorus lets everyone know who is back.

Spread the word around
“Guess who’s back in town?”
Just spread the word around

The word is spreading as Manchester seems excited to have these boys back.

Friday night, they’ll be dressed to kill
Down at Dino’s Bar and Grill
The drink will flow and blood will spill
And if the boys want to fight, you better let them

Thin Lizzy summarizes a typical night at one of the local clubs.

That jukebox in the corner blasting out my favourite song
The nights are getting warmer, it won’t be long
Won’t be long ’til summer comes
Now that the boys are here again

Warm weather brings back locals and tourists.

The boys are back in town, the boys are back in town
The boys are back in town
The boys are back in town

Thin Lizzy is excited to see the guys.

The boys are back in town, the boys are back in town
(Spread the word around)
The boys are back in town, the boys are back in town
(The boys are back, the boys are back)

Thin Lizzy looked up to this gang when he was younger.

The boys are back in town again
Been hanging down at Dino’s
The boys are back in town again

Word on the street allows Thin Lizzy to catch up with these guys.

Final Thoughts:

Every town has a local hangout that is hopping every weekend. For me, this place was the Charcoal Pit, a diner on the main drag which served great ice cream dishes. With a mini jukebox in every booth, teenagers were coming and going throughout the night, bouncing to the music. If I wanted to see one of my friends, this is where I would go either on or after my date. Some of my fondest memories of high school occurred at the Charcoal Pit. Subsequently, I understand Thin Lizzy’s desire to connect with old friends.

by Jay Mankus