A Compliment Goes a Long Way

Today was like any other day.  I got up to go to work, arrived a few minutes ahead of schedule and began a grueling day in the heat and humidity.  Yet, one compliment mid way through the day lifted my spirits, motivating me to finish the day strong.

My mood was completely transformed just because of a few kind words.  Galatians 6:9 reminds people not to become weary in doing good.  Sometimes I even catch myself with a thought, “what’s the use if I do this or that?”  Although, the second part of Galatians 6:9 includes a promise, “you will reap a harvest if you don’t give up!”  Therefore, the next time you think twice about complimenting someone, say an affirming word.

One of the greatest Christmas present I ever received was a letter.  A letter from a friend I met on a missionary trip in college.  Before email, we wrote each other each summer and occasionally during the school year.  Not hearing from her in months, I almost gave up hope I would ever hear from her, thinking twice about writing one more time.  Begrudgingly, I wrote a letter to her at the beginning of December before finals began.  One week later, I received the promise of Galatians 6:9.

According to her, my letter was like a sign from God, sending light into her dark world.  Her boyfriend and best friend had just died in a car accident, causing her to consider dropping out of college.  I was thinking about myself, but God knew a compliment goes a long way.  You never know how your words will impact another life.  Therefore, don’t forget waste the opportunity to bless someone today, James 3:9.

by Jay Mankus

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