The term estranged is usually found in the context of a broken marriage or a relationship beyond repair. When you feel alienated, disconnected or severed from someone, estrangement is likely already underway. This unfortunate state can result in depression, loneliness and sorrow. However, you can also be estranged from God.
“He has alienated my family from me; my acquaintances are completely estranged from me,” Job 19:13.
While the Creator of heaven and earth is invisible, subtle reminders exist in the form of a sunrise, picturesque day or the sounds of nature. Enduring hardship, the stress of life and unforeseen trials usually distract individuals from the Lord’s presence. Meanwhile, as bad things begin to happen to good people, God is usually the first to blame. Without any clarity, meaning or insight, estrangement from God often continues.
They are darkened in their understanding, alienated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them, due to their hardness of heart, Ephesians 4:18.
According to the apostle Paul, the process of becoming estranged can be self inflicted. People bitter from the hand they have been dealt, ignorant of God’s nature and set in their ways develop harden hearts. This stubbornness leads to break ups, divorce and splitting close ties with people you once cared about. If you find yourself somewhere within the estranged process, may the power of the Holy Spirit ease your pain by reuniting you with the people you love.
by Jay Mankus