The first thing that made me think about my own family was the Mike and Mechanics hit song The Living Years. As a teenager, many of my peers spoke about parents as individuals who prevented you from having fun in life. This is one of many ungodly beliefs that I developed prior to getting married. This one song challenged me to celebrate family members in the living years.
Then the men took the present, and they took double the [grain] money with them, and Benjamin; and they arose and went down to Egypt and stood before Joseph. 16 And when Joseph saw Benjamin with them, he said to the steward of his house, Bring the men into the house and kill an animal and make ready, for the men will dine with me at noon. 17 And the man did as Joseph ordered and brought the men to Joseph’s house, Genesis 43:15-17.
As I have been studying the life of Joseph in the Old Testament, the only person who liked him growing up was his father Jacob. Moses doesn’t mention Rachel’s feeling about Joseph except for thanking God to allow her to finally conceive and give birth to her own child. Nonetheless, when Rachel gives Joseph a baby brother, Benjamin, he forms a special connection with him.
Then Joseph could not restrain himself [any longer] before all those who stood by him, and he called out, Cause every man to go out from me! So no one stood there with Joseph while he made himself known to his brothers. 2 And he wept and sobbed aloud, and the Egyptians [who had just left him] heard it, and the household of Pharaoh heard about it. 3 And Joseph said to his brothers, I am Joseph! Is my father still alive? And his brothers could not reply, for they were distressingly disturbed and dismayed at [the startling realization that they were in] his presence. 4 And Joseph said to his brothers, Come near to me, I pray you. And they did so. And he said, I am Joseph your brother, whom you sold into Egypt! 5 But now, do not be distressed and disheartened or vexed and angry with yourselves because you sold me here, for God sent me ahead of you to preserve life. 6 For these two years the famine has been in the land, and there are still five years more in which there will be neither plowing nor harvest. 7 God sent me before you to preserve for you a posterity and to continue a remnant on the earth, to save your lives by a great escape and save for you many survivors, Genesis 45:1-7.
Upon being reunited with his baby brother in today’s featured passage, Joseph is inspired to celebrate his family while there are still alive. Joseph gives instructions to his steward who prepares for this special occasion. Although there may be an individual within your own family who requires extra grace, don’t let the root of bitterness prevent you from celebrating your own family in the living years.
by Jay Mankus
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