The phrase “like father like son” first appeared in 1616, written within a book called Bibliotheca Scholastica Instructissima. This piece included proverbs collected by an Englishman named Thomas Draxe. Apparently, this idiom existed in the English language prior to this date, verbally communicated in similar manners or ways. The point expressed by this saying implies that sons tend to emulate their fathers in action. behavior and word. The eyes of a young child are watching, copying what they see.
Then the eyes of the two of them were opened [that is, their awareness increased], and they knew that they were naked; and they fastened fig leaves together and made themselves coverings. And they heard the sound of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool [afternoon breeze] of the day, so the man and his wife hid and kept themselves hidden from the presence of the Lord God among the trees of the garden, Genesis 3:7-8.
The Bible has another way of explaining like father like son. The theological term used in the Old Testament is generational sins: weaknesses or tendencies that are handed down to individuals through the generations from parents or members of a family. These sins can involve behavioral patterns and ways of thinking that keep us trapped in the past. When Adam and Eve broke the only rule in the Garden of Eden, Genesis 2:16-17, God didn’t move, but this couple ran, hiding in shame.
Then the Lord passed by in front of him, and proclaimed, “The Lord, the Lord God, compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in lovingkindness and truth (faithfulness); 7 keeping mercy and lovingkindness for thousands, forgiving iniquity and transgression and sin; but He will by no means leave the guilty unpunished, visiting (avenging) the iniquity (sin, guilt) of the fathers upon the children and the grandchildren to the third and fourth generations [that is, calling the children to account for the sins of their fathers],” Exodus 34:6-7.
When the news that Aaron, his brother, helped the people of Israel create a golden calf, righteous anger led Moses to break the 10 commandments. After coming back down the mountain, Moses introduces generation sins with the phrase iniquities of the father. Any violation of God’s moral law is considered an iniquity. Thus, each time a father strays from the Word of God, setting a bad example for his children, these sinful tendencies are passed down three to four generations. Isaac learned how to lie from his father Abraham, Jacob’s family was notorious for disguising the truth and Solomon developed an unwholesome obsession with women after his birth from an adulterous affair.
‘Because the Lord was not able to bring these people into the land which He promised to give them, therefore He slaughtered them in the wilderness.’ 17 But now, please, let the power of the Lord be great, just as You have declared, saying, 18 ‘The Lord is slow to anger, and abundant in lovingkindness, forgiving wickedness and transgression; but He will by no means clear the guilty, visiting (avenging) the wickedness and guilt of the fathers on the children, to the third and fourth generations [that is, calling the children to account for the sins of their fathers],’ Numbers 14:16-18.
Everyone has some sort of tendency to collect or pick what they see on a daily basis. This subconscious practice shapes who you and I become. Some may do this to fit in, others to obtain a hobby with a few to merely pass time. Nonetheless, the scene in the Garden of Eden is replayed daily when conviction leads to guilt and shame. Instead of drawing near to God, many run away ashamed, embarrassed and haunted by past mistakes. When any hopes for perfection are shattered, may the grace of God lead you to stick around. Wait for God’s forgiveness and mercy to be poured out through confession like a cold glass of water on a hot and humid day.
by Jay Mankus