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When Souls are Crushed Beyond Repair

Posted on October 11, 2023 by expressyourself4him

As a teenager growing up in Delaware, divorce was a rare word. Out of all of my high school friends, I only knew of a few individuals who had experienced their parents’ relationship fall apart. Yet, as a teacher in a Christian school, it seemed like every week there was a couple who had decided to quit on their marriage. From time to time, students would approach me, bawling their eyes out, afraid of their future at our school and where they would live. I’ve seen with my own eyes souls crushed beyond repair.

And our father said, Go again and buy us a little food. 26 But we said, We cannot go down. If our youngest brother is with us, then we will go down; for we may not see the man’s face except our youngest brother is with us. 27 And your servant my father said to us, You know that [Rachel] my wife bore me two sons: 28 And the one went out from me, and I said, Surely he is torn to pieces, and I have never seen him since. 29 And if you take this son also from me, and harm or accident should befall him, you will bring down my gray hairs with sorrow and evil to Sheol (the place of the dead), Genesis 44:25-29.

Whenever a parent has witnessed their own child suffer harm, this can be heart breaking, especially for a mother. However, in the passage above, Moses writes about a father who had one of his sons die. This one event led Jacob to become extremely protective, not wanting to allow Benjamin to leave his sight. Apparently, Jacob appears to possess a soul that was crushed beyond repair as he was more concerned with Benjamin’s wellbeing than starving to death.

Now therefore, when I come to your servant my father and the lad is not with us, since his life is bound up in the lad’s life and his soul knit with the lad’s soul, 31 When he sees that the lad is not with us, he will die; and your servants will be responsible for his death and will bring down the gray hairs of your servant our father with sorrow to Sheol. 32 For your servant became security for the lad to my father, saying, If I do not bring him to you, then I will bear the blame to my father forever, Genesis 44:30-32.

The book Restoring the Foundations by Becky and Chester Kylstra introduced me to the term Soul/Spirit hurts. Soul/Spirit hurts are wounds to the soul, emotional hurts that individuals have yet to take time to deal with in their lives. As I read the words of Moses, Jacob had not yet overcome the pain of Joseph’s death. As a son of Korah writes Psalm 46:10, it’s a remainder that Christians need to slow down to heal broken hearts and or crushed spirits. May today’s blog help readers allow you to begin this healing process.

by Jay Mankus

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Encountering Evil

Posted on October 10, 2023 by expressyourself4him

Depending upon the life experiences that you have encountered over the years, you may or may not understand evil. Unfortunately, when the public education system in America kicked God and prayer out of the classroom in the 1960’s, new levels of evil are unleashed daily upon this country. If you do not possess spiritual lenses for identifying and making sense of evil, you’ll blame the victims of evil and not the spiritual source for these unfortunate events.

For how can I go up to my father if the lad is not with me?—lest I witness the woe and the evil that will come upon my father, Genesis 44:34.

Based upon the words of Moses in Genesis 38:1-30, Judah experienced a series of curses which many individuals would call a string of bad luck. Moses points to Judah’s choice for a wife as the starting point, emphasizing good looks over godly character. Two of Judah’s sons have their lives cut struck due to evil behavior. While modern readers of Genesis 38 may wonder, what’s wrong with this, each failed to follow God’s commands and decrees.

In conclusion, be strong in the Lord [be empowered through your union with Him]; draw your strength from Him [that strength which His boundless might provides]. 11 Put on God’s whole armor [the armor of a heavy-armed soldier which God supplies], that you may be able successfully to stand up against [all] the strategies and the deceits of the devil. 12 For we are not wrestling with flesh and blood [contending only with physical opponents], but against the despotisms, against the powers, against [the master spirits who are] the world rulers of this present darkness, against the spirit forces of wickedness in the heavenly (supernatural) sphere, Ephesians 6:10-12.

Subsequently, as he realizes the wrongdoing of his past, Judah pleads with the governor of Egypt to consider the promise and vow made to his father. Judah’s emotional plea is rewarded in Genesis 45 as Jospeh reveals his true identity. This Old Testament story reminds me of the words of the apostle Paul in the passage above. Paul touches on the real source of evil. While the Devil wants you to place the blame on other human beings, encountering evil starts with invisible forces in the spiritual realm. May today’s blog open your eyes the next time you encounter evil.

by Jay Mankus

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Learning to Win the Debates of Tomorrow

Posted on October 9, 2023 by expressyourself4him

As a member of the Spiritual Life Committee at my former school, I spent five years taking students to Christian Leadership Conferences. While every conference had a different theme, there were workshops at each event on developing a biblical Worldview. Several of the teachers were college professors whose main goal was to prepare current students to win the debates of tomorrow.

Now who is there to hurt you if you are [d]zealous followers of that which is good? 14 But even in case you should suffer for the sake of righteousness, [you are] blessed (happy, to be envied). Do not dread or be afraid of their threats, nor be disturbed [by their opposition]. 15 But in your hearts set Christ apart as holy [and acknowledge Him] as Lord. Always be ready to give a logical defense to anyone who asks you to account for the hope that is in you, but do it courteously and respectfully, 1 Peter 3:13-15.

While improving my high school Bible curriculum each summer, I discovered that Summit Ministries contains some of the best content for my students. Founded by Dr. Jeff Meyers, Summit Ministries is devoted to equipping college students with the knowledge and techniques to win the debates of tomorrow. As I listen to 2024 presidential candidates, I’m astounded by how poorly most of their debate skills come across on television.

[And see to it that] your conscience is entirely clear ([e]unimpaired), so that, when you are falsely accused as evildoers, those who threaten you abusively and revile your right behavior in Christ may come to be ashamed [of slandering your good lives]. 17 For [it is] better to suffer [unjustly] for doing right, if that should be God’s will, than to suffer [justly] for doing wrong, 1 Peter 3:16-17.

Perhaps, many of these future leaders fall into the category touched upon by the apostle Paul in Galatians 1:10. In an attempt to please their donors, I don’t see any American politician seeking to please the Lord. Topics like abortion and Planned Parenthood could be an easy slam dunk, but who is willing to stand in the gap for God, Ezekiel 22:30. If you want to learn how to win the debates of tomorrow, visit Summit Ministries to start your journey on the road to victory.

by Jay Mankus

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Remaining Fearless While in Transit

Posted on October 8, 2023 by expressyourself4him

Two years ago, due to the ailing health of my wife’s mom, plans were made to move to Aiken, South Carolina. Fortunately, we had time to prepare for this transition from Delaware. As I read God’s call to Abram in the passage below, this was immediate. God didn’t say, “take your time.” Rather, Moses suggests that this move was instantaneous based upon the directions from the Lord.

Now [in Haran] the Lord said to Abram, Go for yourself [for your own advantage] away from your country, from your relatives and your father’s house, to the land that I will show you. 2 And I will make of you a great nation, and I will bless you [with abundant increase of favors] and make your name famous and distinguished, and you will be a blessing [dispensing good to others]. 3 And I will bless those who bless you [who confer prosperity or happiness upon you] and [a]curse him who curses or uses insolent language toward you; in you will all the families and kindred of the earth be blessed [and by you they will bless themselves]. 4 So Abram departed, as the Lord had directed him; and Lot [his nephew] went with him. Abram was seventy-five years old when he left Haran, Genesis 12:1-4.

In 1993, I lived in 6 different states in the first 6 months of this year. I resigned from a youth ministry position in Maryland so that I could attend a Trade School in Minnesota. While waiting for an interview in South Dakota, I spent a month in Ohio living with my parents. When this ministry opportunity fell through, I accepted a teaching position at a Boarding School in West Virginia. At the end of the school year, a dream job opened up for me in Columbus, Indiana.

Do not [earnestly] remember the former things; neither consider the things of old. 19 Behold, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs forth; do you not perceive and know it and will you not give heed to it? I will even make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert, Isaiah 43:18-19.

God’s providence during this time of transit helped remove from me the fear of the unknown. The moment one door was shut in my face, another one miraculously opened. I was living the famous poem Footprints without ever realizing it. Just before 1993 came to an end, I met my future wife Leanne at a Youth Ministry Conference in Chicago. Thirty years later, God has prepared me by reminding me of the promises in the Bible so that while I’m in transit, the Lord still provides.

by Jay Mankus

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The Crossover Connection Week 36: Where Pop Meets Soft Rock

Posted on October 7, 2023 by expressyourself4him

Today’s featured band typically ranks as one of the top ten Christian bands of all time. Thanks to songs Dare You to Move, Meant to Live, and On Fire, Switchfoot has made a big impact on the Christian community. Yet, thanks to films like the Ultimate Gift featuring a montage scene with On Fire playing in the background, Switchfoot has crossed over to influence secular audiences as well.

Enter through the narrow gate; for wide is the gate and spacious and broad is the way that leads away to destruction, and many are those who are entering through it. 14 But the gate is narrow (contracted [k]by pressure) and the way is straitened and compressed that leads away to life, and few are those who find it, Matthew 7:13-14.

The attached You Tube above mixes powerful words of On Fire with an emotional scene in the Ultimate Gift. One of the last Christmas gifts I received as a teacher at Red Lion was the Ultimate Gift DVD. In this scene, the character Jason Stevens played by Drew Fuller is forced to make an important decision in his life. May the attached songs inspire you like they have motivated me.

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Questions about the Afterlife

Posted on October 7, 2023 by expressyourself4him

As a former seminary student, I’m always curious to hear what kind of message is presented at a funeral. Unless my ears are deceiving me, nearly every speaker assumes that the individual lying in a coffin is now in heaven. If you listen to the words of Jesus in the passage below, just the opposite appears to be true. This is just one lingering question about the afterlife.

Enter through the narrow gate; for wide is the gate and spacious and broad is the way that leads away to destruction, and many are those who are entering through it. 14 But the gate is narrow (contracted [k]by pressure) and the way is straitened and compressed that leads away to life, and few are those who find it, Matthew 7:13-14.

Except for those individuals for who experienced a near death experience, the afterlife and heaven remain a mystery. All Christians have is the promise of John 14:1-4 and 1 John 5:11-13 in the Bible. The author of Hebrews refers to members of the Old Testament of dying prior to receiving what was promised to them by God. The key to securing a place in heaven is faith.

For it is impossible [to restore and bring again to repentance] those who have been once for all enlightened, who have consciously tasted the heavenly gift and have become sharers of the Holy Spirit, 5 And have felt how good the Word of God is and the mighty powers of the age and world to come, 6 If they then deviate from the faith and turn away from their allegiance—[it is impossible] to bring them back to repentance, for (because, while, as long as) they nail upon the cross the Son of God afresh [as far as they are concerned] and are holding [Him] up to contempt and shame and public disgrace, Hebrews 6:4-6.

Jesus alludes to the above passage in his Parable of the Sower, Matthew 13:18-19. Can you lose your salvation? Well, to those who are infant Christians, not fully knowing the decision they just made, they can slip away if the Devil steals what was sown in their heart. Meanwhile, to those who pervert God’s grace with addictions to their flesh also may find their selves on the outside looking in. Don’t take the chance of walking on this fence spiritually. Rather, habitually walk with God daily to confirm your spiritual reservation in heaven.

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Sooner or Later… It Happens

Posted on October 6, 2023 by expressyourself4him

Due to copyright restrictions, the attached clip from Forrest Gump had to be altered to avoid any lawsuits. Subsequently, as Forrest Gump played by Tom Hanks begins running across the country to sort things out in his mind, the audience is reminded that sooner or later, it happens. These unforeseen, embarrassing, and painful events serve as trials to bring about maturity in life.

And Judah said to Israel his father, Send the lad with me and we will arise and go, that we may live and not die, both we and you and also our little ones. 9 I will be security for him; you shall require him of me [personally]; if I do not bring him back to you and put him before you, then let me bear the blame forever. 10 For if we had not lingered like this, surely by now we would have returned the second time, Genesis 43:8-10.

At the end of the opening book in the Bible, Moses records the great famine that stuck Egypt. This once in a century weather pattern brought devastation, destitute living conditions and starvation. If it wasn’t for Pharaoh’s dream and Joseph’s interpretation, countless individuals would have starved to death. While fall temperatures are like a breath of fresh air, soon or later bad weather will arrive.

And their father Israel said to them, If it must be so, now do this; take of the choicest products in the land in your sacks and carry down a present to the man, a little balm (balsam) and a little honey, aromatic spices and gum (of rock rose) or ladanum, pistachio nuts, and almonds. 12 And take double the [grain] money with you; and the money that was put back in the mouth of your sacks, carry it again with you; there is a possibility that [its being in your sacks] was an oversight. 13 Take your brother and arise and return to the man; 14 May God Almighty give you mercy and favor before the man, that he may release to you your other brother and Benjamin. If I am bereaved [of my sons], I am bereaved, Genesis 43:11-14.

Perhaps, this is a message Jesus reinforced to his disciples prior to his death, resurrection and ascension into heaven, 1 Peter 3:15-16. Well before the Boy Scouts motto, “be prepared,” was conceived, Jesus instilled this within the leaders of the first century church, Matthew 26:41. Therefore, don’t be caught off guard by the Devil’s schemes, Ephesians 6:10-18. Rather, arm yourself with the armor of God so that you’ll be prepared the next time it happens.

by Jay Mankus

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Exposing the Iniquities of Our Past

Posted on October 5, 2023 by expressyourself4him

If you read the Bible long enough, you’ll see that you can’t hide from your past. Whether it’s the sins of the father developing in your own children or receiving what you have previously sowed, time has a way of exposing the iniquities of your past. This is the conclusion that Judah came to as the trick that he played on his brother Joseph was coming around to burn him once again.

Joseph said to them, What is this thing that you have done? Do you not realize that such a man as I can certainly detect and know by divination [everything you do without other knowledge of it]? 16 And Judah said, What shall we say to my lord? What shall we reply? Or how shall we clear ourselves, since God has found out and exposed the iniquity of your servants? Behold, we are my lord’s slaves, the rest of us as well as he with whom the cup is found, Genesis 44:15-16.

Whether you were called to the principal’s office as a child, questioned by your parents for suspicious behavior or pulled over by a police officer for going over the posted speed limit, these previous encounters serve as a form of discipline. Following an entire chapter known as the Hall of Faith, Hebrews 11, the author follows this up by writing about the importance of discipline. According to Hebrews 12:11, discipline is designed to expose any sort of iniquity.

 Pray, therefore, like this: Our Father Who is in heaven, hallowed (kept holy) be Your name. 10 Your kingdom come, Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. 11 Give us this day our daily bread. 12 And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven ([e]left, remitted, and let go of the debts, and have [f]given up resentment against) our debtors. 13 And lead (bring) us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. For Yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen. 14 For if you forgive people their trespasses [their [g]reckless and willful sins, [h]leaving them, letting them go, and [i]giving up resentment], your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive others their trespasses [their [j]reckless and willful sins, [k]leaving them, letting them go, and [l]giving up resentment], neither will your Father forgive you your trespasses, Matthew 6:9-15.

During one famous first century speech, Jesus adds another dimension to iniquity and transgressions. At the end of the Lord’s Prayer, Jesus points out a condition to forgiveness. If you are willing to forgive and overlook any iniquities and transgressions made against you, God will show mercy by forgiving all of your sins. However, if you aren’t willing to forget the iniquities of others, God won’t forgive you. Therefore, as the Holy Spirit exposes the iniquities of your past, may God give you a heart of compassion and mercy.

by Jay Mankus

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Rewards for Doing the Right Thing

Posted on October 4, 2023 by expressyourself4him

Once a month, a story about a good Samaritan goes viral. The most recent story involves a Lowe’s employee who found an unmarked envelope with $4,000 in cash. Rather than claim this for himself, this employee went to the surveillance video to see who dropped this cash. Before his shift was over, this woman was reunited with her cash meant for children’s clothes and items for school. No tangible reward has been announced at this time.

And their father Israel said to them, If it must be so, now do this; take of the choicest products in the land in your sacks and carry down a present to the man, a little balm (balsam) and a little honey, aromatic spices and gum (of rock rose) or ladanum, pistachio nuts, and almonds. 12 And take double the [grain] money with you; and the money that was put back in the mouth of your sacks, carry it again with you; there is a possibility that [its being in your sacks] was an oversight. 13 Take your brother and arise and return to the man; Genesis 43:11-13.

When was the last time you were given too much change by a cashier? Did you immediately go back to this register and give back the difference? If no action was taken, did you feel a sense or gnawing in your heart to make this situation right? A few years ago, I was going through self-checkout and realized that I forgot to scan one of my items. The next time I went to buy groceries, I bought one, but scanned it twice to make up for my oversight.

So they came near to the steward of Joseph’s house and talked with him at the door of the house, 20 And said, O sir, we came down truly the first time to buy food; 21 And when we came to the inn, we opened our sacks and there was each man’s money, full weight, returned in the mouth of his sack. Now we have brought it back again. 22 And we have brought down with us other money to buy food; we do not know who put our money in our sacks. 23 But [the steward] said, Peace be to you, fear not; your God and the God of your father has given you treasure in your sacks. I received your money. And he brought Simeon out to them, Genesis 43:20-23.

Joseph’s brothers had a similar encounter on their return trip from Egypt. Stopping at a place to spend the night, Joseph’s brothers each realized that all of their money was placed back in their sacks of grain. Subsequently, upon arriving, Jacob gave each of his sons with twice as much money, for their previous and current purchase. According to Moses, Joseph’s steward refers to his brother’s honesty as a treasure from God. Behind the scenes Joseph paid for their grain out of his own pocket. This is one of many examples of rewards for doing the right thing.

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Why Did You Do This to Me?

Posted on October 3, 2023 by expressyourself4him

Sometimes in life, you are in the wrong at the wrong time. Meanwhile, you may be an innocent bystander, but in the heat of the moment, blame will be cast in your direction. As an aging father who still haven’t emotionally gotten over the death of one of his sons, his youngest son has been targeted by the governor of Egypt. This prompts Jacob, the father of Israel to reply, “why did you do this to me?”

And when [the families of Jacob’s sons] had eaten up the grain which the men had brought from Egypt, their father said to them, Go again; buy us a little food. 3 But Judah said to him, The man solemnly and sternly warned us, saying, You shall not see my face again unless your brother is with you. 4 If you will send our brother with us, we will go down [to Egypt] and buy you food; 5 But if you will not send him, we will not go down; for the man said to us, You shall not see my face unless your brother is with you, Genesis 43:2-5.

The question why did you do this to me often is expressed by a disappointed parent or a significant other as your relationship comes to a crossroad or ends. Before cell phones, I went out late one summer night in college. Rather than wake up my parents in the middle of the night to let them know I was going to spend the night at a friend’s house, I decided not to call. In the morning, my mom thought I had died so I was on the other end of why did you do this to me?

And Israel said, Why did you do me such a wrong and suffer this evil to come upon me by telling the man that you had another brother? 7 And they said, The man asked us straightforward questions about ourselves and our relatives. He said, Is your father still alive? Have you another brother? And we answered him accordingly. How could we know that he would say, Bring your brother down here? – Genesis 43:6-7

Ten of Joseph’s brothers were on receiving end of this question from their father Jacob. In the defense of Joseph’s brothers, they were being honest with the governor of Egypt. None of Jospeh’s brothers realized that telling the truth would place Benjamin’s life in danger. Perhaps, the main point in today’s passage is that everyone will have to stand in judgement, giving an account to whatever, you’ve said or done in life, Matthew 12:36. With in mind, act wisely.

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