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The Message Behind the Music-March 12

Inspiration Behind the House That Built Me:

The House That Built Me was conceived from personal experiences by Miranda Lambert and Allen Shamblin. This song was co-written by Tom Douglas and Allen Shamblin. These childhood memories combined with Lambert’s emotional response to the completed lyrics led Miranda to record this song for herself.

Biblical Application:

The proverbs of Solomon son of David, king of Israel: for gaining wisdom and instruction; for understanding words of insight; for receiving instruction in prudent behavior, doing what is right and just and fair;for giving prudence to those who are simple,[a] knowledge and discretion to the young—let the wise listen and add to their learning, and let the discerning get guidance—for understanding proverbs and parables, the sayings and riddles of the wise.[b] The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, but fools[c] despise wisdom and instruction, Proverbs 1:1-7.

Exegesis of the House That Built Me:

I know they say you can’t go home again
I just had to come back one last time
Ma’am, I know you don’t know me from Adam
But these hand prints on the front steps are mine

Adults sometimes want to revisit their childhood by going back to where they grew up. Miranda wanted to walk through the house she grew up in one last time.

Up those stairs in that little back bedroom
Is where I did my homework and I learned to play guitar
And I bet you didn’t know under that live oak
My favourite dog is buried in the yard

With each step, memories flowed from her mind. Especially the tree where her favorite dog was buried.

I thought if I could touch this place or feel it
This brokenness inside me might start healing
Out here, it’s like I’m someone else
I thought that maybe I could find myself

These memories weren’t all positive. This home was associated with pain and suffering. Miranda thought that returning one more time would bring healing.

If I could just come in, I swear I’ll leave
Won’t take nothin’ but a memory
From the house that built me

The time spent living in this house helped shape who Miranda has become as an adult.

Momma cut out pictures of houses for years
From better homes and garden magazine
Plans were drawn and concrete poured
Nail by nail and board by board
Daddy gave life to momma’s dream

Although her parents didn’t have much, they did the best that they could.

I thought if I could touch this place or feel it
This brokenness inside me might start healing
Out here, it’s like I’m someone else
I thought that maybe I could find myself

Going back in time doesn’t always help. Brokenness takes time to heal, often longer than you expect.

If I could just come in, I swear I’ll leave
Won’t take nothin’ but a memory
From the house that built me

Miranda begs the current owners for one last chance to walk back in time.

You leave home, you move on
And you do the best you can
I got lost in this whole world
And forgot who I am

Miranda got so caught up in her busy schedule that she lost her way, forgetting who she was.

I thought if I could touch this place or feel it
This brokenness inside me might start healing
Out here, it’s like I’m someone else
I thought that maybe I could find myself

This visit didn’t produce the outcome that Miranda was hoping for.

If I could walk around, I swear I’ll leave
Won’t take nothin’ but a memory
From the house that built me

If these walls could speak, they would share the life lessons Miranda learned while growing up in this house.

Final Thoughts:

As an adult, I still have a photographic memory, able to recall fond memories. Growing up in New Jersey, I can remember my first homerun in baseball and being laughed out for not being able to read out loud in first grade due to severe stuttering. These are past events that helped shape me as an adult. The tougher the pain, the greater the opportunity for personal growth. These are the events that build and shape human beings.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-March 7

Inspiration Behind Can’t Live Without:

This song was inspired by Hollyn’s search for divine love. Unfortunately, this invisible force comes and goes like the wind. As Hollyn struggles to find clarity and direction in life, she realizes that she can’t live without God. Despite being a contestant on American Idol season 12, Hollyn has remained grounded in her faith as she searches for a spiritual connection with God.

Biblical Application:

“I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener. He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit he prunes[a] so that it will be even more fruitful. You are already clean because of the word I have spoken to you. Remain in me, as I also remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me, John 15:1-4.

Exegesis of Can’t Live Without:

California drivin’ had to get out
Distance got me wonderin’ where you are right now
One-way conversations got me worn down
Pouring out my heart wish you would speak a sound

Hollyn appears to reach a breaking point due to the traffic in California. Hollyn feels lost without a nearby support group or family. The people she does see on a regular basis are so self-absorbed that she is ready for a change. These are the circumstances which led her to reach out to God for help.

I don’t know what I’m after
I don’t know what I’m doin’-doin’
I don’t know what I’m after
All I know is I’m lost
I don’t know what I’m after
I don’t know what I’m doin’-doin’
I don’t know what I’m after
All I know is I’m lost

Hollyn’s is searching for clarity, direction and vision for her future. Everything that Hollyn is currently doing seems pointless, losing her way in life.

Without your love
There’s no point in even wakin’ up
No, no, no, no
Without your love
Nothing’s ever gonna be enough
No, no, no, no, no, no
I can’t, I can’t get you outta my head
And I don’t, I don’t wanna ever forget
You give me what the world could never give
I can’t live without your love

What Hollyn realizes is that she is lost without the love of God. Hollyn is experiencing a void in her life, something that she tried to fill with earthly pleasures, but nothing satisfied her spiritual longing.

I can’t live without your love
I can’t live without your-

Perhaps Hollyn is referencing the words of one of Jesus; disciples in 2 Peter 1:3-4. Missing the presence of the Holy Spirit.

Starin’ at the ceiling after midnight
Over-thinkin’ everything in my whole life
All of these regrets are clouding my mind
Lord, I need the strength to try it one more time

Hollyn appears to be overanalyzing her day. Instead of focusing on the positive, she is beating herself up internally, filled with regret. During these sleepless nights, she is asking God for help in prayer.

‘Cause now I know what I’m after
Now I know what I’m doin’-doin’
Now I know what I’m after
Now I know that I’m lost
Now I know what I’m after
Now I know what I’m doin’-doin’
Now I know what I’m after
Now I know that I’m lost

This plea for God’s help has cleared her mind. Now Hollyn is back on the right track after experiencing her own prodigal daughter journey.

Without your love
There’s no point in even wakin’ up
No, no, no, no
Without your love
Nothing’s ever gonna be enough
No, no, no, no, no, no
I can’t, I can’t get you outta my head
And I don’t, I don’t wanna ever forget
You give me what the world could never give
I can’t live without your love

Hollyn can sense the difference in her life when God is a priority and when other things become more important in life.

I can’t live without your love
I can’t live without your-

Hollyn’s life is empty without a personal relationship with God.

Some people gotta lose it all
To find out what they really want
Some people gotta lose it all
To find out what they really want
What I want is you

Like the prodigal son who squandered all of his inherited wealth, you have to rock bottom until you realize what you really want in life.

Some people gotta lose it all (what I want is you)
Some people gotta lose it all (what I want is you)
Some people gotta lose it all (what I want is you)
Some people gotta lose it all (what I want is you)
What I want is you
What I want is you
I can’t live without your-
What I want is you
I can’t live without your-
Can’t live without it

When your family and friends are no longer close, God is still there. Hollyn had to learn this life lesson the hard way.

Final Thoughts:

Can’t Live Without is Hollyn’s redemption story. Life is filled with countless distractions that led individuals down the highway to hell. Yet, when you come to your senses, no longer under the chains of addiction or depression, restoration is made possible. This is what Hollyn discovered on her spiritual journey.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-March 6

Inspiration Behind All Around You:

Back in the days when My Space was one of the top social media platforms, Lacey Sturm sent out a poll to her followers. This question asked who they would like to meet the most in life? The number one response was surprisingly God. Subsequently, Lacey wrote a song to capture the feeling of God’s omnipresence on earth. All Around Me highlights how meeting God in person would become a transformational event.

Biblical Application:

Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed. 36 Simon and his companions went to look for him, 37 and when they found him, they exclaimed: “Everyone is looking for you!” 38 Jesus replied, “Let us go somewhere else—to the nearby villages—so I can preach there also. That is why I have come.” 39 So he traveled throughout Galilee, preaching in their synagogues and driving out demons, Mark 1:35-39.

Exegesis of All Around Me:

My hands are searching for you
My arms are outstretched towards you
I feel you on my fingertips
My tongue dances behind my lips for you
This fire runs in through my being
Burning, I’m not used to seeing you

Lacey appears to begin her search for God in prayer. Although she doesn’t seem to be on her knees, Lacey is reaching out to the heavens, hoping to be touched by God. The lyrics at the end of this opening stanza expresses Lacey’s hunger and passion to meet God.

I’m still alive
I’m still alive

Either Lacey is talking about being alive or God declares that He is alive.

I can feel you all around me
Thickening the air I’m breathing
Holding on to all I’m feeling
Savoring this heart that’s healing

Lacey reveals the reason for this search for God, to heal her heart from a painful event in the past.

My hands float up above me
And you whisper you love me
And I begin to fade
Into our secret place
The music makes me sway
The angels singing say
“We are alone with you”
I am alone and they are too with you

Lacey reveals a spiritual encounter with God. After hearing a small still voice, a chorus of angels enter with a message of assurance that God’s presence is all around Lacey.

I’m still alive
I’m still alive
We’re still alive

Lacey, God and the angels are alive and well.

And I can feel you all around me
Thickening the air I’m breathing
Holding on to what I’m feeling
Savoring this heart that’s healing

Lacey can know feel and sense God’s presence after her encounter with an invisible God.

So I cry, holy
The light is white, holy
And I see you, holy

Lacey is overwhelmed with joy.

I’m alive
I’m still alive
We’re still alive

Excited to know the angels and God are all around her.

And I can feel you all around me
Thickening the air I’m breathing
Holding on to all I’m feeling
Savoring this heart that’s healing

Lacey is starting to experience a spiritual transformation as her heart is healing.

Take my hand, I give it to you
Now you own me all I am
You said you would never leave me
I believe you, I believe

Lacey is now placing her faith and trust in God.

I can feel you all around me
Thickening the air I’m breathing
Holding on to all I’m feeling
Savoring this heart that’s healed

Lacey believes that God will heal her heart and continue to watch over her life.

Final Thoughts:

My high school swim coach gave me an extra ticket to hear professional athletes from Philadelphia share about their faith. Like Lacey’s encounter with God, I was waiting to hear something earth shattering. Unfortunately, no one moved my soul until a man rolled up to the microphone in a wheelchair. After initially thinking, “what can this man share with me,” I began to be filled with the same burning passion that consumed Lacey. Skip spoke with a maturity that was foreign to me. Despite losing thousands of full scholarships to college following a water-skiing accident in high school, Skip had something inside of him that was missing from my life. Subsequently, before this night was over, I had my first encounter with God, asking Jesus to come into my heart. This is my testimony that God is all around me.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-March 5

Inspiration Behind Material Girl:

Madonna’s Material Girl was inspired by the rapid spread of materialism in the 1980’s. Although Madonna possessed an internal desire for luxury and wealth, she addresses the superficial nature of people giving expensive gifts for something in return. After graduating from high school in Rochester, Michigan, Madonna moved to New York City to follow her dreams. The success of Material Girl propelled Madonna to become a legendary female singer.

Biblical Application:

Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral. Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you,” Hebrews 13:4-5.

Exegesis of Material Girl:

Some boys kiss me, some boys hug me
I think they’re okay
If they don’t give me proper credit
I just walk away

Madonna doesn’t mind attention from the opposite sex. However, when she doesn’t receive a certain level of respect, she simply walks away.

They can beg and they can plead
But they can’t see the light, that’s right, that’s right
‘Cause the boy with the cold hard cash
Is always Mister Right

Madonna isn’t bothered by flattery or gifts. Yet someone with financial stability in his bank account is what Madonna is searching for.

‘Cause we are living in a material world
And I am a material girl
You know that we are living in a material world
And I am a material girl

Living in New York City as an aspiring singer wasn’t easy for Madonna. Subsequently, she became a material girl living in a world full of materialism.

Some boys romance, some boys slow dance
That’s alright with me
If they can’t raise my interest then I
Have to let them be

Madonna enjoys dancing and romance. However, the guy she is looking for must be impressive or else she’ll lose interest quickly.

Some boys try and some boys lie but
I don’t let them play, no way, no way
Only boys that save their pennies
Make my rainy day

Madonna doesn’t have any patience for liars and players. She is looking for prudent and shrewd individuals who possess a vision for the future.

‘Cause they are living in a material world
And I am a material girl
You know that we are living in a material world
And I am a material girl

Madonna had an intuition that material possessions would continue to climb in value, making this lifestyle hard to sustain.

Living in a material world
(Material)
Living in a material world
Living in a material world
(Material)
Living in a material world

This chorus drives home the foresight of being financially responsible.

Boys may come and boys may go
And that’s alright you see
Experience has made me rich
And now they’re after me

Life experiences have made Madonna popular and wealthy.

‘Cause everybody’s living in a material world
And I am a material girl
You know that we are living in a material world
And I am a material girl

This journey as a material girl elevated Madonna into the category of rich and famous.

Living in a material world
And I am a material girl
You know that we are living in a material world
And I am a material girl

Perhaps this repetitive chorus is meant to reinforce Madonna rise in pop culture.

A material, a material
A material, a material world

Once you reach this status of a material girl, the world expects you to stay here.

Living in a material world
(Material)
Living in a material world
Living in a material world
(Material)
Living in a material world

This became Madonna’s mindset.

Living in a material world
(Material)
Living in a material world
Living in a material world
(Material)
Living in a material world

Fame and fortune changed Madonna.

Final Thoughts:

As I entered high school, Madonna was seeking to become to next great female singer. Along the way to the top, Madonna continued to push the envelope in her lyrics and music videos. By the time I graduated from college, Madonna had gone off the deep end, losing touch with the Catholic girl growing up in Michigan. God gives human beings free will to do and live as they choose. Maybe, God willing, this prodigal daughter will come to her senses at some time before her singing career ends. As for now, Madonna has become the material girl from this song.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-March 1: Celebrating Woman’s History Month by featuring Female Bands and Vocalists

Inspiration Behind Girls Just Want to Have Fun:

In a documentary entitled “Let the Canary Sing,” Cyndi Lauper initially rejected a request from her producer to sing Girl’s Just Want to Have Fun. This song was too masculine in its original version. Subsequently, Lauper refused to perform this song as is, leaning on her team of musicians to alter Girls Just Want to Have Fun. After recording a demo, Cyndi still wasn’t happy as she felt this song was missing something. Once Lauper realized this song’s arrangement could be made unique, she used her voice to hit different keys to take on a totally different sound. This alteration enabled Cyndi Lauper to become who she really is as a singer.

Biblical Application:

A person can do nothing better than to eat and drink and find satisfaction in their own toil. This too, I see, is from the hand of God, 25 for without him, who can eat or find enjoyment? – Ecclesiastes 2:24-25

Exegesis of Girls Just Want to Have Fun:

I come home, in the mornin’ light
My mother says, “When you gonna live your life right?”
Oh momma dear, we’re not the fortunate ones
And girls, they wanna have fun
Oh girls just wanna have fun

Cyndi was fighting the stereotypes of woman back in the 1980’s. There was a time in America where woman were expected to get married, have children and stay home to raise them. This is the mindset her mother was coming from. However, Cyndi was simply looking for a good time each day.

The phone rings, in the middle of the night
My father yells, “What you gonna do with your life?”
Oh daddy dear, you know you’re still number one
But girls, they wanna have fun
Oh girls just wanna have

Cyndi’s father shared at similar worldview of the role of women in society. Cyndi still loves and respects her father, but she isn’t afraid to express what she is feeling.

That’s all they really want
Some fun
When the workin’ day is done
Oh girls, they wanna have fun
Oh girls just wanna have fun (girls, they want)
(Wanna have fun, girls)
(Wanna have)

Following societal expectations for women may be fine for most, but Cyndi was a rebel, wanting to unwind after work. Spending time in some form of recreation helps renew your soul.

Some boys take a beautiful girl
And hide her away from the rest o’ the world
I wanna be the one to walk in the sun
Oh girls, they wanna have fun
Oh girls just wanna have

Cyndi doesn’t want to spend most of her life at home in a kitchen. She enjoys being outside, doing something fun in the sun.

That’s all they really want
Is some fun
When the workin’ day is done
Oh girls, they wanna have fun
Oh girls just wanna have fun (girls, they want)
(Wanna have fun, girls)
(Wanna have)

Cyndi is attempting to vocalize what many women think but are afraid to verbalize it.

They just want, they just wanna (girls)
They just want, they just wanna (girls just wanna have fun)
Oh girls, girls just wanna have fun
(Just want, they just wanna)
They just wanna, they just wanna (girls)
They just want, they just wanna (girls just wanna have fun)
Oh girls, girls just wanna have fun

The thought of working a typical 9-5 job bored Cyndi. She wanted to do something that would be fun and exciting. Cyndi was a visionary before social media existed.

When the workin’
When the workin’ day is done
Oh, when the workin’ day is done
Oh, girls, girls just wanna have fun
Everybody
Huh, huh

Going out to a bar or club dancing after worked seemed fun to Cyndi.

They just want, they just wanna (girls)
They just want, they just wanna (girls just wanna have fun)
Oh, girls, girls just wanna have fun
(They just wanna, they just wanna) when the workin’
When the working day is done (they just want, they just wanna)
Oh, when the working day is done (girls, girls just wanna have fun)
Oh girls, girls just wanna have fun

Women aren’t wired like men. Subsequently, what is fun for women may not be enjoyable for men.

(They just want, they just wanna)
(They just want, they just wanna)

Still, the girl inside of every woman just wants to have fun.

Final Thoughts:

My mother sacrificed the first 20 years of marriage raising 3 children, with me being the last. Once I reached high school, my mom began to excel in Real Estate. Meanwhile, she also could have been a professor bowler, averaging 165 per game bowling twice a week when the top women in the world were averaging 175 per game. Human beings make sacrifices throughout life to help family, friends and members of their community. However, when you find an occupation that you enjoy and excel in, you can have fun every day doing what you love.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-February 28

Inspiration Behind Whatever It Takes:

Lead singer Jason Wade leans on his own personal experiences from past relationships to write Whatever It Takes. Whether you’re still young or older, most people learn via trial and error, trying to avoid making the same mistakes in future relationships. Whatever It Takes provides hope to individuals searching for redemption, following the mantra to do whatever it takes to save a relationship.

Biblical Application:

Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. 30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. 32 Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you, Ephesians 4:29-32.

Exegesis of Whatever It Takes:

A strangled smile fell from your face
It kills me that I hurt you this way
The worst part is that I didn’t even know
Now, there’s a million reasons for you to go
But if you can find a reason to stay

Jason hurt someone special in his life. Perhaps Jason wasn’t mature enough at this time to realize what he was doing was wrong. Now he is scrambling, humble and begging for her to stay.

I’ll do whatever it takes to turn this around
I know what’s at stake, I know that I’ve let you down
And if you give me a chance, believe that I can change
I’ll keep us together whatever it takes

Jason is asking for a second chance, willing to do whatever it takes to save this relationship.

She said, “If we’re gonna make this work
You gotta let me inside even though it hurts
Don’t hide the broken parts that I need to see”
She said, “Like it or not, it’s the way it’s gotta be
You gotta love yourself if you can ever love me”

Jason was holding his feelings inside. She is asking Jason to become vulnerable. Jason appears to be struggling to forgive himself for something he did in the past. She realizes that Jason needs to learn to forgive himself before he can learn to love.

I’ll do whatever it takes to turn this around
I know what’s at stake, I know that I’ve let you down
And if you give me a chance and give me a break
I’ll keep us together, I know you deserve much better

Jason is willing to change. By learning to forgive and love himself, he’ll be better prepared to love others.

But remember the time I told you the way that I felt
That I’d be lost without you and never find myself
Let’s hold on to each other above everything else
Start over, start over

Jason wants to start over, to love each other like the beginning of their relationship.

I’ll do whatever it takes to turn this around
I know what’s at stake, I know that I’ve let you down
And if you give me a chance, believe that I can change
I’ll keep us together whatever it takes

Jason doesn’t what this to end like previous relationships. He is all in, eager to do whatever it takes if given a second chance.

Final Thoughts:

There is an apathy that exists in current relationships with few individuals willing to go the extra mile to save a relationship on the rocks. However, when people become open to loving others like Jesus, you’ll be given a second chance to make love last this time. When you develop a whatever it takes mentality, marriages can survive and blossom today.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-February 25

Inspiration Behind We Belong Together:

Sometimes relationship end out of anger, bitterness or a lack of appreciation of the person you were with. As Mariah reflects upon previous relationships in her life, the value of a lost love is at the heart of We Belong Together. This songs creation was a collaboration between producers Jermaine Dupri, Manuel Seal and Johnta Austin who blended R & B together with pop elements.

Biblical Application:

“Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven. 38 Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you,” Luke 6:37-39.

Exegesis of We Belong Together:

Ooh, oh, ooh, oh
Sweet love, yeah

Based upon the opening of this video, Mariah is thinking about the sexual nature of love.

I didn’t mean it
When I said I didn’t love you, so
I should have held on tight
I never shoulda let you go

Mariah regrets breaking up with an old boyfriend, using this stanza as an apology.

I didn’t know nothing
I was stupid, I was foolish
I was lying to myself

Mariah was too immature to realize what she had in this former relationship.

I could not fathom that I would ever
Be without your love
Never imagined I’d be
Sitting here beside myself

Mariah took this relationship for granted, expecting that they would always be together.

Cause I didn’t know you
Cause I didn’t know me
But I thought I knew everything
I never felt

Mariah didn’t know what she was looking for in a man. Arrogant and unteachable at this time in life.

The feeling that I’m feeling
Now that I don’t hear your voice
Or have your touch and kiss your lips
Cause I don’t have a choice

Mariah is lonely, suffering from physical withdraw of not having him around to touch.

Oh, what I wouldn’t give
To have you lying by my side
Right here,? cause baby

Mariah is asking for a second chance, wishing she could go back in time to change past decisions.

When you left I lost a part of me
It’s still so hard to believe
Come back baby, please
Cause we belong together

Mariah is experiencing the pain of soul ties, lost intimacy with her old boyfriend.

Who else am I gon’ lean on
When times get rough?
Who’s gonna talk to me on the phone
Till the sun comes up?
Who’s gonna take your place?
There ain’t nobody better
Oh, baby baby, we belong together

Mariah feels lost without her former security blanket.

I can’t sleep at night
When you are on my mind
Bobby Womack’s on the radio
Saying to me

Special songs of this past relationship keep reminding Mariah of what she once had.

“If you think you’re lonely now”
Wait a minute
This is too deep
(Too deep)
I gotta change the station

Depression is leading Mariah to dwell too much on the past instead of looking forward to the future.

So I turn the dial
Trying to catch a break
And then I hear Babyface
“I only think of you”

Mariah can’t get her former love off her mind.

And it’s breaking my heart
I’m trying to keep it together
But I’m falling apart

Mariah is falling into a deep depression, unable to recover from this broken relationship.

I’m feeling all out of my element
I’m throwing things, crying
Trying to figure out
Where the hell I went wrong

Mariah is mad at yourself for breaking off this relationship as if to say,” what was I thinking?”

The pain reflected in this song
It ain’t even half of what
I’m feeling inside
I need you, need you back in my life, baby

Words can’t express how much I miss you.

When you left I lost a part of me
And it’s still so hard to believe
Come back baby, please
Cause we belong together

Lost intimacy is driving Mariah crazy, begging for a second chance.

Who else am I gon’ lean on
When times get rough?
Who’s gonna talk to me on the phone
Till the sun comes up?
Who’s gonna take your place?
There ain’t nobody better
Oh, baby baby, we belong together, baby

In Mariah’s mind, no one compares to her former love.

When you left I lost a part of me
It’s still so hard to believe
Come back baby, please
Cause we belong together

Life is not the same without you.

Who am I gonna lean on
When times get rough?
Who’s gonna talk to me
Till the sun comes up?
Who’s gonna take your place?
There ain’t nobody better
Oh baby, baby
We belong together

A final plea to come back.

Final Thoughts:

Love is often timing, meeting the right person at the right time when you are both single. Yet immaturity and pride can lead couples to separate. One thing missing from the lyrics is an apology. Mariah doesn’t ask for forgiveness. Perhaps, being a famous singer, telling someone that we belong together is enough. While forgiveness is a crucial step, forgiving and forgetting the pain that someone caused is even harder to overcome. Perhaps, this is the final hurdle for this couple to clear before being reunited.

by Jay M ankus

The Message Behind the Music-February 24

Inspiration Behind I’d Rather Love to See You Tonight:

Dan and John Ford Coley were searching for the featured song for their new album entitled Nights are Forever. At the time of this collaboration, there was a desire within one or both to rekindle ties with a former companion. The major forms of communication back in the 1970’s was either through a phone call or writing a letter. Opting to go with calling, this sets the tone for an icebreaker to ease any tensions about meeting. I’d Really Love to See You Tonight’s realistic tone gives individuals with similar desires hope that reconnecting with an old flame is possible.

Biblical Application:

“Have faith in God,” Jesus answered. 23 “Truly[f] I tell you, if anyone says to this mountain, ‘Go, throw yourself into the sea,’ and does not doubt in their heart but believes that what they say will happen, it will be done for them. 24 Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours. 25 And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive them, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins,” Mark 11:22-25.

Exegesis of I’d Really Love to See You Tonight:

Hello, yeah, it’s been a while
Not much, how about you?
I’m not sure why I called
I guess I really just wanted to talk to you

These brothers use a generic opener to start an awkward conversation. Since this woman was on one of their minds, a chance was taken to see if meeting is possible.

And I was thinking maybe later on
We could get together for a while
It’s been such a long time
And I really do miss your smile

There is an internal desire to open up lines of communication. Feelings from the past haven’t gone away with the image of her special smile in his mind.

I’m not talking ’bout moving in
And I don’t wanna change your life
But there’s a warm wind blowing the stars around
And I’d really love to see you tonight

He is not looking to get back together or alter her current life. He just wants to meet.

We could go walking through a windy park
Or take a drive along the beach
Or stay at home and watch TV
You see, it really doesn’t matter much to me

I don’t care what we do, but I’m willing to do whatever you are comfortable with.

I’m not talking ’bout moving in
And I don’t wanna change your life
But there’s a warm wind blowing the stars around
And I’d really love to see you tonight

Seeing you in person is all that I want right now.

I won’t ask for promises
So you don’t have to lie
We’ve both played that game before
Say I love you then say goodbye

Dan doesn’t want a fake relationship or follow the bad habits of their past.

I’m not talking ’bout moving in (I’m not talking)
And I don’t wanna change your life
But there’s a warm wind blowing the stars around
And I’d really love to see you tonight (really love to see you tonight)

Do you have enough warmth in your heart to see me tonight.

I’m not talking ’bout moving in (I’m not talking)
And I don’t wanna change your life
But there’s a warm wind blowing the stars around
And I’d really love to see you tonight (really love to see you tonight)

Repeating this chorus has a way of driving home his desire to meet, giving him a second chance at love.

I’m not talking ’bout moving in (I’m not talking)
And I don’t wanna change your life
But there’s a warm wind blowing the stars around
And I’d really love to see you tonight (really love to see)

Perhaps Dan is trying to wear this woman down so that she eventually decides to meet.

Final Thoughts:

I only dated the same person twice once in my life. Meanwhile, there were a few people that I got together with one more time before going our separate ways. Reliving the past is a sign that your present relationships aren’t satisfying. Instead of turning to your past for happiness, you’re probably looking for love in the wrong place. If you want a second chance at love, this begins with forgiving others and forgetting the pain a past relationship broght you. If you are searching to fill a void in your life or the hole of unhappiness in your heart, consider turning to Jesus like the example in Matthew 11:28-30.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-February 22: Week 4 Theme – Being Open to Forgiveness by Giving Love a Second Chance

Inspiration Behind Against All Odds:

The lyrics of Against All Odds were spawn from Phil Collins first divorce. Serving as a theme song for the movie Against All Odds, writing this song enabled Phil to get all of his emotions, frustrations and pain out in the open. Meanwhile, the film features an aging football star hired by a mobster to find his missing girlfriend. Whether you’re talking about recovering from a messy divorce or searching a missing person, Against All Odds symbolizes triumph over adversity.

Week 4 Theme:

The final portion of love is being open to forgiveness by giving others a second chance. Whenever you enter a relationship, you never know how it is going to turn out. Unfortunately, human nature will cause individuals to disappoint, hurt and let their significant other down. The songs for this final week of February encourage their partner to give them another shot at love.

Biblical Application:

The Lord said to me, “Go, show your love to your wife again, though she is loved by another man and is an adulteress. Love her as the Lord loves the Israelites, though they turn to other gods and love the sacred raisin cakes.” So I bought her for fifteen shekels[a] of silver and about a homer and a lethek[b] of barley. Then I told her, “You are to live with me many days; you must not be a prostitute or be intimate with any man, and I will behave the same way toward you,” Hoshea 3:1-3.

Exegesis of Against All Odds:

How can I just let you walk away,
Just let you leave without a trace?
When I stand here taking every breath with you, ooh ooh
You’re the only one who really knew me at all

Phil felt like he had to intervene, unwilling to let his wife walk away without a fight. Phil realized that his first wife is the only woman that he has ever been with that has truly known who he is.

How can you just walk away from me
When all I can do is watch you leave?
‘Cause we’ve shared the laughter and the pain
And even shared the tears
You’re the only one who really knew me at all

Phil sees how much he has poured into this marriage. They have shared too much together to abandon this relationship without trying to salvage it.

So take a look at me now
Well there’s just an empty space
And there’s nothing left here to remind me
Just the memory of your face
Ooh, Take a look at me now
Well there’s just an empty space
And you coming back to me is against the odds
And that’s what I’ve got to face,

Living without his wife has left a hole in his heart. Despite the odds for reconciliation, Phil is still not giving up hope on his marriage.

I wish I could just make you turn around
Turn around and see me cry
There’s so much I need to say to you
So many reasons why
You’re the only one who really knew me at all

Phil wants to express to his wife how much he misses her. He has never been vulnerable like this with any other woman.

So take a look at me now
Well there’s just an empty space
And there’s nothing left here to remind me
Just the memory of your face

All that now remains from his first marriage are the memories.

Now Take a look at me now
‘Cause that’s just an empty space
But to wait for you is all I can do
And that’s what I’ve got to face

Phil is waiting for her to change her mind.

Take a good look at me now
‘Cause I’ll still be standing here
And you coming back to me is against all odds
It’s the chance I’ve got to take
Take a look at me now

Phil is willing to wait on restoration, holding out hope against all odds to get back together.

Final Thoughts:

I was listening to a couple share their 42-year journey together a few weeks ago. At one point they decided to separate for a few years. each marrying another person. Yet each still possessed feelings for one another. Once they started going to church with their children. When God changed their hearts, reconciliation was made possible. The next time you sense your chances for saving a marriage are against all odds, turn to God in prayer so that the Holy Spirit can manufacture a miracle called forgiveness.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-February 21

Inspiration Behind I Do It For You:

The inspiration behind I Do It For You was an assignment to create a theme song for the film Robin Hood: Prince of Thieves. When Bryan Adams and producer Matt Lange understood the theme of this movie, I Do It For You was completed in 45 minutes. The song’s success was not embraced by Hollywood, wanting to use an instrumental piece similar to the era of this film. Although I Do It For You was finally accepted as the theme song, disgruntled movie producers buried the song credits, unaware it would become a massive hit.

Biblical Application:

Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. 13 Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 14 And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity, Colossians 3:12-14.

Exegesis of I Do It For You:

Look into my eyes
You will see
What you mean to me
Search your heart
Search your soul
And when you find me there
You’ll search no more

In the context of the film, Robin Hood: Prince of Thieves, Robin is talking to Marian. Robin’s eyes and body language demonstrated his love for Marian.

Don’t tell me it’s not worth tryin’ for
You can’t tell me it’s not worth dyin’ for
You know it’s true
Everything I do
I do it for you

Robin is fully committed to Marian, willing to die for his love.

Look into your heart
You will find
There’s nothin’ there to hide
Take me as I am
Take my life
I would give it all
I would sacrifice

Robin is seeking a fairy tale ending of a love story that ends with them together.

Don’t tell me it’s not worth fightin’ for
I can’t help it there’s nothin’ I want more
You know it’s true
Everything I do
I do it for you

Robin is smitten with love, willing to do whatever it takes to be with the woman he loves.

There’s no love
Like your love
And no other
Could give more love
There’s nowhere
Unless you’re there
All the time
All the way, yeah

Look into your heart, baby

Robin has never met anyone like Marian. She is the love of his life.

Oh you can’t tell me it’s not worth tryin’ for
I can’t help it there’s nothin’ I want more
Yeah, I would fight for you
I lie for you
Walk the wire for you
Yeah, I’d die for you

Robin would do anything necessary to be with Marian.

You know it’s true
Everything I do
Oh
I do it for you

You are my inspiration for living.

Everything I do, darling
Yeah we’ll see it through
Well we’ll see it though, oh yeah
Yeah!
Search your heart and your soul
You can’t tell me it ain’t worth dyin’ for

Whatever we have to endure, I will be with you until the end.

I’ll be there

I’d walk the fire for you
I’d die for you

I want to make you the happiest bride on earth.

Oh, yeah

All the time
I’m going all the way, all the way

Robin loves Marian with all his heart, soul and mind.

Final Thoughts:

I was a huge Bryan Adams fan in high school. The Summer of 69 was the first song I sang at a Karaoke Bar in college. Bryan’s sound led me to a Christian group from Canada called the Kry. The Kry’s song When You Die changed the course of my life late in college after watching a shocking music video attached to this song. Whenever you begin to emulate the words from the apostle Paul in Colossians 3:12-14, you’ll slowly become love in action like Robin’s character in Prince of Thieves.

by Jay Mankus