The expression “there’s always a different point of view, which is entitled to be heard,” dates back to England in 1742. This is the origin for the idiom “there are two sides to every story” which was later replaced by two sides to every coin as currency was developed. This saying was brought to the United States via the 1802 ‘Diary and Autobiography of John Adams.’ Yet, the Bible uses a similar term after Jacob was accused of being a thief yelling “what is my fault and where is my sin?”
Then Jacob became angry and reproached and argued with Laban. And Jacob said to Laban, What is my fault? What is my sin, that you so hotly pursued me? 37 Although you have searched and felt through all my household possessions, what have you found of all your household goods? Put it here before my brethren and yours, that they may judge and decide between us. 38 These twenty years I have been with you; your ewes and your she-goats have not lost their young, and the rams of your flock have not been eaten by me. 39 I did not bring you [the carcasses of the animals] torn by wild beasts; I bore the loss of it; you required of me [to make good] all that was stolen, whether it occurred by day or by night, Genesis 31:36-39.
The apostle Paul takes this question in a completely different direction in the New Testament. While writing a letter to a teenage pastor, Paul reflects upon his previous life as a Pharisee and persecutor of the first century church. Paul takes a proactive approach to the topic of sin. Rather than ignore the obvious, Paul realized that the closer he drew near to God, the more the Holy Spirit exposed his sinful condition. This led Paul to believe that he was the greatest sinner of all.
Though I formerly blasphemed and persecuted and was shamefully and outrageously and aggressively insulting [to Him], nevertheless, I obtained mercy because I had acted out of ignorance in unbelief. 14 And the grace (unmerited favor and blessing) of our Lord [actually] flowed out superabundantly and beyond measure for me, accompanied by faith and love that are [to be realized] in Christ Jesus. 15 The saying is sure and true and worthy of full and universal acceptance, that Christ Jesus (the Messiah) came into the world to save sinners, of whom I am foremost, 1 Timothy 1:13-15.
Does the truth lie somewhere in between? According to Moses, Jacob was not aware that his own wife stole images of gods worshipped by Laban. If Rachel revealed this information to Jacob, he would have likely refrained from declaring, “What is my fault and where is my sin?” Perhaps, this was simply human nature bearing its ugly head. Whatever this reason for Jacob’s fiery response to Laban’s accusation, adopting the humility of Paul is a much better way to handle future altercations.
by Jay Mankus
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