On a level playing field, there isn’t much between winning and losing. Whoever possesses confidence often comes out on top. While talent does make a difference, self-esteem either strengthens or weakens individuals. Too much success can go to your head, creating a false sense of security. Thus, the tug of war between self-esteem and pride commences.
I will boast about a man like that, but I will not boast about myself, except about my weaknesses, 2 Corinthians 12:5.
The psyche craves encouragement, wanting to receive positive feedback. Although constructive criticism can be beneficial, compliments boast one’s self-esteem like a pat on the back. Yet, balance must be achieved by surrounding yourself with people who are honest, realistic and truthful. Maintaining this atmosphere is crucial to keeping you from going back and forth between self-esteem and pride.
But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me, 2 Corinthians 12:9.
Unfortunately, wounds to the soul leave most wallowing in self pity. In a cruel world that can be unforgiving, recovering from any defeat is tough. Perhaps, the words of apostle Paul in 2 Corinthians was meant to console and educate those with lost confidence. Whenever you feel like you can’t go on, reach out to Jesus in prayer and God will provide the strength to carry on. Subsequently, as the momentum turns in your favor don’t forget to thank the good Lord above so that pride doesn’t invade your soul.
by Jay Mankus
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