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Stop The Non-Sense

When I attended the University of Delaware, I experienced another world.  Though I wasted my first semester chasing after an Animal House like happening, it wasn’t long until I had to face reality; the party life wasn’t for me. I had to stay true to my convictions, accept my relational weaknesses and stop being fake.  Its no wonder that the disciple Peter uses the expression sober in 1 Peter 4:7, calling people to be real by stopping the non-sense mentioned in verses 3-6.

Unfortunately, many college students never leave their drunken stupor, carrying it over into adulthood.  Meanwhile, people are in denial of life’s end, thinking everyone will go to heaven, no matter what they have done in life.  While its true heaven is not solely dependent upon what you do, Ephesians 2:8, faith does require action, James 2:26.  James, the brother of Jesus, lived amongst the son of God without ever believing in him.  It took a painful death, burial and subsequent resurrection of Jesus for James’ faith to come alive.  James 2:14-26 is a clear proclamation to stop the non-sense by aligning your deeds with your faith.

I was saddened to hear about Kansas City Chief’s player Jovan Belcher killing his girlfriend, driving to their practice facility, then shooting himself to death in front of head coach Romeo Crennel and general manager Scott Pioli.  The only comparable thing I can remember from my own life is when a foreign exchange students from Japan committed suicide by walking into the path of a on coming train after her parents disowned her for becoming a Christian during her last semester of college.  Whether you like it or not, death forces individuals to think of the after life, heaven or hell.  You can’t sugarcoat this fact from the Bible, Matthew 7:13-14, with more going down instead of up if you take the Bible literally.

Though some churches claim murder is an unforgivable sin, this is not biblical; only blasphemy of the Holy Spirit is not forgiven according to Jesus in Matthew 12:31.  This too is often confused, especially with youtubes comparing denying God with blasphemy.  In the end, only God knows your heart.  However, people have to stop lying to themselves and open their eyes to what is truly going on around them.  Listen closely to the language daily spoken.  What are the majority of television commercials really selling?  How many laws are being broken by these new reality shows?  Wake up America while you are still alive!  Remove the garbage you are daily digesting, come to your senses like the prodigal son in Luke 15:17-18 and embrace your heavenly father who loves and created you.  In light of this latest tragedy, the sensible thing to do is to prepare yourself for the after life, 1 Peter 4:8-11.

by Jay Mankus

Pray for the Chiefs, the families affected and for those who have not made their eternal reservations, 1 John 5:13.

More Power

As I was watching a rerun of Crimson Tide today, I am reminded of the impact Star Trek has had on Generation X.  Denzel Washington uses a famous line from this series to inspire Vossler, an electronic specialist, to regain radio transmission of their sub as soon as possible to avert a nuclear war.  Whenever Captain Kirk, played by William Shatner in Star Trek, felt the U.S.S. Enterprise was in danger, he would contact Scottie, asking for more power to engage warp speed to dodge trouble.

Since I have spent the last 6 days working the night shift, I have been in warp speed mode.  During this fast paced week, I have been  lethargic, lacking the spiritual power I need to remain rock solid in my faith.  While the Bible was only a few steps away, my body seemed paralyzed, unable to reach out, open the Word up and begin reading.  Meanwhile, prayer was just a breath away, but my transmission between God and I failed.  Thus, I am in desperate need of an infusion, like the Jeff Deyo song More Love, More Power.

The former lead singer of Sonic Flood, Jeff Deyo reveals that more power is available through worshiping the Lord Jesus Christ.  According to Psalm 149, praise has a generating effect on our body, sparking dancing, rejoicing and singing.  When you initiate a relationship with Jesus, Romans 10:9-10, the power of the Holy Spirit produces a life altering result, Romans 8:1-4.  Therefore, if you are experiencing a power outage or spiritual shortage like me this week, don’t be discouraged.  Claim the promise of Philippians 4:13 like Bethany Hamilton in Soul Surfer and God will provide a wave to guide you safely to shore!

by Jay Mankus

an honest servant of Christ

Why Josh Hamilton in Philly Pinstripes Makes Sense

Like Bill Murray in Scrooged running from the ghosts of Christmas, Josh Hamilton understands the meaning of having a checkered past.  A former number one pick of the Tampa Bay Rays in 1999, this blue chip prospect had his baseball career derailed by a drug addiction.  A living example of 1 Corinthians 15:33-34, Josh Hamilton was led astray by his association with a tattoo parlor which influenced him to experiment with illegal drugs and alcohol.  After a visit to the Betty Ford drug rehabilitation center, Josh improved until failing his first of 2 drugs tests, leading to his exit of baseball for an extended period of time.

Josh’s story and comeback became a national headline after airing on ESPN’s Homecoming with Rick Reilly in January of 2009.  Appearing in his hometown of Raleigh, North Carolina, Josh shared skeletons from his past as well as his new relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ.  After being traded to the Texas Rangers from the Chicago Cubs, his new team put in place an accountability system to prevent Josh from back sliding into his former bad habits.  Since being acquired from Chicago in 2007, Josh has been selected to 5 all-star teams, won the 2010 American League Most Valuable Player award and led Texas to 2 consecutive World Series appearances in 2010 and 2011.

As a current free agent, teams are afraid Josh’s body will break down physically, revert to his former life or simply isn’t worth the 4 years, 100 million dollar contract experts think he will receive.  This is where the Philadelphia Phillies make a great marriage on and off the field.  With Carlos Ruiz suspended for the first month of the season for using amphetamines, Josh Hamilton would look great between Chase Utley and Ryan Howard.  Although, this would make the Phillies vulnerable to left handed relievers, any right handed starting pitcher might soil their pants every 3 innings when facing these sluggers.

Off the field, Philadelphia has a history of strong charismatic Christian athletes on their professional sports teams beginning with Reggie White with the Philadelphia Eagles in the 1980’s.  Former eagle and future NFL hall of famer, Brian Dawkins would make a great mentor for Josh Hamilton, a true example of Jesus Christ.  Meanwhile, Josh could reside in Ocean City, New Jersey, a dry city since its establishment in 1879, a little over an hour drive from Citizen’s Bank Park.  Christians flock from all over the East Coast to this quaint beach side community, a perfect place for Josh to call home.  I may be dreaming of another big free agent signing, yet Josh Hamilton would look great in Phillies’ pinstripes.

by Jay Mankus

former mini-tour member and P.G.A. Qualifying school participant

former staff writer for Travel Golf Media

former Bible teacher, counselor and youth pastor

Escaping the Ghosts of Christmas Past

Scrooged Poster

Movies like Elf, Home Alone, A Wonderful Life and Miracle of 34th Street have become an annual Christmas tradition for many American families.  While some people have become dependent on these movies to get them into the Christmas spirit, there is another classic which reveals a painful truth.  While fiction, Billy Murray’s version of Scrooged illuminates the fact that everyone has skeletons, ghosts of Christmas past.

Prior to 2012, I spent the previous 10 years in a bubble as a Christian school teacher, insulated from most of the temptations of this world.  Although not perfect, cursing was minimal, most of my interactions with parents were civil and I shared similar values with my co-workers.  Like the apostle Paul on his visit to Athens in Acts 17:16, 2012 has opened my eyes to the idols in our culture.  These images bring me back to my life prior to knowing Jesus, attractive to things like Music Television, R-rated movies and anything sports related.  These skeletons can haunt you, brought up by Satan just as ghosts haunted Billy Murray in Scrooged.

When attacked by these old desires, you have to flee or else ruin will follow, James 4:7.  This escape is not complete until God cleanses your heart and mind, James 4:8.  As you wrestle with your past, things like bad habits, past addictions, ungodly beliefs and soul spirit hurts, read passages like Galatians 2:20 and Philippians 1:21 to keep you on track.  These biblical truths should refresh minds of your new identity in Christ.  I can’t guarantee victory 100 % of the time, but I do hold fast to the promise of Romans 8:38-39 to insure success in the end.  If you run with a Hebrews 12:1-3 attitude, you should be able to escape the ghosts of your past!

by Jay Mankus

 

They Found the Secret

Dr. V. Raymond Edman was the president of Wheaton College, a Christian school in Illinois.  Before his death, God put a burden on Dr. V’s heart to study the abundant life, mentioned by Jesus in John 10:10.  This quest led to the creation of a series of short biographies from godly men and women throughout history.  In the end, this compellation was comprised into the book, They Found the Secret.

From my own personal experiences, I had to go on missionary trips in America to uncover the secret of abundant life.  Whether it was inner city Philadelphia with City Team Ministries, South Carolina and Tennessee through Group Ministries or taking youth groups to North Carolina and Kentucky as a youth pastor, the only living examples of this joy for life were found in the most unlikely places.  I have met widows, homeless and dirt poor individuals who were grateful for every thing they had, the clothes on their back and a place to lay their heads.  Although I thought God wanted me to come and repair the homes, trailers and shacks of the needy, the Holy Spirit led me on these trips to restore my own life.

Maybe this is why Jesus includes Matthew 6:19-24 in his sermon on the mount.  Unfortunately, money complicates things, often changing people for the worse.  Like the words of Revelation 2:4, addressed to the Ephesians, money can tempt Christians to lose their first love, exchanging money for an intimate relationship with God.  Personally, I don’t have an answer for the abundant life, but I do know where it lies.  Somewhere between Leviticus 26:1-4, Psalm 119:9-11 and John 10, this abundant life is accessible by grace through faith in Christ, Ephesians 2:1-10.  Like the apostle Paul’s words nearly 2000 years ago, “press on to take hold of that which Christ Jesus took hold of me,” Philippians 3:12.  May you and I each discover and experience this abundant life some day soon!

by Jay Mankus

Another Silent Night

 

It won’t be long until Christmas music permeates the airwaves.  Meanwhile, the annual release of new Christmas albums are on their way, as Country, R&B and Christian artists  try to give their modern interpretation of classics like Silent Night.  However, in this age, there is another meaning to silent night, one without God.

In the song Christmas at Denny’s, Randy Stonehill presents Christmas from an orphans perspective, without a family to call home or gifts to open.  In fact, most Americans experience silent nights often, alone, depressed and doubting God’s existence.  Although these people may not say it, they are thinking, “if God is real, why did He choose this path for me or God has abandoned me so I am going to go in a different direction.”  Choices like this lead to another silent night, separated from God like Adam and Eve in Genesis 3:23-24.

If God could speak directly to us like the days of old in the garden, He might ask, “have you spent any time praying today, singing songs of praise or opening up my Word to connect with me?”  Once you experience a close bond with someone, you want to build upon your relationship, nurturing it with caring, effort and time.  Unfortunately, the distractions of this world have recently kept  me from applying these same principles with God.

Thus, I am wrestling with silence, waiting impatiently for another sign from God like the faithless people in the days of Jesus.  Since what I have been doing isn’t working, I need to go back to the basics to break this silence.  Nehemiah has established a biblical formula of brokenness, fasting and prayer in chapter 1.  When you add vision to this equation, God broke the silence, providing Nehemiah with a plan.  If you are like me, sick of silent nights, clueless of the direction God wants you to move in, set time aside each day like Jesus in Mark 1:35 and God willing, you’ll be reconnected spiritually, Psalm 4:1-3.

by Jay Mankus

The Living Years

Click to show "Mike and the Mechanics" result 4 As a teenager living through the 1980’s, I wasn’t mature enough to understand the meaning of the song The Living Years by Mike and the Mechanics.  Like most kids, I was too preoccupied by my own life, living for the moment.  However, when this song hit the charts in 1988, the lyrics struck a chord with my soul.

While in college, I lost my best friend from high school to cancer and had another close friend lose his brother in a car accident.  When divorces exploded at the end of this decade, I had more friends to console, trying to understand what had just happen to their parents.  By the time I was about to graduate from the University of Delaware in the early 1990’s, trials and tragedy’s were an annual occurrence.  Death wasn’t just a word in a song, it had become real, impacting my life.

When I read the bio of Mike Rutherford online, the founder of Mike and the Mechanics and lead bass player of the classic group Genesis, I was impressed by the dedication, energy and time  it takes musicians before success is reached.  I am reminded that since life is short, its vital to make the most of each day you are given on earth.  Although, I am currently no where near where I want to be in life, its time to get on with the living years!

by Jay Mankus

ps- the lyrics of The Living Years are listed below for your reading pleasure.

Songwriters: RUTHERFORD, MICHAEL/ROBERTSON, BRIAN ALEXANDER

Every generation
Blames the one before
And all of their frustrations
Come beating on your door

I know that I’m a prisoner
To all my Father held so dear
I know that I’m a hostage
To all his hopes and fears
I just wish I could have told him in the living years

Crumpled bits of paper
Filled with imperfect thoughts
Stilted conversations
I’m afraid that’s all we’ve got

You say you just don’t see it
He says it’s perfect sense
You just can’t get agreement
In this present tense
We all talk a different language
Talkin’ in defense

Say it loud, say it clear
You can listen as well as you hear
It’s too late when we die
To admit we don’t see eye to eye

So we open up a quarrel
Between the present and the past
We only sacrifice the future
It’s the bitterness that lasts

So Don’t yield to the fortunes
You sometimes see as fate
It may have a new perspective
On a different date
And if you don’t give up, and don’t give in
You may just be O.K.

Say it loud, say it clear
You can listen as well as you hear
It’s too late when we die
To admit we don’t see eye to eye

I wasn’t there that morning
When my Father passed away
I didn’t get to tell him
All the things I had to say

I think I caught his spirit
Later that same year
I’m sure I heard his echo
In my baby’s new born tears
I just wish I could have told him in the living years

Say it loud, say it clear
You can listen as well as you hear
It’s too late when we die
To admit we don’t see eye to eye

Say it loud, say it clear
Say it loud
Don’t give up
Don’t give in
And don’t know what you can do next

Inside the Heart of God


As a child, I had a flawed view of God.  May be it was because I was raised in a strict Roman Catholic home or due to the fact I was afraid of being struck with a yard stick by nuns when I couldn’t recite the Our Father or Hail Mary?  Either way, these experiences led me to develop an Old Testament perspective of God, one of judgment and wrath.  Like C.S. Lewis’ opening paragraph of Book 3 in Mere Christianity, I felt as if God was waiting to punish me each time I sinned.  This sense that God was going to strike me with lightning every time I made a bad decision blinded me from seeing inside the heart of God.

Thankfully, God allowed me to study under some of the greatest Bible teachers in the country to help dissolve these false assumptions.  Pastors like Alistar Begg of Truth for Life in Ohio, Bill Hybels and Lee Strobel at Willow Creek in Chicago and Tommy Nelson of Denton Bible Church at several college retreats laid a solid foundation which I have been able to build upon since getting married.  On Friday night, while listening to Christian music for 3 hours, God gave me a brief glimpse into the heart of God.

Since I have a tendency to get impatient with people, especially non-believers, God reminded me of Jesus’ earthly ministry.  Jesus spent 3 years serving others, reaching out to the needy and re-educating the disciples to prepare them for life after his ascension.  The only people Jesus ever got angry at were religious leaders, teachers of the law, his own disciples at times, those who didn’t welcome his own disciples in Matthew 10 and anyone who tried to turn the House of God into a den of robbers.  Jesus knew that most people are blinded by Satan in their minds, 2 Corinthians 4:4, unable to grasp the gospel like the parable of the weeds, Matthew 13:24-30.

When you begin to discern the spiritual elements behind a person’s actions, Ephesians 6:12, you are able to overlook their sin to love and pray for people.  Knowing the heart of God is one thing, carrying out God’s love is entirely different.  This is why the apostle Paul wrote 1 Corinthians 13:1-3.  If you have tried to love, then you know how hard it is to do, day in and day out.  However, if you follow the blue print in Colossians 3:12-17, you just might be able to display the heart of God to those people you cross paths with daily.  The next time you become impatient like me, remember Jesus’ perspective in Luke 19:42 by having compassion on sinners like a shepherd reaching out to his lost sheep!

by Jay Mankus

A Wedding Day Prayer

Seventeen years ago today, I vowed to marry Leanne Marie Wagner.  Since Leanne comes from a big family, our wedding was planned around her families every other year Thanksgiving family reunion in Illinois.  Despite both of us serving in youth ministry leading up to our engagement, Pastor Shawk would not agree to marry us unless we partook in 9 months of pre-marriage counseling.  St. Matthew’s Lutheran Church in Barrington, Illinois didn’t mess around, taking marriage seriously.

Prior to our wedding day, I was only in charge of one thing, the music.  While our DJ from Indiana had most of his equipment stolen a few weeks before the reception, God provided enough music to last the entire reception.  To make his life easier, I created a mix of all the songs for special occasions.  At the wedding, our good friend Matt Shepherdson, worship leader for Axis, a Gen X ministry of Willow Creek Community Church at the time sang one of 2 solos, Perfect Love by David and the Giants.  The other solo was sung by my best friend in youth ministry at that time, Phil McMurry singing All the Darkness by Steve Wiggins, the lead singer for Big Tent Revival.  Since Leanne and I both enjoy Christmas music, we decided to conclude our wedding with Joy to the World.

Before the wedding, God impressed upon me a wedding day prayer that was printed on the inside of our wedding bulletin.  Since I had already seen some divorces from friends from high school, I wanted to make sure that our vows lasted forever.  Below is this prayer.

When the high emotions of our wedding are over and the thrill of the honeymoon is gone, all that remains in the will of two people in the Lord and hard work.  With time, each of our imperfections will rise to the surface, showing themselves daily.  There will be failed expectations, broken promises and disappointment in our hearts.  Even when two people are in love, marriage can fail.  However, there is a perfect love, a love which never fails nor disappoints.  This love is found through a personal relationship with Jesus Christ.

As Leanne and I begin to recognize our own imperfections, we must look to Jesus for help.  We can try to change, yet only Jesus can transform our imperfections.  Therefore, we rely on Christ for our source of strength.  For His LOVE is perfecting our weaknesses so that we may learn how to love one another the way God intended for us in the Bible.  This is perfect love!

by Jay Mankus

p.s. – I want to thank Leanne for enduring with me all these years.  Both of us have experienced hardships over the past few years, hanging on to the Lord through these storms!  As Steven Curtis Chapman sings, I will go there with go!  For always and forever!

Upside Down

Imagery is used in books, movies and real life to communicate a deeper or hidden meaning. In the Bible, light and darkness is used as a metaphor to illustrate right from wrong. When the circumstances of life comes crashing down upon you, turning everything you thought you knew upside down, it’s time to return to the book of life for answers, Revelation 13:8.

Matthew 16:24-28 is a passage difficult to comprehend from a worldly point of view. The moment a child enters this world, they cry out for to their mother and then to whoever will change or feed them. This urging or desire is what the Bible calls our sinful nature, passed on from Adam, down to each and every generation, Romans 5:12. Nonetheless, Jesus turns everything you have learned about life around in Matthew 16:25. Life is not about taking control, holding onto it for dear life; real life is found by giving it away.

I guess you can say people are in desperate need of a mind transplant, transforming their thoughts from their self to others, Romans 12:1-2. Like the old Michael W. Smith song proclaims in its lyrics, “love isn’t love until you give it away!”. Therefore, as shoopers try to recover from the carnage that is Black Friday, let these words of Jesus soak in to help you catch the Christmas spirit; not for a season, for the rest of your earthly life. If you want to turn the world upside down, it’s begins deep inside your heart, John 3:5-8.

by Jay Mankus