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The Message Behind the Music-March 30

Flashdance • What a Feeling • Irene Cara

Inspiration Behind What a Feeling:

The lyrics to What a Feeling come from a metaphor that compares dancing to aspirations for fulfilling your dreams in life. What a Feeling was the theme song for the film Flashdance. Alex Owens wants to pursue dancing as a professional ballerina, but has to put this on hold, working in a steel mill until this goal becomes a reality. What a Feeling was composed by Giorgio Moroder and co-written by Keith Forsey and Irena Cara who sings this song.

Biblical Application:

To these four young men God gave knowledge and understanding of all kinds of literature and learning. And Daniel could understand visions and dreams of all kinds, Daniel 1:17.

Exegesis of What a Feeling:

First, when there’s nothing but a slow glowing dream
That your fear seems to hide deep inside your mind
All alone I have cried, silent tears full of pride
In a world made of steel, made of stone

Initially, Alex Owens wasn’t good enough to become a professional ballerina and didn’t have the money to make this happen. Despite being frustrated, she took a full-time job at a steel mill to make a living for herself.

Well, I hear the music close my eyes, feel the rhythm
Wrap around, take a hold of my heart

Alex never stopped dreaming, taking music with her every day in the steel mill, playing in her head.

What a feeling, being’s believin’
I can have it all, now I’m dancing for my life

Dancing is Alex’s true passion, what makes her get up every morning.

Take your passion and make it happen
Pictures come alive, you can dance right through your life

Alex used positive thoughts, seeing herself fulfilling this lifelong dream.

Now, I hear the music, close my eyes, I am rhythm
In a flash it takes hold of my heart

This enabled Alex to move with the rhythm of each song.

What a feeling, being’s believin’
I can have it all, now I’m dancing for my life
Take your passion and make it happen
Pictures come alive, now I’m dancing through my life
What a feeling

Alex is like a motivational speaker, using passion to make her dream come true.

What a feeling (I am music now)
Being’s believin’ (I am rhythm now)
Pictures come alive, you can dance right through your life

This technique of visualization is what modern-day sports psychologists use to help professional athletes reach their full potential.

What a feeling (I can really have it all)
What a feeling (pictures come alive when I call)
I can have it all (I can really have it all)m
Have it all (pictures come alive when I call)

This is the passion and perseverance needed to make your dreams come true.

(Call, call, call, call, what a feeling)
I can have it all (being’s believin’)
Being’s believin’ (take your passion, make it happen)
Make it happen (what a feeling)
What a feeling

What a feeling is played as the credits roll where Alex has reached the mountain top as a professional dancer.

Final Thoughts:

While you may have the same passion as Alex, sometimes your dreams don’t come true. My quest to become a professional golfer ended on Vancouver Island, failing to make it through Q-School on the Canadian PGA Tour. Despite this set back, I ended up pursuing a career in writing. While writing blogs, books and screen plays is simply a hobby for now, perhaps the passion of Alex will be ignited in me during retirement to make this dream come true.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-March 28

DO YOU KNOW WHERE YOU’RE GOING TO? | DIANA ROSS | AUDIO SONG LYRICS

Inspiration Behind Do You Know Where You’re Going to?

Michael Masser and Gerry Goffin wrote Do You Know Where You’re Going To for the 1975 film Mahogany. As the lead actress in Mahogany, Diana sang this theme song for the film. Mahogany is about a young black woman named Tracey Chambers who aspires to become a fashion designer in Chicago. Along this journey, the lyrics to Do You Know Where You’re Going To fit in as Tracey seeks to figure out the right career path to take to fulfill her dreams.

Biblical Application: (a worst-case scenario when you go through life without having a clear vision to follow)

You stumble day and night, and the prophets stumble with you. So I will destroy your mother—  My people are destroyed from lack of knowledge. “Because you have rejected knowledge, I also reject you as my priests; because you have ignored the law of your God, I also will ignore your children, Hosea 4:5-6.

Exegesis of Do You Know Where You’re Going to?

Do you know where you’re going to?
Do you like the things that life is showing you?
Where are you going to?
Do you know?

There will always be naysayers whenever you take a chance in life by seeking to pursue the American dream. This usually occurs via trial and error as you figure out what you like and dislike.

Do you get what you’re hoping for?
When you look behind you there’s no open doors
What are you hoping for?
Do you know?

This journey is filled with unexpected twists and turns. Depending upon your expectations, you may not get what you were hoping for, especially when opportunities begin to run out.

Once we were standing still in time
Chasing the fantasies that filled our minds
You knew I loved you, but my spirit was free
Laughing at the questions that you once asked of me

Chasing after dreams isn’t easy. Some people may be holding you back or may believe that this pursuit is a waste of time.

Do you know where you’re going to?
Do you like the things that life is showing you?
Where are you going to?
Do you know?

Sometimes all you need is a sign of hope to keep this dream alive.

Now, looking back at all we’ve passed
We’ve let so many dreams slip through our hands
Why must we wait so long before we see
How sad the answers to those questions can be?

Success takes time, especially if what you’re chasing is a long shoot. Ultimately, how bad you want something will dictate the length of your pursuit.

Do you know where you’re going to?
Do you like the things that life is showing you?
Where are you going to?
Do you know?

When should you give up or keep tarrying on is up to you.

Do you know, do you know?
Do you know?

Rejection and failures will determine how long you last or will simply strengthen your resolve.

Final Thoughts:

Fifteen years ago, a colleague convinced me to start writing screenplays. I envisioned that if I poured my heart and soul into this new venture, that by the time that I retired I could do this for fun. Unfortunately, as Hollywood has changed over the past 2 decades, it’s getting harder and harder to break through. Four screenplays later, I’m not sure if it’s worth it. I haven’t given up, but I may simply turn one of my movies into a book to see if that opens any new doors. This is my personal experience of following the words of Do You Know Where You’re Going to.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-March 26

Gladys Knight & The Pips – Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me (Audio)

Inspiration Behind Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me:

This song brings up gratitude and the impact that one individual can have on your life. Jim Weatherly was an all-American quarterback before transitioning to song writing. As the writer of Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me, Jim paints a picture of how a special person can completely transform your life. This is the emotional presentation that Gladys Knight makes in Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me.

Biblical Application:

How beautiful you are, my darling! Oh, how beautiful! Your eyes behind your veil are doves.
Your hair is like a flock of goats descending from the hills of Gilead. Your teeth are like a flock of sheep just shorn,
coming up from the washing. Each has its twin; not one of them is alone. Your lips are like a scarlet ribbon; your mouth is lovely. Your temples behind your veil are like the halves of a pomegranate, Song of Solomon 4:1-3.

Exegesis of Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me:

I’ve had my share of life’s ups and downs
But fate’s been kind, the downs have been few
I guess you could say that I’ve been lucky
Well, I guess you could say that it’s all because of you

The lyrics suggest that success in life takes time. However, a combination of fate and luck has led Gladys to this special person.

If anyone should ever write my life story
(For whatever reason) for whatever reason there might be
Ooh, you’ll be there between each line of pain and glory
‘Cause you’re the best thing (you’re the best thing that ever happened to me)
That ever happened to me (you’re the best thing that ever happened to me)
Ah, you’re the best thing that ever happened to me

This stanza reads like a Christian testimony. While there have been bumpy stretches along the way, a significant other came into her life at just the right time. Subsequently, Gladys realizes that this person is the best thing that has happened to her.

Oh, there have been times when times were hard
But always, somehow, I made it, I made it through
‘Cause for every moment that I’ve spent hurting
There was a moment that I spent, oh, just loving you, yeah

Unlike modern songs with unrealistic lyrics, life will bring you tough times along the journey called life. Through these moments of aches and pain, Gladys never stopped loving this man.

If anyone should ever write my life story
For, for whatever (for whatever reason) for whatever reason there might be
Oh, you’ll be there between each line of pain and glory
‘Cause you’re the best thing (you’re the best thing that ever happened to me)
That ever happened to me (you’re the best thing that ever happened to me)

This stanza points to appreciation and gratitude for having someone in her life to get Gladys through rocky patches. This leads to a spirit of thankfulness.

Oh, you’re the best thing (you’re the best thing that ever happened to me)
That ever happened to me (you’re the best thing that ever happened to me)
I know, you’re the best thing (you’re the best thing)
Oh, that ever happened to me
Yeah,

If couples could simply search for the good qualities in each other, they just might realize that their spouse is the best thing that has ever happened to them in life.

Final Thoughts:

When you reach my age, now closer to 60 than 50, you have time to reflect on your past. Special people have come and gone over the years, but my wife Leanne has stayed by my side through it all. This makes my wife and our children, the best thing that ever happened to me.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-March 23

Janet Jackson – What Have You Done For Me Lately (Official Music Video)

Inspirational Behind What Have You Done For Me Lately:

Janet Jackson thought about being taken for granted when What Have You Done for Me Lately was conceived. Little did Janet realize that this 1986 song would cross over into other areas of life like sports fans becoming frustrated by their local teams failing to achieve greatness. Janet wanted to make sure that other people would receive recognition for their contributions in life.

Biblical Application:

My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, 20 because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires. 21 Therefore, get rid of all moral filth and the evil that is so prevalent and humbly accept the word planted in you, which can save you. 22 Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says, James 1:19-22.

Exegesis of What Have You Done For Me Lately:

What’s up girl?
He stood me up again
Again?
Mmhmm
Well what’s up with this guy?
Do you really like him that much?
Yes honey, I love him, he is fine
He does a lot of nice things for me
I know he used to do nice stuff for you
But what has he done for you lately?

In the music video, a friend doesn’t want her girl friend to get hurt by the man she is currently dating.

Used to be a time when you would pamper me
Used to brag about it all the time
Your friends seem to think that you’re so peachy keen
But my friends say neglect is on your mind
Who’s right?

Janet is questioning the change in behavior of a former boyfriend. She wants to know what’s going on.

What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah

This type of love is self-seeking, wanting to see action before putting any effort into this relationship.

Used to go to dinner almost every night
Dancin’ ’til I thought I’d lose my breath
Ahh

Now it seems your dancing feet are always on my couch
Good thing I cook or else we’d starve to death
Ain’t that a shame?

Apathy and laziness have set in. Any acts of love or passion have faded.

What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah

This mentality is ruining their relationship.

I never ask for more than I deserve
You know it’s the truth
You seem to think you’re God’s gift to this earth
I’m tellin’ you, no way

At some point in a relationship, usually when the feeling of love starts to fade, you become your true self. When you stop performing or seek to get to know someone more, relationships become stale.

You ought to be thankful for the little things,
But little things are all you seem to give
You’re always putting off what we coul do today
Soap opera says, you’ve got one life to live
Who’s right, who’s wrong?

Disagreements occur when certain expectations aren’t met. This leads to the blame game, who is right and who is wrong.

What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah

Actions speak louder than words.

Get with it

What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah (yeah ha)
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah (yeah)
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah (yeah)

This reminds me of a what’s in it for me attitude.

What have you done for me lately? (lately)
Ooh ooh ooh yeah
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah
What have you done for me lately? (This is wild, I swear)

Time will tell if a relationship is worth saving.

Final Thoughts:

What have you done for me lately has become a cultural motto for many Americans. If you are putting in all the effort and worth and no one else is trying, it’s hard to stay motivated. Subsequently, the best thing you can do is let your actions speak for yourself. When you find yourself being taken for granted, you may want to search for an occupation, place or relationship where you are appreciated, noticed and thanked.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-March 22

Beyoncé – Halo

Inspiration Behind Halo:

Songwriters Ryan Tedder and Evan Bogart received inspiration from the 2004 song Shelter by Ray LaMontagne. Both sought to create a modern version for Beyonce. At the time Halo was completed, Beyonce was married to Jay-Z This song was recorded in 3 hours, feeling confident that themes of love and grace were carried out in halo.

Biblical Application:

Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has ascended into heaven,[f] Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to the faith we profess. 15 For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet he did not sin. 16 Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need, Hebrews 4:14-16.

Exegesis of Halo:

Remember those walls I built?
Well, baby, they’re tumbling down
And they didn’t even put up a fight
They didn’t even make a sound

When someone special enters your life, you begin to let your guard down by opening up.

I found a way to let you in
But I never really had a doubt
Standin’ in the light of your halo
I got my angel now

Love can make human beings blind, believing the love of their life is like an angel.

It’s like I’ve been awakened
Every rule I had you breakin’
It’s the risk that I’m takin’
I ain’t never gonna shut you out

Beyonce has become vulnerable, removing safeguards that she put up in the past.

Everywhere I’m lookin’ now
I’m surrounded by your embrace
Baby, I can see your halo
You know you’re my saving grace

When someone enters your life at the perfect time, their presence can take you to new heights.

You’re everything I need and more
It’s written all over your face
Baby, I can feel your halo
Pray it won’t fade away

When you are smitten by love, your partner can do no wrong.

I can feel your halo (halo) halo
I can see your halo (halo) halo
I can feel your halo (halo) halo
I can see your halo (halo) halo

This is the image that Beyonce sees.

Hit me like a ray of sun
Burning through my darkest night
You’re the only one that I want

Think I’m addicted to your light

Jay Z brought the best out of Beyonce.

I swore I’d never fall again
But this don’t even feel like fallin’
Gravity can’t begin
To pull me back to the ground again

This new relationship changed Beyonce’s mind about love.

It’s like I’ve been awakened
Every rule I had you breakin’
The risk that I’m takin’
I’m never gonna shut you out

Part of falling in love is taking a risk for your heart to be broken.

Everywhere I’m lookin’ now
I’m surrounded by your embrace
Baby, I can see your halo
You know you’re my saving grace

The newness of this relationship is overwhelming, full of joy and thankfulness.

You’re everything I need and more
It’s written all over your face
Baby, I can feel your halo
Pray it won’t fade away

Beyonce can’t stop thinking about her new man.

I can feel your halo (halo) halo
I can see your halo (halo) halo
I can feel your halo (halo) halo
I can see your halo (halo) halo

This kind of love only sees the positive.

I can feel your halo (halo) halo
I can see your halo (halo) halo
I can feel your halo (halo) halo
I can see your halo (halo) halo

Halo
Halo

This man can do no wrong in her eyes.

Everywhere I’m lookin’ now
I’m surrounded by your embrace
Baby, I can see your halo
You know you’re my saving grace

She can’t keep him off of her mind.

You’re everything I need and more
It’s written all over your face
Baby, I can feel your halo
Pray it won’t fade away

He is what Beyonce is looking for in love.

I can feel your halo (halo) halo
I can see your halo (halo) halo
I can feel your halo (halo) halo
I can see your halo (halo) halo

This relationship brings good vibes, like an angel.

I can feel your halo (halo) halo
I can see your halo (halo) halo
I can feel your halo (halo) halo
I can see your halo (halo) halo

Like a honeymoon, this relationship starts out perfect.

Final Thoughts:

When marriage last a lifetime, these are the type of lyrics that accompany a solid relationship. While flaws will be uncovered over the years, the covenant of marriage refers to for better or for worse. I pray that Beyonce and Jay Z continue to maintain a blessed and joyful marriage.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-March 19

Gabby Barrett – I Hope (Lyrics)

Inspiration Behind I Hope:

Gabby Barret had a vision to create a song where genuine emotions are expressed. With the help of co-writers Zach Kale and Jon Nite as well as producer Ross Copperman, I Hope became a reality. The inspiration behind the lyrics stems from Gabby’s personal experiences in high school. Being cheated on for the first time left the bitter pill of betrayal inside of Gabby. This painful experience enabled Gabby to mature, wanting to highlight the positive in life with the title, I Hope. Yet the root of bitterness inside of Gabby’s heart provides an unexpected twist at the end, using hope in a negative context.

Biblical Application:

We who are strong ought to bear with the failings of the weak and not to please ourselves. Each of us should please our neighbors for their good, to build them up. For even Christ did not please himself but, as it is written: “The insults of those who insult you have fallen on me.”[a] For everything that was written in the past was written to teach us, so that through the endurance taught in the Scriptures and the encouragement they provide we might have hope, Romans 15:1-4.

Exegesis of I Hope:

Yeah, yeah
Ooh, oh
Oh, oh
Yeah

The opening melody is like taking a deep breath before an important speech.

I, I hope she makes you smile
The way you made me smile
On the other end of a phone
In the middle of a highway, driving alone

Gabby focuses on an ex-boyfriend, wanting his new girlfriend to feel like she did.

Oh, baby, I, I hope you hear a song
That makes you sing along
And gets you thinking ’bout her
Then the last several miles turns into a blur, yeah

Gabby sings about how music keeps you awake while driving. The longer you drive, there is a tendency to start losing your thoughts as being tired begins to blur everything together.

I hope you both feel the sparks by the end of the drive
I hope you know she’s the one by the end of the night
I hope you never ever felt more free
Tell your friends that you’re so happy
I hope she comes along and wrecks every one of your plans
I hope you spend your last dime to put a rock on her hand
I hope she’s wilder than your wildest dreams
She’s everything you’re ever gonna need

Gabby remains positive, hoping the best for her ex-boyfriend. She hopes that he isn’t afraid of commitment and is willing to become engaged and married.

And then I hope she cheats
Like you did on me
And then I hope she cheats
Like you did on me

This is where the root of bitterness inside of Gabby rears its ugly head.

Yeah, babe, I hope he shows up in a 2:00 a.m. pic from a friend
Hanging on to a girl to just rub it in
I hope you stay up all night, all alone, waiting by the phone
And then he calls

Gabby now turns her attention to her ex-boyfriend’s new girlfriend, wishing she endures the same pain he brought her.

And baby, I (I), I hope you work it out
Forgive and just about forget
Let him take you on a first date again
And when you lean in for a kiss

Gabby is now back for a positive spin, hoping for reconciliation.

I hope you both feel the sparks by the end of the drive
I hope you know he’s the one by the end of the night
I hope you never ever felt more free
Tell your friends that you’re so happy
I hope he comes along and wrecks every one of your plans
I hope he spends his last dime to put a rock on your hand
I hope he’s wilder than your wildest dreams
He’s everything you’re ever gonna need

this chorus serves as a hopeful prayer, wanting the best for these two.

And then I hope he cheats
Like you did on me
And then I hope he cheats
Like you did on me

Another twist, hoping for the worse, possibly fueled by resentment.

I hope what goes, comes all the way around
I hope she makes you feel the same way
About her that I feel about you right now

Another negative stanza, wishing for karma or as the Bible states, “you reap what you sow.”

I hope you both feel the sparks by the end of the drive
I hope you know she’s the one by the end of the night
I hope you never ever felt more free
Tell your friends that you’re so happy (oh-woah, oh, woah, woah)
I hope she comes along and wrecks every one of your plans
I hope you spend your last dime to put a rock on her hand
I hope she’s wilder than your wildest dreams
She’s everything you’re ever gonna need

Gabby is having a series of emotional sways, going back and forth between wishing the best, then the worst.

And then I hope she cheats
Like you did on me
And then I hope she cheats
Like you did on me

Perhaps Jon and Zach swayed Gabby to add this twist of fate halfway through, I Hope.

Like you did on me

One last zinger, wanting her ex-boyfriend’s new girlfriend to want to feel the same pain that Gabby endured.

Final Thoughts:

For as long as I can remember, I try to surround myself with positive people. While Gabby is pouring out her heart as she sings, I Hope, the negative spin on hope kills the good vibes of the opening of this song. As my former pastor often taught, “hurt people hurt other people.” When you allow the root of bitterness to poison your heart, you turn hope into hate.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-March 16

Inspiration Behind Fancy:

Bobby Gentry was the original writer of the country song Fancy. However, when Reba McEntire performed her version of this song, Fancy became a household name. The lyrics tell the story of a poor mother’s last act of generosity to give her daughter Fancy a chance for success in the future. Fancy’s theme points to sacrifices made so made by parents so that their children might be able to realize the American dream.

Biblical Application:

Remember this: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously. Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver, 2 Corinthians 9:6-7.

Exegesis of Fancy:

Well, I remember it all very well looking back
It was the summer I turned 18
We lived in a one-room, rundown shack on the outskirts of New Orleans
We didn’t have money for food or rent
To say the least, we were hard-pressed
Then mama spent every last penny we had to buy me a dancing dress

A teenager girl remembers a special moment from her childhood. Fancy’s mom wanted her prom night to be special, saving everything she had to buy a dress.

Well, Mama washed and combed and curled my hair
Then she painted my eyes and lips (lips)
Then I stepped into a satin dancing dress
That had a split on the side clean up to my hip
It was red velvet trim and it had fit me good
Well, standing back from the looking glass
There stood a woman where a half-grown kid had stood

Fancy’s mom did everything in her power to make this evening the best night of her life.

She said, “Here’s your one chance, Fancy, don’t let me down”
She said, “Here’s your one chance, Fancy, don’t let me down”

Fancy;s mother wanted her girl to make her proud.

Mama dabbed a little bit of perfume on my neck
Then she kissed my cheek
And then I saw the tears welling up in her troubled eyes
As she started to speak
She looked at our pitiful shack
And then she looked at me and took a ragged breath
She said, “Your Pa’s runned off, and I’m real sick
And the baby’s gonna starve to death”

Fancy’s dad took off, her mom is about to die and her younger sibling doesn’t have enough income to eat.

She handed me a heart-shaped locket that said
“To thine own self be true”
And I shivered as I watched a roach crawl across
The toe of my high-heeled shoe
It sounded like somebody else that was talking
Asking Mama, “What do I do?”
She said, “Just be nice to the gentlemen, Fancy they’ll be nice to you”

Fancy’s mother provides advice for her date.

She said, “Here’s your one chance, Fancy, don’t let me down
Here’s your one chance, Fancy, don’t let me down
Lord, forgive me for what I do
But if you want out, well, it’s up to you
Now don’t let me down now
Your Mama’s gonna move you uptown”

This mom’s dying wish is to make her mama proud, to find a man who will provide her Fancy better than her husband.

Well, that was the last time I saw my Ma
The night I left that rickety shack
The welfare people came and took the baby
Mama died and I ain’t been back
But the wheels of fate had started to turn
And for me, there was no way out
It wasn’t very long until I knew exactly
What my Mama’d been talking about

Through this tragic event, Fancy began to realize what her mom was trying to say.

I knew what I had to do, and I made myself this solemn vow
That I was gonna be a lady someday
Though I didn’t know when or how
But I couldn’t see spending the rest of my life
With my head hung down in shame
You know, I might’ve been born just plain white trash
But Fancy was my name

Instead of feeling sorry for herself, Fancy decided to make something out of her life.

She said, “Here’s your one chance, Fancy, don’t let me down”
She said, “Here’s your one chance, Fancy, don’t let me down”

The memory of Mom’s word motivated Fancy to be successful in life.

It wasn’t long after a benevolent man took me in off the streets
And one week later, I was pouring his tea
In a five-room hotel suite (yes, she was)
I charmed a king, congressman and an occasional aristocrat
Then I got me a Georgia mansion
And an elegant New York townhouse flat
And I ain’t done bad (she ain’t done bad)

This positive mindset led to good fortune. Fancy’s drive to make her mother proud paid off.

Now in this world
There’s a lot of self-righteous hypocrites that call me bad (bad)
They criticize Mama for turning me out, no matter how little we had
But though I ain’t had to worry about nothing for nigh on 15 years
Well, I can still hear the desperation
In my poor Mama’s voice ringing in my ears

Despite reaching new heights, the elite don’t like Fancy’s elevated status. This doesn’t bother Fancy, holding true to what her mother taught her.

“Here’s your one chance, Fancy, don’t let me down
Oh, here’s your one chance, Fancy, don’t let me down
Lord, forgive me for what I do
But if you want out, well, it’s up to you
Now don’t let me down, hon’
Your Mama’s gonna move you uptown”
Oh, and I guess she did

When one or more parents believe in their children. girls like Fancy often end up living prosperous and successful lives. The support from mothers instill belief and confidence in their children.

Final Thoughts:

My father was an immigrant to America after World War II. Subsequently, my parents lived paycheck to paycheck when I was a child. My parents did the best that they could until my father relocated to Delaware. While my parents weren’t perfect, they did everything in their power to ensure that my 2 older sisters and I had a foundation for success in the future. Happiness isn’t about money. Happiness comes from doing and working in positions that you were designed by God to do.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-March 14

Inspiration Behind I Hope You Dance:

I Hope You Dance was conceived from a moving experience between Tia Siller and her sick mother. Tia’s mother provided an inspirational message before departing, ” I hope you dance.” Tia’s mom wanted her to take a chance, by living life to its fullest. Upon completing this song, Lee Ann Womack debuted I Hope You Dance on an episode of Extreme Hope Makeover Edition after a needy family was given a new home to live in.

Biblical Application:

I am the gate; whoever enters through me will be saved.[a] They will come in and go out, and find pasture. 10 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full, John 10:9-10.

Exegesis pf I Hope You Dance:

I hope you never lose your sense of wonder
You get your fill to eat but always keep that hunger
May you never take one single breath for granted
God forbid love ever leave you empty-handed

The opening stanza is a call for Carpe Diem, seize the day. Maintain your passion for life, never take anything for granted and take time to love others.

I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean
Whenever one door closes, I hope one more opens
Promise me that you’ll give faith a fighting chance
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance

Enjoy the beauty of God’s creation. Stay optimistic when dreams and goals don’t happen right away. Give faith a fighting chance so you’ll be ready to dance when the opportunity arises.

I hope you dance (dance)
I hope you dance (dance)

Celebrate life.

I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance
Never settle for the path of least resistance
Livin’ might mean takin’ chances, but they’re worth takin’
Lovin’ might be a mistake, but it’s worth makin’

Don’t allow fear to narrow your options in life. Take the path less traveled, don’t be afraid to fail and pursue love even when it hurts.

Don’t let some hell bent heart leave you bitter
When you come close to sellin’ out, reconsider
Give the heavens above more than just a passing glance
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance

Flee the root of bitterness. Never give up and slow down to reflect upon the beauty all around you.

I hope you dance (time is a wheel in constant motion)
I hope you dance (always rolling us along)
I hope you dance (tell me who wants to look back on their years)
I hope you dance (and wonder where those years have gone)

Make the most of the opportunities that you have in life. Stay present and live for the here and npw.

I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean
Whenever one door closes, I hope one more opens
Promise me that you’ll give faith a fighting chance
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance

Enjoy the wonders of this world. Stay grounded and be ready when new doors open.

Dance, I hope you dance (dance)
I hope you dance (time is a wheel in constant motion)
I hope you dance (always rolling us along)
I hope you dance (tell me who wants to look back on their years)
I hope you dance (and wonder where those years have gone)

Keep your head up, stay alert and seize the opportunities that God provides in life.

Tell me who wants to look back on their years (dance)
And wonder where those years have gone (dance)

Live your life without regrets.

Final Thoughts:

This song brought tears to my eyes when I first heard it on ABC as part of the Extreme Home Makeover Edition. Between the daily news cycle and social media, this world has become consumed with dwelling on what’s wrong, who is to blame and why we should hate them. I Hope You Dance serves as a welcomed change, calling listeners to make the most of their life. Instead of playing the victim card, stop living in the past so that you can start living the abundant life that God has designed for you.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-March 9

Inspiration Behind Hold On:

Hold On by Wilson Phillips provides an inside scoop of what was going on behind the scenes of her band. Lead singer Chyanna was battling substance abuse and a difficult relationship. The lyrics of Hold On serves as words of encouragement to hang in there until this tumultuous stage of life ends. The theme of Hold On urges listeners in a similar situation to make a change to avoid falling into a cycle of pain.

Biblical Application:

Do not quench the Spirit. 20 Do not treat prophecies with contempt 21 but test them all; hold on to what is good, 22 reject every kind of evil, 1 Thessalonians 5:19-21.

Exegesis of Hold On:

I know there’s pain (I know there’s pain)
Why do you lock yourself up in these chains? (These chains)
No one can change your life except for you
Don’t ever let anyone step all over you

Pain is a natural aspect of life. Yet how you respond to pain will dictate how quickly you recover. You need to take responsibility for your life and stop playing the victim. If you want to change, stop letting others walk all over you.

Just open your heart and your mind
Mmm
Is it really fair to feel, this way inside?
Whoa-oh-oh

If the human heart is your well spring to life, guard your heart as you open your mind to a new future free from pain. Don’t let the past drag you down.

Someday, somebody’s gonna make you want to
Turn around and say goodbye
Until then, baby, are you going to let ’em
Hold you down and make you cry?
Don’t you know?
Don’t you know, things can change?
Things will go your way
If you hold on for one more day
Can you hold on for one more day?
Things will go your way
Hold on for one more day

Change is possible, but your need to develop perseverance to press on. While you are waiting for circumstances in your life to change, hold on for dear life until things start to go your way again.

You could sustain
(Hmm) or are you comfortable with the pain?
You’ve got no one to blame for your unhappiness (no, baby)
You got yourself into your own mess (ooh)

Don’t let pain consume your life. You’ve got to be proactive in breaking free from your current situation. Don’t let these negative patterns continue.

Lettin’ your worries pass you by (lettin’ your worries), baby, (pass you by)
Don’t you think it’s worth your time
To change your mind?
No, no

Doubt and depression are holding Chyanna back. Once her mind believes that change is possible, healing can begin.

Someday, somebody’s gonna make you want to
Turn around and say goodbye
Until then, baby, are you going to let ’em
Hold you down and make you cry?
Don’t you know?
Don’t you know, things can change?
Things will go your way
If you hold on for one more day
Can you hold on for one more day?
Things will go your way (all things will go your way)
Hold on for one more day

Breaking free from self-destructive patterns can be extremely difficult. Yet until you truly want to change how you are living, you’ll continue down this painful road. Some people just need a spark of hope or a positive influence to usher in a season of change.

I know that there is pain
But you hold on for one more day
And you break free from the chains
Yeah, I know that there is pain
But you hold on for one more day and you
Break free, break from the chains

I know you are hurting, but you have to hang in there. Press on.

Someday, somebody’s gonna make you want to
Turn around and say goodbye (say goodbye)
Until then, baby, are you going to let ’em
Hold you down and make you cry?
Don’t you know?
Don’t you know (know), things can change? (No?)
Things will go your way
If you hold on for one more day, yeah
If you hold on
Don’t you know, things can change
Things will go your way
If you hold on for one more day

Wilson is encouraging Chyanna that she will see light at the end of the tunnel. Yet, for now, hang in there just one more day.

Can you hold on?
Can you hold on?
Mmm, can you hold on, baby
Won’t you tell me now
Hold on for one more day
‘Cause it’s gonna go your way
Don’t you know, things can change
Things will go your way
If you hold on for one more day, yeah
Can’t you change it this time
Make up your mind
Hold on
Hold on

This final chorus is like a prayer for a good friend. A glimpse of hope is better than the reality of pain and suffering.

Final Thoughts:

As a former youth pastor, teenagers can place themselves into difficult situations similar to Chyanna. All I could do was be an agent for change, providing words of hope. In the end, human beings have to want to change before hope has the opportunity to become a reality.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-March 8

Inspiration Behind What About Love?

What About Love was conceived out of a longing for an emotional connection and desire for unreciprocated love. The lyrics were spawn from band members who felt unappreciated by their former partners. The concept of love has become merely a word in many relationships, void of genuine acts of romance. Subsequently, once in a relationship, these women band members wanted to know what happened to love, where did it go?

Biblical Application:

 You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh[a]; rather, serve one another humbly in love. 14 For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.”[b] 15 If you bite and devour each other, watch out or you will be destroyed by each other, Galatians 5:13-15.

Exegesis of What About Love:

I’ve been lonely, I’ve been waitin’ for you
I’m pretending and that’s all I can do
The love I’m sendin’
Ain’t makin’ it through to your heart

This woman doesn’t like being lonely. When she finds someone, she is trying to get his attention. Yet, despite her attempts at affection, he either doesn’t notice or have mutual feelings.

You’ve been hidin’, never lettin’ it show
Always tryin’ to keep it under control
You got it down and you’re well on your way to the top
But there’s somethin’ that you forgot

Some guys try to hide their feelings in an attempt to remain cool. Instead, the man she has her eye on is focused on their career, seeking to reach new heights. However, he is missing out on love.

What about love?
Don’t you want someone to care about you?
And what about love?
Don’t let it slip away

The chorus is an open-ended question. God designed human beings to leave their parents and start their own family. This is what this woman asks, “don’t you want to share your life with someone you love?

What about love?
I only want to share it with you
You might need it someday

This opens the door to an intimate encounter. You are the one who I want to share my life with.

I can’t tell you what you’re feelin’ inside
And I can’t sell you what you don’t want to buy
Something’s missing, you got to look back on your life
You know something here just ain’t right

She is trying to break through to uncover what he is feeling. She refuses to give up, urging this man to consider what he is missing.

What about love?
Don’t you want someone to care about you?
What about love?
Don’t let it slip away
What about love?
I only want to share it with you

This chorus makes a convincing argument about love and the need for this to be shared.

What about love?
Don’t you want someone to care about you?
What about love?
Don’t let it slip away

Let me know. I know you have feelings of love. What are you afraid of? Act now or love will slip away.

But what about love?
I only want to share it with you
Oh no
Ohh ohh, oh what about love?

This woman is fighting to express her love, eager to convince the person she cares about.

Yeah
Ooh ooh hoo
What about love?
Love, love, love
What about, what about love?
Ooh hoo hoo hoo

Love is a driving force, especially when you meet the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.

Final Thoughts:

One of the aspects not addressed in what about love is timing. Both individuals aren’t always ready for love. When the timing is off, love is not manifested. However, when the time is right, love between 2 people is conceived. This is the key element of love, where desire and timing co-exist.

by Jay Mankus