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A Year 4 Transformation: Day 339-The Charity of Forgiveness

Posted on December 2, 2024 by expressyourself4him

Passage of the Day:

“If your brother or sister[b] sins,[c] go and point out their fault, just between the two of you. If they listen to you, you have won them over. 16 But if they will not listen, take one or two others along, so that ‘every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.’[d] 17 If they still refuse to listen, tell it to the church; and if they refuse to listen even to the church, treat them as you would a pagan or a tax collector.18 “Truly I tell you, whatever you bind on earth will be[e] bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be[f] loosed in heaven. 19 “Again, truly I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything they ask for, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven. 20 For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.” 21 Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?” 22 Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times, Matthew 18:15-22.

Reflection:

Being charitable can take a toll on you emotionally. As a former youth pastor, some of my teenagers kept letting me down, time after time. However, as Peter asked Jesus following the portion of the Bible known as Church Discipline, forgiveness is a daily expectation for Christians. When you place conditions on charity or forgiveness, you limit your ability to love. The reason why Jesus responds with 70 X 7 is a call for His disciples to forgive an infinite number of times.

Prayerful Action:

For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins, Matthew 6:14-15.

Learning to love this December as God Loves You and I:

At the end of the Lord’s Prayer or the Our Father, Jesus makes a shocking statement. Listeners in the crowd during the Sermon on the Mount might have been in a state of disbelief. Jesus clearly states that God’s forgiveness is conditional based upon how you forgive others. Jesus doesn’t give an escape clause such as “if someone breaks your heart then you don’t have to forgive.” Since this does not exist in the Bible, forgiving others is a daily charitable act. This is how you should love.

Song of the Day:

Final Thoughts:

If you try to be charitable and love in your own strength, you’ll likely fail. However, when you lay your burdens at the feet of Jesus, you can arise with a fresh start and inspiration to let the light of Christ shine through you.

by Jay Mankus

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A Year 4 Transformation: Day 337-A Faith that Moves Mountains

Posted on November 30, 2024 by expressyourself4him

Passage of the Day:

Early in the morning, as Jesus was on his way back to the city, he was hungry. 19 Seeing a fig tree by the road, he went up to it but found nothing on it except leaves. Then he said to it, “May you never bear fruit again!” Immediately the tree withered.20 When the disciples saw this, they were amazed. “How did the fig tree wither so quickly?” they asked. 21 Jesus replied, “Truly I tell you, if you have faith and do not doubt, not only can you do what was done to the fig tree, but also you can say to this mountain, ‘Go, throw yourself into the sea,’ and it will be done, Matthew 21:18-21.

Reflection:

After creating faith devotions from all 27 books of the New Testament, I wanted to end the month of November with one of the most powerful promises in the Bible. Jesus cursed a fig tree after his desire to fill his body with fruit was denied. When one of God’s creations doesn’t provide what it was designed to do, this fig tree was worthless in Jesus’ eyes. Subsequently, immediately withering this tree served as a teachable moment. According to Jesus, when you add unswerving belief with faith, a faith that moves mountains is possible.

Prayerful Action:

If you believe, you will receive whatever you ask for in prayer, Matthew 21:22.

Fueling your Faith this Spiritual Season:

The gospel of John contains a similar statement made by Jesus in John 16:24. The context of John’s words is geared toward a new approach to prayer. Up until this first century conversation, the disciples were praying to the God of Abraham, Isaac and Israel. What Jesus is trying to express, if you truly want to see answers to your prayers immediately and or overnight, ask in the name of Jesus. When you take John’s advice and combine this with Jesus’ promise in Matthew 21:22, a faith that can move the mountains blocking and standing in your way is just a heart-felt prayer away.

Song of the Day:

Final Thoughts:

May the words of Faith Like That serve as a spiritual breakthrough in your life. The closer you draw near Jesus, the greater Satan’s attacks will become. However, when you reach a point of unswerving belief and faith, may you experience the power of the Holy Spirit move in your life this Christmas season.

by Jay Mankus

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A Year 4 Transformation: Day 335-Building Yourself Up in the Most Holy Faith

Posted on November 28, 2024 by expressyourself4him

Passage of the Day:

But, dear friends, remember what the apostles of our Lord Jesus Christ foretold. 18 They said to you, “In the last times there will be scoffers who will follow their own ungodly desires.” 19 These are the people who divide you, who follow mere natural instincts and do not have the Spirit. 20 But you, dear friends, by building yourselves up in your most holy faith and praying in the Holy Spirit, 21 keep yourselves in God’s love as you wait for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ to bring you to eternal life, Jude 1:17-21.

Reflection:

Later today, thousands of families will be reunited around a dinner table. As the traditional American family has evolved in this progressive age, these visits may not be as pleasant as you remember as a child. Yet, this doesn’t mean that you can’t celebrate Thanksgiving as George Washington intended back in 1789. This holiday was initially set apart for a day of prayer and public thanksgiving. Perhaps, this year a new tradition can begin, inspired by the words of Jude. Build up one another, praying in the Holy Spirit so that Thanksgiving becomes a spiritual turning in your faith.

Prayerful Action:

Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus, Philippians 4:6-7.

Fueling your Faith this Spiritual Season:

Thanks to social media, thanksgiving has become a rare expression of faith. Meanwhile, anonymous individuals make it their daily ambition to trash and verbally abuse anyone who disagrees with them. This dumpster fire has no place for Thanksgiving festivities and traditions. May you set the tone tonight with your heart and mind fixated on affirmations, charitable actions and prayer.

Song of the Day:

Final Thoughts:

While Ray Boltz’ witness isn’t what it once was, God still uses songs inspired by the Holy Spirit. May Thanksgiving Day and the lyrics of Thank You build yourself up in the most Holy Faith.

by Jay Mankus

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The Groaning

Posted on December 16, 2023 by expressyourself4him

Groaning is often associated with a deep inarticulate sound conveying pain and despair. However, biblical groaning conveys the idea of deep and earnest emotion, John 11:33. Scholars refer to this as a sign of mental distress. Yet, in the passage below, this groaning are the prayers of the Israelites lifted up to God during the 400 years of slavery in Egypt. These groans were heard by the Lord.

I have also heard the groaning of the Israelites whom the Egyptians have enslaved; and I have [earnestly] remembered My covenant [with Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob], Exodus 6:5.

In the final days of Israel’s 400 years living as slaves in Egypt, they reached their breaking point. When Pharaoh decided to no longer provide hay for workers and still expected the same quota of daily production, groaning lifted up to the God Most High. Despite the lack of improvement and progress seen by these oppressed people, the Lord heard their cries for help.

Confess to one another therefore your faults (your slips, your false steps, your offenses, your sins) and pray [also] for one another, that you may be healed and restored [to a spiritual tone of mind and heart]. The earnest (heartfelt, continued) prayer of a righteous man makes tremendous power available [dynamic in its working], James 5:16.

The earthly brother of Jesus provides a helpful tip for modern-day groaning. According to James, false steps, mistakes and offenses should be immediately confessed publicly. Similar to programs available for addicts, the sooner you realize you have a problem, the quicker you will receive the help that you need. As the world continues to fall apart, may today’s groanings in prayer be heard and answered by the Great I Am.

by Jay Mankus

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God’s Invitation to Faith

Posted on November 20, 2023 by expressyourself4him

As a former youth pastor in Columbus, Indiana, some of my students would come over to my apartment at night with a burning question on their heart. According to the disciple whom Jesus loved, one Pharisee caught up with Jesus after sunset, afraid of what his peers might think of their meeting together. Jesus used this conversation as an invitation to faith.

Jesus answered him, I assure you, most solemnly I tell you, that unless a person is born again (anew, from above), he cannot ever see (know, be acquainted with, and experience) the kingdom of God. 4 Nicodemus said to Him, How can a man be born when he is old? Can he enter his mother’s womb again and be born? 5 Jesus answered, I assure you, most solemnly I tell you, unless a man is born of water and [[a]even] the Spirit, he cannot [ever] enter the kingdom of God, John 3:3-5.

After meeting with a couple of key teenage leaders, I became open to the idea of meeting in the chapel once a month. Rather than having a series of games, ice-breakers, and planned talk, the youth group met in a small chapel designed for hosting prayer gatherings. This night gave students an open forum to share what was on their hearts, minds and soul.

For God so greatly loved and dearly prized the world that He [even] gave up His only begotten ([d]unique) Son, so that whoever believes in (trusts in, clings to, relies on) Him shall not perish (come to destruction, be lost) but have eternal (everlasting) life. 17 For God did not send the Son into the world in order to judge (to reject, to condemn, to pass sentence on) the world, but that the world might find salvation and be made safe and sound through Him, John 3:16-17.

Depending upon the moving of the Holy Spirit, touching testimonies were shared by quiet teens, finally opening up about what was going on inside their broken heart. On a couple of occasions, one of the brave individuals who got up in front to speak, gave an invitation to receive Jesus into their hearts, John 3:16-17. This is what Jesus envisioned 2000 years ago as he spoke the words above to Nicodemus, offering an invitation to faith.

by Jay Mankus

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A Generational Prayer

Posted on November 18, 2023 by expressyourself4him

If I had to do an assessment of my current spiritual condition, prayer is my weakest area. Yet, when I listen to mature Christians pray, I hear themes of a generational prayer. One year before morning to South Carolina, I attended a Saturday morning Bible Study with a couple of other men. I don’t remember much about the topics we covered, but what sticks out in my mind is the need to daily prayer for and cover your children in prayer. If you want to begin your own generational prayer, this is a good place to start.

Then [Jacob] blessed Joseph and said, God [Himself], before Whom my fathers Abraham and Isaac lived and walked habitually, God [Himself], Who has [been my Shepherd and has led and] fed me from the time I came into being until this day, 16 The [b]redeeming Angel [that is, the Angel the Redeemer—not a created being but the Lord Himself] Who has redeemed me continually from every evil, bless the lads! And let my name be perpetuated in them [may they be worthy of having their names coupled with mine], and the names of my fathers Abraham and Isaac; and let them become a multitude in the midst of the earth, Genesis 48:15-16.

As the book of Genesis comes to an end, Moses provides a brief summary of Joseph’s father, grandfather, and great grandfather. Before the Ten Commandments were introduced, each of these men followed one simple rule: walk habitually with God. While Moses does not record a specific prayer spoken by Joseph, this is the goal of any parent for their children and grandchildren. Rather than make up your own prayer, you can always claim the words of the Bible as your own.

When I heard this, I sat down and wept and mourned for days and fasted and prayed [constantly] before the God of heaven, 5 And I said, O Lord God of heaven, the great and terrible God, Who keeps covenant, loving-kindness, and mercy for those who love Him and keep His commandments, 6 Let Your ear now be attentive and Your eyes open to listen to the prayer of Your servant which I pray before You day and night for the Israelites, Your servants, confessing the sins of the Israelites which we have sinned against You. Yes, I and my father’s house have sinned. 7 We have acted very corruptly against You and have not kept the commandments, statutes, and ordinances which You commanded Your servant Moses. 8 Remember [earnestly] what You commanded Your servant Moses: If you transgress and are unfaithful, I will scatter you abroad among the nations; 9 But if you return to Me and keep My commandments and do them, though your outcasts were in the farthest part of the heavens [the expanse of outer space], yet will I gather them from there and will bring them to the place in which I have chosen to set My [a]Name. 10 Now these are Your servants and Your people, whom You have redeemed by Your great power and by Your strong hand. 11 O Lord, let Your ear be attentive to the prayer of Your servant and the prayer of Your servants who delight to revere and fear Your name (Your nature and attributes); and prosper, I pray You, Your servant this day and grant him mercy in the sight of this man. For I was cupbearer to the king, Nehemiah 1:4-11.

When you face adversity, trials or unforeseen circumstances, following the actions of Nehemiah in the passage above is a good place to start. As news of Israel’s fall came to Nehemiah, he wept, mourned, prayed, and fasted until the Lord provided a clear plan of action. Nehemiah was willing to wait up to 3 months, praying for clarity so that Israel would have a future as a nation. In view of these two passages, develop your own generational prayer so that the Lord will bless your children and their families.

by Jay Mankus

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You Can’t Let this Happen

Posted on October 16, 2023 by expressyourself4him

When the guilty get caught in the act of a transgression or wrongdoing, a spirit of desperation tends to take over. As a teenager, I witnessed many classmates and friends, beg and barter with a teacher to avoid consequences. Sometimes this was successful, but as most were being handed an after-school suspension, a common final plea was “you can’t let this happen!”

When he sees that the lad is not with us, he will die; and your servants will be responsible for his death and will bring down the gray hairs of your servant our father with sorrow to Sheol. 32 For your servant became security for the lad to my father, saying, If I do not bring him to you, then I will bear the blame to my father forever, Genesis 44:31-32.

As the governor of Egypt is about to make Benjamin his slave for life, Judah asks to have a word with him in private. Judah provides context for what he is about to share. My father who is old had an inclination that something bad was going to happen Benjamin, his youngest son. Judah is using a scare tactic, implying that if you let this happen my father is going to die of a heart attack.

Now therefore, I pray you, let your servant remain instead of the youth [to be] a slave to my lord, and let the young man go home with his [half] brothers. 34 For how can I go up to my father if the lad is not with me?—lest I witness the woe and the evil that will come upon my father, Genesis 44:33-34.

Whenever the inconceivable turns into reality, certain events are hard to grasp and fathom. Judah becomes so desperate, dreading the consequence of not wanting to go home without Benjamin, he offers up his own life to become the governor’s slave. After getting the governor alone in a room, Judah pours out his heart, pleading to not let this happen to Benjamin. While few people are successful with this plea, if your heart is right sometimes your prayer will be answered like Judah.

by Jay Mankus

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Encountering Evil

Posted on October 10, 2023 by expressyourself4him

Depending upon the life experiences that you have encountered over the years, you may or may not understand evil. Unfortunately, when the public education system in America kicked God and prayer out of the classroom in the 1960’s, new levels of evil are unleashed daily upon this country. If you do not possess spiritual lenses for identifying and making sense of evil, you’ll blame the victims of evil and not the spiritual source for these unfortunate events.

For how can I go up to my father if the lad is not with me?—lest I witness the woe and the evil that will come upon my father, Genesis 44:34.

Based upon the words of Moses in Genesis 38:1-30, Judah experienced a series of curses which many individuals would call a string of bad luck. Moses points to Judah’s choice for a wife as the starting point, emphasizing good looks over godly character. Two of Judah’s sons have their lives cut struck due to evil behavior. While modern readers of Genesis 38 may wonder, what’s wrong with this, each failed to follow God’s commands and decrees.

In conclusion, be strong in the Lord [be empowered through your union with Him]; draw your strength from Him [that strength which His boundless might provides]. 11 Put on God’s whole armor [the armor of a heavy-armed soldier which God supplies], that you may be able successfully to stand up against [all] the strategies and the deceits of the devil. 12 For we are not wrestling with flesh and blood [contending only with physical opponents], but against the despotisms, against the powers, against [the master spirits who are] the world rulers of this present darkness, against the spirit forces of wickedness in the heavenly (supernatural) sphere, Ephesians 6:10-12.

Subsequently, as he realizes the wrongdoing of his past, Judah pleads with the governor of Egypt to consider the promise and vow made to his father. Judah’s emotional plea is rewarded in Genesis 45 as Jospeh reveals his true identity. This Old Testament story reminds me of the words of the apostle Paul in the passage above. Paul touches on the real source of evil. While the Devil wants you to place the blame on other human beings, encountering evil starts with invisible forces in the spiritual realm. May today’s blog open your eyes the next time you encounter evil.

by Jay Mankus

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Now the Hard Work Begins

Posted on August 19, 2023 by expressyourself4him

As a young student, nothing came easy for me. Assignments that took my classmates a few minutes to complete, took me 15 minutes or more. Perhaps, this deficiency forced me to learn to grind things out at an early age. While I never became a great student, discipline and hard work propelled me to become who I am today. As newlyweds return from their honeymoon, now the hard work to become one flesh begins.

Wives, be subject (be submissive and adapt yourselves) to your own husbands as [a service] to the Lord. 23 For the husband is head of the wife as Christ is the Head of the church, Himself the Savior of [His] body. 24 As the church is subject to Christ, so let wives also be subject in everything to their husbands. 25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her, 26 So that He might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the Word, Ephesians 5:22-26.

Since many first century Christians were illiterate, pastors of churches would read the apostle Paul’s letters out loud to their congregation. Based upon the words of today’s featured passage, God has high expectations for married couples. Learning to love your spouse as Christ loved the church doesn’t happen overnight. Rather, this spiritual transformation takes a lifetime of studying the Bible, prayer, and practice.

That He might present the church to Himself in glorious splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such things [that she might be holy and faultless]. 28 Even so husbands should love their wives as [being in a sense] their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself. 29 For no man ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and carefully protects and cherishes it, as Christ does the church, 30 Because we are members (parts) of His body. 31 For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother and shall be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh, Ephesians 5:27-31.

The hardest part of any marriage is ridding your life of all of the bad habits that you’ve picked up from your parents, friends, and acquaintances. These flaws will cause you to do something or say something at the wrong time, hurting your spouse. This is what I mean by the title, “now the hard work begins.” Therefore, if you’re newly engaged or married, commit yourself to the words of Colossians 3:5-17 so that the Holy Spirit will slowly transform your life and marriage.

by Jay Mankus

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When Your Prayers Come True

Posted on August 14, 2023 by expressyourself4him

As someone who struggles with prayer, I tend to repeat myself rather than spiritually connect with the Lord when I pray. The best way to compare my prayer life is to a scratch golfer who doesn’t have their A Game, but grinds out 18 holes to find a way to shoot par. What I decided to do beginning in college is to keep a prayer journal, writing out my requests to the Lord. Since I tend to forget what I prayed for last week, keeping a detailed record allows me to see if any of my prayers become reality.

Also when you pray, you must not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the corners of the streets, that they may be seen by people. Truly I tell you, they have their reward [d]in full already. 6 But when you pray, go into your [most] private room, and, closing the door, pray to your Father, Who is in secret; and your Father, Who sees in secret, will reward you in the open. 7 And when you pray, do not heap up phrases (multiply words, repeating the same ones over and over) as the Gentiles do, for they think they will be heard for their much speaking. 8 Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask Him, Matthew 6:5-8.

As a former coach and teacher, I learned early on that you can’t force someone to do exactly what you want. You can give directions, hints, and suggestions, but you have to let free will take its course. While I was a disciplinarian when my children were young, I’ve transitioned into a life coach by sharing my perspective when I was my kids age. However, as I listened to my son Daniel’s wedding last weekend, the words that I lifted up as prayers in my journal have come true.

Keep on asking and it will be given you; [f] keep on seeking and you will find; [g]keep on knocking [reverently] and [the door] will be opened to you. 8 For everyone who keeps on asking receives; and he who keeps on seeking finds; and to him who keeps on knocking, [the door] will be opened, Matthew 7:7-8.

Perhaps, as Daniel struggled to find a job after graduating in May, I was forced to intensify my prayers with specific requests. When days turned into weeks and weeks turned into months, I kept on knocking as Jesus urges in the passage above. Although doubts did enter my mind, I never gave up hope. Subsequently, Daniel received a job from Liberty University and is committed to following God’s will for his life. Prayers can come true as well as long as you can knocking on God’s door in prayer.

by Jay Mankus

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