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Engaging Our Culture: April 25-Uncovering the Secrets of Your Past

Video of the Day: Clip from the 1988 movie “Rain Man”

Bible Verse of the Day:

I have received full payment and have more than enough. I am amply supplied, now that I have received from Epaphroditus the gifts you sent. They are a fragrant offering, an acceptable sacrifice, pleasing to God. 19 And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus, Philippians 4:18-19.

Biblical Connection:

Rain Man is the first movie I can recall growing up centered around the topic of special needs. Tom Cruise had early memories of this brother who was sent to a special facility after an incident with hot water. A recent survey found that 32% of parents raising special needs children spend more than 40 hours a week at home trying to meet these specific areas. Meanwhile, the average cost for out-of-pocket medical expenses in raising special needs children is just under $4000 per year.

According to another study, expecting parents of a child with Down Syndrome are either talked into having an abortion or decide on their own to end this unborn child’s life 60% of the time. During my wife’s third and final pregnancy, doctors suggested that we abort Lydia due to all the complications. Shocked by this suggestion, Leanne and I put our faith and trust in the Lord. Twenty-one years later, Lydia is about to get married and graduate from Liberty University.

Closing Song:

As you uncover the secrets of your past, hold the hand of God to guide you through the pain. I blocked out several years of my childhood due to severe stuttering. During an Early Childhood Education class in college, I had to interview a parent and write a paper about my own early experiences. This is when I confronted my pain just like Tom Cruise as he discovered that his older brother was Rain Main.

by Jay Mankus

Engaging Our Culture: April 24-Using Death as an Open Door to Talk About God

Video of the Day: Clip from Season 1 “Joan of Arcadia”

Bible Verse of the Day:

For none of us lives for ourselves alone, and none of us dies for ourselves alone. If we live, we live for the Lord; and if we die, we die for the Lord. So, whether we live or die, we belong to the Lord. For this very reason, Christ died and returned to life so that he might be the Lord of both the dead and the living, Romans 14:7-9.

Biblical Connection:

Amber Tamblyn plays Joan Girardi who was raised in a Catholic Church. After Joan’s older brother was paralyzed from the waist down, she had a crisis of faith until God began to speak to her during her junior year of high school. Still a novice at sharing her faith, Joan becomes a babysitter for a young boy who has a severe medical condition. Joan uses Rocky’s obsession with death as an open door to share her personal experiences with God.

When I was Joan’s age, I often stumbled when talking about God. I was an infant Christian trying to figure things out on the fly, leaning on my friends from the Fellowship of Christ Athletes to help me grasp the new relationship that I entered into as a sophomore in high school. Several fatal car accidents and two suicides led me to depressing funerals early on in life. This is what inspired me to find out what the Bible says about death and how Jesus’ resurrection ties everything together.

Closing Song:

Despite my successful rise as an athlete, I spent several years in school as a loner. When I got serious about my faith, this separated me further from my peers. However, the deaths of friends prepared me for my first sermon during Lay Witness Mission weekend in college as I used these life expressions as an open door to talk about God.

by Jay Mankus

Engaging Our Culture: April 23-Weaving Jesus into Daily Conversations

Video of the Day: Clip from the 2008 movie “Fireproof”

Bible Verse of the Day:

Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone, Colossians 4:5-6.

Biblical Connection:

Marriage is one of those steps people take in life like going to college. In the film Fireproof, Growing Pains star Kirk Cameron plays Caleb Holt, a fireman whose marriage is falling apart. At some point in Caleb’s life, he started going through the motions. Rather than seek a personal relationship with Jesus, church was something Caleb did on Sundays. Overtime Caleb began to set his heart on temporary pleasures instead of pouring his heart and soul into his marriage.

As you read today’s devotion, there is someone like Caleb in your own life that immediately comes to your mind. Depending upon their personality, this individual may to be open and teachable. However, this is where you have to be delicate when you weave Jesus into a daily conversation. As Caleb’s father confronts his son with God’s standards for living, tension begins to brew. This is where sharing your own faults, mistakes and weaknesses opens the door for grace and mercy.

Closing Song:

I participated in Evangelism Explosion at my church in college. Every Wednesday night a small group of us greeted members and recent visitors. With televisions often playing in the background, we were taught to try to make an instant connection at a surface level to earn someone’s trust. If the timing was right, one of us would weave Jesus into this conversation. Although not everyone is gifted in this area, these conversations plant seeds of faith for future discussions.

by Jay Mankus

Engaging Our Culture: April 22-Finding a Spiritual Caddie to Guide You Through Life

Video of the Day: Clip from the 2005 movie “The Greatest Game Ever Played”

Bible Verse of the Day:

I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you.Do not be like the horse or the mule, which have no understanding but must be controlled by bit and bridle or they will not come to you, Psalm 32:8-9.

Biblical Connection:

Before golf was nationally televised, events would occur during the week when most caddies were in school. According to the film, Francis Ouimet’s original caddie was caught trying to skip school on the day the 1913 United States Open began. With all of the other top caddies scooped up by players from all over the country, Francis was left with a little boy named Eddie. Despite his small stature, Eddie possessed confidence and encouragement to guide Francis through his round.

Today’s verse is a Psalm of David, a person an Old Testament prophet referred to as a man after God’s own heart, 1 Samuel 16:7. As a young shepherd boy, David learned to place his trust in the Lord, surrounded by wolves seeking to attack his flock at night. During King Saul’s reign, David developed a close relationship with Jonathon, Saul’s son. Jonathon provided inside information to warn David of his father’s plans to take his life. Jonathon served as David’s spiritual caddie.

Closing Song:

My high school swim coach served as my spiritual mentor. After graduating, I often stopped by his house in college, seeking spiritual guidance for my life. Ken became my spiritual caddie, preparing me for life after college. Without his advice and encouragement, I wouldn’t be grounded in my faith.

by Jay Mankus

Engaging Our Culture: April 21-What Should I Do Now?

Video of the Day: Clip from the 1994 movie “The Shawshank Redemption”

Biblical Connection:

Then they gathered around him and asked him, “Lord, are you at this time going to restore the kingdom to Israel?” He said to them: “It is not for you to know the times or dates the Father has set by his own authority. But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth,” Acts 1:6-8.

Biblical Connection:

Tim Robbins plays Andrew Dufresne, an innocent banker sent to prison for murdering his wife. Today’s scene occurs after Dufresne is attacked by the Sodomites at Shawshank Prison. This surprise inspection by Wardon Norton serves as a test to see if Dufresne can be trusted. In the days that follow, Andy becomes a financial advisor to prison staff, working directly for the Wardon. This is the beginning of Andy’s redemption story.

Every Christmas and Easter, prodigals return to church seeking some sort of spiritual reboot. If there isn’t a special connection made, these individuals will disappear for months until Christmas. One of the reasons for this abandonment of faith is that Christians don’t know what to do after Easter Sunday. Luke provides the answer in today’s featured passage. Faith is a journey, not a sprint, where you become witnesses for Jesus everywhere you go. This is the Great Commission.

Closing Song:

As I have wrestled with God’s will for my life since moving to South Carolina, I stumbled upon today’s song. When I’m having a bad day at work, I have turned the lyrics of I Give Myself Away into a prayer. Whenever you find yourself wondering, “what should I do now, “give yourself to Jesus.

by Jay Mankus

Engaging Our Culture: April 20-Beyond Belief

Video of the Day: Clip from the 2016 movie “Risen”

Bible Verse of the Day:

After the Sabbath, at dawn on the first day of the week, Mary Magdalene and the other Mary went to look at the tomb. There was a violent earthquake, for an angel of the Lord came down from heaven and, going to the tomb, rolled back the stone and sat on it. His appearance was like lightning, and his clothes were white as snow. The guards were so afraid of him that they shook and became like dead men. The angel said to the women, “Do not be afraid, for I know that you are looking for Jesus, who was crucified. He is not here; he has risen, just as he said. Come and see the place where he lay. Then go quickly and tell his disciples: ‘He has risen from the dead and is going ahead of you into Galilee. There you will see him.’ Now I have told you,” Matthew 28:1-7.

Biblical Connection:

According to the New Testament, Jesus remained on earth for 40 days following his resurrection on Easter Sunday, Acts 1:1-3. First century eyewitnesses recall accounts where Jesus appeared to his disciples and friends before vanishing like a ghost. This is the account detailed in Risen. While Luke was a first century doctor, he also served as an early church historian, sharing convincing proof that Jesus was alive. For many eyewitnesses, this encounter was beyond belief.

When you’ve experienced and seen a miracle from God, a root of faith is deeply planted within your soul. However, if you’re a skeptic by nature, teased and vulnerable to false information, seeds of doubt will keep you from believing that Jesus actually rose from the dead. Fake news was paid for in Matthew 28:11-15 by Jewish religious leaders to stop the truth about Jesus’ resurrection and ascension into heaven from being passed on. This is why doubts about Jesus still persists today.

Closing Song:

Today is the pinnacle of the Christian faith. Yet, without discipleship and the biblical training of new converts to Christ, the power of Resurrection Sunday will be lost for future generations. May the message of hope for salvation and eternal life be shared today and for the days to come.

by Jay Mankus

Engaging Our Culture: April 19-Overcoming a Crisis of Faith

Video of the Day: Clip from Season 1 Episode 11 “Joan of Arcadia”

Bible Verse of the Day:

Afterward Jesus appeared again to his disciples, by the Sea of Galilee.[a] It happened this way: Simon Peter, Thomas (also known as Didymus[b]), Nathanael from Cana in Galilee, the sons of Zebedee, and two other disciples were together. “I’m going out to fish,” Simon Peter told them, and they said, “We’ll go with you.” So they went out and got into the boat, but that night they caught nothing. Early in the morning, Jesus stood on the shore, but the disciples did not realize that it was Jesus. He called out to them, “Friends, haven’t you any fish?” “No,” they answered. He said, “Throw your net on the right side of the boat and you will find some.” When they did, they were unable to haul the net in because of the large number of fish. Then the disciple whom Jesus loved said to Peter, “It is the Lord!” As soon as Simon Peter heard him say, “It is the Lord,” he wrapped his outer garment around him (for he had taken it off) and jumped into the water, John 21:1-7.

Biblical Connection:

Following the events of Good Friday, some of the disciples went back to their former trade of being fishermen. Whenever a crisis of faith arises, human nature leads people back to an area of strength. As for Joan of Arcadia, a high school junior, God appears in the form of people who give her an assignment. Joan reached out to a loner who got kicked out of a dance for drinking. Joan sought to calm him down, jumping into his pickup truck before police arrived to intervene.

After following their leader around for 3 years, Jesus was dead. Once the shock of this reality set in, Peter, Andrew, James and John went back to work as fishermen. Unfortunately, after this long period away from fishing, they got shut out, about to come home empty handed. Initially, Jesus appears as an innocent bystander, inquiring on how their day was going. However, after talking with this man for a few minutes, Peter realizes that it is the risen Lord.

Closing Song:

Trusting God during dark times in life is difficult. Modern day Christian don’t have the luxury of encounters with Jesus like today’s featured passage. However, Jesus did leave behind the Spirit of Truth, John 14:15-17, to guide you during your own crisis of faith in 2025.

by Jay Mankus

Engaging Our Culture: April 18-Feeling the Pain of Your Sin

Video of the Day: Clip from the 2004 movie “The Passion of the Christ”

Bible Verse of the Day:

Surely he took up our pain and bore our suffering, yet we considered him punished by God, stricken by him, and afflicted. But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was on him, and by his wounds we are healed. We all, like sheep, have gone astray, each of us has turned to our own way; and the Lord has laid on him the iniquity of us all, Isaiah 53:4-6.

Biblical Connection:

I was a high school Bible teacher when the Passion of the Christ first debuted in theaters. I recall large church groups and Christian organizations purchasing nearly all the tickets for one showing. While Jesus on the cross receives most of the attention on Good Friday Services throughout the world, the 24-hour period leading up to this moment began with a sleepless night. This was followed by accusations, betrayal, having his face bashed in and whipped beyond recognition.

The Good News about Jesus Christ can be summed up in Romans 5:8, “while we were still sinners, Jesus died for us.” This is the vision that the prophet Isaiah wrote about thousands of years ago. The author of Hebrews compares Jesus to the Great High Priest who was able to empathize with our weaknesses but did not sin, Hebrews 4:14-16. Finally, one of Jesus’ own disciples writes that Jesus died once and for all, paying the debt of our sin, 1 Peter 3:18. This is the hope of Good Friday.

Closing Song:

I played this song following the first sermon that I preached in college. One of the stanzas in the lyrics talks about playing games with God. May the lyrics to Feel the Nails inspire you like it did for me 30 years ago on this Good Friday.

by Jay Mankus

Engaging Our Culture: April 17-The First Communion

Video of the Day: Clip from the 2004 movie “The Passion of the Christ”

Bible Verse of the Day:

When the hour came, Jesus and his apostles reclined at the table. 15 And he said to them, “I have eagerly desired to eat this Passover with you before I suffer. 16 For I tell you, I will not eat it again until it finds fulfillment in the kingdom of God.” 17 After taking the cup, he gave thanks and said, “Take this and divide it among you. 18 For I tell you I will not drink again from the fruit of the vine until the kingdom of God comes.” 19 And he took bread, gave thanks and broke it, and gave it to them, saying, “This is my body given for you; do this in remembrance of me.” 20 In the same way, after the supper he took the cup, saying, “This cup is the new covenant in my blood, which is poured out for you, Luke 22:14-20.

Biblical Connection:

Up to this point, Jesus had spent 3 years of His life mentoring 12 men. These disciples traveled with Jesus throughout the Middle East, listening, observing and watching. This preparation leads to one final meal together known as the last supper. Yet, for modern followers of Christ, this conversation at a table was the first communion. At this moment, the disciples didn’t understand what was going to happen over the next 3 days. After Resurrection Sunday, the symbolism of this new covenant was revealed and has become a weekly or monthly tradition in churches today.

Jesus drops subtle hints to His disciples during the 3 years that they were together. However, many of the disciples believed that Jesus would become an earthly king of the Jews. Unfortunately, this ungodly belief prevented Jesus’ core leadership team from seeing his true identity as a heavenly king. Struggling to say His last words before dying on a cross, “It is finished,” Jesus fulfilled what was prophesized in the Old Testament. The prayer in Garden of Gethsemane following the Last Supper in Luke 22:39-46 puts into motion Jesus’ journey to the cross.

Closing Song:

The older I become, the more I realize that modern day Christians don’t understand the cost of following Jesus. Instead, most keep Jesus as their Savior, but not as Lord. Subsequently, the light and love of Jesus isn’t on display at all times, picking and choosing at your own convenience. May this power of the Holy Spirit awaken your soul in 2025 to celebrate the risen Christ daily.

by Jay Mankus

Engaging Our Culture: April 16-Watch Out for Temptation

Video of the Day: Clip from the 1994 mini-series “The Stand”

Bible Verse of the Day:

Then he returned to his disciples and found them sleeping. “Couldn’t you men keep watch with me for one hour?” he asked Peter. 41 “Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak,” Matthew 26:40-41.

Biblical Connection:

Following a government-run lab accidentally letting loose a deadly virus, the majority of earth’s population quickly perishes. The survivors of this plague receive visions from Mother Abigail and Randall Flagg. Mother Abigail is symbolic of being called by God to come to her farm in Nebraska. Meanwhile, Flagg represents the Devil, inspiring evil acts as his followers make their way to Las Vegas. In today’s scene, Mother Abigail meets her spiritual enemy.

While praying in the Garden of Gethsemane, moments away from being arrested, Jesus realized that his disciples fell asleep at His greatest time of need. Jesus immediately turns to Peter, warning him about temptation. Following a call to watch and pray, Jesus reveals the weakness of the human flesh. The key to overcoming temptation is to keep in step with the Holy Spirit, Galatians 5:25. However, look for the way out of temptation or you too will fall, 1 Corinthians 10:13.

Closing Song:

Groups like the Altar Boys helped me transition from listening to secular music in college to just Christian music. As Passion Week continues, may you be reminded that God has found you while you were struggling with sin, Romans 5:8.

by Jay Mankus