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The Message Behind the Music-September 9

Posted on September 9, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Faded Love

Inspiration Behind Faded Love:

Faded Love appears to be a spinoff of a song by Bob Wills and His Texas Playboys. The lyrics express lost love, using the colors of fall to illustrate how love can erode over time. While Bob’s song was in the swing genre, In Reach uses soft rock in the form of a ballad. Faded Love enabled In Reach to crossover by resonating with listeners on a personal and emotional level.

Biblical Application:

Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. 9 This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. 10 This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins, 1 John 4:8-10.

Exegesis of Faded Love:

All alone out of sight, out of mind
Many miles away
I sit on the jagged edge of night
For you it’s the break of day
Half a world and separate lives
I listen through a delay
We dare never say what we long to hear
But silence won’t ease this pain

A reference to a relationship that has cooled. This long-distance relationship was attempted, but different time zones and work schedules has made it difficult to talk to one another. As times goes on apart, their love fades.

Faded love, Like autumn colors turn to grey at the seasons face
Faded love, I hear the sounds of yesterday as they whisper faded love
Like watercolors wash away, just a choice we made
Faded love, I hear the sounds of yesterday as they whisper faded love

Like a tree that loses its leaves in winter, distance has a way of cooling off the passion of love. Just as watercolors can wash away, love also can disappear.

Being away I’ve learned to deal with it a little too well
But There was a time I believed in love and thought it would never fail
So what do we do, and what can we say
Should we pick up the pieces or throw them away

Perhaps Brett is referring to being away from his family while on tour. He’s learned to make the best of a bad siruation. Despite the odds, he is not willing to give up on this relationship.

Faded love, Like autumn colors turn to grey at the seasons face
Faded love, I hear the sounds of yesterday as they whisper faded love
Like watercolors wash away, just a choice we made
Faded love, I hear the sounds of yesterday as they whisper faded love

The color is repeated with two metaphors, autumn colors and watercolors to explain how love can die.

Faded love, Like autumn colors turn to grey at the seasons face
Faded love, I hear the sounds of yesterday as they whisper faded love
Like watercolors wash away, just a choice we made
Faded love, I hear the sounds of yesterday as they whisper faded love

Closing chorus. Choices and decisions in the form of priorities are how love can fade away.

Final Thoughts:

The Waterline album was released my final semester of college. While Faded Love fits into September’s theme, there are half a dozen other songs from this album that I listened to for countless hours. When I was in a long-distance relationship before I got married, the lyrics of Faded Love helped me endure and see if out.until I got married.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 8

Posted on September 8, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Roundabout (2008 Remaster)

Inspiration Behind Roundabout:

The concept for Roundabout came from a chance observation during a 1971 tour. After a gig in Aviemore, Scotland, Yes traveled by bus from Aberdeen to Glasgow. Encountering numerous roundabouts along the way, this classic hit was spawn. Smoking pot while in route, lead singer Jon Anderson to describe this experience as vivid and mystical. After passing through the 40th round about, this song was cemented.

Biblical Application:

“Not long after that, the younger son got together all he had, set off for a distant country and there squandered his wealth in wild living. 14 After he had spent everything, there was a severe famine in that whole country, and he began to be in need. 15 So he went and hired himself out to a citizen of that country, who sent him to his fields to feed pigs. 16 He longed to fill his stomach with the pods that the pigs were eating, but no one gave him anything, Luke 15:13-16.

Exegesis of Roundabout:

[Instrumental Intro]

[Verse 1]
I’ll be the roundabout
The words will make you out-and-out
I spend the day your way
Call it morning driving through the sound and in and out the valley

Observations while riding on a bus in the countryside of England.

[Verse 2]
The music dance and sing
They make the children really ring
I spend the day your way
Call it morning driving through the sound and in and out the valley

The opening instrumental sets the tine for Roundabout. Making you want to sing and dance while riding in the bus through the country landscape.

[Chorus]
In and around the lake
Mountains come out of the sky and they stand there
One mile over, we’ll be there and we’ll see you
Ten true summers, we’ll be there and laughing, too
Twenty-four before my love, you’ll see I’ll be there with you

Possibly alluding to leaning with the bus through roundabouts. A reference to fog with scenic views blocked then becoming visible. After another reference to traveling, memories of a summer with a significant other.

[Verse 3]
I will remember you
Your silhouette will charge the view
Of distant atmosphere
Call it morning driving through the sound and even in the valley

This was a memorable trip during their tour. Using this particular bus ride as a means for lyrics.

[Instrumental Intro]

[Verse 1]
I’ll be the roundabout
The words will make you out-and-out
I spend the day your way
Call it morning driving through the sound and in and out the valley

Roundabouts were uncommon in America until a recent trend as removing stop signs in favor of roundabouts.

[Verse 2]
The music dance and sing
They make the children really ring
I spend the day your way
Call it morning driving through the sound and in and out the valley

The day your way line suggests someone else set up this bus tour. The sights and scenes are weaved into the lyrics.

[Chorus]
In and around the lake
Mountains come out of the sky and they stand there
One mile over, we’ll be there and we’ll see you
Ten true summers, we’ll be there and laughing, too
Twenty-four before my love, you’ll see I’ll be there with you

The chorus is repeated with generic references to what was visible.

[Verse 3]
I will remember you
Your silhouette will charge the view
Of distant atmosphere
Call it morning driving through the sound and even in the valley

Remembering the scenery, not necessarily a person. Appreciating the elevation changes as well as the twists and turns.

[Chorus]
In and around the lake
Mountains come out of the sky and they stand there
One mile over, we’ll be there and we’ll see you
Ten true summers, we’ll be there and laughing, too
Twenty-four before my love, you’ll see I’ll be there with you

This reminds me a traveling on vacation as a child, coming up with silly songs and words as you watch the scenry.

[Bridge]
Along the drifting cloud, the eagle searching down on the land
Catching the swirling wind, the sailor sees the rim of the land
The eagle’s dancing wings create as weather spins out of hand
Go closer, hold the land feel partly no more than grains of sand
We stand to lose all time, a thousand answers by in our hand
Next to your deeper fears, we stand surrounded by a million years
I’ll be the roundabout, the words will make you out-and-out
I’ll be the roundabout, the words will make you out-and-out

The focus changes to the wildlife, fascinated by an eagle soaring overhead. Using topography to craft a unique bridge.

[Instrumental Break]

[Interlude]
In and around the lake
Mountains come out of the sky, they stand there
Twenty-four before my love and I’ll be there

Repeating images from earlier in the song.

[Organ Solo]

[Verse 4]
I’ll be the roundabout
The words will make you out-and-out
You spend the day your way
Call it morning driving through the sound and in and out the valley

A reference to the 40 plus roundabout that this bus passed.

[Chorus]
In and around the lake
Mountains come out of the sky and they stand there
One mile over, we’ll be there and we’ll see you
Ten true summers, we’ll be there and laughing, too
Twenty-four before my love, you’ll see I’ll be there with you

Weaving in and out of the country.

[Outro]
Da-da-da-da-da, da, da
Da-da-da-da-da, da, da
Da-da-da-da-da, da, da (Doot, doot, doot, doot, doot, doot)
Da-da-da-da-da, da, da (Doot, doot, doot, doot, doot, doot)
Da-da-da-da-da, da, da (Doot, doot, doot, doot, doot, doot)
Da-da-da-da-da, da, da (Doot, doot, doot, doot, doot, doot)
Da-da-da-da-da, da, da (Doot, doot, doot, doot, doot, doot)
Da-da-da-da-da, da, da (Doot)

A fun ending that connects with the opening instrumental.

Final Thoughts:

Some songs are fun to sing even if you don’t have a clue what a band is trying to express. The beginning of Roundabout engages audiences, which promotes singing. Before doing this research, I enjoyed this song. However, after spending 2 weeks on a cruise in Alaska, I understand how pictures and views become etched within your mind. I’m glad that the members of Yes were able to share this special trip by making Roundabout into a song.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 7

Posted on September 7, 2026 by expressyourself4him

The Lumineers – Ophelia (Official Music Video)

Inpsiration Behind Ophelia:

Ophelia evolved over time from members of the Lumineers own experiences navigating fame. The lyrics were inspired by personal reflection and literary allusion. The melody and sound of Ophelia began as a slower instrumental demo in 2011. While performing at a dive bar in LA, Wesley Schultz decided that the name Ophelia fit right musicality. This live performance sped up this tune into its current form.

Biblical Application:

A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold, Proverbs 22:1.

Exegesis of Ophelia:

Ah, ah, when I was younger
I, I should’ve known better
And I can’t feel no remorse
And you don’t feel nothing back

A band member is thinking about a former girlfriend. Being young and immature didn’t help nurture this relationship.

I, I got a new girlfriend here
Feels like he’s on top
And I don’t feel no remorse
And you can’t see past my blindness

Hoping to learn from past failed relationships. Both people have moved on so you shouldn’t feel bad or guilty. Final note about blind spots, oblivious to certain things.

Oh, Ophelia, you’ve been on my mind, girl, since the flood
Oh, Ophelia, Heaven help the fool who falls in love

Perhaps a natural disaster brought this woman back to the forefront.

I, I got a little paycheck
You got big plans and you gotta move (woo!)
And I don’t feel nothing at all
And you can’t feel nothing small

A new job and relationship led to a desire to move. Band members didn’t seem sad or remorseful.

Honey, I love you
That’s all she wrote

Oh, Ophelia, you’ve been on my mind, girl, like a drug

No physical goodbye, just a note. This letter brought up a flood of emotions, triggering lost love.

Oh, Ophelia, Heaven help the fool who falls in love
Oh, Ophelia, you’ve been on my mind, girl, since the flood
Oh, Ophelia, Heaven help the fool who falls in love
Oh, Ophelia, you’ve been on my mind, girl, like a drug
Oh, Ophelia, Heaven help the fool who falls in love

A warning about falling in love without thinking about how this new relationship will impact your life. Being constantly on the road, traveling from one town to the next didn’t mix with a serious relationship. These are the life lessons learned by members of the Lumineers.

Final Thoughts:

Despite being extremely shy in my early years, I became someone who often poured out their heart to strangers when the timing was right. This was often at a camp, during a retreat of some sort of spiritual renewal. In high school, I was looking for a friend. Yet as I grew older, I began searching for a soul mate. This is what I found when I got married to Leanne.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 3

Posted on September 3, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Journey – Don’t Stop Believin’ (Official Audio)

Inspiration Behind Don’t Stop Believin’:

When the timing is right, sound advice can serve as a launching pad. The advice given by Jonathan Cain’s father when his son was struggling as a musician led to the formation of Journey’s most iconic hit. The actual words spoken to Jonathan were Don’t Stop Believing or you’re done. Self-belief is what can keep artists going during times of disappointment, failure and setbacks. Without this mentality, Don’t Stop Believin’ wouldn’t be a song and no one would have ever heard of the group Journey.

Biblical Application:

A week later his disciples were in the house again, and Thomas was with them. Though the doors were locked, Jesus came and stood among them and said, “Peace be with you!” 27 Then he said to Thomas, “Put your finger here; see my hands. Reach out your hand and put it into my side. Stop doubting and believe.” 28 Thomas said to him, “My Lord and my God!”29 Then Jesus told him, “Because you have seen me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed,” John 20:26-29.

Exegesis of Don’t Stop Believin’:

Just a small-town girl, livin’ in a lonely world
She took the midnight train going anywhere
Just a city boy, born and raised in South Detroit
He took the midnight train going anywhere

Starting off with a girl who was lost and lonely. A life void of vision. Transitions to a city boy who took the same train, not sure where he was going in life.

A singer in a smokey room
A smell of wine and cheap perfume
For a smile, they can share the night
It goes on, and on, and on, and on

Perhaps referring to Jonathon’s early years as a struggling musician living in Los Angeles. This is where this boy and girl meet.

Strangers waitin’ up and down the boulevard
Their shadows searchin’ in the night
Streetlights, people, livin’ just to find emotion
Hidin’ somewhere in the night

Signs of people living in this world without much hope or promise.

Workin’ hard to get my fill
Everybody wants a thrill
Payin’ anything to roll the dice
Just one more time

Working hard to find a better future. Searching for excitement. This involves taking chances, maybe even gambling.

Some’ll win, some will lose
Some are born to sing the blues

More people lose than win. This leads many to live in poverty throughout their lives.

Whoa, the movie never ends
It goes on, and on, and on, and on

Some trials in life never seem to end.

Strangers waitin’ up and down the boulevard
Their shadows searchin’ in the night
Streetlights, people livin’ just to find emotion
Hidin’ somewhere in the night

A sad reality of people that don’t experience much success in life. Left to live in obscurity.

Don’t stop believin’
Hold on to that feelin’
Streetlights, people

When belief disappears, your career is finished.

Don’t stop believin’
Hold on
Streetlights, people

Stay optimistic.

Don’t stop believin’
Hold on to that feelin’
Streetlights, people

Keep your head up and don’t lose hope.

Final Thoughts:

I was in Junior High when Don’t Stop Believin’ was released. I battled depression for 4 years, struggling to find my place in life. This song would be played every hour on the local radio station, sometimes at the exact same time each hour. Since I didn’t really get into music until 8th grade, my emotional state was like riding on a roller coaster. However, now that I know the inspiration behind Don’t Stop Believin’, I have a better appreciation for this song. Belief gives individuals a reason to get up each day. Yet when belief fades, so do aspiration, dreams and vision for a prosperous life. Therefore, don’t stop believing.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-September 1: A Season of Transition

Posted on September 1, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Earth, Wind & Fire – September (Official HD Video)

Monthly Theme:

Whether you are in school, starting a new job or thinking about retirement, September is often marked by a Season of Transition. If you are heading off to college, moving to a new school or changing careers, this month will include making new friends, reconnecting with people from your past and learning new skills. Although change isn’t easy. sometimes you need to reinvent yourself so that you’ll be better prepared for the future. This month’s selection of songs touch on the emotional highs and lows of relationships as well as trials that you’ll face in life.

Inspiration Behind September:

September promotes a carefree philosophy of living in the moment. Featured in the movie Night at the Museum, September was crafted to inspire people to dance as well as to celebrate the good times you experience in life. Approaching nearly 50 years since its release, September has become a timeless classic often used in fall celebrations.

Biblical Application:

Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. 23 Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror 24 and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. 25 But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it—not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it—they will be blessed in what they do, James 1:22-25.

Exegesis of September:

Do you remember
The 21st night of September?
Love was changing the minds of pretenders
While chasing the clouds away

Looking back at a specific date. This special day changed the way many people thought about love.

Our hearts were ringing
In the key that our souls were singing
As we danced in the night, remember
How the stars stole the night away, oh yeah

This event was celebrated by many people like a royal wedding. To those in attendance, the dance floor was open all night. Either a reference to dancing outside at night or a celebrity ball.

Hey, hey, hey
Ba-dee-ya, say, do you remember?
Ba-dee-ya, dancing in September
Ba-dee-ya, never was a cloudy day

This was a special evening that is often brought up in discussions.

Ba-du-du, ba-du-du, ba-du-du, ba-du-du
Ba-du-du, ba-du-du, ba-du-du, ba-du-du
Ba-du-du, ba-du-du, ba-du-da

A fun transition.

My thoughts are with you
Holding hands with your heart to see you
Only blue talk and love, remember

Thinking about a special person. Perhaps memories of their wedding.

How we knew love was here to stay

A wedding where those in attendance realized that they belonged together.

Now December, found the love we shared in September
Only blue talk and love, remember
The true love we share today

Fond memories of their marriage.

Hey, hey, hey
Ba-dee-ya, say, do you remember?
Ba-dee-ya, dancing in September
Ba-dee-ya, never was a cloudy day
There was a
Ba-dee-ya, say, do you remember?
Ba-dee-ya, dancing in September
Ba-dee-ya, golden dreams were shiny days

A time of reminiscing.

The bell was ringing, oh, oh
Our souls were singing
Do you remember
Never a cloudy day, yow

Wedding day bells. Closely knitted. Looking at life with a positive perspective.

There was a
Ba-dee-ya, say, do you remember?
Ba-dee-ya, dancing in September
Ba-dee-ya, never was a cloudy day
And we’ll say
Ba-dee-ya, say, do you remember?
Ba-dee-ya, dancing in September
Ba-dee-ya, golden dreams were shiny days

Repeating the chorus with fond memories of the past.

Ba-dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya
Ba-dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya
Ba-dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya
Ba-dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya
Ba-dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya
Ba-dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya, dee-ya

A good beat to dance to.

Final Thoughts:

My oldest son James celebrated a birthday by taking some friends to see Night at the Museum. Subsequently, whenever I hear September, I think of this movie about a man who was struggling in life until one evening as a night janitor transformed his perspective on life. Renewed with confidence, hope and purpose, Larry Daley came home from work a different person with a bounce in his step. This is what can happen on a special day this month.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-August 31

Posted on August 31, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Skarlett Riot – Rising (Official Music Video 2015)

Inspiration Behind Rising:

Skarlett Riot created a sung to encourage listeners to bounce back from adversity. This rock band from Scunthorpe, England formed 5 years before releasing Rising. When you are young, you can feel invincible until disappointment, failure and trials put your confidence to the test. Rising serves as an anthem for individuals who refuse to quit.

Biblical Application:

If you falter in a time of trouble, how small is your strength! – Proverbs 24:10

Exegesis of Rising:

I saw it comin now,
When I looked into your eyes,
You knew I wouldn’t last,
In this cruel world,
You can’t deny,
They pulled me down,
And dragged me round like a puppet,
On a string now,
Controlled by you,
Made out a fool,

A failed relationship and the consequences that followed.

Like a phoenix up above,
Rising from the flames,
I’ll be back again,
I feel much stronger now,
You won’t know how,
To shoot me down again,
These wounds have healed with time,
But they scar for life,
I won’t be hurt again,
Like a phoenix up above,
Rising from the flames,

Beside the heartache, frustration and pain, Skarlett possesses resolve to press on. She’ll be back.

I‘ll be back again,
I’ll be back again…

I’ll be back again…

She doesn’t give a time frame, but she will recover.

You’ve got a lotta nerve,
To attack me with your venom,
You’ve got a lot to learn,
You’re not so shy when your alone,
I’ll get revenge,
I’m not as shy as I once was,
This world is better off,
Without people like you,

Skarlett was verbally abused either by a former boyfriend or parent. This situation has made her more vocal, realizing that the world is better off without human beings who spew venomous words.

Oh am I too cruel?
Oh am I too cruel?

She admits to being able to be cruel and petty.

Like a phoenix up above,
Rising from the flames,
I’ll be back again,
I feel much stronger now,
You won’t know how,
To shoot me down again,
These wounds have healed with time,
But they scar for life,
I won’t be hurt again,
Like a phoenix up above,
Rising from the flames,

Don’t let adversity hold you down for long. Rise up from the ashes of failure and rejection. While she still may be hurt, she is resilient.

I’ll be back again,
I’ll be back again…
I’ll be back again…

Eager to recover by coming back stronger than ever.

You’ll get what you deserve,
I’ll get my revenge, revenge,
Your poisonous mouth,

You’ll reap what you sow.

Wont hurt me now,
I’m immune to your curse,
And all your wickedness,
All your wickedness

I’m done with you. You can’t hurt me now.

Like a phoenix up above,
Rising from the flames,
I’ll be back again,
I feel much stronger now,
You won’t know how,
To shoot me down again,
These wounds have healed with time,
But they scar for life,
I won’t be hurt again,
Like a phoenix up above,
Rising from the flames,
I’ll be back again,
I’ll be back again…
I’ll be back again…
Ill be back again…
Ill be back again…

Ending with an extended chorus. Using Greek Mythology to highlight the importance of coming back from defeat and failure. Despite the pain, get back up and rise again.

Final Thoughts:

I discovered Skarlett Riot during the Coronavirus. While working in isolation, I was able to listen to music at work while I was problem solving. As the calendar turns the page tomorrow to September, don’t let the disappointments of this summer hold you down. Rather, rise from the ashes of defeat so that this fall you’ll be back again, stronger than ever.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-August 30

Posted on August 30, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Michael Jackson – Man In The Mirror (Official Video)

Inspiration Behind Man in the Mirror:

Man in the Mirror was conceived from a desire to create a song that would serve as an anthem for social change. At this stage in Michael’s career, Jackson was acutely aware of global issues such as poverty, apartheid, environmental degradation, and inequality. Siedah Garrett had been developing the concept of Man in the Mirror for a year, jotting down notes as a vision for this song became clear. When Michael noticed Garrett’s written lines about a man looking in the mirror, the direction for this song was captured.

Biblical Application:

When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known, 1 Corinthians 13:11-12.

Exegesis of Man in the Mirror:

[Intro]
Mm-mm-mm
Ah, ooh, uh, uh

Warm up, ready to start.

[Verse 1]
I’m gonna make a change for once in my life
It’s gonna feel real good
Gonna make a difference, gonna make it right, ah, uh
As I turned up the collar on my favorite winter coat
This wind is blowin’ my mind
I see the kids in the street with not enough to eat
Who am I to be blind, pretending not to see their needs?

Michael was tired about talking about change without any actions. He began to take his role as a celebrity serious. While he was getting dressed on a cold winter day, his eyes were opened to the poverty surrounding him.

[Pre-Chorus]
A summer’s disregard,a broken bottle top
And a one man’s soul
They follow each other on the wind, ya know
‘Cause they got nowhere to go
That’s why I want you to know

Alluding to the homeless who follow each other as they have no place to go.

[Chorus]
I’m starting with the man in the mirror
I’m asking him to change his ways
And no message could have been any clearer
If you wanna make the world a better place
Take a look at yourself and then make a change

Michael begins by looking at his own life to see how he can make a difference. Change starts with yourself by looking deep inside your heart and soul. Searching for conviction to be transformed into an agent of change.

[Post-Chorus]
Na-na-na, na-na-na, na-na, na-na
Uh-huh

A fun transition.

[Verse 2]
I’ve been a victim of a selfish kinda love
It’s time that I realize
There are some with no home
Not a nickel to loan
Could it be really me pretending that they’re not alone?

Michael had been so self-absorbed that he didn’t recognize all the needy people that he passed daily. Change begins with a random act of kindness that spreads to the point that you are inspired to give.

[Pre-Chorus]
A willow deeply scarred, somebody’s broken heart
And a washed-out dream (Washed-out dream)
They follow the pattern of the wind, ya see
‘Cause they got no place to be
That’s why I’m starting with me

The need to become aware of your surroundings. To stop, see and start acting out in love.

[Chorus]
I’m starting with the man in the mirror (Who?)
I’m asking him to change his ways (Who?)
And no message could have been any clearer
If you wanna make the world a better place
Take a look at yourself and then make a change
I’m starting with the man in the mirror (Who?)
I’m asking him to change his ways (Who?)
And no message could have been any clearer
If you wanna make the world a better place
Take a look at yourself and then make that change
I’m starting with the man in the mirror (Man in the mirror, oh, yeah)
I’m asking him to change his ways (Change his ways)
(Oh, you better change)
And no message (Ooh, ooh) could have been any clearer

Michael is singing to himself. As if he was giving himself a pep talk to try harder. Don’t wait for others to do something. Be the catalyst by deciding to start making a difference today.

[Bridge]
If you wanna make the world a better place
Take a look at yourself and then make the change
You gotta get it right while you got the time
‘Cause when you close your heart (You can’t)
Then you close your mind (Close your, your mind)

You can make a difference in this world if you want to. However, you must have a sense of urgency or you’ll be lulled back into a state of complacency.

[Chorus]
(That man, that man) I’m starting with the man in the mirror
(That man)
(Ohh yeah)
(That man, that man) I’m asking him to change his ways
(That man, the man, you know, that man)
(Well, I’ll change)
And no message could have been any clearer (Ooh, ooh)
If you want to make the world a better place
Take a look at yourself and then make that
(Take a look at yourself and then make that)
Change

The final chorus hoping to inspire others to make a difference in this life.

[Post-Chorus]
Hoo, hoo (Na-na-na, na-na-na, na-na, na-na), hoo, hoo, hoo, hoo, hoo
Gonna feel real good (Oh, yeah)
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah (Na-na-na, na-na-na, na-na, na-na)
Yeah, yeah, oh no, oh no

Giving makes you feel good.

[Outro]
I’m gonna make a change
It’s gonna feel real good, shamone (Change)
Just lift yourself, you know
You’ve got to start with yourself, brother, (Yeah) hoo
(Make that change) I gotta make that change today, hoo (Man in the mirror) You’ve got to, you got to start with yourself, brother, hoo (Yeah)
You know (Make that change)
I started with that man, that man (Man in the mirror)
You’ve got to, you’ve got to move, shamone, shamone
You’ve got to stand up (Yeah), stand up (Make that change), stand up, stand up and lift yourself now (Man in the mirror)
Hoo, hoo, hoo, oww (Yeah, make that change)
Go make that change, shamone (Man in the mirror)
You know it, you know it, you know it, you know (Change)
Make that change

Final call to action, challenging listeners to get off the sidelines and begin to help their fellow citizens. Make a change today.

Final Thoughts:

My first job after graduating college was in social work. I was a Summer Workcamp Coordinator for the Methodist Action Program in Wilmington, Delaware. I worked with local churches to set up one day, weekend and weeklong service projects in needy neighbors. One of my favorite memories is when a youth group transformed a drug infested playground full of glass, overgrown weeds and trash. By the end of the day, children began to play here for the first time in months. This is how change occurs.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-August 29

Posted on August 29, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Icon For Hire – Get Well

Inspiration Behind Get Well:

Icon for Hire explores self-destructive behavior, the desire for change, and the longing for genuine connection within Get Well. The lyrics address individuals who use their pain as a way to gain attention and validation from others. This form of self-infliction is called out in Get Well, urging listeners to get help before their condition worsens.

Biblical Application:

Heal me, Lord, and I will be healed; save me and I will be saved, for you are the one I praise, Jeremiah 17:14.

Exegesis of Get Well:

We throw tantrums like parties
We’re not happy ’til everyone knows we’re sick
And that’s just how we like it
We’ve hurt bad enough, right, we’ve earned it

Addressing individuals who don’t know how to express how they feel. Making a scene so that other people realize that they need help. Someone wanting to become the center of attention.

Don’t tell the others but it’s all getting old
I mean how many more times must our stories be told?
And being lonely’s only fun in a group
But sort of loses its charm when it’s true

Friends begin to notice this pattern. This situation isn’t improving. Being the center of attention has lost its charm.

I meant it when I said I wanna get well, I wanna get well
Are the rest of you so content?
Stay where you are but it hurts like hell
And I’m sure it’s fun at first
Test your pulse and check your vitals
If it’s only a game you lost me
I quit it with the suicidal recital

While this person wants to get well, they aren’t showing signs of improvement. This group is trying to hold their friend accountable, to become self-reliant. Yet this constant talk of suicide is concerning.

So now you know all my secrets
I want out, I know I don’t need this
Can you find me friends that don’t rank me on what I’ve been through
The more battle scars the more attention it gets you

This individual that needs help appears to have become co-dependent, acting out to get more attention. Her current friends are simply feeding her desire for attention.

Don’t tell the others but it’s all getting old
I mean how many more times must our stories be told?
And being lonely’s only fun in a group
But sort of loses its charm when it’s true

The chorus repeats itself as friends are beginning to see through this charade.

I meant it when I said I wanna get well, I wanna get well
Are the rest of you so content?
Stay where you are but it hurts like hell
And I’m sure it’s fun at first
Test your pulse and check your vitals
If it’s only a game you lost me
I quit it with the suicidal recital

The victim’s point of view. You can’t see the pain deep inside my heart. These soul spirit hurts are triggering thoughts of suicide.

Yeah, we should’ve known it would end this way
What did you expect? Pretend it all away
And all we’ve got left is a sorry pile of hearts
I’m getting out, gonna write myself a new start
Come on dry your eyes, meet me on the other side
Run as fast as you can and we’ll make it out alive
We know better now, we don’t have to live like this
Go tell them all, we don’t have to live like this

Friends aren’t surprised by a lack of progress. Hearts are still wounded. The victim is at a crossroads, after crying she realizes the need to flee this unhealthy pattern. You don’t have to live like this anymore.

I meant it when I said I wanna get well…

Wanting to get well but unable to change her ways.

I meant it when I said I wanna get well, I wanna get well
Are the rest of you so content?
Stay where you are but it hurts like hell
And I’m sure it’s fun at first
Test your pulse and check your vitals
If it’s only a game you lost me
I quit it with the suicidal recital
If it’s only a game you lost me
I quit it with the suicidal recital

A friend is in desperate need of an intervention. A group of girls have tried to help but have failed to improve her condition. Although suicidal thoughts have subsided, professional and or spiritual assistance is needed.

Final Thoughts:

When I was first introduced to the concept of accepting Jesus as the Savior of my life, I joined a sharing group at church to find out more what his actually meant. One of the high school girls had a rough childhood, revealing deep dark secrets from her past. However, each preceding week, this girl became like the woman in Get Well. Instead of getting better, this gal tried to become the center of attention week after week. While not everyone requires intervention, children who have experienced traumatic events growing up often require years of counseling to be healed.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-August 28

Posted on August 28, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Starship – We Built This City (Official Music Video) [HD]

Inspiration Behind We Built this City:

Starship’s We Built This City was conceived from a combination of personal experiences, industry observation, and creative reshaping. The WE include song writers Bernie Taupin and Martin Page with production input from Dennis Lambert and Peter Wolf. When Starship’s producers heard the demo, they decided to transform it into a pop hit, shifting their attention from the city of Los Angeles to San Francisco.

Biblical Application:

So neither the one who plants nor the one who waters is anything, but only God, who makes things grow. 8 The one who plants and the one who waters have one purpose, and they will each be rewarded according to their own labor. 9 For we are co-workers in God’s service; you are God’s field, God’s building, 1 Corinthians 3:7-9.

Exegesis of We Built This City:

We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll
Built this city
We built this city on rock and roll, oh

Music inspires construction workers as they build the latest project.

Say you don’t know me
Or recognize my face
Say you don’t care who goes
To that kind of place
Knee-deep in the hoopla
Sinking in your fight
We’ve got too many runaways
Eating up the night

A reference to societal influences. Meanwhile, city and local rules make construction projects complicated. Then, there is a mention to the breakdown of the family resulting in numerous homeless teenagers.

Marconi plays the mambo
Listen to the radio, don’t you remember?
We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll

Perhaps cars stuck in traffic, rolling down their windows as music from a local radio station airs.

We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll
Built this city

We built this city on rock and roll

Music provides a pulse and sets the tone for residents living in this city.

Someone always playing
Corporation games
Who cares they’re always changing
Corporation names
We just wanna dance here
Someone stole the stage
They call us irresponsible
Write us off the page

Alluding to politics within construction projects in major cities. Referring to a new night club. Receiving negative press for something that other people did.

Marconi plays the mambo
Listen to the radio, don’t you remember?
We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll

The lead into the chorus is repeated. Music influences the moods of people.

We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll
We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll
We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll
We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll

Starship’s song has continued the power that music has on impacting cities.

It’s just another Sunday
In a tired old street
Police have got the chokehold, oh
And we just lost the beat

Morning patrols are trying to be proactive to prevent violence in an unsafe part of town.

Who counts the money
Underneath the bar?
Who rides the wrecking ball
Into our guitars?
Don’t tell us you need us
‘Cause we’re the ship of fools
Looking for America
Coming through your schools

Exposing corruption within local businesses. Perhaps a jab at government planning, who decides which establishments remain and which are torn down. Government lies about decaying public schools.

Marconi plays the mambo
Listen to the radio, don’t you remember?
We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll

The closing stanzas end with the chorus. The power of music inside of vehicles.

We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll
We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll

Local clubs and radio stations provide soul to their residents.

We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll
We built this city
We built this city on rock and roll, oh

Los Angeles and San Franciso were built by construction workers listening to music.

Final Thoughts:

When I got my first Walkman for Christmas, I immediately began to play music when I went running. Whenever a great song started playing, adrenaline filled my body, propelling me to run faster and faster. When I wasn’t running, I played certain songs to prepare my mind before swim meets and golf matches. If things started to get out of control, words from a chorus would get me back on track to fight through adversity. This is how music has impacted my life.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-August 26

Posted on August 26, 2026 by expressyourself4him

The Smashing Pumpkins – Tonight, Tonight (Official Music Video)

Inspiration Behind Tonight, Tonight:

Billy Corgan writes about escaping an abusive childhood. Tonight, Tonight is addressed to himself, as Billy reflects upon growing up in Chicago. The lyrics blend themes of hope, change, and self-empowerment. This personal encounter of escaping conceived self-belief which became the emotional core of Tonight, Tonight.

Biblical Application:

Very truly I tell you, whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father. 13 And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son. 14 You may ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it, John 14:12-14.

Exegesis of Tonight, Tonight:

Time
Is never time at all
You can never ever leave
Without leaving a piece of youth
And our lives are forever changed
We will never be the same
The more you change, the less you feel

Billy waited longer than he wanted to escape the abuse he endured as a child. However, leaving this situation didn’t remove the soul spirits hurts that lingered deep inside. This transition was difficult, not meant for a child.

Believe
Believe in me

Like a prayer, hope that things will get better.

Believe
That life can change
That you’re not stuck in vain
We’re not the same, we’re different
Tonight

Like a mental struggle, speaking belief into existence. This was Billy’s road to healing and recovery.

Tonight
So bright
Tonight

Things have to change tonight. Believe that life can get better.

And you know you’re never sure
But you’re sure you could be right
If you held yourself up to the light
And the embers never fade
In your city by the lake
The place where you were born

There is always inner doubt lurking. Subtle reflections of growing up in Chicago, searching for what is right with a flicker of hope that refuses to die.

Believe
Believe in me

This is where belief is essential.

Believe
In the resolute urgency of now
And if you believe there’s not a chance tonight

Looking for an opportunity to escape. Believing freedom is possible.

Tonight
So bright
Tonight

May tonight is the night.

We’ll crucify the insincere tonight
We’ll make things right
We’ll feel it all tonight
We’ll find a way to offer up the night
Tonight
The indescribable moments of your life
Tonight
The impossible is possible
Tonight
Believe in me as I believe in you
Tonight

This is the struggle that Billy fought through to escape abuse as a child.

Final Thoughts:

Part of growing up is finding friends that you can lean on during trials that you experience. As someone helps you through a different situation, pay it forward by helping someone who faces a similar ordeal. Some of my closest friends in high school and college are the ones I poured out my heart and soul to. In our separate brokenness, we leaned on each other to get through these painful hardships. Tonight, Tonight now serves as an anthem for any children trying to escape abusive homes today.

by Jay Mankus

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