There are certain events in life that leave a taste of bitterness. Such is the case of Samson when his father in law gave the woman he loved to another man. While the rock group Def Leppard sings about how love bites, Samson’s experience brings a whole new perspective to this saying. Subsequently, Samson verbalizes his displeasure vowing to seek revenge.
Samson said to them, “This time I have a right to get even with the Philistines; I will really harm them,” Judges 15:3.
In the heat of the moment, justifying your actions is easy to do. Like Samson, certain offenses make individuals believe that they have the right to retaliate. Thus, this selfish act by a father ignited anger with Samson to get even with the Philistines. Without anyone around to calm him down, Samson lived the rest of his life with a heart set on violence.
The Lord tests the righteous, but his soul hates the wicked and the one who loves violence, Psalm 11:5.
When freewill is exercised on a daily basis, there are innocent victims. Caught in the cross hairs, these unfortunate souls are left to wonder, “what did I do to deserve this?” How these people respond will dictate their final destination? Therefore, guard yourself against the root of bitterness. Rather, pray that the love will give you a spirit of forgiveness to prevent you from lashing out at those whom do you wrong.
by Jay Mankus