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Stop the Presses!

Large Stop Sign

Expressions vary by genre, with each generation and the geographical area where you reside.  Terms like wicked good probably doesn’t mean anything to you unless you live in New England.  Or if you lived in the mid-west, shopping for pop may be difficult until you realize I am referring to soda.  Thus, when I say stop the presses, what I really mean is stop everything and listen to what I am about to say.

Last Sunday, a word from the Lord was impressed upon me during church.  I felt a strong calling to share some important news with a neighbor.  However, whenever I was at home, distractions prevented me from carrying out God’s message.  Like the  servant in Matthew 25:24-25, I was unfaithful, burying my gift of discernment.  According to Matthew 25:28, if anyone develops lazy habits like me, God can take away your gift or talents.

Although the context of this parable is focusing on a specific monetary value, Job suggests the Lord can and does give and take away things, Job 1:21.  Since the message God gave me was time sensitive, it does me no good to share the news now since it doesn’t apply.  However, the next time I receive a message from the Lord, I am going to stop the presses!  I will put everything else on hold, seek out the person and deliver God’s message.  Carpe Diem: seize the day!

by Jay Mankus

Brain Freeze

Two of my favorite beverages are Slurpees from 7 Eleven and Arctic Rushes from Dairy Queen.  If you drink either of these 2 frozen treats too fast, there is a chance you might experience a brain freeze.  However, there is only one speciality shake which almost certainly guarantees a brain freeze with every sip, the Orange Freeze from Charcoal Pit.

While brain freezes are usually a summer time occurrence, they are much more common than you think.  Physically brain freezes are obvious to diagnosis as shooting pain reaches your brain as your body cools too quickly creating a shock like effect.  Spiritual brain freezes occur when Christians withdraw back into sinful habits.  Instead of staying alert and disciplined, individuals allow their minds to wander, freezing the presence of the Holy Spirit, Galatians 5:17.  This trance like state leads to a darkened understanding, hardened hearts and a futile mind which rationalizes any lustful act that you might pursue, Ephesians 4:17-20.

Our enemy, the devil has been using brain freezes to deceive people since the Garden of Eden, 2 Corinthians 4:4.  Although conditions may vary, there is a cure to spiritual brain freezes.  According to the apostle Paul, the first step to recovery is to let Christ renew your mind, Ephesians 4:23.  A spiritual transfusion is necessary to rid your memory of all guilt, shame and sin, Colossians 3:1-4 by replacing this with the holiness and righteousness of Christ, Romans 13:14.  This process does not occur overnight.  Rather, it is gradual as you renew your mind with the word of God and worship, Romans 12:1-2.  Stay the course and be sober so that you mind will thaw from Satan’s grip, warming up with the power and presence of the Holy Spirit, 2 Peter 1:3-4.

by Jay Mankus

Slumbering Through The Sabbath

Whether you attend Bedside Baptist Church or you go through the motions at your local church, too many Christians are slumbering thru another Sabbath. Some will opt to watch their favorite tv evangelist from home. Others will worship the Lord externally, while internally they are spiritually dead inside. Meanwhile, others will have a great worship experience, yet forget everything that happened as soon as they get into their cars.

The reality of Romans 3:9-12 is at the heart of this matter. Regardless of how godly you may appear to others, everyone is a sinner. This doesn’t mean you have the right to sin. Rather, Christians must remember they have an obligation to the Holy Spirit, Romans 8:11-12. The only way to awaken believers from slumbering thru another Sabbath is to make sure sin is not reigning in their mortal bodies. Once you crucify this sin nature, your connection to and with the Holy Spirit is much Clearer.

Christians must come to grips with the fact, there is no perfect church. While each has their strengths, weaknesses are often the focus of gossip or your own personal frustrations. Therefore, you need to give these over to the Lord. In addition, you need to serve your local church by fanning into flame you own spiritual gift or gifts. As your attention draws to serving God, you will be less likely to slumber through another Sunday service. The body of Christ needs your hands and feet to survive so get involved today!

by Jay Mankus

Secret Things Belong To the Lord

Human nature often tells individuals how they think things should play out in life.  Yet, when the unexpected happens, I usually begin to scratch my head, trying to figure out God’s mind to allow this or that to occur.  After all of the blood, sweat and tears he poured into the nation of Israel, I’m sure Moses shared similar thoughts when he found out he would not be entering the Promised Land with Israel.  This is the context of Deuteronomy 29:29, “The secret things belong to the Lord our God, but the things revealed belong to us and to our children forever, that we may follow all the words of this law.”

The reality of life on earth is that God has hidden the answers to many questions people have.  The Bible is purposively silent on several matters like the details of Lucifer’s rebellion in heaven, the origin of evil, why only Enoch and Elijah were taken up into heaven and why bad things happen to godly people.  Maybe John 21:25 holds of one of the reasons why secret things belong to the Lord.  If every miracle, parable or thing Jesus did was recorded, there would not be enough room in the world to hold all these accounts.  Thus, God is silent on many issues so that faith may exist, John 20:30-31.

So if you are like me, having a dream job disappear or you are going through a Job like trial, all we can do for now is be thankful for the things God has revealed to us.  Job questioned God and got a mouthful, 4 chapters from Job 38-41, humbling him as well as us, seeing how little we know and how big God really is.  While questions will continue to go unanswered, there is only one thing to do, follow the words of Joshua, “as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord,” Joshua 24:21.

by Jay Mankus

Two Candidates: One Choice

President Barack Obama and Republican presidential candidate Mitt Romney participate in the second presidential debate at the David Mack Center at Hofstra University in Hempstead, New York, Oct. 16, 2012.

Four years ago, a campaign slogan of Hope and Change propelled Barrack Obama into the White House.  At his disposal for 2 years, the president had control of the other 2 branches of government, with democrats having a majority in the House and Senate.  Beside passing Universal Healthcare into law, there aren’t many blue chip accomplishments Barrack Obama can cling to as the race for the 2012 Presidential Election heads down the home stretch.

While there will be more than 2 candidates on this year’s presidential ballot, there are only 2 main contenders, Barrack Obama and Mitt Romney.  Thus, before you fill out your absentee ballot or make your decision in a voting booth, there are a few things to think about before you decide.  First and foremost, each candidate is a sinner, separated from God, Romans 6:23.  Therefore, each candidate is imperfect with some flaws to consider.

During the 2008 Presidential Forum at Saddleback Church, moderated by Rick Warren, Barrack Obama tried to convince an audience of Christians that he indeed was a follower of Christ.  With his past 4 years of actions and words serving as a jury, Obama hid his Moslem middle name, went on a worldwide apology tour trying to appease Middle Eastern leaders and is forcing Catholic hospitals to provide, pay for woman’s contraceptives and potentially abortions as well.  Based upon the facts, Mr. Obama appears to resemble a Moslem more than a Christian, John 15:8.

On the other hand, Mitt Romney is not ashamed of his Mormon faith, serving as a missionary to France for 30 months and acts as the Bishop, the minister of his local congregation in Boston, Massachusetts.  However, Mormon theology deviates from the word of God, Deuteronomy 4:2 and Revelation 22:18.  Back in the 1980’s, the Smithsonian did an archeological search to find remains of cities, coins or landmarks mentioned in the book of Mormon, nothing was found.  If character is the measuring stick you will use to cast your vote, check out Titus 1:6-9 to determine for yourself who is the best candidate.

The second question you have to ask yourself, what type of person do you want in the White House, a career politician or a businessman?  Barrack Obama has a degree in Political Science from Columbia, became the president of the Harvard Law Review in law school and went on to teach constitutional law for 12 years at the University of Chicago Law School.  As a community organizer in Chicago, a successful campaign fundraiser and director of voter registration, Barrack Obama is a career politician who was a senator in Illinois before winning the 2008 presidency.

Meanwhile, Mitt Romney has a bachelor of Arts from BYU and a masters in Business Administration from Harvard.  In 1977, Romney went into management consulting working at Bain & Company before co-founding the spin off company, Bain Capital, a private equity firm.  As the CEO of the Salt Lake Organizing Committee for the 2002 Winter Olympics, this recognition vaulted Romney to become the governor of Massachusetts.  Although Romney passed a healthcare reform bill in Massachusetts, he has garnished more popularity for his business background.

When election day 2012 finally arrives, you have an opportunity to as an American citizen to vote.  While family members, neighbors or unions may pressure you to lean toward one candidate, the choice is yours.  Do you want a politician or a businessman?  Don’t forget to cast your vote, just once though, to make it fair!

by Jay Mankus

Renewing Your Mind

     I have heard pastors preach about taking your thoughts captive and renewing your mind, Romans 12:1-2, since high school.  Yet, no one has ever explained to me what this actually means and how it can be done successfully.  Today, I hope to provide biblical insight into why this is necessary and how you can practically renew your mind daily.
     The first obvious place to start with is why; why should I renew my mind or take thoughts captive?  Like Eve in Genesis 3:1, Satan is a schemer and the father of all lies, John 8:44.  Nor is Satan passive, 1 Peter 5:8; he is moving from place to place, searching for signs of weakness.  When he finds a helpless soul, Satan pounces like a lion going in for the kill.  If you are not ready for his attacks, Ephesians 6:10-11, you might end up like the individual in the parable of the sower, Matthew 13:19.  Thus, it is clear you must sharpen your mind with the word of God, Joshua 1:8-9.
     Once this message get’s through, you need to start small, taking baby steps until you work your way into shape spiritually.  Step 1, examine the first thing you think about when you wake up each morning.  Is it selfish, spiritual or worldly?  Depending upon your thought, you might want to consider starting each new day with a short prayer clearing your mind of all unnecessary data.  Then read a short passage of scripture or a verse to give you an emphasis, thought or vision for the day.  Finally, close this time with a worship song to draw you near to God, Colossians 3:16.
     Step 2 begins with mentally preparing yourself for each day.  Remember, Satan will attempt to sow seeds of doubt within your mind.  Therefore, begin to pay close attention to any little thought which enters your mind.  Don’t compromise a bit by disregarding things or letting your mind wander.  Compromise is the language of the devil.  Thus, you may want to write 2 Corinthians 10:3-5 on a note card as a constant reminder to take spiritual authority over your thought life.  Although this sounds easy, this process can be draining or alarming.  Don’t be afraid to keep a daily journal or log book so you won’t repeat the same mistakes day after day.
     Finally, the 3rd step to renewing your mind daily is to fill your mind with a minimum of one hour of Christian music each day.  If you don’t own any, there are outlets like Pandora, where you can create your own playlist for free.  When I allow my tired mind to be rejuvenated by uplifting lyrics, I am a completely different person, energetic and connected to the Holy Spirit, Galatians 5:25.  However, when I substitute this with talk radio during the day and the television at night, I become vulnerable, Ephesians 4:26.  One of benefits to renewing your mind is you can limit the number of spiritual footholds the enemy has over your life.  Before you give this a try, test everything, 1 Thessalonians 5:21.  Once you begin to renew your mind, let me know how your spiritual journey goes.
by Jay Mankus

Cross Country

2011 National Championship Meet

“Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one gets the prize.  Run in such a way as to get the prize,” 1 Corinthians 9:24.  The apostle Paul is referring to the Corinthian Games when he writes this biblical truth, a first century pre-Olympics competition.  This passage applies to modern day cross country, a sport which consists of 7 runners, where the top 5 places count with runners 6 and 7 serving as blockers.  Like golf, the team with the lowest score wins.

When my 2 boys, James and Daniel, seen in the caption above, competed in the Yes Athletics National Championship Meet the past 3 years, they didn’t expect to win.  Rather, they were seeking to reach obtainable goals like running their PR, personal best or finish in the top 100 in the nation.  Unlike most sports where there are obvious winners and losers, cross country runners are racing against the clock.  The apostle Paul suggests that runners who compete in a race should make sure they run an honorable race with perseverance, fixing their eyes straight ahead, gazing at the cross, Hebrews 12:1-2.

Personally, I have experienced cross country on 3 levels.  The first as a runner in high school.  Beside the freshmen hazing, being thrown into the Brandywine River, it was best atmosphere I have ever been a part of as an athlete.  From the conversations during practice, to team dinners prior to Saturday invitationals and the overall camaraderie, there is nothing like cross country.  Where else can you rescue passed out runners, carry them to their coach and console a teammate who begins throwing up.

Second, as I have enjoyed watching races from a parents’ perspective.  What other sport allows you to talk to a total stranger, cheer for athletes you’ve never seen before and discover someone’s life story in 15-20 minutes while the race is ongoing.  The only draw back is depending on the course layout, sometimes parents have to run just as far as their children to reach the 1 and 2 mile marks before getting to the finish line.  Within the cross country community, there is a special bond which often draws unlikely people together to become close friends as they follow their children throughout their running career.

Finally, as a coach, I had the privilege to be around a middle school team for 3 years.  While their energy was sometimes too much for me to handle, I loved seeing each runner improve, often lowering their PR’s after a race.  Coach Heiddy, the woman I succeeded for a season, possessed an amazing mix of compassion and toughness to gently urge these young runners to improve.  One of the greatest accomplishments as a coach was watching every member of our team run their PR in a race last fall after Heiddy and I videoed their form.  This mental picture equipped each athlete to live out 1 Corinthians 9:24.

I played several sports at a competitive level, golf and ultimate frisbee as a professional.  Yet, nothing compares to the experiences I have had in cross country.  What Eric Liddle said  in Chariot’s of Fire is true for many cross country runners, “when you run, you feel God’s pleasure!”  Though many athletes hate running, there is a threshold you can cross which helps explain 1 Corinthians 9:27.  Once a runner’s mind learns to block out the mental anguish and pain, you can run like Forrest Gump, just not across America and back.   Anyway, “run Forrest run” and one day soon, who knows, I may see you at a cross country race!

by Jay Mankus

Idleness

As a former teacher, I discovered many of my students confused idle with idol.  The term idle means to be inactive, inoperative, unoccupied and still.  Meanwhile, idol is either a deity, god or statue created to pay homage to and worship.  According to a famous Spanish Proverb, “The busy man is troubled with but one devil; the idle man by a thousand”.

One of the greatest examples of idleness is found in 2 Samuel 11.  Each spring, kings were responsible for taking their army to fight, securing their land from any anxious or greedy nations seeking to expand their borders.  However, in verse 1, King David sends his commander Joab off to war, but he remained in Jerusalem.  Not being where you are suppose to be is the epitome of being idle.  Yet, some may say, “so what, he’s the king, who needs an extended vacation.”  Wait and see!

At the annual NFL Rookies symposium Herm Edwards, former NFL player and ESPN analyst, Edwards gave a sermon to all the first year players.  One of his best lines was, “men, nothing good ever happens after midnight!”  According to verse 2, David began to wander around the palace after midnight.   Instead of channeling surfing or scanning the internet, David chose the next best thing, taking a stroll on the roof to search for chicks.  Either David quickly became a peeping Tom or Bathsheba was trying to get someone’s attention by flaunting her beautiful body?  Regardless of the facts, neither one was demonstrating noble character, Proverbs 31:27.

Everyone knows how this story ends, if not read 2 Samuel 11 for yourself, but 2 things could have prevented sin from being born.  First, if David went to work, going off to war, he wouldn’t of had 3 months of idle time.  Second, once he discovered Bathsheba was married in verse 3, he should have sent her home.  Yet, like Eve with the apple, once David lusted in his heart, there was no turning back.  Sin is often a byproduct of idleness, poor foresight or bad decision making.  Break free today by following Paul’s advice in Romans 13:13-14!

by Jay Mankus

Making Up For Lost Time

For most of my high school career, I was quiet, comfortable living behind the scenes.  However, during my senior year, I became an active participant in student government, helping build our home coming float and decorate our spirit hallway, developing solid relationships with several of the 300 students within my class.  Yet, somewhere between this final year of high school and my 5 years of college, I allowed time to influence the depth of my friendships.

Studying, sleeping and self-indulgence led me to lose touch with many of my class mates.  Every once in a while, I dedicated time to write letters before the days of email and the internet.  Those friends nearby I tried to call, but as I tried to keep some of these relationships alive, I realized it wasn’t humanly possible.  Thus, I gave up trying, going from being Mr. Social to Mr. Anti-Social in just a few short years.

Last night, as I touched base with some friends on Facebook, a thought came to me.  “Life is too short to not invest time into people.”  Yes, there will always be commitments, emergency’s and the routine’s of life, but God created us to be in communion with one another.  Therefore, I am going to make a conscious effort to connect with those people the Holy Spirit draws me toward.  Although I can’t change the past, I hope to make up for lost time by cultivating new friendships and strengthening current relationships, Ecclesiastes 4:12.

by Jay Mankus

Breaking Free

According to 1 Peter 5:8, the Devil is like a roaring lion, seeking easy prey to devour.  This is accomplished by isolating us from the pack, people that care about us and try to protect us from harm.  Once on our own, we are like sitting ducks or in the case of the caption above, an antelope in the desert, vulnerable to any of its predators.

Dr. Ed Murphy, in his book The Handbook for Spiritual Warfare, illuminates this fact in chapter 4, entitled Rebellion in the Heavenlies and on Earth.  According to Murphy, a curious human mind often embraces Satan’s thoughts.  Within the Genesis 3:1-7 encounter, Satan awakens Eve’s mind to the realization of disobedience.  As soon as Eve’s emotions and will embraced the apple, sin was only a matter of time, James 1:13-15.  Once a person is tricked, oppressed or held in bondage to a specific sin or sins, they must break free as soon as possible.

C.S. Lewis addresses this point in book 1 of Mere Christianity, Right and Wrong as a Clue to the Meaning of the Universe.  At the beginning of chapter 5, We Have Cause to Be Uneasy, Lewis suggests the sooner you make a U-Turn, a complete break from sin, turning 90 degrees in the opposite direction toward God, the quicker you will get back on track spiritually, Matthew 7:13-14.  The apostle Paul gives Christians a blue print for breaking free of sin in 2 Corinthians 10:3-5.

Since the enemy fights us with spiritual weapons, Ephesians 6:12, we must be ready to fight this battle with the proper weapons.  If Satan uses carefully chosen words, subtle in nature, to distort reality, you must begin to take your thoughts captive.  Remember, Satan is deceiving people daily into following his deceptive ways, becoming independent from the will of God.  Therefore, the only method to truly break free from sin is through setting your heart and mind on things above, Colossians 3:1-4.  This includes living out Colossians 3:15-17.  Don’t be defeated, make your thoughts obedient to Christ and victories will follow!

by Jay Mankus