As the culture changes, so does the vocabulary. Unfortunately, as a sense of loyalty diminishes, human beings are being discarded by employers, often finding a cheaper replacement. I found out the hard way during my last year as a high school teacher. In this climate, instead of hearing encouraging words like “that a boy,” criticism follows revealing a lack of appreciation.
With the help of Silas, whom I regard as a faithful brother, I have written to you briefly, encouraging you and testifying that this is the true grace of God. Stand fast in it, 1 Peter 5:12.
Trying to stay positive in these conditions can be difficult. However, after reading a letter from the disciple Peter, I am reminded of the importance to use uplifting words. Since most communications at a typical work place tends to be when you make a mistake, what would happen if people received a compliment once a week. While each individual is different, most need to hear “that a boy or way to go” every so often to make sure they feel appreciated.
Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen, Ephesians 4:29.
Although I have my moments of negativity, these passages of the Bible bring me back to where I need to be. Thus, despite how I feel, its vital to guard my mouth to avoid being part of the problem. In view of this, don’t be afraid to be a voice of reason, building up those around you. By exercising this principle, you will rejuvenate others who yearn to hear, “that a boy!”
by Jay Mankus