Engaging Our Culture: September 16-Overcoming Verbal Abuse

Video of the Day: Clip from the 1986 movie “Ferris Bueller’s Day Off” (language warning)

Bible Verse of the Day:

Do everything without grumbling or arguing, 15 so that you may become blameless and pure, “children of God without fault in a warped and crooked generation.”[c] Then you will shine among them like stars in the sky 16 as you hold firmly to the word of life. And then I will be able to boast on the day of Christ that I did not run or labor in vain. 17 But even if I am being poured out like a drink offering on the sacrifice and service coming from your faith, I am glad and rejoice with all of you. 18 So you too should be glad and rejoice with me, Philippians 2:14-17.

Biblical Connection:

When the timing is right, a friend will bear their soul to you. This is the case of Cameron who opens up to Ferris and his girlfriend in today’s scene. When you’re a victim of verbal abuse, you often hold this pain inside of you. After skipping school with Ferris, Cameron lets his guard down. One of the first steps toward being healed of verbal abuse is opening up to a friend.

In a letter to the Church at Philippi, the apostle Paul writes to first century Christians about their attitude, emotions and words that they use. Bad attitudes can turn a home, school or workplace into a negative atmosphere. Instead, Paul calls this congregation to become like stars shining in the darkness of this world. Words should be encouraging and uplighting, not daggers to your soul.

Closing Song:

Verbal abuse is often fueled by tongues of fire. Individuals who go scorch earth upon other people are simply expressing and lashing out at others based upon what they have endured in their past. May today’s message inspire you to think twice about verbally assaulting other people.

by Jay Mankus

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