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What Can God Give You?

Giving is one those traits which either comes naturally or has to be acquired. As the son of an immigrant, I was taught to be frugal and thrifty. My grandmother on my dad’s side of the family always kept the plastic on the outside of couches and mattresses so that these items would last as long as possible. While I grew up with a couple of rich neighbors who got whatever they wanted, I had to work at giving. Over time, God tested me, providing opportunities for me to give which I passed and failed.

And Abram said, Lord God, what can You give me, since I am going on [from this world] childless and he who shall be the owner and heir of my house is this [steward] Eliezer of Damascus? – Genesis 15:2.

The context of the passage above occurs as Abram begins to doubt that he will become the father of a great nation. From a logical perspective, Abram’s wife Sarai was unable to have children and their biological clock for having children at their old age was becoming less likely. This dire situation prompted Abram to ask, “what can you give me God?” If I was placed in this situation, I’d probably ask God a similar question.

And He said to him, I am the [same] Lord, Who brought you out of Ur of the Chaldees to give you this land as an inheritance. But he [Abram] said, Lord God, by what shall I know that I shall inherit it? – Genesis 15:7-8

Up until this point in their relationship, God blessed Abram with possessions and great wealth, but no children. Based upon Sarai’s irrational decision in Genesis 16, this issue was driving a wedge into their marriage. While human beings struggle to see beyond today, God is a supernatural being who is often multiple steps ahead of us. Therefore, the next time you doubt’s ability to provide, Matthew 6:33, recall the vast miracles in the Bible to calm anxiety, any concerns, or worry about your own future.

by Jay Mankus

A Begrudging Host

As a son of an immigrant, I learned to be frugal.  My grandmother kept all of her beds and couches in their original plastic to preserve these pieces of furniture as long as possible.  Eating out was not a regular option, only done on special occasions a few times each year.  The notion of wasting money was a foreign concept to me.

Do not eat the food of a begrudging host, do not crave his delicacies; Proverbs 23:6.

Now as I parent, I have softened some of my childhood beliefs.  Yet, one of my biggest struggles occurs while on vacation.  After working hard to save enough money for Spring Break, a week in Florida can break the bank quickly.  Whether its taking the family to a Phillies game in Clearwater, going out to a nice restaurant or visiting an amusement park, it doesn’t take much to blow a quick $500.  When I do, I become a begrudging host.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding, Proverbs 3:5.

For the needy, poor and unemployed, knowing where the money will come from for your next bill, meal or mortgage is scary.  Any kind of uncertainty can move the unstable into a state of panic.  In view of this, its essential to remember the words of Solomon by placing your trust in a firm foundation.  Though not everyone will be blessed with riches, when you do have the opportunity to give, do so with a cheerful heart.

by Jay Mankus

 

Buying Memories

If you are a parent, there is a fine line between celebrating special days and spoiling your children.  Birthday parties, Christmas presents and surprises always make some sort of impact on kids.  These events leave an imprint, a way of expressing your love.  However, is there ever a time when buying memories becomes superficial, fake or over the top?

But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever, 1 Timothy 5:8.

As a son of an immigrant, I was always taught to be frugal.  From my grandmother down to my parents, wasting money on unnecessary splurges was frowned upon.  Thus, I’ve become a tightwad, careful to make what little I do have last.  Yet, during my oldest son’s last Spring Break as a high school senior, I let my guard down.  This moment of weakness led to an unprecedented spending spree in an attempt to buy memories for a life time.

A good man leaves an inheritance to his children’s children, but the sinner’s wealth is laid up for the righteous, Proverbs 13:22.

Although it was difficult to say goodbye to hundreds of dollars that is now gone, I am at peace with how the money was spent.  Several foul balls at the Phillies’ game were just in front of us or right over our heads.  The conversation over an expensive seafood meal was enjoyable and at times made me laugh.  When you add my daughter finding a whole sand dollar while snorkeling and my oldest son digging up a perfect shark tooth, our time together was priceless.  Therefore, if you ever have the opportunity in the future to leave a lasting impression, buying memories when the time is right will bring you unexpected joy.

by Jay Mankus

Beyond Measure

As I child, I enjoyed counting rare coins that my parents collected.  Placing our families spare change into a large jar located on a counter next to the main entrance, this giant piggy bank usually took a month or so to fill.  Once full, each coin was sorted on our kitchen table, separating the regular quarters, dimes, nickels and pennies from the valuable ones based upon dates and where each was minted.   Before the internet, large navy blue notebooks provided collectors with important informing above a coin sized filling system to hold each valuable coin, carefully pressed into place by my father.  Since I was the youngest, I was relegated the task of sorting the least valuable, but most common.  Though my family didn’t have much in my early years, we were frugal, savoring every penny.

Since Australia, Canada and New Zealand have recently phased out their version of the penny, American coin enthusiasts fear its days are numbered.  The cost of inflation might persuade leaders to discontinue the penny as it costs more to make than its actual worth.  If the penny is taken out of circulation, citizens, government officials and retailers are going have to develop a new way of measuring currency or simply round items up to the nearest nickel.  Since the days of 50 cent gas, 25 cent meals and 15 cent movie theater tickets are in our rear view mirror, the penny is on the verge of extinction.

During the days when Pharaoh reigned over Egypt, there was a 7 year period of bountiful harvests.  As a result, store houses went built around the fields in each city of Egypt, overseen by the governor Joseph.  According to Genesis 41:49, the yield from each area throughout the country was so plentiful, Joseph stopped counting since it was beyond measure.  This planning saved countless lives, serving as a security blanket during one of the worst 7 year drought Egypt ever faced.  Without Joseph’s insight from God, millions of people from the Middle East might have starved to death.

Whenever times are going well, people often forget to stop and give thanks to the Lord for their daily bread.  Success can result in pride, causing one to give yourself more credit than you deserve.  Yet, when famine or trials strike unexpectedly, God is usually the first to be blamed.  Instead of taking responsibility or blaming yourself for missing obvious signs from the Lord, the sinful mind distorts your perspective, Romans 8:5-8.  Beyond the measurements human beings make as well as previous judgments made by others, don’t forgot the James 1:17 principle.  Come to the realization that God is beyond measure; seeing yourself as a humble servant, trying to find your place in this world, Job 42:1-6.

by Jay Mankus