Watching commercials leading up to Valentine’s Day is rivaling those ads prior to general elections. I can’t go 15 minutes without someone on television telling me what the best gift is for my sweetheart. Should I go to Jared, purchase a giant teddy bear or choose chocolate to win my wife’s heart? Whatever you choose, a diamond doesn’t make love last.
If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing. – 1 Corinthians 13:3
I’m not sure where the concept or tradition of buying a diamond ring as an engagement gift began? Looking back, I’m not sure if going broke or into debt to purchase a wow moment is the wisest option. As DC Talk proclaimed in their hit song, Love is a Verb, an act of service, considering others more important than yourself. Whatever I decide to purchase for Valentine’s Day, if my actions don’t match my gift, my love is meaningless.
Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. – Romans 12:9-10
My goal for this year, not just for February 14th, is to be a better father, a more supportive husband and begin to love as Christ loved me, Colossians 3:13. Diamonds have a time and place when the money is available, but love endures forever. Therefore, as Valentine’s Day approaches, don’t get carried away like Christmas buying gifts. Rather, display your love through acts of kindness, thoughtful words of encouragement and a smile to light up the mood of those around you.
by Jay Mankus
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