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The Message Behind the Music-March 31

Posted on March 31, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Ella Fitzgerald and Duke Ellington “It Don’t Mean A Thing (If It Ain’t Got That Swing)”

Inspiration Behind It Don’t Mean a Thing If It Ain’t Got That Swing:

Duke Ellington composed It Don’t Mean a Thing If It Ain’t Got That Swing in 1931 when Swing music was the dominant sound. This song was written by Bubber Miley where words were selected to encourage listeners to get on the dance floor. While the overall lyrics are repetitive, the essence of jazz combined with rhythmic propulsion still keep It Don’t Mean a Thing If It Ain’t Got That Swing in the rotation of songs on classical radio stations. During a reboot of this song on the Ed Sullivan Show, Ella Fitzgerald joined Duke Ellington to bring It Don’t Mean a Thing If It Ain’t Got That Swing back to life in 1965.

Biblical Application:

Praise the Lord.[a] Sing to the Lord a new song, his praise in the assembly of his faithful people. 2 Let Israel rejoice in their Maker; let the people of Zion be glad in their King.3 Let them praise his name with dancing and make music to him with timbrel and harp, Psalm 149:1-3.

Exegesis of It Don’t Mean a Thing If It Ain’t Got That Swing:

What good is melody, what good is music
If it ain’t possessin’ something sweet?
Nah, it ain’t the melody and it ain’t the music
There’s something else that makes this tune complete

This is the original lyrics when Duke teamed up with Louis Armstrong. From Duke’s perspective of music, its goal is to elicit a response from listeners to dance. Perhaps Duke is referring to the emotion, jazz and soul put into a song by musicians which makes one song stand out from another.

Yes, it don’t mean a thing, if it ain’t got that swing
Well, it don’t mean a thing, all you got to do is sing
It makes no difference if it’s sweet or hot
Just give that rhythm everything you got

This song was designed to make listeners swing, dancing to the beat and melody. When rhythm is fueled by passion, It Don’t Mean a Thing If It Ain’t Got That Swing comes alive.

Yes, it don’t mean a thing, if it ain’t got that swing
It don’t mean a thing, don’t mean a thing if it ain’t got that swing
I said, it don’t mean a thing, if it ain’t got that swing
Nah, it makes no difference if it’s sweet or hot
Just give that rhythm everything you got
Don’t mean a thing, boy, if it ain’t that a swing

Artists like Ella Fitzgerald and Duke Ellington were not only entertainers but they wanted their audiences to have fun while dancing the night away.

Final Thoughts:

It’s important not to glance over different eras of music. I grew up in an age where punk rock was king, until the next style took center stage. As artists continue to express their feelings through songs, swing music is still worth pursuing in ballroom dancing classes offered throughout the country. This concludes a month dedicated to famous female bands and women in music.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-March 30

Posted on March 30, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Flashdance • What a Feeling • Irene Cara

Inspiration Behind What a Feeling:

The lyrics to What a Feeling come from a metaphor that compares dancing to aspirations for fulfilling your dreams in life. What a Feeling was the theme song for the film Flashdance. Alex Owens wants to pursue dancing as a professional ballerina, but has to put this on hold, working in a steel mill until this goal becomes a reality. What a Feeling was composed by Giorgio Moroder and co-written by Keith Forsey and Irena Cara who sings this song.

Biblical Application:

To these four young men God gave knowledge and understanding of all kinds of literature and learning. And Daniel could understand visions and dreams of all kinds, Daniel 1:17.

Exegesis of What a Feeling:

First, when there’s nothing but a slow glowing dream
That your fear seems to hide deep inside your mind
All alone I have cried, silent tears full of pride
In a world made of steel, made of stone

Initially, Alex Owens wasn’t good enough to become a professional ballerina and didn’t have the money to make this happen. Despite being frustrated, she took a full-time job at a steel mill to make a living for herself.

Well, I hear the music close my eyes, feel the rhythm
Wrap around, take a hold of my heart

Alex never stopped dreaming, taking music with her every day in the steel mill, playing in her head.

What a feeling, being’s believin’
I can have it all, now I’m dancing for my life

Dancing is Alex’s true passion, what makes her get up every morning.

Take your passion and make it happen
Pictures come alive, you can dance right through your life

Alex used positive thoughts, seeing herself fulfilling this lifelong dream.

Now, I hear the music, close my eyes, I am rhythm
In a flash it takes hold of my heart

This enabled Alex to move with the rhythm of each song.

What a feeling, being’s believin’
I can have it all, now I’m dancing for my life
Take your passion and make it happen
Pictures come alive, now I’m dancing through my life
What a feeling

Alex is like a motivational speaker, using passion to make her dream come true.

What a feeling (I am music now)
Being’s believin’ (I am rhythm now)
Pictures come alive, you can dance right through your life

This technique of visualization is what modern-day sports psychologists use to help professional athletes reach their full potential.

What a feeling (I can really have it all)
What a feeling (pictures come alive when I call)
I can have it all (I can really have it all)m
Have it all (pictures come alive when I call)

This is the passion and perseverance needed to make your dreams come true.

(Call, call, call, call, what a feeling)
I can have it all (being’s believin’)
Being’s believin’ (take your passion, make it happen)
Make it happen (what a feeling)
What a feeling

What a feeling is played as the credits roll where Alex has reached the mountain top as a professional dancer.

Final Thoughts:

While you may have the same passion as Alex, sometimes your dreams don’t come true. My quest to become a professional golfer ended on Vancouver Island, failing to make it through Q-School on the Canadian PGA Tour. Despite this set back, I ended up pursuing a career in writing. While writing blogs, books and screen plays is simply a hobby for now, perhaps the passion of Alex will be ignited in me during retirement to make this dream come true.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-March 29

Posted on March 29, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Patti Labelle – New Attitude (1984)

Inspiration Behind New Attitude:

Patti Labelle was searching for a spark that would lead toward empowerment and personal transformation. This new outlook on life helped spawn the words to New Attitude. The lyrics of New Attitude conveys a journey of self-discovery and development of positive thinking. As minds change from I can’t toward a I can attitude, all things are in reach, God willing.

Biblical Application:

For this reason I remind you to fan into flame the gift of God, which is in you through the laying on of my hands. 7 For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline, 2 Timothy 1:6-7.

Exegesis of New Attitude:

Runnin’ hot, runnin’ cold
I was runnin’ into overload
It was extreme, ex-ex-ex-ex-ex-extreme
I took it so high, so low
So low, there was nowhere to go
Like a bad dream

Patti highlights the emotional roller coaster that life can be. Sometimes when you feel like you’re stuck, either in a job or relationship that is going nowhere, you need to change this situation or your mindset.


Somehow the wires uncrossed, the tables were turned
Never knew I had such a lesson to learn
I’m feelin’ good from my head to my shoes
Know where I’m goin’ and I know what to do
I tidied up my point of view
I got a new attitude
I’m in control, my worries are few
‘Cause I’ve got love like I never knew
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
I got a new attitude

After waking up from a bad dream, Patti came to her senses. This pivotal moment completely transformed Patti’s life. This attitude focused on the positive aspects of life and minimized all of her previous concerns.


I’m wearing a new dress (New), new hair (New)
Brand new ideas, as a matter of fact I’ve changed for good
It must have been the cool night, new moon, new slight change
More than to figure, but I feel like I should, yes
Somehow the wires uncrossed, the tables were turned
Never knew I had such a lesson to learn

Instead of being stagnant, Patti is rejuvenated, walking around with confidence and a swagger. Rather than repeating the same mistake over and over again, Patti started learning from past failures.


I’m feelin’ good from my head to my shoes
Know where I’m goin’ and I know what to do
I tidied up my point of view
I got a new attitude
I’m in control, my worries are few
‘Cause I’ve got love like I never knew
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
I got a new attitude

Either Patti learned to love herself for who she is or a new relationship has elevated her attitude to new heights.


Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh… ooh…
Somehow the wires uncrossed, the tables were turned
Never knew I had such a lesson to learn
I’m feelin’ good from my head to my shoes
Know where I’m goin’ and I know what to do
I tidied up my point of view
I got a new attitude
I’m in control, my worries are few
‘Cause I’ve got love like I never knew
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
I got a new attitude

This repetitive chorus suggests that Patti’s new attitude has become a lifestyle.

Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
I got a new attitude
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
I got a new attitude
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
I got a new attitude
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (Mmm)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (Mmm, mmm)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh

Patti is experiencing joy in life and loving it.


I got a new attitude
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (From my head to my shoes)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (I got a new)
I got a new attitude (I got a new)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (New attitude)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (Everything about has changed)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (Baby)
I got a new attitude (I got a new)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (I got a new)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (Feelin’, feelin’)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (I feel it, I got a new attitude)

Patti is walking around with a bounce in her step.


I got a new attitude
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (Oh… ooh…)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
I got a new attitude (I got a new)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (Attitude)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (Said I got a new)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (New attitude)
I got a new attitude
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh

Sometimes all you need in life is a new attitude.

Final Thoughts:

For the first 15 years of my life, I was an emotional wreck. When I was happy, I could uplift everyone around me. When I was depressed, I made sure no one in my presence was having a good time. My new attitude came from asking Jesus to come into my life, Romans 10:9-11. While it took me years to straighten out parts of my life, I started listening to music with a positive message in college. This put my mind on the right track and slowly transformed me into the person that I have become. Although I’m far from perfect, I’m simply a work in progress, pursuing a positive attitude daily.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-March 28

Posted on March 28, 2026 by expressyourself4him

DO YOU KNOW WHERE YOU’RE GOING TO? | DIANA ROSS | AUDIO SONG LYRICS

Inspiration Behind Do You Know Where You’re Going to?

Michael Masser and Gerry Goffin wrote Do You Know Where You’re Going To for the 1975 film Mahogany. As the lead actress in Mahogany, Diana sang this theme song for the film. Mahogany is about a young black woman named Tracey Chambers who aspires to become a fashion designer in Chicago. Along this journey, the lyrics to Do You Know Where You’re Going To fit in as Tracey seeks to figure out the right career path to take to fulfill her dreams.

Biblical Application: (a worst-case scenario when you go through life without having a clear vision to follow)

You stumble day and night, and the prophets stumble with you. So I will destroy your mother— 6  My people are destroyed from lack of knowledge. “Because you have rejected knowledge, I also reject you as my priests; because you have ignored the law of your God, I also will ignore your children, Hosea 4:5-6.

Exegesis of Do You Know Where You’re Going to?

Do you know where you’re going to?
Do you like the things that life is showing you?
Where are you going to?
Do you know?

There will always be naysayers whenever you take a chance in life by seeking to pursue the American dream. This usually occurs via trial and error as you figure out what you like and dislike.

Do you get what you’re hoping for?
When you look behind you there’s no open doors
What are you hoping for?
Do you know?

This journey is filled with unexpected twists and turns. Depending upon your expectations, you may not get what you were hoping for, especially when opportunities begin to run out.

Once we were standing still in time
Chasing the fantasies that filled our minds
You knew I loved you, but my spirit was free
Laughing at the questions that you once asked of me

Chasing after dreams isn’t easy. Some people may be holding you back or may believe that this pursuit is a waste of time.

Do you know where you’re going to?
Do you like the things that life is showing you?
Where are you going to?
Do you know?

Sometimes all you need is a sign of hope to keep this dream alive.

Now, looking back at all we’ve passed
We’ve let so many dreams slip through our hands
Why must we wait so long before we see
How sad the answers to those questions can be?

Success takes time, especially if what you’re chasing is a long shoot. Ultimately, how bad you want something will dictate the length of your pursuit.

Do you know where you’re going to?
Do you like the things that life is showing you?
Where are you going to?
Do you know?

When should you give up or keep tarrying on is up to you.

Do you know, do you know?
Do you know?

Rejection and failures will determine how long you last or will simply strengthen your resolve.

Final Thoughts:

Fifteen years ago, a colleague convinced me to start writing screenplays. I envisioned that if I poured my heart and soul into this new venture, that by the time that I retired I could do this for fun. Unfortunately, as Hollywood has changed over the past 2 decades, it’s getting harder and harder to break through. Four screenplays later, I’m not sure if it’s worth it. I haven’t given up, but I may simply turn one of my movies into a book to see if that opens any new doors. This is my personal experience of following the words of Do You Know Where You’re Going to.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-March 27

Posted on March 27, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Tina Turner – The Best (Official Music Video) [HD Upgrade]

Inspiration Behind The Best:

Simply the Best is rooted in a spirit of adoration, devotion and love. In recent years, March Madness, also known as the NCAA National Basketball Tournament, has adopted the Best to honor the eventual championship team. When two individuals who were meant to be together as a married couple, each are elevated to unparallel excellence once their joint qualities come together as one. Yet the Best also serves as a tribute to Tina’s success after emerging from a turbulent marriage and career struggles, she soared to global superstardom in her 40s. 

Biblical Application:

In reply Jesus said: “A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he was attacked by robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead. 31 A priest happened to be going down the same road, and when he saw the man, he passed by on the other side. 32 So too, a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. 33 But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him. 34 He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, brought him to an inn and took care of him. 35 The next day he took out two denarii[e] and gave them to the innkeeper. ‘Look after him,’ he said, ‘and when I return, I will reimburse you for any extra expense you may have,’ Luke 10:30-35.

Exegesis of the Best:

I call you when I need you, my heart’s on fire
You come to me, come to me, wild and wild
Oh, you come to me
Give me everything I need

Tina points to a friend who was always there when she needed them.

Give me a lifetime of promises and a world of dreams
Speak the language of love like you know what it means
Oh, and it can’t be wrong
Take my heart and make it strong, baby

Tina provides details inside of a former relationship, filled with love and promises.

You’re simply the best
Better than all the rest
Better than anyone
Anyone I ever met

The opening chorus serves as appreciation and gratitude for this individual.

I’m stuck on your heart
I hang on every word you say
Tear us apart
Baby, I would rather be dead

Tina is in love, hanging on every word of her partner.

In your heart, I see the start of every night and every day
In your eyes, I get lost, I get washed away

Tina is excited for every new day.

Just as long as I’m here in your arms
I could be in no better place

Tina finds comfort and security in the arms of her lover.

You’re simply the best
Better than all the rest
Better than anyone
Anyone I ever met

No one else compares to this man.

Ooh, I’m stuck on your heart
I hang on every word you say
Oh, tear us apart, no, no, no
Baby, I would rather be dead

Tina can’t imagine life without this man.

Each time you leave me, I start losing control
You’re walking away with my heart and my soul
I can feel you even when I’m alone
Oh baby, don’t let go
Oh, you’re the best, ooh
Better than all the rest
Better than anyone
Anyone I ever met

Tina misses every moment away from this man. Her life without him simply isn’t the same.

Oh, I’m stuck on your heart
I hang on every word you say
Oh, tear us apart, no, no
Baby, I would rather be dead

Oh, you’re the best!

In Tina’s eyes, no one compares to this man.

Final Thoughts:

Unfortunately, there is always someone more attractive, better, more talented and successful in life. The key to a long marriage is deciding at an early age, what is more important to you in life. Simply the best is in the eyes of the beholder. Internal qualities like compassion, integrity and servanthood are hard to find in one individual. When you figure out what you are looking for in a future soulmate, you’ll know when you meet this individual as long as you are patient and don’t settle for something less.

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The Message Behind the Music-March 26

Posted on March 26, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Gladys Knight & The Pips – Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me (Audio)

Inspiration Behind Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me:

This song brings up gratitude and the impact that one individual can have on your life. Jim Weatherly was an all-American quarterback before transitioning to song writing. As the writer of Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me, Jim paints a picture of how a special person can completely transform your life. This is the emotional presentation that Gladys Knight makes in Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me.

Biblical Application:

How beautiful you are, my darling! Oh, how beautiful! Your eyes behind your veil are doves.
Your hair is like a flock of goats descending from the hills of Gilead. 2 Your teeth are like a flock of sheep just shorn,
coming up from the washing. Each has its twin; not one of them is alone. 3 Your lips are like a scarlet ribbon; your mouth is lovely. Your temples behind your veil are like the halves of a pomegranate, Song of Solomon 4:1-3.

Exegesis of Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me:

I’ve had my share of life’s ups and downs
But fate’s been kind, the downs have been few
I guess you could say that I’ve been lucky
Well, I guess you could say that it’s all because of you

The lyrics suggest that success in life takes time. However, a combination of fate and luck has led Gladys to this special person.

If anyone should ever write my life story
(For whatever reason) for whatever reason there might be
Ooh, you’ll be there between each line of pain and glory
‘Cause you’re the best thing (you’re the best thing that ever happened to me)
That ever happened to me (you’re the best thing that ever happened to me)
Ah, you’re the best thing that ever happened to me

This stanza reads like a Christian testimony. While there have been bumpy stretches along the way, a significant other came into her life at just the right time. Subsequently, Gladys realizes that this person is the best thing that has happened to her.

Oh, there have been times when times were hard
But always, somehow, I made it, I made it through
‘Cause for every moment that I’ve spent hurting
There was a moment that I spent, oh, just loving you, yeah

Unlike modern songs with unrealistic lyrics, life will bring you tough times along the journey called life. Through these moments of aches and pain, Gladys never stopped loving this man.

If anyone should ever write my life story
For, for whatever (for whatever reason) for whatever reason there might be
Oh, you’ll be there between each line of pain and glory
‘Cause you’re the best thing (you’re the best thing that ever happened to me)
That ever happened to me (you’re the best thing that ever happened to me)

This stanza points to appreciation and gratitude for having someone in her life to get Gladys through rocky patches. This leads to a spirit of thankfulness.

Oh, you’re the best thing (you’re the best thing that ever happened to me)
That ever happened to me (you’re the best thing that ever happened to me)
I know, you’re the best thing (you’re the best thing)
Oh, that ever happened to me
Yeah,

If couples could simply search for the good qualities in each other, they just might realize that their spouse is the best thing that has ever happened to them in life.

Final Thoughts:

When you reach my age, now closer to 60 than 50, you have time to reflect on your past. Special people have come and gone over the years, but my wife Leanne has stayed by my side through it all. This makes my wife and our children, the best thing that ever happened to me.

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The Message Behind the Music-March 24

Posted on March 24, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Aretha Franklin – Respect (Official Lyric Video)

Inspiration Behind Respect:

Aretha Franklin took an existing song, putting passion and soul into this new version which became a rallying cry during the Civil Rights movement. Respect also became an anthem for woman’s rights. The essential message of Respect is that everyone’s voice deserves to be heard.

Biblical Application:

Live as free people, but do not use your freedom as a cover-up for evil; live as God’s slaves. 17 Show proper respect to everyone, love the family of believers, fear God, honor the emperor, 1 Peter 2:16-17.

Exegesis of Respect:

What you want, baby, I got it
What you need, do you know I got it?

While Reverand Dr. Martin Luther King was a main figure in the Civil Rights Movement in the late 1960’s, Aretha Franklin’s version of Respect was like the choir leader singing the anthem for African Americans and women.

All I’m askin’ is for a little respect when you get home
(Just a little bit) hey, baby
(Just a little bit) when you get home
(Just a little bit) mister
(Just a little bit)

Singing in the context of a time when women stayed at home, cooked and raised children, Aretha wanted husbands to respect all that women do daily behind the scenes at home.

I ain’t gon’ do you wrong while you’re gone
Ain’t gon’ do you wrong ’cause I don’t wanna

Trust me when you are away at work.

All I’m askin’ is for a little respect when you come home
(Just a little bit) baby
(Just a little bit) when you get home
(Just a little bit) yeah
(Just a little bit)

Speaking to her husband and other men, you are not the only one who worked today. I just need some respect for all the little things that I do for you and the kids.

I’m about to give you all of my money
And all I’m askin’ in return, honey
Is to give me my propers when you get home

When she gives her husband a weekly allowance, see is looking for appreciation.

(Just a, just a, just a, just a) yeah, baby
(Just a, just a, just a, just a) when you get home
(Just a little bit) yeah
(Just a little bit)

Recognize what a wife does and puts up with daily.

Ooh, your kisses, sweeter than honey
And guess what? So is my money
All I want you to do for me, is give it to me when you get home

Show me some love and affection.

(Re, re, re, re) yeah, baby
(Re, re, re, re) whip it to me
(Respect, just a little bit) when you get home, now
(Just a little bit)

Respect my role in a marriage.

R-E-S-P-E-C-T
Find out what it means to me
R-E-S-P-E-C-T
Take care, TCB, oh

Show respect as words are meaningless without action.

(Sock it to me, sock it to me, sock it to me, sock it to me)
A little respect
(Sock it to me, sock it to me, sock it to me, sock it to me)
Whoa, babe

Give it to me.

(Just a little bit) a little respect
(Just a little bit) I get tired
(Just a little bit) keep on tryin’
(Just a little bit) you’re runnin’ out of fools
(Just a little bit) and I ain’t lyin’
(Just a little bit)

Aretha simply wants to be appreciated.

(Re, re, re, re) start when you come home
(Re, re, re, respect) or you might walk in
(Just a little bit) and find out I’m gone
(Just a little bit) I gotta have

Don’t take me for granted or you’ll have to find someone else.

Final Thoughts:

Certain songs stand the test of time. Nearly 60 years after Aretha Franklin’s version of Respect was released, this still communicates a valuable life lesson. Woman like Aretha are heroes to modern day women who are now respected like she requested in this song. May current female singers have a vision like Aretha to craft songs that will be sung 60 years from now.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-March 23

Posted on March 23, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Janet Jackson – What Have You Done For Me Lately (Official Music Video)

Inspirational Behind What Have You Done For Me Lately:

Janet Jackson thought about being taken for granted when What Have You Done for Me Lately was conceived. Little did Janet realize that this 1986 song would cross over into other areas of life like sports fans becoming frustrated by their local teams failing to achieve greatness. Janet wanted to make sure that other people would receive recognition for their contributions in life.

Biblical Application:

My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, 20 because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires. 21 Therefore, get rid of all moral filth and the evil that is so prevalent and humbly accept the word planted in you, which can save you. 22 Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says, James 1:19-22.

Exegesis of What Have You Done For Me Lately:

What’s up girl?
He stood me up again
Again?
Mmhmm
Well what’s up with this guy?
Do you really like him that much?
Yes honey, I love him, he is fine
He does a lot of nice things for me
I know he used to do nice stuff for you
But what has he done for you lately?

In the music video, a friend doesn’t want her girl friend to get hurt by the man she is currently dating.

Used to be a time when you would pamper me
Used to brag about it all the time
Your friends seem to think that you’re so peachy keen
But my friends say neglect is on your mind
Who’s right?

Janet is questioning the change in behavior of a former boyfriend. She wants to know what’s going on.

What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah

This type of love is self-seeking, wanting to see action before putting any effort into this relationship.

Used to go to dinner almost every night
Dancin’ ’til I thought I’d lose my breath
Ahh
Now it seems your dancing feet are always on my couch
Good thing I cook or else we’d starve to death
Ain’t that a shame?

Apathy and laziness have set in. Any acts of love or passion have faded.

What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah

This mentality is ruining their relationship.

I never ask for more than I deserve
You know it’s the truth
You seem to think you’re God’s gift to this earth
I’m tellin’ you, no way

At some point in a relationship, usually when the feeling of love starts to fade, you become your true self. When you stop performing or seek to get to know someone more, relationships become stale.

You ought to be thankful for the little things,
But little things are all you seem to give
You’re always putting off what we coul do today
Soap opera says, you’ve got one life to live
Who’s right, who’s wrong?

Disagreements occur when certain expectations aren’t met. This leads to the blame game, who is right and who is wrong.

What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah

Actions speak louder than words.

Get with it

What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah (yeah ha)
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah (yeah)
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah (yeah)

This reminds me of a what’s in it for me attitude.

What have you done for me lately? (lately)
Ooh ooh ooh yeah
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah
What have you done for me lately? (This is wild, I swear)

Time will tell if a relationship is worth saving.

Final Thoughts:

What have you done for me lately has become a cultural motto for many Americans. If you are putting in all the effort and worth and no one else is trying, it’s hard to stay motivated. Subsequently, the best thing you can do is let your actions speak for yourself. When you find yourself being taken for granted, you may want to search for an occupation, place or relationship where you are appreciated, noticed and thanked.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-March 22

Posted on March 22, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Beyoncé – Halo

Inspiration Behind Halo:

Songwriters Ryan Tedder and Evan Bogart received inspiration from the 2004 song Shelter by Ray LaMontagne. Both sought to create a modern version for Beyonce. At the time Halo was completed, Beyonce was married to Jay-Z This song was recorded in 3 hours, feeling confident that themes of love and grace were carried out in halo.

Biblical Application:

Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has ascended into heaven,[f] Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to the faith we profess. 15 For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet he did not sin. 16 Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need, Hebrews 4:14-16.

Exegesis of Halo:

Remember those walls I built?
Well, baby, they’re tumbling down
And they didn’t even put up a fight
They didn’t even make a sound

When someone special enters your life, you begin to let your guard down by opening up.

I found a way to let you in
But I never really had a doubt
Standin’ in the light of your halo
I got my angel now

Love can make human beings blind, believing the love of their life is like an angel.

It’s like I’ve been awakened
Every rule I had you breakin’
It’s the risk that I’m takin’
I ain’t never gonna shut you out

Beyonce has become vulnerable, removing safeguards that she put up in the past.

Everywhere I’m lookin’ now
I’m surrounded by your embrace
Baby, I can see your halo
You know you’re my saving grace

When someone enters your life at the perfect time, their presence can take you to new heights.

You’re everything I need and more
It’s written all over your face
Baby, I can feel your halo
Pray it won’t fade away

When you are smitten by love, your partner can do no wrong.

I can feel your halo (halo) halo
I can see your halo (halo) halo
I can feel your halo (halo) halo
I can see your halo (halo) halo

This is the image that Beyonce sees.

Hit me like a ray of sun
Burning through my darkest night
You’re the only one that I want
Think I’m addicted to your light

Jay Z brought the best out of Beyonce.

I swore I’d never fall again
But this don’t even feel like fallin’
Gravity can’t begin
To pull me back to the ground again

This new relationship changed Beyonce’s mind about love.

It’s like I’ve been awakened
Every rule I had you breakin’
The risk that I’m takin’
I’m never gonna shut you out

Part of falling in love is taking a risk for your heart to be broken.

Everywhere I’m lookin’ now
I’m surrounded by your embrace
Baby, I can see your halo
You know you’re my saving grace

The newness of this relationship is overwhelming, full of joy and thankfulness.

You’re everything I need and more
It’s written all over your face
Baby, I can feel your halo
Pray it won’t fade away

Beyonce can’t stop thinking about her new man.

I can feel your halo (halo) halo
I can see your halo (halo) halo
I can feel your halo (halo) halo
I can see your halo (halo) halo

This kind of love only sees the positive.

I can feel your halo (halo) halo
I can see your halo (halo) halo
I can feel your halo (halo) halo
I can see your halo (halo) halo

Halo
Halo

This man can do no wrong in her eyes.

Everywhere I’m lookin’ now
I’m surrounded by your embrace
Baby, I can see your halo
You know you’re my saving grace

She can’t keep him off of her mind.

You’re everything I need and more
It’s written all over your face
Baby, I can feel your halo
Pray it won’t fade away

He is what Beyonce is looking for in love.

I can feel your halo (halo) halo
I can see your halo (halo) halo
I can feel your halo (halo) halo
I can see your halo (halo) halo

This relationship brings good vibes, like an angel.

I can feel your halo (halo) halo
I can see your halo (halo) halo
I can feel your halo (halo) halo
I can see your halo (halo) halo

Like a honeymoon, this relationship starts out perfect.

Final Thoughts:

When marriage last a lifetime, these are the type of lyrics that accompany a solid relationship. While flaws will be uncovered over the years, the covenant of marriage refers to for better or for worse. I pray that Beyonce and Jay Z continue to maintain a blessed and joyful marriage.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-March 20

Posted on March 20, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Deana Carter – Strawberry Wine (Official Music Video)

Inspiration Behind Strawberry Wine:

The lyrics of Strawberry Wine reflect upon Matraca Berg’s childhood experience growing up on a farm in Wisconsin. Matraca and her aunts would sneak away each summer to drink strawberry wine. Deanna Carter then takes these memories using a metaphor to compare Strawberry Wine to their first relationship, falling in love. The lyrics of Strawberry Wine highlight a youthful innocence, the pursuit of love and nostalgia.

Biblical Application:

Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit, 19 speaking to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit. Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord, 20 always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, Ephesians 5:18-20.

Exegesis of Strawberry Wine:

He was workin’ through college
On my grandpa’s farm
I was thirstin’ for knowledge
And he had a car

Summertime was my favorite time of the year growing up. While out of school for three months, there is a sense of freedom which Deanna points to in this opening stanza.

Yeah, I was caught somewhere
Between a woman and a child
One restless summer
We found love growin’ wild
On the banks of the river
On a well beaten path
It’s funny how those memories they last

There is a mix between exploring the farm as the crops flourish and memories of her first love.

Like strawberry wine and seventeen
The hot July moon saw everything
My first taste of love
Whoa, bittersweet
Green on the vine
Like strawberry wine

This chorus provides a metaphor between tasting alcohol and love for the first time as a teenager.

And I still remember
When thirty was old
My biggest fear was September
When he had to go

The end of the summer was always tough to come to grasp with as the day after Labor Day is when students were forced to go back to school every fall.

A few cards and letters
And one long distance call
We drifted away
Like the leaves in the fall
But year after year
I come back to this place
Just to remember the taste

Despite whatever promises were made before the summer ended, this couple slowly drifted apart. Visiting this farm brought back a flood of memories.

Of strawberry wine and seventeen
The hot July moon saw everything
My first taste of love
Whoa, bittersweet
Green on the vine
Like strawberry wine

Childhood is a time of exploration. Sometimes when you are left alone, temptation leads to poor decisions.

The fields have grown over now
Years since they’ve seen a plow
There’s nothin’ time hasn’t touched
Is it really him
Or the loss of my innocence?
I’ve been missin’ so much
Yeah

The lack of farming suggests that the grandparents have passed away. With this property left in the family, visiting isn’t the same, but the memories still come back.

Strawberry wine and seventeen
The hot July moon saw everything
My first taste of love
Whoa, bittersweet
And green on the vine

Your first taste of alcohol and first kiss stick with you.

Like strawberry wine and seventeen
The hot July moon saw everything
My first taste of love
Oh, bittersweet
Green on the vine
Like strawberry wine

The repetition of the chorus suggests this song went a little longer than necessary,

Strawberry wine
(Oh, oh)
Strawberry wine

Flavored alcohol tends to be one of the first drinks teenagers try.

Final Thoughts:

As someone with a photographic memory, places I visit, and songs usually flood my mind with memories. I grew up in Delaware with some special friends like Jeanette and Stephen, spending many summer nights together. While we would push the envelope from time to time, doing things we knew that were wrong, we were kids learning from trial and error. This is part of growing up or as Michael W. Smith once sang about, Living and Learning.

by Jay Mankus

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