Sometimes, if you don’t succeed initially, the second time you attempt it is a charm. Such is the case for Howard Jones, whose rerecording of the song No One is to Blame produced by Phil Collins peaked at #4 of the Billboard Hot 100. If failure causes you to quit prematurely on any goal or task, there is no one else to blame but yourself.
Despite this reality, people are still following in the footsteps of Adam, looking for someone to be the scapegoat. “Surely its someone else, not me,” brushing off responsibility by passing the buck to God and his wife, Genesis 3:12. Subsequently, lame excuses linger, grasping at straws to point the blame in another direction.
In the end, there is no escape clause as the Bible is clear, Romans 1:18-20. Between sunrise and sunset, God’s invisible qualities are on display. Thus, the onus is on you, to take ownership of the choices you make. Therefore, the next time you make a mistake, don’t look around to pass judgment for there is no one else to blame.
As the summer of 1975 draw to a close, Aerosmith released their classic hit Walk This Way just before Labor Day Weekend. When vinyl was king, this second single from the album Toys in the Attic was re-released a year later in November as popularity grew reaching as high as Number 10 on the Billboard Hot 100. Essentially, this song written by Steven Tyler and Joe Perry brought Aerosmith into the mainstream during the 1970’s and revitalized the band’s comeback in the 80’s. From a high school loser to a taste of success, these lyrics struck a common cord with American’s, able to relate this song to life.
From the fall of 1999 thru early 2002, I spent time working as a staff writer for Travel Golf Media, now known as Travelgolf.com. Every winter I was sent books, product or videos to review, then write an article based upon my experience as a former golf professional. One of my favorite assignments was pretending to know nothing about golf, starting from scratch. The goal was to watch each of the 3 videos in the set, apply the lessons on a course or practice facility for a week and give an accurate assessment of the teacher’s instructions. Although frustrating, I was learning to walk and talk like an infant picking up a golf club for the first time.
In the decade that followed, my role changed from giving solid advice about golf to spiritual insight on life. Unfortunately, the older people get, the more set they become in their ways, unwilling to consider honest critiques. In fact, as a former Bible teacher, I’ve learned that certain forms of entertainment, hobbies or pastimes are sacred. A mere suggestion of error, flaw or inaccuracy often provoked explosive debates in class as if I was attacking their little brother or sister. Therefore, I tried to be more subtle, quoting verses like Psalm 26:3, Proverbs 27:19 and 1 Thessalonians 4:11-12, letting the Bible do the talking for me. May these words from the Bible convince the unstable to walk and talk like Jesus, 1 John 2:6.