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Just Spit It Out

Not many people have the gift of conversation. Some people can naturally turn a boring conversation into a vibrant discussion. Yet, for the shy, unimaginative and stutterers, saying a couple of words can be agonizing. Fortunately, there are people in life who are blunt, don’t like beating around the bush, eager for the other person to just spit it out.

 The king of Egypt said to Moses and Aaron, Why do you take the people from their jobs? Get to your burdens! – Exodus 5:4

The Pharaoh reflects individuals with an old school mentality. Based upon the words Pharaoh, he doesn’t appear to be one for small talk. Apparently, idleness was frowned upon in Pharaoh’s Day, a sign of laziness and lack of productivity. Pharaoh’s grand designs for Egypt were being interrupted. Subsequently, Pharaoh wanted a quick interaction so he could get back to what he was working on.

Confess to one another therefore your faults (your slips, your false steps, your offenses, your sins) and pray [also] for one another, that you may be healed and restored [to a spiritual tone of mind and heart]. The earnest (heartfelt, continued) prayer of a righteous man makes tremendous power available [dynamic in its working], James 5:16.

As a new year approaches, perhaps these passages will inspire you to take chances in 2024. Rather than being calculated and cautious, spitting out how your emotions might help you in the future. Whether you’re confronted with bossy individuals, or control freaks, lay out how you feel upfront so that any lingering concerns or frustrations are out in the open. If the timing isn’t right, wait for a more favorable moment so that relationships will be on firmer ground in 2024.

by Jay Mankus

When You Run Out of Words to Say

As someone who clings to pray, I experience many days where I draw a blank.  Unable to come up with the words to express what I’m feeling, I pause, wondering where to go next.  Unfortunately, no matter how hard I try, I don’t have the gift of conversation.  Sure, I have my hot button issues that friends may tell me to shut up or change the topic.  Nonetheless, most of the time I am tapped out, running out of words to say.

And I will give them one heart, and a new spirit I will put within them. I will remove the heart of stone from their flesh and give them a heart of flesh, Ezekiel 11:19.

When it comes to prayer, some people truly have a gift.  As these individuals open their mouth, words flow freely as it God is in room with them.  Trying to follow anyone like this in a prayer group can be humbling, spitting out whatever comes to my mind.  Yet, there is much to learn from those who possess the gift of prayer.  Asking, probing and seeking wisdom is a great place to start, especially if you struggle like me to come up with words to lift up to God as you pray.

For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also, Luke 12:34.

Several years ago I attended a Bible Study with a couple of doctors.  One was a physician and the other a vet.  One thing I took away from these interactions was the need to focus on a specific word when you pray.  When my eye was beginning to revert back to its pre-surgery state the word regeneration came to my mind.  Immediately, I began to ask God to regenerate the cells within my eyes, to restore that which was lost.  Suddenly, I noticed a quick improvement.  Although my eye hasn’t been completely restored, when you run out of words to say in the future, narrow in on a key word and pray with faith for a miracle.

by Jay Mankus

Speechless

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The 2010 film the King’s Speech is based upon a true story.  As Hitler’s popularity grew during World War II, King George VI struggled to find his voice.  Battling with stuttering throughout his life, this movie details the king’s progress with a speech therapist.  When England needed a voice, this once speechless king overcame his fears to lead a nation.

The men traveling with Saul stood there speechless; they heard the sound but did not see anyone, Acts 9:7.

Individuals blessed with the gift of conversation probably can’t relate to those inflicted with speech impediments.   On the other hand, people who tend to be shy do not possess the desire and energy to speak for an extended period of time.  Regardless of where you fall on this spectrum, there will be moments of silence.  Times when even the most outgoing individuals become speechless.

For three days he was blind, and did not eat or drink anything, Acts 9:9.

Looking back at my own life, I find that trials usually shut me down for a while.   Whether its confusion, shock or uncertainty, it may take some time to sort things out.  The sooner I can make sense of turmoil, the quicker my life returns to normal.  Yet, life isn’t always fair, presenting difficulties that may push you beyond reason.  Thus, as you battle periods of depression in life, hold on to a God who has a track record of transforming lives.

by Jay Mankus