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The Message Behind the Music-May 19

Posted on May 19, 2026 by expressyourself4him

The Rascals – A Beautiful Morning (Official Audio)

Inspiration Behind A Beautiful Morning:

The concept for A Beautiful Morning began with a specific focus. Starting each day with gratitude, hope and intention. The lyrics are filled with timeless philosophies and personal reflections designed to value each new day of the week. Core inspirations include new beginnings, nature’s beauty, human connection and inner motivation. Thoughts like these make every day a Beautiful Morning.

Biblical Application:

So from now on we regard no one from a worldly point of view. Though we once regarded Christ in this way, we do so no longer. 17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come:[a] The old has gone, the new is here! – 2 Corinthians 5:16-17.

Exegesis of A Beautiful Morning:

It’s a beautiful morning, ah
I think I’ll go outside a while
And just smile
Just take in some clean, fresh air, boy

Having a beautiful morning is a state of mind, establishing a resolve to focus on the positive aspects of life.

Ain’t no sense in staying inside
If the weather’s fine and you’ve got the time
It’s your chance to wake up and plan another brand new day
Either way

This mindset is eager to seize each new day, making the most of the weather.

It’s a beautiful morning, ah
Each bird keeps singing his own song
So long
I’ve got to be on my way now

Looking for a reason to be thankful.

Ain’t no fun just hanging around
I’ve got to cover ground, you couldn’t keep me down
It just ain’t no good if the sun shines when you’re still inside
Shouldn’t hide, still inside, shouldn’t hide
Still inside, shouldn’t hide, still inside, oh, oh, oh

Progress, plans and passion prevent you from taking a day off. Action leads to results.

Ooh, ooh-ah-ah
Ooh, ooh-ah-ah

Agreeing that you need to go outside and seize each new day.

There will be children with robins and flowers
Sunshine caresses each new waking hour
Seems to me that people keep seeing more and more each day
Gotta say, lead the way, it’s okay, brand new day
Gotta say, it’s okay, brand new day, gotta say, lead the way, oh

Be a leader, make the most of each hour of sunlight and stay positive.

Ooh, ooh-ah-ah (oh, oh, oh)
Ooh, ooh-ah-ah (whoa, oh, oh, oh, oh)
Ooh, ooh-ah-ah (oh)
Ooh, ooh-ah-ah (oh, oh, oh)

There is no doubt as this will be a beautiful day.

Final Thoughts:

Positive people make homes, neighborhoods and schools a fun place to be. While this enthusiasm often wears off in adults, it doesn’t have to. When a leader sets a certain positive tone, others want to feed off of this energy. Developing a Beautiful Day mentality can transform a workplace into a great environment to be part of and join.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-May 18

Posted on May 18, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Electric Light Orchestra – Mr. Blue Sky (Official Video)

Inspiration Behind Mr. Blue Sky:

Jeff Lynne was in the Swiss Alps, staying in a chalet when the concept of Nr. Blue Sky came to him. The week prior to the sun appearing was a combination of dark clouds with a slight mist. Thinking the weather might not change, a clear and sunny blue sky was a refreshing sight for Jeff. This instant change in weather transformed Jeff’s creativity, writing an additional 13 songs in rapid succession.

Biblical Application:

For since the creation of the world God’s invisible qualities—his eternal power and divine nature—have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that people are without excuse, Romans 1:20.

Exegesis of Mr. Blue Sky:

Morning! Today’s forecast calls for blue skies

A sudden change in the weather calls for a celebration.

The sun is shining in the sky
There ain’t a cloud in sight
It’s stopped raining
Everybody’s in the play
And don’t you know, it’s a beautiful new day
Hey, hey, hey!

A song highlighting a beautiful day. After days of rain, locals are coming out of their homes to enjoy this day.

Running down the avenue
See how the sun shines brightly in the city
All the streets where once was pity
Mr. Blue Sky is living here today!
Hey, hey, hey!

A glimpse of Spring has uplifted the spirits of the people living in the Alps. A sunny day made a huge difference in Jeff’s attitude about visiting Switzerland.

Mr. Blue Sky
Please tell us why
You had to hide away for so long (so long)
Where did we go wrong?
Mr. Blue Sky
Please tell us why
You had to hide away for so long (so long)
Where did we go wrong?

Jeff suggests that bad weather may serve as punishment for something done in the past. Meanwhile, Jeff treats the sun like a person, asking questions about why he has been gone for so long. Was it our fault?

Hey, you with the pretty face
Welcome to the human race!
A celebration
Mr. Blue Sky’s up there waiting
And today is the day we’ve waited for
Ah, ah, ah

Jeff sees the sunshine on a pretty face, This calls for a celebration, what Jeff has been waiting to see.

Oh, Mr. Blue Sky
Please tell us why
You had to hide away for so long (so long)
Where did we go wrong?
Hey there Mr. Blue!
We’re so pleased to be with you
Look around, see what you do
Everybody smiles at you

Weather affects how people act. Long winters or extended days of clouds and rain wear on a human’s psyche. Yet when the weather improves, allowing individuals to go outside, people tend to be happier.

Hey there Mr. Blue!
We’re so pleased to be with you
Look around, see what you do
Everybody smiles at you!

A repetitive chorus reminds Jeff of the sun’s impact of people’s moods.

Mr. Blue Sky
Mr. Blue Sky
Mr. Blue Sky

Human beings often love sunny days.

Mr. Blue, you did it right
But soon comes Mr. Night
Creeping over, now his hand is on your shoulder
Never mind, I’ll remember you this
I’ll remember you this way!

This day is coming to an end. As the sun is about to set behind the mountains, darkness replaces Mr. Blue with Mr, Night.

Mr. Blue Sky
Please tell us why
You had to hide away for so long (so long)
Where did we go wrong?
Hey there Mr. Blue (sky)
We’re so pleased to be with you (sky)
Look around see what you do (blue)
Everybody smiles at you

Jeff uses logic and reason, hoping for another sunny day tomorrow.

Please turn me over

Either a reference to tanning or wanting another visit from Mr. Blue Sky in the morning.

Final Thoughts:

During my last 2 years of living in Delaware before moving to South Carolina, Newark had become the Seattle of the East Coast, raining almost every Saturday for over a month. This bad weather made it easy to leave, without many reasons to stay. As families make plans to travel this summer, the weather will shape how much you like or disliked an area. This is what Mr. Blue Sky helped remind me.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-May 16

Posted on May 16, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Poison – Every Rose Has Its Thorn (Lyrics)

Inspiration Behind Every Rose Has It’s Thorn:

Lead singer Bret Michaels experienced the heartbreak of discovering that his partner was unfaithful while out on tour with Poison. Out of this emotional experience in Dallas, Texas, Michaels strummed on his guitar late that night. Using music as a vessel for healing, raw emotions spawned the lyrics to Every Rose Has it’s Thorn. This life experience conceived this 1988 classic metal ballad.

Biblical Application:

In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body, Ephesians 5:28-30.

Exegesis of Every Rose Has It’s Thorn:

We both lie silently still in the dead of the night
Although we both lie close together
We feel miles apart, inside
Was it somethin’ I said or something I did
Did my words not come out right
Tho’ I tried not to hurt you
Tho’ I tried
But I guess that’s why they say

Bret is reflecting upon what went wrong in this relationship, unsure what happened which drove each other apart.

Every rose has its thorn
Just like every night has its dawn
Just like every cowboy sings his sad, sad song
Every rose has its thorn

Yea it does

Bret uses a metaphor to explain how he is feeling inside. The longer you hold a rose, the more likely you’ll get cut or pricked.

I listen to our favorite song playin’ on the radio
Hear the dj say love’s a game of
Easy come and easy go
But I wonder does he know
Has he ever felt like this
And I know that you’d be here right now
If I could have let you know somehow I guess

Listening to the special song they shared brought back a wave of emotions. Yet as Bret does a deep dive of the lyrics, there are certain things not dealt with or expressed.

Every rose has its thorn
Just like every night has its dawn
Just like every cowboy sings his sad, sad song
Every rose has its thorn

This chorus seeks to lay out certain realities in life.

Though it’s been a while now
I still feel so much pain
Like the knife that cuts you the wound heals,
But the scar, that scar remains.

Time hasn’t healed Bret’s broken heart. The Bible refers to this as wounds to your soul.

I know I could have saved our love that night
If I’d know what to say
Instead of making love
We both made our separate ways

Unexpected situations are hard to plan for. Looking back, Bret knows he could have saved their relationship if he just knew what to say.

Now I hear you’ve found somebody new
And that I never meant that much to you
To hear that tears me up inside
And to see you cuts me like a knife, i guess

Bret received news of his ex, doing well and her lack of appreciation for him.

Every rose has its thorn
Just like every night has its dawn
Just like every cowboy sings his sad, sad song
Every rose has its thorn

This rose and this latest update stuck with Bret, hurting more than he realized.

Final Thoughts:

Depending upon how stable someone is, relationships can be dicey. I once dated a girl in college who was ready to move on from me if our date didn’t go well. The pressure eventually got too great for me to handle, going our separate ways like Bret and his girlfriend. However, when you meet someone who is mature and stable, you won’t have as many thorns on this rose. Since all human beings are flawed, love takes a will to overlook the thorns we possess.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-May 14

Posted on May 14, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Barbra Streisand Neil Diamond – You Don’t Bring Me Flowers

Inspiration Behind You Don’t Bring Me Flowers:

Marilyn Bergman told a story about a couple drifting apart at a songwriter’s workshop with Neil Diamond in attendance. Television producer Norman Lear was looking for a theme song for Glitters, asking Neil to write one. Diamond took the idea from this workshop and crafted You Don’t Bring Me Flowers, asking Barbara Streisand to sing this duet. Since Glitter was about the reversal of roles; this concept led Diamond to craft lyrics of a couple sharing their true feelings.

Biblical Application:

Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper, but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy. 14 Blessed is the one who always trembles before God, but whoever hardens their heart falls into trouble, Proverbs 28:13-14.

Exegesis of You Don’t Bring Me Flowers:

You don’t bring me flowers
You don’t sing me love songs
You hardly talk to me anymore
When you come through the door
At the end of the day

The excitement and joy of this relationship is fading away. Conversation has ceased.

I remember when
You couldn’t wait to love me
Used to hate to leave me

Where is the passion that once kept you with me as long as you could stay.

Now after lovin’ me late at night
When it’s good for you
And you’re feeling alright
Well, you just roll over
And you turn out the light

Making love together has all but stopped except when the timing is right.

You don’t bring me flowers anymore

The love that you once clearly displayed is missing.

It used to be so natural
To talk about forever
But ‘used to be’s’ don’t count anymore
They just lay on the floor
‘Til we sweep them away

This relationship is falling apart as this couple seems to be drifting in different direfctions.

And baby, I remember
All the things you taught me
I learned how to laugh
And I learned how to cry
Well I learned how to love
Even learned how to lie

There was a time when this couple invested their time and energy into this relationship. Now they have learned to lie to one another.

You’d think I could learn
How to tell you goodbye
‘Cause you don’t bring me flowers
Anymore

Each is afraid of ending this relationship, but their actions, a lack of love, have clearly spoken.

Well, you’d think I could learn
How to tell you goodbye
‘Cause you don’t bring me flowers
Anymore

There is still hope for love and passion, but thoughts of ending this relationship have become prevalent.

Final Thoughts:

Relationships built on physical attraction often come to an abrupt ending. However, relationships built upon common goals and interests, have a much better chance of surviving. This is where having a will to love someone comes into play. Despite what you experience, feel or see, I won’t stop loving. When couples learn to meet and please the needs of their partners, love only intensifies. This is what is missing from You Don’t Bring Me Flowers where love is all about what have you done for me lately. While all relationships become stale from time to time, helping and serving those whom you love will keep passion alive.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-May 13

Posted on May 13, 2026 by expressyourself4him

The Foundations – Build Me Up Buttercup (Lyric Video)

Inspiration Behind Build Me Up Buttercup:

The Foundations wanted to explore unrequited love and tension that exists within a relationship. Mike d’Abo and Tony Macaulay co-wrote Build Me Up Buttercup about a lover who is strung along by someone who is not interested in him. The Buttercup is symbolic of the flower and candy which highlights the complexities of affections and the desire to be connected with someone that you love.

Biblical Application:

So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live your lives in him, 7 rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness, Colossians 2:6-7.

Exegesis of Build Me Up Buttercup:

Oh, why do you build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, baby, just to let me down (let me down)
And mess me around and then worst of all (worst of all)
You never call, baby when you say you will (say you will)
But I love you still, I need you (I need you)
More than anyone, darlin’
You know that I have from the start
So build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, don’t break my heart

This man wants to be encouraged, not let down. Don’t play mind games with me. Especially when you don’t call. Yet this man still loves her, wanting to be uplifted without being dumped.

“I’ll be over at ten”, you told me time and again
But you’re late, I wait around and then (bah-dah-dah)
I went to the door, I can’t take anymore
Without you, you let me down again

This woman is stringing him along, not really caring about their relationship. This emotional strain is wearing this man out.

(Hey, hey, hey!) Baby, baby, try to find
(Hey, hey, hey!) A little time and I’ll make you mine
(Hey, hey, hey!) I’ll be home
I’ll be beside the phone waiting for you

This man proclaims his dedication in this stanza.

Oh, why do you build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, baby, just to let me down (let me down)
And mess me around and then worst of all (worst of all)
You never call, baby when you say you will (say you will)
But I love you still, I need you (I need you)
More than anyone, darlin’
You know that I have from the start
Build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, don’t break my heart

Despite this verbal commitment, he wonders why she doesn’t build him up. This stanza highlights the complexities of their relationship. His greatest wish is not to have his heart broken.

You were my toy, but I could be the boy you adore
If you’d just let me know (bah-dah-dah)
Although you’re untrue, I’m attracted to you all the more
Why do I need you so

This man is fighting for the woman that he loves despite how she treats him.

(Hey, hey, hey!) Baby, baby, try to find
(Hey, hey, hey!) A little time and I’ll make you mine
(Hey, hey, hey!) I’ll be home
I’ll be beside the phone waiting for you

Just give me a chance and I’ll prove my worth to you.

Why do you build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, baby, just to let me down (let me down)
And mess me around and then worst of all (worst of all)
You never call, baby when you say you will (say you will)
But I love you still, I need you (I need you)
More than anyone, darlin’
You know that I have from the start
Build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, don’t break my heart

His only request is to be affirmed and encouraged.

I-I-I need you (I need you)
More than anyone, baby
You know that I have from the start
Build me up (build me up)
Buttercup, don’t break my heart

This man believes that she will make him complete. He has done everything in his power to make this relationship work. Just don’t break my heart.

Final Thoughts:

When I was in junior high, hardly any girls knew that I existed. There was one girl who pretended to like me, flirting with me at the mall until I overheard her laughing with her friends about me. This continued for about a month until I finally stopped going to the mall. When I think of Build Me Up Buttercup, these are the emotions and feelings that hit home. The disappointments of junior high would be quickly forgotten by my final 2 years of high school. Facing adversity helps produce maturity, allowing me to recover and develop meaningful relationships a few years later.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-May 10

Posted on May 10, 2026 by expressyourself4him

The Outfield – Your Love (Official HD Video)

Inspiration Behind Your Love:

The Outfield had the unique ability to craft songs that resonated with a teenage audience. Guitarist John Spinks wrote Your Love in 20 minutes. John sought to capture the essence of longing and desire within a teen who is in love. Although the lyrics of Your Love are vague in certain portions, there is a sense of urgency to act upon your feelings. Your Love is one of the hit songs from the Outfield’s album Play Deep, suggesting don’t let anything get over your head.

Biblical Application:

You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh[a]; rather, serve one another humbly in love. 14 For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.”[b] 15 If you bite and devour each other, watch out or you will be destroyed by each other, Galatians 5:13-15.

Exegesis of Your Love:

Josie’s on a vacation far away
Come around and talk it over
So many things that I want to say
You know I like my girls a little bit older?

The lyrics start with a couple separated by distance. Thoughts are racing with a comment about dating older girls.

I just want to use your love tonight
I don’t want to lose your love tonight

The initial portion of this chorus is selfish and then turns to a fear of losing this love.

I ain’t got many friends left to talk to
Nowhere to run when I’m in trouble
You know I’d do anything for you
Stay the night but keep it under cover

This relationship has left this boy without many friends to talk to. There’s a comment about commitment and offer to spend the night, keeping this confidential.

I just want to use your love tonight, whoa
I don’t want to lose your love tonight

There is a sense of urgency to take advantage of this moment together.

Try to stop my hands from shaking
But something in my mind’s not making sense
It’s been a while since we were all alone
But I can’t hide the way I’m feeling

The awkwardness between two teenagers. There is a sense of excitement, confusion and uncertainty.

As you’re leaving, please would you close the door?
And don’t forget what I told you
Just ’cause you’re right, that don’t mean I’m wrong
Another shoulder to cry upon

There is an agreement to keep this one night together secret. There is a disagreement, but an future offer to have a shoulder to lean on in times of need.

I just want to use your love tonight, yeah
I don’t want to lose your love tonight, yeah
I just want to use your love tonight
I don’t want to lose your love tonight
I just want to use your love tonight
I don’t want to lose your love tonight

This extended chorus is like a call to seize this moment together.

Use your love, lose your love (your love), use your love
(I don’t wanna lose) lose your, tonight
(I don’t wanna, I don’t wanna, I don’t wanna lose)
Lose your, tonight (your love)
Lose your, tonight (your love, your love, ah)
Lose your, tonight (your love)
I don’t want to lose your love tonight
(Your love) use your, tonight

There is a degree of second guessing, unsure if this is the right thing to do.

Final Thoughts:

This song serves as a reminder that distance makes the heart grow fonder. Unfortunately, when you are a young teenager, temptation leads human beings into making bad choices. When you have friends that hold you accountable, you’ll have a better chance from escaping temptation, 1 Corinthians 10:13. The key is keeping in step with the Holy Spirit, Galatians 5:25, by fleeing the passions of your flesh.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-May 2

Posted on May 2, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Meat Loaf – Paradise By The Dashboard Light (Official Video)

Inspiration Behind Paradise:

Jim Steinman and Meatloaf worked together on the National Lampoon Road Tour before developing the idea for Paradise. Steinman began to explore teenage desires and obsessions using exaggerated storytelling. This is how baseball terminology is weaved into Paradise. When hormones are full blown, knowing how far is too far gets blurred in moments of passion. Meatloaf’s girlfriend, Ellen Foley worked with Meatloaf on the lyrics, wanting some form of commitment before having sex. This is where many relationships stall, when a commitment to a future together is put on hold.

Biblical Application:

It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; 4 that each of you should learn to control your own body[a] in a way that is holy and honorable, 5 not in passionate lust like the pagans, who do not know God, 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5.

Exegesis of Paradise:

Well I remember every little thing
As if it happened only yesterday
Parking by the lake
And there was not another car in sight
And I never had a girl
Looking any better than you did
And all the kids at school
They were wishing they were me that night

This opening stanza is like a scene from Happy Days, going to Inspiration Point, as teenagers park their car to make out with their girlfriend.

And now our bodies are oh so close and tight
It never felt so good, it never felt so right
And we’re glowing like the metal on the edge of a knife
Glowing like the metal on the edge of a knife
C’mon! Hold on tight!
C’mon! Hold on tight!

The lyrics point to a romantic embrace filled with passion.

Though it’s cold and lonely in the deep dark night
I can see paradise by the dashboard light

A little light in this car reveals a dark remote location.

Ain’t no doubt about it
We were doubly blessed
‘Cause we were barely seventeen
And we were barely dressed
Ain’t no doubt about it
Baby got to go and shout it
Ain’t no doubt about it
We were doubly blessed
‘Cause we were barely seventeen
And we were barely dressed

Meatloaf identifies this special moment to paradise, thinking about having sex.

Baby don’t you hear my heart
You got it drowning out the radio
I’ve been waiting so long
For you to come along and have some fun
Well I gotta let you know
No, you’re never gonna regret it
So open up your eyes I got a big surprise
It’ll feel all right
Well I wanna make your motor run

The hormones of two teenagers are out of control.

And now our bodies are oh so close and tight
It never felt so good, it never felt so right
And we’re glowing like the metal on the edge of a knife
Glowing like the metal on the edge of a knife
C’mon! Hold on tight!
Well c’mon! Hold on tight!

The lyrics point to a combination of lust and love between two teenagers.

Though it’s cold and lonely in the deep dark night
I can see paradise by the dashboard light
Though it’s cold and lonely in the deep dark night
(Lonely in the deep dark night)
Paradise by the dashboard light

The car is running but these two teens are providing the heat.

You got to do what you can
And let Mother Nature do the rest
Ain’t no doubt about it
We were doubly blessed
‘Cause we were barely seventeen
And we were barely-

Meatloaf is trying to pressure his girl into having sex.

We’re gonna go all the way tonight, we’re gonna go all the way and tonight’s the night
We’re gonna go all the way tonight we’re gonna go all the way and tonight’s the night
We’re gonna go all the way tonight we’re gonna go all the way and tonight’s the night
We’re gonna go all the way tonight we’re gonna go all the way and tonight’s the night

Tonight is the night Meatloaf has been waiting for his entire life.

OK, here we go, we got a real pressure cooker going here
Two down, nobody on, no score, bottom of the ninth
There’s the windup, and there it is, a line shot up the middle
Look at him go. This boy can really fly!
He’s rounding first and really turning it on now
He’s not letting up at all, he’s gonna try for second
The ball is bobbled out in center
And here comes the throw, and what a throw!
He’s gonna slide in head first, here he comes, he’s out!
No, wait, safe – safe at second base
This kid really makes things happen out there
Batter steps up to the plate
Here’s the pitch and he’s going, and what a jump he’s got
He’s trying for third, here’s the throw, it’s in the dirt – safe at third!
Holy cow, stolen base! He’s taking a pretty big lead out there
Almost daring him to try and pick him off
The pitcher glances over, winds up, and it’s bunted
Bunted down the third base line, the suicide squeeze is on!
Here he comes, squeeze play, it’s gonna be close
Here’s the throw, here’s the play at the plate
Holy cow, I think he’s gonna make it!

This is the baseball metaphor, using each base to represent getting closer to home, sex.

Stop right there!
I gotta know right now!
Before we go any further!
Do you love me?
Will you love me forever?
Do you need me?
Will you never leave me?
Will you make me so happy for the rest of my life?
Will you take me away and will you make me your wife?
Do you love me?
Will you love me forever?
Do you need me?
Will you never leave me?
Will you make me happy for the rest of my life?
Will you take me away and will you make me your wife?
I gotta know right now
Before we go any further
Do you love me?
Will you love me forever?

This is where Ellen draws the line, stopping at third base.

Let me sleep on it
Baby, baby let me sleep on it
Let me sleep on it
I’ll give you an answer in the morning
Let me sleep on it
Baby, baby let me sleep on it
Let me sleep on it
I’ll give you an answer in the morning
Let me sleep on it
Baby, baby let me sleep on it
Let me sleep on it
I’ll give you an answer in the morning

Meatloaf is stalling, trying to wear Ellen down.

I gotta know right now
Do you love me?
Will you love me forever?
Do you need me?
Will you never leave me?
Will you make me so happy for the rest of my life?
Will you take me away and will you make me your wife?
I gotta know right now!
Before we go any further
Do you love me?
And will you love me forever?

Ellen views the act of sex sacred like getting married.

What’s it going to be boy?
C’mon I can wait all night
What’s it gonna be boy? Yes or no?
What’s it gonna be boy?
Yes or no?

Ellen is waiting for an answer, a sign of commitment and a future together.

Let me sleep on it
Baby, baby let me sleep on it
Well let me sleep on it
I’ll give you an answer in the morning
I gotta know right now!

Meatloaf again postpones his decision.

Do you love me? (let me sleep on it)
Will you love me forever? (Baby baby, let me sleep on it) do you need me?
Will you never leave me?
Will you make me so happy for the rest of my life? (Let me sleep on it)
Will you take me away, will you make me your wife? (I’ll give you an answer in the morning)
I gotta know right now
Before we go any further
Do you love me? Will you love me forever?

Like a debate, Ellen and Meatloaf go back and forth.

Let me sleep on it! (will you love me forever?)
Let me sleep on it! (will you love me forever?)

This is the art of persuasion.

I couldn’t take it any longer, Lord I was crazed
And when the feeling came upon me like a tidal wave
Started swearing to my god and on my mother’s grave
That I would love you to the end of time
I swore I would love you to the end of time!

Love makes people do crazy things.

So now I’m praying for the end of time
To hurry up and arrive
‘Cause if I gotta spend another minute with you
I don’t think that I can really survive
I’ll never break my promise or forget my vow
But God only knows what I can do right now
I’m praying for the end of time
It’s all that I can do
Praying for the end of time
So I can end my time with you!

This is how most men today view marriage, as something to hold you down.

Well it was long ago and it was far away
And it was so much better that it is today
Well it was long ago and it was far away (it never felt so good)
And it was so much better that it is today (it never felt so right, and it was glowing like the metal)
It was long ago and it was far away (on the edge of a knife, it never felt so good)
And it was so much better that it is today (it never felt so right, and it was glowing like the metal)
Well it was long ago and it was far away (on the edge of a knife, it never felt so good)
And it was so much better that it is today (it never felt so right, and it was glowing like the metal)
Well it was long ago and it was far away (on the edge of a knife, it never felt so good)
And it was so much better that it is today (it never felt so right, and it was glowing like the metal)
Well it was long ago and it was far away (on the edge of a knife, it never felt so good)
And it was so much better that it is today (it never felt so right, and it was glowing like the metal)
It was long ago and it was far away (on the edge of a knife, it never felt so good)
And it was so much better that it is today (it never felt so right, and it was glowing like the metal)

Time has eroded the passion Meatloaf once possessed. Meatloaf has fond memories of his youth, thinking things were better back then than today.

Final Thoughts:

Morality in America and in churches today has declined greatly in the past 30 years. Compromise, justification and temptation have become part of everyday life. Hanging on to your virginity until marriage is rare today. Yet to the disciplined who won’t allow themselves to be placed into compromising positions, it is possible to please God by avoiding passion lust. This is part of the Girls Gone Mild Movement, waiting patiently for the right person to come along.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-April 28

Posted on April 28, 2026 by expressyourself4him

MILEY CYRUS – THE CLIMB (Lyrics)

Inspiration Behind the Climb:

The Climb was conceived by Jessi Alexander and Jon Mabe. Both writers drew from their experiences in the music industry, recognizing that every project contains obstacles in the way. While playing her guitar one day, the melody to the Climb came to Jessi. The lyrics was inspired by feeling like an underdog in the music industry. Words like “it’s not a race” point to a steady climb to the top.

Biblical Application:

Do you not know? Have you not heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth.
He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom. 29 He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. 30 Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; 31 but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint, Isaiah 40:28-31.

Exegesis of the Climb:

I can almost see it
That dream I’m dreaming
But there’s a voice inside my head saying
You’ll never reach it

Doubt and unbelief are some of the greatest obstacles to fulfilling dreams you have in life.

Every step I’m taking
Every move I make feels
Lost with no direction
My faith is shaking

Sometimes a lack of direction or progress makes you second guess yourself.

But I, I gotta keep trying
Gotta keep my head held high

Reaching your dreams involves a spirit from within to press on.

There’s always gonna be another mountain
I’m always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be an uphill battle
Sometimes I’m gonna have to lose
Ain’t about how fast I get there
Ain’t about what’s waiting on the other side
It’s the climb

Life is a marathon, not a sprint. You have to pace yourself, make necessary sacrifices and wait until dreams come true.

The struggles I’m facing
The chances I’m taking
Sometimes might knock me down, but
No, I’m not breaking

Not every song is a success. Failure provides opportunities for personal growth.

I may not know it
But these are the moments, that
I’m gonna remember most, yeah
Just gotta keep going

Certain rejections in life make you more determined to work harder than ever before.

And I, I gotta be strong
Just keep pushing on, ’cause

Don’t give up. Rather, keep pressing on.

There’s always gonna be another mountain
I’m always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be an uphill battle
Sometimes I’m gonna have to lose
Ain’t about how fast I get there
Ain’t about what’s waiting on the other side
It’s the climb

After reaching one goal, there will be other barriers in life to slow your progress down. You’re not always going to be successful. It doesn’t matter how long it takes as long as you reach your dreams.

Yeah

There’s always gonna be another mountain
I’m always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be an uphill battle
Sometimes you’re gonna have to lose
Ain’t about how fast I get there
Ain’t about what’s waiting on the other side
It’s the climb
Yeah, yeah

This repetitive chorus reinforces that the journey to success is a process that takes time.

Keep on moving, keep climbing
Keep the faith, baby
It’s all about, it’s all about the climb
Keep your faith, keep your faith
Whoa

Keep your faith as you climb. As C.S. Lewis once said, success is the process of arriving.

Final Thoughts:

From a writer’s perspective I’ve dabbled in many different disciplines. I started as a poet, tried songwriting, reached over into short stories and graduated toward screen writing. While I have failed more than anything, I’m still a work in progress as I start my own climb. Where I end up, only God knows, but I press on to express the ideas that God puts on my heart.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-April 26

Posted on April 26, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Gloria Gaynor – I Will Survive

Inspiration Behind I Will Survive:

Gloria Gaynor’s song was inspired by situations which taught her to discover resilience and strength. The lyrics focus on a devastating breakup and Gloria’s journey to recover. This life experience enabled Gloria to overcome adversity, finding strength from within to press on without this significant other.

Biblical Application:

Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as his children. For what children are not disciplined by their father? 8 If you are not disciplined—and everyone undergoes discipline—then you are not legitimate, not true sons and daughters at all. 9 Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us and we respected them for it. How much more should we submit to the Father of spirits and live! 10 They disciplined us for a little while as they thought best; but God disciplines us for our good, in order that we may share in his holiness. 11 No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it, Hebrews 12:7-11.

Exegesis of I Will Survive:

At first I was afraid
I was Petrified
Kept thinking I could never live
Without you by my side

After being dumped, Gloria doubted that she would ever recover.

But then I spent so many night
Thinking how you did me wrong
And I grew strong
And I learned how to get along

Many nights of reflection helped Gloria realize that she wasn’t treated with respect. This season of growth enabled Gloria to mature and recover.

And so you’re back
From outer space
I just walked in to find you here
With that sad look upon your face

Gloria had no room in her heart to take him back.

I should have change that stupid lock
I should have made you leave your key
If I had known for just one second
You’d be back to bother me

Gloria wished she took financial steps to prevent him from coming back to her place.

Go on now go
Walk out the door
Just turn around now
‘Cause you’re not welcome anymore

Gloria doesn’t hesitate, immediately asking her ex to leave.

Weren’t you the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye
You think I’d crumble
You think I’d lay down and die

I’m done with your stupid mind games.

Oh no not I
I will survive
Oh as long as I know how to love
I know I’ll stay alive

Gloria will be fine on her own, letting love lead the way.

I’ve got all my life to live
And I got all my love to give
I’ll survive
I will survive
Hey hey

This chorus magnifies that Gloria has fully recovered from this devastating breakup.

It took all the strength I had
Not to fall apart
Kept trying hard to mend the pieces
Of my broken heart

A glimpse of the heartache that Gloria endured.

And I spent oh so many nights
Just feeling sorry for myself
I used to cry
But now I hold my head up high

This wasn’t easy but crying has now turned into recovery and rebirth.

And you see me
Somebody new
I’m not that chained up little person
Still in love with you

Gloria is glad that she is free from this past relationship.

And so you felt like dropping in
And just expect me to be free
Well now I’m saving all my loving
For someone who’s loving me

Gloria learned to invest her time into men who appreciate and love her.

Go on now go
Walk out the door
Just turn round now
You’re not welcome anymore

Gloria doesn’t give her ex a second chance, shutting him out.

Weren’t you the one who tried to break me with goodbye
You think I’d crumble
You think I’d lay down and die

I’m not the same woman I was before.

Oh no not I
I will survive
Oh as long as I know how to love
I know I’ll stay alive

I’ll be fine without you as I wait for true love.

I got all my life to live
And I’ve got all my love to give
And I’ll survive
I will survive
Oh

This chorus serves as an anthem for Gloria’s new perspective on life.

Go on now go
Walk out the door
Just turn around now
You’re not welcome anymore

Gloria didn’t wait to repeat the same mistakes of her past.

Weren’t you the one who tried to break me with goodbye
You think I’d crumble
You think I’d lay down and die

Gloria is now mentally tough to recognize the games her ex tried to play.

Oh no not I
I will survive
Oh as long as I know how to love
I know I’ll stay alive

She is better off without him.

I’ve got all my life to give
And I’ve got all my love to give
And I’ll survive
I will survive
I will survive

Gloria is ready for the next phase in her life, waiting on love.

Final Thoughts:

As someone who was dumped multiple times in high school, I spent too much time dwelling on my past instead of looking forward to the future like Gloria. During my 5 years of college, I matured, breaking off friendships with girls who took an emotional toll on my soul. My recovery occurred through Christian friends and my relationship with Jesus. To individuals who grew up in a strict household, you learned right from wrong, even if it was painful. The people who really care about you will confront areas that you need to address. If you want the very best for someone, flawed characteristics need to be corrected until you reach your full potential in life. Although these conversations can be dicey, experiencing tough love will make you a better person in the future.

by Jay Mankus

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The Message Behind the Music-April 25

Posted on April 25, 2026 by expressyourself4him

Capital Kings – I Can’t Quit (ft. Reconcile) [Official Music Video]

Inspiration Behind I Can’t Quit:

Capital Kings wanted to create to song centered around a message of resilience and determination. The lyrics point to a theme of perseverance by pushing through life’s challenges while staying true to one’s goals. The chorus and title I Can’t Quit serves as a heightened state of determination. Regardless of how bad your situation may get, maintain a resolve to persevere.

Biblical Application:

“How will this be,” Mary asked the angel, “since I am a virgin?” 35 The angel answered, “The Holy Spirit will come on you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be called[b] the Son of God. 36 Even Elizabeth your relative is going to have a child in her old age, and she who was said to be unable to conceive is in her sixth month. 37 For no word from God will ever fail,” Luke 1:34-37.

Exegesis of I Can’t Quit:

Yeah, yeah
Ain’t, ain’t no way I’m slowing this down
If you see me coming through
Then just know it’s ’bout to get loud

Nothing is going to stop or slow down the progress being made in life.

Okay, I’ve been up for like four days
Paranoia man, I can’t think straight
My mind’s gone in another place
But that’s not how you start
It’s how you finish the race

Despite all the distractions and obstacles, there is a resolve to finish strong.

Say, “Woop!”
Yeah

And I know that it sound like me, it is but it ain’t
My life stays one hundred like it was a bank
Either following up or you’re watching on tape
End up a quitter, that’s something I ain’t

Regardless of what happens, quitting isn’t an option.

I can’t quit (no)
Ain’t nobody flexing with me
I can’t quit (I can’t do it)
I got the keys for the city
I can’t quit (no)
I get it poppin’ like Diddy
I can’t quit (woo)
All of my partners legit
I can’t quit

This mind is fixated on a resolve to persevere.

Put those, put those hands up

Lord knows I got hosts, started rollin’
I see hate in they eyes
Know yourself, know your team
Do they want you to win?

There are vocal doubters, haters and others jealousy of his success in life.

I done failed ’bout a hundred times
More I fall then the more I climb
Have fun, say it with me
Long as He got me, I’m winning

Failure is a part of life, but climbing over defeat is the key to victory.

Oh Lord, I’m a hundred proof
Never quitting and I never lose
Oh Lord, I can see it now
Hands up, I’ma lay it down

A prayer for a mindset to never quit.

Hundred players on the ground
Unashamed, hit the ground
Young king need the crown
My heart, I lay it down

This stanza suggests a desire to give his heart to Jesus.

Can’t stop it now, overcoming
I’m giving it every part of me
Oh this is sick, I’m all about it
Oh no, oh no, oh

Perhaps, this section hints to the Lordship of Christ, living his life as an open book to God.

I can’t quit (woo, woo)
Ain’t nobody flexing with me
I can’t quit
I got the keys for the city
I can’t quit (whippin’ it, whippin’ it)
I get it poppin’ like Diddy
I can’t quit (yeah)
All of my partners legit
I can’t quit

Quitting is not an option.

Final Thoughts:

I was told by doctors that my athletic career was over after suffering a 1 in 100 thousand injury to my left ankle at age 16. After this surgery, there was more optimism, but the odds were still not in may favor. This crisis led me to adopt a “I can’t quit” mindset. Three months later, I was in a swimming pool competing for a state championship. settling for a bronze. I didn’t miss a sports season, finishing my final 2 seasons of golf, and senior year of cross country and swimming. This is what is possible when God fills you with an “I Can’t Quit” attitude.

by Jay Mankus

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