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On the Other Side

My first experience with a homeless person was early on in college.  I was enjoying my favorite breakfast at McDonald’s, 2 Sausage McMuffins with Egg and an orange juice.  As I sat facing the entrance, I noticed this person right away.  They didn’t have an I’m homeless shirt on, but from the wear and tear on their clothing, it was clear they didn’t have a place to spend the night.  Immediately, I lost my appetite for a second breakfast sandwich.  Not sure what to say, I gave this man my second McMuffin in passing as I left.
A few years later, I was working as a youth pastor at a large church in Columbus, Indiana.  Of the thousand plus congregation, several had 2 homes, one in town and the other at 1 of 5 nearby lakes in the country.  When I overheard a young man looking for a place to stay in our church lobby, I was heart broken to hear we were about to turn him away.  After a minute of contemplation, I rushed to find him in the church parking lot, offering the couch in my small apartment.  He stayed nearly 6 months, earning enough money working to pay for a bus ticket back home to Texas.
In January of this year, I found myself on the other side.  I didn’t become homeless, yet as I lost my job, people treated me as if I had become one.  Since I had one month to complete teaching before my position was  eliminated, I felt like a dead man walking on death row.  Several of my co-workers would ignore me in the hallways while others pretended to forget something, turning around quickly in the other direction.  During my last week, a few of these former co-workers, apologized, claiming they did not know what to say.  Yes, it was clear, I was on the other side, feeling like the homeless man I first encountered in college.  This is why the apostles in the book of Acts ministered to the homeless, poor and those in prison.  Go and do likewise!
by Jay Mankus