Whether you want to admit it or not, each individual craves affirmation, encouragement and a pat on the back. Yet few experience, hear or sense that they are appreciated. Rather, negativity often rules, pointing out each mistake you make. Depending upon your personality type, each responds to criticism differently. Some use it as motivation, others turn a deaf ear and the fragile let these words eat away at their soul. Such moments provide two options, refine your ways or refuse someone’s advice.
These have come so that the proven genuineness of your faith—of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire—may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed. – 1 Peter 1:7
Prior to last week, I sought out people to pump me up, telling me how great I was. However, one embarrassing evening under the microscope last week allowed me see the importance of exposing obvious weaknesses. Unless you know what to fix, you might continue throughout life never reaching your full potential. However, once imperfections are brought to the surface, you can begin to make strides, asking God to smooth over your rough edges.
My son, pay attention to my wisdom, turn your ear to my words of insight, that you may maintain discretion and your lips may preserve knowledge. – Proverbs 5:1-2
Change is hard, especially for the stubborn who think they have it all together. Nonetheless, until you begin to embrace the refining process of trials, you won’t be able to become transformed like Peter in John 21:15-18. If you are comfortably numb, continue to refuse advice. However, if you want to reach new heights beyond your wildest dreams, let the refining process commence.
by Jay Mankus
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