My oldest son James will be leaving on Saturday to begin his junior year of college. Yet, as I began to think about his departure, this will likely be his last summer in our home. Required to do an internship before his senior year, James will likely spend his final summer in Lynchburg, Virginia. When you consider a seriously relationship with his girl friend Emma, marriage is not out of the realm of possibility. Thus, as a parent, I guess its one down and two to go.
Train up a child in the way he should go [teaching him to seek God’s wisdom and will for his abilities and talents], Even when he is old he will not depart from it, Proverbs 22:6.
If anyone could provide insight on the do’s and don’ts on parenting, its Solomon. A husband of 700 wives and an additional 300 concubines, this former king of Israel was a father to over one thousand children. Reflecting upon his role as a dad, Solomon uses Proverbs as a guide to help raise godly children. This Old Testament book urges children to listen to their parents. The key principle to pass on to daughters and sons is the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.
Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger [do not exasperate them to the point of resentment with demands that are trivial or unreasonable or humiliating or abusive; nor by showing favoritism or indifference to any of them], but bring them up [tenderly, with lovingkindness] in the discipline and instruction of the Lord, Ephesians 6:4.
The apostle Paul adds further advice to fathers hoping to raise godly children in the New Testament. During his visit with members of the church at Ephesus, Paul noticed that some dads were being too tough on their kids. This observation inspired Paul to encourage parents to avoid exasperating youth. Instead, Paul reminds future parents to display (TLC) tender, love and care while exercising discipline. Whether you are a former, current or want to be a parent, apply the principles of the Bible so that children will not depart from God’s will for their life.
by Jay Mankus