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The Message Behind the Music-March 29

Patti Labelle – New Attitude (1984)

Inspiration Behind New Attitude:

Patti Labelle was searching for a spark that would lead toward empowerment and personal transformation. This new outlook on life helped spawn the words to New Attitude. The lyrics of New Attitude conveys a journey of self-discovery and development of positive thinking. As minds change from I can’t toward a I can attitude, all things are in reach, God willing.

Biblical Application:

For this reason I remind you to fan into flame the gift of God, which is in you through the laying on of my hands. For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline, 2 Timothy 1:6-7.

Exegesis of New Attitude:

Runnin’ hot, runnin’ cold
I was runnin’ into overload
It was extreme, ex-ex-ex-ex-ex-extreme
I took it so high, so low
So low, there was nowhere to go
Like a bad dream

Patti highlights the emotional roller coaster that life can be. Sometimes when you feel like you’re stuck, either in a job or relationship that is going nowhere, you need to change this situation or your mindset.


Somehow the wires uncrossed, the tables were turned
Never knew I had such a lesson to learn
I’m feelin’ good from my head to my shoes
Know where I’m goin’ and I know what to do
I tidied up my point of view
I got a new attitude
I’m in control, my worries are few
‘Cause I’ve got love like I never knew
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
I got a new attitude

After waking up from a bad dream, Patti came to her senses. This pivotal moment completely transformed Patti’s life. This attitude focused on the positive aspects of life and minimized all of her previous concerns.


I’m wearing a new dress (New), new hair (New)
Brand new ideas, as a matter of fact I’ve changed for good
It must have been the cool night, new moon, new slight change
More than to figure, but I feel like I should, yes
Somehow the wires uncrossed, the tables were turned
Never knew I had such a lesson to learn

Instead of being stagnant, Patti is rejuvenated, walking around with confidence and a swagger. Rather than repeating the same mistake over and over again, Patti started learning from past failures.


I’m feelin’ good from my head to my shoes
Know where I’m goin’ and I know what to do
I tidied up my point of view
I got a new attitude
I’m in control, my worries are few
‘Cause I’ve got love like I never knew
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
I got a new attitude

Either Patti learned to love herself for who she is or a new relationship has elevated her attitude to new heights.


Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh… ooh…
Somehow the wires uncrossed, the tables were turned
Never knew I had such a lesson to learn
I’m feelin’ good from my head to my shoes
Know where I’m goin’ and I know what to do
I tidied up my point of view
I got a new attitude
I’m in control, my worries are few
‘Cause I’ve got love like I never knew
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
I got a new attitude

This repetitive chorus suggests that Patti’s new attitude has become a lifestyle.

Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
I got a new attitude
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
I got a new attitude
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
I got a new attitude
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (Mmm)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (Mmm, mmm)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh

Patti is experiencing joy in life and loving it.


I got a new attitude
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (From my head to my shoes)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (I got a new)
I got a new attitude (I got a new)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (New attitude)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (Everything about has changed)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (Baby)
I got a new attitude (I got a new)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (I got a new)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (Feelin’, feelin’)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (I feel it, I got a new attitude)

Patti is walking around with a bounce in her step.


I got a new attitude
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (Oh… ooh…)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
I got a new attitude (I got a new)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (Attitude)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (Said I got a new)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (New attitude)
I got a new attitude
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh

Sometimes all you need in life is a new attitude.

Final Thoughts:

For the first 15 years of my life, I was an emotional wreck. When I was happy, I could uplift everyone around me. When I was depressed, I made sure no one in my presence was having a good time. My new attitude came from asking Jesus to come into my life, Romans 10:9-11. While it took me years to straighten out parts of my life, I started listening to music with a positive message in college. This put my mind on the right track and slowly transformed me into the person that I have become. Although I’m far from perfect, I’m simply a work in progress, pursuing a positive attitude daily.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-March 27

Tina Turner – The Best (Official Music Video) [HD Upgrade]

Inspiration Behind The Best:

Simply the Best is rooted in a spirit of adoration, devotion and love. In recent years, March Madness, also known as the NCAA National Basketball Tournament, has adopted the Best to honor the eventual championship team. When two individuals who were meant to be together as a married couple, each are elevated to unparallel excellence once their joint qualities come together as one. Yet the Best also serves as a tribute to Tina’s success after emerging from a turbulent marriage and career struggles, she soared to global superstardom in her 40s. 

Biblical Application:

In reply Jesus said: “A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he was attacked by robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead. 31 A priest happened to be going down the same road, and when he saw the man, he passed by on the other side. 32 So too, a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. 33 But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him. 34 He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, brought him to an inn and took care of him. 35 The next day he took out two denarii[e] and gave them to the innkeeper. ‘Look after him,’ he said, ‘and when I return, I will reimburse you for any extra expense you may have,’ Luke 10:30-35.

Exegesis of the Best:

I call you when I need you, my heart’s on fire
You come to me, come to me, wild and wild
Oh, you come to me
Give me everything I need

Tina points to a friend who was always there when she needed them.

Give me a lifetime of promises and a world of dreams
Speak the language of love like you know what it means
Oh, and it can’t be wrong
Take my heart and make it strong, baby

Tina provides details inside of a former relationship, filled with love and promises.

You’re simply the best
Better than all the rest
Better than anyone
Anyone I ever met

The opening chorus serves as appreciation and gratitude for this individual.

I’m stuck on your heart
I hang on every word you say
Tear us apart
Baby, I would rather be dead

Tina is in love, hanging on every word of her partner.

In your heart, I see the start of every night and every day
In your eyes, I get lost, I get washed away

Tina is excited for every new day.

Just as long as I’m here in your arms
I could be in no better place

Tina finds comfort and security in the arms of her lover.

You’re simply the best
Better than all the rest
Better than anyone
Anyone I ever met

No one else compares to this man.

Ooh, I’m stuck on your heart
I hang on every word you say
Oh, tear us apart, no, no, no
Baby, I would rather be dead

Tina can’t imagine life without this man.

Each time you leave me, I start losing control
You’re walking away with my heart and my soul
I can feel you even when I’m alone
Oh baby, don’t let go
Oh, you’re the best, ooh
Better than all the rest
Better than anyone
Anyone I ever met

Tina misses every moment away from this man. Her life without him simply isn’t the same.

Oh, I’m stuck on your heart
I hang on every word you say
Oh, tear us apart, no, no
Baby, I would rather be dead

Oh, you’re the best!

In Tina’s eyes, no one compares to this man.

Final Thoughts:

Unfortunately, there is always someone more attractive, better, more talented and successful in life. The key to a long marriage is deciding at an early age, what is more important to you in life. Simply the best is in the eyes of the beholder. Internal qualities like compassion, integrity and servanthood are hard to find in one individual. When you figure out what you are looking for in a future soulmate, you’ll know when you meet this individual as long as you are patient and don’t settle for something less.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-March 26

Gladys Knight & The Pips – Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me (Audio)

Inspiration Behind Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me:

This song brings up gratitude and the impact that one individual can have on your life. Jim Weatherly was an all-American quarterback before transitioning to song writing. As the writer of Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me, Jim paints a picture of how a special person can completely transform your life. This is the emotional presentation that Gladys Knight makes in Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me.

Biblical Application:

How beautiful you are, my darling! Oh, how beautiful! Your eyes behind your veil are doves.
Your hair is like a flock of goats descending from the hills of Gilead. Your teeth are like a flock of sheep just shorn,
coming up from the washing. Each has its twin; not one of them is alone. Your lips are like a scarlet ribbon; your mouth is lovely. Your temples behind your veil are like the halves of a pomegranate, Song of Solomon 4:1-3.

Exegesis of Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me:

I’ve had my share of life’s ups and downs
But fate’s been kind, the downs have been few
I guess you could say that I’ve been lucky
Well, I guess you could say that it’s all because of you

The lyrics suggest that success in life takes time. However, a combination of fate and luck has led Gladys to this special person.

If anyone should ever write my life story
(For whatever reason) for whatever reason there might be
Ooh, you’ll be there between each line of pain and glory
‘Cause you’re the best thing (you’re the best thing that ever happened to me)
That ever happened to me (you’re the best thing that ever happened to me)
Ah, you’re the best thing that ever happened to me

This stanza reads like a Christian testimony. While there have been bumpy stretches along the way, a significant other came into her life at just the right time. Subsequently, Gladys realizes that this person is the best thing that has happened to her.

Oh, there have been times when times were hard
But always, somehow, I made it, I made it through
‘Cause for every moment that I’ve spent hurting
There was a moment that I spent, oh, just loving you, yeah

Unlike modern songs with unrealistic lyrics, life will bring you tough times along the journey called life. Through these moments of aches and pain, Gladys never stopped loving this man.

If anyone should ever write my life story
For, for whatever (for whatever reason) for whatever reason there might be
Oh, you’ll be there between each line of pain and glory
‘Cause you’re the best thing (you’re the best thing that ever happened to me)
That ever happened to me (you’re the best thing that ever happened to me)

This stanza points to appreciation and gratitude for having someone in her life to get Gladys through rocky patches. This leads to a spirit of thankfulness.

Oh, you’re the best thing (you’re the best thing that ever happened to me)
That ever happened to me (you’re the best thing that ever happened to me)
I know, you’re the best thing (you’re the best thing)
Oh, that ever happened to me
Yeah,

If couples could simply search for the good qualities in each other, they just might realize that their spouse is the best thing that has ever happened to them in life.

Final Thoughts:

When you reach my age, now closer to 60 than 50, you have time to reflect on your past. Special people have come and gone over the years, but my wife Leanne has stayed by my side through it all. This makes my wife and our children, the best thing that ever happened to me.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-March 20

Deana Carter – Strawberry Wine (Official Music Video)

Inspiration Behind Strawberry Wine:

The lyrics of Strawberry Wine reflect upon Matraca Berg’s childhood experience growing up on a farm in Wisconsin. Matraca and her aunts would sneak away each summer to drink strawberry wine. Deanna Carter then takes these memories using a metaphor to compare Strawberry Wine to their first relationship, falling in love. The lyrics of Strawberry Wine highlight a youthful innocence, the pursuit of love and nostalgia.

Biblical Application:

Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit, 19 speaking to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit. Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord, 20 always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, Ephesians 5:18-20.

Exegesis of Strawberry Wine:

He was workin’ through college
On my grandpa’s farm
I was thirstin’ for knowledge
And he had a car

Summertime was my favorite time of the year growing up. While out of school for three months, there is a sense of freedom which Deanna points to in this opening stanza.

Yeah, I was caught somewhere
Between a woman and a child
One restless summer
We found love growin’ wild
On the banks of the river
On a well beaten path
It’s funny how those memories they last

There is a mix between exploring the farm as the crops flourish and memories of her first love.

Like strawberry wine and seventeen
The hot July moon saw everything
My first taste of love
Whoa, bittersweet
Green on the vine
Like strawberry wine

This chorus provides a metaphor between tasting alcohol and love for the first time as a teenager.

And I still remember
When thirty was old
My biggest fear was September
When he had to go

The end of the summer was always tough to come to grasp with as the day after Labor Day is when students were forced to go back to school every fall.

A few cards and letters
And one long distance call
We drifted away
Like the leaves in the fall
But year after year
I come back to this place
Just to remember the taste

Despite whatever promises were made before the summer ended, this couple slowly drifted apart. Visiting this farm brought back a flood of memories.

Of strawberry wine and seventeen
The hot July moon saw everything
My first taste of love
Whoa, bittersweet
Green on the vine
Like strawberry wine

Childhood is a time of exploration. Sometimes when you are left alone, temptation leads to poor decisions.

The fields have grown over now
Years since they’ve seen a plow
There’s nothin’ time hasn’t touched
Is it really him
Or the loss of my innocence?
I’ve been missin’ so much
Yeah

The lack of farming suggests that the grandparents have passed away. With this property left in the family, visiting isn’t the same, but the memories still come back.

Strawberry wine and seventeen
The hot July moon saw everything
My first taste of love
Whoa, bittersweet
And green on the vine

Your first taste of alcohol and first kiss stick with you.

Like strawberry wine and seventeen
The hot July moon saw everything
My first taste of love
Oh, bittersweet
Green on the vine
Like strawberry wine

The repetition of the chorus suggests this song went a little longer than necessary,

Strawberry wine
(Oh, oh)
Strawberry wine

Flavored alcohol tends to be one of the first drinks teenagers try.

Final Thoughts:

As someone with a photographic memory, places I visit, and songs usually flood my mind with memories. I grew up in Delaware with some special friends like Jeanette and Stephen, spending many summer nights together. While we would push the envelope from time to time, doing things we knew that were wrong, we were kids learning from trial and error. This is part of growing up or as Michael W. Smith once sang about, Living and Learning.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-March 19

Gabby Barrett – I Hope (Lyrics)

Inspiration Behind I Hope:

Gabby Barret had a vision to create a song where genuine emotions are expressed. With the help of co-writers Zach Kale and Jon Nite as well as producer Ross Copperman, I Hope became a reality. The inspiration behind the lyrics stems from Gabby’s personal experiences in high school. Being cheated on for the first time left the bitter pill of betrayal inside of Gabby. This painful experience enabled Gabby to mature, wanting to highlight the positive in life with the title, I Hope. Yet the root of bitterness inside of Gabby’s heart provides an unexpected twist at the end, using hope in a negative context.

Biblical Application:

We who are strong ought to bear with the failings of the weak and not to please ourselves. Each of us should please our neighbors for their good, to build them up. For even Christ did not please himself but, as it is written: “The insults of those who insult you have fallen on me.”[a] For everything that was written in the past was written to teach us, so that through the endurance taught in the Scriptures and the encouragement they provide we might have hope, Romans 15:1-4.

Exegesis of I Hope:

Yeah, yeah
Ooh, oh
Oh, oh
Yeah

The opening melody is like taking a deep breath before an important speech.

I, I hope she makes you smile
The way you made me smile
On the other end of a phone
In the middle of a highway, driving alone

Gabby focuses on an ex-boyfriend, wanting his new girlfriend to feel like she did.

Oh, baby, I, I hope you hear a song
That makes you sing along
And gets you thinking ’bout her
Then the last several miles turns into a blur, yeah

Gabby sings about how music keeps you awake while driving. The longer you drive, there is a tendency to start losing your thoughts as being tired begins to blur everything together.

I hope you both feel the sparks by the end of the drive
I hope you know she’s the one by the end of the night
I hope you never ever felt more free
Tell your friends that you’re so happy
I hope she comes along and wrecks every one of your plans
I hope you spend your last dime to put a rock on her hand
I hope she’s wilder than your wildest dreams
She’s everything you’re ever gonna need

Gabby remains positive, hoping the best for her ex-boyfriend. She hopes that he isn’t afraid of commitment and is willing to become engaged and married.

And then I hope she cheats
Like you did on me
And then I hope she cheats
Like you did on me

This is where the root of bitterness inside of Gabby rears its ugly head.

Yeah, babe, I hope he shows up in a 2:00 a.m. pic from a friend
Hanging on to a girl to just rub it in
I hope you stay up all night, all alone, waiting by the phone
And then he calls

Gabby now turns her attention to her ex-boyfriend’s new girlfriend, wishing she endures the same pain he brought her.

And baby, I (I), I hope you work it out
Forgive and just about forget
Let him take you on a first date again
And when you lean in for a kiss

Gabby is now back for a positive spin, hoping for reconciliation.

I hope you both feel the sparks by the end of the drive
I hope you know he’s the one by the end of the night
I hope you never ever felt more free
Tell your friends that you’re so happy
I hope he comes along and wrecks every one of your plans
I hope he spends his last dime to put a rock on your hand
I hope he’s wilder than your wildest dreams
He’s everything you’re ever gonna need

this chorus serves as a hopeful prayer, wanting the best for these two.

And then I hope he cheats
Like you did on me
And then I hope he cheats
Like you did on me

Another twist, hoping for the worse, possibly fueled by resentment.

I hope what goes, comes all the way around
I hope she makes you feel the same way
About her that I feel about you right now

Another negative stanza, wishing for karma or as the Bible states, “you reap what you sow.”

I hope you both feel the sparks by the end of the drive
I hope you know she’s the one by the end of the night
I hope you never ever felt more free
Tell your friends that you’re so happy (oh-woah, oh, woah, woah)
I hope she comes along and wrecks every one of your plans
I hope you spend your last dime to put a rock on her hand
I hope she’s wilder than your wildest dreams
She’s everything you’re ever gonna need

Gabby is having a series of emotional sways, going back and forth between wishing the best, then the worst.

And then I hope she cheats
Like you did on me
And then I hope she cheats
Like you did on me

Perhaps Jon and Zach swayed Gabby to add this twist of fate halfway through, I Hope.

Like you did on me

One last zinger, wanting her ex-boyfriend’s new girlfriend to want to feel the same pain that Gabby endured.

Final Thoughts:

For as long as I can remember, I try to surround myself with positive people. While Gabby is pouring out her heart as she sings, I Hope, the negative spin on hope kills the good vibes of the opening of this song. As my former pastor often taught, “hurt people hurt other people.” When you allow the root of bitterness to poison your heart, you turn hope into hate.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-March 18

Carly Pearce – What He Didn’t Do (Official Music Video)

Inspiration Behind What He Didn’t Do:

The lyrics to What He Didn’t Do was spawn during the emotional journey of divorce that Carly Pearce experienced. Carly entered her marriage with musician Michael Ray having certain preconceived expectations that were never met. Subsequently, Carly devotes this entire song to how she and other women want to be loved and treated in a relationship.

Biblical Application:

ollow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God, Ephesians 5:1-2.

Exegesis of What He Didn’t Do:

Everybody’s asking what the hell happened
Wonderin’ why it all went wrong
Mama always said, “If you can’t say something nice
Then don’t say anything at all”

Carly isn’t the first woman to not have her expectations of marriage met. When asked, what really went wrong, Carly mentions things that Michael Ray didn’t do. This is how she skirted what her mom taught her about focusing on the positive aspects of human beings growing up.

And I’ve got my side of the story
And he’s got his side too
So I ain’t gonna go and tell you what he did
But I’ll tell you what he didn’t do

In marriage, no one is perfect. Subsequently, each side will make valid points to what went wrong. Yet Carly focuses on how she expected to be treated as a married woman.

Treat me right, put me first
Be a man of his word
Stay home ’cause he wanted to
Always fight for my love
Hold on tight like it’s somethin’
That he couldn’t stand to lose
The devil’s in the details
I won’t tell the hell that he put me through
All I know is in the end, it wasn’t what he did
No, it was what he didn’t do

This list is how Carly envisioned how a married woman should be treated.

I’m already halfway over him
And I ain’t takin’ time to turn around
So I’ma take the high road
Even though we both know
I could run him out of this town

Writing this song helped the healing process of divorce. Instead of looking back, Carly is ready to write a new chapter in her life. Instead of playing the blame game, Carly realizes that they are both musicians and didn’t want to ruin Michael’s future career. I’m assuming this town is Nashville, the major city for country music.

That’s just dirty laundry
I don’t need to air the truth
So I ain’t gonna tell you everything he did
But I’ll tell you what he didn’t do

Trying to take the high road, Carly seeks to let men know how she and other women expect to be treated.

Treat me right, put me first
Be a man of his word
Stay home ’cause he wanted to
Always fight for my love
Hold on tight like it’s somethin’
That he couldn’t stand to lose
The devil’s in the details
I won’t tell the hell that he put me through
All I know is in the end, it wasn’t what he did
No, it was what he didn’t do

I’m not sure if Carly and Michael went through premarital counseling, but if they did this list of expectations would have come out prior to their marriage. Knowing these expectations would have made entering into marriage a smoother transition.

I ain’t met the right one yet
But I know when I do

Looking back, Carly realizes that she hasn’t met Mr. Right yet.

He’ll treat me right, put me first
Be a man of his word
Stay home ’cause he wanted to
Always fight for my love
Hold on tight like it’s something
That he can’t stand to lose
The devil’s in the details
I won’t tell the hell that he put me through
All I know is in the end, it wasn’t what he did
No, it was what he didn’t do

If men don’t grow up in or are raised in a church, Carly’s expectations for marriage aren’t taught. Learning and studying the Bible helps prepare men how they should love and treat their wives.

And all I know is in the end, it wasn’t what he did
No, it was what he didn’t do

If Michael lived out the words of the apostle Paul in Ephesians 5:1-2, this marriage could have been saved.

Final Thoughts:

I grew up in a home like Carly’s as my mom only taught me, “if you don’t have anything nice to say, be quiet. This is the greatest lesson not being passed on from one generation to the next. Social media is providing avenues for adults and children to share their dirty laundry. The main problem today is that parents are setting bad examples for their children or simply live by the rule, “do what I say, not as I do.” Thia climate of love in America will continue to grow cold until a spiritual transformation occurs where love is lived out daily and is not just a word.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-March 17

Lainey Wilson – Heart Like A Truck (Official Music Video)

Inspiration Behind Heart Like a Truck:

Lainey Wilson grew up around strong confident women in Louisiana. Subsequently, when Lainey endured difficult and painful relationships, she had a support group to lean on. The advice passed down from these mentors influenced the lyrics to Heart Like a Truck. Despite being treated like dirt on occasion, Lainey fought through these moments to press on like a reliable truck.

Biblical Application:

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding;in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight, Proverbs 3:5-6.

Exegesis of Heart Like a Truck:

I never stay in one place too long
A dirt road’s singing me a siren song
I gotta find a field
I need to spin my wheels
I got a hankering for four wide tires
And I can’t help it, it’s the way I’m wired
‘Fore you get too close
Boy, you need to know

Lainey appears to enjoy being outside, horses and traveling. This is how Lainey is wired, afraid of getting hurt by men.

I got a heart like a truck
It’s been drug through the mud
Runs on dreams and gasoline
And that ole highway holds the key

Driving in a truck is a safe space for Lainey. As she drives in her truck, her mind begins to dream about different aspirations in life.

It’s got a lead foot down when it’s leaving
Lord knows it’s taken a hell of a beating
A little bit of love is all that it’s needing
But it’s good as it is tough
I got a heart like a truck

Lainey likes to drive fast, putting her truck through rigorous conditions. Yet by appreciating and raking care of her truck, it does what she needs it to do. This similar perseverance has grown in Lainey’s heart.

There ain’t no breaking when I throw it in drive
Don’t always keep it in between the lines
If you’re ready for a ride, pedal down state of mind
Boy, I tell you what
You better buckle up

Lainey enjoys living on the edge. She’s not your typical girl, warning any guy that enters her life to buckle up.

I got a heart like a truck
It’s been drug through the mud
Runs on dreams and gasoline
And that ole highway holds the key

Trials in life toughened up Lainey. She’s not afraid of what lies ahead in life, eager to find out what’s next.

It’s got a lead foot down when it’s leaving
Lord knows it’s taken a hell of a beating
A little bit of love is all that it’s needing
But it’s good as it is tough
I got a heart like a truck

Sometimes human beings take out their frustrations on their vehicles, blowing off steam. This is how Lainey likes to roll, fast and on the edge of losing control.

Go out and see if you can knock off the dust, yeah
Shine it up, rev it up and let it run, yeah
It gets a high riding off into the sun, yeah

Ride your truck hard, clean it afterwards and ride it again.

I got a heart like a truck
It’s been drug through the mud
Runs on dreams and gasoline
And that ole highway holds the key

Lainey has become a strong tough woman thanks to her female mentors.

It’s got a lead foot down when it’s leaving
Lord knows it’s taken a hell of a beating
A little bit of love is all that it’s needing
But it’s good as it is tough
I got a heart like a truck

Lainey likes to have a good time driving her truck on and off the road.

Go on and see if you can knock off the dust, yeah
Shine it up, rev it up and let it run, yeah
It gets a high riding off into the sun, yeah
It gets a high riding off into the sun

Keep on driving hard, take care of your vehicle and seize the moments that you have driving in the sun.

Final Thoughts:

I’ve driven over a million miles in my life, taking 2 vehicles close to 200,000 miles. However, when you live in the mountains, you have to watch out for fog, rain and high winds. While I don’t mind having an hour commute to work, I’d rather slow down, take a scenic drive and see what I discover around the next bend. As for human hearts, the more you endure at a younger age, the better prepared you will be when unexpected storms come crashing upon your shores. Trials lead to opportunities for growth, maturity and mental toughness like the song heart like a truck.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-March 16

Inspiration Behind Fancy:

Bobby Gentry was the original writer of the country song Fancy. However, when Reba McEntire performed her version of this song, Fancy became a household name. The lyrics tell the story of a poor mother’s last act of generosity to give her daughter Fancy a chance for success in the future. Fancy’s theme points to sacrifices made so made by parents so that their children might be able to realize the American dream.

Biblical Application:

Remember this: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously. Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver, 2 Corinthians 9:6-7.

Exegesis of Fancy:

Well, I remember it all very well looking back
It was the summer I turned 18
We lived in a one-room, rundown shack on the outskirts of New Orleans
We didn’t have money for food or rent
To say the least, we were hard-pressed
Then mama spent every last penny we had to buy me a dancing dress

A teenager girl remembers a special moment from her childhood. Fancy’s mom wanted her prom night to be special, saving everything she had to buy a dress.

Well, Mama washed and combed and curled my hair
Then she painted my eyes and lips (lips)
Then I stepped into a satin dancing dress
That had a split on the side clean up to my hip
It was red velvet trim and it had fit me good
Well, standing back from the looking glass
There stood a woman where a half-grown kid had stood

Fancy’s mom did everything in her power to make this evening the best night of her life.

She said, “Here’s your one chance, Fancy, don’t let me down”
She said, “Here’s your one chance, Fancy, don’t let me down”

Fancy;s mother wanted her girl to make her proud.

Mama dabbed a little bit of perfume on my neck
Then she kissed my cheek
And then I saw the tears welling up in her troubled eyes
As she started to speak
She looked at our pitiful shack
And then she looked at me and took a ragged breath
She said, “Your Pa’s runned off, and I’m real sick
And the baby’s gonna starve to death”

Fancy’s dad took off, her mom is about to die and her younger sibling doesn’t have enough income to eat.

She handed me a heart-shaped locket that said
“To thine own self be true”
And I shivered as I watched a roach crawl across
The toe of my high-heeled shoe
It sounded like somebody else that was talking
Asking Mama, “What do I do?”
She said, “Just be nice to the gentlemen, Fancy they’ll be nice to you”

Fancy’s mother provides advice for her date.

She said, “Here’s your one chance, Fancy, don’t let me down
Here’s your one chance, Fancy, don’t let me down
Lord, forgive me for what I do
But if you want out, well, it’s up to you
Now don’t let me down now
Your Mama’s gonna move you uptown”

This mom’s dying wish is to make her mama proud, to find a man who will provide her Fancy better than her husband.

Well, that was the last time I saw my Ma
The night I left that rickety shack
The welfare people came and took the baby
Mama died and I ain’t been back
But the wheels of fate had started to turn
And for me, there was no way out
It wasn’t very long until I knew exactly
What my Mama’d been talking about

Through this tragic event, Fancy began to realize what her mom was trying to say.

I knew what I had to do, and I made myself this solemn vow
That I was gonna be a lady someday
Though I didn’t know when or how
But I couldn’t see spending the rest of my life
With my head hung down in shame
You know, I might’ve been born just plain white trash
But Fancy was my name

Instead of feeling sorry for herself, Fancy decided to make something out of her life.

She said, “Here’s your one chance, Fancy, don’t let me down”
She said, “Here’s your one chance, Fancy, don’t let me down”

The memory of Mom’s word motivated Fancy to be successful in life.

It wasn’t long after a benevolent man took me in off the streets
And one week later, I was pouring his tea
In a five-room hotel suite (yes, she was)
I charmed a king, congressman and an occasional aristocrat
Then I got me a Georgia mansion
And an elegant New York townhouse flat
And I ain’t done bad (she ain’t done bad)

This positive mindset led to good fortune. Fancy’s drive to make her mother proud paid off.

Now in this world
There’s a lot of self-righteous hypocrites that call me bad (bad)
They criticize Mama for turning me out, no matter how little we had
But though I ain’t had to worry about nothing for nigh on 15 years
Well, I can still hear the desperation
In my poor Mama’s voice ringing in my ears

Despite reaching new heights, the elite don’t like Fancy’s elevated status. This doesn’t bother Fancy, holding true to what her mother taught her.

“Here’s your one chance, Fancy, don’t let me down
Oh, here’s your one chance, Fancy, don’t let me down
Lord, forgive me for what I do
But if you want out, well, it’s up to you
Now don’t let me down, hon’
Your Mama’s gonna move you uptown”
Oh, and I guess she did

When one or more parents believe in their children. girls like Fancy often end up living prosperous and successful lives. The support from mothers instill belief and confidence in their children.

Final Thoughts:

My father was an immigrant to America after World War II. Subsequently, my parents lived paycheck to paycheck when I was a child. My parents did the best that they could until my father relocated to Delaware. While my parents weren’t perfect, they did everything in their power to ensure that my 2 older sisters and I had a foundation for success in the future. Happiness isn’t about money. Happiness comes from doing and working in positions that you were designed by God to do.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-March 15

Inspiration Behind Because of You:

As a child, Kelly Clarkson witnessed her parents’ marriage fall apart, resulting in divorce. Kelly took this emotional turmoil and her pain, turning this into a song by age 16. David Hodges and Ben Moody took Kelly’s rough draft and fine-tuned Because of You’s sound and lyrics. Kelly’s desire was to avoid making the same mistakes as her parents, wanting to persevere her own marriage.

Biblical Application:

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[b] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself, Ephesians 5:25-28.

Exegesis of Because of You:

I will not make the same mistakes that you did
I will not let myself ’cause my heart so much misery
I will not break the way you did
You fell so hard
I’ve learned the hard way, to never let it get that far

Kelly developed a desire to not follow in her parents’ footsteps. She made it her ambition if she ever got married to never let a relationship spiral that far out of control.

Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side, so I don’t get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid

Because of your divorce, I try to stay out of trouble. Because of what I witnessed, I play it safe to avoid getting hurt. Unfortunately, Kelly struggled with trusting others due to her parents’ divorce.

I lose my way
And it’s not too long before you point it out
I cannot cry
Because I know that’s weakness in your eyes
I’m forced to fake a smile, a laugh
Every day of my life
My heart can’t possibly break
When it wasn’t even whole to start with

The atmosphere inside her childhood home was tough. Wrongdoing was pointed out immediately. Meanwhile, crying was not accepted, a sign of weakness. Kelly learned to be fake around her parents to avoid getting disciplined.

Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side, so I don’t get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid

This chorus points to what Kelly learned as a child to stay out of trouble. This also reveals the emotional scars from her childhood as well.

I watched you die (I watched you die)
I heard you cry
Every night in your sleep
I was so young (and you’re so young)
You should have known better (I was too young for you)
Than to lean on me

This marriage resulted in tears and dying inside. Kelly thinks her mom was too young for marriage, not mature enough to handle raising a child.

You never thought of anyone else
You just saw your pain (you never saw me)
And now I cry
In the middle of the night
For the same damn thing

Self-absorbed individuals can become consumed by their own pain that people around them go unnoticed. Kelly recalls nights crying herself to sleep.

Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don’t get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid

The side effects of growing up in a broken home are highlighted in this final chorus, creating fear within Kelly.

Because of you
Because of you

You either refers to Kelly’s mom or dad. This is how you affected my life.

Final Thoughts:

I once taught a high school Sunday school class. Every other week, the attendance was only a few students. By the end of my first month teaching, I realized that majority of my students were altering homes every other weekend. Despite being raised in a Christian home, the majority of my class grew up in broken homes, shattered by divorce. This is what happens when couples don’t possess to a will to love one another.

by Jay Mankus

The Message Behind the Music-March 12

Inspiration Behind the House That Built Me:

The House That Built Me was conceived from personal experiences by Miranda Lambert and Allen Shamblin. This song was co-written by Tom Douglas and Allen Shamblin. These childhood memories combined with Lambert’s emotional response to the completed lyrics led Miranda to record this song for herself.

Biblical Application:

The proverbs of Solomon son of David, king of Israel: for gaining wisdom and instruction; for understanding words of insight; for receiving instruction in prudent behavior, doing what is right and just and fair;for giving prudence to those who are simple,[a] knowledge and discretion to the young—let the wise listen and add to their learning, and let the discerning get guidance—for understanding proverbs and parables, the sayings and riddles of the wise.[b] The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, but fools[c] despise wisdom and instruction, Proverbs 1:1-7.

Exegesis of the House That Built Me:

I know they say you can’t go home again
I just had to come back one last time
Ma’am, I know you don’t know me from Adam
But these hand prints on the front steps are mine

Adults sometimes want to revisit their childhood by going back to where they grew up. Miranda wanted to walk through the house she grew up in one last time.

Up those stairs in that little back bedroom
Is where I did my homework and I learned to play guitar
And I bet you didn’t know under that live oak
My favourite dog is buried in the yard

With each step, memories flowed from her mind. Especially the tree where her favorite dog was buried.

I thought if I could touch this place or feel it
This brokenness inside me might start healing
Out here, it’s like I’m someone else
I thought that maybe I could find myself

These memories weren’t all positive. This home was associated with pain and suffering. Miranda thought that returning one more time would bring healing.

If I could just come in, I swear I’ll leave
Won’t take nothin’ but a memory
From the house that built me

The time spent living in this house helped shape who Miranda has become as an adult.

Momma cut out pictures of houses for years
From better homes and garden magazine
Plans were drawn and concrete poured
Nail by nail and board by board
Daddy gave life to momma’s dream

Although her parents didn’t have much, they did the best that they could.

I thought if I could touch this place or feel it
This brokenness inside me might start healing
Out here, it’s like I’m someone else
I thought that maybe I could find myself

Going back in time doesn’t always help. Brokenness takes time to heal, often longer than you expect.

If I could just come in, I swear I’ll leave
Won’t take nothin’ but a memory
From the house that built me

Miranda begs the current owners for one last chance to walk back in time.

You leave home, you move on
And you do the best you can
I got lost in this whole world
And forgot who I am

Miranda got so caught up in her busy schedule that she lost her way, forgetting who she was.

I thought if I could touch this place or feel it
This brokenness inside me might start healing
Out here, it’s like I’m someone else
I thought that maybe I could find myself

This visit didn’t produce the outcome that Miranda was hoping for.

If I could walk around, I swear I’ll leave
Won’t take nothin’ but a memory
From the house that built me

If these walls could speak, they would share the life lessons Miranda learned while growing up in this house.

Final Thoughts:

As an adult, I still have a photographic memory, able to recall fond memories. Growing up in New Jersey, I can remember my first homerun in baseball and being laughed out for not being able to read out loud in first grade due to severe stuttering. These are past events that helped shape me as an adult. The tougher the pain, the greater the opportunity for personal growth. These are the events that build and shape human beings.

by Jay Mankus