Abandonment, isolation and rejection are just a few words that reflect the feelings within a lonely heart. Loneliness can be self inflicted when alienated, busy or distracted by your own self interests. Yet, most lonely people are haunted by broken relationships, a loss of confidence or low self esteem which often leads to withdrawing from family and friends. For anyone who finds themselves in this predicament, the quicker you can escape loneliness, the better.
For we do not have a High Priest who is unable to sympathize and understand our weaknesses and temptations, but One who has been tempted [knowing exactly how it feels to be human] in every respect as we are, yet without [committing any] sin. 16 Therefore let us [with privilege] approach the throne of grace [that is, the throne of God’s gracious favor] with confidence and without fear, so that we may receive mercy [for our failures] and find [His amazing] grace to help in time of need [an appropriate blessing, coming just at the right moment], Hebrews 4:15-16.
The author of Hebrews suggests that not even Jesus was immune to loneliness. Referred to as the great high priest, Jesus is able to sympathize and understand human weaknesses and temptations. No verse in the Bible highlights this fact than the passage below. On the verge of fulfilling God’s will, Jesus felt forsaken, abandoned by his heavenly father. Despite the raw emotions expiressed, Jesus prepared himself for this moment by praying in the Garden of Gethsemane the night before..
Now from the sixth hour (noon) there was darkness over all the land until the ninth hour (3:00 p.m.). 46 About the ninth hour Jesus cried out with a loud [agonized] voice,“Eli, Eli, lama sabachthani?” that is, “My God, My God, why have You forsaken Me?” – Matthew 27:45-46
As a highly motivated individual, pursuing my own dreams and goals can result in isolation. Unless I slow down to invite others into my life, invisible walls are built to shield myself from those who care about me. Thus, before I find myself heading toward a lone ranger syndrome, I need to take a step back before speeding ahead. The best way I have found to escape loneliness is by spending time meditating upon God’s Word. When I do, the Holy Spirit puts everything into perspective by prompting me to restore relationships that need to be healed.
by Jay Mankus