For 364 days a year, hatred often controls the daily news cycle. This is displayed through crimes against humanity, terrorist attacks and violent protests. Yet, the calendar suggests that on February 14th love should replace hate. Even if you have someone special to be your valentine, many individuals are confronted by a person or people with an unforgiving heart.
But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins, Matthew 16:15.
If you are honest with yourself, everyone has someone who rubs you the wrong way. This could be a co-worker, neighbor or relative. Coping with, forgiving and loving this individual requires an extra portion of grace. Certain actions, gestures and words may lead you to flip out, building a wall of resentment that can result in harboring a spirit of unforgiveness within your heart.
Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you, Colossians 3:13.
The apostle Paul makes a great recommendation for those of you facing an unforgiving heart. Despite how difficult it may be, the key to spreading love throughout the year involves bearing with one another. While you may get impatient, let go of any grievance that you have against others. In doing this, you will love others as Christ loved you.
by Jay Mankus