Care refers to the provisions of that what is necessary. Synonyms include alertness, attentiveness, cautious, guidance, management, protection, safe keeping and watchfulness. As I reflect upon my early days as a father, I recall hearing the word “no” often. This expression reveals human nature at work within the lives of children. Before infants learn the English language, no is code for I don’t want or I don’t care.
Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others, Philippians 2:4.
In 1974, Harry Chapin collaborated with his wife Sandy to compose the song Cat’s in the Cradle. The lyrics of this classic convey a sad but true story about extreme dedication to work and its negative impact on a family. Those who are workaholics place a higher priority on their career, leaving little or no time at home. Spouses left at home with the kids regularly will likely begin think their significant other does not care anymore.
Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you, Ephesians 4:32.
Those who develop an I don’t care anymore attitude often become jaded. This process occurs gradually as disappointment erodes hope. If negative conditions persist, optimism will be replaced by sarcasm, expecting bad things to continue. Thus, if you sense this mentality beginning to take over, the apostle Paul provides useful advice in 2 Corinthians 10:3-5. To break free from the temptation to not care anymore, you need to take spiritual measures to protect your mind. Only when you begin to take your thoughts captive by making them obedient to Christ can you overcome an I don’t care anymore attitude.
by Jay Mankus