In the 1900’s, American families for the most part shared a common parenting trait. Either mom, dad or both parents reminded children weekly of the motto, “If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t open your mouth.” While variations of this expression existed, the heart of the matter involves the biblical principle inside of Ephesians 4:29. Just of loose lips sink ships, unwholesome words directed at another individual grieves the Holy Spirit according to Ephesians 4:30.
As a parent of 3 children, each 3 years apart, siblings rivalries are alive in my household whether I like it or not. Sarcasm, teasing and untimely words are a daily threat to tear down self esteem, self confidence and a spiritual connection with God. Therefore, it is essential for parents to remind their children of passages like Proverbs 14:3. When a child or student can associate or tie their words directly to a specific punishment, wisdom might be found before its too late or before their own ship sinks.
Jesus’ own brother James, highlights the power of words in his letter to Christian’s scattered throughout the world following Nero’s persecution in the 60’s AD. James 3:3-6 magnifies the force of a word, comparing the tongue with fire. Like Smokey the Bear in his public service announcements airing as commercials, “only you can prevent verbal forest fires!” As Facebook, Twitter and other outlets of social media continue to explode, make sure you practice self-discipline before you press send. If not, you could be the next Manti Te’O. Therefore, tighten the reigns of your own tongue before loose lips result in another titanic disaster.
by Jay Mankus
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