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Engaging Our Culture: March 26-Have the Courage to Follow Your Dreams

Video of the Day: Clip from the 2009 film “The Mighty Mac”

Bible Verse of the Day:

Then he had another dream, and he told it to his brothers. “Listen,” he said, “I had another dream, and this time the sun and moon and eleven stars were bowing down to me.” 10 When he told his father as well as his brothers, his father rebuked him and said, “What is this dream you had? Will your mother and I and your brothers actually come and bow down to the ground before you?” 11 His brothers were jealous of him, but his father kept the matter in mind, Genesis 37:9-11.

Biblical Connection:

Part of college is trying to figure out what you want to do with the rest of your life, enter into the degree program that best matches your dream job and put your whole heart into this endeavor. As Coach Cathy Rush is sitting at her desk in today’s scene, one of her graduating seniors shares her plans for life after college. While coach initially listens, she asks a question to make sure that her player doesn’t regret this career decision. This is the call to follow your dreams.

Joseph of the Old Testament has a different type of gift, the ability to see the future like a visionary. However, sharing his dreams with his family wasn’t received with open arms. Despite the hardships that Joseph would encounter, the Lord was with him whenever he went. Subsequently, Joseph helped people who came into his life, never afraid to share his gift with others. When you aren’t afraid to follow your dreams, you may be blessed like Joseph who became governor of Egypt.

Closing Song:

Today’s message speaks to my own heart, still trying to follow my own dream of becoming a professional screen writer. As I search for my place in this world, I’ve found Proverbs 19:21 to be helpful, praying for God’s purpose to prevail. In the meantime, I’m giving the Lord my dreams.

by Jay Mankus

Engaging Our Culture: March 25-The Hardship of the Unknown

Video of the Day: Trailer of 2020 ESPN Promotion “March Madness”

Bible Verse of the Day:

Rather, as servants of God we commend ourselves in every way: in great endurance; in troubles, hardships and distresses; in beatings, imprisonments and riots; in hard work, sleepless nights and hunger; in purity, understanding, patience and kindness; in the Holy Spirit and in sincere love; in truthful speech and in the power of God; with weapons of righteousness in the right hand and in the left; through glory and dishonor, bad report and good report; genuine, yet regarded as impostors; known, yet regarded as unknown; dying, and yet we live on; beaten, and yet not killed; 2 Corinthians 6:4-9.

Biblical Connection:

Every March sporting websites offer a free challenge with one-million-dollar prize going to the winner that completes a perfect Men’s NCAA Basketball bracket. Year after year, this prize continues to go unclaimed due to unpredictability of 68 teams playing one another over the course of 3 weeks. Although one individual once picked the first 49 games correctly, no one who has entered these contests has been perfect. Perhaps, this is why the annual men’s college basketball tournament has been coined March Madness.

From the spiritual realm, every day is filled with the unknown. You may have an idea of your daily routines in a typical work week, but only God knows what hardship that you will be facing. When Saul was called by God to become an apostle of Jesus Christ, his previous popularity as a Jewish leader vanished overnight. After changing his name, Paul opens up about the hardships that he has endured since becoming an apostle. When you put your faith on the line, Christians shouldn’t be surprised by unknown hardships, Ephesians 6:10-12. This is the madness occurring every month.

Closing Song:

Sometime the hardship of the unknown is simply trying to figure out God’s will for your life. The longer this process continues, Romans 12:1-2, the harder it becomes to trust God in the dark. May the lyrics of today’s song help remind you to let God fight the battles of the unknown.

by Jay Mankus

Engaging Our Culture: March 24-When Cinderellas Refuse to Wake Up from Their Dream

Video of the Day: Clip from 2006 NCAA Highlights “George Mason’s Run to Final Four”

Bible Verse of the Day:

This is what the Lord says: “When seventy years are completed for Babylon, I will come to you and fulfill my good promise to bring you back to this place. 11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. 12 Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. 13 You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart, Jeremiah 29:10-13.

Biblical Connection:

Dreams are a series of thoughts, images, or emotions occurring during sleep. Some of these experiences can become so vivid that you think this actually happened. In the realm of sports psychology, professional athletes are encouraged to visualize achieving great accomplishments. In the case of a basketball team, you want all players to belief and think they can be victorious before they walk onto the court to face their opponent. George Mason’s run to the national championship semi-finals is one of the most improbable journeys in college basketball history.

The prophet Jeremiah is speaking to priests, artisans, nobility and young leaders like Daniel who were held in captivity in Babylon. The time of oppression lasted 70 years, from the burning of the Temple to its reconstruction, 586 B.C. – 516 B.C. If you’re experiencing a bad week, month or year, you’re probably going to lose hope. Jeremiah is writing to the Jews to give them a glimmer of hope. Essentially, Jeremiah is sharing a message similar to that of the apostle Paul in Philippians 1:6. Rather than abandon human beings, God is communicating that I still have plans for you.

Closing Song:

If you find yourself surrounded by dream killers, John 10:10, it’s time to reach out to individuals who affirm and build you up. When belief and confidence are united, where doubt is absent, God can move mountains in your life like the GMU basketball team in 2006, Matthew 21:21-22.

by Jay Mankus

Engaging Our Culture: March 23-The Difference Between Winning and Losing

Video of the Day: Clip from 2006 film “Glory Road”

Bible Verse of the Day:

One of the teachers of the law came and heard them debating. Noticing that Jesus had given them a good answer, he asked him, “Of all the commandments, which is the most important?” 29 “The most important one,” answered Jesus, “is this: ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one.[e] 30 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength, Mark 12:28-30.

Biblical Connection:

Glory Road attempts to reenact the 1966 NCAA men’s basketball national championship game between Kentucky and Texas Western. The cameras take you inside both huddles during the final two minutes, switching back and forth between coaches Adolph Rupp and Don Haskins. While each coach reinforces the belief that each of their teams will be victorious, Coach Haskins urges his team to lay their hearts on the line. The difference between winning and losing often comes down to who is going to seize the moment, by taking control with a key play down the stretch.

During His three-year earthly ministry, various religious leaders approached Jesus out of curiosity or with impure motives. Mark recounts a specific time that Peter shared with him. In this scenario, a Jewish leader was trying to test Jesus to see if He would de-emphasize or minimize one of the Ten Commandments. Instead, Jesus breaks these commandments into two categories: loving God and loving your neighbor. If you truly love the Lord, you’ll be able to keep the first 4 commandments. Meanwhile, by loving your neighbor with all your heart, soul and mind, you will follow the final 6. Although laying your heart on the line doesn’t guarantee victory, God does honor this effort.

Closing Song:

The only championships I’ve earn won was as a coach. I came close as an athlete, second place, but my greatest victory was as a basketball coach. After being down by 10 at the half, we won the game at the buzzer with an offensive round, put back. Whenever players lay everything that they have one the line, that’s all you can expect as a coach. May today’s devotion and song inspire you to put your heart, soul and mind into following Jesus.

by Jay Mankus

Engaging Our Culture: March 22-Giving Individuals a Second Chance

Video of the Day: Clip from 1986 film “Hoosiers”

Bible Verse of the Day:

The night is nearly over; the day is almost here. So let us put aside the deeds of darkness and put on the armor of light. 13 Let us behave decently, as in the daytime, not in carousing and drunkenness, not in sexual immorality and debauchery, not in dissension and jealousy. 14 Rather, clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the flesh, Romans 13:12-14.

Biblical Connection:

Playing Coach Norman Dale, Gene Hackman gets to know fans, faculty members, and the parents of his players. After a few conversations with Shooter, Dennis Hopper, who lives and breathes Indiana high school basketball, Coach goes to Shooter’s home to offer him a job. This sets the stage for an intense conversation. Knowing that he was given a second chance as a coach, Dale returns the favor to Shooter with a couple of strings attached.

The apostle Paul writes a letter to the Church at Rome in today’s featured passage. Paul is writing with a sense of urgency, calling members of this Christian Church to put on the armor of God detailed in Ephesians 6:12-20. Paul also appears to be referencing the acts of the flesh and the fruits of the Spirit in Galatians 5:16-23. Apparently, some Christians were merely going through the motions, not committing to make Jesus the Lord of their lives. If God gives sinners a second chance, the least that you can do is to clothe yourself with Jesus by putting on the mind of Christ.

Closing Song:

Paul doesn’t beat around the bush early in his letter to the Church at Rome, Romans 3:9-12. This blunt assessment of mankind’s sinful tendencies helps Christians realize their need for God, Romans 6:23. Subsequently, the next time you pick up the pieces from a fall from grace, be willing to forgive others as God has forgiven you by offering others a second chance, Matthew 6:14.

by Jay Mankus

Engaging Our Culture: March 21-Let the Madness Commence

Video of the Day: ESPN Films Trailer of North Carolina State’s Title “Survive and Advance”

Bible Verse of the Day:

If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. But when you ask, you must believe and not doubt, because the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. That person should not expect to receive anything from the Lord. Such a person is double-minded and unstable in all they do, James 1:5-8.

Biblical Connection:

The first round of the 2025 NCAA Basketball tournament began yesterday. Similar to the opening day of Major League Baseball, everyone is tied for first place. While the talent on each team differs, the degree of belief and confidence will separate winners and losers. Former head coach Jim Valvano devoted one practice a year to visualizing becoming national champions. This is the image that Coach Valvano wanted his players to see before participating in March Madness. This 3-week journey isn’t about winning pretty. Rather, the goal is to Survive and Advance.

The author of this Bible passage is the earthly brother of Jesus, a skeptic who became an elder in the Church at Jerusalem. While James wrote to Christians scattered throughout the Mediterranean following Nero’s persecution, he’s also speaking to himself. James was like the Jewish religious leaders of the early first century, not believing that his brother was the promised Messiah. Rather, James had to witness Jesus’ resurrection from the dead before he finally believed. Only God knows who will win the 2025 title. Yet, belief and doubt will play a huge role in determining a champion.

Closing Song:

I was introduced to this song during the Coronavirus pandemic. As countless individuals continued to succumb to this biological disease, I clung to the God of miracles. While God may not care who wins a sporting event, the Lord does elevate people of faith to hold fast to the God of miracles. May you survive and advance past the trials that you’re currently facing in life.

by Jay Mankus

Engaging Our Culture: March 20-When Dreams are Stolen Before They Become a Reality

Video of the Day: ESPN Clip of Events Behind a Tragic Death “Len Bias”

Bible Verse of the Day:

It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control your own body[a] in a way that is holy and honorable, 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4.

Biblical Connection:

Len Bias was one of the top college basketball players in the nation as a senior at the University of Maryland. After being drafted second overall by the Boston Celtics, Len Bias decided to celebrate with some of his friends on campus. When you’re young and about to become a professional athlete, there’s a built in degree of invincibility. Unfortunately, Len didn’t have the discipline to stop using cocaine. Meanwhile, first lady Nancy Reagan’s Just Say No to Drug campaign came a season too late for Len Bias who died before fulfilling his lifelong dream.

According to one first century historian, the apostle Paul’s first visit to Thessalonica didn’t go as planned, Acts 17:1-9. Despite this rough start, Paul and Silas later planted a church in this city. Based upon the words of Luke in Acts, Thessalonians struggled with self-discipline with a tendency to overreact. Subsequently, Paul lays out God’s expectations for the members of this new church. The best way to avoid temptation is by learning to control your own body. When it comes to drugs, people must be willing to purge and remove the sinful tendencies from their lives to avoid a similar fate to that of Len Bias.

Closing Song:

When you play with fire, sometimes you get burned. However, when you experiment with drugs, you’re putting your life on the line. May the sad story of Len Bias and the lyrics of today’s song move you to come to the feet of Jesus to unload your burdens, Matthew 11:28-30.

by Jay Mankus

Engaging Our Culture: March 19-The Story of a Real Champion

Video of the Day: Trailor of EPSN 30 for 30 “Scott”

Bible Verse of the Day:

When they arrived, Samuel saw Eliab and thought, “Surely the Lord’s anointed stands here before the Lord.” But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart,” 1 Samuel 16:6-7.

Biblical Connection:

Every so often, ESPN will transition from covering star athletes to human interest stories. On the surface, certain individuals may not overwhelm you with their appearance, personality or talents. Yet, as you observe, pay attention to and witness special qualities, you become intrigued by this person. This internal energy, joy and spirit may even elicit a desire deep inside of you to want whatever this boy possesses. This is an introduction to today’s video clip entitled Scott.

David was the youngest brother in a large family. Based upon the words of Samuel, David was a scrawny teenager who was assigned the lowly daily chore of watching over his father’s sheep. Growing up in this humble setting forced David to place his trust in the Lord to protect these sheep while he was asleep. Psalm 18:36 reveals that David even prayed, asking God to protect his ankles from being sprained or twisted from hilly/rocky terrain. This is the upbringing that slowly transformed David into a man after God’s own heart.

Closing Song:

Whenever I’ve tried to fill my life with temporary pleasures on earth, it doesn’t take long for my soul to become filled with emptiness. May today’s blog and song inspire you to run toward God, coming back into your heavenly father’s arms, Luke 15:20.

by Jay Mankus

Engaging Our Culture: March 18-A Sport Where David Beats Goliath Annually

Video of the Day: ESPN Classic College Basketball Upsets “Saint Joseph’s Upsets Depaul”

Bible Verse of the Day:

David asked the men standing near him, “What will be done for the man who kills this Philistine and removes this disgrace from Israel? Who is this uncircumcised Philistine that he should defy the armies of the living God?” – 1 Samuel 17:26

Biblical Connection:

After each season, sports evaluate certain loopholes in their rules, making adjustments the following season to improve the natural flow of a game. Depaul’s loss to St. Joseph was directly related to the rule that forced fouled players to make their first free throw before receiving another one. After scoring, St. Joseph players immediately fouled Depaul to stop the clock and force Depaul to make the front end of a one and one. Prior to 1981, fouls could continue without a modern two-shot bonus after the 10th foul on a team.

The crucial ingredient for David defeating Goliath was a belief and confidence that victory could be earned. The prophet Samuel quotes the words of David who understood that God was more powerful than the physical giant that stood in his way. As sports reporters talked to members from both teams after the St. Joseph upset, Depaul players expected St. Joseph to simply lay down in fear. However, whenever you allow a lesser team to stick around, belief and confidence grows. This element has made college basketball a place where modern David beat Goliath teams every season.

Closing Song:

Skip Dillard, a member of this team, never fully recovered from Depaul’s loss. Dillard ended up going to jail, devastated by a loss that defined his life. If today’s devotion finds you hurting, may the lyrics of today’s song help you recover from the defeats, failures and pain from your past.

by Jay Mankus

Engaging Our Culture: March 17-Setting the Record Straight About the Real St. Patrick

Video of the Day: Trailor from 2020 film “St. Patrick: Pilgrimage to Peace”

Bible Verse of the Day:

“But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth,” Acts 1:8.

Biblical Connection:

According to a first century historian, today’s verse are the final words spoken by Jesus before he ascends into heaven after rising from the dead, on Easter Sunday, weeks before. This trailer about St. Patrick’s life begins with a man on the street interview, asking individuals celebrating St. Patrick’s Day. The secularization of this holiday has evolved into a modern-day pagan festival. Yet, the real St. Patrick followed Jesus’ command known as the Great Commission and became an apostle of Ireland, bringing the good news about Jesus Christ, John 3:16-17, to this nation.

St. Patrick was persecuted for his Christian faith during the fifth century, taken to Ireland as a slave at the age of 16. Following a similar path of the Old Testament Joseph in Genesis 37:19-27. Despite these initial hardships, God was with St. Patrick as his faith came alive in captivity. When the timing was right, God allowed Patrick to escape and return to his home in Great Britain. Like Paul Harvey would say in his radio program, the Rest of the Story involves a return trip to Ireland. However, this one wasn’t forced as Patrick followed a call from God to Christianize the Irish people.

Closing Song:

As you engage in traditional St. Patrick Day parties, make sure you share the truth about the man who inspired this celebration. If you do, Paul Harvey would be proud to know that you’ve revealed the rest of the story about St. Patrick.

by Jay Mankus