After three years of home schooling, my daughter Lydia has been reintegrated back into public education as a freshman at St. George’s High School. Once meek and timid, my daughter has flourished socially, enjoying daily interactions with students her own age. While it doesn’t always happen, I try to have one meaningful conversation with Lydia per month, hoping to get an update on her overall experience. This past weekend I found myself enthralled with our discussion, yet convicted by my daughter’s perspective.
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness, 1 John 1:9.
While driving back from the beach, Lydia wanted to know what my wife and I believed about dating, music and tattoos. Lydia shared what she believed, then listened to her mom and dad talk. At times she laughed, surprised how certain views have changed since her parents were teenagers. At one point, Lydia cut me off, suggesting I was brash, opinionated and negative. Normally, I would attempt to defend and justify myself, but conviction led me to listen to a child’s perspective.
Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working, James 5:16.
These comments from my daughter served as a mirror, giving me a chance to see who I really am at this point in life. The truth hurts, but you must come to terms with where you are before you make a full recovery. To a certain extent, I am bitter and frustrated by where I am, like being in limbo. Meanwhile, I have become more vocal in my feelings, brash, critical and trashing those I disagree with. After listening to my daughter’s perspective, its time for me to confess my shortcomings, seek God’s counsel and pray that the Holy Spirit begins to transform my imperfections. May this blog encourage you to listen to those who care about you.
by Jay Mankus