“There is nothing in this life that can destroy you but yourself. Bad things happen to everyone, but when they do, you can’t just fall apart and die. You have to fight back. If you don’t, you’re the one who loses in the end. But if you do keep going and fight back, you win.” – Alexandra Monir
For a scientist, trial and error is merely a series of experiments to ascertain whether or not your theory is correct. Thomas Edison didn’t give up after ten, one hundred or one thousand failed tests. Rather, he pressed on, bouncing back after countless rejections to invent the light bulb.
I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need. I can do all things through him who strengthens me, Philippians 4:12-13.
In today’s climate, you have to be mentally tough to survive. The best baseball hitters in history only succeeded thirty three percent of the time. Perfectionists would never survive this degree of failure. Thus, perspective is crucial to mustering up the strength to carry on.
But you, take courage! Do not let your hands be weak, for your work shall be rewarded, 2 Chronicles 15:7.
Last weekend I received my third rejection letter in the past four years in my quest to become a professional screenwriter. My first movie, Express Yourself never had a chance, not knowing the proper format to get noticed. The second, Behind the Devil’s Door was better, yet after submitting it I realized the flaw of my conclusion. Sometimes I wonder if I should continue with my third, Dragged Behind the Devil’s Door or invest my time in something else. Despite thoughts of doubt, I can’t quit until I feel like I’ve done everything in my power to make this dream a reality. Therefore, regardless of the adversity that you endure, ask God to give you the faith to bounce back following rejection.
by Jay Mankus