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Deception

Deception means to con through dishonest means, cheat or trick others or simply commit fraud, a ruse or sham.  Every election season voters are deceived by politicians who say whatever you want to hear only to return to who they really are after being elected.  Therefore, as you watch the first presidential debate tonight, don’t be mislead by their words, test everything they say to make sure it fits with their own voting record.

In the Mel Gibson movie The Passion of the Christ, Jesus is almost bitten by a snake while praying in the garden before being betrayed by Judas.  This scene takes place under a tree similar to the picture above, symbolic of the prophecy in Genesis 3:15.  According to 2 Corinthians 11:14, Satan has the power to imitate angelic acts.  Satan’s ultimate goal is a create a false impression of reality, like many of the answers you will hear tonight.

Trust and stupidity are not that far from one another.  Unfortunately, we often blindly trust candidates, believing whatever they say to be true.  Or we rely on family, friends or co-workers to shape who we vote for without doing any homework or research for ourselves.  Thus, don’t turn a blind eye tonight to the words that are spoken, especially from the commentators who will steer you toward their candidate.  Follow the 1 Thessalonians 5:21-22 principle so that on election day you will have a clear conscience as you cast your vote.  America’s future is depending upon your due diligence!

by Jay Mankus

The Meltdown at Medinah

In sports. momentum often serves as prophetic foresight into the final outcome.  Once the tide changes in a match as your opponent gains some confidence, no matter how hard you try sometimes, you can’t hold back the pressure of rushing water.  As I watched the last hour of NBC’s coverage of the 2012 Ryder Cup Saturday evening, I got the sense momentum had swung in Europe’s favor.  The only thing remaining was human nature allowing the mind to say, “we only need 5 points to win the cup.”  The moment this thought took hold of the American players, the Meltdown at Medinah began.

America’s 14.5-13.5 demise to Europe on Sunday is the worst collapse in sports since the 1993 Phillies blew a 14-7 lead at home in game 4 of the World Series, losing 15-14 to Toronto Blue Jays.  Unfortunately, 9 of the 12 American golfers were like prey for sharks.  Once the European players saw blood in the water, they attacked, taking a lead and holding on until their opponent was dead.

America’s lone survivors were Zach Johnson, Dustin Johnson and Jason Dufner, each earning a full point for the America team.  Tiger Woods earned a half point with a tie while Phil Mickelson deserved a better fate, having his match stolen with 2 bombs made by Justin Rose on 17 and 18.  Since the official PGA Tour season is over, the losing players have 2 options: pout or get motivated for the 2013 season.  Memories of the Meltdown at Medinah will either steer careers toward retirement or light a fuse in their hearts and souls.  Only God knows how this story will end, yet the drama that played out in the 2012 Ryder Cup was priceless!

by Jay Mankus

More Than A Book, 1 Peter 5:4

Few books are compared to a sword.  Nor are there many documents that are considered to be living and active.  According to the prophet Isaiah, “though the grass withers and flowers fall, the word of God stands forever,” Isaiah 40:8.  Thus, the Bible is more than just a best selling book, it is a book for the ages.

Meanwhile, the Psalmist writes about the Bible’s ability to provide direction, guidance and light for life’s steps in Psalm 119.  Moses refers to God’s commands, decrees and laws as life in Deuteronomy 30.  The apostle Paul took this one step further proclaiming faith comes from hearing and reading the word of God, Romans 10:17.

Recently, it seems like someone is condemned, criticized or demonized weekly because they actually quoted the Bible.  If the media wants interviewees to be honest and open, they shouldn’t be shocked by their heart felt responses.  Therefore, if the word of God offends you, it is suppose to according to Hebrews 4:12.  Until the truth sets us free, we won’t become the man or woman God wants us to be.  Open the Bible for yourself and you’ll see that this is more than a book.

by Jay Mankus

Why Bad Things Happen

Whenever something bad happens to good people, there will always be questions, grasping to make sense of why this or that occurred.  According to C.S. Lewis, there are only 2 rationale views to explain these questions, Christianity and dualism.  The Christian view is based upon Galatians 5:16-18, where the sinful nature wages war against the Holy Spirit, tempting humans through their flesh toward evil as the Spirit draws individuals back toward goodness and the fruits of the Holy Spirit, Galatians 5:25.

The secular worldview often clings to dualism.  Dualism believes there are 2 independent and equal powers behind every act, allowing good and bad things to occur.  These 2 forces have been in conflict with one another and always have been.  The only weakness of dualism according to C.S. Lewis is there needs to be a third party, a judge to decipher which power was the source behind a specific event.

Despite these 2 major theories, the Bible contains several people who have attempted to solve this question.  Leviticus 26 and Deuteronomy 28 suggest good and evil are simply a byproduct of obedience or disobedience.  Exodus 20:4-6 infers that good and evil are directly proportional to generational blessings and curses.  Job’s 3 friends believed his trials were a direct result of punishment from God due to a sin or sins he committed.  Meanwhile, even Jesus’ own disciples in John 9:1-5 believed God allowed a child to be born blind for something his mother and or father had done during the pregnancy.

The reality of this quest to understand why bad things happen to good people is you will never completely solve every situation.  God might provide insight in a few days, weeks, months or years after a trial, yet not every answer will be revealed to you while on earth.  As I continue to seek clues about circumstances in my own life, all I know is the truth behind Ecclesiastes 3:11.  Regardless of what happens, “God will make everything beautiful in His time!”

by Jay Mankus

Spiritual Bullies

The term bully has various meanings surrounded by one key word, intimidate.  Bully’s often browbeat, harass, frighten, oppress, persecute, torment and terrorize people.  Their ultimate goal is to control others whom they deem to be weaker like the carp in the caption above.

A spiritual bully uses laws, teetotalism and theology to control people from questioning their authority.  Instead of  exploiting physical dominance over individuals, spiritual bullies verbally assault their victims with dogma, keeping them in check with threats of excommunication like the Pharisees in John 9:13-34.  In some cases, they might force you to choose sides, placing friend against friend or family member against relative.

At the beginning of John 9, a man born blind from birth is miraculously healed by Jesus.  If the word about Jesus got out, Pharisees feared that they might lose Jewish followers or worse yet, power to his sect.  Therefore, the Pharisees begin to interrogate this healed man and his parents, threatening to expel them from the local synagogue if they publicly confirm their son’s testimony.

Jesus was an expert at putting spiritual bullies in their place, John 9:35-41.  I guess if you are God and you know people’s hearts, its easy.  Nonetheless, Jesus exposed them for who they were, stubborn and spiritually blind, guilty of sin and judgment.  If you encounter someone who fits this description, pray for insight, meditate on Jesus’ words in John 9 and ask the Holy Spirit to give you a spirit of boldness, Acts 4:29.

by Jay Mankus

High Expectations

As a former perfectionist, make that reformed perfectionist, God has always given me a desire to reach my full potential.  However, if you set your standards too high, you take the risk of being disappointed.  While misery is a harsh reality if high expectations are not met, I’d rather take a chance aiming for greatness over being complacent with mediocrity.

Like the classic Frank Sinatra song High Hopes, I see just the opposite happening in our country, the U.S. of A.  The mindset of high expectations, to live the America Dream, is being replaced by I hope the bank doesn’t foreclose on my home.  The pie in the sky mentality, retire when I am 50 has turned into working until you die.  As the price of electricity, gas, food and health care skyrockets to new heights, staying optimistic is a losing battle.

While lamenting, God has brought Romans 8:37-39 to my attention.  Despite the circumstances which surround this nation, we are more than conquerors through Christ who loved us.  Nothing on earth can separate us from the love of God, verse 39.  Therefore, shoot for the stars, if you miss the moonlight will draw you back to home, Psalm 119:105.

by Jay Mankus

Out of Place

Since the preseason began in August, the National Football League locked out their regular officials due to a labor dispute.  Thinking these officials could be replaced, the NFL gathered a collection of referees from high school, division 3 college and the lingerie football league.  If you ever watched Sesame Place as a child, one of these things is not like the other; it is simply out of place.

As opening night approached, the commissioner Roger  Goodell, insured fans that these replacements would improve gradually without hurting the integrity of the game.  Except for week 1 of the regular season, the officiating worsened with each game, making it nearly impossible to watch a game from start to finish without talking to yourself, throwing something at your television or complaining after each bad call.  Unfortunately, the officials stuck out like a sore thumb, a pack of zebras at the mall or a toucan flying around in your backyard.

On Monday night, early Tuesday morning on the East Coast, this lockout came to a climax.  On a play now known as the Failed Mary, one official overruled the guy next to him, clearing missing the interception which would have one the game for the Green Bay Packers over Seattle.  Instead, the replacement officials gave Golden Tate a touchdown on this play, sparking  a firestorm of controversy which will likely allow the old officials to return soon.

In our politically correct culture, its hard to speak your mind, tell the truth or vocalize what you believe.  Several NFL coaches learned this lesson, receiving fines from the commissioner’s office.  Whether people like your worldview or not, certain things or absolutely true and others are false, John 18:23.  However, television talk shows have enabled opinions to become equal to or even greater than certain facts.  When the truth becomes out of place, its a clear sign that our society is on the verge of collapsing.  Like the classic Asia song, Only Time Will Time.

by Jay Mankus

Divine Revelation; Not Human Intuition

On Saturday morning, I had about a 30 minute conversation with a parent who read an online article.  Obviously, I was out of the loop since I had not heard about any of the details he mentioned.  Later on in the evening, I talked to a woman who had a daughter at the school referenced in this piece.  When I followed the 1 Thessalonians 5:21-22 principle to get to the truth of this matter, I realized I should rely on divine revelation; not human intuition.

Unfortunately, too many people believe what they see on the news or hear from people they trust.  The busyness of life, hectic pace of society and local distractions have led most people to become lazy, not testing the information they encounter.  Therefore, half truths and opinions have replaced facts as reality, like an oasis of lies in the desert.

According to Romans 10:17, faith comes from hearing the message, which is Christ, the word of God.  The more people can set time aside to withdraw to a secluded place like Jesus in Luke 4:42, they can develop an intimate relationship with God.  When you add worship to your weekly schedule, Romans 12:1, divine revelation can break through in the form of a message, sense of peace or a rhema, a word from the Lord in your heart.  Slow down today, find a quiet place and listen to the word of the Lord so that you will know God’s will for your life, Romans 12:2.

by Jay Mankus

Victim or Victory?

Victimization has been present since life began in Genesis 1.  King Solomon confirms this by his statement in Ecclesiastes 1:9, “There is nothing new under the sun.”  Blaming circumstances for failures or mistakes instead of taking personal responsibility for your actions has been a way of life since Genesis 3 when life began in the Garden of Eden.

Eve was the first to rationalize her lack of obedience by saying the devil made her do it, Genesis 3:13.  Meanwhile, Adam had the gall to blame God for his failure to follow God’s only law, “the woman you put here corrupted me”, Genesis 3:12.  Unfortunately, this pattern continues today as people deflect attention to a scapegoat or group of people, passing the buck and blame like modern politicians.  Has society embraced the role of playing the victim or are there a few people remaining who have the perseverance to be victorious in life?

In 2 Corinthians 12:7, the apostle Paul reveals a secret scar from his life.  According to Romans 7,  this spiritual wart appears to be similar to an addiction, bad habit or an area of Paul’s life that he lost control of, Romans 7:15.  Instead of being content with being a victim of his own flesh, Paul fights through this condition like an athlete training for a race, 1 Corinthians 9:27.  Victory is not found in an actual contest, but through a spiritual state of mind, Romans 7:24-25.  Therefore, if you are like Paul, needing to be set free from a harmful craving of your flesh, look up to Jesus who has the power to rescue you from your situation, 2 Peter 1:3-4, giving you everything you need in life in the form of the Holy Spirit!

by Jay Mankus

Prop Me Up Lord

I was tempted to name today’s blog “Beam me up Scotty” after a line from the television series Star Trek.  Instead, I resisted this urge by focusing on my real intention, being propped up by God, Exodus 17:11-13.  The picture above is a rock formation from a cave in Virginia often used as a prop to hold yourself up during the hour long Skyline Caverns tour.  Personally, when I’ve grown tired  of the ups and downs life throws at you, I often lose my way.

In the exploratory stage of my faith journey, God used a high school sharing group to prop me up like Moses in Exodus 17.  As I began to listen to the struggles other people my own age were having, God showed me the importance of leaning on one another.  This biblical principle is clearly demonstrated by Solomon’s words in Ecclesiastes 4:1o, two people are better than one.  While reflecting on my nearly 30 years of learning how to follow Christ, God has provided countless people to prop me up spiritually in times of need.

When you fall publicly, God reveals to you who your true friends are in life.  Acts of kindness, generosity and shepherding help you get back on your feet, dust yourself off and provide a sense of hope for the future.  Although I still feel like a webble wobble, the Lord has sent me people like Brad, Spencer and Jon to prop me back up so I don’t fall over the pit of despair.  Look around today to see who the Lord can use you to help prop up with the Lord’s strength, 2 Corinthians 12:7-10.

by Jay Mankus